4 Updates: While I was away for work, my parents sold "my car" to fund a vacation..
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- Опубликовано: 11 сен 2024
- While I was away for work, my parents sold "my car" to fund a vacation and buy expensive gifts for my golden child sister, claiming she needed self-care after her divorce. I laughed in their faces and told them what's coming is unavoidable now.
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The fact that the parents got scared upon finding out they stole another person's vehicle is proof they know what they did is wrong, they simply thought that if the car belongs to their daughter that they could bully her into silence. This level of entitlement and stupidity is through the roof. The sister is just as delusional as the parents. It's pointless to even attempt to use logic with people like this.
The sister is MORE delusional, in my opinion. She might have inherited the entitlement from her parents (or learned it from their treatment of her), but the mental hoops she jumped through to call OP ungrateful were downright impressive.
@@greyscaleanon7551er is doubly foolish because she admitted she was receiving the proceeds of crime which.makes her part of that crime
Better question, how did the parents legally sell a car without the title or a bill of sale? they couldn't give the title or any other information to the dude, and if they went after the registration it wouldn't be her name on it which you would think would be a huge red flag to the buyer?
Whether OP lied, or told the truth, it makes no difference. The fact is that OPs parents stole and sold property that didn’t belong to them.
Exactly. From their POV, stealing from OP is 100% fine and dandy because they thought they could force her into silence. But someone outside of the family? They know they can't get away with that. This is typical bully mentality: Target the one who you think you can push around without fear of repercussion.
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How can you sell a car that’s not yours? Wouldn’t the new owner absolutely need the title?OP’s parents are thieves.
Rules don't matter on Facebook marketplace
shew could have also filed a police report saying the car was stolen having police look for it too, thus getting her parents arrested for grand theft auto
@@orangefur825 yeah!
@@orangefur825 Which is based.
@@orangefur825 And the purchaser charged with receiving stolen goods.
Why not call the Police??? They could get the car back ASAP!!!
The car is stolen, the title of the car is still in Tylers name!!!
Tyler's as fake as this lame story. Don't be a sucker😂
Because it would render the third act unnecessary.
In a lot of jurisdictions, only the legal owner can file a report of auto theft.
@@mikeabney1214actually if you have possession of the car you should have permission to file a stolen car report. But you should notify the owner you are doing so.
Definitely agree 💯
I think the fact that the parents were basically saying 'well if it was your car, it's fine if we sell it without your permision, but you should have told us it wasn't yours', it says something about the parents. Willing to sell everything of the 'burden' child to supply the 'golden child', that's how court fights start.
Exactly. I don't know if you have ever seen this infamous Reddit story, but it gives "do it for Dan" vibes.
@@SnowyWolborg but how could anyone sell someone else's car without being the owner? I mean, let's suppose daughter is the owner of car. All paperwork needs to be done by daughter. Still, how did they manage to sell it?
if you invited them to the wedding theyd probably steal the presents and tell everyone how horrible you are.
Or give all the presents to the other daughter. She neeeeeeds them!
Grand theft auto? possession of a stolen car KNOWINGLY possessing it? yeah.. should have called the cops immediately, even if it HAD been her car
I was thinking that too... couldn't u just call the cops and get it back ASAP and let the police arrest mom and dad? And possibly the idiot who bought the vehicle?
@@aquaria13 right? you never ever ever buy something w/o a title.. ever...
Let the cops deal with this crap. She's lucky her boyfriend didn't dump her.. I wouldn't want anything to do with someone with that kind of toxic, stupid family. I bet he would have dumped her if she wouldn't have cut them off.
Should have just called police and reported car as stolen!
Tyler was absolutely right, you have done nothing wrong. This is all your parents fault. Their treatment of you is absolutely disgraceful. Not only did they steal the car in the 1st place, and it is theft in my view, but they tried to gaslight you at the same time. You're much better off mentally and emotionally without them in your life. It's their loss, not yours.
It's her fault
Even if the car had been OP’s, the parents’ names were not on the title, so what gave them the right to sell it?
I don't think they even needed lawyers. Just file a report with the information.
Bro really talking on a RUclips video about the story thinking they'll actually talk to the person the story is about.
Damn, That's crazy.
Jail will be cheaper than putting them in an old folks home. Sis may go to accepting stolen goods. You may have to testify, or it will look like you planned all this to steal Tylers car. Be ready. your parents may claim it was all your plan all along.dont fall for the delay tactic file the stolen car report before to much time passes. Might not sue bur let the cops do their job.shoplifters always give back the stuff, too, doesn't make them less guilty.
So the people who sold something that wasn’t theirs is calling her an awful person?
Of course. She was supposed to be ragdoll and not do anything and just let them do it without consequences
No matter who's car it is (own daughter, family members and strangers) parents does not have rights to sell the car.
They don't have the rights to steal the car
If it’s self care why isn’t she funding it then? Love how generous people are with the other people’s money.
How do you sell a car with no title?
"It's all your fault that you tricked us into stealing a major asset from you"
Welcome to the consequences of your own actions.
LOL. Good one!
Chop shop?
Ugh finally someone that cut ties. There has just been too many doormat getting guilted or seduced to keep contact. We need more brave people like this who keeps building life without baggages🎉🎉
I’m shaking my head at the utter audacity of these people! To sell a car that doesn’t belong to them and then expect an invitation to Ops wedding? I can’t understand why the sister would even want an invite. Possibly to show up and act like the spoiled brat that she is.
Wow, the narcissism is strong in those people.
So the parents commited gtand theft auto and they expected OP to just "let it slide" then insult her constantly after she said she won't
Did they even realise that insulting someone after doing something extremely illegal is a very bad idea?
I’m sorry I would’ve reported the car stolen
I have an inkling, that some part of her brain knew exactly about her parents moral compass and lied about the car title, banking on the parents screwing over anyone but family... meanwhile, turns out, the parents had designated their daughter as a prime target, banking on anyone but family retaliating. Ironic.
Why waste time, go to the police and report the car stolen.
Wtf were they thinking anyway?! The car wasn't even theirs to begin with and it just shows they had no qualms about stealing. How cruel do you have to be to sell something that's not yours
The OP is NTA, and her parents are gaslighting so hard, and the very fact they believed that they could commit grand theft auto against their own daughter would be perfectly allowed is absolutely unhinged.
Classic entitled parents, instead of owning up they play the blame game.
It's not OP's job to tell them whether she owns a particular vehicle.
The fact that they wanted to sell it because it was yours because they thought it was yours isn’t insane
IT WOULD BE BETTER FOR YOU TO GO "NO CONTACT" FROM NOW ON! YOU DON'T NEED TOXIC PEOPLE IN YOUR LIFE!
You can’t sell a car without the title.
What they did was theft then had the audacity to sell something that didn't belong to them. They should get what they deserve Jail.
That would also solve any issues with their retirement fund.
Forced restitution with a fine equal to 3x the value of the stolen vehicle seems right.
This cannot be real. There seriously cannot be anybody as freakin entitled as these parents.
I believe it's possible.
It's definitely a fake story. Too many discrepancies.
Even if the car had been OP's, how did her parents have any right to sell off that car?!
Unfortunetly certain online market places allow you to sell things that aren't even your property.
Tons of stolen property gets sold on facebook marketplace.
A brand new, low end SUV costs at least 20k. While she didn't say what kind of SUV is was, it probably wasn't purchased outright and would have to have payments made on it. To think that the daughter would still be making hundreds of dollars of payments a month just to give it the other daughter, is ludicrous. Further, when she called her BF and he said, I will have to call my lawyer, instead of the police is also ridiculous. Anyone purchasing a vehicle without the title is also ridiculous. This story is fake as F.
What planet do you live on? A brand-new SUV is at least $35K. My sister just got one that’s a ‘bare minimum’ model for $38K.
Some JEEPS are $100K+.
Jeeps.
Not Infiniti or Lexus or Mercedes or the like.
Jeeps.
I guess you haven’t bought a car in awhile.
We ordered a car and had to wait for the Toyota RAV4 Prime. (Plug-in hybrid). Our wait was 9+ months. (Very big demand for these cars, since PRIME helps to lower our carbon footprint. And we paid (choke) $53K for that. We love it, but it’s a tad bit more expensive than $20K
@@drieuxkoeppel4157 depends on the make and model...
@@drieuxkoeppel4157 I live on planet Earth, the same one you do. I said LOW end SUV.
You can read right? Google is free pal. But let me help you. "The cheapest SUV in Canada in 2024 is the Hyundai Venture starting at $17, 599.00 in Canuck bucks, which means it would be less in US dollars.Then there is the Nissan kicks at $19, 898. These are SUVS as governed by the auto industry internationally, which are on planet Earth.
Sister does NOT deserve alimony. It’s literally theft
Exactly
I'm glad there was a good non-biased and not corrupt judge who didn't grant alimony
I bet he was cheating because OP's sister was extremely entitled, likely withholding s*x and was spending his money constantly
Sounds like sis is dizzy too
This is some audacity in their thinking, first selling something especially a car that is not theirs, its a crime, family or not. Some family thinks it OK to do what they want to their own member because they are family, well.......they have another thing coming. And being called by the very ones who sold something not even theirs a horrible person and doesn't deserve to be called their daughter is dumbfounded to say the least. Some people need a very rude awakening, and be made to face the consequences of their actions.
Grand theft larceny carries a hefty sentence.
How can you sell a car that don't belong to you.Where can you sell a car without the paperwork isn't it illegal??
I’d love to see the parents defence in court “Your honour, we wouldn’t have sold it if we’d known it wasn’t her car! We have the right to her stuff, we’re her parents!”
Why would they sell something that didn’t belong to them? Even if it was hers, they had no right
Imagine stealing and selling someone else's car. Does no matter if it belongs to your kids or someone else. If you are not the owner you have no say what can or can't be done with that car. And if someone is to blame for the consequences it is the parents themself. I bet the mother is the main culprit in this story.
My mind would explode if my parents suddenly sold my car behind my back.
Parents went for two crimes at once auto theft and fraud.
if this is a real story, this aint over yet. those people are gonna show up to OP's wedding and try to ruin it unless OP hires security guards specifically to keep them out!
Family want you to be their ATM.
Who ever the car belonged to its still grand theft. Do what needs to be done. Or the house you purchase one day they will sale that too. You can only be a door mat for so long. After that its not a good look.
That is not family.
Wow, OP should have said she was leasing the car. For people who are not familiar with car leases, you don't technically own the car, the dealership does. At the end of the lease you can buy the car or turn it in to lease a different car.
The saying "Blood is thicker than water" originally meant that the "blood" of a covenant (something that you willing take on) is more important than the "water" of the womb. The parents need to be charged and put in jail.
Tyler has the patience of the saint. You would be a fool to lose this man. Be a good wife.
This can’t be real. What parents could believe it’s okay to sell an adult person’s car?
It’s unbelievable how your parents thought they could just sell a car that wasn’t theirs. Their sense of entitlement is off the charts. Good on you and Tyler for standing your ground and making sure they face the consequences. It’s not your fault at all, they were planning to take advantage of you either way. Stay strong and focus on the positive future you and Tyler are building together.
And this is why I firmly believe parents shouldn't have favorites among their children. It further breeds friction in family.
No need to have any conversation with these toxic parents. Call the police, report stolen property, press charges and cut ties with these “parents and sibling”.
They knew from the start there was no defense, just thought they could bully her I to submission.
This was absolutely insane. Stealing someone’s car - even your child’s - is simply theft. A felony offense. Of course you press charges.
What i hate most are BS stories created for karma points. It must have been written by some teenager because lack of knowledge is high (i.e. not calling cops while it was literally a theft and cops would have retrieved a car).
For anyone thinking this story is true, the biggest giveaway that it's not is the fact that you need to have documentation of registration for the car and a recently approved safety inspection in order to change ownership of the vehicle. Without those it's not a legal sale, and no one with a brain would be stupid enough to buy a car that didn't have those documents, because legally it wouldn't belong to them even if they paid in full for it. Not to mention insurance will not insure a vehicle not registered in your name, and without insurance for the car, you can't be behind the wheel. So none of this could have happened, OP would have been better off just saying they stole the car, selling it is a whole other ballgame
I love the assumption that laws at the same worldwide. I have no idea if it was real or a poorly written fiction but the lack of a title is not actually such a "clue".
Story is fake. This would not be sorted out through lawyers, this will be sorted out through contacting the police and reporting the car stolen
You don’t press charges for a stolen car, you file a police report for a stolen car.
If you don’t know who stole the car you file a stolen car report. If you know who stole the car you tell the police provide the evidence and press charges.
If my gf called me and told me what happened, i would ask why she did not file a police report. police would arrest them, get the buyers' info, and arrest him for receiving stolen goods
Would be easier to report the car stolen
Well, the *story* comes from Reddit, so...
You can tell they have been gaslighting her her whole life
when the sister puffed up that's when you go full scorched earth and tell the police based on her attitude that you suspect her involvement and think it's a conspiracy
Why didn't you just report the car stolen, have the police bring it back and let the new buyer deal with your parents?
Under the guise this story is true, it is more likely that this took place in a different country. Depending on the country, it could have been easy to bribe law officials/enforcement and would explain why "Tyler" went through an attorney instead to have a legal paper trail that has been filed with the province/city. Otherwise, it's all speculation.
I'm pretty sure that, had the car actually belonged to OP, things would have still been the same. (As in getting lawyers involved, ect.)
People who realize they've fucked up doubling down on their fuckup is such a strange yet common phenomenon. How do you realize in your intellectual brain that you are in the wrong, then somehow rationalize that being a blustering jackass is going to make things better for you? This is the same as people cussing and fighting with the police, or threatening the judge in their case. How do you think that's going to improve your situation?
If SO decide to share the car with you, you are indirect owner at least from my pov. So you didnt lied about the car.
In a lot of US States you can get a surety bond or a bonded title. Also who's to say the buyer isn't going to make a fake title?
She should have called Tylor and told him she was reporting it stolen. And then report it stolen.
The easy fix would be for the parents to use their own money.
I would still sue them even after getting the car back, they need to face the consequences of their actions
NTA. They may not have known to whom the car belonged, but they obviously knew to whom it didn't...namely, themselves.
I'm not sure why OP didn't call the police and report the car stolen. Is this in another country?
should of called 911 straight away and reported it stolen let the judge deal with them
The parents and sister will always believe they are the injured parties
I can't take this seriously.
They sell your man's car make your life hell and then have the audacity to be upset they can't come to your wedding is that right ?! State of them ! You did the right thing ❤ wishing you a happy wedding day and great life
No matter if it was her boyfriend's car or her car, with the title and either one of their names they should have made a stolen car report immediately and threatened the charges against the parents immediately also. No ifs, ands, or buts about it. A vehicle is a major thing with a specific title of ownership attached to it and therefore it can't be sold by someone who's not the owner anyway unless it's the legal owner of a person who passed it on as a part of a will or something when they passed away.
👎BS-story with more holes in it than Swiss cheese!👎
It's not even their money, that's like buying someone a Christmas gift with their money.... Except illegal I hope y'all go to jail!
It may seem out of the blue to OP, but her parents absolutely did this to knock their Scapegoat Child down a peg and put their Golden Child back up a few rungs above her. The vehicle was the symbol they were fixating on that 'proved' you were currently 'on a rung above' her and they had to take that away. It's possible OP never experienced much blatant Scapegoating as she maybe was never significantly and obviously outperforming her sister in their minds before especially as they are 7 years apart there may not have been many comparisons before, but this absolutely would have kept happening. Your parents would have kept demanding you 'think about how this would make your sister feel' regarding everything in your life that might 'show her up'. The fact they were all holding a grudge for years about a job you both applied for and OP got, even though the GC just dropped out and moved, and thought because of that OP owes literally everything to the GC speaks volumes.
It’s amazing what people can talk themselves into believing. I had/have two older sisters so I know. I bought some scratch-off lottery tickets from a machine and won $500 and my sister kept saying it was because of her because “she allowed me” to go first in picking out the tickets, like I knew she would have picked those same tickets 😂. So delusional. Some people live in their own world. I hope you find peace and your parents and especially your sister realize what they have thrown away.
Um...don't you need a title to a car in order to sell it? Turns out I'm not the only one to think of this, lol.
It’s clear the parents knew they messed up when they panicked after stealing someone’s car. They probably thought they could just intimidate their daughter into keeping quiet about it. This kind of entitlement and ignorance is off the charts. And honestly, the sister's just as delusional as the parents. Trying to reason with people like this is a waste of time.
Different countries, different laws. Let the law educate them about property rights.
What arrogant parents, time to disown them. It is the parents who committed larceny.
OP has been emotionally beaten down by these parents! Holy crap! How are you asking if YTA?! No! Ok if you had told the truth the car would not have gotten sold. But that doesn’t make them thinking they sold “your car” right! I’m sorry sweetie but you need some therapy and to heal that inner bronze child. Or whatever you wanna call the non golden child.
Two felonies grand theft auto and selling stolen merchandise
Moving pictures drives me crazy lol
I will take things that never happens for 1000 Alex.
There’s no way these people are real. You can’t convince me
Tyler press charges..and get the money back?
Being upset about grand theft auto is _not_ "brattyness"!
Family thinks being upset grand theft auto IRL, not the video game is blowing things out of proportion?
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I'm calling BS on this. I just find it hard to believe that somebody would just sell a car that doesn't belong to them, especially one they believe belongs to their child, and that someone came and bought it without asking about the title?
And then that the cops didn't get called the second the parents didn't automatically just call the person and tell them they had to get the car back? I don't know ANYBODY who wouldn't have called the cops before they left that house, even on their own parents.
This story is highly suspect.
Of course these stories are suspect as hell, but there are some crazy damn people in the world.
@@matthewhuszarik4173 I don't gamble, but if I HAD to, I wouldn't feel bad beating a five dollar bill this one was made up.
Family or not they’re criminals for stealing the car. I do hope I’m going to hear you ensured the authorities threw the book at them.
How can you sell a car without paperwork number one. What they did was illegal even if you did own the car. Totally messed up. Again they broke the law. This is on them.
Even if the car were yours, they have no right to do anything with car. They are a-holes.
if I was her... "You do realize I would have pressed charges against you as well? Or are you actually just that dumb??"
Also what the hell is that "predicament" the parents spoke off, the sister getting a divorce and them stealing because of it?
What BS! How do you sell someone else's car without the title?? Is this from some third world country??
I would contact other relatives about what your parents had done and then explain the past instances of favoritism they had to your sister that led to that situation with the stolen car. If word gets out that they did something terrible like that to their own daughter, then it would be a good way to shut down the negative conversations they are having about you with others if noone is willing to buy their crap and call them out on it..
Fairy tale. You absolutely cannot sell a vehicle (unless it's extremely old) without the title. Even if you are trying to junk a vehicle, it must be at least 20 years old to be scrapped without a title.
What country allows you to sell a car without proof of ownership?
People sell and buy cars from private parties with and without titles all the time. They can't REGISTER the vehicle without a current title though. OP more or less stated the guy who bought it was doing something shady and they may never have seen it again. Chop shop or shipped overseas.
You can sell stuff on certain online marketplaces without proof of ownership, tons of stolen property gets sold off them.