INTJ talking to their younger self
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As an INTJ sitting with my laptop in the corner of an unfurnished room, I grace you with my approval.
If it wasn't for upcycling and repairing thrown out furniture, I would be in the same situation.
BUY A DESK!
Sincerely,
another INTJ
I am also an INTJ but my room is sufficiently furnished. The furniture was there when I moved in. And I intend to leave everything that doesn't fit into the trunk of my car. Getting stuff is fun, but owning stuff is annoying.
@@jankom.7783
That is my exact strategy as well. "If it can't fit in the car, it stays behind".
I actually had a bigger executive desk at one point, moved it to storage by renting a truck. When it came time to move everything out of storage, the desk was the only thing that couldn't fit in the car. Was too much a cheapskate to rent another truck, especially for just one desk, so I brought in a power saw, and chopped it into pieces to dispose of it... so yeah, when you say "owning things is annoying", I know what you mean.
Hi I'm an INFJ and I sit in the corner of the room all the time! It's not just your thing...
I love how older INTJ is still very clearly an INTJ lol
Wonder why
Would that normally change?
@@thepickles8833no I just mean that another RUclipsr might make an older version of the type kinda too balanced and a somewhat neutral no-type person
and has the eye narrowing down even more
@@kindauncool😂😊❤😊
"The world moves faster than your plans".
As an INTJ that hit really hard.
It's a realization/lesson I learned years ago and it's still something I'm contending with accepting.
The ENFP bombdrop at the end was gold.
Yes gold quote
Funny cause the remedy I use for this "the world moves faster than your plans," is to always consider taking action to a lot of contegency plans that may come in your way.
As much as possible however, those contegency plans should still be in service to a long-term goal so that life doesn't just become too chaotic for the INTJ.
Same here! It was the most important part of the video for me
@@allesdurchprobiert it isn’t just for you it IS A MESSAGE
@@BuizelCreamit's called the xanatos gambit
INTJ in her 30’s here. Talking to younger INTJ’s feels a LOT like this, lol. “Accept that you have emotions or they’ll rule you.” “FEELER PROPAGANDA! Not a real INTJ!” etc.
Period 👍
I've learn it in a harsh way
@@l-ixir this isn’t about “self help.” Humans are emotional beings. This is an unavoidable fact. I’m not talking about being a mess of touchy feely goo, I’m talking about recognizing when you’re feeling something and being able to deal with it appropriately and responsibly.
"Feeler propaganda" 😂🤕🫣
this hit me in my 30s. yes my 30s. that’s when all my well-laid plans were foiled 😡
Me to my younger self: emotions related issues can't be solved using logic alone. And brush up on your EQ, you're gonna need that for your mental health.
Went through several mental breakdown and 2 mental issues diagnosis to learn that. 😅
It's not that I don't value emotions, but lots of time I'm not even sure what I'm feeling.
“Everyone in this universe looks exactly like me.” Just wow.
That should've been the first clue that they're in a video.
Me throughout the whole video: “I wonder if some of that character development of the INTJ happened because of a marriage to an EXFP” and then the ending happened. I couldn’t be happier
and the intj forever gets caught in a time paradox
seriously though, I married an ENFP and 10 years later I'm actually recognizable as a human.
Yep, the ESFP partner in my life is definitely inverting some aspects of my lesser-developed qualities.
I hope that you repeat this concept 15 more times, Kristin!
I know right I need this for INTP, it was hilarious
Me too, can't wait for INFJ
ESTP would go hard for this one
Sorry for sounding like a pretentious weirdo I’m not sure if it works with all types as not all are very deeply inward looking as others 🤷🏻♂️ I trust Kristin though she always kills it!
Or like, maybe NOT and instead go on to make a cool narrative where all the 16 personalities have different roles.
That would be cool
0:46 The Time machine was invented by INTP and INTJ refuses to acknowledge it. The other way she found was stealing the Time machine
"Work smart, not hard" Probabaly an intj
kinda hate it, but i must admit it.. yea
The genuine fear in INTJ's eyes after learning she gets married to an ENFP
INTJ Sounds like an edge lord and future INTJ grew out of it and cringe from their past actions. 😂
I love this entire concept, my younger INFJ self would have A LOT to say to my current self! 😁
Does RUclips allow videos that go on for days or even weeks? 🤣
Agreed! My 41 year old INFJ self has a LOTR to say to my 21 year old INFJ self!
What kind of stuff would you say? Go to sport, meet people on Internet, be more confident in yourself?
Mine would probably start "You're not actually an INTJ like you thought. You're depressed and are repressing your feelings and you need to learn to express them if you ever want to have healthy romantic relationships."
Thanks, I needed to hear that.
Sometimes I feel like a Ti dom with emotions
-INFJ
The younger INTJ is more recognizable as a meme of their type. So in the mature version, I was looking for a good balance of the trademark cocky air of confidence, and the realization that relationships and taking care of themselves do matter... and I was not disappointed.
I especially liked the "shocking news" the mature INTJ left off, delivered with unexpected brightness in tone, that does suggest character growth.
Now is this gonna be a new series? Or is this an INTJ special one-off?
Please make it a series with all the types!
🙌
As an INTJ married to a ENFJ, I approve and wonder how this unplanned aspect of my life happened...
I know how it happened: you a man she a woman you click and there you have it! Basic human nature it is my friend 😝
Now you just need to further the line of smarty pants of this world, otherwise there will be horrible complete Sensor domination in near future and no fun no more 😨
With love an enfp who already managed to procreate with an intj - 😅😆
Hint: they multiplyyyyyy 😂💙💙🎉
INTJ and ENFJ? Wow you guys must haeve amazing communication cuz Fe is your blind spot and Te is the ENFJ demon function :O. I think the Ni probably helps tho
Thats so good . Healthy Enfj very good nurturing people also nurturing intj .
Healthy Enfj very tough and independent .
i like enfjs
The coffee went down the wrong pipe when I heard the future INTJ being fine and married to an ENFP. Saw my life flash before my eyes in two different ways, leaving a like as we speak.
Also, I just got myself a bed frame and mattress after six-ish years of sleeping on the floor and I guess spending money isn't that bad.
-INTJ with back problems
Dw, marrying enfp won't be that bad either..
They're often looks like some curious being that sees and tends intjs with much care and respect as if we're some rare interesting exotic species..
Also probably they would be one of the few types that could bear with intjs dark and gloomy nature..
Well, I can't say for every enfps, but that's how my enfp friends are..
@@iwa2028 yes, i actually cherish ENFPs in my life. I appreciate how they can make my alien like Ni feel embraced with genuine and warm curiosity. I find people shipping the types cute because I understand the judging functions being similar leaves a different but familiar vibe for the pair.
But it's more on I don't really look at the types at all for attraction or preferences, to me its a tool to communicate better and seeing Kristin use the common ship was hilarious.
thanks for reminding me to correct my posture
I just did the same thing about a month ago cause I was sleeping on a broken twin sized spring mattress for the past 5 years.
Life is strange sometimes.
@@iwa2028 I just began sleeping on the floor, as it used to be my favorite place to sleep as a child. It is supposed to be good for your back (with padding). I was thinking of getting rid of my bed. Interesting.
As an INTJ, I feel personally called out by this video:
I’ve saved the vast majority of all the money I’ve made and spend very little of it, except on necessities, an occasional board game that catches my eye, and books (one of the few expenses I can always justify to myself, as I consider it an investment in my happiness, and sanity)
I often go 24 hour periods without eating, simply because it is inconvenient/ not part of my routine, but I am working on that.
I admittedly am somewhat distrustful of others, but I would say my caution is justified. Trust is something to be earned over time, and it never hurts to have contingencies and back up plans.
I do admittedly focus more on my inner/ fictional worlds than the physical world sometimes. In the past, most days I went to university I only spoke to answer questions in class and thank the bus driver, while spending hours reading, and thinking about hypotheticals. My occasional obliviousness to certain things in the physical world has proven… inconvenient, on occasion.
"The world moves faster than your plans" THEN I'M JUST GONNA PLAN FASTER
Oh, marrying an ENFP means my struggles with low Ne and lacking random ideas during writing are solved, I have a constantly available brainstormer! Great! (also, awesome video as always)
to me, it would mean constant distractions and being the only one who can manage to keep the house clean
@@sandymakesplans ENFP are not necessarily messy just like all INTJ are not necessarily neat. You should know this?
2:04 "They won't" is the only appropriate answer, young Intj, I am proud of you. Don't listen to her
Hahahaha
Things are born twice. First in the mind, second in the real world. -entj
As an INTJ married to an ESFP, the ending made me laugh internally.
Congratulations on not revealing your amusement outwardly. They may have been watching
- another INTJ
Terrified of ESFPs, I am perplexed how this even happened
Being in a relationship with one is the most confusing thing you never regret.
I've broke up. My ESFP boyfriend is like a child lol =))) After all, I sometimes laugh at him when I remember the memories we had =)))
I'm a 37-year-old INTJ, and ALL of the social/people skills advice older INTJ gave to their younger selves is VALID. Learn how to let go (meaning don't be so guarded, reserved, and withdrawn) and make friends (because, yes, you'll need people) . It's been truly rewarding to sense more of a balance between my cognitive functions and my social life. EXCELLENT WORK, KRISTEN! ❤
However, with all due respect, I am NOT marrying an ENFP. ✌🏽
Your loss, ENFPs are extremely hot
@@EresirThe1stOh thank you! You're making me blush 😄❤
P.S. my intj is very well fed with delicious foods made from scratch, usually prepared with home grown ingredients. We moved from big city to nature where he now cycles through mountains and forests, he got to travel because of my influence and enjoys being a dad very much. He is deeply loved and appreciated as he is plus the deep talks and all the "conspiracy theoris" enfps actually understand and are aware of. So he says he is zufrieden very much 😊💙💙💙
Just sayin! We're also very loyal, devoted, passionate and fun!
One problem the p is my problem.
why not
@@lastraven7205 I have nothing against ENFPs. What I'm highly against are these so-called "golden pairs." INTJ/ENFP, ENTJ/INFJ, INFP/ENFJ, and the like are stereotypical and unimpressive reasonings. I think any type can be compatible with any other based on past experiences, equal core values, and shared goals.
As a 30 yr-old INTJ, this is eerily SPOT ON what I'd tell my younger self!!! Though, I'd throw in some stock tips, an overview of Bitcoin price movements, a warning on the dismal state of the real estate market, and a list of world events to look out for.
Also, I'd leave out the part about marrying an ENFP. I've instead "succeeded" in remaining single and instead became my own ENFP to some degree. WHAT HAVE I DONE?!?!!! 😭😂😭😭😭
I was waiting for the stock tips and was surprisingly disappointed.
AHH but what is there to suggest to you that this universe even HAS bitcoin?
As an ENFP who is looking for an INTJ soulmate i am literally through the roof-
I'd give advice on how to find one of us but unfortunately I only go out when dogwalking, at work or heading to a forest in another region so I can actually have decent conversation for once. And during those times I only speak when spoken to or if I have business with a person (I mean dogwalking and at work - my journeys are actually to socialise with likeminded people). Otherwise I just avoid people where possible. Can't speak for every INTJ, but probably best looking online and see if one happens to be from your area.
says "soulmate" ... means provider and supporter. 😂
@@Azdaja13 lmao thank you for trying atleast, and i will definitely take it into account when im a little bit older and ready to date :D
@@loveablestrangerBeing friends is beautiful experience, but honestly it's hard in reality to have romantic relationship with INTJ, possible only if both are open towards adjusting, ENFP have developed TE, and INTJ FI, and both parties would enjoy having separate lifestyles most of the time, and ENFP wouldn't have much needs for emotional support. ~ ENFP
@@ParteniaAjmaq maybe they dont need to learn to adjust only to make themselves fit into their partner's standards by changing themselves but instead changing their attitude towards the needed comfortation style and finding a balance between the communication styles :)
That means that maybe two different partners will need different styles of comfortation but each partner can learn to comfort the other by their needs, and finding a way to safely communicate their feelings and needs.
What really is needed in this relationship is maturity from both sides.
INTJ breaking the 4th wall… amazing. Too accurate lmao.
I break the 4th wall irl without even acting or pretending lmao, it's a part of me that thinks/pretends to know everything, I do it more with people that are so stupid I feel like they're NPCs.
-INTJ
We do enjoy talking to the viewers at home from time to time, don't we?
@@hassaniq0777 As an INTP, I do that sometimes too, especially over the past few years.
@@hassaniq0777 😂
I love this video concept! I'm an older INFJ, and I don't really fit the stereotypes anymore, so I find this relatable. The older person with life experience who has developed their third and fourth functions giving advice to their younger self, with all the little Easter eggs included - it's genius.
INTJ here, love how the INTJ keeps trying to break the 4th wall.
And yes, who would've even fathomed, I got married to an ENFP 🤣🥰
The "setting up a home line got me!" A while back an ISFJ and I were reading "table topics" cards together and one question was: What makes a house a home? Her: "the pictures on walls, the feeling of comfort and belonging, the smells..." Me: "people living inside it." Also, I love open space so the lack of furniture is spot on. Plain black shirt and plain white shirt...my two go-to articles of clothing. Well done, Kristin (as usual)!
I NEVER want to meet a future me. They’d just be incredibly smug about knowing things I don’t.
I think people often exaggerare INTJ females, if theyre really close to you theyre actually really nice and caring, just not in the nursing way and theyre actually really brutally honest and straightforward but assertive and intelligent
Completely agree.
I LOVE THIS CONCEPT!!! The start being like a horror film aaaaa so good already
The most emotion showed by both intj’s combined is the horror when she’s told she’ll marry an Enfp
From an INTJ,
Many things the video got right:
1. I developed a code for interaction with a time traveled version of myself when I was in high school.
2. My apartments have been incredibly sparse for furniture (until I got a stable job as an adult) except for bookcases and a bed. (People were also amazed I did not own a toaster for much of my life.)
3. One of my deepest fears is the loss of my computer--mostly because that means that I would lose all my data I've been working on forever. This has happened a couple different times during my life and it is debilitating.
4. I would have been terrified when I was younger to be married to an extravert. However, having come to know ENFPs better now, I understand why having them in my life as an INTJ is beneficial.
5. Breaking the fourth wall: without the code given by a time traveled version of myself, I would think this is a trap or experiment.
Things the video got wrong:
1. I would have never asked to know the future or how to time travel because I knew this would have created unstable paradoxes. It is not rubbish.
2. From a young age, I knew I wanted to be married but not until I was ready for it.
3. The first laptop I bought myself was named Mimir after the giant's head. Odin killed him and took his head to speak his knowledge while Odin traveled. (My phone was named Mercury, the messenger of the gods.) I did not have a Star Wars phase.
Something halfway right:
I have been called arrogant but I contest that I am not being arrogant, merely laying out the rational and empirical evidence available. Even as a mature INTJ, I can recognize that people hate bare facts.
i used to want to get married, but it's the last thing on my mind now. i don't want it at all.
"People hate bare facts" actually people hate when someone doesn't seem to think they could possibly ever be wrong, or could even be missing an important detail.
@@sarahberkner No. People hate being wrong so much they would rather facts about reality to be lies rather than change themselves to fit truth.
I have also been called arrogant many times in my life, once I was kicked out of study group, because I tried to prove that my reasoning is the right one (it was).
I am married to extrovert - ESTJ and sincerely hope that our son will develop to be ENTJ.
You ARE arrogant, you just don't wanna be better than you already are, cause obviously you think you are the best already....!
i am an intj too btw@@MarcusCaddock
INTJs: I'm never wrong.
Also INTJs: Why does everyone call me 'arrogant'?
Also INTJs: Hey! I never claimed in my life that I'm 'never wrong'! I just happen to (always) be right this time!
It's the eternal paradox for me. I know I'm not always right, I can think of many times when I was wrong or only partly right, but anytime it's happened I needed time to process the fact that I was wrong because my thinking is too rigid, so for an outside observer it seems like I never can admit that I'm wrong when really it just happens when I'm alone after the conversation has ended
Doesn't have anything to do with your MBTI type. Almost everyone is guilty of saying this atleast once or twice. "See? I'm never wrong. See? I'm always right." You're nothing special.
"The World moves faster than your plans"
Gosh Kristin why do you have to hurt me like this haha
How is it that an ESFP has so much insight and intuition into people's personality types?!
Well done, Kristen!
We are all looking forward to 15 other "future self" skits!
No. Pressure. At. All. ( Insert INFJ virtual gaze:p)
*Kristin 🙃
Isn't she an ISTP?! 😩
My entire world is crashing down.
“We all look like me in this universe” 😂
"The world moves faster than your plans."
Damn, that hit me unexpectedly! 😢
As as INTJ who indentify more with the younger one in the this video, this is both painfull to watch, but also incredibly accurate.
I love how people arent talking about how kristin terrifyingly understand how an intjs acts, the expressions, and thinks
It's because she writes her scripts with the associated type's assistance on Patreon.
Alas, this one was all me! 😏
@@dearkristin
"Dark Kristin", correct?
Computer betrayal! The horror!
Lil advice... once you find your purpose, you'll know what to do with your money. And nobody makes it to the top alone, not saying you can't. You'll just be hella tired once you get there, or worse, dead from all the stress.
I can tell that your lifestyle changes (re: last video) have legitimately improved your creativity. Don't get me wrong, all your videos slap-- but THIS right here is the quality that makes you really stand out in my mind.
Also, if the events of this video's plot end up connecting to future videos, I might scream. Not tryna interfere with your creative genius though... so just pretend I never said anything while my suggestion quietly takes root in your mind and becomes your own idea which you were already planning on executing. :) :) :)
Thanks heaps! 😁😁😁
The ENFP comment got me 😂😂😂
Eeee! So good. As an enfp I can’t wait to show this to my intj husband. There will be definite eye-rolling but also I know he secretly relishes it 😂
Same! Same! Same!! Everything same here! He would never seek this out. But why does he need to when he knows I will and show him. 😉 He might eye roll but deep down… he probably eye rolls … but he will probably laugh at the ending.
I actually did literally make lists of people who annoyed me... and those lists were long. Also, I keep remembering things from when I was young just floating to the top of my memory every so often and I just end up cringing. Advice for my past self: make sure someone or something is actually the person/thing you imagine them to be before committing to a future idea/vision with them. The issue with that is those experiences were formative and, in a morbid way, enlightening and I don't think I'd have the same understanding of the world and the nature of evil without them. Effectively, I'd be telling my younger self to Se more.
Marriage to an ENFP, or INFP, is... acceptable.
I just realised reading this that my list was my block list, and it was long, and I used to look at it fondly.
@@zarlashtkhan3740 Yeah, mine's massive. xD
(INTJ) Not much hyperbole here. This is scary accurate for me. As JustCallMeJon said "a socialized INTJ is an optimized INTJ". Or something like that. Also the younger INTJ is probably miserable inside because of their habits and probably doesn't know it.
As an INTJ who married an ENFP I can confirm.
Don't tell me to not binge when you make such bingeworthy content, dear Kristin ❤😂
-INFP
But... it's a safety net...and what if I get used to spending money and won't be able to stop? I don't want to create bad habits. And Shrek is a masterpiece.
That ENFP that she's married to in the future is me!
Glad i discovered all of this at the age of 21, saved me from a lot of stupid situations
As an INTJ, I feel personally attacked, furniture encourages visitors.
You have a really good (imo) perception of INTJs and their weaknesses and hidden side! I think this is because you're an ESFP, you have the same valued functions but in reverse.
You talk about struggling to get INFJs right (well, struggling isn't the right word, but ykwim). If you wanted to make a similar video for the INFJ, I think the answer is clear-recruit an ExTP 😏 (an ESTP would be ideal for pointing out sensory development (like how you told the INTJ to get some damn furniture), but as you're already Se-base, you've got that covered). Like the INTJ's "hidden agenda" is Fi, giving them very (N?)FP moments like naming their laptop, the IxFJ's hidden agenda is Ti. Similar to how Fi is very present and important to the INTJ but kept very... well, hidden (hidden agenda), Ti is important to the IFJ, and a future self "developed" with the help of an ETP would be able to similarly call out that Ti.
Of course, no pressure, just a bunch of Ti rambling 😂
I loved that ending so much
The good ol' INTJ and ENFP ship
This was sheer perfection, also where did you actually record this?
Like did you take out all the furniture because you're moving house? Or was it not in your house?
Thanks Crayon! This is my new house :)
I can sum up this entire video ( please don't be mad at me , it's all just fun humor )
INTJ : sitting in a boring room with no forniture
future INTJ : i am you because i know all the secrets you know . Yet i have entire new personality and approach to life .
INTJ : this is very contradictory ,and it doesn't make any sense to me . Please , can you explain yourself ?
future INTJ : no
INTJ : why ?
future INTJ : no real reason at all ( and because i don't think you'de underdtstand but it's not very convenient ) but don't worry , at the end of the video i will show you why you need to trust me .
INTJ : golly
+@@eyalmeirbarnea8706 you'de underdtstand
video idea: The 16 personality when they think nobody is watching them
(But don't make it obvious. This an opportunity to explore the less dominant functions again, like in the video with the angels)
video idea: The 16 personalities cooking food
(which dish fits which personality?)
video idea: The 16 personalities switching roles for a week
(video format: 8 conversations in a tv show setting between two personalities for each convo. they meet for the first time after having switched places for a week. They are happy to be back in their familiar roles, curious to ask questions about things they did not get about the other persons setup, scared to admit what changes they made and so much more.)
This was brilliant on so many levels!
Just got to the ENFP marriage reveal/reaction and that just iced the cake!😂
As an ENFP who has found my closest friendships among NTJs, I can assure the young INTJ that we can grow on them and much mutual enjoyment of intuitive romps can ensue! ❤
“the world moves faster than your plans”
This exact phrase sums up everything I learned from my upbringing, I was raised by an ESTP dad and an INFP mom. The most impulsive set of parents and dealing with that FORCED me into clicking with my lesser functions. I like to think of myself as the laziest INTJ because 90% is more convenient to me than 99%.
Lolololol “you’re worst nightmare… getting married? “ LMAO
Older INTJ is hurting the younger one by not telling her everything
only the necessities
I bet it was the ISTJ who invented the time machine.
"getting married!?"
I'm an ENFP but around 20 I was exactly like the young INTJ, like damn. Except maybe just tech-interested, not outright into hacking. Used to test as INTJ too.
To be honest, INTJs tussle their inferior function SE. Thus, I am developing this function.
Just loved this concept, me as an ISTJ probably would just say how stupid my younger version was for trying to prove being better than anyone with such arrogance
Fun fact: I got married with an ENFJ
At least the INTJ realizes that everyone in the Universe is the same person.
I'm INTP but refusing to buy furniture just to save money felt like a call out
Flea markets and thrift stores can save you a lot of trouble and money
This writing and acting is incredible.
As a maturing INTJ, I've basically given up on the idea that I could even plan 3 months ahead, let alone 30 years ahead like I used to think. I still think 30 years years ahead, but its so that I can brace for impact when I am inevitably unprepared for whats coming. I will also never stop referencing Star Wars and looking for my ENFP unicorn. I've realized its folly to try and "grow up". We are all childish, regardless of personality type.
As an INTP (5w6 for Enneagram enthusiasts), I relate to the INTJs, specifically the younger one. I relate to the older INTJ saying “What if your plans fail” because I can’t be sure that everything will work out.
Yea, my INTP and ENTP friend always told me that
They keep nagging me as if they're "my mom in disguise" 😂
@@iwa2028 lol nice
Always have a backup plan for your backup plan. - ENTP
And then proceed to forget what the plan was because you're already envisioning a better plan and getting in a heated discussion about how much better the new plan is. -also ENTP
@@Farmynator typical ENTP 😂
I'm an ENFP and have been with my INTJ boyfriend for 7 years. We are both 26 and he still doesn't believe in marriage and hates social situation. I hope someday my dream comes true 😂
Omg i am literally begging you for an INFP version of this and/or the tier list series
“My plans don’t fail”
“But what if they do 👀”
Immediately I was wondering where the Ne influence was coming from
4:53 👀
YES! apparently when you ask nicely, she listens... Thanks Kristen, that was great. -INTJ
Oh my god, how is this so accurate? I also married an ENFP.. eventually.
"You are from the future?! Plz tell me which stock to buy!!"
Worst case scenario "I get married?" lol that was good. As an INTJ this part was very relatable. Especially when I was younger, my thoughts were 'why stifle my freedom by chaining myself to another person with all sorts of grandiose promises that the other person may not even honor.'
Also if I went back in time I would just tell them the exact times to invest and sell various stock and bitcoin. After all why get ahead in a business when you could just have the money to own it. Even the older INTJ should know there's better plans that could be executed given future knowledge, then the bad scenarios of the future don't have the same context to happen.
"Think of your worse case scenario."
"I get married????????"
The social skills hit hard. As younger INTJ, I tried to navigate the world with complete disregard to social conventions. I thought changing would be selling myself out. Later on I accepted that humans are social beings and our societies are heavily structured based on that. So now I play nice but I love the reactions when my real thoughts slip out.
As an intj , i am really like this , always talking with my ownself about science, astronomy and time travel is my favorite topic 😂❤
And thus another new series was born! But please, make the "16 P through ESFP's eyes" first XD XD
I literally left out a big laugh at the end, future INTJ face saying with a big smile was priceless XD XD XD
My younger ENFP would be surprised. First advice I would said to him: don't lose a single piece of the LEGO you own XD XD
Oh I love this! This feels like a conversation in my head, my now me talking to the underlaying stubborn old me holding on to old principles, not wanting to let go
An INTJ & ENFP reveals just how much God knows what he's doing! Hilarious video, Kristen
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“Think of your worst case scenario.”
“I get married?”
Notice, though, that the INTJ has her fingernails painted. If you think about it, that means INTJ doesn't mind spending money on frivolous things. It's just _expensive_ frivolous things (like furniture) she minds spending money on.
The ENFP made her do it.
@@MarcusCaddock The young INTJ is wearing it too. She wasn't married to the ENFP yet
As an INTJ I am feeling a bunch of emotions that I probably need 2 to 3 business days to figure out precisely but I am not loving that I got exposed like this. (Also I had this daydream A LOT where I go to different stages of my past and talk to myself and giving advices how did you know that...)
As a 30-ish Intj to my younger 20 ish self
1. Eat more red meat and protein. Spot on.
2. Take vitamin D (look it up its crazy)
3. Social. Skills are important. Yes, I've known this for years but it's hard to put into practice
"Everyone in this universe looks exactly like me.” how could the INTJ be so wrong? We've seen that there are some rare people who look like "mom" or "siblings" ;)
Touché
INTJ here: I was high baked watching this and it was a pretty insane experience watching myself watch kristin expose my daily daily mental routine for 5 min.
I knew the ending had something to do with being married with the wedding ring reveal right before it.
-Intj
"Think of your worst-case-scenario."
"Getting married!?"
😅😂 exactly my thinking 😂😅
“…worst case scenario.” “I get married?!?”
💯🤣
THAT ENDING! I have an INTJ friend and the most ENFP friend you could ever meet. After they 1st met, even though the INTJ was in their late 20s and we'll adjusted, you could hear the exhaustion in their voice talking about it. I actually apologised for drawing the ENFPs attention to them.
P.S.: That ENFP may be a living stereotype of an ENFP and it sounds like I'm talking down on him, but he's an absolute legend and honestly great if you don't expect him to just "pick up on" social queues.
Looks like a series to me! ❤
I'm finishing watching this now, because the first time I watched it was in the middle of the night, and when I reached "my plans don't fail" from young!INTJ, I laughed like a loon.
Keep telling yourself that, buddy. Also, yeah, that absolutely sounds like younger me on that front. Fortunately, I wasn't _that_ people averse.
It was very fun to watch, as always, and this might not be relevant but I find the entire script is so clearly-written and easy to understand, that I think it could actually be helpful for those who are learning English, like myself. 👍🏻
"The world moves faster than your plans." Oof. Yes. Prozac helped turn me into an ENTJ, fixing that issue.
As someone who thinks about this scenario probably more than is normal, I really enjoyed this video.
Lol, if only we could have our future-selves advise our past-selves.
It wasn't until my junior year of high school that I finally realized I was going to be in serious trouble in the real world if I didn't figure out a lot of the stuff that everyone else thought of as "normal".
So, I threw myself into musical-theater for the next 3 years. It was so awkward for me, and I was told by several directors that my expressions and misinterpretations of the characters in the plays was very weird... which was the primary reason I continued putting myself through it.
That way, even if I didn't think the same way as the majority of society, then at least I could understand what their actions and decisions would likely be.
It really helped me when I went into the customer-service industry, but I was still lacking a lot what I needed, so I started doing Voice Acting to learn how to fake my vocal tone and inflection as needed.
I'm in my thirties now, and still occasionally considered "weird", but at least I no longer come across as an expressionless b*tch who doesn't care about others... unless I'm too tired to care and/or extremely irritated.
I highly recommend other INTJs try musical-theater or voice-acting;
I like to think of them as weapons that I've armed myself with to ensure I have more of a fair fight in the global tournament called "life".
A global tournament? What do I stand to win? (Except death)
@@KP-w Only you can answer that question; every individual has their own goal(s) in life 🏁
Enfp here. Can't wait to see the other types and their future selves. I always imagine talking to my younger self and, ngl we would be friends, but I'd probably tell them to be more realistic 😅
Oof, uncomfortably accurate! 😅 My younger self was so unprepared for reality... lol. The "life moves faster than your plans" and "you're going to need people in case those plans fail" hit hard. 😬 Lol. If only I could go back and chat w my younger self.... not that she would listen to anyone, including her own older self. 😉