Popular vs Unpopular girl having school lunch I Have you ever eaten alone?
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- Опубликовано: 27 сен 2024
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to me it’s adorable how they instantly clicked and how neither of them boasted about themselves and just shared their experiences
I like when people image God and show humility and treat others as equals. Beautiful
In front of a camera, but who know behind?
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@@DrunkyBee not all popular pretty girls at school are bad people. I've known plenty of them that are really nice.
Ok imma fix the problem here guys just stop and I'll just the the person who actually helps then, the unpopular girl is JIAHN @eazy_a2n and the popular girl is YUJIN @yuy_zzin :3
The “unpopular” girl is such a great conversationalist. I love that. I’m a big girl, and was bullied in school ‘cause of my weight as well. It has made me more of a hermit as an adult. I applaud her for speaking so freely and comfortably, and not letting her experiences dim her light. 😊💖
ikr like i had no friends in school because i had really good grades and glasses therefore everyone has seen me as the "nerd typo". i was so depressed and sad at that time because i ate lunch all alone and had to take it to bathroom to eat it because no one accepted my invites to eat together, everyone had their "group". i got over it tho but that was so frustrating. i would met the unpopular girl and easily be frienfs with her, shes just a human afer all... 😔
I have the same thoughts. She is so eloquent and endearing. I was also bullied at school for being fat and weird, and I still have panic attacks when I have to talk to strangers. It's great that she's grown into such an interesting person!
it's not good to be fat
I can relate lets be friend 😢
@@davve6057 Either way its not good to be mean :)
I checked both their socials and they’re following each other 😭 I really hope they become good friends after this video. The chemistry between them was so sweet
What's their @??
@@ShantonZ It shows in the beginning of the video
@@Akirasxly still can't they ask questions?
@@iLoveePreciousthey asked, she replied. what’s the problem? no one said she couldn’t ask questions?
@@kimm_jisooo okay was my question aimed at u?? No right then u can respectfully shut up
the "unpopular" girl has such an instant infectious personality - warm and bubbly. Sucks for those people in her school who missed out on having a great friend.
She knows how to react, she responds well, she’s a great conversation starter. She also seems nice and looks like someone who you will never have a boring day with. Definitely a great friend
It's quite common that people who are not conventionally attractive / bullied become very focused on perfecting their personality. We just know we need to have 5x as much personality as our prettier pears to be considered worth socialising with so we tend to "maximize" our good side by 250% 💀
Korea's judge much more heavily on appearances. Even parents will say it all the time. I understand the truth behind it, but you are treated more poorly for it. So it's not for any benefit - just shame.
Just to add, it's really severe to eat alone to eat alone there. Only junk food and take away.. You might notice why so much junk food is there. Just gives convenient places to eat alone.
I am pretty sure if she loses weight and do sports, she will become a diamond.
Love the active listening and eye contact from both parties. They didn't just relay their experience, but asked appropriate, thought-provoking, and meaningful questions.
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@@VinnGibbon Why are there no comments under this comment about comments under this comment
Here’s a first comment - when you’re video recorded and posted online, you know you gotta be nice in front of public eye. But we really know exactly why one of them is popular vs unpopular
@@1101G12646 why do you assume the popular girl dislikes her? their conversation was meaningful and she didn't show any signs of resentment.
@@ksoobyn I didn’t say that. I said there is a reason why one is more popular than the other . And you ought to be nice if you’re filmed
its terrible; a girl will be judged and bullied when non attractive, and be stalked and harassed when attractive
And yet in both instances, the man will more often than not blame the woman for his abusive behaviour. If she's "attractive" it's her fault for being a tease and saying no. If she's "unattractive" it's her fault for not changing her appearance with make-up/exercise/surgery to appeal to others. It's truly vile!
@@geebean9091 fr and TRUST me when i say to NOT change urself
i was fucking thin and like got bullied like SHIT so i did EVERYTHING to gain weight and after that they are like how did u become so fat- LIKE HOW ELSE AM I SUPOSSED TO NOT LOOK SKINY?!
@@geebean9091THISS. As a conventionally unattractive person this is very true
@@goldentoast69 The same thing happen to my sister. She's a skinny girl while I'm fat, more than me she's often bullied for being thin and when she gain more fats and weight, people hates her.
Welcome to earth
Hearing these girls talk, they're both so beautiful inside. They're sharing a meal now, yet highschool peers could never be so civilized to see past appearances. The girl on the lefts classmates missed out on a beautiful friend.
Yes❤
Yeah that’s so true
Society standards really fcked us over. No one cares about u unless ur somewhat attractive and no one would give af about personality either cuz all they see is a “cute person”
But when they finally get to know said person, they’ll see how bad of a person they are and after that they’ll start to look unattractive.
@@imtired5401People try to say "well good looking people have it hard too!" But how often do you hear about people getting cosmetic surgery in an attempt to look worse? If any given person had to choose between being ugly and good looking would they choose ugly most of the time?
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I honestly do not think anyone would chose to be ugly since society ruined everyone and the way they think. Beauty standards poisoned many of us so if people would want to fit in I think they’d chose to be attractive.
no, you don't know inside their hearts
I like the fact how they both have different bad life experiences where they can't relate with each other but still can empathize with each other. This video was a very interesting one !!! Giggle
Did you just type giggle
@@kennythemasseuseit’s the accounts name lol
@@kennythemasseuseLMFAOO
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Lol it's the channels name
Well it’s always fun when it doesn’t happen to you
they both have such a genuine presence, they both seem so welcoming and i really appreciate that, its a really amazing quality
We don't know that, alot of people act nice and caring when the camera is on.
literally, plus the unpopular girl was like really friendly, nice and well spoken, which no offense isn't expected from someone bullied their whole life?! she's amazing
@@FinleyIncstop assuming people are bad, not every popular girl is mean and you stereotyping them as that to give you a reason to think bad abt them is just as bad as being a bully 💀
the interaction of "wasn't lunch the best?" and the serious "...there was an incident.." keeps making me laugh LMAO
It’s hilarious
1:50
Could you say, it made you giggle?
@@QuietScoutYP yes indeed
Pun intended？
I know that the school hierarchy system in korea is quite tough so idk if this video is nice since they both seem genuine and kind but also just proves that popularity is a big deal
Sadly, It's not only Korea. Many schools have these problems :(
Friends are overrated, the more you want to be popular the more you actually empower the bullies
@@final-ben-sanbullying is a problem worldwide but Korea has it pretty rough. If you haven’t heard or watched the Korean drama The glory, it’s based off of real life experiences. But that’s just one story. There are many that have been told and some that haven’t yet.
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@@final-ben-sanKorea is worse though. In America popularity exists but people don’t pay attention to others as much in school. At my school people rarely even acknowledged people outside their friend group, and I didn’t see that much bullying, just fights between friend groups.
Since everyone’s commenting mostly lovely things about unpopular girl and they are all things I agree with - she is delightful, indeed - I’d like to show my appreciation for the popular girl as she also deserves to know how lovely she is and that she’s more than just a pretty face. I appreciate how well she listens to the unpopular girl, she listens with kindness and compassion. She is considerate in the way she offers words of comfort to her new friend, no superficial comments, clumsy words or sugarcoating but words of sincerity, openness and showing insight through her own experiences that being slim and beautiful also comes with its own set of problems. I feel that she is a gracious and warm person, it doesn’t surprise me why she’s popular. I hope I’m not mistaken in my observations of her; that what she’s shown here is not just for the camera but that this is just who she is as a person. In any case, at least in this video, both girls are wonderful individuals and beautiful in their own ways.
beautifully said
Don't we alllllll know why one girl is more popular and why the other one isn't....
@@1101G12646 I mean if you're trying to compare others, how about we compare your giant forehead to the earth's circumference, which is bigger?
@@dianamunoz4296 yours I guess
God I wished how that was how popular girls worked where I'm from. They're so shallow, they have no personality and they're so, so judgemental
I was never bullied in school, but I struggled making friends and was often cast to the side by my peers. I ate alone in the back of the library everyday until I had a class where we were allowed to snack on food, I’d eat my lunch as fast as I could, so I wouldn’t have to eat in the library. It didn’t bother me too much though, what made me anxious was school assemblies because everyone would group up and have fun with their friends and I’d feel so awkward sitting alone. I’m 21 now and as soon as I entered the adult world, I started garnering attention from people as my looks and confidence improved. Although now, I go out alone, as well as, to restaurants alone on my own will and I enjoy it :)
Ain’t no way you weren’t popular if that pfp is real
@@Typhonnyx people can change a lot between high school and adulthood.
Same here, except I was actively approached by a few of my classmates to join them at the start of the school year but my social anxiety and awkwardness f'ked it up so hard that I never got invited again... 🤷
@@laiyinquan8355 same thing happened,, I usually get attention at first because look wise I'm good but because I'm introvert and due to social anxiety I never feels comfortable so atlast they ignores mr😢
@@AngamRei I feel you. Sigh, life's so hard for us introverts in school, but at least it wasn't as bad for me as Jianh since we didn't need a meal buddy for lunch; I was free to sit wherever and alone as much as I please.
As someone who isn’t popular but not alone either. I used to believe these things don’t often happen but wow I was wrong. I’m grateful I was just a regular kid at school who didn’t have to experiences neither side of their stories.
You are so damn lucky
Yeah same, I was actually quite happy with being regular now that I think of it.
Yeah at my school bullying wasn’t really a thing cuz most people don’t care abt other people that aren’t their friends. This led to a lot of people being lonely but also little to no bullying
Same. And I wanna keep it that way. Not too much popularity but still have friends
Same. I moved schools a lot and I'm so grateful that each time there was a group there to befriend me! Getting the highest grades helped too xD
They were both so kind and considerate of each other, stalking and bullying are literally the worst things that can happen to a person, poor girls I hope this interaction helps them in someway in the future
omg I know where your pfp is from-
@@BananaRamaaI know too, It's Under the Oak Tree right ?
I could relate to the girl on the left. I didn't have friends to have lunch together so I ate alone in the art classroom for the entire semester to pretend I have to work on my projects but was actually hiding from my classmates or people from my grade. Then I had a fake friend as a lunch partner in the last 2 years of high school. That experience was awful and I completely forgot about it until the girl on the left talked about it... It was a painful period in my life and now I like eating alone.
My last two years of high school I ate in the art classroom too because I just couldn’t deal with all of the crowds and large friends groups during lunch time.
This was my case in grade 5 6 and 7
Was so awful
Worse memories I had
And now I'm alone again after my friend did some stupid sh!t
Eventhough many ppl tried to be my friends at first, even the popular girls wanted to be my friend bcz I was "pretty"
But my personality was the issue
I was very quiet and shy
So all I could do was to look at them and wish it was me
Solitude is sometimes a gift that allows us to grow and appreciate ourselves as we are. Let’s focus on the positive, there is always a bit of light even in the darkest places. Hope u all doin’ good, i wish u the best :)
@@lana_354Same
I was similar (wasn’t completely alone but still opted to be a loner because most of my friends are not in honors classes). I even set up a sleep schedule for which easy classes to sleep in because people in some classes made me feel socially uncomfortable. The cliques are stronger the more you go in smart classes. The worse part was that I basically starved myself the whole day because I only ate food at the last period which is art class (where all my friends are). I don’t even remember if I drank water adequately either… As scary it is to eat alone in a cafeteria, try eating small snacks at least during class throughout the day, you wouldn’t want to develop an eating disorder [I don’t have any but at that time I almost did].
As an popular guy at my school, whenever I talk to "unpopular girls" people usually glare at us in intensely.
Especially girls, it got so bad that I literally got cyberbullied. I can't imagine how the unpopular girl went through tbh.
Quite literally that time I understood how strongly people judge on our appearance. That girl I was talking to was intriguingly based/fun to talk with and our convo usually ended up in deep topics such as philosophy, consciousness, history ect. Such a W person. Hope she is doing well
Friends are overrated, the more you want to be popular the more you actually empower the bullies
Why did they cyberbully you tho?
wtf. u still in grade 2?
In actual reality, you caved to the opinions of a bunch of people who won't remember you after graduation and chose them over a genuine friendship just so that you could "save" your reputation. Nothing to see here but a scum coward.
I am sry,but still this type of things happens in school?
The "unpopular" girl seems like such a nice person to have as a friend
And she seems like someone amazing to have a conversation with at school or anywhere :)
I eat alone most of the time, and people think I'm crying, but I'm really just tearing up because of how goddamn spicy my mom's food is.
(guys can we rlly js ignore the god in goddamn? when someone says marks for an exam paper they aren't talking about the name mark.)
My schools chili sos is sooo spicyy my eyes were teary ones too
LAMOO
LOL that´s a mood
Lmao
Pls don’t use Gods name in vain
The unpopular girl is such a vibe! And actually facially really pretty and cute. She’s a great conversationalist. Such a shame for people missing out on her friendship.
Doesn't matter if she's pretty or not people should be treated with respect unless they are criminals who k*ll, r*pe... Etc
@@zizojaezekeom3565 ?? what
@@zizojaezekeom3565I mean yea your right but… why reply that to this comment??? I don’t see the connection…
@@zizojaezekeom3565why’d you have the need to say that
@Cherylmayblii Because the OG comment thought it was necessary to say "facially pretty" meaning the rest is not, which in turn could be seen as a back handed compliment. Quite rude actually. I get that people express their honest opinions and sometimes mean well, but the lack of self awareness when speaking shows ignorance and can potentially hurt others even if there was no malintent.
i like how when they were talking about their experience with people on the street, you can see how even though they may not seem similar to each other that they both relate to one another with their experiences with people based on their appearance. It just puts into perspective how even if you are popular or unpopular or if you're 'ugly' or 'pretty' you can still experience really shitty things.
I'm against bullying, but being overweight is a choice 99% of the time. She could have dieted and exercise and her social life would be increased dramatically.
@@user-uy1rg8td1vwhat point are you trying to make ??
@@user-uy1rg8td1v yeah but regardless that isn’t a reason to be treated like crap
@@user-uy1rg8td1v yes, but someone being fat or "ugly" is not an excuse to treat that person horribly. People always point out that fat people can and should change themselves to have a better life. But noone ever mentions that the bullies and mean people should change themselves too. They can be decent human beings if they want to be, they just choose to be horrible.
It's interesting to know how eating alone is a big deal in Korea or America. In my country, at least when I was student, it wasn't something people even thought about. Main concern was to grab food during a break, quickly find a spot and eat as fast as possible, because time of a break is pretty limited, so was a sitting area.
Wow I hope you get a good rest 👍 I can't imagine not being able to talk with friends during lunch
Same with me, eating during break just about who will get the food fast.
In the Netherlands, nobody cares if you eat alone or drink coffee alone. I love it.
@@Edge9404 yes, in Belgium it's the same. Literally nobody cares lol.
and in china
I'm surprised at how sitting alone made other people talk about you negatively. Personally, i used to search for empty places to sit so i could watch whatever i wanted or just enjoy eating on my own. If anyone noticed, they didnt care. I really feel for the girl on the left, because though i experienced being alone at lunch, it was never a hurtful experience.
I honestly admire people who sits alone while at lunch, like you guys are so brave.
There is a big defferance of being left out and by choice to be lonely.. left out by own friends really effects and other people easily sense it
Lol me too. As a slow eater, I liked eating alone because if there was somebody with me they'd prob talk to me which distracts me from eating.
I use to eat with people but they kept asking for my food and this wasn’t even friends, these were people I barely knew. I was uncomfortable and said no and they started to talk shit about me. I then started to find a place to eat my food by myself.
When you eat by yourself due to being bullied and excluded, it does suck. Why? Because humans are social beings. Eating with others means comfort, protection, and belonging. There’s nothing wrong with wanting to eat alone, I do it myself cause I want to enjoy my food. Though when we eat by ourselves due to people casting us away it uncomfortable, lonely, and hurtful. It doesn’t feel too good once you see the stereotypes movies depict high school(ers).
Having teachers ask students to sit with you not only hurts your pride but you’re treated like a sad lost puppy that gets treats from the locals out of pity. The one thing I hate the most is getting pitted on cause it makes you feel inferior and weak while others get the praise and high of “helping” someone who is low and beneath them.
@@mintealeafyby any chance were those people asking for your food because of financial difficulties or otherwise being malnourished by their parents (perhaps as punishment?)
It's such a brave thing for her to appear on this show and talk about their experiences honestly. I have so much respect for her!!
it’s so sad how they both experience major harassment just in different ways, they both seem like such kind people too :(
Cause most people are trash.
If you're ugly they look down on you and if you're pretty they will put you down out of jealousy.
@@babycherry8103 right? you can’t win either way and if you’re in the middle you’re boring and no one will notice you
There's no real way of winning :,> maybe there's is I guess have a small real friend group and have fun I guess but dam
@@babycherry8103 not really the truth. If you are objectively pretty, going through life will be much easier and have far more benefits than being ugly. Its soo much worse to be ugly. Its definitely nothing like being in the middle. Being really ugly is at the bottom, but being attractive is far from the bottom. Comes with a bunch of benefits to look good
@@tripleknotttttdon’t compare situations “ugly” ppl get sa and used too. Sorry you went through that but we all have our struggles and the comment your replying to is simply just a bit of a fact statistically pretty people have it easier. But that also doesn’t automatically invalidate the stuff you’ve been through it’s just a blanket statement. You deserve better hun
Both of the girls are so polite , its amazing!!
And fake 😂 they both admitted to be pretending in their experiences... here school life none cares if you alone or not, fat or ugly or whatever system is a bit different too but never seen someone cry to eat alone infact i would have loved to eat alone away from constant bla bla of my friends and them wanting to eat off my tiffin . But can't deny eating from theirs is best 😂 so can't say otherwise.
Our school extends from 6am to 1pm or 7am to 2pm so we have just a small eating break within our regular class
Idk what system these ppl have but they sound fake and pretentious...
@@afrozmunib1698 you do realize not every school is gonna be like yours 💀
@@afrozmunib1698 that moment when you think everyone lives in the same environment and culture as you! slay uneducated king 😍😍😍😍
Ain’t no way they did the chubby girl dirty like that in the thumbnail 💀
Yeah, like whats even the purpose of this video then? Its ridiculous and sad
fr like i think shes cute, but they KNOW what they were doing choosing the thumbnail..
but maybe she wanted to pose like that for the thumbnail? who knows tbh
@@forwork-e5i nah it’s on purpose 💀
I didn’t even see it in a negative way? She looks cute there. I think you’re overreacting.
They both have different types of bad incidents but still empathize with eachother. i can tell the popular girl really felt bad for the unpopular one even though she never experienced something like her. It's so nice to watch these videos
they both seem so lovely 😭 i hope a friendship blossomed from this
Jiahn’s personality is so attractive to me, she seems so mature and intelligent. I love her for that :))
tbh the "unpopular" girl would be an amazing supportive friend and the "popular" girl was really attentive and waited for her chance to speak both warmed my heart
For a long time I didn't realize how privileged I was in school, everybody knew who I was and it was easy to make friends because people would simply aproach me. All the teachers knew my name and they all liked me, the principal was almost like my best friend, we still see each other sometimes and he always give me the best hugs. I was my class's leader during all my high school period (elected by my own mates). I never really realized how great school was for me until I hear reports of people having a hard time there, I would love to go back in time and look more around me and make friends with excluded people, I was so centered in my own world that I don't even remember if there were people who were being left out. I wish I could change somethings...
It’s good you have the awareness now. The best thing you could do now is try to make ppl feel seen
Many teachers at my school knew who I was too, and as an honors student for a couple of my classes, I was always with the same people. Being in honors/AP is like spending your entire high school life together with the same group. However, I tended to enjoy the company of others who also felt excluded and alone. They are always so reserved and full of thought, and I always liked hearing from them and becoming close friends with them. I found it difficult to say goodbye to them as I graduated this year as many were underclassmen. I strongly believe that people should venture out to find friends that they truly enjoy being around. Often times, the excluded ones are far better than the ones with tons of friends.
I was the complete opposite, I didn’t have a lot of friends and none of the teachers ever acknowledged me or said my name, I had such a hard time I considered ending it all, but I did try to spend time with other people who were left out or quiet, I knew how much they could give if they were just included. and the school system was fucked up
@@bradentheman1373I hope you're doing better now my dude. I had a similar experience growing up and fucking hated it. Now I'm a teacher and make an effort to reach out to kids who don't seem to have friends.
@@bradentheman1373feel u. My high school experience wasn’t good at all but I did make some friends. College is worse b my goal is not on networking. Sometimes I feel like being an introvert in NA = failure most of the time😂😂😂
I can relate to this, I wasn't popular nor draw attention into me. But being bullied I can relate 100%. If we become insecure and having the mindset of "I don't want to be judge by others." can make you feel uncomfy. But I learnt that not everyone will come to like you. Even being popular won't mean is pleasant. Making friends, and being accept is hard, but remember: You're always gonna be your own friend.
I never experienced any of these things at school, but I did experience seeing someone eat alone. In 6th grade, my friend and I went to lunch, and we sat with this boy, who would eat alone every day, and I wanted to be his friend. He was so sweet. Truly a rare gem these days. I would bring him candy, but he would always say he was going to give it to his brother. That make him seem even more kind. He was quiet, smart, and just a good person. My friend would ship me with him because she thought we looked cute together 😂. But I didn’t like him at the time, I just saw him as a friend. Haven’t seen him in person since. I moved away before 8th grade, and currently about to be in 10th. recently that same friend told me about him and showed me a picture, and he looks and awesome. Apparently he does so many sports, he cares about school, he’s respectful to girls, and he’s kind. When I saw the picture of him I think I fell in love… that guy is exactly what I want in a relationship. Physically and personality. I just wish I could see him again…
Hey you never know!😂
@@painlaine6636 yeah your right Thanks😁 hopefully I’ll see him again one day
get his insta or smth
@@erianisdeleon4952 wish I could but I don’t have insta n I’m not that confident in myself to ask for social media 💀
Bro I'm sure he'll genuinely be interested in you, cause you were a great person towards him when he was in his low moments, I hope u can meet him again
I'm from the US and it's the same thing at lunch. There are tables for popular kids, tables for regular kids in the popularity hierarchy. and tables for the unpopular outcast kids. But one interesting observation I'd notice is a table where all the Korean immigrants who came to the US not too long ago sat in regardless if they were popular or unpopular. We had a huge Korean population in our neighborhood and schools. Overseas Koreans tend to stick together.
I’m also from the us and that wasn’t my experience. People would eat with their friends or sit with random people to make friends, and kids that didn’t have friends or were shy would eat alone. It wasn’t really an outcast situation.
My high school was like this. Very strict social rules about where you could sit at lunch. Since I was never part of a popular group, I never got to sit at a table. For the first 2 years, my friend group was larger but still unpopular, so we got a place by a tree with a wall we could sit on. But then we had a bad break in our group that led to half of my friends leaving us and joining the drama clique that had a great place to eat lunch. For the last two years of high school my 2 close friends and I sat with the super unpopular kids on the ground in front of the library. It was the only place we could go where we wouldn't be harassed since it was so far away from where the other kids ate food and was within line of sight of the teachers that spent lunch in the library.
We had a large population of Asian students because it was partially a boarding school with lots of students from over seas. They took all of the tables inside the cafeteria. It was an unspoken rule that boarding students sat inside and all the rest found a place outside. There never seemed to be any infighting amongst the Asian students. They were all united together against the day students
My high school isn't particularly like this, "popular" tables and people didn't really exist, people just sat with their friends and didn't really interact with others that much (mostly everyone's just f-ing around on their phone) and people people who dress like what you'd think a popular girl would dress like just hang out with their own friends and keep to themselves. Even cheerleaders are just warm and open and friendly (it's the band kids who are really mean lol)
@@pathetic2399Okay. No one asked.
@@littlebean7764I did, sir. Now stfu and listen.
It is really interesting finding out the two different extremes these girls experience. At first things do sound very easy with Yujin regarding certain things, but then she does experience some really nasty things like a different kind harassment than Jiahn experiences. It's quite scary.
they are so sweet, the fact they instantly clicked together- i wanna be their friend so badly
All throughout my school life, I've never experienced being popular nor did I hang out with that crowd. One time I was accused wrongly and those bullies managed to turn my "friends" against me so I was alone during lunch time. The anxiety was too much and my "friends" were looking at me from another table, some with pity, some with disdain, the bullies looking smug. That day I locked myself in one of the cubicles in the bathroom I know a few would go to and ate my lunch there while crying. It happened one time and it was traumatizing so I can't even imagine having to experience that every single day.
:(( I hope that now you've made some friends that are worthy of your time, effort and care.
Damn, we have the same high school life 😭 my once bestie was the one that started the fake rumors about me to everyone at school, and everyone even the ones I dont even know who they are hated me and ostracized me. All my social media got spammed by them calling me names in dm, tagging me in posts that are humiliating me, spam calling, etc. Luckily the teachers are keeping me company, so I always stayed in the teachers room during breaks. Guess what? These assholes followed me into the teachers room and kept on watching me until some teachers shoo them away (they still peeked into the door tho). Dk wtf do they want, thinking back they are just losers like bottom pit losers who are stupid and getting low grades every time (some even faked their graduation certificate bcs they failed lol), and they kept on using others as a shield to do shit to me, literally cowards and losers without any achievements. Im the type to dgaf about ppl, thats how i got through it and now i just graduated uni and landed on a really amazing job. Hope they rot finding a job with their fake uni certificates (if their uni even let them graduate with failing grades lol)
That is so sad. I can't even begin to imagine what it's like to be falsely accused and suddenly become public enemy number one. Hearts out to you and hope you are doing better now ❤❤❤
@@laiyinquan8355 Thanks, I really hope it never happens to you or anyone else 😭it's really just an extreme feeling of having to be at my most perfect appearance and attitude at all times, the moment I make a mistake even by a really really tiny bit everyone will start another round of rumours about me being 10000x worse than what I actually really do. Sometimes they will purposely do stuffs just to accuse me. One time I was jogging during physical edu class (everyone too), they suddenly just bump into me so hard that their gum started bleeding. Guess what? The person started fake crying saying I just slammed my body to them💩Telling everyone that person is the one who bumped into me is useless, they are freakin deaf and idiots who only follows "commands" from another retarded toxic person. And you probably know what happens next.
The girl with the glasses is so beautiful, it’s so sad that people are bullying her because of how she looks :(
This is so real. I didn’t have any friends so I used to skip lunch and hide in the bathroom stall until lunch ended so I wouldn’t have to deal with it. Also, the part where her home room teacher told kids to eat with her really resonated with me. My school counselor would try and get kids to eat with me but it hurts when you know they don’t actually want to be there. It’s so nice seeing them try to emphasize with each other even though their stories are very different. It shows that everybody can and *will* struggle. It’s just a fact of life. The best part is continuing through them.
I would also skip lunch and hide in the bathroom stall. Except no adult figure or peer stood up for me and confronted me about this. So, often, it would feel like no one cared. I would never go back to highschool
I used to do this too 😢 for years and years
Omg I didnt know other people hid during lunch😭 I did it in grade 9 and grade 10 because I didnt have any friends and didnt want anyone to pity me😢 So I used to either make myself seem busy by walking so fast everywhere randomly during lunch or I would hide in the library pretending to be very busy! One group of friends I think realized how lonely I was and invited me but I immediately rejected & pretended I was busy because I felt the pity and didn’t want to make them confirm that I was in fact this sad lonely individual😭😭
Thankfully, we never bully our classmates, alone or no, people doesn't care. Mostly students eat alone because they want it, no student is really alone. If you want to eat together, just walk together, we ate together in the classroom, it's so beautiful time.
근데 진짜 인정... 고등학교 초반까진 비만에 자존감도 낮아서 꾸밀줄도 모르고 따돌림도 자주 당하고 살았었는데, 30키로 정도 빼고 저체중까지 찍은 지금 되니까 스토킹이든 성범죄든 표적이 됨... 둘 다 겪어본 입장에서 못생기면 따돌림, 예쁘면 성범죄... 이게 맞음... 세상은 참 더러움...
😢😢😢
Stay safe
Please stay safe❤❤❤
Jiahn and yujin they're so cute!! It's very interesting to watch this video they both look so beautiful and kind they seem to have a different personalities but being different is so cool because everyone is unique in their own ways 💜 thank u giggle for this amazing video 💜💜
did anyone notice 0:14 the same sound from night has come kdrama 😳
YES😭
Yes
After this, I feel blessed for my 6 amazing food buddies that most other peers couldn’t have. We’ve all stuck together since middle school, one joining us during junior year. And we’ve never missed a day. I love them from the bottom of my heart.
It’s warming to see both of them talk freely about their experiences. Lovely people
Her ponytail and bangs are so cute, they really suit her (imo)
they are such extroverts and get along so well, i would be thrilled to have them in my friend group at school
This also shows how different societies are in education world. I live in Finland, and we don't strictly follow "who's rich, popular" what so ever, is just connection (network) you've w/others. I love to improve my communicate (as introverted), but end of the day I'm still alone outside school. I don't mind it since I love to be alone, and people think/taught I was lonely. No, I'm not. + They're two different things.
I think it just depends on the school. I’m American and there’s not really a “popular” clique at my school. Obviously there’s some people that a lot of people know but that’s cuz they’re either involved in a lot of school events, really good at something, get in a lot of fights, etc. but it’s not like some feared group of people with class or anything like in movies. Nobody cares abt cheerleaders as much as they do in movies. There’s no one guy every girl has a crush on. There’s no clear class pres winner or homecoming queen/king winner. My class pres was someone I never even heard of until they won
@@cl-jp3uv truely.
I feel like these two girls should be friends. They both seem very sweet
I really wish we mixed together better like this. If you ignore conventional looks, imagine the friends we could all have.
Did u in your life ignore your so called "conventional looks" ?
If you say u did then my next question is Do you put makeup on your face 😂?
Free quote for you :
"Be the change you wish to see in the world" ~Mahatma Gandhi
@@afrozmunib1698 I'm sorry, but I don't understand.
I ignored conventional looks and chose my friends based on personality alone. I befriended the "unpopular" kids and always invited other people to join us when I saw they were alone until we were 6 people and definitely not a small group anymore. And I have to say they were all a lot nicer than the shallow gossipy pricks who excluded them in the first place. We are still friends way into adulthood. The first step starts with you.
@@Tsuukime My point was that it would be nice if it wasn't an effort. Simply excluding another group and generalizing people on a different merit is not exactly better.
1:57 i love her laugh so much. She sounds so comforting and funny and she’s also so gorgeous in her own beauty
This is literally the best thing I've ever seen & it's healing that lonely lunch trauma...I hope we all have lunch buddies now, or at least enjoy our own companies more than before
It's interesting to see perspective from both of the girls
As for me, I think I stand in the middle ground. I wasn't bullied (anymore now) but I couldn't make any friends. Appearance wise, I'm average and sometimes receive compliments if I do dress up. However, once they know my quiet personality they immediately cast me out. It might be an exaggeration on my hand, but it's one of the reason it made me lost appetite to eat on my own. Aside from lunch, there were a few times when we'd choose groups to partner for school assignments and write them down on the board. Eventually, all girls wanted to change out from mine. I know it might be cause they want to be with their friends but it just pained me a bit.
It's somewhat my fault as well. Since growing up I'm told I'm to clingy to people I like so it gets the wrong impression. In junior high, they thought I was too distant. Now, I just sit in the corner alone writing during recess.
Jiahn is like me. I was severely bullied in school and often ate by myself. No one seemed to like me no matter how nice and accepting I was of others. I would have eaten with her every day and have been great friends with her if we were similar in age. This video is nostalgic to me in a bitter sweet way
bro r u ok
@@Kneecaptain Yep! Thank you so much for asking!
@@BreannaBaozi JUST KNOW THAT UR FAMILY LOVES u
@@JaydenByun I know they do. I never doubted that haha
i love how that even after the recording stopped, you could tell they were still talking with each other ❤️
Different country really different social experience. I am from Malaysia. Where I am, there's no shunning of people choosing to eat alone. We would just brush it off as he or she is probably not very sociable and don't like to be disturbed. And we can have friends of any sizes or status, popular and non-popular kids gets to mix together to have fun and do stuff. Now after watching this video, I feel even more thankful to be where I am.
Same in India
Same in the Philippines
as a malaysian, yep everything u said is true. no one minds who u sit with, even if its a stranger whos from a different race or religion.
Yeah those people in Korea watching these videos and stuff look fake to me like their kpop stuff but in the name of entertainment everywhere in the world they fool u so can't say otherwise but yeah this is nonsense right there😂.
Scared ro eat alone ? I used to wish my friends disappear during the recess so I can eat alone peacefully.
Whatever these koreans smoke its dangerous !
More dangerous than their kim jon un
They were talking abt bad stuff the whole time but it was so sweet to watch this
My experience includes both sides from these girls, but more to the one on the left. I lost all of my close friends before highschool, and all through highschool i struggled with anxiety and my social skills, so it was so hard for me to find friends. I used to hide in the bathroom for the entire lunchtime, and would barely eat. I also got pitied by others alot and i had one friend who was kind of a fake friend but i just tagged along with anyway because i had no one. One day i decided to just face my fear and i remember going up to these girls in my class, and asked if i could sit with them. They said sure and so i hung out with them so i wouldnt be alone, which took so much courage.
Now im in my last year of school, and i somehow made a bunch of new friends over the holidays. We grew closer and i was so happy that people liked me for once, and i was becoming more popular and confident in myself. But after a few months, they began excluding me from things and im left out and ignored alot. So i just hang out with other kind of friends or just random people i talk to. Im definitely alot more chill and less stressed than i used to be, and i definitely dont let their opinions ruin my life any more, and i dont hide anymore, which i stopped doing for my own self worth. However i still often feel left out and like i dont belong among the friends i have and im not as popular as i was before. I know people still look at me sometimes and wonder why im alone but id much prefer it than to hang out with fake people and not feeling comfortable around them.
Maybe its to do with my self confidence that i still dont feel popular enough to be friends with them or maybe they really arent real friends, but im just trying my best to be myself and finish school on my own.
I’m gonna cry they’re so cute ❤❤❤ please make more with these two!!
being alone teaches you a lot. some days are definitely harder than others, but keep going. you deserve to only have people who support you fill your life. ❤️
Man from what I could see I love how they both understand each other and emphasize each other feelings 😊
I love that they got along and seemed to really understand and have empathy for each other's struggles. Very sweet video. 💖
Jihan is brave, cheerful and open-minded.
These are the three most important characteristics in women successful in their career.
Honestly, I've experienced both sides and could relate to them both. I was often ostracized by my peers for being too "nerdy"? Though I had friends, I always felt that I was often laughed at. I realized that I would be cutting off my life experiences and opportunities if I couldn't overcome this so I made an effort. I studied what was popular and wore trendy outfits. I encumbered my interests, I no longer talked to people regarding hypothetical situations, fantasies, philosophies, and all the things people found boring in our place at that time. And sadly, it worked. People often looked for me and hung around with me. I found myself new friends and have really benefited from the privilege of being popular and pretty but I also paid the price. That life seemed fake. Now, I just feel like I go out with a mask. But to be honest, if I were to choose which lifestyle to keep? I know I would still choose this current lifestyle. I had made true friends and enjoyed my school life. Being made fun of and overlooked made me lose my self-confidence. One thing I realized was that you just have to love yourself.
Really curious how you relate ”loving yourself” to quenching and deleting your own personality?
I have been to a couple different schools and here is my quick story.
K-4, tiny Christian school, it wasn’t about looks, it was about speed. Once every couple of months our PE teacher would get us to ‘race.’ She did it to see improvements probably, but you’d run around the gyms court about 20 times. Each lap, your partner would mark the time. I was the fastest girl by far, still am like 8 years later. The faster you were, the popular you were. I had two boys who were the fastest liking me and I liked one of them back. The girls wanted to be me and I was friends with everyone. I was the queen bee.
I was also told I was ‘dumb’ there and got grouped into the dumber class.
Next school, 5th grade. I hung out with the popular kids so I was popular, there were only like 10 girls. I was also seen as dumb.
Next school, 6 -7 1/2 one of the top schools in our city intellectual wise. I was one of the most unpopular and my teacher made the most popular girls hang out with me but I luckily found few friends after that.
Next, I moved countries, in the middle of the year. Last half of 7th grade till now, freshman year.
There are like 8 girls. One queen bee who is rather unpleasant, and then like 4 of her lackeys’ then there is me and my 4 friends. ‘The weirdos’
One, is a complete nerd who stays inside instead of socializing, she is sweet but…
Another is really sweet and really pretty, she gets everything socially wise.
Another is sweet, but doesn’t get a lot of social ques.
And then the last one. She thinks she is all that and I really dislike her. She constantly refers to be as being ‘dumb’ even though my iq is above average by 10-15-
So, I just wanna say to anyone reading this, it will change, and it doesn’t matter. As soon as you move schools, move away, it changes and no one cares if you were unpopular or popular.
@@Tindre Hey, this is just my perspective on this. It's not like I deleted my personality, quench? yes, but I didn't delete my personality. I still love the intricacies of life but I've also come to love the vainness of it. Now I just choose people which side of me I like to show and I have come to love both sides of myself. Sometimes, it feels fake but I rationalized it as "I started on the other side, that's why this feels fake?" But all in all, I'm enjoying my life now more than I did then. I think that's what matters.
You did what you could in order to survive school, it's ok. Part of me often regrets not doing like you, but part of me is glad I didn't. Truth is a huge chunck of the people that mocked me for my "nerdy" interests are now pursuing the same hobbies that I had as a child/teenager because some of those are trendy now (or because they're regressing). That or they aren't doing so... great in general ? They're pretty limited in their interests and in their life options as they didnt walk on "potential unpopular and uncool" territory. I do believe that allowing myself to explore my actuals passions, sometimes going way past them and discovering another thing altogether greatly helped me forge my character and evovled into a more fully realized adult.
I do lack social skills, I do have trauma, my middle school experience was all around shitty. Yet by highschool I was respected for the way I could incorporate my own culture to projects and carry them or how well versed I was on a specific subject. Now I'am a grown and well forged person for the most part, at least I learned to stand behind by beliefs and source of enjoyement and I got to meet people interests in the same topics as me or not, but they're grown enough to respect and appreciate me nonethelss !
@@sylvackerman6362 Don’t undersell yourself or you character, you put into a lot of work to get accepted by your peers and have a better social life, that’s huge dedication and work. I was simply too autistic to do that back then (or now) lol ! But the good thing about passions is there is no time limit for discovering, exploring or enjoying them, let alone progress. It’s cool to reflect on our past and the regrets we accumulated, hopefully we can now safely makes space for the things that were denied to us growing up :)
I both appreciate both! I also like how the personality of the unpopular girl is and how the popular girl don't came out as intimidating
Their friendship is gold ❤
I had this same exact same experience when I was in middle school. I didn't have any friends to eat with at my lunch table and it made me really self conscious so I wouldn't eat any of my food. Sometimes people would even ask me to have the food on my tray. It got so lonely that I started to bring a book to read and it helped pass the time and drown out my surroundings. One day my teacher asked me if I had any friends in other classes, which I did, and she let me go sit with them. I'm really grateful for her because once I started eating lunch with my friends I actually looked forward to lunch time. This video brought back some unpleasant memories but I'm also glad to know that I'm not the only one who went through something like that.
This eating arrangement is quite different in my country, during lunch hours, I eat alone and I don't feel bad about it.
funny how your looks determine how your personality is perceived from your looks and how it indicates how welcomed you are in any groups of society
I've also been bullied or treated badly by other people because of my weight or my appearance, I'm not fat but not skinny either, chubby basically. A classmate used to kind of bully me because of my weight, but he was fatter than me. My friends back then told me to defend myself and treat him the way he treated me, but I was too nice. I can relate to the girl on the left but also to the girl on the right a little bit as well. I honestly don't know why some people are judgmental and mean, and treat people bad. Nowadays, I'm trying to live healthier so I can be more healthy and lose some weight, but only because I want to. Sometimes, living in countries where beauty standards are so high, can cause damage to your mental and physical health. The two girls are so nice and so pretty, I wish them nothing but happiness. Everybody is beautiful in my opinion. To anyone who sees this, I'm sending all my love to you.
the girl who got bullied seems like such a good and fun friend, if i saw her i would’ve been friends with her. i wish people would just treat eachother equally 😕
Just her talking about her experience of eating lunch alone really resonates with me and I started tearing up because it brought me back to middle and high school. I didn’t have many friends because of social anxiety and low self esteem and it was one of the hardest things to deal with at such a developmental age. I felt like such a loser because I’d either have only one friend or no one to eat lunch with. I never ate in the cafeteria during high school because I felt this overwhelming anxiety that people were judging me for eating alone or with just one person. And I hate that because of how I look and act now people don’t believe me when I say that I was unpopular and a loner in my teenage years, and it kinda invalidates my experience that I had then. If I could go back in time with the mindset I had now, I would tell myself that it won’t be forever and you can find power in independence. I would tell myself that you aren’t a loser for not fitting into the social circles that you have around you. And I feel so much especially for those that are/ were bullied because thankfully I kept my head down enough to avoid it.
they both are good listeners and it's way better to watch them talking throughout the video! hope you both become a good friend✨
I had both situations happen to me, the bullying when people considered me 'ugly' and I did no wear brand or expensive clothes during middle school, and the sexual harassment in the streets when I was in high school. Doesn't matter what you look like, other people feels entitled to your looks and to use them to suit themselves, if you are fat or considered ugly they will try to make you feel like you don't deserve to be alive, and if you are pretty and/or thin they will try to use you.
just two girls who didnt want to be popular or unpopular, just two labels given by society.
society really sucks sometimes
I was in a similar situation to the girl in the video where I would never eat lunch most of the time (for 2 years) which I acknowledge is probably really bad. For me it was a combination of not having any friends, being incredibly anxious and hating myself which was basically an eating disorder where I felt like I needed to punish myself. I told myself it was okay because I would just study instead and get good grades but I was always hungry during class.
I've never had a problem with doing things by myself and actually liked it but it was the feeling of being the only one by myself that made me feel even more anxious and withdrawn; also something about eating in front of others makes me feel really self-conscious. Part of studying I guess was also to make myself look busy, that I had an important piece of work to complete that meant I couldn't socialise, except all of the time. A lot of the time I would even leave the building to go to the toilet stall because that was the only place I felt any privacy and I get incredibly easily overwhelmed in places with lots of people around. I feel like all loners share that experience of staying in the toilet stall. It may be a bit gross but not as much as everything else was to me. I'm kinda just glad I wasn't forced to sit with anyone because that would make me feel even more depressed and like I'm being ridiculed by someone who is only there because they were told to be. Honestly though I wanna hug anyone that's been through this kinda thing because I really do get it. Stay safe everyone ♡
They are both so sweet and its cute to see how they care and empathize with each other even if their experiences are different
the “unpopular” girl seems so sweet :( she deserves better and she has such a warm and bubbly personality
One is overweight with a natural Korean face, and the other is slim with tons of plastic surgery.
why are you assuming? She probably has a strict workout routine/skincare routine. And if she did had plastic surgery, who are we to judge? Its her choice
More like one takes care of themselves the other doesn't as much
@@Chuuinluvthat’s kinda rude
I like both of the girls. Just because you are unpopular doesn‘t mean that you are uncool or sth like that but also if you are popular doesn’t mean that you are a bad person or sth like that. They are both cute girls🫶
I was a pretty well-liked person in my high school, although I wasn't all that popular for being some club president or even for my looks. I was popular as a choir student and as someone who had this pretty singing voice, and whenever people saw me alone, some of them would ask if I was okay. I was always fine. When I was alone, I focused on spending time listening to music, and I often preferred being alone, but there were one or two people that I really loved eating with since they were genuine, kind and were interested in the same things I was. As a blind person, I never saw anyone's faces around me or saw anyone giving me dirty looks, but I've had a kid crush on me once and he got in trouble for attempting to touch me. But he had a traumatic accident as a kid so I will let him off the hook. I'm sure he didn't mean to make me feel uncomfortable. But it just goes to show that even popular kids don't always prefer eating in groups.
i feel this, i get easy with people around but i do also have my time alone. and they thought i was too depressed for doing things alone than together, when the truth is i always need a solo time after going with people since im good at socializing haha, it takes energy to please them anyways!
I never comment on videos, but honestly this one impacted me. I was never bullied in high school but I did have people who had crushes on me that turned into obsessive stalking and harassment. It honestly goes to show that there's problems on both sides. I feel for both of them because even thought they had different experiences, they still had their struggles.
it's kinda gonna happen to me
I have a really interesting take on this...I used to be the unpopular kid when I was in primary school up util 3rd grade. When I say unpopular, I mean if some kids did something wrong, they'd point the blame on me and the teacher, without investigating the situation or asking me what happened would side with the bullies. It was especially tough since growing up, I was in abusive environment. I would get beaten up regularly by my parents and other members. I still have scars left from those days. So overall my life was a complete mess.
After grade 3, I became the kid that was talented at sport. I trained 24/7. And guess what, after the school recognised my talent...my popularity shot up like crazy. All of a sudden, I had "too many" friends. Even kids from other schools recognised me, including their teachers.
The kids that used to bully me we're now wanting to get close to me. And that teacher I mentioned earlier that would side with the bullies...even she wanted to know me. My popularity lasted all throughout high school and even to my adult years.
Although I stopped playing sports, people got to know the person that I was and understood that I was more than "the guy that was good at sports". So as a person whose been on both sides of the playing field, I understand both.
The amount of times I had no one to eat with at lunch is heartbreaking looking back. And then the amount of people I did have lunch with also shows the vast difference. Not to mention how many times I would get asked out after I got popular.
Everything felt weird to me tbh. Coming from the unpopular side, I could easily point out who was fake and who was genuine in their liking of me. It was such a weird time in my life. I do have to say I went from depressed to happy and then to depressed again. It felt like I had to always uphold peoples expectations of me. Like I had a responsibility of not letting the people around me down and always keeping this "cool" image.
I also noticed that some girls were impressed that I was hanging more with the "unpopular" kids more than the popular kids. But the thing is, That group was me before all of the stuff happened. And I'm not afraid of peoples judgement or perception of me just because I hang out with a crowd that's not well received. Because at the end of the day, I don't care. And any person I come across that tries too hard to be "popular" or "cool"..especially girls that are interested in me, are a complete turn off. I don't care what group you're apart of, as long as your "you".
So yeah, just because you're seen as the unpopular kid, don't let it get to you. I mean you saw how different people treated me after I got popular. It's not like I changed bodies or personalities. I just happened to get good at sports. The world is a strange place. Everybody wants to fit in but don't feel the need to do that. The kids that were "unpopular" are now, as adults, the successful ones. Your time to shine is different. You'll eventually have your moment.
Edit: I've also had instances where girls (some that were complete strangers to me) have come onto me aggressively and demanded I get physical with them. Sure to some guys it might seem nice since its a girl coming onto you but it was so uncomfortable and I've rejected them like every time. Even guys that are married with children have approached me for a relationship. And girls sending me inappropriate images that I never wanted (they were complete strangers). Life on both sides is sht. And not to mention, the abuse from my family still went on into my adult life. So no, life doesn't get better after you get popular. It's only your problems that changes.
r u a guy or girl
Dam that's sounds like a lot tbh i- Don't know what else to say that would make a better response but tbh how did you like not feel like u wanted to hide after all that attention ? Like all that attention would kinda get to me to at some point were I would just want to hide
How are you doing now? Do you have anything that you can channel all that residue energy into?
It sounds like you had to go through a lot. I hold hope that some day you will find a way to transform the hand that was dealt to you.
All power to you. 🙏🏽
Cool story bro
@@socialfreak2 after I started going to college, I slowly went into “hiding”. I put my social media accounts on private, i also don’t post much, even my circle of friends got smaller and I now just focus on my studies. I only see my friends like once a month, always working and studying as well so I don’t have time to “keep up the image”. It’s served me well. Sure it gets kinda lonely sometimes since I’m so used to socialising with lots of people but at the end of the day, I have important things to focus on than that.
I love how they’re both so nice to each other
I agree. Warms my heart when I see people occasionally image God through kindness and understanding
It breaks my heart to know how one get bullied for not passing society's beauty standards & one get harassed while passing those standards
I really like both Jiahn ad Yujin. They're both young women with very different social standing but they both speak from the heart and the mind with wisdom.
Jiahn, as a large girl myself, you have my heart. Please know you seem like a beautiful young woman on the inside and out, even if some rude people don't see that. It's obvious to me that you have a large, caring and sensitive heart, and that is a trait that few carry. To me you're beautiful.
Yujin, you too seem like a beautiful young woman in and out. You showed so much respect and understand towards Jiahn, and shared your frightening experience with such bravery. Do not be afraid to carry yourself and others with pride, and defend yourself as necessary.
Being conventionally or unconventionally pretty shouldn't be a burden to either of you. Nor should your social status. I hope if nothing else that you two become acquaintances after this, it really seemed like that was a healthy start to something that could be beneficial to both of you.
With love from the United States,
Tori
I remember being friends with these two types of people, the "popular" and "unpopular". In our senior year in highschool I used to be friends with almost everyone in our class. I was friends with the "cool kids" whom most people would let them say/do anything they want. and the people being bullied. There were two girls being mocked for allegedly lying about their social status and background. I'm friends with both of them, separately. It was hard to figure for a 17 year old, so I didnt really do anything to stop it. 2 years after graduation, I apologized to the other girl. The other one we all lost contact with. It's sad to think about this hierarchy in high school.
Its actually relatable to watch this vid because i think most people watching this video are in school or college am i right? and the way they talk and agree with eachother is kinda heartwarming
I was bullied and outcasted for almost my entire school life. the teachers and school staff are usually useless and don’t care or try hard enough to stop it. honestly, just ignoring the bullies or standing up to them yourself is often not enough to stop it, there needs to be proper intervention, and the school faculty almost never actually intervenes.
it really wears you down, and you only realise how much it wears you down when you’ve already graduated. it took me a few years after leaving school to finally start truly being myself and discovering my real personality and confidence. I hope the “unpopular” girl in this video has also been able to discover herself and move on from the negative school experiences.
i know im a little late, but please tell me someone noticed just how happy the unpopular girl got when she saw the other sit with her? and when she gave her food, she looked so happy to have made a friend or just have someone to talk and hang out with ❤
This hit too close to home for me.
I've got got your back, girl.
The psychology of being a teenager is crazy. I used to think every little thing was embarrassing and the end of the world. It was such a strong feeling just to grow up and realize no one cared about me.
the irony of this video is that if the unpopular girl and the popular girl were in the same school together the popular girl would probably be bullying the unpopular girl constantly
I have always been alone. /(past,present and future)
but I liked to see these two girls talking...even if they are a bit sad things....😢
0:37 the way she smiled melted my heart 😭
The way I’ve experienced the worst of both sides, the “unpopular” when i was younger and the “popular” from high school to college. I’m still fearful of men today lol
i loved this! this made me miss being able to talk to people who cannot relate to me or me them, but feeling eager to hear what the other's thought/seen/heard/felt
you know i really feel for both of them, growing up considered “ugly” and then having my “glow up” in college i experienced so many of these things later in life that it felt so weird, uncomfortable and degrading on so many levels. when you’re on one side of the spectrum and then suddenly put on the other, it feels so mind boggling.
She actually looks kind of cute, those bullies should care abt themselves and keep quiet
Not conventionally attractive = Bullying
Conventionally attractive = Harassment
Teach your children to behave and be good people, this insanity needs to stop
I rlly love their friendship together and I hope they stay friends outside of this channel