She's gonna have to deal with him for another 18 years if she has that kid and keeps it. The family courts are a pile of smashed ass when it comes to dealing with custody and parental rights.
Anytime a woman is dealing with a legitimate slimeball like this and they're thinking about keeping the kid, they first need to ask themselves the following question: Would I want this guy to be my father? If the answer is no, then don't keep it. If they wouldn't be good enough for you, why would you want to put a kid in that situation?
@@Nexidal yeah, you have that common sense, I have it too. The problem is that common sense ain't so common. Pro lifers are notorious for not having common sense. I hope she at least puts the kid up for adoption so she can be completely away from him.
@@Nexidal Usually because they think they'll be able to keep the kid away from that father and find a better one if not be the better father figure themselves
I know some people may not like this opinion and don't get me wrong I do feel bad for the original poster but at the same time she married this and she knew what she was getting into like I get this one thing to be gaslighted and manipulated but come on you can't say you're not seeing the red flags when this person is not defending you against their own mother and you're seeing all this terrible mistreatment before marriage and before pregnancy but yet you still chose to marry this guy and you still chose to get pregnant by this person and yeah I get it that the ex-husband Stefan and his mother are the villains of the story and they are terrible garbage human beings that should never be allowed to be around others but at the same time I'm not trying to victim blame the original poster but she saw this happening in front of her and instead of running she chose to stay
I guess you're not familiar with how some people can change after marriage. You say you're not trying to victim blame, yet that's exactly what you are doing.
Women are gate-keepers of reproduction. Nowadays they literally have not just more rights, but ALL the rights thereto. It stands to reason gate-keepers should be held accountable(to a certain degree) for the quality of those they let in. So in that regard, I absolutely agree. And I'll never consider it 'victim blaming' to do so. Nor would I - if given the choice - have any of my contributions to society benefit women who chose to bring to term the offspring of evil men. Women are weird and prone to self-destructive sociopathic narcissistic behavior of such an olympic scale, it's no wonder they don't fall over more. And a damned miracle things are still somewhat functioning. It's absolutely valid to question their choices, and hold them accountable.
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i’m so proud of OP. also, the AI voice says bewbs had me DYING 🤣🤣🤣💀💀💀
gaslighting is at its peak here
Dude doesn't deserve to be married when all he knows how to do is gaslight.
She's gonna have to deal with him for another 18 years if she has that kid and keeps it. The family courts are a pile of smashed ass when it comes to dealing with custody and parental rights.
Anytime a woman is dealing with a legitimate slimeball like this and they're thinking about keeping the kid, they first need to ask themselves the following question:
Would I want this guy to be my father?
If the answer is no, then don't keep it. If they wouldn't be good enough for you, why would you want to put a kid in that situation?
@@Nexidal yeah, you have that common sense, I have it too. The problem is that common sense ain't so common. Pro lifers are notorious for not having common sense. I hope she at least puts the kid up for adoption so she can be completely away from him.
@@Nexidal Usually because they think they'll be able to keep the kid away from that father and find a better one if not be the better father figure themselves
Shes better off without the AH male and his crap mother, hopefully he never gets to see the child
oooh she ate him up
He's trying to gaslight you!
Please slow down ! Also, these graphics are horrible !
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Lama House - Purple Forest
I know some people may not like this opinion and don't get me wrong I do feel bad for the original poster but at the same time she married this and she knew what she was getting into like I get this one thing to be gaslighted and manipulated but come on you can't say you're not seeing the red flags when this person is not defending you against their own mother and you're seeing all this terrible mistreatment before marriage and before pregnancy but yet you still chose to marry this guy and you still chose to get pregnant by this person and yeah I get it that the ex-husband Stefan and his mother are the villains of the story and they are terrible garbage human beings that should never be allowed to be around others but at the same time I'm not trying to victim blame the original poster but she saw this happening in front of her and instead of running she chose to stay
@@albertgongora6944 victim blaming btw
I guess you're not familiar with how some people can change after marriage.
You say you're not trying to victim blame, yet that's exactly what you are doing.
Women are gate-keepers of reproduction. Nowadays they literally have not just more rights, but ALL the rights thereto. It stands to reason gate-keepers should be held accountable(to a certain degree) for the quality of those they let in. So in that regard, I absolutely agree. And I'll never consider it 'victim blaming' to do so. Nor would I - if given the choice - have any of my contributions to society benefit women who chose to bring to term the offspring of evil men.
Women are weird and prone to self-destructive sociopathic narcissistic behavior of such an olympic scale, it's no wonder they don't fall over more. And a damned miracle things are still somewhat functioning. It's absolutely valid to question their choices, and hold them accountable.
First pin pls ❤