Why Your Tie Should NEVER Match Your Pocket Square
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- Опубликовано: 4 сен 2020
- Should your tie match your pocket square? In today's video, I'm answering this question and more.
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Do you follow this style rule or do you break it? Comment below!
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Always and never are the words you should always remember never to use.
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I agree wholeheartedly. Always and never are words that should seldom be used.
@@William_sJazzLoft you almost agree
I think that when it comes to the issue of the tie and pocket square, we have to exercise caution that we not be dogmatic in any regard. My personal belief about it is that it is perfectly all right to match them perfectly. I see it and I think of a person who is highly logical. And for the person who prefers to coordinate the tie and pocket square between a solid and a pattern, I think of somebody who is more intuitive. So it's perfectly all right to coordinate a solid and a pattern.
William your explanation ( as usual ) is insightful and empathetic. I have the greatest admiration and respect for the manner in which you expound upon the issue of the hour. 😊☺️😃
This is the best explanation I have ever heard for this rule, and I think it holds up. It’s the same logic I have with shoes, actually: technically, there’s nothing wrong with only owning one of an item (whether it be shoes, suits, a particular accessory), but you should never look like you only own one.
So thanks for the concise explanation, Antonio!
When I see matching ties and pocket squares, I don't think of lack of options. If I was to do so, I'd think of it not as me not having options, but of me having the option to do what I want to do. I don't like having so many colours in an outfit. I like to keep things simple. Hence why I'd probably match neckties and pocket squares.
Hear hear!! I always (always!) wear identical tie and handkerchief. 👍
I don't get why it is wrong to match the tie and pocket square. Doesn't seem like a big deal at all. Fashion is a matter of personal taste, what works for you may not work for everyone.
Totally agree, Antonio. Well-articulated, too! I love to compliment my tie and pocket square, but never match!
That's the only way to wear it together :) Thanks Sean!
2:49 I got excited to see this necktie. My father always used this ones. They were plain colors, but the fabric and width really stood out. Now I'm rocking that style thanks to him.
What are they called?
@@safwaan5630 They're wool knitted ties. The ones I have are from UK.
@@safwaan5630 I think the one shown isn't wool knit but grenadine silk, a traditional style made in Como, Italy
Man I am so happy I found this channel a few years ago when I was looking up how to properly tie a tie. I learned so many things since then
Okay, I had to chuckle. Wearing a matching tie and square means ''you have no options'' but wearing a plain white square means you are ''creative''! lol
That said, I am not a fan of matchy-matchy but I certainly don't ''judge'' those who are...
White pocket square is a must as it can be combined with infinite color contrasts.. A no brainer..There is no need to even point this out. You should come up with a stronger argument.
@@devilsKrEEd My point was that white is not a creative color. That, my friend, is the no-brainer here. I did not say that white is inappropriate and I happen to like white squares. You should have paid closer attention to my words.
This is such an important issue...I had NO IDEA that by exactly matching my pocket square with my neck tie would tell the world at large that I have NO INDIVIDUALITY...that I am dull, boring, and without an opinion of my own...whew!...thank gaaaawd I found your video so that now know how to express myself otherwise.
As an artist, style is and have always been about others opinions. The ones that are widely accepted are the ones that shared the same opinion oftentimes because of “who” said so or “who is wearing it. We match our leathers because to most it makes since. We match our ties because to most it makes since. I choose to wear a matching tie with matching pocket square or pattern with solid or vice versa. To me it comes down to who’s opinion that really matters…….mine lol
Great timing! I was at formal wear hire shop for sizing/fitting as one of the best men for my good friend's wedding. He was not there but he had already selected the entire outfit. To my surprise, the pocket square patterned exactly like the tie. I will have to discuss this with him OR... be a maverick and wear my own pocket square on his day ;).
While I agree, this is not the best look, and some thought has already gone into this. It is my humble opinion that this is not the day to be a "maverick", this is the day you put on Mickey Mouse ears and clown shoes if asked, because he is your friend, and this is his day.
Great simple, informative vid Antonio.
I've been upping my pocket square game - I've got a small collection of Seaward and Stearns pocket squares, and they don't 'match' any tie ever made. They are really fun and nice.
To be honest I make myself all of my pocket sqare, ties and bow ties and I love to make in the same fabric. If you see a low quality, shiny and boring tie or a pretied bow tie, you can imagine that the person in front of you don't know what's he's doing. But it's not always true
Good, concise video. I don’t wear a suit often, but I like to look nice for special work events, parties, father/daughter dances, etc. and this is helpful to continuing my style journey.
Pocket Square matching with the Shirt looks very elegant.
Thanks for this, I always had the same question.
I like the simplicity of your approach to use contrasting color of tie and pocket square.
Good advice bro! That's something i actually didn't know
Cheers for this, been pondering what to add to give my own design to it and what I like.
I have never matched a pocket square. But i hsrdly wear a pocket square. Im only 13 and I wear a suit and tie 2-3 times a week. Love you Antonio.
Hey Josie - where do you wear a suit 3x a week? School?
@@RealMenRealStyleI usually wear one when I go to church. I have about six suits and i just got a new one.
Pocket squares are great fun even if they are a small detail.
Totally agree Antonio. I remember you used to sell pocket squares with the RMRS logo as well
This golden rule is definitely useful and will definitely stay for ages to come!!
I don't match my pocket square and tie but I often find they clash and don't feel happy about them. It is quite annoying if you have spent a lot on a suit, shirt, tie, pocket-square individually but you put them together and fell a little like magician or party clown.
I now only tend to just wear white or a very light blue one. Anything with too much colour just makes me feel like I'm trying too hard.
Options are wonderful, two different colours can definitely match each other, and I compliment anyone with a tie and a handkerchief to begin with. But I really don't care about silly no-nos, and I always wear matching tie and handkerchief, because I feel it looks much more stylish, clean and simply better. I really don't like this colour palette, some people wear for a suit, such as striped socks, orange trousers, navy jacket, red tie and polka dotted handkerchief. No thanks. In fact, I don't care what "one does", since "one" wears jeans with a jacket nowadays and "one" wears white sneakers with a suit! 🤮 If that is fashion, I'll stay old school and completely off beat, thank you. 😁
ANyway, nice video, bud. It's presented in a very nice and non-arrogant way.
You have a great time analyzing or comparing the styles of Ghost from Power and Tommy from Peaky Blinders. Similar characters to ones you've done before like mad men and suits the show, may even bring you more views from their audiences they have a huge following!
Hi Antonio,
Love the channel.
This is one thing that I have always been wary of. Who ever came up with this rule?.
I make all of my own Bow Ties and Pocket Squares. I use a lot of Liberty of London Fabrics, and also make a lot using recycled Vintage Kimono silk, so go to a lot of effort to choose the fabrics carefully.
Last year I flew to Paris and attended 2 fashion shows as part of fashion week and wore my own ties and Pocket Squares. I was so tempted to wear a matching set that I had made, but at the last minute did not due to this rule.
I was worried that if anyone had this rule in the back of their minds they may think that I had no idea what I was doing.
Some rules can be a bit intimidating and can take the fun out of being yourself.
Don
Very nice absolutely agree!
This is really amazing 😇
Interesting. I never put that much thought into it. I usually don't wear any kind of formal attire, let alone suits so I'm completely oblivious to any finer points of style. But I'm going to a halloween party as Kingpin later in the month, so I figured I've some required reading, so to speak. Glad to have learned something for future reference.
Thank you for puttin this out here, Ive finally bought my first suit in 11 years- It is a dark blue & the vest with white pinstripe a nice white collard shirt its a little too dark after wearing it tonight people think its black the pinstripe is a little muted but i like it - They had a bright blue with grey pinstripe but i think it was too much- I have been a fan of the 20's & 30's suits for a long time, Its a "wesley clothes suit is that a good brand? Thanks again you have taught me a lot over the last few days
Great video Antonio 👌
So my question, with the caveat that the last suit I wore was my alphas almost 20 years ago and have no intention of wearing another, what are your thoughts on miniature medals?
Well explained 👌🏻
Great video. I needed help with this.
Do you suppose it is OK to use different shades of camouflage between the tie and pocket square? Color-wise they would not match and the patterns are generally different.
I think you're an absolute genius and I am happy to be returning to your channel.
I matched pocket square w/ tie and I am definitely gonna try to get them to compliment each other. As an engineering student, your advice is definitely gonna help me leave a lasting impression!
100% agree. Pocket Square is an easy way to add some fun.
I'm definitely too critical of a matching tie and pocket square.
To me it seems like going for the most obvious thing that someone inexperienced goes for, thinking it's what people who dress well do. As a result I feel it can look pretty cheesy, unless you have that colour added somewhere else in the outfit as a theme you've thought about, or if it compliments the colour of the jacket really well
Splendid presentation....You get a Gold Star!
Sometimes, I think, you can match one color of pocket square and tie, but only if they are NOT SOLID! For example, Antonio's tie in red-blue combination. U can use red or blue with another color. It can play in contrast. But if you have a good solid tie - use pocket with some colors, or if it is formal meeting white president's variant. Antonio, I think, that rule with tie and pocket square is actual and it shows your good attention to others on the meeting.
Great videos as usual!
I've been working at a suit store for only 3 days but every single customer that bought a pocket square matched it exactly with their tie.
Although I always aim to have my pocket square and tie to be different the overall aim is how do they work with my jacket and shirt. I think the right approach isn't to look down on someone whose tie and pocket square match because they are taking steps in the right direction.
On a side note, isn't the one exception to the tie/pocket square not matching rule a wedding?
In scotland we have to dress in smart uniform for school and this channel helps with looking the best in the room
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How about a tie, pocket square and face mask combo ?
Totally agree. When I first started, I Always matched. One day, I got bored, didn’t match, and my life had changed forever
Excellent Style advice and consulting Devil-Dog; SEMPER-FI!!!.
Useful!!!
Totally agree sir
I love I love to wear my tie and I always thought that I have to match the pocket thanks for the information
Haha I need to hear this. Thanks for helping me upgrade
Love solid navy with orange pattern.
I pick up lots of matching sets but end up just wearing whatever, even if i still keep it the same. Gotta remember you will always look good and better than most (if you care about that)
Honestly, as long as you have a decent sense of fashion and color complimenting, it really doesn't matter whether the square matches your tie or not. Opinions are subjective and I wear suits bc I like to, not bc I'm worried about what other people think while I'm wearing it. Match them don't, either way, it's not gonna make THAT MUCH of an opinion change and if it does, you didn't need to be around them anyway.
Totally agree
I always go with a classic white pocket square, it’s clean, classic and elegant.
Take the dominant color of the tie and match it to the least dominant color of the pocket square or vice versa
I am a die hard believer that what your body looks like tells me what you think about yourself and the world- Now with your input i am of the thought that what you wear and how you wear it presents the same thing. Thank you sir
For example: i went to a ball the other day, so i matched tie and pocketsquare, because simple was better. When i go out for dinner ill wear seperate colours/patterns because it pops more and leverages the look.
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Cheers Modalsoul!
Hey, Antonio. My kid got me a four sided pocket square from Dillards or somewhere. Has 4 different patterns. How do you work with these?
I love that dark polo?shirt you have on. Where can I find something like that?
Hell, man, match your hat band with both of em if you want lol. Personally, I think the main thing not matching them exactly is that it shows you didn't buy them as a set, and you picked your own combo.
First time square owner - lots to learn
Thanks, I was about to wear one for the first time. But I decided to search how to wear it first. I almost wore it matching.
You are right on point here. Men have such few flair chances.
It depends on the day. I try not to totally match my square to my tie. However if I do, chances are my shirt has a more noticeable pattern. I'll match the square to the tie there so it doesn't look too busy having a patterned square and patterned shirt. However, if the pocket square and the shirt have similar patterns, I'll sooner match or correlate my square to my shirt than to my tie, but I'm still not above matching them some days.
I say embrace the non-matching and complementary combinations, but don't let that keep you from matching them if that's what feels good while you're suiting up. Trust your gut.
Wednesday June 14 2023. Father's day is coming and though my daughter wants nothing to do me I still thought about wearing a coursage or boutonnare in her memory what color should it be or should i not bother?
The way I was raised, If the tie is a solid color, try to match it, if you cant match the square ti the tie, then match it to the shirt color. If the Tie is stripped, match the prominent color on the tie to the square. Most times I have ties that come as a set that have exact matching pocket squares and thats fine too.
I disagree. Its not about not having options. Its often about theme and matching colors. Some of the examples you show here are clashing colors to me. If colors are clashing it doesnt look good.
*I 100% agree, Never ever buy matching tie (neck/bow) and pocket square sets.*
It makes a man look like he's going to his high school prom! As you said, it looks like that it all he's got or has no idea how to dress himself!
There are many web site (bargain prices) sure not the best quality _(polyester)_ pocket square, even white or paisley. I would by three pocket squares, 1. white, all purpose, 2. paisley, blue back ground, 3. paisley, red background!
These have covered all my pocket square needs! As I have blue, red, grey, black and a white neck ties! As for Bow ties, I only use a white pocket square!
I like to mix mine..but on wearing my Regimental Tie, I wear the same pocket square to go with it...together with Regimental Socks etc
Totally agree. If you are going to wear the combo, why not do it in the most stylish way possible?
Well, today, I see one guy rocking a pocket square for every thousand that does not. And one guy in a suit for every ten thousand that doesn't, so I don't even have an opinion about matching ties and pocket squares: I know I don't, for a start, but I also understand down here it's really tough to even find somewhere that sells pocket squares. I agree that not matching them actually shows the guy understands what he's doing with his appearance :)
Hi! Does this rule still apply regarding weddings? There are two colours (pastel green and pastel purple) within the colour scheme so would the groom be best to wear one colour and the groomsmen the other colour, or to mix tie and pocket squares?
Rather than to mix it might be better to try a plain white pocket square made of silk. Neutral white will look timeless and elegant. My second choice would be a similar (but not exactly the same) color shade, possibly with subtle pattern or different texture. It could even be white with hints of those pastels. Going for exact match would be my third pick because it starts to resemble a costume rather than an outfit. But I think not many guests are going to obsess about it :)
Agree but I love matching. My brand color is blue. I'm blonde. I love the way it looks. But I can also see your point.
I agree.
Ohhh, when I saw the title I thought why, now I know!
What if you like matching or color coordinating?
Complement - not match is the thing.
Think a bit broader than just complement the tie, trie to bring it all togheter jacket, shirt, shoes etc
Thanks for the vid bro but i hardly suit up and use pocket squares. Next time I'm dressing up I'll know to do better
I have purchased matching sets before but I don't wear them together. I used to until I found this channel.
I would say black and white is a pretty good combination when done well.
I hear what you're saying.
Bit why do companies sell matching ties and squares? That's telling me they're supposed to match
Thanks Antonio for bringing this up once more. The matching tie and pocket square seems to have spread like a pandemic as people often do what the crowd is doing without researching style. Not a big deal to me but acts like a filter to set apart someone who is into style as opposed to someone who probably doesn’t care.
I have that paisley pocket square ;)
What I do is have the inverted version of the tie for a pocket square.
I have a black tie with white diamonds so I had a pocket square custom made that is white with the same diamond shapes but in black.
What are your thoughts between a pocket square or a boutonniere? Is it appropriate to wear both at the same time?
I have this question too.
I don't see the tie-match-pocket-square a big deal. What about the shirt color matching the pocket square though?
I compare matching sets to clip-on ties.
Indeed , Well at least here un Chile the most formal is the white pocket square un a presidential , however in Chile a matching square is still considered quite a nice detail
Yes‼️ that's exactly what I think when I see them matching. The store dressed you like you're a child. 🤔
Guys, (you too, Tone) learn the word "handkerchief" and your pocket square options immediately double. If the quality and size are similar enough, go for it.
It's more a secret code than a style rule, so they can recognize themselves as members. The rule of matching things is the same as with suits heavy patterns don't go with suit, only with blazers with complimenting pants (except Gucci of course and only if you are very young and sing rap). So no polka dots for example.
Matched tie and pocket square is always a smart look. Mixing up the pocket square is also fine, it should compliment your complete look and not be your whole look. Ive seen more men get this wrong than right. When in doubt keep it simple. The term best used here is " SPREZZATURA " loose translation - effortless style.
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Hi, Antonio. I'm going to respectfully disagree with your reasoning. When I see the pocket square and tie not matching, I think, "Oh, he couldn't be bothered to actually make the two items actually match. He threw together whatever was handy (or clean)." Matching the two items, to my brain, shows you care enough to pay attention to both items of clothing. When the two do not match, they look disjointed.
I will agree that this is not a big deal overall. In my brain, I can see the person cares enough to put a suit on, but after that, I want to know what the person has to say or what they bring to the discussion.
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