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Nah Reddit taught me to exit relationships the moment the parents start acting up cause my anger issues could never 😭😭

There was a similar story like this but it was the wife who orchestrated everything. That one broke them off though.

ex will keep cheating and mommy will keep supporting her... what a fucking loser.

Ok, I am gay so man attracted to man and both my man and gay side cringed so much when he explained how "exciting" he is (mma, motorcycles, tatues) while being just a rich kid trying to act "masculine" while being completely overwhelmed by simple emotions and escaping to shrooms. The girl definitely had some issues so good he broke it of at least.

Never date anybody with the idea you're gonna change them and their world view. You most likely won't, and even if you do it wouldn't be honest because you only ever loved them for what you thought you could turn them into. Also as a religious guy I appreciate that this atheist woman has a better understanding and more respect for baptism and conversion than a lot of religious people. I would never want someone to get baptized for me, I'd want them to do because they truly believed, or not do it at all

comments on yt are so crazy and different from tiktok. like where are my people... y'all are villainizing her and calling the guy "soft" what year are you in

there need to be a way for kids to contact family court without their parents for EXATLY cases like this

OP's ex is a doormat and weak. He can't handle boundaries and neither could his mother. He cheated on OP with his ex and looked like a fool yet again. He didn't protect his relationship with OP like a coward with no spine. He was obviously not as faithful as he let on. His mother crossed multiple lines. 1: remained in contact with ex's cheating ex (red flag 1) 2: crossed boundaries. 3: controlling and Narcissistic manipulation. 4: overbearing actions and undermining a relationship that wasn't her business. 5: supported the cheating ex. What's that say about the MIL who had no respect or views of morals? She must have cheated on her spouse if she could allow a cheating ex to hurt her son and say "I want my favourite daughter in law back" doesn't anyone have a sense of honour or loyalty. OP, go find a real man and not a boy who ruined a change at happiness for a life of misery with his toxic mother. Nuke dodged.

It sounded like She chose him because of Wealth, how much He liked Her, and how Stable his life was while missing toxicity or someone that she was attracted to (I'm leaning towards toxicity based on her reactions, including How she was defensive).

OPs ex is a cheat waiting to undress. He dodged a bullet

Ladies, NEVER date, let alone marry a mamas boy. Omg, what an absolutely SICK dynamic.

She should be careful, if she tears him down any harder she will activate his mommy issues and then she'll never be free of him.

Inter religious marriage is so stupid, one of you thinks the other will suffer eternally. Pressuring conversion onto one another as well as conflicting any children they have reinforces how bed the idea is.

Keep posting stories that keep me from dating anyone. 😂 I prefer my wealth, peace, and solitude over crazy ass 304s.

Henry's mom really did a number on him

OP isnt responsible for her ex husband, thats the wife's job to look after the husband that is sick. The kids need to understand that their father left OP and blindsided her without helping to raise them. The adult-kids need to grow up and not put the pressure on their mother. They need to whip their stepmother into action as she is HIS wife. OP isnt a maid or caregiver and has no obligations whatsoever to her ex husband. That title was gone the moment he gave her divorce papers. Don't punish your mother for something that's not her responsibility, its the stepmother's. Act like adults and not children. Hire a caregiver that can provide that assistance and not lay blame on OP because the stepmother is lazy to take care of her husband. Y'all need therapy if you're using toxic tactics like manipulation to control your mother. Grow up. OP, NTA you don't have to do anything for that man because its not your responsibility to and your kids need to understand that. You're not his wife anymore.

Well he wised up in the end. Bro let his pp make marriage decisions. If he went through with it, should would find that “excitement” via cheating most likely.

When you turn 18 hit the ground running and don’t look back live your life for you and not your father

Ai is broken, too many bi stories flooding RUclips....like it is common to have a husband, then a wife next?! Lol

Ex is getting shat on by his mom and cheating ex....lmao, he has chosen a lifetime of misery..... Clearly has mommy issues. OP dodged a bullet

Op dodged a bullet. He is going to be cheated again, blame his mom for everything, get another girlfriend and relapse. Because he is a weak pathetic excuse of a man.

Actually she cheated him out of his wife right then. He is so done in so many ways, all ready dead just not fallen over. I feel so much better about my life? Thank you heartfelt thank you.

bruh. he's literally permabound to his ex as long as she's close with his mom unless he realizes how shitty his mom by disregarding him as a person. op never stood a chance. time, energy, and experience wasted on this guy. i understand the importance and value of family, but he couldn't express that he doesn't want to have his cheating ex around? op tolerated a lot because i wouldn't at all stand for being picked on by a future mil tagteamed with my fiance's ex. brazy

What a good mix of crab bucket mentality and misery love company at the same time. OP dodged an entire circus.

OP was his "saving face" relationship. He knew he'd look like a doormat if he came back when called, and he felt the need to not appear like the loser he is. Everything he does that seems counter to his loser-nature is done so he can delude himself into thinking he's not pathetically weak-willed. The funny part is that the only person he's fooling is himself, because everyone in his life can see him for exactly what he is.

she dodged a huge mamas boy bullet, he will be miserable in a few years and will curse his mother for ruining his life just because she wanted to play house

the ex is going to cheat again, it’s inevitable. she dodged a freaking bullet

Adult kids just want to drop the resposibility on OP. Maybe its for the best that they dont speak to you anymore.

Yeah, OP didn't divorce the dad, it was the other way around. The dad and ex in-laws all thought he could do better. Turns out, looks like he chose poorly the second time around. Womp womp. Talk about skill issues... The kids need to grow up and realize that OP doesn't owe anything to their father anymore. That's what happens when you decide to leave the marriage and move on.

sounds to me like it's a good thing she isn't his daughter

OP's wife has a toxic and twisted sense of what 'exciting' means. 'Boring' should be interchangeable with 'stable'.

I do not understand grown people who put up with toxic behavior from their parents just because they want to earn their love. You don't earn somebody's love, it's freely given but his mom obviously despises him and wishes his ex was her child instead. The OP dodged a bullet with this guy, he was nothing but a big pussy and she'll actually find a real man now

Just wait, ex will cheat on him again.

damn I’ve never been so early

First pin pls ❤

I thought the title meant that OP killed her sisters dog.

Atleast the kids grow a spine

I can 100% with conviction say that what she thinks exciting is being toxic or abused. All those chicks say the same thing. They're also kinda easy😂

The kids should pressure the father to remove Stepmom as the beneficiary, then you'll see a perfect nurse. She's most likely one of those not following the orders or caring for him and she's the legal wife, the one that should be pressured by them, not OP

That's your call whether you help him or not. But in a year or two I don't wanna see you on here complaining about how your children hate you. That's the decision you're going to have to make right now, and that's the path you've set yourself on.

"Blindsided by divorce"... Oh, I doubt that... Poor guy. He seemed to have picked a horrible wife, both times. Should she have helped her ex? I see no legal obligation to do so, but she probably owed it to him, for being an unworthy wife.

How the f you resented your partner for getting together and still put +3 kids in the world?

None of the doctors are being followed. Why are they not suing wife for abandonment of person?? Nahh is so much easier to blame op on this. Like father like offspring. A bunch of selfish AH that try so hard to step on op.

Those kids need to act their age. Their dad's gonna die. It may suck for them, but they need to get with the program and get the burial planned, because they have a step mother who wants the money, and not them. They better hope he made an ironclad will involving them as well. I mean, if literally NONE of the doctors orders were being followed, then she's doing it maliciously to get that money. They're gonna have to suck it up on their own, cause they can't expect the ex wife who wants nothing to do with him to actually help him. That's absurd.

He married a naive idiot

where is the rest of the story, its unfinished

First pin pls ❤

I’m surprised you took this long to do this story.

dude sounds like what Hollywood thinks is a bad boy

please take me with you you said pizza ill be your best sister ill stand by your side i promise