Let's say it's 10 minutes per 6 hours. (because i think this person was using it few times a day) Then 40 minutes per day 40*30=1200 minutes per month (approximately) 1200*12=14400 minutes per year Now let's see how many hours: 14400/60=240 hours 240/60=4 days So that person is wasting 4 days per year. That's a lot of precious time being wasted, my friend... (eventually we cen do this: 40*365=14600 minutes per year 14600/60=243,(3) hours 243,(3)/60=4,0(5) days Don't waste time, make it useful)
@@neronorth4014 And if other people are observing, and after noticing how great the new efficient way is, they want to copy it (because why wouldn't they, who doesn't love efficiency?), the collective benefit is even greater.
@@Niko_from_Kepler that’s not what I’m doing at all. This video is supposed to be funny, so most of the comments aren’t supposed to be taken too seriously. Edit: also, generalising a personality type is literally what this video is doing.
@@Niko_from_Kepler MBTI and astrology are very different. One is based on a scientific theory from last century, the other is just superstition. I'm not saying that MBTI should be taken seriously at all, i disagree with that view, but it is very different from asserting that planets and stars affect your personality.
@@MaleINTP Don’t get me wrong. I agree that MBTI isn’t even close to the foolishness of astrology. I just criticised that MBTI is treated by its users, just like astrology is treated by people who believe in it.
I feel when INTJs procrastinate something that will increase their effectiveness in long term they have this terrible horrid feeling inside them that keeps eating away at their soul and stress them out until they do it.
I just wait till it bugs me enough…and there’s usually a tipping point. If you’re in tune w/ your own flow & the flow of the universe, there’ll often be a point of synchronicity, where the project that’s long been procrastinated on just falls into place, and it’s not painful to execute on. You live long enough and pick up on this pattern (I’ll be 47 soon), so if I know that something bugs the hell outta me, I let it sit until the right moment because it ALWAYS arrives if it’s meant to be carried out. For us, the contemplation is what takes up most of our time & energy. The ACTUAL job is quick & simple, in comparison.
My partner (INTJ) death-stared at me on our first date and said: "I can tell you how the world works, how everything works, but I warn you... The truth will tear you apart."
@@unowno123 In my case your half right. Luck is a tricky concept in games for it can be calculated thus predicted. This means a fun challenge to overcome in short games or overbearing stress in drawn out games. It forces variables in a path I take towards my goal. Aka the Ni Se loop. Ni tries to adjust my path (to avoid all possible failures there can be) and Se picks up what's happening around me. Se becomes input. For ONE input, Ni want to see all outputs (let's say 10). Then narrow it down to 1 output that pushes me toward my goal. The problem is when there are to many inputs continuously changing and adding up when I'm simultaneously computing outputs and choosing which of them will help me. Overworked Ni and Se stress is to much in long rng games. So short rng games or long games with little rng are fun/ rewarding experiences for me. Se is limited in them so Ni can play around.
Also INTJ: might not update the system to improve efficiency but forever live with the gnawing feeling that they could be updating the system but they are procrastinating because they dunno how long they will be using the said thing to invest their precious free time into it.
Exactly. Kind of like an analysis-paralysis. The system is clearly inefficient and can be improved. However making the said improvement is also time consuming, and that time can be used more efficiently. Is it more efficient to improve the system and use time or is it more efficient to use the unorganized and time consuming system?
These are the projects we work on when there’s LITERALLY nothing else to do, and we’d rather do this thing than sit around idly. It’s handy to have those kinds of projects, too, that are at the bottom of the to-do list, or that you know will always exist because no one else will ever do something about it.
@@MoPoppins idk about you dude, I love sitting around idly than wasting my time doing things that I am not so interested in. The idea that INTJs don't like to wind down even during loops and grips is kinda eh.
I could design a much more efficient system if I would just learn javascript or possibly C++, but I haven't been able to mentally justify the time expenditure.
As an INTJ dating an INTP I can tell you with confidence: he is the one that would propose a "more efficient" solution that actually adds three years to the process.
@@yurizafurizaki5574 I frequently get into arguments with INTP coz of this. Speed and efficiency are most of the times say 80% of times the same thing. A more efficient system is faster and a faster system is more efficient. INTP's mind summary: You're either perfect or not perfect. Everything in between the 80% efficiency or 20% efficiency doesn't matter, they are same. So basically they either spend 10 years to save 10 mins or use the inefficient method and lose 10 mins every single day. So they basically either ace the exams or fail at all. They won't even think of doing it step by step one at a time. Stop your thinking and do the 5 mins of work. I am not asking you to do hella lot. Whatever you're proposing is 9000x times harder than what I am proposing so listen to me. And the INTP is like: NVM, You will never understand my problem. And I'm like: But I just gave you the complete foolproof solution. INTP: Nah it isn't that big of a deal. I really don't want the solution. Me: WTF Bro. You have been thinking about this for last 5 years and procrastinating everything bro. How is it not a big deal? And the INTP goes again: NVM, You will never understand my problem. Well ENTPs and ESTPs will at least strike back so they are more fun at least and they also make good points.
@@dimensionalblade2778 as I said, that's the downside of not possessing Ti. You think they're the same, no they're not. But you have a different way of thinking, and idk what INTP you met that it took them 5 years just to think of something, that's super slow. You sure they're dominant Ti? Dominant judgers are fast. It's perceivers that are slow. or, are you conflating laziness and INTP? I am an INTP myself. I have never had to think of something for years. I'd get bored by it and abandon it few days later. The thing with Te people is, they want things fast, quick, for the sake of efficiency, they absolutely ignore all the details. But then it fails midway and so things are delayed to fix it. I'd rather 5 years of perfecting something but then it works forever so the job gets done smoothly. This is efficiency.
@@yurizafurizaki5574 Well that's the downside of not possessing Dominant Ni and not being able to see ahead and literally not possessing Te. Coz you'd realize that "Yes they're not same but it doesn't matter this time. Coz the work that needs to be done increases speed which increases efficiency. Here's the Te part: Most people are dumb and lazy so we can't really explain them everything. They just need to know what needs to be done. "Speed=Efficiency is the contextual and temporary truth that lasts until project ends." Speed!=Efficiency is the permanent truth. Efficiency has way more parameters. INTPs ignore others' thinking completely if they know they're right. They won't even try to find out how such stupidity originates from. That's why they can be rigid and oblivious to the actual and contextual truth if they believe it to be wrong based on their pre-assumptions. Also 5 years is just an exaggeration.
I’m an INTJ. My parents would always ask why I wouldn’t wear a coat to school when it was cold out. Most kids do this because they think they are somehow tough for being cold. I don’t wear a coat to work because I know, ultimately, that I will be inside for 9 hours, and outside for 5 minutes. It is simply inefficient to waste time grabbing a coat I will not use.
True. . . 2.the hit of the open cold air is better for our immunity 3. It burns our fat 4. Makes you more adaptable to cold and so lower electricity bills on heating
Your way of thinking is logical. Extremely in fact. Even as an INTJ myself I would’ve wore a coat during both the outside and winter from how cold it was in both.
🤣 I know an INTJ who is chill, but put that person in front of anything that is inefficient or done poorly and it impacts him.... let's just say his wrath is unleashed.
@@Diaming787 true I'm more calm and observing and if I think that they can handle my opinion or truth or they need suggestions or strategy then I would give them if not then I won't -intj
How is it like to be an intp and intj couple? Just wondering because those types are likely want to be a scientist when they're a kid or I might stereotypes it but I'm curious
I’m an INTP guy with an INTJ girlfriend, we live together. It’s neat living with an advanced AI that will figure out the bests of everything with ruthless accuracy.
So, my dad is an INTJ. And he directs all his evil genius energy into good causes and first and foremost out of the house. He is a great dad. Just recently heared a story about him destroying the argument of a loud mouthed work colleague, who tried to belittle my father's protégé's work, so dad put him back into his place with one little comment. My mother (ISFJ saint) did say though, that he was pretty annoying and demanding when he was younger.
@@annieasha Fine. I'm gonna leave it the way it is though, this grammatical exception makes no logical sense whatsoever. Maybe this will help against the boredom you must have to go around correcring youtube comments, so come at me if you will.
@@julyol119 Curious as to your opinions and observations on your parents' relationship. I'm an INTJ male with an ISFJ female and...it's difficult, to say the least.
I'm an ISFP and I had an INTJ boss a few years back. I can say this is 100% accurate to how she spoke to me. I cannot tell you how many times I walked into her office and saw her looking at me like 0:03. 😂She could be in a great mood but she'd just stare at me like that as I approached. It took me a while to adjust to her way of communicating and mannerisms. She was such a quietly interesting person and I sometimes wonder if we could've been friends. I'll always remember how happy she got when I gave her a painting I'd done. If any INTJ's out there have an ISFP buddy just know if they're anything like me they probably think you're pretty cool.
Someone recently said to me, “All Spanish music sounds the same, fight me on it.” I said I could destroy that argument but I don’t have the energy to do so because I was playing a video game at the moment lol
He was probably introduced to reggaeton since it's the most famous type of Spanish music. He must have assumed "all Spanish music sounds like that" because pretty much all reggaeton music sounds the same.
Haha I needed this laugh after getting into a big fight with someone on Reddit and basically ripped them apart for being inefficient, illogical and indulgent in their emotional argument.
I consistently get INTJ results on personality assessments but I’m actually an INFJ with strong Ti. Essentially, this video rings somewhat true for me, internally. But I’d be far warmer and smiley with my delivery. As I compose this comment, it’s dawning on me how that could be even scarier, I suppose. 🙃
Honestly INFJs are scarier to me than INTJs. Most of the traits of an INTJ, but with the ability to understand people and emotions. That's just terrifying. -An INTJ
I also get typed as both intj and infj... The moment i knew i was intj was when i was able to start rationalise my emotions and tried to do the same for others.(eg we had a death in the family and my way if processing it was trying to help my mother by saing comforting things while trying not to cry -too much-. ) Also an other example. A friend of mine had failed a bunch of courses and she was afraid the same would happen again (so she wasn't have motivation to so she would fail again - see any problem there) so i gave here my notes and went to help her study, while saying everything's gonna be ok, just do your best etc.... After some time (ofc she failed) she tried to ghost me and after i asked her straight wtf happened she told me i was the problem cause i was stressing her out. I should had let her fail. She never spoke to me again. That hurts a lot still to this day. My point it is... Idk i thought i was helping her but apparently i didn't lol idk Plus my experience with an infj.... It was pretty scary and had a ton of drama in it, but i save you the details and i leave it at this: she wanted to spent more time with me so she tried to cut me off from my friends, and when that didn't work she stopped talking to me, and when i asked wtf mate she said that i had ruined our friendship by not spending time with her W T F ... That would have been solved if she talked to me You guys INfJ's are scary I would love your humble view with this matters actually if you have time at some point, i hope this ain't creepy. Sincerely, an INTJ
@@fayem4091 I'm not the OP but as an INFJ (who also types as INTJ frequently, must be a thing), I assure you we're not all like that, or at least I hope lol. Manipulating someone like that sounds really messed up and I think only really immature people or people with some other problems do that. Can't speak for everyone, but I love my friends and hate drama like the plague, especially when it's unnecessary. I could see why communication might be a problem, sometimes it's hard to say things directly when you don't want to hurt someone. There are times when I avoid bringing up something that could disrupt the harmony in some way, even if it would be better to. I personally don't like that about myself though and it's definitely not an excuse to then go and hurt someone indirectly (that's even more messed up honestly and I can see why you think INFJs are scary). There are bad people everywhere though, I don't think it always has to do with their personality type. Also, just wanted to say wtf to that friend ghosting you, you went out of your way to help her and she blamed you for... helping her? You probably did help her a lot but if she didn't even appreciate it and blamed you for her own actions then that's just... her fault. Maybe she was stressed and mad at herself, but still. Anyway, hope this helped in some way and wasn't too long lol. I don't even know why I wrote this comment, I usually don't write comments, but tl;dr: you sound like a caring person and good friend, hope you encounter nicer INFJs next time :D
@@kirastrophic thanks a lot mate ! So happy you reply! I truly admire you guys you know ? I mean you bent over backwards to help people (most of the time). You have a thing ~the feels~ you know? If you came to me with a problem my immediate reaction is to help you solve it, instead of just listening. It's a bit bizarre because i am someone who rants a lot (its part of my humour-like at least i am not her- type of humour but i usually bring people down) and i usually just want someone to tell me it's ok you got this(basically emotional support). So i get why i should just shut up and listen to the other people problems, but after a long while, i will just be like along the very metaphorical lines of "well i now understand the problem and the root of it is this, so you must do x,y,z to solve it" Same thing with my own problems i know how to solve them(the most apparent of them)... But i just don't... Basically you guys, are heroes, but more like legends, cause i never met anyone else than that girl, also the first girl in the same university like me? She was an esfj (medium chance to be esfp cause she couldn't organise her studies to save her life, but she was a good cook, and loved animals both need some organisation so idk) Why i said the last part? Cause i cannot stand some people (i am not taking about ideas here just you know... Their attitude) and i have found out that i especially hate most arrogant extroverts And you guys seem to be getting along so great with *Everyone* and with your opposite types (fucking esfp's i believe everyone hates them !!!) Most people don't like me cause i will speak my mind (mostly politely but firmly) if we disagree, and yes i will be honest here, a lot of time i do the Devi's advocate just for discussion's shake ... And you guys do that all the time if for instance you want to stop conflict and nobody hate you for it. So sorry for the long post, i hope i didn't make it weird, i just had some thoughts to share ...thank you for replying and i for what is worth a random stranger here wishes you the very best.
@@fayem4091 Wow omg thanks for such kind words :) I feel kinda reluctant to just accept it, I don't think I'm that good of a person and catch myself being selfish a lot, maybe other INFJs are better haha. I like listening to people because it's just my default and of course it's nice when other people listen to me as well (everyone wants to be understood sometimes). But I think every person has their own way of helping others and honestly, I really like and respect people who are direct and honest and offer solutions logically. It's also a form of comfort, because it shows you're taking the time to think about my problem and want to help me solve it. I don't think one way is better than the other, I guess most people just can't appreciate logic for what it is sometimes? and can get offended. But in a way your approach to helping is much more useful and authentic I think. Every person is cool in their own way Also yeah I don't like people too sometimes (it's usually extroverts for me as well :D). Can get along with them but just... subtly distance myself or if they're really bad, subtly but sarcastically argue with them. Maybe I should adopt more debating skills from you INTJs and just directly argue with them haha And thanks! As a fellow stranger I wish you all the best as well edit: spelling lol
"I did warn you" -> "No, you didn't" -> "Do I look like I have time to warn people?" Thats me, along the lines of "No, but I was just thinking it REALLY FUCKING HARD at your general direction & dropping different hints & information bits when relevant since I know you don't take direct advice anyway & don't feel like a time sink."
LOL!!! I’m an ENFP married to an INTJ and Darth Vader has been his hero all his life lol. Other famous words he says is “Choose your next words carefully for they may be your last” and “I’m sorry, say that again”. Those don’t get said to me obviously. Lol!
@@soapmaker2263 Him with his 3 daughters is priceless. He wanted boys… he knew what principles he would instill in them, how he would raise them, etc… he had all girls, so he just slightly adjusted and moved forward with his plans. His daughters are take no shit, empowered, non feminist, amazing women. His oldest is actually an INTJ as well. Myself and those three and his father all get away with everything. Everyone else in the world… yea Darth Vader in that charming weirdo way that you still might die. Lol. And he needs his alone time to recharge from having to be social for too long or he gets “cranky.”
Man I need me an INTJ friend, they’re like the only type that actively enjoys tearing down hopes and dreams for the purpose of efficiency. I seem to have that problem too. Just with a different kind of feel. Lol
Haha, guilty as charged. All though, I haven't quite done the intimidation tactics for Monopoly yet. I've come to find that Monopoly seems to require a little bit more of that Extroverted manipulation of the ESTP or ENTJ to win, so it would seem silly to foresee my inevitable victory only to crumble to shambles in defeat.
The first one got me! Lol, I'll find myself saying "I told you so" to people and then realizing that I actually never told them, I was just thinking about how stupid it was to myself, but if I actually care about you, I'll probably tell you it's stupid so that you don't waste your time on it. (So take it as a compliment if I take time out of my day to tell you all the reasons your plan is stupid.) -INTJ
I keep getting new jobs, rebuilding their software, and then leaving because there's no work left and all the customers are happy. Except for my current job, it's too big to rebuild 😔
Job security! But seriously, just break it down into sections, or if that won't work, outline it like a book. I once tackled a problem that refused to be solved, so I rewrote the whole damn program side by side with the old one, and the new one worked, so I just swapped it out for the old one. I still don't know what was wrong with the old one.
What a fantastic way to begin Monday morning! The desire to spend lots of time and effort to save a lot of time and effort is spot on - especially when reorganizing someone else's system for them.
Oh. Emotions... So useless and the same time so needed to understand people reactions to what you are saying... At least, when you are working to improve in social skills.👌
@@tralaritralarajiju2652 haha yes, emotions are at best an orienting feature. Beyond that it's more like a constant low-key sociological experiment with oneself to determine how best to play with others.
Maybe cause im female and older than 20.... im not this dark. I mean im usually wearing black but the "I told you so" is said with a self-enjoyed smirk thst my profecy has come to pass lol, rebuilding dumb systems is what I live for and I will crush your soul at Monopoly (while talking a lot of smack to let you know you're going down!!😅).
When I don't warn people about problems, it's usually because I don't expect them to take it well. If someone wants to play a game in which I will just destroy them, I might ask "are you sure?" but more likely than not, I'll just grin & giggle to myself & agree to play. Mind you, that low giggle *is* your warning.
Innocent person: "Excuse me, if you could do this one thing for me, it'd make me very happy." INTJ: "Why do I care if you're happy? I don't even know you." And the thing is, they wouldn't have any malicious intent while saying it. But since I'm an INTP, on the whole I like them. I always say that I never have to walk away from a conversation with them wondering what they meant by something, because they told me what they meant.
I was friends with a woman for a while who told me I was the only person she didn't have to dumb down her conversation for. She talked insanely fast, too, making it difficult for other people to follow her train of thought, even if they could understand the words.
@@anonygent YES. There are a lot of people in the world who think that "conversation" involves just making sussurating simultaneous mouth noises at one another as a bonding experience. INTJs appreciate that the bonding comes from building ideas together, so they listen to the content of the talking and develop the ideas instead of just hearing social babble. Attempting to have conversations with the other types drives me batsh*t.
@@jcortese3300 My nephew is INTP. He will occasionally barrage me with a wall of words on some esoteric aspect of philosophy, and while I'm not as versed as he is, I will respond with a simple question that undermines his own whole construct. His typical response to me is, "Goddammit," because he hadn't thought of that.
I am an INTP, too. And I agree that I like INTJs, too. Even though I didn't met one in my real life. But, I can see how much I agree with them and love the way they are thinking.
That is an absolutely pathetic and intentionally malicious thing to say lol. No.. not malicious.. fragile, hollow and pathetic that’s intentionally aiming at malicious.
My INTJ loves games, provided they're strategy-heavy enough that luck cannot determine an outcome on its own, provided that strategy does not hinge on language or creativity (Balderdash is the only game I've ever played where I can absolutely trounce everyone - I'm fluent in BS). Which means I do not want to play with him. It's like being $#@!%&* suffocated. I mean, we all know there's no chance in hell I'm gonna win. - an ENFJ
It will take hours to fix it but you save 5 min Me trying to have 0 crap at large surfaces in order to get rid of the dust easier. Dreaming of putting all of my kitchen utensils and appliances to hang from the celling for easier access (like in restaurants) Dreaming of Having a special self for spices and nuts so i can have them at an arms length I never felt more like an INTJ in my life
This video is so accurate! Found myself laughing at some of the idiosyncrasies that are just too relatable. I often say: “Do you really want to play this game with me?” when challenged (obviously accompanied by a death stare). It’s interesting to me to “see” what other people may experience when dealing with me. As an INTJ, I approve of this message. Thanks, Nathan! Christie, RSA 🇿🇦
My ESFJ mother who loves monopoly thinks because she's "mother" she gets to win because I should allow her to by letting her play her one and only strategy. Never! Lol I show no mercy and take no prisoners! 😆
I created the system. I had a database to download the raw numbers, run queries, graph the histograms/pareto charts and projections, detect the most likely causes by type or category etc for defects and nonconformances. I could spit out the reports by weekly, monthly, quarterly, etc. Simultaneously, I could track and report all inspection and acceptance/rejection activity. I did in one day or two, what had taken 2-3 weeks before.
The worst part is when people call you asking for advice and then get hurt, for some reason, when you say the best thing to do is obvious and they're stupid for not seeing otherwise.
@@BombshElle_7 Shame is a powerful motivator. It really doesn't matter to me if people feel good about the truth, just that they know it. Sometimes, we are wrong, we make assumptions off base and hurt people that don't deserve it. The majority of the time, we deal with people exactly they way they deserve to be dealt with. And if someone came to you for the 12th billionth time, complaining about the exact same thing you already told them the proper solution to, you'd be agitated as well.
@@thefreshestslice4105 I can agree with your reasoning now that you've added context to your original comment. You're actually more patient with people than me. Lol. I assumed you were being that typical textbook INTJ who hates people in a "Dr. House" kind of way. I'm an INTJ and I can't stand when others behave like that. 😒 Sorry.
The monopoly part reminded me of when I was playing with some friends the other day. The game consisted of them, in two teams, putting people on some train tracks, and at that moment it was up to me (INTJ) to decide which one the train should go through. Friend 1: Kill those in that lane! They are all the people who will vote the opposite of you in the elections! Me: But why would I kill them? I just have to vote the opposite of what I want and they will all vote for the result I really want. I can control their votes. I would practically control the country. Friend 2 (defender of that lane): ... I wanted you to save them, but now you scare me. Jajajajaja. (I'm sorry if my English is not very good ^^").
That example of system seem so true. But 3 years is okay if u could boost up the process by 50 percent minus 3 years, if ppl be using that system for a very long time that would add up to so much more time that can be used efficiently. However they should consider if will they actually use it long enough?
An INFP here, maybe not all INTJs are the same. I do have 3 INTJ friends who can be total assholes at times, also fearless and savage and gotta tell ya, I find it funny again coz all three has different levels of ruthlessness. They stand up for me and friends they care about and they loyal and I love them (Not to forget, three of them equally hate defeat🤣🤣)
Even though ENTPs and INTJs are like opposites, I think we’re very similar; I personally at least can say that we both value efficiency and perfection in systems, although maybe our attention span is a lot lower.
As an INTJ who was building a system with ENTP, I agree. I held the long term vision and the ENTP problem-solved around it till we reached the goal. It's a great partnership for system building. The man difference is that ENTP cares thst the internal logic is exact, which takes too long for INTJ. INTJ cares that it works, any kinks in logic can be worked out in testing 😀. In the end you just reach a compromise on logic vs. Effectiveness and keep it going. ENTP needs the INTJ to keep the course forward and "get things done" but the INTJ would struggle to get to the goal without ENTPs ability to problem-solve around issues and people.
My mom and my mom's friend (/my friend's mom) "hate" playing a certain card game with me because everything will be going normally, and then I'll suddenly take nearly the entire discard pile and start laying cards down left and right. I don't always win... but I usually win.
the last bit is literally me with my sister.. since we brought that game, she never won a single game against me. but even then, she insists on playing with me once more.
Sounds like INTJ would benefit from uploading their mind to the internet, then 3D printing a new body from titanium alloy because flesh only weakens and dies, right? LOL
Not monopoly 😭. For some reason I always roll the absolute worst numbers and end up in jail a dozen times. Monopoly and I just never work out. Love all other games though.
"As an ISTP I don't need an INTJ." is honestly as far as it goes with us most of the time and boy do we FEEL it. Istps are too cool for school with us. We really like them, but they don't need us at all, lol. 😂 I wonder if each type has a kind of "unrequited idolization" pairing.
My INTP daughter is dating and ISTP and I’m so glad. Maybe he can get her to learn how time passes since I have not been able to get her to focus long enough to acquire that information.
@@screamingmimi90 Good luck with that. Keeping track of time isn‘t an ISTP‘s strength, at least in my case it isn’t. For me time passes in big junks. You start working on something during the day and the next time you check the clock it‘s the middle of the night. 😉
ENTJ version - Disappointed friends: How did it go? well did you say this...well did you do this... did you wear that...well it sounds like it was doomed to fail from the start...let me tell you where you went wrong....go get a pen and paper.. after this you have to call them and go back" Broken stuff: "is it broken? how long will it be at the repair shop? ok buy a new one, I don't care how much it costs just make sure it gets here before 8am... no you don't need to buy the insurance it's a scam!" Games: "Oh its just a game, it's fun, I'll take it easy on you. You will love it. I will explain it as we go. **winning intensifies** ARE YOU CRYING?! IT's MANCALA! if you knew how to count properly you would have won by now. *stunned 8 year old in tears.
INTJ aren't dark like this, this robot is a big part inside us, but we have also human needs and humor (often sarcastic and "trollic" because we love testing limit of people)
INTJs seem interesting to me. I've always idolized logical people to an extent and been critical of myself for being "too emotional" and "not logical enough" (at least according to my personal standards). I feel like I take things personally sometimes so I'd definitely look funny getting offended by something such as others testing my limit haha. It makes me a bit disappointed though because I'd love to be more flexible and get along with others better instead of being this sensitive, and hopefully I'll get there! I know my reply is pointless and I'm generally bad at trying to convey what I want to but hey I guess I tried? 😅 - From an ISFP
@@TA-ox6qg I don't have any ISFP in my friends ! You can be more logical, you have extravert thinking function, even if it's in third place. I married to ISFJ and my little brother is an INFP, and I have two sisters INFJ and ESFP. So I was all my life with emotional people and I love them. I use my thinking to try to understand feelings of others and connecting to them. And I provide my logical to everyone (and protect them for the very extremist logical of my grand brother ESTJ, lol !) I hated emotional people when I was younger, and I was arrogant and think I was the most intelligent. Now I admire them and I see that I have still so much to learn !
@@Razaim01 my INFP friend introduced me to the MBTI types recently and I'm very grateful for them for doing that! They wanted to help me accept and appreciate who I am instead of watching me relentlessly trying to suppress my feelings and acting in a way that is just not me. So I'm looking forward to understanding my type better and using that understanding to improve eventually! Thank you for your response, I wish you and your family and friends all the best!
@@TA-ox6qg It's very interesting, my INFP little brother is also the one that introduced me to MBTI. It's good for you to work on your logic, but it doesn't mean that you need to supress feelings. The logical can help you to reach what your feelings want to reach ! And to me, understanding feelings makes my logic more efficient ans helpfull for others ! I also wish you the best !
Idk what is it with INTJs and demolishing people in monopoly, but it seems to be the case with me and my friends. I really like seeing how things will go in the next steps/events
Very accurate and I have said more or less the exact same thing to my boss at work. His software application is terrible and needs to be rebuilt from scratch......will it actually ever happen I doubt it.
My INTJ sister told me, "The reason I don't call you is because you work on the weekends." And I'm thinking, um, I take every fourth weekend off and I'm flexible. So I told her, my friends are OK with seeing me in the evenings, but the gavel came down - she said nothing in reply - a decision was made gawdammit. It was the second time in a few months that she said it, using the exact same words.
@@justlookalittledeeper9953 I'm a 30's aged Intj sister. You could maybe try suggesting a specific day and hour you have off and try scheduling it with her? Something like,... "Hey, I really miss you and want to hear how you're doing and what you've been up to! I'm free at (Options 1, 2 , or 3 with date and time included). Should we plan a chat?" I mean...I'd respond to that since it has solid dates, options to choose from so as not to feel trapped, and an interest expressed in my feelings and activities. Hope this helps!
I feel bad when i talk to people and end up judging them even though I'm not judging them, but it's like judgment for them and idk how to stop myself that's why I prefer not to talk 🗿
As an ISTP, having an INTJ coworker try to "fix" my process is infuriating. Half the time it introduces new problems and takes a ton of work that could have been avoided. Sometimes I suspect people who love INTJs are just easily impressed. They can be geniuses, sure, but that does not make them right about MY work.
ISTP’s architecture will be cheaper, easier to repair, and be made of traditional geometric shapes. The people building it will enjoy their work, and be happy to move on to the next project! INTJ’s architecture does neither of those things, and the builders hate it. However, the residents will feel closer to divinity, be less likely to kill themselves, and the structure WILL need expensive repairs but at less intervals. ISTPs are machinists. INTJs are psychologists.
INTJs will spend hours rebuilding a system, just to save 10 minutes.
True
Let's say it's 10 minutes per 6 hours. (because i think this person was using it few times a day)
Then 40 minutes per day
40*30=1200 minutes per month (approximately)
1200*12=14400 minutes per year
Now let's see how many hours:
14400/60=240 hours
240/60=4 days
So that person is wasting 4 days per year. That's a lot of precious time being wasted, my friend...
(eventually we cen do this:
40*365=14600 minutes per year
14600/60=243,(3) hours
243,(3)/60=4,0(5) days
Don't waste time, make it useful)
So accurate
@@neronorth4014 sis did you just write the whole bible?-
@@neronorth4014 And if other people are observing, and after noticing how great the new efficient way is, they want to copy it (because why wouldn't they, who doesn't love efficiency?), the collective benefit is even greater.
Helping people making their lives more efficient is just how we show people we care about them. We're just trying to help.
You are taking MBTI way too seriously. Your type does not define you and it is not good to generalise a whole personality type.
@@Niko_from_Kepler that’s not what I’m doing at all. This video is supposed to be funny, so most of the comments aren’t supposed to be taken too seriously.
Edit: also, generalising a personality type is literally what this video is doing.
@@shinetropolis4175 then you seem to be a clever person. Many people here treat their (more or less valid) score like 21st century astrology.
@@Niko_from_Kepler MBTI and astrology are very different. One is based on a scientific theory from last century, the other is just superstition. I'm not saying that MBTI should be taken seriously at all, i disagree with that view, but it is very different from asserting that planets and stars affect your personality.
@@MaleINTP Don’t get me wrong. I agree that MBTI isn’t even close to the foolishness of astrology. I just criticised that MBTI is treated by its users, just like astrology is treated by people who believe in it.
I feel when INTJs procrastinate something that will increase their effectiveness in long term they have this terrible horrid feeling inside them that keeps eating away at their soul and stress them out until they do it.
Yes. Very accurate.
I just wait till it bugs me enough…and there’s usually a tipping point. If you’re in tune w/ your own flow & the flow of the universe, there’ll often be a point of synchronicity, where the project that’s long been procrastinated on just falls into place, and it’s not painful to execute on.
You live long enough and pick up on this pattern (I’ll be 47 soon), so if I know that something bugs the hell outta me, I let it sit until the right moment because it ALWAYS arrives if it’s meant to be carried out.
For us, the contemplation is what takes up most of our time & energy. The ACTUAL job is quick & simple, in comparison.
@@MoPoppins I’m going to make my husband read this the next time he suggests we purge our closets on a weekend.
This only happens to me when I have not set the deadline myself. I hate it when other people spend my time without my permission.
Yes, exactly! And quite frankly, this helps me to better know the voice of my higher self screaming at me lol. Love
INTJs are not in danger. They are the danger.
Lol
Watch it
We are the ones who knock.
Oh, I don't know about that...
Just have an ESTP flirt with them (irl).
lol 😈
Sometimes to themselves
My partner (INTJ) death-stared at me on our first date and said: "I can tell you how the world works, how everything works, but I warn you... The truth will tear you apart."
I know I'm not supposed to laugh at this but... 🤭🤣
Lol this is gold
You're saying there were second dates? 😂 you must be a catch then
Why did you go back for a second date? And what is your type?
That's as edgy as edgy goes 🤣
"Would you like to play Monopoly?"
INTJ: "We ... will ... tear your soul apart!"
Uhh.. We who?
INTJ: "I hate monopoly."
INTJs hate monopoly as it involves luck, they probably much rather enjoy small world and war of whispers
@@unowno123 In my case your half right.
Luck is a tricky concept in games for it can be calculated thus predicted. This means a fun challenge to overcome in short games or overbearing stress in drawn out games.
It forces variables in a path I take towards my goal. Aka the Ni Se loop.
Ni tries to adjust my path (to avoid all possible failures there can be) and Se picks up what's happening around me.
Se becomes input. For ONE input, Ni want to see all outputs (let's say 10). Then narrow it down to 1 output that pushes me toward my goal. The problem is when there are to many inputs continuously changing and adding up when I'm simultaneously computing outputs and choosing which of them will help me.
Overworked Ni and Se stress is to much in long rng games. So short rng games or long games with little rng are fun/ rewarding experiences for me. Se is limited in them so Ni can play around.
INTP: tear apart my soul and experience suffering...............sounds like fun
Also INTJ: might not update the system to improve efficiency but forever live with the gnawing feeling that they could be updating the system but they are procrastinating because they dunno how long they will be using the said thing to invest their precious free time into it.
Exactly. Kind of like an analysis-paralysis. The system is clearly inefficient and can be improved. However making the said improvement is also time consuming, and that time can be used more efficiently. Is it more efficient to improve the system and use time or is it more efficient to use the unorganized and time consuming system?
These are the projects we work on when there’s LITERALLY nothing else to do, and we’d rather do this thing than sit around idly.
It’s handy to have those kinds of projects, too, that are at the bottom of the to-do list, or that you know will always exist because no one else will ever do something about it.
@@MoPoppins idk about you dude, I love sitting around idly than wasting my time doing things that I am not so interested in. The idea that INTJs don't like to wind down even during loops and grips is kinda eh.
Updating the system just brings more bugs more often than not, so I prefer- ain't broke, don't fix
I could design a much more efficient system if I would just learn javascript or possibly C++, but I haven't been able to mentally justify the time expenditure.
Me, an INTJ, wanting to show my friend love: "... I can make a spreadsheet for that."
I will also make a spreadsheet to save ten years of making something
Lol so relate. Spreadsheet love is the best kind of love there is ❤
My life is dictated out in spread sheets I swear 🫰😂
Sounds more istj if anything
As an INTJ dating an INTP I can tell you with confidence: he is the one that would propose a "more efficient" solution that actually adds three years to the process.
Not surprised ! cause.. Ti 😂
this Intj confuses efficiency and speed. guess thats the downside of not possessing Ti
@@yurizafurizaki5574 I frequently get into arguments with INTP coz of this. Speed and efficiency are most of the times say 80% of times the same thing. A more efficient system is faster and a faster system is more efficient. INTP's mind summary: You're either perfect or not perfect. Everything in between the 80% efficiency or 20% efficiency doesn't matter, they are same.
So basically they either spend 10 years to save 10 mins or use the inefficient method and lose 10 mins every single day. So they basically either ace the exams or fail at all. They won't even think of doing it step by step one at a time. Stop your thinking and do the 5 mins of work. I am not asking you to do hella lot. Whatever you're proposing is 9000x times harder than what I am proposing so listen to me.
And the INTP is like: NVM, You will never understand my problem.
And I'm like: But I just gave you the complete foolproof solution.
INTP: Nah it isn't that big of a deal. I really don't want the solution.
Me: WTF Bro. You have been thinking about this for last 5 years and procrastinating everything bro. How is it not a big deal?
And the INTP goes again: NVM, You will never understand my problem.
Well ENTPs and ESTPs will at least strike back so they are more fun at least and they also make good points.
@@dimensionalblade2778 as I said, that's the downside of not possessing Ti. You think they're the same, no they're not. But you have a different way of thinking, and idk what INTP you met that it took them 5 years just to think of something, that's super slow. You sure they're dominant Ti? Dominant judgers are fast. It's perceivers that are slow. or, are you conflating laziness and INTP? I am an INTP myself. I have never had to think of something for years. I'd get bored by it and abandon it few days later.
The thing with Te people is, they want things fast, quick, for the sake of efficiency, they absolutely ignore all the details. But then it fails midway and so things are delayed to fix it.
I'd rather 5 years of perfecting something but then it works forever so the job gets done smoothly. This is efficiency.
@@yurizafurizaki5574 Well that's the downside of not possessing Dominant Ni and not being able to see ahead and literally not possessing Te. Coz you'd realize that "Yes they're not same but it doesn't matter this time. Coz the work that needs to be done increases speed which increases efficiency. Here's the Te part: Most people are dumb and lazy so we can't really explain them everything. They just need to know what needs to be done. "Speed=Efficiency is the contextual and temporary truth that lasts until project ends." Speed!=Efficiency is the permanent truth. Efficiency has way more parameters.
INTPs ignore others' thinking completely if they know they're right. They won't even try to find out how such stupidity originates from. That's why they can be rigid and oblivious to the actual and contextual truth if they believe it to be wrong based on their pre-assumptions.
Also 5 years is just an exaggeration.
I’m an INTJ. My parents would always ask why I wouldn’t wear a coat to school when it was cold out. Most kids do this because they think they are somehow tough for being cold.
I don’t wear a coat to work because I know, ultimately, that I will be inside for 9 hours, and outside for 5 minutes. It is simply inefficient to waste time grabbing a coat I will not use.
True. . . 2.the hit of the open cold air is better for our immunity
3. It burns our fat
4. Makes you more adaptable to cold and so lower electricity bills on heating
Your way of thinking is logical. Extremely in fact. Even as an INTJ myself I would’ve wore a coat during both the outside and winter from how cold it was in both.
Very clever, what’d you end up doing with all that extra time?
@@coleeckerman1390 freezing lol
that’s what i did-
🤣 I know an INTJ who is chill, but put that person in front of anything that is inefficient or done poorly and it impacts him.... let's just say his wrath is unleashed.
As someone who has an INTJ partner this is... Somewhat accurate, though I react a bit more positively as an INTP ngl
Just understand that the INTJ's as comical sense are just extreme versions of themselves. You don't see them acting like that in real life.
@@Diaming787 true I'm more calm and observing and if I think that they can handle my opinion or truth or they need suggestions or strategy then I would give them if not then I won't
-intj
How is it like to be an intp and intj couple? Just wondering because those types are likely want to be a scientist when they're a kid or I might stereotypes it but I'm curious
I’m an INTP guy with an INTJ girlfriend, we live together. It’s neat living with an advanced AI that will figure out the bests of everything with ruthless accuracy.
@@ohgodimdead Just as we’d expect. 👍
So, my dad is an INTJ. And he directs all his evil genius energy into good causes and first and foremost out of the house. He is a great dad. Just recently heared a story about him destroying the argument of a loud mouthed work colleague, who tried to belittle my father's protégé's work, so dad put him back into his place with one little comment. My mother (ISFJ saint) did say though, that he was pretty annoying and demanding when he was younger.
Heard.
@@annieasha Fine. I'm gonna leave it the way it is though, this grammatical exception makes no logical sense whatsoever. Maybe this will help against the boredom you must have to go around correcring youtube comments, so come at me if you will.
@@julyol119 Curious as to your opinions and observations on your parents' relationship. I'm an INTJ male with an ISFJ female and...it's difficult, to say the least.
heard*
What type mix did you get from them? :)
Efficiency is the one true joy in life.
Efficiency is sexy
That INTJ stare lmao
I'm an ISFP and I had an INTJ boss a few years back. I can say this is 100% accurate to how she spoke to me. I cannot tell you how many times I walked into her office and saw her looking at me like 0:03. 😂She could be in a great mood but she'd just stare at me like that as I approached. It took me a while to adjust to her way of communicating and mannerisms. She was such a quietly interesting person and I sometimes wonder if we could've been friends. I'll always remember how happy she got when I gave her a painting I'd done. If any INTJ's out there have an ISFP buddy just know if they're anything like me they probably think you're pretty cool.
I’m ISFP too ! And i have an INTJ close friend 😂❤ yes they’re the coolest
It’s always the planning for efficiency. Very accurate. I’m like that when it comes to writing, I won’t start until *everything* is planned
Someone recently said to me, “All Spanish music sounds the same, fight me on it.” I said I could destroy that argument but I don’t have the energy to do so because I was playing a video game at the moment lol
@xraf32 do you speak Spanish?
He was probably introduced to reggaeton since it's the most famous type of Spanish music. He must have assumed "all Spanish music sounds like that" because pretty much all reggaeton music sounds the same.
Haha I needed this laugh after getting into a big fight with someone on Reddit and basically ripped them apart for being inefficient, illogical and indulgent in their emotional argument.
I would've laughed so hard if this was actually funny. Thank you!
@@accountnew7030 haha you're welcome...I guess...? 😏😅
Imaging arguing on Reddit. Whoever wins, everybody loses.
Lol don't be on reddit, just solo entire RUclips or Quora INTJ would still win lol
@@snoweh1I just wanna say this
My partner told me that sometimes the stuff I say makes me sound like a supervillain lmao
We're not that bad.
Edit: I had to rewatch the video after seeing comments about the staring, first time watching it looked normal to me.
🙌🏻
Wait, what staring
As an INTJ, I approve this. You're welcome.
I consistently get INTJ results on personality assessments but I’m actually an INFJ with strong Ti. Essentially, this video rings somewhat true for me, internally. But I’d be far warmer and smiley with my delivery. As I compose this comment, it’s dawning on me how that could be even scarier, I suppose. 🙃
Honestly INFJs are scarier to me than INTJs. Most of the traits of an INTJ, but with the ability to understand people and emotions. That's just terrifying.
-An INTJ
I also get typed as both intj and infj...
The moment i knew i was intj was when i was able to start rationalise my emotions and tried to do the same for others.(eg we had a death in the family and my way if processing it was trying to help my mother by saing comforting things while trying not to cry -too much-. )
Also an other example. A friend of mine had failed a bunch of courses and she was afraid the same would happen again (so she wasn't have motivation to so she would fail again - see any problem there) so i gave here my notes and went to help her study, while saying everything's gonna be ok, just do your best etc....
After some time (ofc she failed) she tried to ghost me and after i asked her straight wtf happened she told me i was the problem cause i was stressing her out. I should had let her fail. She never spoke to me again.
That hurts a lot still to this day.
My point it is... Idk i thought i was helping her but apparently i didn't lol idk
Plus my experience with an infj.... It was pretty scary and had a ton of drama in it, but i save you the details and i leave it at this: she wanted to spent more time with me so she tried to cut me off from my friends, and when that didn't work she stopped talking to me, and when i asked wtf mate she said that i had ruined our friendship by not spending time with her W T F ... That would have been solved if she talked to me
You guys INfJ's are scary
I would love your humble view with this matters actually if you have time at some point, i hope this ain't creepy.
Sincerely, an INTJ
@@fayem4091 I'm not the OP but as an INFJ (who also types as INTJ frequently, must be a thing), I assure you we're not all like that, or at least I hope lol. Manipulating someone like that sounds really messed up and I think only really immature people or people with some other problems do that. Can't speak for everyone, but I love my friends and hate drama like the plague, especially when it's unnecessary. I could see why communication might be a problem, sometimes it's hard to say things directly when you don't want to hurt someone. There are times when I avoid bringing up something that could disrupt the harmony in some way, even if it would be better to. I personally don't like that about myself though and it's definitely not an excuse to then go and hurt someone indirectly (that's even more messed up honestly and I can see why you think INFJs are scary). There are bad people everywhere though, I don't think it always has to do with their personality type.
Also, just wanted to say wtf to that friend ghosting you, you went out of your way to help her and she blamed you for... helping her? You probably did help her a lot but if she didn't even appreciate it and blamed you for her own actions then that's just... her fault. Maybe she was stressed and mad at herself, but still.
Anyway, hope this helped in some way and wasn't too long lol. I don't even know why I wrote this comment, I usually don't write comments, but tl;dr: you sound like a caring person and good friend, hope you encounter nicer INFJs next time :D
@@kirastrophic thanks a lot mate ! So happy you reply! I truly admire you guys you know ? I mean you bent over backwards to help people (most of the time). You have a thing ~the feels~ you know? If you came to me with a problem my immediate reaction is to help you solve it, instead of just listening. It's a bit bizarre because i am someone who rants a lot (its part of my humour-like at least i am not her- type of humour but i usually bring people down) and i usually just want someone to tell me it's ok you got this(basically emotional support). So i get why i should just shut up and listen to the other people problems, but after a long while, i will just be like along the very metaphorical lines of "well i now understand the problem and the root of it is this, so you must do x,y,z to solve it"
Same thing with my own problems i know how to solve them(the most apparent of them)... But i just don't...
Basically you guys, are heroes, but more like legends, cause i never met anyone else than that girl, also the first girl in the same university like me? She was an esfj (medium chance to be esfp cause she couldn't organise her studies to save her life, but she was a good cook, and loved animals both need some organisation so idk)
Why i said the last part? Cause i cannot stand some people (i am not taking about ideas here just you know... Their attitude) and i have found out that i especially hate most arrogant extroverts
And you guys seem to be getting along so great with *Everyone* and with your opposite types (fucking esfp's i believe everyone hates them !!!)
Most people don't like me cause i will speak my mind (mostly politely but firmly) if we disagree, and yes i will be honest here, a lot of time i do the Devi's advocate just for discussion's shake ...
And you guys do that all the time if for instance you want to stop conflict and nobody hate you for it.
So sorry for the long post, i hope i didn't make it weird, i just had some thoughts to share ...thank you for replying and i for what is worth a random stranger here wishes you the very best.
@@fayem4091 Wow omg thanks for such kind words :) I feel kinda reluctant to just accept it, I don't think I'm that good of a person and catch myself being selfish a lot, maybe other INFJs are better haha. I like listening to people because it's just my default and of course it's nice when other people listen to me as well (everyone wants to be understood sometimes). But I think every person has their own way of helping others and honestly, I really like and respect people who are direct and honest and offer solutions logically. It's also a form of comfort, because it shows you're taking the time to think about my problem and want to help me solve it. I don't think one way is better than the other, I guess most people just can't appreciate logic for what it is sometimes? and can get offended. But in a way your approach to helping is much more useful and authentic I think. Every person is cool in their own way
Also yeah I don't like people too sometimes (it's usually extroverts for me as well :D). Can get along with them but just... subtly distance myself or if they're really bad, subtly but sarcastically argue with them. Maybe I should adopt more debating skills from you INTJs and just directly argue with them haha
And thanks! As a fellow stranger I wish you all the best as well
edit: spelling lol
"I did warn you" -> "No, you didn't" -> "Do I look like I have time to warn people?"
Thats me, along the lines of "No, but I was just thinking it REALLY FUCKING HARD at your general direction & dropping different hints & information bits when relevant since I know you don't take direct advice anyway & don't feel like a time sink."
That seemingly sarcastic "So...how did it go?" reminds me too much of myself everytime I try to care about what a friend or family member does.
Yess
This was fantastic, entertaining, and bang on the money. Please do ENTJ next.
LOL!!! I’m an ENFP married to an INTJ and Darth Vader has been his hero all his life lol. Other famous words he says is “Choose your next words carefully for they may be your last” and “I’m sorry, say that again”. Those don’t get said to me obviously. Lol!
Enfp intj couples are adorable. That dynamic is too cute.
@@soapmaker2263 Him with his 3 daughters is priceless. He wanted boys… he knew what principles he would instill in them, how he would raise them, etc… he had all girls, so he just slightly adjusted and moved forward with his plans. His daughters are take no shit, empowered, non feminist, amazing women. His oldest is actually an INTJ as well. Myself and those three and his father all get away with everything. Everyone else in the world… yea Darth Vader in that charming weirdo way that you still might die. Lol. And he needs his alone time to recharge from having to be social for too long or he gets “cranky.”
sounds nice ! but vader is not an intj
Omg 😂 same it happens to me a lot I always warn people and they don't listen to my advices but in the end they regret it 😂😂
Could simplify that first one into "I warned you, and if I didn't it's because I didn't have time." I feel like I've actually heard that. 😂
Yes😂
I felt like I actually said it but probably not because I didn't have the time to waste my time
His wording was inefficient.
Man I need me an INTJ friend, they’re like the only type that actively enjoys tearing down hopes and dreams for the purpose of efficiency.
I seem to have that problem too.
Just with a different kind of feel. Lol
😂😂
Haha, guilty as charged. All though, I haven't quite done the intimidation tactics for Monopoly yet. I've come to find that Monopoly seems to require a little bit more of that Extroverted manipulation of the ESTP or ENTJ to win, so it would seem silly to foresee my inevitable victory only to crumble to shambles in defeat.
It's an Entj's or an Estj's game for sure and a waste of time unless your goal is getting better at playing games. :)
Just make sure not to finish them until it's too late. Or they will gang up early in the game.
The first one got me! Lol, I'll find myself saying "I told you so" to people and then realizing that I actually never told them, I was just thinking about how stupid it was to myself, but if I actually care about you, I'll probably tell you it's stupid so that you don't waste your time on it. (So take it as a compliment if I take time out of my day to tell you all the reasons your plan is stupid.)
-INTJ
I keep getting new jobs, rebuilding their software, and then leaving because there's no work left and all the customers are happy. Except for my current job, it's too big to rebuild 😔
Story of our lives -intj.
Job security! But seriously, just break it down into sections, or if that won't work, outline it like a book. I once tackled a problem that refused to be solved, so I rewrote the whole damn program side by side with the old one, and the new one worked, so I just swapped it out for the old one. I still don't know what was wrong with the old one.
Says “Efficient” in my Seven of Nine voice. The video was also efficient so this INTJ thanks you.
I wonder if these kids know who Seven of Nine is! She was AWESOME.
INTJ: When will you humans learn?
So true
💯
The accuracy.
I have an INTJ friend, he is so much like this 😂
you nailed the death stare😅
What a fantastic way to begin Monday morning!
The desire to spend lots of time and effort to save a lot of time and effort is spot on - especially when reorganizing someone else's system for them.
Oh. Emotions... So useless and the same time so needed to understand people reactions to what you are saying... At least, when you are working to improve in social skills.👌
@@tralaritralarajiju2652 haha yes, emotions are at best an orienting feature. Beyond that it's more like a constant low-key sociological experiment with oneself to determine how best to play with others.
Wow, my sister must be a textbook INTJ - the video and the comments are all accurate!!! Lol!!!
Maybe cause im female and older than 20.... im not this dark. I mean im usually wearing black but the "I told you so" is said with a self-enjoyed smirk thst my profecy has come to pass lol, rebuilding dumb systems is what I live for and I will crush your soul at Monopoly (while talking a lot of smack to let you know you're going down!!😅).
I would find it intriguing to play monopoly with you if your that good. Would you care to roll the dice?
If you didn't know that was gonna be Monopoly, we cannot be friends.
FACTS
it's not 'Sh*t' if we're right!
This.
When I don't warn people about problems, it's usually because I don't expect them to take it well.
If someone wants to play a game in which I will just destroy them, I might ask "are you sure?" but more likely than not, I'll just grin & giggle to myself & agree to play. Mind you, that low giggle *is* your warning.
How did I know you were talking about monopoly? 😂 and the voice 🤣 so funny because it's so true 🙌
Innocent person: "Excuse me, if you could do this one thing for me, it'd make me very happy."
INTJ: "Why do I care if you're happy? I don't even know you."
And the thing is, they wouldn't have any malicious intent while saying it.
But since I'm an INTP, on the whole I like them. I always say that I never have to walk away from a conversation with them wondering what they meant by something, because they told me what they meant.
I was friends with a woman for a while who told me I was the only person she didn't have to dumb down her conversation for. She talked insanely fast, too, making it difficult for other people to follow her train of thought, even if they could understand the words.
@@anonygent YES. There are a lot of people in the world who think that "conversation" involves just making sussurating simultaneous mouth noises at one another as a bonding experience. INTJs appreciate that the bonding comes from building ideas together, so they listen to the content of the talking and develop the ideas instead of just hearing social babble. Attempting to have conversations with the other types drives me batsh*t.
@@jcortese3300 My nephew is INTP. He will occasionally barrage me with a wall of words on some esoteric aspect of philosophy, and while I'm not as versed as he is, I will respond with a simple question that undermines his own whole construct. His typical response to me is, "Goddammit," because he hadn't thought of that.
I am an INTP, too. And I agree that I like INTJs, too. Even though I didn't met one in my real life. But, I can see how much I agree with them and love the way they are thinking.
That is an absolutely pathetic and intentionally malicious thing to say lol. No.. not malicious.. fragile, hollow and pathetic that’s intentionally aiming at malicious.
My INTJ loves games, provided they're strategy-heavy enough that luck cannot determine an outcome on its own, provided that strategy does not hinge on language or creativity (Balderdash is the only game I've ever played where I can absolutely trounce everyone - I'm fluent in BS). Which means I do not want to play with him. It's like being $#@!%&* suffocated. I mean, we all know there's no chance in hell I'm gonna win. - an ENFJ
Exactly why I don't play Monopoly.
Oh my god, it is my nephew! This is so funny
It will take hours to fix it but you save 5 min
Me
trying to have 0 crap at large surfaces in order to get rid of the dust easier.
Dreaming of putting all of my kitchen utensils and appliances to hang from the celling for easier access (like in restaurants)
Dreaming of Having a special self for spices and nuts so i can have them at an arms length
I never felt more like an INTJ in my life
As a 6'2" INTJ, I don't understand why anyone would make shelves at floor level.
This video is so accurate! Found myself laughing at some of the idiosyncrasies that are just too relatable. I often say: “Do you really want to play this game with me?” when challenged (obviously accompanied by a death stare). It’s interesting to me to “see” what other people may experience when dealing with me. As an INTJ, I approve of this message. Thanks, Nathan! Christie, RSA 🇿🇦
Ok that was really funny 🤣
PS: I am INTJ
As an INTJ who played monopoly, it was fun... watching them look horrified and surprised as I... wreck havoc... lol
It's not as fun because most people don't take is seriously as I do.
My ESFJ mother who loves monopoly thinks because she's "mother" she gets to win because I should allow her to by letting her play her one and only strategy. Never! Lol I show no mercy and take no prisoners! 😆
I created the system. I had a database to download the raw numbers, run queries, graph the histograms/pareto charts and projections, detect the most likely causes by type or category etc for defects and nonconformances. I could spit out the reports by weekly, monthly, quarterly, etc. Simultaneously, I could track and report all inspection and acceptance/rejection activity. I did in one day or two, what had taken 2-3 weeks before.
3 years of work for 5 minutes of glory. Sounds about right. 😆
They wanna save so much time...they're wasting their time...Takes an infj to know that lol
That's so f*cking true, it hurts.
“Do I look like I have time to warn people?” Lol
🎶 Are we human or are we INTJ 🎶
The worst part is when people call you asking for advice and then get hurt, for some reason, when you say the best thing to do is obvious and they're stupid for not seeing otherwise.
People cannot handle truth. They are not asking for it when they do.
Did talking down to them solve the problem?
Well if you didn’t ridicule people…
@@BombshElle_7 Shame is a powerful motivator. It really doesn't matter to me if people feel good about the truth, just that they know it. Sometimes, we are wrong, we make assumptions off base and hurt people that don't deserve it. The majority of the time, we deal with people exactly they way they deserve to be dealt with. And if someone came to you for the 12th billionth time, complaining about the exact same thing you already told them the proper solution to, you'd be agitated as well.
@@thefreshestslice4105 I can agree with your reasoning now that you've added context to your original comment. You're actually more patient with people than me. Lol. I assumed you were being that typical textbook INTJ who hates people in a "Dr. House" kind of way. I'm an INTJ and I can't stand when others behave like that. 😒 Sorry.
The monopoly part reminded me of when I was playing with some friends the other day.
The game consisted of them, in two teams, putting people on some train tracks, and at that moment it was up to me (INTJ) to decide which one the train should go through.
Friend 1: Kill those in that lane! They are all the people who will vote the opposite of you in the elections!
Me: But why would I kill them? I just have to vote the opposite of what I want and they will all vote for the result I really want. I can control their votes. I would practically control the country.
Friend 2 (defender of that lane): ... I wanted you to save them, but now you scare me.
Jajajajaja. (I'm sorry if my English is not very good ^^").
Ah yes, losing Tactically while winning Strategically is one of the most common stuff we INTJ´s do lol
I like how its "human" and "intj"
That example of system seem so true. But 3 years is okay if u could boost up the process by 50 percent minus 3 years, if ppl be using that system for a very long time that would add up to so much more time that can be used efficiently. However they should consider if will they actually use it long enough?
I knew it! - that's a very accurate description of monopoly 🤣
The monopoly bit 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
This stare is so hot lol
An INFP here, maybe not all INTJs are the same. I do have 3 INTJ friends who can be total assholes at times, also fearless and savage and gotta tell ya, I find it funny again coz all three has different levels of ruthlessness. They stand up for me and friends they care about and they loyal and I love them
(Not to forget, three of them equally hate defeat🤣🤣)
INFPS rock! -intj
My husband in an INFP and his existential crises are so illogical. But he keeps me human, so I love him enough to bite my tongue. 🙄
Even though ENTPs and INTJs are like opposites, I think we’re very similar; I personally at least can say that we both value efficiency and perfection in systems, although maybe our attention span is a lot lower.
I agree. I get along quite well with INTJs, if they aren't being too high and mighty. The truth-seeking energy is actually quite similar.
As an INTJ who was building a system with ENTP, I agree. I held the long term vision and the ENTP problem-solved around it till we reached the goal. It's a great partnership for system building. The man difference is that ENTP cares thst the internal logic is exact, which takes too long for INTJ. INTJ cares that it works, any kinks in logic can be worked out in testing 😀. In the end you just reach a compromise on logic vs. Effectiveness and keep it going. ENTP needs the INTJ to keep the course forward and "get things done" but the INTJ would struggle to get to the goal without ENTPs ability to problem-solve around issues and people.
"You could not live with your own failure. Where did that bring you? ....back to me"
-Thanos
As an *INTJ* I find it hilarious that the one depicted seems like an evil villain & caricature of a *Scorpio* :D
I'm INTJ and a Scorpio 🤣
I'am an ENTP and a scorpio and I don't act like a scorpio
My wife is an INTJ scorpio and I love it. Very intense and super sweet.
My mom and my mom's friend (/my friend's mom) "hate" playing a certain card game with me because everything will be going normally, and then I'll suddenly take nearly the entire discard pile and start laying cards down left and right. I don't always win... but I usually win.
the last bit is literally me with my sister.. since we brought that game, she never won a single game against me. but even then, she insists on playing with me once more.
Sounds like INTJ would benefit from uploading their mind to the internet, then 3D printing a new body from titanium alloy because flesh only weakens and dies, right? LOL
I never say "I did tell you", I just say "I knew it"
My GF (ESFJ) loves to play games. She hates to lose and gets very emotional about it. I kind of like it and keep winning
I often think I'm speaking a different language while speaking the same
Sometimes people hear what they want to hear instead of what we say. We mean exactly what we say!
@@abbyanderbard if only there was a way to meet like minded people
@@abbyanderbard this. I use as many words as possible when explaining what I've said, but they still don't understand, misquote me, etc. Frustrating.
@@0xdamian816 Yes and yeeeees! And we, or at least I, feel annoying for speaking so much, but would otherwise get completely misunderstood.
@@abbyanderbard indeed. I'm not the speaking type, so it annoys me when I finally speak and no one gets it.
Not monopoly 😭. For some reason I always roll the absolute worst numbers and end up in jail a dozen times. Monopoly and I just never work out. Love all other games though.
So bloody true,I hate the game
3 houses and a hotel apparently
Monopoly boards are forbidden in this house to save loved ones from the horror of systematic destruction 🤣
I already sound like an a*shole so I do be toning it down a bit. LOL (passive aggressive)
0:18 As an ISTP I don't need an INTJ to tell me that. I'm already rebuilding and improving things all the time. :)
"As an ISTP I don't need an INTJ." is honestly as far as it goes with us most of the time and boy do we FEEL it. Istps are too cool for school with us. We really like them, but they don't need us at all, lol. 😂 I wonder if each type has a kind of "unrequited idolization" pairing.
@@abbyanderbard Agreed. ISTPs seem so cool, and I think they could work well with INTJs.
My INTP daughter is dating and ISTP and I’m so glad. Maybe he can get her to learn how time passes since I have not been able to get her to focus long enough to acquire that information.
If you can keep your systems efficient, that is wonderful and less for me to concern myself with. ⭐
@@screamingmimi90 Good luck with that. Keeping track of time isn‘t an ISTP‘s strength, at least in my case it isn’t. For me time passes in big junks. You start working on something during the day and the next time you check the clock it‘s the middle of the night. 😉
As an INTJ I approve.
especially the last one
Why is this so accurate? Hmm, well, I guess this is what I will be thinkung about until 4 in the morning.
OMG the accuracy is so spooky!!
surprised at the Last Part...i didn't know they're gonna play Monopoly
ENTJ version -
Disappointed friends: How did it go? well did you say this...well did you do this... did you wear that...well it sounds like it was doomed to fail from the start...let me tell you where you went wrong....go get a pen and paper.. after this you have to call them and go back"
Broken stuff: "is it broken? how long will it be at the repair shop? ok buy a new one, I don't care how much it costs just make sure it gets here before 8am... no you don't need to buy the insurance it's a scam!"
Games: "Oh its just a game, it's fun, I'll take it easy on you. You will love it. I will explain it as we go. **winning intensifies** ARE YOU CRYING?! IT's MANCALA! if you knew how to count properly you would have won by now. *stunned 8 year old in tears.
INTJ aren't dark like this, this robot is a big part inside us, but we have also human needs and humor (often sarcastic and "trollic" because we love testing limit of people)
INTJs seem interesting to me. I've always idolized logical people to an extent and been critical of myself for being "too emotional" and "not logical enough" (at least according to my personal standards). I feel like I take things personally sometimes so I'd definitely look funny getting offended by something such as others testing my limit haha. It makes me a bit disappointed though because I'd love to be more flexible and get along with others better instead of being this sensitive, and hopefully I'll get there!
I know my reply is pointless and I'm generally bad at trying to convey what I want to but hey I guess I tried? 😅
- From an ISFP
@@TA-ox6qg I don't have any ISFP in my friends ! You can be more logical, you have extravert thinking function, even if it's in third place.
I married to ISFJ and my little brother is an INFP, and I have two sisters INFJ and ESFP.
So I was all my life with emotional people and I love them.
I use my thinking to try to understand feelings of others and connecting to them.
And I provide my logical to everyone (and protect them for the very extremist logical of my grand brother ESTJ, lol !)
I hated emotional people when I was younger, and I was arrogant and think I was the most intelligent. Now I admire them and I see that I have still so much to learn !
@@Razaim01 my INFP friend introduced me to the MBTI types recently and I'm very grateful for them for doing that! They wanted to help me accept and appreciate who I am instead of watching me relentlessly trying to suppress my feelings and acting in a way that is just not me.
So I'm looking forward to understanding my type better and using that understanding to improve eventually!
Thank you for your response, I wish you and your family and friends all the best!
@@TA-ox6qg It's very interesting, my INFP little brother is also the one that introduced me to MBTI.
It's good for you to work on your logic, but it doesn't mean that you need to supress feelings. The logical can help you to reach what your feelings want to reach !
And to me, understanding feelings makes my logic more efficient ans helpfull for others ! I also wish you the best !
The last is so true 😂 I’m an INTP and my family banned playing monopoly in the house because of me 😭
Idk what is it with INTJs and demolishing people in monopoly, but it seems to be the case with me and my friends. I really like seeing how things will go in the next steps/events
Not just saving time, I felt my integrity protected😂
Do more of these!! I want to know the Shit ISTJs say as well xD
A lot of this talk about efficiency also applies to ISTJ, but no one really cares about them.
I agree with the point about efficiency! Feel free to check out the ISTJ videos on this channel and let me know what you think of them! ~ Nathan
Very accurate and I have said more or less the exact same thing to my boss at work. His software application is terrible and needs to be rebuilt from scratch......will it actually ever happen I doubt it.
people underestimate what it is really like to have an INTJ take you apart
My INTJ sister told me, "The reason I don't call you is because you work on the weekends." And I'm thinking, um, I take every fourth weekend off and I'm flexible. So I told her, my friends are OK with seeing me in the evenings, but the gavel came down - she said nothing in reply - a decision was made gawdammit. It was the second time in a few months that she said it, using the exact same words.
@@justlookalittledeeper9953 I'm a 30's aged Intj sister. You could maybe try suggesting a specific day and hour you have off and try scheduling it with her? Something like,...
"Hey, I really miss you and want to hear how you're doing and what you've been up to! I'm free at (Options 1, 2 , or 3 with date and time included). Should we plan a chat?"
I mean...I'd respond to that since it has solid dates, options to choose from so as not to feel trapped, and an interest expressed in my feelings and activities. Hope this helps!
@@abbyanderbard Decent suggestions, thx
I’ve never felt so understood in my life...
I feel bad when i talk to people and end up judging them even though I'm not judging them, but it's like judgment for them and idk how to stop myself that's why I prefer not to talk 🗿
When we're talking to you, we care about you, so much.
Me as working on a job, well this whent quite nicely. Very happy with this, next day. I wonder if i can do it better.......never ending circle.
"And I will try...to fix you." 🎶
That thing about spending 3 years to save 5 minutes ― I thought it was an INFJ thing 😲.
As an ISTP, having an INTJ coworker try to "fix" my process is infuriating. Half the time it introduces new problems and takes a ton of work that could have been avoided. Sometimes I suspect people who love INTJs are just easily impressed. They can be geniuses, sure, but that does not make them right about MY work.
I often find ISTPs to be condescending about INTJs (also vice versa) and it's hilarious. Both are intelligent types.
ISTP’s architecture will be cheaper, easier to repair, and be made of traditional geometric shapes. The people building it will enjoy their work, and be happy to move on to the next project!
INTJ’s architecture does neither of those things, and the builders hate it.
However, the residents will feel closer to divinity, be less likely to kill themselves, and the structure WILL need expensive repairs but at less intervals.
ISTPs are machinists. INTJs are psychologists.
This ENTP Would Tell That INTJ To Go Straight To Hell And Do Not Pass GO. I Love Monopoly!
Just fun fact:Monopoly is A game,Not E-sport(not include app line monopoly)hope to help u😀
@@gilangdirga5922 🤣 He doesn’t know he needs your help so he won’t listen. 🤷🏻♀️
I am an intj and I always think why people use their heart over mind like it super irritates me
Monopoly, any war strategy game...life in general.