If you still don't understand queen Lee after this, then you'll never, you need self introspection, because I've learnt a lot from this, LADIES LET US LEARN TO LOVE AND PUT OUR SELVES FIRST
It's my first time seeing and hearing about Queen Lee. I love how confident she is. She is speaking her truth and doing that brilliantly so. People indeed don't love people who speak the truth. She speaks without fear or favour. 😅😅🎉❤
I've been married for almost 30 years! I was blessed to understand that I am a woman first, before the role of wife and mother. Also my husband understood clearly what his purpose was for marriage, why he wanted to get married, his role in the marriage etc.
The thing about Queen Lee (Lala) is that she is open like a book and she is loving.She likes to give sound advice to ladies.Women envy her looks and lifestyle.She is blessed!!!! The devil hates it.She is phenomenal this woman.She is vocal.There is so much to learn from her.She likes women who go any extra mile, do small businesses to look after themselves.She discourages laziness and procrastination.She is a ⭐️.She has a good ❤️.Jealousy from people will never stop her from living her life to the fullest.She is amazing!!! In that way she rubs the people the wrong way, unintentionally.Her story made her.PERIOD!
Queen Lee's story is almost like mines. I left him, not because I did not love him anymore, but because he could not protect me. His family (especially mother) was controlling our relationship. Few months after I left, I received a call/s from him. He was apologising and wanted us to fix things but I did not want to subject myself to that toxic family. He apologised for not protecting me , and he told me on how his mother was treating his current girlfriend. He told me that he swore that he will do things differently with the new relationship. He fought for her, but she could not handle the "toxic mother", she left him. He got sick, I was still receiving messages from him to give him another chance,, but I was over that relationship. He passed on lonely because of his family.
@sibongilentshangase4398 Love and light to you Sbosh. Whatever you decide to do may you find strength. Such situations drain you. When I left, I even suffered depression because of fear of the unknown. I was in that relationship with this person for a decade, so to think of starting afresh terrified me.
Most people when u put urself first, they think u have been Brocken, most by man....n is not like that cuz u don't take nonsense..n if something is not what u want.....so they don't believe is self confidence........power women ...even guys are afraid of you as a women....they say waipotsa...n think u know better....I've found myself being single n I am fine with it ..n proud
Most people are quick to misunderstood Queen Lee. Let's learn to listen ladies so that we can understand. I love you Queen Lee❤❤❤❤and I really love this conversation.
Enjoyed the conversation, I concur, it is extreamely vital to be independent as ladies so that you are brave enough to leave a toxic marriage and not stay cause abantu bazothini or because of your poor background ❤
Life in general inyanyisa, it all depends on which stage or chapter you are in, if Uyajola mjolo Uyanyisa women go through so much emjolweni, also if you are married you’ll also have challenges emshadweni. Period…
33:31 mona she hit it on the nail, there is always a balance necessary to tackle differences, as much as one has a duty to protect his wife, fairness on dealing with issues is also important because we are all human and we err.
If you listen with an open heart, you'll understand what queen lee is saying. Confidence, independence and understanding that marriage is not all roses but "hard work with love"
My mother is very lucky to have married a bread winner and enjoyed. Her Father and Mother in-law loved and respected her and the my father's marriage. My father's parents knew how to respect boundaries
Love loved this interview - this lady is wise. I need to hear more of her, so inspired. Walked away from this so much wiser, ke mafolofolo ka bophelo. Felt the love and truth pouring out from her. Just amazing...
As women we where taught not to shame our husband or wife in public but we can correct them at home l am not saying pretending is good it's. Not and she is telling the truth coz once you take your issues outside it's hard to fix them
Another thing is that when you make up behind close doors, outsiders may hold onto the past that you both left behind. Hence couples need to entrust their issues to people who are bound to preserve your confidentiality. Professionals. Sometimes we seek advice from people who should not even be giving us advice.
Coming to the issue of being "hated".I think out of 100 it's only 20% who dislike you,do you think it's even worth it to pay attention to such?As for us women asinakuthula nje amongst ourselves
Absolutely nothing wrong with it, but sometimes batho ha ba na timing ya "my husband this, my husband that". Even when it's not necessary motho o no off ramp(a) feela a o jwetse ka monna hae. It can be boring sometimes I kid you not.
Second marriages are not perdect but they are the best, just make sure u dont ignore red flags, dont rush into marriage to proove a point, make sure u fall in love with a man u love u more, who will choose u over and over again, one who enjoys being with u. One who accept ur kids and understand u are a mother. A matured man who understands that ur kids have rheir own father as much as his kids have their own mother. Dont force ur kids onto ur husband's family and dont change things too quickly at once in their lives. To build a meaningfull blended family sometimes its good to not follow the norm and "culture" in order to make ur new inlaws comfortable. Rather follow the law and its easy when u are married to a matured man
She looks so gorgeous. Ong I love her make up . Her story is uplifting and fulfilling. Modimo o Mogole tlheng 🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🥰@madam speaker you are doing such amazing Job. Thank you so much for this interview for us to understand @queenlee better without any stray. Keep doing great things sisi Modimo ke oo
Queen Lee i need to be like you this year❤It's just the beginning of the year but everything seems to be falling apart on my side but i refuse to go downwheremy enemies wantsme..
Step mothering is not easy, Some stepkids are more challenging than others. Some baby mama come into the mix as well. U need a man with backbone, one who will trust ur judgment with his kids(if u are a fare stepmom, judge and evaluate urself and be honest with urself). A man who has his house in order, will handle his problems, making it easy for u
You wil always be my number 1..I literally started watching vlogs last year nd I watched urs from wayyyy bck jst so I can be up-to-date nd I am keep on keeping on God bless❤
Madam speaker ♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️ Speaking for the rest of the continent: young women who get inspired in your space. This one I got lost in the language…. Sounds really rich though…. ♥️♥️
Thank you for sub titles, we can follow the story effortlessly, BUT you stopped them halfway and we are lost again. Your international followers love you.❤
Aaaaa....wena o mosadisadi.Thus why monna wa gago a go hlokometse. You must organize a women conference and advise them about a marriage. I would love that, Mme. Hohaaa.
I feel like hurt people, always have hurt language. As much as every marriage has it's challenges, doesn't mean when I talk about my husband I'm bragging. He is my husband, why when one talks about her children or siblings we don't judge, the way one talks about her husband. Haaaaaiiii noooooo. There's no sisterly love here
@@mantelekhitsane8935 I was like that too until one day I listened to all her contents n I learned few things about her that woman is clever n u cn learn a lot from her
Nna I honestly think that if my ex really supported me and stood by me, I would still be married to him. He was working together with his family to destroy me and he was leading the pack. Queen Lee is right, there love and support of your spouse is very important. May the Lord keep your family together forever 🙏 ❤❤
If you still don't understand queen Lee after this, then you'll never, you need self introspection, because I've learnt a lot from this, LADIES LET US LEARN TO LOVE AND PUT OUR SELVES FIRST
Amen comrade💪
True
Thanks, o re kgotlatse Queen ❤️❤️❤️
Ka nnete hleng
Yes my sister, as weman we must not loose ourselves to men
"let me speak my language so that I can swim" These are very powerful words!!!!!! Love this expression!
It's my first time seeing and hearing about Queen Lee. I love how confident she is. She is speaking her truth and doing that brilliantly so. People indeed don't love people who speak the truth. She speaks without fear or favour. 😅😅🎉❤
Same!
Queen Lee is the one
I've been married for almost 30 years! I was blessed to understand that I am a woman first, before the role of wife and mother. Also my husband understood clearly what his purpose was for marriage, why he wanted to get married, his role in the marriage etc.
Darling I really need to learn alot 😢
🩷🙌🏾
Madam speaker and Queen Lee Kea leboha hle 😢😢
The thing about Queen Lee (Lala) is that she is open like a book and she is loving.She likes to give sound advice to ladies.Women envy her looks and lifestyle.She is blessed!!!! The devil hates it.She is phenomenal this woman.She is vocal.There is so much to learn from her.She likes women who go any extra mile, do small businesses to look after themselves.She discourages laziness and procrastination.She is a ⭐️.She has a good ❤️.Jealousy from people will never stop her from living her life to the fullest.She is amazing!!! In that way she rubs the people the wrong way, unintentionally.Her story made her.PERIOD!
Queen Lee's story is almost like mines. I left him, not because I did not love him anymore, but because he could not protect me. His family (especially mother) was controlling our relationship. Few months after I left, I received a call/s from him. He was apologising and wanted us to fix things but I did not want to subject myself to that toxic family. He apologised for not protecting me , and he told me on how his mother was treating his current girlfriend. He told me that he swore that he will do things differently with the new relationship. He fought for her, but she could not handle the "toxic mother", she left him. He got sick, I was still receiving messages from him to give him another chance,, but I was over that relationship. He passed on lonely because of his family.
Eish , very unfortunate. Some families just can't let go of their kids 😢
😢
I'm going through this.
@sibongilentshangase4398 Love and light to you Sbosh. Whatever you decide to do may you find strength. Such situations drain you. When I left, I even suffered depression because of fear of the unknown. I was in that relationship with this person for a decade, so to think of starting afresh terrified me.
He's from which province.?
I respect myself for coming out though its not easy but it helping me not to settle for less , job or marriage or anything i wont settle for less
Ohhh my God kea morata Mosadi enwa hle….she is sooo brave and always makes sense❤️❤️❤️ Queen Lee please start a youtube channel
I'm going through what queen Lee went through I hope one day I'll have the strength to leave this toxic family
Moghel you can do it my darling.
I smiled so much when Queen Lee said “ Hi Lalaa”😊
Most people when u put urself first, they think u have been Brocken, most by man....n is not like that cuz u don't take nonsense..n if something is not what u want.....so they don't believe is self confidence........power women ...even guys are afraid of you as a women....they say waipotsa...n think u know better....I've found myself being single n I am fine with it ..n proud
Same ❤
Well done Queen Lee 🎉
Thank you Madam Speaker for this...much love for both of you❤
Thank you too!
Most people are quick to misunderstood Queen Lee. Let's learn to listen ladies so that we can understand. I love you Queen Lee❤❤❤❤and I really love this conversation.
Enjoyed the conversation, I concur, it is extreamely vital to be independent as ladies so that you are brave enough to leave a toxic marriage and not stay cause abantu bazothini or because of your poor background ❤
thank you, Queen Lee am learning a lot from you.
Psalms 127:1
[1]Unless the Lord builds the house, They labor in vain who build it; Unless the Lord guards the city, The watchman stays awake in vain.
I feel attacked 😢
I am glad I gave this podcast a chance. My new favourite ❤.
Thanks!
Thank you so much 😊
Thanx, thus, what I did after divorce love me make money, work harder ❤ self care so important
Life in general inyanyisa, it all depends on which stage or chapter you are in, if Uyajola mjolo Uyanyisa women go through so much emjolweni, also if you are married you’ll also have challenges emshadweni. Period…
😂😂yeah true it doesn't matter ukuthi uyajola or ushadile
Queen Lee is my girl. I love her so much ❤ I used to watch her lives, so healing. She has a big heart and so caring and wise.
Eeeeish queenLee 😭😭😭🙏🙏🙏❤️❤️❤️u have touched two stories of my life...
33:31 mona she hit it on the nail, there is always a balance necessary to tackle differences, as much as one has a duty to protect his wife, fairness on dealing with issues is also important because we are all human and we err.
If you listen with an open heart, you'll understand what queen lee is saying. Confidence, independence and understanding that marriage is not all roses but "hard work with love"
Madam Speaker is such a Warm Safe SPACE. Your listening Skills Sesi 😊 Out of this WORLD ❤
My mother is very lucky to have married a bread winner and enjoyed. Her Father and Mother in-law loved and respected her and the my father's marriage. My father's parents knew how to respect boundaries
First time I hear or see this lady but I love her already
I'm in Queen Lee's position and that's why I'm leaving. These things happen. Families know where to press and the husband knows.
This was a lovely episode. Her level of confidence is what i aspire to have 😊❤ love it.
Love loved this interview - this lady is wise. I need to hear more of her, so inspired. Walked away from this so much wiser, ke mafolofolo ka bophelo. Felt the love and truth pouring out from her. Just amazing...
Love this woman, a true queen indeed 🙏🏾👏🏽 thank you for sharing your knowledge. Truly inspiring 🥰❤️🍾
That closing 🎉🎉🎉🎉
As women we where taught not to shame our husband or wife in public but we can correct them at home l am not saying pretending is good it's. Not and she is telling the truth coz once you take your issues outside it's hard to fix them
Another thing is that when you make up behind close doors, outsiders may hold onto the past that you both left behind. Hence couples need to entrust their issues to people who are bound to preserve your confidentiality. Professionals. Sometimes we seek advice from people who should not even be giving us advice.
Coming to the issue of being "hated".I think out of 100 it's only 20% who dislike you,do you think it's even worth it to pay attention to such?As for us women asinakuthula nje amongst ourselves
That time I can't wait to say my husband this and that😂it sounds so perfect when they say it...
Right?!🤣🤣🤣
There's nothing wrong with it just don't forget yourself as an individual
If you are gonna live your life based on other peoples experiences you are gonna be miserable Sis
Absolutely nothing wrong with it, but sometimes batho ha ba na timing ya "my husband this, my husband that". Even when it's not necessary motho o no off ramp(a) feela a o jwetse ka monna hae. It can be boring sometimes I kid you not.
The is nothing wrong with saying that my love...
This episode makes me love Queen Lee more ❤😊❤
Anm new. I enjoyed listening to Queen Lee. I got married very young and phew 😅thank you the truth. May the God bless her and family. ❤
Tjoo madam speaker i will get married again this encouraged me a lot❤❤❤
Second marriages are not perdect but they are the best, just make sure u dont ignore red flags, dont rush into marriage to proove a point, make sure u fall in love with a man u love u more, who will choose u over and over again, one who enjoys being with u. One who accept ur kids and understand u are a mother. A matured man who understands that ur kids have rheir own father as much as his kids have their own mother.
Dont force ur kids onto ur husband's family and dont change things too quickly at once in their lives. To build a meaningfull blended family sometimes its good to not follow the norm and "culture" in order to make ur new inlaws comfortable. Rather follow the law and its easy when u are married to a matured man
She looks so gorgeous. Ong I love her make up . Her story is uplifting and fulfilling. Modimo o Mogole tlheng 🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🥰@madam speaker you are doing such amazing Job. Thank you so much for this interview for us to understand @queenlee better without any stray. Keep doing great things sisi Modimo ke oo
More love from lesotho mi Gueen , ke rata boikemelo ba hau
Wow very informative, the queen even spoke about uncomfortable truths ❤
Thanks for listening
What I'm learning here is selflove 😊 and that marriage ain't no fairytale but it's doable
Tiktok, bring me her. I love both of u guys. Madam speaker, thank you for this beautiful interview ❤❤ Queen my queen ❤
She is a straighttalker i relate❤
Its the glow and beauty for me
Love Queen Lee's energy❤❤
Queen Lee i need to be like you this year❤It's just the beginning of the year but everything seems to be falling apart on my side but i refuse to go downwheremy enemies wantsme..
Thank you madam S I love queen Lee I have learnt a lot she’s a vibe ❤❤
Two Queens that I adore. I love you guys
Yes Queen Lee id very outspoken and on point!
Big up to you Queen Lee.....
4 me m struggling with step son ☹️☹️☹️☹️
Am sorry ur going thru that 😔
Tjo I love this womam! The truth she speaks... 🥰🥰 God bless this woman!
Thank you, Madam speaker. Nice show.
Most welcome!
Marriage? I respect it. It's not all glamorous my dear, I've been there and I had to quit bandla.
You weak!
@@sbonzama7013its not like there is a price for being strong!
Queen Lee thank you,,, Ladies let's copy, confidence lives here❤️❤️❤️
What a beautiful and informative session ❤
Thank you
I love queenlee obolela nnete Shem I stand with her
Queen Lee needs to be a marriage counselor.🤞stru!
Hence I had to leave because my ex husband couldn't protect me, I was in hell. My father doesn't talk to me because I asked him to return the lobola.
We need to know our love language, then we can appreciate people around us better. Self love beats them all.
Wow! Beautiful interview, very real, i learnt a lot and thanks to you beautiful ladies❤
I love the words of encouragement ❤👌
Wow wow wow. Thank you Queen Lee
I'm here after watching her podcast about her former marriage, such a painful story.
Same
You said it all Queen Lee, it hits deep ✊
Gueen of gueens our own Gueen Lee❤❤❤❤beautiful and confident 🎉
All that you’ve just said is an honest truth Queen Lee.
Step mothering is not easy, Some stepkids are more challenging than others. Some baby mama come into the mix as well. U need a man with backbone, one who will trust ur judgment with his kids(if u are a fare stepmom, judge and evaluate urself and be honest with urself). A man who has his house in order, will handle his problems, making it easy for u
I wish my sister can watch this 😢 she is in a abusive relationship 😢
Show her this
Wow what a btfl interview , i learn alot here thank you.
That make lots of sense .. Thanks guys
Queen Lee makes total sense to me. I don't understand the hate she's getting
You wil always be my number 1..I literally started watching vlogs last year nd I watched urs from wayyyy bck jst so I can be up-to-date nd I am keep on keeping on God bless❤
Wow, thank you
As someone who wants pretend and now know the signs of pretending umm its hard out there😊
My favorites ladies together much ❤
Madam speaker very beautiful lady and ur voice is amazing
Madam speaker ♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️
Speaking for the rest of the continent: young women who get inspired in your space. This one I got lost in the language….
Sounds really rich though…. ♥️♥️
Queen 👑 Lee said all the truth's 😊 I have learnt a lot from this
Thank you for sub titles, we can follow the story effortlessly, BUT you stopped them halfway and we are lost again. Your international followers love you.❤
Exactly I wish all the podcast can do this❤❤
My apologies I couldn’t finish interpreting on time. Next time I’ll add subtitles till the end ❤
Yuuu wat an eye opening episode😍
She is brave to talk
Beautiful interview Queenlee❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
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Queen Lee has gained a follower thank you
Very powerful ladies....
👑Queenlee🙌🏽thank you madam speaker
That’s my chomi well done👏👏👏🥰
Aaaaa....wena o mosadisadi.Thus why monna wa gago a go hlokometse. You must organize a women conference and advise them about a marriage. I would love that, Mme. Hohaaa.
Lots of love ladies ❤❤❤
I feel like hurt people, always have hurt language. As much as every marriage has it's challenges, doesn't mean when I talk about my husband I'm bragging. He is my husband, why when one talks about her children or siblings we don't judge, the way one talks about her husband. Haaaaaiiii noooooo. There's no sisterly love here
Nna am not a TikToker but honestly speaking i love you queen 👑💖 and i used to see her video on TikTok 🎉
Yes Queen Lee, red flag is red flag, it won't change to be yellow.
The way i understand Queen Lee❤this was really beautiful to watch
😂😂😂😂Jhooo QueenLee bathong ahhhhh, go na le mathata golo fa
Pretense is a norm to this world...🤞People are victims for being truthful...
I have been there for 25years my ex husband wasn’t protecting me from his family 😢
I think there r ppl who owe Queen Lee an apology
I agree but They won’t apologize shame
I'm one of them but nna I just judge d her cz of her tone not listening to her properly 😢🙏
@@mantelekhitsane8935 I was like that too until one day I listened to all her contents n I learned few things about her that woman is clever n u cn learn a lot from her
She's sounds more impactful when she speaks softly. When she raises her voice shooo ... it sounds like she's fighting and I just loose her 😮
Nna I honestly think that if my ex really supported me and stood by me, I would still be married to him. He was working together with his family to destroy me and he was leading the pack. Queen Lee is right, there love and support of your spouse is very important.
May the Lord keep your family together forever 🙏 ❤❤
Wena you were always right all the time.?
I know about leading the pack yoh it's painful
Eh this women shame😂😂 a re nna i was chosen khanti bona are not chosen by their husbands 😂😂😂
She is preaching self love dear
Lol goneng kere yho 🤣🤣🤣🤣
@@MphoNteo-s1vexactly when interview started I thought she has pride.ego but listening to she encouraging positive like her
If they were chosen by their husbands they wouldn't meddling in other ppls marriages
Yoh low self esteem will make you triggered by a woman saying her husband chose her 💔😭