Simple habits to make life manageable (MARRIAGE | PARENTING | CLUTTER)

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  • @casn3424
    @casn3424 Год назад +25

    Yes, a minimalist home tour. Please! Please! Please! 🙏😉

  • @jbwest4618
    @jbwest4618 Год назад +5

    You two are awesome. I have mental health issues and my hobbies are a critical component of maintaining a healthy mind. I work out, am active in the church, and quilt. I’m 74 years old and really support the values that you identified as important in your lives, and can say from life experience they will sustain you.

  • @jennyjenkins877
    @jennyjenkins877 Год назад +3

    Everything in life seems to be about balance and moderation. I'm an introverted homebody who likes alone time but it's definitely good for me to get outside, get moving, and interact with people.

  • @lisarivers1438
    @lisarivers1438 Год назад +8

    Hey, it's good that you both are realizing that you need your own identity at a young age because I kinda feel lost now. I became a mom (of TWINS at that) at 19 yrs old so grew up with them before i was even of "legal" age and my entire adult life it was dedicated to them "mind you" they didn't ask to be here so I decided to sacrifice MY LIFE and as a single mom do everything I could for them. Now they're living there life as they should and I kinda don't know who I am anymore I've been known as the "MOTHER OF THE TWINS" for over 30 yrs, plus I'm an extreme introvert and I don't socialize, I don't have friends (for many reasons). I pretty much go to my 9 to 5 and go home. Don't get me wrong I feel 100% fine being alone it's just the mom part that's a little rough for me.

  • @dwilliams8573
    @dwilliams8573 Год назад +4

    Same thing here lady, I don’t have a hobby, I never spent time searching for what I like as an individual human being. I love organizing and cleaning the house but yes, that’s not a hobby. This is a great video ❤ if I ever have kids I would like to be like you guys great parents! 😊

  • @djsno80al
    @djsno80al Месяц назад

    Love the advice you provide in your videos, it would be awesome to have you both make a video showing your daily life (routines)

  • @tamiurquizo746
    @tamiurquizo746 Год назад +1

    I totally agree. God and minilism have changed my life. God gifts us stuff, but he has the right to take it back. All the stuff we own is not ours. ❤

  • @sable747
    @sable747 10 месяцев назад

    Ahh! This was interesting to me. Especially the “getting a hobby.” It seems so simple, but hard to do with so much adult responsibility, but I read somewhere hobbies keep you young too! My husband has 2 hobbies, but I’m still finding mine. :) Sharing the load with parenting is huge. It’s either work something out now or a miserable empty nest season with a lot of resentment. I still remember one cruise ship that was quarantined during 2020 and when the news interviewed this British couple. They were celebrating their 50th anniversary. The husband said he said that with the “extra” time together that he had learned all of the “horrible” injustices his wife had endured their entire marriage! 😮 Can you imagine? It’s neat to see how you both are on the same team and willing to put the time and work into it now! God bless!

  • @briashubert2489
    @briashubert2489 Год назад +2

    I'm an introvert as well & love inline skating! 😅 You remind me of myself! I agree therapy has helped me with my anxiety & depression & just having that one day at least a week to just be! I tell my husband this all the time! I actually had to tell him you need a day as well to just be as well! Like you said as a stay at home mom, you just get so wrapped up in keeping up with the house & being a mom you get exhausted from it all! I hit severe burnout level with everything & felt like i was drowning! Thanks for being open & honest & love your channel! Great video!

  • @makingithome8493
    @makingithome8493 Год назад +2

    I’m so much like you! I am always with my kids, and my husband’s schedule is filled. I honestly love just being at home when it’s quiet lol.

  • @kathirena86
    @kathirena86 Год назад +1

    "LIFE NOT GONNA BE EASY BY ACCIDENT" CARLENE ❤ 28:25 LOVE THIS!

  • @PEGGYSOLA
    @PEGGYSOLA 11 месяцев назад

    Hey 👋 Carleen 😊
    How are you doing? I’m glad to hear from you again. Thankyou for sharing this video, it’s very appreciated, I needed to hear this!! I been struggling through a lot of things. Your videos are so encouraging!!! ❤❤❤
    I hope 🙏🏽to hear from you soon!! 😊
    I am an introvert also don’t like to be around to many people,but I do like making friends. GOD IS SO GOOD 🙌🏽🙏🏽💗
    I am struggling I’m my marriage but things will get better, it’s just communication problems.

  • @CBM83
    @CBM83 Год назад +1

    I really needed to see this today. I'm inspired because I want to live this life. I think we would ALL love to see a new house tour! 🙌

  • @LjubavLove3
    @LjubavLove3 11 месяцев назад

    great tips! You guys are doing great, thanks for the inspiration.

  • @turquoisemama33
    @turquoisemama33 Год назад +1

    You (Charlene, sorry if I got your name wrong)) just listed a decent amount of items on the neurodivergent list. I suggest checking into neurodiversity, which is an umbrella term for a long list of conditions. You could have one or more than of them. Some use medication to help and others medication doesn't help at all. I was raised in the church, been a Christian all my life (I'm 54), just found out past 50, that I'm on the spectrum of autism. Has completely changed my life for the better and answered prayers that I have been praying since jr high. (I'm only able to listen to half this video for now, will finish later as I have to leave. If that info is needed.)

    • @turquoisemama33
      @turquoisemama33 Год назад

      ok listened to second half, just have this to add...start preparing your kids now to deal with the messiness of the real world work world now, if you haven't done so yet. Actions speak louder than words, so you are telling your kids about the minimalist lifestyle, but its still great that your daughter used her own head to decide to trade out old for new when she got the shoes. You can definitely be proud of her. She's getting it without being told verbally.

  • @ExcitedMum
    @ExcitedMum Год назад +1

    Hi you guys
    Great video
    Just took a walk listening to your video, nice
    🇦🇺👏

  • @joannafoster3423
    @joannafoster3423 Год назад +1

    Nice to see you 2 again! Always love your encouragement!

  • @julialifeisgood5699
    @julialifeisgood5699 Год назад +1

    I love your video❤ . Great job 👏 I finally found something that I enjoy. I enjoy paddle boarding. Now I need to find something for colder weather.

  • @tiashadae1143
    @tiashadae1143 Год назад +1

    Thank you for the video and your honesty ❤

  • @lenemoooj
    @lenemoooj Год назад +1

    I would love a house tour :) Exited for you to be back at youtube :)

  • @lindseybrown9653
    @lindseybrown9653 Год назад

    I love to hear all your thoughts. Do another tour please! 😊

  • @olgabergere
    @olgabergere Год назад

    Thank you a lot for this video 🙏💛 Specially for topic about hobbies and time for ourselves 🤗🤗🤗

  • @nancyelizabeth8364
    @nancyelizabeth8364 Год назад

    It was great seeing you both just love your content especially when your together

  • @casn3424
    @casn3424 Год назад

    Thank you for your inspiring video! 🤍🤍🤍

  • @notthatjones6026
    @notthatjones6026 Год назад

    Hello from Florida! "Standing in the dark watching the bus drive by" hit me in the face like a brick. Been there. Also, have grown up with few friends, had a horrible relationship with food, now super introverted & carnivore since April 1st. My weight has been stable after 10 pounds lost. That said, all the non scale victories are there. I highly recommend reading Atomic Habbits, it helps greatly. Also a carnivore support group, my fave is hosted by Carnivore Quest. And may I ask... do you experience over stimulation to sound as well as people? I've found this to be my case, perhaps I'm just off like that.
    PS, love your accent, it's nice to hear that midwest twang from back home. (Ohio originally but my Daddy grew up in Tennessee). Blessings!💙

  • @palatableplants
    @palatableplants Год назад

    What a valuable video. Thank you

  • @lenemoooj
    @lenemoooj Год назад

    A morning an evening routine video would also be great . when do your kids get up in the morning ? :)

    • @TheArmsteadFamily
      @TheArmsteadFamily  Год назад +1

      Just recorded a habit for moms video today where I discuss a lot of this :)

    • @lenemoooj
      @lenemoooj Год назад

      That is great, looking forward to it :) @@TheArmsteadFamily

  • @Healthandwealthwithadri
    @Healthandwealthwithadri Год назад

    Love this ❤

  • @veronique2754
    @veronique2754 Год назад +1

    👍💛👍💚👍💙👍

  • @vrabec1977
    @vrabec1977 Год назад

    are you chatolic?