Coming Out Gay & Ace FT Jackie Ross Lavender
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- Опубликовано: 16 окт 2024
- Coming Out Gay & Ace FT Jackie Ross Lavender
Jackies coiming out ace video : • Thank you, Alice Osema...
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Today i have a special guest sharing his coming out story from being gay to being gay and ace , Jackie has a very special story to tell with emotional , funny and heart warming moments.
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Like anyways love, peace and chicken grease I'll see you when you see me.
Did you enjoy this collab and do you want to see more
Yes please!!!
Yes and Yes Courtney! Thank you Jackie and Courtney
I said so on Patreon, and I will say it again here - yes, I definitely want to see more!
You're delightful together! Of course I want to see more.
I loved this collab so much and yes to more collabs ❤
This turned out wonderful! Great job with the edit, Courtney! It’s felt so emancipating to talk this through with a friend. Appreciate you! Here’s to many more collabs ♥️
I really enjoyed watching it back , you had a great story to tell here's to many more collabs to come
SO appreciate hearing people delve into and helping to articulate
the complexities of being human with all of the incredible diversity of experience - there is such a range of possibilities for sexuality & gender identity. At 60, i am ace, sex positive, non-binary and bi (& wonder what life would've been like if this level of awareness was happening when I was your age.) Big thanks!❤
I'd imagine a whole lot queerer but I know what you mean hopefully this means when I'm 60 I look back and be like I can't remember the world not being so open to being queer.
that "You're almost 30" and "You're over 30" had me bawling and crying!! I feel with you Courtney as I turn 30th next march 😄
I turn 29 next march 🤪 haha
@@Courtney-Jai yeehh! Same month 🎉 also: can't believe you answered me, I'm soo fangirling over here 🙈
Perfect discussion about labels. Love this.
Glad you enjoyed it 😀
Jackie is an absolute gem... huge HUGE fan of his channel.
He was great we plan to make alot more
Aww you guys ❤ I loved this soooo much!!
Would love to see more collabs from you both together! I’d love to see a HeartStopper watch collab 🥰
So I don't see as many of these types of videos anymore, maybe because they are not trending, but these kind of publicized stories, imo, are very, very necessary. There are still, way too many people scared to be themselves because of the unknown. If we share our stories, they too can realize that indeed, it does get better.💚
Two of my faves in one video! Love this collab, you two interact so well together and would love to see more ❤️
I no longer speak to half of my family (nothing to do with sexuality or anything specific, they were just toxic and generally sh*t) so I relate on that level to Jackie's story. 100% here for the message that if someone is toxic you cut them out, whoever they are 👏
This was very informative and it is nice to seeing two guys talking about their experiences. Jackie really has had some experiences and overcome many challenges. He has focus and knows who he is. He has moved past the challenges and can share openly. I feel for him and understand overcoming the difficult background and he still made the right choices. He got out of the toxic situations. It is a journey. It was interesting hearing about your experiences as well. Well put together video Courtney. Keep it interesting and your channel stays interesting. Thank you for the effort.
my favorite two people literally ever you both talking about what you have in common on coming out yet its two very different situations just shows lots of people that there isn't just one way to come out and there isn't just one kind of reaction thank you guys hope to see more of y'all honesty y'all bring so much joy and happiness to screen❤
It was wonderful seeing so much beauty, honesty and friendship in this video-- you both seem like such lovely people ❤
I also had a series of a-ha moments because of Alice sharing her beautiful universe with us. I'm almost 50, and I finally understand myself to be aroace (although I've always known I was queer.) My journey started a year ago, and I'm still having a-ha moments. Thank you both so much for sharing with us.
Hi guys. A very interesting and thought provoking video. I am going to watch
Jackie's video at some point. Thank you for this collaboration and luv to you both x
I'm really happy you liked it I really enjoyed filming and editing it
Here’s to more fruitful Collabs and meeting more friends of the channel 👏🏽
Such an interesting interview! I actually discovered I was on the ACE "spectrum" after reading an M/M romance with an ace character on it. I started doing some online research and voilà! At 40 I ended up discovering something precious about myself! 😂
I totally relate to Jackie when it comes to family. I’m still not out to my parents for a lot of reasons. My dad’s homophobic, he says homophobic things whenever something queer related shows up on a tv show or movie and just walks away/storms off. He didn’t even want me to wear a shirt just because it had the word gay on it because he doesn’t agree with what it stands for. My mom is just as bad as he is. Last year, my mom criticized me for wearing a Heartstopper shirt in public when all it was was Nick and Charlie holding each other at the beach scene at the end of season 1. And what’s worse is that she used the “think of the children” excuse. She apologized but it was a half assed apology. The only person in my family I came out to was my sister. She was more accepting but she wasn’t there for me when I was dealing with them, she was too busy making her own family. Now I have suspicions that she might have outed me to her friends, her husband, and to her baby because I’ve seen pictures of her baby wearing a rainbow heart onesie. When I make enough money to move out of my parents house, I don’t ever want to see my family again, I’m sick and tired of revolving around their pretentious, sanctimonious, self absorbed, smug little worlds just so they could stay happy. So yeah, family is so full of shit.
Family is, more often than not, the family you choose not the family you inherit. Sending you so much love, Craig. You've got this ♥
@@JackieRossLavender Thanks Jackie. That means a lot.
i love them both! its wonderful to have now like proper grown ups as role models...also love the way Courtney Jai is listening and also that he doesn't bother to dye his hair, bc it's normal and ok to have some gray hair! it's reality and it's fine❤❤❤
My midlife crisis has now activated hahaha , to be fair, I've had grey hair since I was 21. it's just starting to spread haha.
@@Courtney-Jai oh no, i didn't want to make you feel bad! I love your choice very much bc it makes you so much more credible !
just freaking out that you actually answered me! that means a lot to me
I send all my love and support to all the LGBT people of the world ❤🧡💛💚💙💜 You all are important and very valuable even though we live in a world that makes you all believe otherwise. Remember always be proud of who you are 🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈 You all make from this world a better place ❤🧡💛💚💙💜 LGBT people are a rainbow of love in a world full of hate, but with difference of our straight partners, we all are united over a same flag 🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈 The flag of LGBT love ❤🧡💛💚💙💜 And we all must be united against hate, violence, discrimination and intolerance ❤🧡💛💚💙💜 We all are like a great family and we must fight to destroy hate ❤🧡💛💚💙💜 Remember, LGBT people is love and love always wins ❤🧡💛💚💙💜 I don't care about your race, nationality, biological gender, health condition, religion or any other condition ❤🧡💛💚💙💜 If you are an LGBT person you have all my love and my support ❤🧡💛💚💙💜 You guys are not alone in this fight and all the LGBT people of all over the world needs to understand this messagge, cause just united we will win against hate and we don't have to allow that nothing divide us. Never feel bad of who you are and never allow that this cruel world change who you really are or turn off your light and your shine ❤🧡💛💚💙💜 You all born that way and remember LGBT people of all the world, at the end, love always wins ❤🧡💛💚💙💜
Great collaboration!! Thank you for sharing your stories @JackieRossLavender & @Courtney~Jai ✌️my 12yo aroace identifying son LOVES to see representation 💗
Does anyone know of a great pansexual content creator? Even though that orientation is not addressed in heartstopper the pan flag colors 🩷💛🩵 are like the theme of the show 🌈 and so I felt represented (I used to hate labels but I actually identify as bi-pan-queer these days).
Friend Jamie is pansexual I remember making videos with him a few years ago I have some collabs on my channel you might enjoy other then that I'm not to sure. Also thank you for your kind words ❤️
You and your friend are both so cute! 🥰🥰
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Glad you liked it
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the sound in this was too low. I turned it off.
No one else has had that problem, so I would suggest maybe trying to turn it up either on the phone you're watching it on or the laptop you are using.
i really think the Issac character does a huge disservice to asexual people. just because you're asexual doesn't mean you're anti-social and boring. i see little difference between having your head in books vs your head in your phone when you're in social situations. if they weren't able to put in the effort to have him be a real character, they should have just dropped him. oddly, in the latest comic that dropped it's Tori that is asexual. Tori clearly has tons of personality and is very compelling to know more about her.
Isaac isn't anti social and boring. He's actually very intuitive, opinionated, funny, and excitable... He's just that friend that doesn't just talk to talk, he talks when he has something to say. I was the same way growing up. I read a lot, but I was still listening, still part of the conversation when I had something to add. If you read Isaac as boring, that's on you. The point of him not being a huge part of season 1, is because it was so focused on everyone coupling up and he wasn't a part of that, and that's what happens as friends do that, single friends tend to fall into the background.. and season 2 he had plenty of storyline, and lots of great moments.
@@Newest_editsjustbecause sorry, it's a myth that people can multitask. look it up. the Issac character has no development. the most memorable thing he did was read Harry, but that was pretty minimal in comparison to all of the other characters. but it's still rude to constantly be anti-social. to be asexual doesn't mean you are an emotional black hole. if anything, it frees you to released from the expectations and share.
@@michaelthomas3821 you can't just tell me to "look up" something and have it prove my lived experience wrong, tf? I literally just told you I can read and stay in a conversation. I can read and cook a whole meal. And being someone who reads a lot certainly doesn't make someone uninteresting. Also, "being antisocial is rude"? Excuse the f*ck out of me it is not. Some people have social anxiety, some people feel drained from social interactions, some people don't enjoy being social, some people are more comfortable being in their own world and joining when they feel like it... What is rude is thinking it's okay to shame people for not falling into your social norms. Neurodivergent people also exist, pretty interesting of you to not consider them in what is socially acceptable to you... People don't fit into boxes that way. And he did plenty more outside of the Harry thing. All of his storyline involving James, the way he supported Tao with Elle, the way he helped with prom, he didn't read the entire prom after-party. The way that you're acting like he didn't give a good aroace rep while simultaneously fully dismissing his entire discovery journey, as if it didn't happen, is so backwards. And he's not "an emotional black hole" he's literally so excitable and supportive and silly in most of his scenes... It's like you aren't watching the same character at all.
@@Newest_editsjustbecause i give up. youtube or the mods keep deleting my replies. bye! google Clevland Clinic "human multitasking".
@@michaelthomas3821 no they don't they're all still there..