For all those saying she’s loud and disrespectful…this man married her for a reason. This man wanted to be with her. Also she is from another country with different ways of communicating, and behavioral norms. They obviously have a playful banter. She jokingly said she needs to be paid. It’s just really giving I don’t like to see black women prosper and be happy to me….
Me as a black we always joking about the money . Like if my sis asks me to get something to eat, I said pay me first And we make a deal Just black things, that some people wouldn't understand
Maybe in S. Korea, being loud is considered a bit rude, but that is Glady’s normal tone of voice. They should understand other. They are not newly wed but married for almost 2 decades now.
I’ve met quite a few “loud” Koreans so I was surprised that they even made those comments. There’s a culture shift happening over there. Maybe the older generations was known to be quiet or soft spoken but that doesn’t seem to be the case anymore
It's so weird to me that many watched this clip and the take away is that Gladys is rude and horrible to her husband. He met her 18yrs ago in her homeland, and she helped him become acclimated. This kindness caused him to fall in love with her. He married her and they decided to go to his homeland. A place were her mother in law was openly horrible to her during her pregnancy. But she tried to bring harmony, regardless of how she was received. (And let's face it. I'm sure she wasn't treated kindly by random strangers due to the colour of her skin and ethnic background). In this clip we see her helping out her husband's new business, she talks about doing all the house work. She was the sole financial support for the family while he was out of work and now that he's trying a new business. I'm really trying to figure out who this horrible wife is, that people keep commenting on.
Yes, I saw the typical Korean family we usually see on these type reality shows, where they fuss and nag at each other but you still see the love and care. Plus this is not a fresh newlywed couple, they've been married for a long time so no surprise the fussing, lol.
On this Korean show called "Backstreet Rookie" and another show called "Tale Of Nine Tails", there were Korean women who were portrayed as being LOUD and ABUSIVE, but it wasn't painted as bad as Asians ALWAYS paint BLACK PEOPLE. EVERYONE else can be whatever they want to be except for BLACK PEOPLE
@@chun_lisfii3596 Pls don't call urself as Asians,just say u a Korean. I am angry when ppl say that to me that I'm Asian! For god's sake, I'm proud to be in my birth country n of my ethnicity so it has not nothing to be with the Asian!
@@maggiesweet7049 lol what? Korean, Japanese or whatever we are both asians. It is just a general term to use and nothing to be upset about. Same with Europeans and Africans, if you want to be specific then you can say which part of asia.
When she talked about how her mother in law didn’t greet her properly and didn’t accept her in the family my heart broke into pieces 💔 this woman not only married someone totally different but also had to adapt to the new culture and environment and society she moved to and learned a totally different language and speaks it fluently and cooks their cuisine like a pro this is really something!!!! All respect
Yeah ME TOO like I'm Korean and my parents would be nice to ANY person that was my S.O. .. while pretending they don't want to shower their love on them XD Wish more parents would be like mine because although I'm Korean I had my share of discriminating Korean boyfriend mums because I come from a poor family
Mother In law gave them money to live in that house. Koreans and Asians in general are very traditional and stay within race. In their culture it is extremely frowned upon to marry outside the race been like that for thousands of years. Once she saw she was a good woman she opened up emotionally and Financially to her.
It's sad but i can understand, it's not the woman personally, it's normal to be with someone who is within your culture, it's strange to most ethnicity to date outside nevermind marry, Puerto Ricans are a little open to cultural differences because we are mutts but we tend to stick with what around us as long as people look nice are working cooking and cleaning to busy for drama, welcome for the most part.
@@girlette I don't care if it was 2 seconds people always judge you from the first moment they meet you. The mother and daughter were both rude to that man and loud so if the boot fits.
@@Handlemenice lol that’s literally how families are, also little girl? You mean his daughter? When aren’t daughters annoyed by their dads. Stop projecting
Don't be fooled. This lady respects her husband. Notice how she never interfered when he was trying to talk to their daughter about her tiktok viewing habits. Once the daughter steps into the home there was a instant switch in her demeanor.
Well, let's put it in a different view, the lady was cooking! She didn't have time to pay attention to what they were saying. At least the husband could help with the cooking... that's what I'd do.
People always try to demonize us black women and it’s sickening. Nothing about this lady seemed rude or horrible. Y’all love to judge people behind your keyboards that you’ve never even met and based off of an edited video. Get a life.
there was literally no part in this video where i thought she was rude LOL i deadass don’t understand how people come to these conclusions. it’s embarrassing really
His wife is just glowing! I honestly almost thought mother and daughter were sisters. I wish I can watch the whole episode for this. So I can hear more about their story
I like this family, partly because of the loudness. My family and I are pretty loud as well, I bet all the neighbours in my apartment hear us all day long especially with that window in lounge room open.
If we are not loud, we can't hear each other 😂 I hate how I want to be calm but get triggered because I have to repeat it what I have to say and at the end I just scream it to them that it looks we are mad. lmao
Sooo proud she is Ghanaian like me and has adapted properly to another culture and even cooks their food so well..Her daughter is lucky to be half Korean and Ghanaian both cultures are awesome..And as a Ghanaian myself she will have sooo much fun if she ever comes to Ghana with her parent's..She is blessed to have two cultures..What a beautiful family 💙
It takes a lot for someone to move to another country and learn the language. This woman is incredible 🥺 you’re doing amazing mama. We’re all proud of you !
She probably knew Korean before she moved there so it makes sense her husband fell in love with her due to her not only understand his language, but also understand his culture. One thing is learning the language and the hard part is learning the culture and accepting to live with it. She’s a strong woman for sure
@@sei7730 not in the same way. The comments here were about how the wife and daughter talk to the man. Whatever Asian, East, SE Asian or South Asian the way parents are supposed to be respected is culturally similar.
@@nesadcruz7840 how is she not be respectful. There are so many West Asia is such a loud culture. You can’t throw Asia in a box and only acknowledge East Asia
@@sei7730 there is a difference between loud and rude. It is not about noise but behavior. To any Asian, the way she sits, with feet on sofa pointing at her father who is sitting beside her , is rude. Also not looking at him when speaking, her tone of voice shows no respect for an elder. In East, South and South East Asia this would not be acceptable behavior.
@@eileeno9259 wouldnt say that. more than being intimidated, they are told to show respect in a certain manner. i too come from an asian household and the daughter seemed extremely rude to me despite having alot of banter with my family
The fact that this woman can speak Korean and has a SOUL with Korean language is fucking amazing. She's also expressing what every woman wants to say out loud anyway. Literally.
@@PHlophe because she educated herself in the language. Much of people in every race doing this so if you want to find black people aka our race doing this then just put yourself in such a position
@@dddaaa6965 why do you keep saying this? grow up, talking about a child like that. what a disgusting man. don't have kids and don't ever be around young girls. you're a creep.
@@lindc1070 Will good thing that we all have our own minds and eyes to see. If they're laughing at her, I hope we can all ask ourselves what is the true reason? And, who would be the joke then?
This is not being rude, this is how a lot of Korean families speak. Blunt and honest. They're not going to change the way they speak and sugarcoat it for the cameras. They're not cursing or screaming at each other, so just reading the subtitles doesn't give the whole picture. Also the mom is so beautiful and the daughter is so cute! The husband is a lucky guy!
Why female hosts are so shocked? Are ladies supposed to be soft spoken in Korea? I mean I came from an Asian family (yeah a fully born asian, not even mixed with other race) and we're louder than this. We always playfully talked about money too, like my mother suddenly come to me and asked "did your job pay you well?" Or shamelessly ask me to pay for the monthly grocery shopping, yet I'm fine with it tho, even jokingly said that my mom always disappear when we're on cashier 🤣 Note : sorry if my grammar is bad 😅 English is like my 3rd language
koreans have alot of emphasis placed on talking nice to your family. like im indian and if i were to talk like how the daughter did, i would be a very shitty person. people in korea just tend to not raise their voice since it can seem aggressive
@@k3vo592 that is not really very true though. People in Seoul or in the village side are very loud. Plus my Korean friends talking to their siblings are also very loud and snarky. Koreans can actually be so loud that sometimes at 3am on a Wednesday night I couldn’t sleep because people outside walking by and stuff were just so unbelievably loud.
@@athenasuperheldin1017 there are obviously people who are loud in korea but it isnt the majority. many people there are soft spoken since being loud is considered obnoxious/too much. thats why the casters were surprised. my family is pretty loud when they speak but as we live in korea, we see how the public reacts to it and try our best to tone it down. which i dont mind since cultural differences exist for every country
@@k3vo592 Now we all can see how Coulter is cultivated. It really doesn't matter rather she is loud or not because your up bringing is vastly different. That's ok just remember when the shoe is on the other foot it could look a different way as well... Im sure you understand what I mean right?
she seems like a perfectly sweet woman. Imagine moving to a country that is known to be racist and discriminating against people of color, especially black people. Must've been so hard for her, yet she made it work. I admire her
@@mk4883 That is true. Racism plays out differently in the USA, but that does not take away from the fact that racism and colorism is also prevalent in Asia and Asian societies, not just Korea. And I am saying this as an Asian. It just looks different.
@@mk4883 imagine that... looking at countries based on racism & the extreme of getting shot. Wow! I know it is real but if I/we thought like that then we're suppressing ourselves via fear. As a black british/caribbean female I have travelled a few European countries by myself & had the best time, I feel I've faced more discrimination in London than Spain, Italy, Malta or Amsterdam & I dont speak their language. ☯️☮
@@lindc1070 So....Korean. My half siblings are still my siblings and half of my heritage is Japanese. I am Japanese. If an ice cream is half banana and half strawberry, the whole ice cream is banana and strawberry.
Most people saying Glady’s rude are those who are not even married yet 😂😂 she’s just really outgoing and a humorous person. And look at her trying her absolute best to fit in with a completely new and not poc friendly culture. she’s such a strong and sweet person. Wishing the best for this family!!
Lol I'm black and Korean and i look exactly like my dad but I'm just brown like my mom xD most of us that are blasian tend to just look like as my dad calls it "chocolate covered asians" 😅😂
@@letsnoraebang I saw a lot of blasians that were like that when I first started looking up what other blasians looked like. I’m also blasian and instead of looking more like one race I look like neither lmao. :,)
I see a hardworking woman, supporting wife, great mother and a woman in a foreign town, speaking a foreign language (which is amazing) to support her husband! Also, the Dad is right in not wanting his children to be on social media all day. And, truth be told, Asian women are more loud and controlling of their husbands behind closed doors. Stop misjudging this woman because the color of her skin.
@@BigReggii what are you even referring to?? Stay on your short yellow bus and leave social interaction to those who have the mental capacity to logically function. 🖕🏽
I'm from Seoul and this program makes me so happy. What an amazing woman. I love her honesty with money too. It's so expensive to raise kids in Korea now. She is an admirable mother.
Phases my ass. Had I acted that way there would have been a coming to Jesus meeting. Then again none of us kids would’ve done that. Parents need to be parents and not friends or pushovers.
@@highonimmi your parents are twisted if they were going to end your life over such things. Why would you wish that in anyone. Take your abuse with you
@@mebeb6399 you don't even know what a coming to Jesus meeting means. it means you have to listen to your mistakes and now you have some grounding time to think about it. instilling discipline and consideration for others doesn't take being abusive. that's the problem with most of the young people today. you think if parents give y'all limits and provide consequences to your selfish and negative actions it's abuse. being grounded and removal of your toys with some chores isn't abuse. so now, the world has entitled people who think being a selfish schmuck should be applauded. no, it shouldn't be. if your parents are the ones working their asses off and doing without just to give you nice things then show some gratitude and respect to them. is that so hard? evidently, it is for you. "omg, you're abusive cuz i don't want to listen to you even though i don't pay for anything." why do i have this feeling this sounds like you? psychologists claim that since smart phones and computers came along with social media a new generation of narcissism has pervaded society. i agree. take your entitlement elsewhere. what the hell happened to kids and youth earning the little extras they want?
Wait she’s too loud? Lol she sounds normal to me. She’s hardworking, beautiful, embracing her new culture, cooking for her family, etc, etc. She seems lovely to me.
It’s interesting to people say that she is loud or rude when she’s really not. Ghanaians we speak very ‘loudly’ we do a lot of celebrations and even when speaking with other Ghanaians it’s very loud and friendly. This is just how things are here and it’s nice to see her keeping that whiles with her family.
@@MincWW lmao its not about being korean or black its the relationship of the couple in the video. If that is how the wife expresses herself then surely her husband must be used to it now. Its just playful banter 💀 who gives a fuck if you're Korean no one asked
I used to teach in Korea. Honestly, they weren’t loud to me. Many Koreans talk loudly in intimate spaces. I think the family is brave living in such a homogeneous society. The daughter is also very cute. I noticed one of the hosts asked if she hit puberty yet. That was an invasive question. I suppose it’s because the girl is a bit bigger than most Korean girls.
I think they just asked that because the daughter doesnt want to speak to her parents a lot. In korean, the word for puberty doesn’t necessarily refer to physical changes in the body, but more so personality/attitude changes of becoming a teen. So the fact that the daughter wanted to play on her phone rather than converse w her parents is why the host asked the puberty question:)
Wow.. what a wonderful woman! She's an amazing wife and mother. And a very patient daughter in law. It's so inspiring because many would give up easily.
When it comes to biracial couples, I always noticed that the women put in a lot of effort to get involved with the husbands side of the family, to even go as far as learning an entirely new language. A lot of the women in my clan who have been married to their non-Asian husbands for decades, yet those men barley come around and don’t know squat. When I asked my biracial cousins, if I get to catch up with them, I learn that their fathers are not comfortable with “our people”, and I’m like “y’all comfortable enough to procreate with our women, but not stop by to just say. Hi.?”.
This is completely normal. Humans (& chimpanzees) evolved in a patrilocal social structure, where men stayed in their territory with a coalition of their brothers and male cousins, while women moved between different male groups.
Well hopefully we've progressed beyond that, but this case is a bit different. We know the father is familiar with Ghana as he worked and setup businesses there and met his wife and underwent both cultural marriage system. So I wouldn't doubt his comfort when dealing with her family. Though I may be assuming, living condition in Korea is probably much better especially for their daughter, who, likewise is doing well in school ( education is good! ). It just makes more sense for the whole family to adjust to Korea, (I think.)
I live in Korea. I don't understand why the host is saying she is loud. Korean women are often this loud especially in public when people are joyful. Open teasing, light hitting, nagging or even playful drunk partners is also common here. Seoul, countryside and BUSAN are known for loud people. Busan people are even made fun of for sounding and looking like they are angry all the time. I'm confused at why the host is making this comment. This woman's voice fits right into Korea! 😂
@@locturallylocs9097 it's am American Narrative and the whole world ends up treating black women as such but come to Europe especially Italy,italians are loud and I like it.
@@LadyOya 😂 I WAS JUST ABOUT TO WRITE THAT!!!! Yes I'm being loud right now. 🤣 I enjoy watching Korean movies and shows on Netflix. They are super loud. I like it though. Probably because it mimics the average household around the 🌎 world. I also see in those shows a lot of racism against darker complexions. Great couple. Love them. 💖🙂
@@BlackCultur3 It depends on who moves to where (ie country, household, etc). They should definitely have some both their culture in their house though.
HONESTLY IM IMPRESSED WITH THIS FAMILY...FIRST OF ALL, FOR HIM TO MARRY A WOMAN FROM A DIFFERENT HERITAGE IS AMAZING..I CAN JUST IMAGINE HOW MUCH PUSHBACK HE GOT FROM HIS FAMILY, FRIENDS AND PEOPLE FROM HIS HOMELAND. CUTE FAMILY I MUST SAY.
She's not rude at all. My parents are loud like her as well and it's normal for some people that probably were raised that way so they didn't noticed. I didn't noticed I was loud until I was in high school and tried to change which was thankfully not too late for me, but it's too late for my parents to change their volume when talking.
This is such a down to earth video. Thanks for allowing us to see real family matters. Honestly this family is quite good despite the problems they face.
The man clearly doesn’t act like the typical Patriarchy Korean man, it’s not a family where the wife is submissive, she supports at work and cooks for him, and they seem to understand each other. Cute family.
People don’t wanna mind their business do they? And what if she’s loud or quiet or whatever , y’all acting like this man just married this woman omg this generation
가부장이 무조건 나쁜 것도 아니고 ㅋㅋ 그리고 우리나라 압도적인 페미 나라,국가여서 압도적 저출산 전세계 꼴찌 출산율인데 뭔.... ㅋㅋ ㄹㅇ 아... ㅇㅇ 영어권 영어 쓰는 새끼들 왜이리 맨날 PC적이고 PC충이 많고 SJW가 많을까? 에휴... ㅅㅂ 좌익 좌파들 진짜 개싫고 개토나오네 ㄷㄷ
@@wildearth3992 ? 뭔 개소리야 뭔 내가 징징,찡찡 거리는 것도 아니고 팩트인데 ㅋㅋ 우리나라하고 미국하고 같냐? 우리나라 상황 개좆도 모르면서 이렇게 막 씨부리고 남의 나라나 국가에 대해서 말을 막하는건 맞는 거임? ㄷㄷ 우리나라 남자들 자살 뒤지게 많이하고 있고 외국 해외로 탈출 개많이한다니까 정신 못차리네 뉴질랜드,스페인,스웨덴 기타등등 이런 나라나 국가들마냥 우리나라 페미나 젠더 어쩌구 ㅇㅈㄹ 때문에 나라 망하고 있다고 씨발아 좀 ㅇㅇ
It’s very impressive she came to Korea and learned the language because being a visible immigrant is not easy even if you’re from another Asian country. Now for the daughter I’m sure there will be many challenges too, but if they stick together as a family it’s all good.
She’s honestly just loud speaking. But she gets along really well with her husband and clearly shares with him the same sense of humour. She even went out of her way to please his mother who clearly didn’t want her. Most people wouldn’t bother with that and would settle with a rift in the relationship. I think she’s very kind.
The world stereotypes Asian as quiet, and they don't complain about it. So when you go to their country, they'll stereotype you as loud, how's that unfair?
How is she rude? Stop being anti black in the comments they’ve clearly been together for almost 2 decades and seem to share the same humor. Edit: cultural differences or not, family dynamics vary by household. Using the excuse of “korean culture” to dictate how this family interacts with each other is soooo dated. Its 2021 and there are many mixed raced families that acclimate to the other, and this family is clear evidence of that.
Exactly,she is only perceived as “loud” because she’s black. Like that was not relevant and how was she loud.And the woman even said the same thing about the daughter….
She is obviously not Asian not just appearance but behavior too. Maybe that is why there are such comments. Her behavior in Asia is seen as “ loud”, maybe not where she comes from. Its cultural differences.
Bcs of the cultural differences, it's not abt black. Even if other race talk like that its considered quite rude in Asia especially when u talk to someone who is older.
@@thursdayistheday exactly. Even If it is a white person the comment would be same. Even the way the girl sits, feet pointing at dad would be considered rude in most Asian cultures. The dad told her to look at him when talking to him, that too is Asian culture. Rude to speak to elders with this kind of Body language. Maybe in Africa Its ok? I dont know. But not in Asia.
As a Korean, I love her personality including her loudness and I don't think she is rude at all. Who said that?! Her mother in low thing is really fucked up but I know what she went through because I know how racist old Korean people are. She's amazing wife! And why she has to cook all his meals while she's the one supports family
Come on y’all, she’s not being rude, she’s literally just going through a preteen phase 😂 no matter your ethnicity, race or culture, you go through a preteen phase lmao
My sister is going through this exact phase as a 12 year old. All she does is scroll on tik tok or go on discord calls with classmates. Wants nothing to do with family right now.😂
@@etherealhottie you’re weird for trying to justify her rude behavior by her being African. African children don’t talk like this to their parents and African wife don’t talk like this to their husband. Maybe in America you’re a like that but not in Africa.
The way everyone portrays black women and their attitudes and how they’re loud angers me. Loud women come in all races. Another way to push the agenda.
as a korean i don't see anybody being rude here XD the family may be talking loud but their conversation is just hilarious and i can feel the affection, the kind which long married couple has
I really admire her, picking up the language and still coming across as charismatic and charming! I’m literally half chinese and yet I’m so unconfident when I speak Chinese. My personality when I speak Chinese versus English is worlds apart. Definitely I want to be like her 😭 And plus what she went through with her mother in law. I would have chickened out but she made the effort to get to know her mother in law better even when being treated unfairly. That’s a sign of grace, truly. At that point if I was her, I would have thought to myself “man this culture isn’t for me”. I look up to her a lot.
I’m sure they’ve worked hard to get where they are now because you don’t see apartments like this often on this show. It’s gotta be pricey so hope his new business works outb
African women are genuinely sweet hearts. Super loving and caring.... they're the foundations and structure of African villages..... sometimes working even harder than the men... it's a tough life... creates tough women... tough hands but soft hearts that never stop caring. I need to find myself an African queen ❤.
All I have to say is WOW!!! Hats off to that beautiful lady from Ghana. She moved to another country with a completely different culture for love. She not only managed to learn Korean so fluently but to cook Korean food like a Korean native! She assimilated into her husband's culture beautifully. She's is the perfect immigrant that every country would love to have. Also, she was supporting her family financially while husband was out of work without neglecting house chores. What an AMAZING lady! I wish her and her family much success in their new business and life. May God bless them.
I'm a Ghanaian and let me tell you we are loud by nature😅. So to me how they're communicating is at a normal voice level. My family's louder than them. I can stand at the end of my lane and I kid you not, I can hear every single conversation someone is having in my house. Plus when we argue it gets way louder than that
That's us Africans....trust me I know what you're talking about...I'm Xhosa(South African) and I kid you not....when we talk it's like we have speakers in our voices turned to a 100🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@@issapurpleworldanddiamondl747 exactly and thats amplified if we're outside. I get embarassed when my mom picks up calls outside the house ause people turn their heads to see whose shouting. But hey it's in our dna
She is like a very kind and very understanding person who adjusted her life to a totally different culture to stay married to him. Needless to say, withstood a racistic culture and became successful in her life with a beautiful family. Huge respect. She is not all loud. Isn't it families normal way of communication?
Some Africans and Latin families are Loud and it’s not a bad thing it’s just culture, confidence 💕 not everyone is quiet maybe that’s why Korea has a lot of bullying scandals 😬
@Roar I think u are trying to make the Africans n S.Koreans to fight with each other.what bloody ulterior motive are u up to n why using a fake username! U are not an African n S Korean so tell us what the bloody shit are u?
@@oz1128 No one needs to change their personality or culture to make others like them, not everyone needs validation from strangers to feel happy. Some people are raised confident and proud of their culture, and no matter what country they go to, they will never change who they are.
@@rzangyz3672 Nah..Kor has thousands of years of history, you cant just go there and act like some arr0gant Amrcan..you can be yourseIf without being Ioud...with respect and manners
@@mani.filmss Never said she was…when you have Iess than 3 br4inceIIs and still wanna talk about being dmb lol…ironic…upgr4de your br4in ASAP and stop liking your own comment..the dsp3r4tion is real with this one
Everyone in the comments speaking on the wife being rude and loud when she didn’t even say anything rude to her husband. She’s just concerned about her family not making enough money to live by. Atm she is the family’s bread winner and must be difficult knowing how Korea can be towards black people especially from Africa. Y’all are acting like she’s not working and just demanding. Also she is not loud, this is just how Ghanaian’s speak. At the end of the day, they’re still married after 18 years so she must be doing something right. Just because you have an ideology of how a “wife” should be doesn’t mean you have a right to say that she’s not a good wife. Also since when did kids have to be a certain way. She didn’t do anything wrong. She just came home from school (which is a lot harder in Korea) and hadn’t been on her phone for more than five minutes and is being asked if she had done her homework. Like let her have some time to herself first. Also the point where she moved her foot, a lot of people just don’t like being touched and that is okay. She’s also just a kid. 10 minutes of an edited clip isn’t going to give you and insight of how a person is, don’t be so quick to judge as if you’re any better.
Theres like 7 people that thinks shes being loud and rude while theres like 700 people who thinks the family's cute, while theres like 1200 people complaining about the 7 people who's saying the lady is rude. Like why do yall even focus on that?
Nothing rude about any of them. You can tell theyre a close knit family. When youre that close, you're loud and crack jokes all the time. Blessings to them!
@@lemiahporter9323 holy fucking shit MOM STOP YELLING IM RIGHT FUCKING HERE. Honestly I'm ashamed to say it but I adopted the household yelling communication because of my parents.
There is no extra word to describe them, both of them are kind and sweet people who deserved to be blessed. I’m so touched on how far they have gotten to, and wish them with all the blessings to become even better. He is a very good father and husband, so do she.
I'm born in a black household with mix diversity as both my parents are black as my father's side is part Native American and my mother's grandmother's side is Chinese and find it so inspiring how the Ghanaian woman speaks Korean natively! 😇 It really breaks down the language stereotypes that us blacks can't speak other languages and just so happy for the couple giving birth to a healthy Ghanaian-Korean girl as she reminds me of my nieces as they're 12-18 and going through that phase of using TikTok let alone Snapchat lol. Not sure why but hearing them eating Roman noodles @ 8:46 is the most Korean thing I've ever seen as it's like having a little ASMR as much as I despise it, it seems so soothing hearing how they enjoy their meal as they're working the best they can to support their own household. Also, I have Jamaican descent as well and always feel so warm and happy inside whenever I hear someone that's Ghanaian and into the Japanese culture like I am. 💚💛♥
Does it matter what race is interested in Japan who cares that’s just a Black American Stereotype people in Africa speak multiple languages what’s with the bubble😂
Truee. Like oh my god my family is part Congolese at my mothers side and my father is black American with the descendants of Ethiopians. I’m sick of the rumor of having people think that blacks can’t speak other languages as well. But to take another way of looking of it that’s how it is when if you’re black in America. Keep in mind black people with African descent are scattered around the across the world, we’re very diverse people. So Idc what they say about us all that matters is that if you know who you are and where your from, deep down regardless of our ethnicity/nationalities all that matters is if your heart is at the right place.
So she’s cooking, cleaning, working and helps out with her husband’s business but all she asks is for him to get a stable job and she’s the bad guy? Come on now… I understand it’s a start up and it takes time to grow but then get a part time job at least to tie you over. Relaxing is not how things work out. Things work out by hard work and making sure you’re focused on the project. It’s important to balance that with maintaining family social life. Women do it. All she’s asking for is equality. That’s basic.
to be honest he should've never married because, the badgering is stressing the man out if he was single he could've made more money at his own pace......without the nagging, and he would be cleaning and cooking for him self with someone always complaining , if she keep this up she's going to end up divorcing this lady, the nagging will lead to arguments and a unhappy family, she needs to learn there's is a time and a place.......American do that very well in terms of talking about serious issues, when your eating shut your mouth about any serious concerns until after.
The dad & daughter arguing really reminds me of the dad & daughter in Hometown Chat Chat Cha 😂 They're a lovely family, I wish interracial couples can stop being looked at as a rare sight. It honestly shouldn't be a different but we make it seem like it is. I get cultural differences being more of a big deal but other than that, it it just a loving relationship & family. I also love sharing cultures, I think it adds more meaning to be able to share things like that.
@@Lidiroyal Definitely, I don’t see mixed race families in Korea very often. I get that in Korea it’s uncommon & therefore something that takes a while to get used to. I just hope moving forward it won’t be such a rare thing.
I love this family because they are REAL Real people, not some celebrity who knows how to act in front of camera I think thats why some people seems put off by their actions They dont normally see something like this on tv
I really love her - she is a very supportive wife and mother. She is like the backbone of the family. He is very lucky. Specially when she said the mother in law didn’t like her at first and she still try to win her over.
This video gives me so much hope for the world and for people and cultures to stop looking at "black" as something unattractive or not good enough. This is a beautiful family! ❤️❤️ Good luck to them
@@BlackCultur3 and people like you are the reason why the world is fuck up! Was not expecting a toxic reply. God created us all equal sticking with "your own kind" just separates the world more actually.
She and the daughter arent giving us good impressions so I dont know what you mean. In fact I feel its a pity if Black people are going to be likened to this. The few I know behave in a much more dignified manner
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For all those saying she’s loud and disrespectful…this man married her for a reason. This man wanted to be with her. Also she is from another country with different ways of communicating, and behavioral norms. They obviously have a playful banter. She jokingly said she needs to be paid. It’s just really giving I don’t like to see black women prosper and be happy to me….
Right
Korean women are just as loud, has no one watched a Kdrama?
She isn't hiding what she feels she honest about her reaction and I love that about her.
Every couple have their own dynamic, they sound normal to me, she def a good wife to him and please, why it is always about Race ( black )? Stop it .
Me as a black we always joking about the money
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Like if my sis asks me to get something to eat, I said pay me first
And we make a deal
Just black things, that some people wouldn't understand
Maybe in S. Korea, being loud is considered a bit rude, but that is Glady’s normal tone of voice. They should understand other. They are not newly wed but married for almost 2 decades now.
The nagging is a lot severe in korean household 😭😂
@@jul2447 haha ikr. Nagging to us means we love each other haha. No nag, no love. The louder the voice, the deep our love is. 😂🤣
I’ve met quite a few “loud” Koreans so I was surprised that they even made those comments. There’s a culture shift happening over there. Maybe the older generations was known to be quiet or soft spoken but that doesn’t seem to be the case anymore
@Roar That’s what I thought too. Maybe in the first place, she doesn’t really like Gladys.
@@nala4286 Nope...she should live like the locals and assimilate into their cuIture...she lives in Korea
It's so weird to me that many watched this clip and the take away is that Gladys is rude and horrible to her husband.
He met her 18yrs ago in her homeland, and she helped him become acclimated. This kindness caused him to fall in love with her.
He married her and they decided to go to his homeland. A place were her mother in law was openly horrible to her during her pregnancy. But she tried to bring harmony, regardless of how she was received. (And let's face it. I'm sure she wasn't treated kindly by random strangers due to the colour of her skin and ethnic background).
In this clip we see her helping out her husband's new business, she talks about doing all the house work. She was the sole financial support for the family while he was out of work and now that he's trying a new business.
I'm really trying to figure out who this horrible wife is, that people keep commenting on.
Yes, I saw the typical Korean family we usually see on these type reality shows, where they fuss and nag at each other but you still see the love and care. Plus this is not a fresh newlywed couple, they've been married for a long time so no surprise the fussing, lol.
@@vonzilla2082 they seem like very normal family to me , I always talk loudly with my family , it normal
Wait, who is saying she is horrible? That’s crazy. She seems like a very good person.
On this Korean show called "Backstreet Rookie" and another show called "Tale Of Nine Tails", there were Korean women who were portrayed as being LOUD and ABUSIVE, but it wasn't painted as bad as Asians ALWAYS paint BLACK PEOPLE.
EVERYONE else can be whatever they want to be except for BLACK PEOPLE
Some people want to start drama out anything
The wife is very inspirational. She’s such a beautiful human. So strong, so loving.
Lol that's a stretch
"I want attention"
Such a good cook! I was so impressed with her cooking!
@@zekayman how is that stretch ?
@@jadapinkett1656 yes you do that’s why you are acting like bish
I don’t see anything rude at all. They’re just loud. My family’s even louder than them. 😂 I wish this family well! Many many blessings to come! 💙
yep we also so loud people think we fighting but we just having normal conversation 😂
My house at this point is not a normal house anymore it’s an animal park
Also my family madam. Who have louder voice.
My house too🤣🤣🤣
@@naawam3027 hHahaha fr arabs families
I appreciate that they talk about money in front of their kid. It helps her realise how hard it is to make money and know the value
It's not taboo with Asians families
Children should be financial literate at an early age. So they would not struggle when they are adults.
@@chun_lisfii3596 Pls don't call urself as Asians,just say u a Korean. I am angry when ppl say that to me that I'm Asian! For god's sake, I'm proud to be in my birth country n of my ethnicity so it has not nothing to be with the Asian!
@@maggiesweet7049 wait.. So now korean are not in asia?
@@maggiesweet7049 lol what? Korean, Japanese or whatever we are both asians. It is just a general term to use and nothing to be upset about. Same with Europeans and Africans, if you want to be specific then you can say which part of asia.
I love how their wedding photos show both of their cultures. They looked stunning
They were done for the show. I’m sure he looked a lot younger 18 years ago when they were married.
And since when that white dress is korean culture?
@@sabcam2000 the white dress is neither of their cultures
literally doesn't show Koream culture, its a Ghana outfit and white wedding outfit
@@sabcam2000 exactly what I'm wondering
I love how honest they are and how comfortable the husband and wife are with each other.
and he has a big ass head mode enabled too
@@dddaaa6965 grow up
@@biegebythesea6775 What are you talking abo- *instantly turns 80 years old* -WHAT??? NOOOO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Can I just say that the interior of their house is so beautiful? the placement of furniture... the carpet... the aesthetic! wahhh perfect!
The house looks quite expensive to rent, the mother-in-law was very nice to pay for it
It looks so tacky to me 🙈 but to each their own - tastes are different everywhere
I knew that a black person lived there before i saw the wife because of the style of the place lol. It is well done very homie
@@airmanjones18 what are you saying?
@@Handlemenice there are just certain ways black women decorate their homes. We know the difference
When she talked about how her mother in law didn’t greet her properly and didn’t accept her in the family my heart broke into pieces 💔 this woman not only married someone totally different but also had to adapt to the new culture and environment and society she moved to and learned a totally different language and speaks it fluently and cooks their cuisine like a pro this is really something!!!! All respect
Yeah ME TOO like I'm Korean and my parents would be nice to ANY person that was my S.O. .. while pretending they don't want to shower their love on them XD Wish more parents would be like mine because although I'm Korean I had my share of discriminating Korean boyfriend mums because I come from a poor family
Mother In law gave them money to live in that house. Koreans and Asians in general are very traditional and stay within race. In their culture it is extremely frowned upon to marry outside the race been like that for thousands of years. Once she saw she was a good woman she opened up emotionally and Financially to her.
Everyone is not down with interracial or integration like black people are. And that’s ok. His mother doesn’t have to like or accept her.
It's sad but i can understand, it's not the woman personally, it's normal to be with someone who is within your culture, it's strange to most ethnicity to date outside nevermind marry, Puerto Ricans are a little open to cultural differences because we are mutts but we tend to stick with what around us as long as people look nice are working cooking and cleaning to busy for drama, welcome for the most part.
@@8213apice its not ok to reject family due to racism. What is wrong with you?
Such a beautiful family, it's nice to see a black woman flourishing in Korea. Also, I love the house decor
That lady was rude and horrible to that man.
@@Handlemenice Not you judging a 9 min video 💀 you don’t know these people
@@girlette I don't care if it was 2 seconds people always judge you from the first moment they meet you. The mother and daughter were both rude to that man and loud so if the boot fits.
@@Handlemenice lol that’s literally how families are, also little girl? You mean his daughter? When aren’t daughters annoyed by their dads. Stop projecting
@@Handlemenice They’re a family!! Do you think families are constantly acting all perfect with each other? Get a life.
Don't be fooled. This lady respects her husband. Notice how she never interfered when he was trying to talk to their daughter about her tiktok viewing habits. Once the daughter steps into the home there was a instant switch in her demeanor.
Thank you!!!! Absolutely love how you picked that up
Well, let's put it in a different view, the lady was cooking! She didn't have time to pay attention to what they were saying. At least the husband could help with the cooking... that's what I'd do.
@@carkodyou seem like the type to always find a fault in people and things.
@@carkod shut up
@@dieu5041 hahahah XD
People always try to demonize us black women and it’s sickening. Nothing about this lady seemed rude or horrible. Y’all love to judge people behind your keyboards that you’ve never even met and based off of an edited video. Get a life.
Right. But mfs don’t have a problem when Jessi is loud. When she’s loud, she’s “keeping its real”. Smfh they just don’t like black folks.
@@miichelle19 YALL said everything
😫😫😫😫😫
there was literally no part in this video where i thought she was rude LOL i deadass don’t understand how people come to these conclusions. it’s embarrassing really
@@miichelle19 SAY IT LOUDER
His wife is just glowing! I honestly almost thought mother and daughter were sisters. I wish I can watch the whole episode for this. So I can hear more about their story
... I thought she was the daughter💀💀 she looks really really young and she's stunning!! I was so confused haha their daughter got really good genes
ME TO I WAS SO WERDIED OUT 😭😭
@@min.trusfrated ME TO
@@catherinesimps4u this woman should be paid good money for anti-age moisturizer ads/campaigns!!!😂
@@min.trusfrated exactly like my mom looks young BUT NOT AS YOUNG AS HER
I like this family, partly because of the loudness. My family and I are pretty loud as well, I bet all the neighbours in my apartment hear us all day long especially with that window in lounge room open.
If we are not loud, we can't hear each other 😂 I hate how I want to be calm but get triggered because I have to repeat it what I have to say and at the end I just scream it to them that it looks we are mad. lmao
And my family speaks so freaking loud than them, perhaps it's gonna be 5x times louder😂
Sooo proud she is Ghanaian like me and has adapted properly to another culture and even cooks their food so well..Her daughter is lucky to be half Korean and Ghanaian both cultures are awesome..And as a Ghanaian myself she will have sooo much fun if she ever comes to Ghana with her parent's..She is blessed to have two cultures..What a beautiful family 💙
가나는 이번 월드컵에서 우리를 도와줬고, 가나의 골키퍼는 정말 열심히 골을 막았습니다. 가나 화이팅. 🎉
your country has the best chocolate 🍫 I'd love to visit Ghana
It takes a lot for someone to move to another country and learn the language. This woman is incredible 🥺 you’re doing amazing mama. We’re all proud of you !
At first i thought she was the daughter 💀💀 she is so gorgeous.
She probably knew Korean before she moved there so it makes sense her husband fell in love with her due to her not only understand his language, but also understand his culture. One thing is learning the language and the hard part is learning the culture and accepting to live with it. She’s a strong woman for sure
@@seez6963 Stop lying
@@coles5451 no
@@seez6963 The mom looks like she's in her late 30s.
Its odd that ppl are calling her rude. She's just excited and happy woth her family. Many African ppl talk like this especially when we r happy :)
To the Asians watching it comes across as loud and rude. Like you said to Africans it is not. This is cultural.
@@nesadcruz7840 maybe East Asians. There are plenty of loud Asians
@@sei7730 not in the same way. The comments here were about how the wife and daughter talk to the man. Whatever Asian, East, SE Asian or South Asian the way parents are supposed to be respected is culturally similar.
@@nesadcruz7840 how is she not be respectful. There are so many West Asia is such a loud culture. You can’t throw Asia in a box and only acknowledge East Asia
@@sei7730 there is a difference between loud and rude. It is not about noise but behavior. To any Asian, the way she sits, with feet on sofa pointing at her father who is sitting beside her , is rude. Also not looking at him when speaking, her tone of voice shows no respect for an elder. In East, South and South East Asia this would not be acceptable behavior.
There family dynamic is so lighthearted and non-restrictive that they can talk about anything with each other and that is a blessing to have.
And that is probably one of the reasons they've been married for so long. 😍😍😍 They communicate well with each other.
They're such a sweet family and their daughter is adorable!
and he has a big ass head mode enabled too
the passive aggressiveness and microaggression in these comments.. i saw nothing wrong and just a happy loving family...yall are weird af
I won't fo into why folks are saying this. I would be accused of bringing in the race card.
Koreans are intimated by their parents. They don't have that dynamic relationship.
@@eileeno9259 wouldnt say that. more than being intimidated, they are told to show respect in a certain manner. i too come from an asian household and the daughter seemed extremely rude to me despite having alot of banter with my family
@TVwriter23 don’t worry, you wouldn’t be wrong. People love demonizing black women and making them out to be rude and nasty. I’m sick of it
@@jerseygirl6221 me too! No matter what black woman do it's always demonised. We can't just be
The fact that this woman can speak Korean and has a SOUL with Korean language is fucking amazing. She's also expressing what every woman wants to say out loud anyway. Literally.
Her kips in Korean ended my life she is gold. she has a deep affinity with the language for sure
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Bro she literally says men should.... Like stfu nigga
@@PHlophe because she educated herself in the language. Much of people in every race doing this so if you want to find black people aka our race doing this then just put yourself in such a position
I love Gladys’s style. Her husband loves her just as she is…they have a funny dynamic.
The daughter is SO cute! She looks so much like her dad.
and he has a big ass head mode enabled too
@@dddaaa6965 why do you keep saying this? grow up, talking about a child like that. what a disgusting man. don't have kids and don't ever be around young girls. you're a creep.
@@dddaaa6965 😂😂😂
I love that she is being SEEN and HEARD. She's authentic and transparent which is a rare thing these days.
There is such a thing as Too Much Information. Asians dont air dirty laundry in public. The hosts are laughing at her.
@@lindc1070 Will good thing that we all have our own minds and eyes to see. If they're laughing at her, I hope we can all ask ourselves what is the true reason? And, who would be the joke then?
This is not being rude, this is how a lot of Korean families speak. Blunt and honest. They're not going to change the way they speak and sugarcoat it for the cameras. They're not cursing or screaming at each other, so just reading the subtitles doesn't give the whole picture. Also the mom is so beautiful and the daughter is so cute! The husband is a lucky guy!
ruclips.net/video/Linup3HVJCc/видео.html hey babe😘🎄
Not African.
The whole family is lucky to have one another so they are also lucky
The husband is lucky because he has an attractive wife...? That thought process always makes me wonder what a person keeps inside their own head.
@@mr.e0311 SJW
Why female hosts are so shocked? Are ladies supposed to be soft spoken in Korea? I mean I came from an Asian family (yeah a fully born asian, not even mixed with other race) and we're louder than this. We always playfully talked about money too, like my mother suddenly come to me and asked "did your job pay you well?" Or shamelessly ask me to pay for the monthly grocery shopping, yet I'm fine with it tho, even jokingly said that my mom always disappear when we're on cashier 🤣
Note : sorry if my grammar is bad 😅 English is like my 3rd language
koreans have alot of emphasis placed on talking nice to your family. like im indian and if i were to talk like how the daughter did, i would be a very shitty person. people in korea just tend to not raise their voice since it can seem aggressive
@@k3vo592 that is not really very true though. People in Seoul or in the village side are very loud. Plus my Korean friends talking to their siblings are also very loud and snarky. Koreans can actually be so loud that sometimes at 3am on a Wednesday night I couldn’t sleep because people outside walking by and stuff were just so unbelievably loud.
@@athenasuperheldin1017 there are obviously people who are loud in korea but it isnt the majority. many people there are soft spoken since being loud is considered obnoxious/too much. thats why the casters were surprised. my family is pretty loud when they speak but as we live in korea, we see how the public reacts to it and try our best to tone it down. which i dont mind since cultural differences exist for every country
@@k3vo592 Now we all can see how Coulter is cultivated. It really doesn't matter rather she is loud or not because your up bringing is vastly different. That's ok just remember when the shoe is on the other foot it could look a different way as well... Im sure you understand what I mean right?
No she’s just loud as fuck stop acting like she’s not
Mom is so beautiful! I wish they had an easier time with her husband's family. I'm amazed how she was able to persist, I admire that resilience. ♥️
She is such a lovely and outgoing person, and she is still smiling and staying strong after all that she's been through, a truly admirable woman
She is lucky
she seems like a perfectly sweet woman. Imagine moving to a country that is known to be racist and discriminating against people of color, especially black people. Must've been so hard for her, yet she made it work. I admire her
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@@mk4883 yep ;(
@@mk4883 That is true. Racism plays out differently in the USA, but that does not take away from the fact that racism and colorism is also prevalent in Asia and Asian societies, not just Korea. And I am saying this as an Asian. It just looks different.
She even learnt the language. Good on her.
@@mk4883 imagine that... looking at countries based on racism & the extreme of getting shot. Wow! I know it is real but if I/we thought like that then we're suppressing ourselves via fear. As a black british/caribbean female I have travelled a few European countries by myself & had the best time, I feel I've faced more discrimination in London than Spain, Italy, Malta or Amsterdam & I dont speak their language. ☯️☮
Why is Dad such a sweetie pie talking to his daughter!? Such a girl Dad 🥰 This family is so cute.
ruclips.net/video/Linup3HVJCc/видео.html hey babe😘🎄
Their daughter is the cutest Korean girl I have laid eyes on. Such a classic Korean face but with a twist. What a sweet family.
Agree! Haha her voice is so cute too
Her skin colour isnt Korean at all. She has some of the dad's facial features
@@lindc1070 so? She’s still korean regardless
@@ashleyluna6912 half Korean
@@lindc1070 So....Korean. My half siblings are still my siblings and half of my heritage is Japanese. I am Japanese. If an ice cream is half banana and half strawberry, the whole ice cream is banana and strawberry.
Gayoung has grown so much now! I remember watching a documentary about them when she was younger. It’s nice to see them again! 🙂
Oh do you remember the name of the documentary?
I don’t remember. All I do remember is that it was shown on the Arirang channel.
Please can you drop the link of the documentry
Can you please drop the link
I also want the link,pls.
Most people saying Glady’s rude are those who are not even married yet 😂😂 she’s just really outgoing and a humorous person. And look at her trying her absolute best to fit in with a completely new and not poc friendly culture. she’s such a strong and sweet person. Wishing the best for this family!!
I like the lady. I wonder what their love story.
Maybe they had married but don't have child yet. Here we said, when you had baby you will be monster. Lol you just can't be quiet.
Omg the daughter is the spitting image of her dad, only thing different is the skin tone, wow.
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Lol I'm black and Korean and i look exactly like my dad but I'm just brown like my mom xD most of us that are blasian tend to just look like as my dad calls it "chocolate covered asians" 😅😂
@@letsnoraebang Was your mom or dad the dominant hair type? In other words, do you have thick coily hair or is it straight wavy?
@@shitpostcentral1802 my younger brother and i have loose wavy curls. Our older sister has the coily spring hair. Our hair is suuuper thick as well
@@letsnoraebang I saw a lot of blasians that were like that when I first started looking up what other blasians looked like. I’m also blasian and instead of looking more like one race I look like neither lmao. :,)
I love them together. She gives him a hard time and he LOVES it! So cute.
I see a hardworking woman, supporting wife, great mother and a woman in a foreign town, speaking a foreign language (which is amazing) to support her husband! Also, the Dad is right in not wanting his children to be on social media all day. And, truth be told, Asian women are more loud and controlling of their husbands behind closed doors. Stop misjudging this woman because the color of her skin.
She a smart beautiful queen 👑
😢 😢 😢
Wah wah wah crybabies all day.
@@BigReggii what are you even referring to?? Stay on your short yellow bus and leave social interaction to those who have the mental capacity to logically function. 🖕🏽
I'm from Seoul and this program makes me so happy. What an amazing woman. I love her honesty with money too. It's so expensive to raise kids in Korea now. She is an admirable mother.
Behind closed doors is how it should be. No man wants to be criticised publicly.
The daughter is adorable, she's just going through her phases 😂
Phases my ass. Had I acted that way there would have been a coming to Jesus meeting. Then again none of us kids would’ve done that. Parents need to be parents and not friends or pushovers.
@@highonimmi your parents are twisted if they were going to end your life over such things. Why would you wish that in anyone. Take your abuse with you
@@mebeb6399 you don't even know what a coming to Jesus meeting means. it means you have to listen to your mistakes and now you have some grounding time to think about it. instilling discipline and consideration for others doesn't take being abusive. that's the problem with most of the young people today. you think if parents give y'all limits and provide consequences to your selfish and negative actions it's abuse. being grounded and removal of your toys with some chores isn't abuse.
so now, the world has entitled people who think being a selfish schmuck should be applauded. no, it shouldn't be. if your parents are the ones working their asses off and doing without just to give you nice things then show some gratitude and respect to them. is that so hard? evidently, it is for you. "omg, you're abusive cuz i don't want to listen to you even though i don't pay for anything." why do i have this feeling this sounds like you?
psychologists claim that since smart phones and computers came along with social media a new generation of narcissism has pervaded society. i agree.
take your entitlement elsewhere. what the hell happened to kids and youth earning the little extras they want?
@@highonimmi dude relax
@@rooron3152 dude mind your own:)
Wait she’s too loud? Lol she sounds normal to me. She’s hardworking, beautiful, embracing her new culture, cooking for her family, etc, etc. She seems lovely to me.
I love that they keep it real on camera instead of trying to come off like a perfect couple/family.
I love everything about this family dynamic! As a Latina, most of us are born and raised loud; looks normal to me 🤣
Yup lol I have 4 bros and and 2 sisters u can just imagine sometimes u gotta find a quiet place in the house lol
Even my whispers are loud😂😂😂
Yeah it’s normal i was shocked reading these comments
During family gatherings it’s a scream fest. Anyone joining us would think we’re all arguing or fighting when in reality we’re just catching up 😂😭
@@xiomara4362 Exactly. So that no one misses out on the jazz or gossip😂
It’s interesting to people say that she is loud or rude when she’s really not. Ghanaians we speak very ‘loudly’ we do a lot of celebrations and even when speaking with other Ghanaians it’s very loud and friendly. This is just how things are here and it’s nice to see her keeping that whiles with her family.
I'm Ghanaian as well...I guess we are technically loud compared to others and don't realise until someone else points it out
@TrollToll comments
Why should we Korean adapted to your culture? If we think you're loud then you're loud, who are you to decide who's culture is right?
@@MincWW who the fuck said that dummy? Ur making koreans look bad
@@MincWW lmao its not about being korean or black its the relationship of the couple in the video. If that is how the wife expresses herself then surely her husband must be used to it now. Its just playful banter 💀 who gives a fuck if you're Korean no one asked
I used to teach in Korea. Honestly, they weren’t loud to me. Many Koreans talk loudly in intimate spaces. I think the family is brave living in such a homogeneous society. The daughter is also very cute. I noticed one of the hosts asked if she hit puberty yet. That was an invasive question. I suppose it’s because the girl is a bit bigger than most Korean girls.
I think they just asked that because the daughter doesnt want to speak to her parents a lot. In korean, the word for puberty doesn’t necessarily refer to physical changes in the body, but more so personality/attitude changes of becoming a teen. So the fact that the daughter wanted to play on her phone rather than converse w her parents is why the host asked the puberty question:)
@@redrose2748 thanks for explaining that because I too was taken back by the puberty question.
@@alibalbee2883 No, you’re right. That is exactly why they asked that question
Koreans ask both boys n girls to find out if their behavior is hormonal.
@@redrose2748 this is what I thought. ESP in the context.
This is so wholesome I love this family’s dynamic 😭❤️🇬🇭🇰🇷
and he has a big ass head mode enabled too
@@dddaaa6965😂😂😂😂
@@dddaaa6965 you're a fkn creep
They actually seem like they have a lot of fun together to me… she seems like she makes him laugh and smile a lot!! Love to see it!!
and he has a big ass head mode enabled too
If this family had their own RUclips channel I would watch every episode they publish! They’re so entertaining!!
Me toooo
Same
me as well, also that would be a help to their family income, i believe
Same!! They are funny
Same. The way they interact with each other is so authentic and funny at the same time.
Wow.. what a wonderful woman! She's an amazing wife and mother. And a very patient daughter in law. It's so inspiring because many would give up easily.
When it comes to biracial couples, I always noticed that the women put in a lot of effort to get involved with the husbands side of the family, to even go as far as learning an entirely new language.
A lot of the women in my clan who have been married to their non-Asian husbands for decades, yet those men barley come around and don’t know squat. When I asked my biracial cousins, if I get to catch up with them, I learn that their fathers are not comfortable with “our people”, and I’m like “y’all comfortable enough to procreate with our women, but not stop by to just say. Hi.?”.
This is completely normal. Humans (& chimpanzees) evolved in a patrilocal social structure, where men stayed in their territory with a coalition of their brothers and male cousins, while women moved between different male groups.
Well hopefully we've progressed beyond that, but this case is a bit different. We know the father is familiar with Ghana as he worked and setup businesses there and met his wife and underwent both cultural marriage system. So I wouldn't doubt his comfort when dealing with her family.
Though I may be assuming, living condition in Korea is probably much better especially for their daughter, who, likewise is doing well in school ( education is good! ). It just makes more sense for the whole family to adjust to Korea, (I think.)
@@coles5451 so men haven't evolved past being monkey?
@@user-tl9ji5pd7t Well at least not the men in the hunter gatherer tribes that anthropologists study.
Damn, that is messed up
I don’t even think they’re being loud but even if they are, they’re in their own home why does that matter??
Ignorance
@Mr Jaeger weeb thinking he can have any valid opinions
Bc they loud as hell
because they live in a cheap apartment where you can hear your loud ass neighbors
Maybe they aren't use to that volume of noise
I live in Korea. I don't understand why the host is saying she is loud. Korean women are often this loud especially in public when people are joyful. Open teasing, light hitting, nagging or even playful drunk partners is also common here. Seoul, countryside and BUSAN are known for loud people. Busan people are even made fun of for sounding and looking like they are angry all the time. I'm confused at why the host is making this comment. This woman's voice fits right into Korea! 😂
Thank you. I look at a lot of Korean TV and they get loud as hell.
They tell black women they are "too loud" all the time. They don't like when we are not invisible and speak of for ourself.
@@locturallylocs9097 it's am American Narrative and the whole world ends up treating black women as such but come to Europe especially Italy,italians are loud and I like it.
@@LadyOya 😂 I WAS JUST ABOUT TO WRITE THAT!!!! Yes I'm being loud right now. 🤣 I enjoy watching Korean movies and shows on Netflix. They are super loud. I like it though. Probably because it mimics the average household around the 🌎 world. I also see in those shows a lot of racism against darker complexions. Great couple. Love them. 💖🙂
Right?? How was that loud? And if someone were to say cultural differences, I would disagree because a lot of Asians I know are much louder than that
How she’s embraced his culture❤️. They’ve got the perfect family
Why didn't he embrace her culture?
@@BlackCultur3 Im sure he would've had they stayed in Ghana lol stop grasping for straws you bozo
@@BlackCultur3 It depends on who moves to where (ie country, household, etc). They should definitely have some both their culture in their house though.
HONESTLY IM IMPRESSED WITH THIS FAMILY...FIRST OF ALL, FOR HIM TO MARRY A WOMAN FROM A DIFFERENT HERITAGE IS AMAZING..I CAN JUST IMAGINE HOW MUCH PUSHBACK HE GOT FROM HIS FAMILY, FRIENDS AND PEOPLE FROM HIS HOMELAND. CUTE FAMILY I MUST SAY.
@Greggy Ramirez why do you think their marriage is an abomination?
Please elaborate
@@granwilloctober7711 Because he’s racist trash.
He wasnt having much success with Korean women probably
As a Ghanaian yeah she is definitely not loud, this is how we are. And sis is so beautiful 😍 love this
She's not rude at all. My parents are loud like her as well and it's normal for some people that probably were raised that way so they didn't noticed. I didn't noticed I was loud until I was in high school and tried to change which was thankfully not too late for me, but it's too late for my parents to change their volume when talking.
Ikr the korean lady keep saying they're loud like bruh it's their house and talking in their own family , they're not blasting a freaking microphone
Nope...she should live like the locals and assimilate into their cuIture...she lives in Korea...
@@oz1128 …..
@@oz1128 I've seen you said this on like every comment
@@oz1128 Koreans are loud so she is doing fine in that case.
This is such a down to earth video. Thanks for allowing us to see real family matters. Honestly this family is quite good despite the problems they face.
the daughter is being a typical pre-teen difficult lol! this had me laughing
and he has a big ass head mode enabled too
The daughter had me cracking up. I love this family!!
The man clearly doesn’t act like the typical Patriarchy Korean man, it’s not a family where the wife is submissive, she supports at work and cooks for him, and they seem to understand each other. Cute family.
People don’t wanna mind their business do they? And what if she’s loud or quiet or whatever , y’all acting like this man just married this woman omg this generation
Lmao Westerners demonizing Asians! What's new? not all Asian family works like that Asian men are way more loyal!!
가부장이 무조건 나쁜 것도 아니고 ㅋㅋ 그리고 우리나라 압도적인 페미 나라,국가여서 압도적 저출산 전세계 꼴찌 출산율인데 뭔.... ㅋㅋ ㄹㅇ 아... ㅇㅇ 영어권 영어 쓰는 새끼들 왜이리 맨날 PC적이고 PC충이 많고 SJW가 많을까? 에휴... ㅅㅂ 좌익 좌파들 진짜 개싫고 개토나오네 ㄷㄷ
@@user-yv7tz6sr8z SJW but your kind crying in USA when they get beat up. They can’t even fight so starting stop Asian hate.
@@wildearth3992 ? 뭔 개소리야 뭔 내가 징징,찡찡 거리는 것도 아니고 팩트인데 ㅋㅋ 우리나라하고 미국하고 같냐? 우리나라 상황 개좆도 모르면서 이렇게 막 씨부리고 남의 나라나 국가에 대해서 말을 막하는건 맞는 거임? ㄷㄷ 우리나라 남자들 자살 뒤지게 많이하고 있고 외국 해외로 탈출 개많이한다니까 정신 못차리네 뉴질랜드,스페인,스웨덴 기타등등 이런 나라나 국가들마냥 우리나라 페미나 젠더 어쩌구 ㅇㅈㄹ 때문에 나라 망하고 있다고 씨발아 좀 ㅇㅇ
I love their dynamic and she keeps him laughing they have a good sense of humor and banter.
and he has a big ass head mode enabled too
Looks like another beautiful story!
it sure is!
It’s very impressive she came to Korea and learned the language because being a visible immigrant is not easy even if you’re from another Asian country. Now for the daughter I’m sure there will be many challenges too, but if they stick together as a family it’s all good.
Best comment here
@@johannliebert2870 awww thank you.
She’s honestly just loud speaking. But she gets along really well with her husband and clearly shares with him the same sense of humour. She even went out of her way to please his mother who clearly didn’t want her. Most people wouldn’t bother with that and would settle with a rift in the relationship. I think she’s very kind.
She isn't loud that's how the ghana culture is .
@Duolingo Owl Nope, Asian women are taught to be very quiet and meek. Complete opposite of black culture.
The world stereotypes Asian as quiet, and they don't complain about it. So when you go to their country, they'll stereotype you as loud, how's that unfair?
@@Cxs1a3 *African
How is she rude? Stop being anti black in the comments they’ve clearly been together for almost 2 decades and seem to share the same humor.
Edit: cultural differences or not, family dynamics vary by household. Using the excuse of “korean culture” to dictate how this family interacts with each other is soooo dated. Its 2021 and there are many mixed raced families that acclimate to the other, and this family is clear evidence of that.
Exactly,she is only perceived as “loud” because she’s black.
Like that was not relevant and how was she loud.And the woman even said the same thing about the daughter….
She is obviously not Asian not just appearance but behavior too. Maybe that is why there are such comments. Her behavior in Asia is seen as “ loud”, maybe not where she comes from. Its cultural differences.
Bcs of the cultural differences, it's not abt black. Even if other race talk like that its considered quite rude in Asia especially when u talk to someone who is older.
@@thursdayistheday exactly. Even If it is a white person the comment would be same. Even the way the girl sits, feet pointing at dad would be considered rude in most Asian cultures. The dad told her to look at him when talking to him, that too is Asian culture. Rude to speak to elders with this kind of Body language. Maybe in Africa Its ok? I dont know. But not in Asia.
@@nesadcruz7840 Yeah, my mom would literally smack me if I do that and maybe kick me out of the house lmao. It's considered very disrespectful here.
The father daughter interaction is too relatable 😅😂
This is my second time watching their story and I just loveeee their chemistry. I love how much they laugh when they talk… they seem super happy
The daughter is sooo cute omg I can't even. The dad has a cute smiley face and the daughter inherited that + an upgrade
As a Korean, I love her personality including her loudness and I don't think she is rude at all. Who said that?!
Her mother in low thing is really fucked up but I know what she went through because I know how racist old Korean people are.
She's amazing wife! And why she has to cook all his meals while she's the one supports family
Right
That's probably why she seems irritated and "loud".
Yess!
That because u korean are yourself so loud and annoying, very rude. Japanese like me better
I don’t get it correct me if I’m wrong but aren’t every Korean “loud” when talking normally?
Come on y’all, she’s not being rude, she’s literally just going through a preteen phase 😂 no matter your ethnicity, race or culture, you go through a preteen phase lmao
My sister is going through this exact phase as a 12 year old. All she does is scroll on tik tok or go on discord calls with classmates. Wants nothing to do with family right now.😂
She rude asf. If that was a African man she wouldn’t talk like that because she would get put in her place really quick
Lol preteen don’t exist in Africa. You will get slap in the face for this
@@wildearth3992 chill out you’re weird asf
@@etherealhottie you’re weird for trying to justify her rude behavior by her being African. African children don’t talk like this to their parents and African wife don’t talk like this to their husband.
Maybe in America you’re a like that but not in Africa.
this family is full of jokes and banter i love it
and he has a big ass head mode enabled too
I need a whole reality series of them 😍 What a lovely family.
I love seeing interracial couples on these Korean shows. It’s a good look into real lives and how difficult it can be.
I honestly just see them as a regular family I find it wholesome 💕
The way everyone portrays black women and their attitudes and how they’re loud angers me. Loud women come in all races. Another way to push the agenda.
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Oh stfu. They are loud
@@AnAdorableWombat didn’t say they weren’t
Black women are loud. I say this as a black man. It's just a cultural thing.
@@clovemartin no every black women is the same try again
their dynamic is actually rlly funny! it's got a childlike energy to it
She is genuinely beautiful🥺
as a korean i don't see anybody being rude here XD the family may be talking loud but their conversation is just hilarious and i can feel the affection, the kind which long married couple has
ㄹㅇ 그냥 '집도 이쁘고 사업도 하고 재밌게 사는 부부네~' 이러고 댓글 봤는데 띠용함
I really admire her, picking up the language and still coming across as charismatic and charming! I’m literally half chinese and yet I’m so unconfident when I speak Chinese. My personality when I speak Chinese versus English is worlds apart. Definitely I want to be like her 😭
And plus what she went through with her mother in law. I would have chickened out but she made the effort to get to know her mother in law better even when being treated unfairly. That’s a sign of grace, truly. At that point if I was her, I would have thought to myself “man this culture isn’t for me”. I look up to her a lot.
“There are times when you want to punch your kids” 😅😅 I felt that so hard I’m a mom to a 12 year old and they LOVE LOVE TikTok more than me
I’m sure they’ve worked hard to get where they are now because you don’t see apartments like this often on this show. It’s gotta be pricey so hope his new business works outb
African women are genuinely sweet hearts. Super loving and caring.... they're the foundations and structure of African villages..... sometimes working even harder than the men... it's a tough life... creates tough women... tough hands but soft hearts that never stop caring.
I need to find myself an African queen ❤.
The editor of these videos needs a raise 😭😂😂 they're so funny
Gladys has such radiant skin and beauty :') and her korean is AMAZING to say the least
All I have to say is WOW!!! Hats off to that beautiful lady from Ghana. She moved to another country with a completely different culture for love. She not only managed to learn Korean so fluently but to cook Korean food like a Korean native! She assimilated into her husband's culture beautifully. She's is the perfect immigrant that every country would love to have. Also, she was supporting her family financially while husband was out of work without neglecting house chores. What an AMAZING lady! I wish her and her family much success in their new business and life. May God bless them.
Gayoung really has a good complexion. I want her skin 😩😩😩
She got it from her mommy. Thank her.
I'm a Ghanaian and let me tell you we are loud by nature😅. So to me how they're communicating is at a normal voice level. My family's louder than them. I can stand at the end of my lane and I kid you not, I can hear every single conversation someone is having in my house. Plus when we argue it gets way louder than that
That's us Africans....trust me I know what you're talking about...I'm Xhosa(South African) and I kid you not....when we talk it's like we have speakers in our voices turned to a 100🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@@issapurpleworldanddiamondl747 exactly and thats amplified if we're outside. I get embarassed when my mom picks up calls outside the house ause people turn their heads to see whose shouting. But hey it's in our dna
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
This is definitely a cute family… seems like they have fun everyday….
She is like a very kind and very understanding person who adjusted her life to a totally different culture to stay married to him. Needless to say, withstood a racistic culture and became successful in her life with a beautiful family. Huge respect. She is not all loud. Isn't it families normal way of communication?
Some Africans and Latin families are Loud and it’s not a bad thing it’s just culture, confidence 💕 not everyone is quiet maybe that’s why Korea has a lot of bullying scandals 😬
@Roar I think u are trying to make the Africans n S.Koreans to fight with each other.what bloody ulterior motive are u up to n why using a fake username! U are not an African n S Korean so tell us what the bloody shit are u?
Nope...she should live like the locals and assimilate into their cuIture...she lives in Korea...
@@oz1128 No one needs to change their personality or culture to make others like them, not everyone needs validation from strangers to feel happy. Some people are raised confident and proud of their culture, and no matter what country they go to, they will never change who they are.
@@rzangyz3672 Nah..Kor has thousands of years of history, you cant just go there and act like some arr0gant Amrcan..you can be yourseIf without being Ioud...with respect and manners
@@mani.filmss Never said she was…when you have Iess than 3 br4inceIIs and still wanna talk about being dmb lol…ironic…upgr4de your br4in ASAP and stop liking your own comment..the dsp3r4tion is real with this one
Everyone in the comments speaking on the wife being rude and loud when she didn’t even say anything rude to her husband. She’s just concerned about her family not making enough money to live by. Atm she is the family’s bread winner and must be difficult knowing how Korea can be towards black people especially from Africa. Y’all are acting like she’s not working and just demanding. Also she is not loud, this is just how Ghanaian’s speak. At the end of the day, they’re still married after 18 years so she must be doing something right. Just because you have an ideology of how a “wife” should be doesn’t mean you have a right to say that she’s not a good wife. Also since when did kids have to be a certain way. She didn’t do anything wrong. She just came home from school (which is a lot harder in Korea) and hadn’t been on her phone for more than five minutes and is being asked if she had done her homework. Like let her have some time to herself first. Also the point where she moved her foot, a lot of people just don’t like being touched and that is okay. She’s also just a kid. 10 minutes of an edited clip isn’t going to give you and insight of how a person is, don’t be so quick to judge as if you’re any better.
Theres like 7 people that thinks shes being loud and rude while theres like 700 people who thinks the family's cute, while theres like 1200 people complaining about the 7 people who's saying the lady is rude. Like why do yall even focus on that?
Everything about this family is so peaceful and stunning to watch.
Nothing rude about any of them. You can tell theyre a close knit family. When youre that close, you're loud and crack jokes all the time. Blessings to them!
@@Cxs1a3 you just ignorant and racist
@@Cxs1a3 Koreans are quiet people??? Lol.
@@Cxs1a3 so much steorotyping that i am cringing. lol.
@@Cxs1a3 no they aren’t 🤣have you met an actual Korean family !!???
@@lemiahporter9323 holy fucking shit MOM STOP YELLING IM RIGHT FUCKING HERE. Honestly I'm ashamed to say it but I adopted the household yelling communication because of my parents.
There is no extra word to describe them, both of them are kind and sweet people who deserved to be blessed. I’m so touched on how far they have gotten to, and wish them with all the blessings to become even better. He is a very good father and husband, so do she.
“Sometimes you want to punch your kid” 😭
I'm born in a black household with mix diversity as both my parents are black as my father's side is part Native American and my mother's grandmother's side is Chinese and find it so inspiring how the Ghanaian woman speaks Korean natively! 😇 It really breaks down the language stereotypes that us blacks can't speak other languages and just so happy for the couple giving birth to a healthy Ghanaian-Korean girl as she reminds me of my nieces as they're 12-18 and going through that phase of using TikTok let alone Snapchat lol. Not sure why but hearing them eating Roman noodles @ 8:46 is the most Korean thing I've ever seen as it's like having a little ASMR as much as I despise it, it seems so soothing hearing how they enjoy their meal as they're working the best they can to support their own household.
Also, I have Jamaican descent as well and always feel so warm and happy inside whenever I hear someone that's Ghanaian and into the Japanese culture like I am. 💚💛♥
Does it matter what race is interested in Japan who cares that’s just a Black American Stereotype people in Africa speak multiple languages what’s with the bubble😂
shes been living in Korea for like 14 years and married to a Korean guy. so of course shes going to have to learn to speak Korean
Why are you referring to us as blacks? Might as well say n i g g er. Smh
Truee. Like oh my god my family is part Congolese at my mothers side and my father is black American with the descendants of Ethiopians. I’m sick of the rumor of having people think that blacks can’t speak other languages as well. But to take another way of looking of it that’s how it is when if you’re black in America. Keep in mind black people with African descent are scattered around the across the world, we’re very diverse people. So Idc what they say about us all that matters is that if you know who you are and where your from, deep down regardless of our ethnicity/nationalities all that matters is if your heart is at the right place.
@@onyekachukwumukwumereije799 Ethiopians were not enslaved, your fathers family came from west Africa
So she’s cooking, cleaning, working and helps out with her husband’s business but all she asks is for him to get a stable job and she’s the bad guy? Come on now…
I understand it’s a start up and it takes time to grow but then get a part time job at least to tie you over. Relaxing is not how things work out. Things work out by hard work and making sure you’re focused on the project. It’s important to balance that with maintaining family social life. Women do it. All she’s asking for is equality. That’s basic.
men do it too!! he's just not doing it....
to be honest he should've never married because, the badgering is stressing the man out if he was single he could've made more money at his own pace......without the nagging, and he would be cleaning and cooking for him self with someone always complaining , if she keep this up she's going to end up divorcing this lady, the nagging will lead to arguments and a unhappy family, she needs to learn there's is a time and a place.......American do that very well in terms of talking about serious issues, when your eating shut your mouth about any serious concerns until after.
She's African..it's her job/culture to cook and clean
@@ashfoyowa6689 I'm African and our comment us dumb as f
@@ashfoyowa6689 really ? I have a feeling you’re talking out of your ass
The dad & daughter arguing really reminds me of the dad & daughter in Hometown Chat Chat Cha 😂 They're a lovely family, I wish interracial couples can stop being looked at as a rare sight. It honestly shouldn't be a different but we make it seem like it is. I get cultural differences being more of a big deal but other than that, it it just a loving relationship & family. I also love sharing cultures, I think it adds more meaning to be able to share things like that.
In Korea it’s rare. Foreigners make up 2% of the population.
@@Lidiroyal Definitely, I don’t see mixed race families in Korea very often. I get that in Korea it’s uncommon & therefore something that takes a while to get used to. I just hope moving forward it won’t be such a rare thing.
@@astrochick6171 yes and i especially don’t see couples where the man is asian and the woman is black usually it’s the other way around
The editor srsly needs a pay rise 😭😭😭THEY ARE SO FUNNY OMFG
They are a beautiful couple. I like how they get along so well.
I love this family because they are REAL
Real people, not some celebrity who knows how to act in front of camera
I think thats why some people seems put off by their actions
They dont normally see something like this on tv
I really love her - she is a very supportive wife and mother. She is like the backbone of the family. He is very lucky. Specially when she said the mother in law didn’t like her at first and she still try to win her over.
This video gives me so much hope for the world and for people and cultures to stop looking at "black" as something unattractive or not good enough. This is a beautiful family! ❤️❤️ Good luck to them
Right mom is beautiful 💕
Bro, fuck this world. Stick with your own people and you'll be good.
@@BlackCultur3 and people like you are the reason why the world is fuck up! Was not expecting a toxic reply. God created us all equal sticking with "your own kind" just separates the world more actually.
She and the daughter arent giving us good impressions so I dont know what you mean. In fact I feel its a pity if Black people are going to be likened to this. The few I know behave in a much more dignified manner
@@lindc1070 fuck, you are racist
That talk show host guy asked if the daughter hit puberty yet...like wtf?
Remove your head from the gutter, I am pretty sure he was relating her stubbornness with puberty.🙄
same thing i was thinking