Coach Craig Kenneth, I don't even have words about how much I appreciate you and Margarete. I learned sooo much! I am ok now, but still watching your videos and I am recomanding to all my friends. One of them became very involved in the work with herself watching you every day and I am so happy that she is doing that. Thank you, thank you! You are both great humans. ❤
15:00 I can attest to her story because it's mine. I was placed in a home for children who had medical needs after birth, (my birth parents had been arrested prior to this point.) Mine was in regards to my ears which required me to having tubes placed in my ears to aid with my hearing, which luckily was minor and resolved, though because I was a lesser severe case I was left alone in the crib quite often. This led to me performing a rocking motion of my own to substitute being cradled or held in a mother's arms. Even after I was adopted at age of two, I had grown so accustomed to the self-rocking method that being held felt weird and strange, especially by strangers whom even at a young age I knew were not my parents. So when it came to the relationship stage I was already inwardly suffering from an inner traumatic experience from my youth that I was overly enthused into wanting to be accepted. After a minor set back in a really special connection I made with someone. This channel and others have been helping me to cope and to re-align and re-apply things in my life. Thank you so much for your channel's content.
Margaret’s face with “women are like the clouds in the sky” is priceless! She was a tough lady and gentle at the same time! She was hilarious too!!!RIP Margaret, we miss you so much
@@Dreadlock420she did pass. Coach Ken uploads old videos, but notice the thumbnail- it says “legacy” or something to that effect. There’s a video where Coach Ken announced it and there was a GoFundMe for her family.
@Bk Asmr Karma is "some" dumpee's and "some" dumper's favorite auntie who comes for a visit. I have heard from every ex and I naturally just go into no reach out or no contact. I just heard from an ex today from a breakup that happened 3 weeks ago. Although it wasn't a bad breakup it still hurt and I was the dumpee. Yep, karma will visit although he was, is, and has always been kind to me. Timing and personal issues of his is to blame. I just told him I supported his decision even though I didn't agree and that I was hurt and disappointed. We hugged and of course I'm NOT his friend and told him I wanted more. So we'll see but, I'm not waiting. I'm too fine to stay contained. LOL
My five-year Fearful-Avoidant Ex contacted me after I did a year of strict no contact after she ended the relationship suddenly on Christmas Eve 2016. There must’ve been a disturbance in the Force.🧐 We’ve been together two months now. She said she thought of me every day and wondered why I didn’t contact her. She said she dreamt about me many times too. It’s going well. She did a bunch of inner work during the entire year. That surprised me.
Can't tell you how happy I am for you Andre. I'm just starting on the painful journey. Mary left on Feb 1, 2018. I gave her some money that morning for the hair shop, she never came back home. Now she lives in the SF Bay Area with her son and family and has other plans, divorce papers were delivered by the sheriff the other day...5 years ago? who knows, she already took her maiden name back, literally went unconscious twice waking up in the hospital two weeks apart, always thought I was strong, go figger. I'll say it again and bless your wife. I'm very happy for you and I love a happy ending. Love her gently like a butterfly so you don't mess her wings. I say that because my wife told me I was keeping her prisoner. I didn't know that because I always tried to make sure she had some money in her purse and a full tank in her car with tire pressure checked, and oil and lube, with the car in good running condition. I can work on my 1990 Jeep but not on these modern cars. Never felt such a thing as this even with my first wife back in 1985, but she was pretty darn mean. This may sound like bull to you but my first wife got remarried to a cop here in CA. She shot him dead last year or two ago in their bedroom. Never got the full story because my son called me crying that his mother was in jail, didn't want to press him for details. Turns out that she was defending herself as there was another pistol on the floor. The DA determined that Paula was defending herself and did not file charges. Saw her once after that but didn't bring it up. I really feel bad for her because she has to carry that for the rest of her life. I used to hire the guy to do roofs for my contracting business. Lots of cops and firemen work like that. What's with all the tragedy? Mary's son died in suicide just six months before I found her lost in the Stanislaus Mountains as I was gathering firewood for my mountain cabin. She sure cried a lot over the following 22 years, and every Valentine's day, his birthday, she would cry, and then on Easter Sunday is when he hung himself in a cemetery in Oakland, CA. He was an artist and he performed the deed as an artist would and I talked to the investigating detectives who groaned when I introduced myself to them. I think I sound like a liar now after writing all this down. Never did that before. Hope I'm not bumming you and yours out. Can't say it enough! I am very happy for you and your wife, long life and peace in Christ I pray for you two.
What is the point of your ex thinking about you if they are in love with someone else, they are happy, they dumped you and blocked you everywhere and even told you that you should move on (no contact since January)? Its utterly useless...there is no hope for me and the worst thing is that I didn't do anything wrong really...I was inexperienced and she lost trust, she lost respect for me, she hates me and my very existence and ignores me in school...no forgiveness, no nothing on her part...I was dumped in October (almost a year long relationship, lived together and were constantly together for 8 months)...it is over ladies and gentlemen...i am glad for you andre...wish you guys all the best...
I can honestly say I cried while watching this, it's videos like this (and a lot of the comments) that make me feel so optimistic in the darkest of times.
I have to admit, I watch your videos to keep me from reaching out to my ex lol, but the videos also teach me so much about working on myself and how to healthily detach myself from my ex. I love you guys so much and I wish I knew you both in person❤️
Yayyy!!! Proud of you for not doing so if you experience disturbance in the force like he said you can reach out to me how I’ve dealt w/ it if you’re having trouble!! Keep up the good work!😊❤
Margaret reminds me of my Mother that I lost back in 2001. Craig reminds me of my brother. Listening to you two calms my anxiety. I love you guys so much!❤❤
At the end of the day, we got to move on and try to make our ex just a “memory” to remember but not someone to go back to. Remember why it ended. Let go and move on.
I like your comment. You made a good point. Its so true about letting go and never forget what to remember why it ended. Especially if they was verbally and mentally to you. Thank you for your comment. It really helped me.
@@allanjay2540 Why is he , that’s what you should do You can’t keep thinking about some one and holding on to something that isn’t there That’s how you get hurt
They aren't saying they think constantly about them more like she obviously remembers her ex and I'm sure there are things that remind her of him and what not
I was so taken off guard and so hurt from my break up. I found you guys and I did listen to you all the time even when I tried to sleep. It was the only way I could calm myself. You guys are such a great help for all of us ❤️
My 1st boyfriend came back after 7 years... we had a 2nd opportunity and then I ended the relationship... he hadn't changed... 9 years later he was poking me on facebook... hahaha forget it... I can give 2 chances never 3 sorry... I didn't love him anymore... Yes they never forget us! I believe that!
Whenever i feel anxious about my situation right now, i just simply click any video of coach craig and it helps. Survived another day of suffering in no contact. Thanks for this video.
i was able to sleep for 30 mins watching ur video.. hopefully it could be longer sooner than i expected..its just hard to sleep when it feels like u have a big pile of stone in your chest..
My ex came back after 2 years. I never saw that coming. I wasn’t interested at first but he has been working on himself so I really admire that intentional effort to own his issues.
Wait-what about if your ex is emotionally unavailable? Are they capable of feelings for you after the breakup? This guy seems fine! Life keeps going for him as usual
Well, here's my experience about it: I courted a girl back in college, and that was way back 24 years ago. Nothing came of that really, as she never answered me. Now, 24 years later, she contacted me and we've met a few times. So if someone really matters to you, he or she will think of you at some point in time and will reach out to you again. I just hope that if ever something like that ever comes up, it won't take as long for her to reach out...
8 weeks post-dumping by an ex of 5yrs. From totally crushed, losing weight, unable to sleep, constantly overthinking to now only occasionally thinking about her. I thought my life was over. No contact was hard at the start but happy for it to stay that way.....forever. Discovering who i was and who i am all over again. And it feels good. People. Pls have hope, if your going through the emotions and are rock bottom, you are not looking out for the person that matters. And that is YOU. Learn to live again, unless this person contacts you (and you should be hoping they never do - not waiting by the phone wishing your life away) then they have NO VALUE to your life. Your pet lizard/hamster/cat/shit on the end of your boots should have more value than this person. Please let this important point resonate inside of your body mind and soul. Then you will begin to heal. Anything else just prolongs the pain and delays your recovery.
This really helped me right now. I was getting weak. I just wrote and recorded a song for my ex and was going to send it to her. Thanks coach. Perfect timing!
Even though I'm struggling a lot right now, and I can't afford any sessions, this has to be one of my favourite videos I've ever watched on youtube. Ever. Out of all the things I've showed an interest in, and all the channels out there specifically catered for entertainment; this channel and this video stick out above all the rest! Thank you, and I hope that even if I can't get back with my ex, I turn myself into a success story anyway...
I went on one date with this guy and I left the country One year after he contacted me saying that he misses me and that he might be in love with me We went out on one date only!!! I know it may not make sense to some of you but the point is. It doesn’t matter how long you’ve been together. What matter is their interest level If they were genuinely interested in you (which is the case for most of you) then they won’t forget you
same thing happened to me. went on a date just one time and we lost connections . now he’s back and telling me how he loves me and wanna have a kid and start a family .
You'll remember anything or anyone that has had an emotional impact on you. It's the emotion linked to the person or incident that becomes a deeply embedded memory in our psyche...
Almost got married to a woman I dated for 5 years during HS/college years. 35 years latter she reached out to me. I had fully moved on but she never had. I was about 8 months post a very painful divorce. X from 35 years ago reached out then a week latter my most recent X reached out. Both had the same thing to say."I made a terrible mistake"
He didn't cheat but work out himself after 8 month his ex reach out of him. Wow amazing story, the best way ourselves to attract someone self love. Accomplished your goal. Thanks a lot this channel make me hope.
I had an Ex ask to get back together after 1 year! Yep- he did & no I didn’t go back I had met my fiancé and remembered how bad I was treated in the end by him my Ex -so no I wasn’t going back. : ).
Aurora Season I’m trying to win back my most recent ex.... we only dated for six weeks, and I feel like I was definitely a rebound to make one of his exes jealous.... I’m in NC but going back and forth with the idea of reaching out even though Craig does not recommend this. I know most people recommend indefinite NC where you don’t reach out unless they do. In my experience, my ex before this one (not the one I just mentioned) came back just when I started to heal from him, so who knows. Anything is possible and feelings can change like Craig talks about in his videos.
I can't wait to get that indirect direct text from my ex. This no contact thing is sooooo hard, it will be all worth it when he reaches out, it's not if, but when!
Eric Zavala I agree they should try harder but I had to say hi back and talk for a few texts. I want them to try harder but at the same time I feel like I should have said more because they were reaching out regardless of just saying hi
Lisa bb if they text you, say” hi, it’s great to hear from you, I’d love to see you, when are you free?” If they don’t make a date with you then say okay why don’t we do it when we’re both free and available? Or tell them to let you know if they change their mind. You don’t need to text somebody who you’ve had long term history with, they know you they can easily make a date with you.
I'm going through a very rough break up myself right now with my ex girlfriend..I've not reached out but it's harder some days then others,we where together 15 months,and I wondered if she had forgotten me .good to see this video at the right time 😎
They do not stop to think about you. You can be sure. As well my Ex proved by posting photo on Whatsapp with her new partner when I had birthday. Just to make me suffer. What a coincidence.
It's what women do. I know my wife, who left me 5 weeks ago, is yapping about what a loser I am, that's what women do. Another thing, in every email and phone conversation she made to me she twisted her nasty damn dagger trying on purpose to hurt me more which she did and I'm sure on purpose, because you'd have to be pretty dumb not to understand what you are saying or writing. Last time she said she wanted my SS# and driver's lic. so she could file the divorce papers. Then she started telling me what to do, and then she started telling me that she'd gotten some throat cold or something so I said, do you need any more info from me? "No", Well have a nice day! Bye. As I went to put the phone down she was saying "Sweetheart...." What? is that all about? Women can drive a good man to drink which I quit in 2011, AA. Used to really like my whiskey too. I sure know how to screw things up. I can very honestly say that I have not said a mean word about her. Some friends got me talking about things but I never put her down, not once. I did express my wonderment over why but that's a long story going back to 1998, and includes her psycho x husband. Wow! I'd better end this or I will include to many cuss words. Take care!
Yes Craig you and Margaret are very soothing.. I listen to you Day & Night! I need to hear your voices to calm my anxiety on the most triggering days of No Contact.
Your words are comforting. U give guys a least some hope. I really wondered if my ex even thought about me anymore. Break ups are devastating. It can really bring you to your knees with tears. People need folks like you to keep us positive and to at least not to give up so soon. Thank you both. I can feel you both really care and i sense it in your videos. God Bless u both. .
Thank you, this just.. helped relax me. Sometimes you feel like you’re alone with thoughts of your ex and that they don’t think of you, and to know that they do, just makes me think I’m not.. losing it.
I'm one of those people that "listens while I sleep"... thank you for all these videos... after 5 years and him just up and leaving because he isnt sure if he still wants me since he met someone knew... my emotions are everywhere and I still struggle to sleep. I get so angry on occasion and immediately break down and cry. It's not me. This relationship has hurt me so much more than any other relationship ending. It's so hard. I'm doing the workbooks, journaling, working out, and talking to a local therapist... quarantine isnt helping much. I just hope I can get myself in to a better place before he comes back around... its only been 2.5 months but it feels like a life time has gone by. I'm struggling everyday.
Almost 2 years later and i dont even want this guy back... thank you @Craig Kenneth for you, Margaret, Victoria and the workbooks. Your videos "are a light in dark places".
The two of you dug me out of a pit after a really painful breakup with an avoidant (before I knew what it was). I've been single, and I'm doing great. I've built a cozy home within me, and no matter who comes and goes, there's richness of hobbies & skills with me that make me value the solitude, and make me more valuable to the people that come into my life. Though I'm fine, I miss you guys and your voices form time to time and come back to listen and just check up on y'all. I leave your videos running when I work / do art (especially with Mozilla Firefox's pop-out video feature). I love the two of you, thank you for your work and for giving me resilience in the face of dispair. 💜
It’s been a month and a half of no contact. Just found out today that he’s been asking people if they have heard from me or if they have seen me. This is a good sign right???
My ex has been asking about me for 3 years! It doesn't mean *%^& , because I offered him another opportunity recently, which he declined (he was the dumper btw not me, I poured everything into him and stood by him in thick and thin, - him ? - Lol! He threw it all back in my face). But apparently he keeps asking after me and thinks I'm gonna be relegated to being his 'friend' now, lol! No, in his case it was pure guilt for how nasty he was to me, and I guess he wanted reassurance that I'm still alive in case the grass isn't greener. He can go to hell.
I dumped mine. It think about him constantly regardless of how toxic they were. My feelings were real and they don’t just turn off. All the best to you.
I dumped mine, three months NC I FINALLY answered his call. He says he is not happy, was trying over and over to talk to me, can’t eat or sleep and cannot go in without me in his life...one day at a time right now...
I did what you guys suggest and he came back but I stopped working on myself and my anxious attachment style. Well, needless to say, it caused problems and we're no longer talking... again. This time, I plan to continue to work on myself whether he, or anyone else comes into my life. Thanks for your videos.
My ex may think of me, but has no hope in his life about himself or a relationship. I’m moving forward and starting to date someone else who is positive and excited to see me. Accepting my ex’s choice. Maybe now thoughts of my ex will begin to fade.
Seeing you on a lot of different videos, Stacey. I hope to get to a point where I am as secure and confident as you. Mine left me because of my tremendous anxiety and depression and she had lined someone up. I'm crushed. I hope that I can work on myself and maybe she'll see it and reconsider but I have 0 control over that. Partially using you as an inspiration. Take care.
Seeing your comments on a lot of videos, Stacey. Hope you've moved on now. Or gotten back with your avoidantly attached (was it?) ex. Your comments are old, btw, and I'm a bit curious about your story, if you could share? 😅
whenever i wakes up suddenly in the nights or cannot sleep in the night , I watch your videos guys! Videos are comforting and giving us hope and give me smile.
Yep. My ex narcissist hardly even thought about me during the relationship. Straight on to next victim after discard, never gave me one passing thought since.
Thank you for this video..it was exactly what I needed to hear. Was feeling very low and hoping to hear something from you that would lift my spirits. I am working on my self every day and hoping my ex will re-consider. Even if not, I will still come out of this a new/much improved man...(even at 61 years old) thanks to you both! Cheers, Rob
Wow i am also not able to imagine faces and voices!Two days ago i listened to your advice and got a picture of my ex out of my closet. It helped me tremendously! Before i thought i need to put everything away. Now i am so much better ❤
OMG you guys are right i went to sleep every nite with your videos on ,, and watched it again in the mornin when i woke up.. Its really help me and makes me strong
Missing my ex and her two sons every day...been 3 months since break up.Thank you for my email coaching.I hope she will reconsider and start again.I have nothing without her.Just want my family life back :(
That's true, I have never go to bed alone...I have to watch your videos to feel better. Thank you both for being my company and my tear cloth at night🙏🙏🙏.
Relationships are a power struggle . Someone always loves the other person more then the other down the road . Beginning feelings are often equal and so intrigued with excitement and mystery.but as one in ravels his or her true self many traits are often dampening .Why they never work ,people are never satisfied with what they have and always want better wether it’s a car a house ,furniture, a boat ,and yes people!
I'm so glad I came across this video and he said he was also in a long distance relationship. I have been on the channel for about 3 weeks now and yes the videos keep me going. I can't afford to get the coaching right now but when I do, I will definitely reach out to you guys. The videos are a blessing and I am so grateful for your knowledge and I have already learned so much in these 3 weeks and trying to make improvements in myself. ❤ Thank you so much.
For the last few months after my separation, i have been watching all your videos day and night and it not only educates me but soothes me. I'm still hopeful my husband comes back to me.
It is a very scary and it’s sad to think that your ex won’t think about you, knowing that their last words were, “it’s over” or “we’re done”! Just hearing Craig and Margret talk about that literally made me just cry! What gets me through it, are listening to these success stories AND watching the videos.
You have become my Lullaby at night and my motivation in the morning.😘 50 First Dates...one of my fav Drew Barrymore and Adam Sandler movies😍 Coach Craig MVP!🤸🏽♂️🎉🤸🏽♂️
I was crying. We got separated. A week after he had a girlfriend. They fought. We had a fight too. They got separated after a week. That was 5 weeks ago. Now, I am not sure, not clear yet, but it seems that they are together again. So painful. But watching your videos seems my medicine for my pain.
I was given up at birth and in foster care for the first year of my life. I had a devastating breakup 3 years ago. He threw me away and went back with his ex wife. He sent me a text on my birthday but I know it means nothing. I have been alone for 3 years and it is still hard. I just want to move on, but at 54 years old that is a hard thing to do also.
She “said” she never stopped thinking about him. I guarantee she wasn’t thinking of him while sleeping with other men. Once she got tired of that unfulfilling life she went back to him. And he didn’t level up enough in that 8 months since he has no better options than someone who left him.
@@user-qk7dn9lb7e you can be ugly but if you level up your finances, physique and style you will have a lot more confidence and a lot more options. That’s if you actually go out and have a social life of abundance on top of all that. Plenty of ugly guys getting women out there and plenty of good looking men getting no play whatsoever.
When they are in rebound they do not give a damn and not think about the dumpee. You are nothing to them and if they reach out it is either to check if they have still power on you or to use you when rebound does not work. Before to dump you again. Run!
I come to you as so many others have, with a thankful heart. We know about the dark days and the despondency and despair of a breakup. Your videos have help me hold on and I will be contributing to the cause very soon. You and Margaret are like yin and yang her perspective builds into your perspective and it makes a complete reliable source of information or so many hurting people. I very seldom leave a comment on RUclips I hope you will answer me back because if you do I will feel as I have achieved a great success success. Thank you sincerely from myself and so many other hundreds of people that have found solace and comfort in your messages. Sincerely Blake in Tennessee
i broke up with her. and i started pleading. begging. crying when i realize how hard life is without her. what should i do? she dont want this relationship anymore and she want me to move on as fast as i could. i regret a lot dumping her. damn!
Have done that before. Took me a few weeks to realise my fuck up and about a year to get over it. Even though I'm long over her I've never met anyone that comes close to the kinda woman she was. I've loved since her but I loved women that were not worthy of being loved. Ond of those things, when it's there on a plate for you you think it'll always be there for when you want it or ready for it but then when it's gone there's fuck all you can do about it.
I still live with my ex. And I wish to god I could get her out of my mind forever. She moved me across the damn country to break up with me without a try. I want to move on now. It's just extremely difficult because you are right we do not forget.
My ex contacted me after 5-6 months and 2 months of solid NC. I thought she would never reach out, she had me blocked on multiple platforms, and told me to move on.
Mind if I ask how you got contacted? My avoidant ex got angry and blocked me everywhere even though I did so much for her. This was only a week ago now but I’m trying to find the strength to be patient.
How are you guys now? I did something similar. Broke up then started nc 4 months after the breakup. But it’s been 2.5 months since then....and he’s the avoidant type? Or at least he’s not in tune with emotions as most people (he blatantly stated that to me when we were dating). Would you say I should keep hoping or nawww? 😂
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So, she's never going away? I'll never get rid of this remorse & guilt, ever? It's been 6 years & I'm still longing for & missing her.. there's not a day that goes by, god help me.
Hi from London Coaches Craig and Margaret, left a message on another video of yours in August when I was extremely distressed due to my breakup being very recent at the time, but now it’s almost the end of the year and I am doing a lot better. Have watched your videos very often and have gained a lot of useful advice and insight from them, now whether she comes back to me or not I am happy with myself and have rebuilt my self confidence. I too belong to the listen to your videos as you fall asleep club!
How about in my case... Our relationship lasted for almost 4 years but it was all long distance. We only see each other around 3x a year. Our breakup wasn't so clear and one day, we stopped communicating because we kept fighting. 10days later, I learned he is dating someone new. He said he likes the girl because he sees himself in her. I am confident that she could never fill in my shoes and she will live under my shadows because I have helped him so much straighten up his life and his family loves me (they don't like the girl because of her reputation). He wants us to be bestfriends and still communicate. If I stop communicating, I feel he will completely forget about me because the girl is there whenever he wants to see her. I am miles away.
My partner walked out on me after 39 years I’m devastated....I’ve done everything wrong...I’ve been completely out of my mind...but I’m going into no contact from now....it takes a lot of will power...& I’m going to work on myself too...thank you Craig 🙏🏻
@@maureenmaureen2217 God bless you. If you can cope with that, I certainly should be able to cope (and fully get over) my ex. It's been 3 years and it still hurts like hell and I'm scared to open up to someone new. Gotta get him gone. I'm glad you're ok and I hope you find a new love at the right time for you x
@@heatherwoodley8244 you just got to accept it........yes it hurts still.....but there is so much to be grateful for.....it’s ok to cry it’s ok...but most of all love yourself ❤️
She cheated on her current boyfriend with her ex? Most likely, she will also cheat on her ex, if she gets back with him. He has put himself in a position to be in a back-and-forth relationship with her. Actually, not even a relationship; more like a situationship.
You both are terrific! I enjoy listening to you two and have learned a lot about myself and things I need to work on every time I watch a new video. I didn't realize how soothing your videos actually were until you mentioned how others felt soothed by them. I do notice I feel calmer and more balanced after listening to you two. Thanks for caring enough to put up videos to educate others about what issues they may have developed from childhood and how it affects them in adulthood. You cover so many different topics that it can benefit a wide audience of people watching and doesn't just stop at relationship/dating advice. I appreciate your work and enjoy your sense of humor.
One hour for each month she made me wait. That’s hilarious 😂 My ex reached out after 5 years recently. However I’m back watching these videos again due to a different breakup. Just thought that would be interesting to share. Hoping my last reaches out. Regardless it’s all love.
I do listen to your videos all day every day to make me feel better. I am currently suffering from a long distance break up and I'm afraid that he may just move on. So I am working on myself and I am comforted in the fact that he may think of me sometime. 😊I cannot afford the coaching at this time.
Sometimes I also listen to your videos while I sleep. Even if I wake up through the night, I'll find that it has soothed me some and put me in in a much better frame of mind. I'm ashamed to say this but there is another relationship coach on RUclips who highly and I mean highly recommended the viewers to listen to Coach Kenneth. Prior to that, I had never heard of you. Smiles 😃 I'm almost embarrassed to tell you that I have forgotten that coach's name. There are a couple of them that come to mind who may have recommended you but I've been listening to you and not him since then.
This never grow old Thank you both.I prayed and asked for a sign because I am following your No Contact. In two days I was amazed to receive a text from him after 6 months. I keep praying and following your coaching videos he texted again and unblocked me. We are now texting taking it slow .
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Coach Craig Kenneth, I don't even have words about how much I appreciate you and Margarete. I learned sooo much! I am ok now, but still watching your videos and I am recomanding to all my friends. One of them became very involved in the work with herself watching you every day and I am so happy that she is doing that. Thank you, thank you! You are both great humans. ❤
15:00 I can attest to her story because it's mine. I was placed in a home for children who had medical needs after birth, (my birth parents had been arrested prior to this point.) Mine was in regards to my ears which required me to having tubes placed in my ears to aid with my hearing, which luckily was minor and resolved, though because I was a lesser severe case I was left alone in the crib quite often. This led to me performing a rocking motion of my own to substitute being cradled or held in a mother's arms.
Even after I was adopted at age of two, I had grown so accustomed to the self-rocking method that being held felt weird and strange, especially by strangers whom even at a young age I knew were not my parents.
So when it came to the relationship stage I was already inwardly suffering from an inner traumatic experience from my youth that I was overly enthused into wanting to be accepted. After a minor set back in a really special connection I made with someone. This channel and others have been helping me to cope and to re-align and re-apply things in my life.
Thank you so much for your channel's content.
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Margaret’s face with “women are like the clouds in the sky” is priceless! She was a tough lady and gentle at the same time! She was hilarious too!!!RIP Margaret, we miss you so much
No way.. did she pass? :/
I didn't know that. Coach Odus also passed away from another no contact channel. RIP.
No she didn’t she’s in new video don’t listen to this guy he’s being silly
@@Dreadlock420she did pass. Coach Ken uploads old videos, but notice the thumbnail- it says “legacy” or something to that effect. There’s a video where Coach Ken announced it and there was a GoFundMe for her family.
Listening to these vids helps makes me feel I’m not alone dealing with my breakup
Because you're not my friend .. Been dealing with this for 2 months now.
Riight, this too...🙌😇🙌
Yeah bro, you are not alone... keep it up
We will be fine
Hope you feel a lot better now . You are special and your peace is a priority my friend . Salute from Puerto Rico .
I listen to Craig every day. Thank you for making the video. I’m glad I’m not alone.
My ex is back after 9 months. He said there wasn’t a day when he wouldn’t think about me
Amazing. My ex quit talking to me last Jan. 11 months and he crosses my mind everyday. I miss him and pray for him
@Bk Asmr im so sorry. Praying for you
@Bk Asmr girl it won't last...trust me it won't. He's messy.
@Bk Asmr Karma is "some" dumpee's and "some" dumper's favorite auntie who comes for a visit. I have heard from every ex and I naturally just go into no reach out or no contact. I just heard from an ex today from a breakup that happened 3 weeks ago. Although it wasn't a bad breakup it still hurt and I was the dumpee. Yep, karma will visit although he was, is, and has always been kind to me. Timing and personal issues of his is to blame. I just told him I supported his decision even though I didn't agree and that I was hurt and disappointed. We hugged and of course I'm NOT his friend and told him I wanted more. So we'll see but, I'm not waiting. I'm too fine to stay contained. LOL
@khalitovaluidmila I love this
I miss you Margaret. Rest In Peace. I have watched this video soooo many times to me
through some tough times.
Don't go to your best friends or relatives. I know they means well, but there's too much bias.
Amen!
Yes absolutely 😂
So true.
Ah too late for me I already did & they gmfu for the night woke up with one of my close friends home girls, I couldn’t even remember shit💯😫
My five-year Fearful-Avoidant Ex contacted me after I did a year of strict no contact after she ended the relationship suddenly on Christmas Eve 2016. There must’ve been a disturbance in the Force.🧐
We’ve been together two months now. She said she thought of me every day and wondered why I didn’t contact her. She said she dreamt about me many times too.
It’s going well. She did a bunch of inner work during the entire year. That surprised me.
Awesome! See that guys, she thought of him EVERY DAY.
Can't tell you how happy I am for you Andre.
I'm just starting on the painful journey. Mary left on Feb 1, 2018. I gave her some money that morning for the hair shop, she never came back home. Now she lives in the SF Bay Area with her son and family and has other plans, divorce papers were delivered by the sheriff the other day...5 years ago? who knows, she already took her maiden name back, literally went unconscious twice waking up in the hospital two weeks apart, always thought I was strong, go figger.
I'll say it again and bless your wife. I'm very happy for you and I love a happy ending. Love her gently like a butterfly so you don't mess her wings. I say that because my wife told me I was keeping her prisoner. I didn't know that because I always tried to make sure she had some money in her purse and a full tank in her car with tire pressure checked, and oil and lube, with the car in good running condition. I can work on my 1990 Jeep but not on these modern cars.
Never felt such a thing as this even with my first wife back in 1985, but she was pretty darn mean. This may sound like bull to you but my first wife got remarried to a cop here in CA. She shot him dead last year or two ago in their bedroom. Never got the full story because my son called me crying that his mother was in jail, didn't want to press him for details. Turns out that she was defending herself as there was another pistol on the floor. The DA determined that Paula was defending herself and did not file charges. Saw her once after that but didn't bring it up. I really feel bad for her because she has to carry that for the rest of her life. I used to hire the guy to do roofs for my contracting business. Lots of cops and firemen work like that. What's with all the tragedy? Mary's son died in suicide just six months before I found her lost in the Stanislaus Mountains as I was gathering firewood for my mountain cabin. She sure cried a lot over the following 22 years, and every Valentine's day, his birthday, she would cry, and then on Easter Sunday is when he hung himself in a cemetery in Oakland, CA. He was an artist and he performed the deed as an artist would and I talked to the investigating detectives who groaned when I introduced myself to them.
I think I sound like a liar now after writing all this down. Never did that before. Hope I'm not bumming you and yours out.
Can't say it enough! I am very happy for you and your wife, long life and peace in Christ I pray for you two.
What is the point of your ex thinking about you if they are in love with someone else, they are happy, they dumped you and blocked you everywhere and even told you that you should move on (no contact since January)? Its utterly useless...there is no hope for me and the worst thing is that I didn't do anything wrong really...I was inexperienced and she lost trust, she lost respect for me, she hates me and my very existence and ignores me in school...no forgiveness, no nothing on her part...I was dumped in October (almost a year long relationship, lived together and were constantly together for 8 months)...it is over ladies and gentlemen...i am glad for you andre...wish you guys all the best...
Wow, very interesting, and provides some hope!! 😂 who broke up with who?
Well you are an exception to the truth
I usually have your videos playing while I drift off to sleep. It's comforting and blocks out my thoughts. Thank you for all the work you both do.
I do the same. Good to know I'm not alone.
@@EE_Lopezme too 😭I even put it back on when I wake up to go to the toilet in the middle of the night
@@jianruima9059 same lol. You're not alone. Stay strong 💗💪
Same
So do I. It gives me comfert knowing that I am not alone in the journey of missing a person that was such an important part of my life😢
I can honestly say I cried while watching this, it's videos like this (and a lot of the comments) that make me feel so optimistic in the darkest of times.
I'm sorry
I have to admit, I watch your videos to keep me from reaching out to my ex lol, but the videos also teach me so much about working on myself and how to healthily detach myself from my ex. I love you guys so much and I wish I knew you both in person❤️
Yayyy!!! Proud of you for not doing so if you experience disturbance in the force like he said you can reach out to me how I’ve dealt w/ it if you’re having trouble!! Keep up the good work!😊❤
Margaret reminds me of my Mother that I lost back in 2001. Craig reminds me of my brother. Listening to you two calms my anxiety. I love you guys so much!❤❤
Aaahhh!🙂
At the end of the day, we got to move on and try to make our ex just a “memory” to remember but not someone to go back to. Remember why it ended. Let go and move on.
Not a response to all situations.
You are soo fucking negative
Easier said than fucking done.
I like your comment. You made a good point. Its so true about letting go and never forget what to remember why it ended. Especially if they was verbally and mentally to you. Thank you for your comment. It really helped me.
@@allanjay2540 Why is he , that’s what you should do
You can’t keep thinking about some one and holding on to something that isn’t there
That’s how you get hurt
So true. I sleep to these videos. Then wait for a new 1 in the morning.
So you are all saying that my Ex was all along thinking about her EX while she was with me all those 3 years?
They aren't saying they think constantly about them more like she obviously remembers her ex and I'm sure there are things that remind her of him and what not
You sound insecure
No if the attraction and interest level is low or nothing.
I was so taken off guard and so hurt from my break up. I found you guys and I did listen to you all the time even when I tried to sleep. It was the only way I could calm myself. You guys are such a great help for all of us ❤️
My 1st boyfriend came back after 7 years... we had a 2nd opportunity and then I ended the relationship... he hadn't changed... 9 years later he was poking me on facebook... hahaha forget it... I can give 2 chances never 3 sorry... I didn't love him anymore... Yes they never forget us! I believe that!
Typical narcissist!!!
Whenever i feel anxious about my situation right now, i just simply click any video of coach craig and it helps. Survived another day of suffering in no contact. Thanks for this video.
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i was able to sleep for 30 mins watching ur video.. hopefully it could be longer sooner than i expected..its just hard to sleep when it feels like u have a big pile of stone in your chest..
sorry, you'll be fine
Totally know that feeling.
If this is true , then it means that your partner will always remember their previous partners too.
Naturally, but that doesn't mean it's in a romantic way.
Yvonne Desch ...shut up
Yes it does. I am 71.and I remember all of the men I loved.
Only meaningful ones.
That's true. I think about my ex husband a lot. I think about my recent ex all the time. I adored him. But some love you just have to do from afar.
I love listening to you two. I am a 73 widow but still enjoy your helping others.
I love seeing coach Margaret, she holds the conversation at ground level any time emotions start flying.
My ex came back after 2 years. I never saw that coming. I wasn’t interested at first but he has been working on himself so I really admire that intentional effort to own his issues.
Thanks for telling us.
Wait-what about if your ex is emotionally unavailable? Are they capable of feelings for you after the breakup? This guy seems fine! Life keeps going for him as usual
Mary Elizabeth Currie I would like to know the answer to this ? also because i my ex hss the same problem
Well, here's my experience about it: I courted a girl back in college, and that was way back 24 years ago. Nothing came of that really, as she never answered me. Now, 24 years later, she contacted me and we've met a few times. So if someone really matters to you, he or she will think of you at some point in time and will reach out to you again. I just hope that if ever something like that ever comes up, it won't take as long for her to reach out...
Who dumped who?
Are you guys together?
8 weeks post-dumping by an ex of 5yrs. From totally crushed, losing weight, unable to sleep, constantly overthinking to now only occasionally thinking about her. I thought my life was over. No contact was hard at the start but happy for it to stay that way.....forever. Discovering who i was and who i am all over again. And it feels good. People. Pls have hope, if your going through the emotions and are rock bottom, you are not looking out for the person that matters. And that is YOU. Learn to live again, unless this person contacts you (and you should be hoping they never do - not waiting by the phone wishing your life away) then they have NO VALUE to your life. Your pet lizard/hamster/cat/shit on the end of your boots should have more value than this person. Please let this important point resonate inside of your body mind and soul. Then you will begin to heal. Anything else just prolongs the pain and delays your recovery.
Update?
Love this 🥰
This really helped me right now. I was getting weak. I just wrote and recorded a song for my ex and was going to send it to her. Thanks coach. Perfect timing!
During anxiety we wear our true friends out. The advent of your video wisdom always ready, can save friendships and keep one on the better path.
I talk to no one about my ex. I write in my.journal to relieve my mind.
I don’t know what it is about these videos but it is relaxing andddd optimistic. RIP Margaret, still making an impact on others
Even though I'm struggling a lot right now, and I can't afford any sessions, this has to be one of my favourite videos I've ever watched on youtube. Ever. Out of all the things I've showed an interest in, and all the channels out there specifically catered for entertainment; this channel and this video stick out above all the rest!
Thank you, and I hope that even if I can't get back with my ex, I turn myself into a success story anyway...
Yeah i go to sleep listening to your videos too!
sarah stinson me too! me too
And me!
Me too 😅
Everytime
Me too
I went on one date with this guy and I left the country
One year after he contacted me saying that he misses me and that he might be in love with me
We went out on one date only!!!
I know it may not make sense to some of you but the point is. It doesn’t matter how long you’ve been together. What matter is their interest level
If they were genuinely interested in you (which is the case for most of you) then they won’t forget you
same thing happened to me. went on a date just one time and we lost connections . now he’s back and telling me how he loves me and wanna have a kid and start a family .
My father died of a broken heart. Thank god for your work. I do believe your saving lives.
You'll remember anything or anyone that has had an emotional impact on you. It's the emotion linked to the person or incident that becomes a deeply embedded memory in our psyche...
Every time I want to revert back to old behavior, I would listen to your show- and it wipes out any desire to go back to quick fillers
Just got my heart broken, listen to your videos when I fall asleep really helps
Mine was on Easter last Sunday.... Have you started the no contact rule
Wow mine was the day before Easter, I’m not alone!
You're not alone
Almost got married to a woman I dated for 5 years during HS/college years. 35 years latter she reached out to me. I had fully moved on but she never had.
I was about 8 months post a very painful divorce. X from 35 years ago reached out then a week latter my most recent X reached out. Both had the same thing to say."I made a terrible mistake"
Wow, thanks for letting us know, what a waste to not say anything to you all those years. Not the first time I've heard this
Rest in peace Margaret
Even after your body left this world, you still touch and connect to others’ hearts ❤
He didn't cheat but work out himself after 8 month his ex reach out of him. Wow amazing story, the best way ourselves to attract someone self love. Accomplished your goal. Thanks a lot this channel make me hope.
I had an Ex ask to get back together after 1 year! Yep- he did & no I didn’t go back I had met my fiancé and remembered how bad I was treated in the end by him my Ex -so no I wasn’t going back. : ).
Do you mind to share the reason he broke u up? How long were you together?
Therese Meggitt happy for you ❤️
These videos have kept me alive... wish there was a more affordable way to speak with you...
I had one come back two years after leaving. I didn’t want him back and we never got back together, but I wasn’t expecting it at all.
How long were you guys together？
Aurora Season not very long. I would say we casually dated for about two months.
@@lacieb716 thank you for your reply, i had an ex came back after 1year, but we were together only three months
Aurora Season I’m trying to win back my most recent ex.... we only dated for six weeks, and I feel like I was definitely a rebound to make one of his exes jealous.... I’m in NC but going back and forth with the idea of reaching out even though Craig does not recommend this. I know most people recommend indefinite NC where you don’t reach out unless they do. In my experience, my ex before this one (not the one I just mentioned) came back just when I started to heal from him, so who knows. Anything is possible and feelings can change like Craig talks about in his videos.
I can't wait to get that indirect direct text from my ex. This no contact thing is sooooo hard, it will be all worth it when he reaches out, it's not if, but when!
Wall-E I went no NC and in 4 weeks my ex texted me with a simple hey, very indirect text. Didnt text back. If she wants me back she should try harder.
I mean, if I were you I would have at least responded back with hi. Because ignoring them won't bring them back.
Eric Zavala I agree they should try harder but I had to say hi back and talk for a few texts. I want them to try harder but at the same time I feel like I should have said more because they were reaching out regardless of just saying hi
did your ex reach out?
Lisa bb if they text you, say” hi, it’s great to hear from you, I’d love to see you, when are you free?”
If they don’t make a date with you then say okay why don’t we do it when we’re both free and available? Or tell them to let you know if they change their mind. You don’t need to text somebody who you’ve had long term history with, they know you they can easily make a date with you.
I'm going through a very rough break up myself right now with my ex girlfriend..I've not reached out but it's harder some days then others,we where together 15 months,and I wondered if she had forgotten me .good to see this video at the right time 😎
They do not stop to think about you. You can be sure. As well my Ex proved by posting photo on Whatsapp with her new partner when I had birthday. Just to make me suffer. What a coincidence.
i feel u bro
Yeah her rebound was flaunted in front of me. whats that mean?
To either get a reaction, or to truly hurt you. Everyone is different...
Block her seriously..
It's what women do. I know my wife, who left me 5 weeks ago, is yapping about what a loser I am, that's what women do. Another thing, in every email and phone conversation she made to me she twisted her nasty damn dagger trying on purpose to hurt me more which she did and I'm sure on purpose, because you'd have to be pretty dumb not to understand what you are saying or writing. Last time she said she wanted my SS# and driver's lic. so she could file the divorce papers. Then she started telling me what to do, and then she started telling me that she'd gotten some throat cold or something so I said, do you need any more info from me? "No", Well have a nice day! Bye. As I went to put the phone down she was saying "Sweetheart...." What? is that all about? Women can drive a good man to drink which I quit in 2011, AA. Used to really like my whiskey too. I sure know how to screw things up.
I can very honestly say that I have not said a mean word about her. Some friends got me talking about things but I never put her down, not once. I did express my wonderment over why but that's a long story going back to 1998, and includes her psycho x husband. Wow! I'd better end this or I will include to many cuss words. Take care!
Yes Craig you and Margaret are very soothing.. I listen to you Day & Night! I need to hear your voices to calm my anxiety on the most triggering days of No Contact.
Your words are comforting. U give guys a least some hope. I really wondered if my ex even thought about me anymore. Break ups are devastating. It can really bring you to your knees with tears. People need folks like you to keep us positive and to at least not to give up so soon. Thank you both. I can feel you both really care and i sense it in your videos. God Bless u both. .
Thank you, this just.. helped relax me. Sometimes you feel like you’re alone with thoughts of your ex and that they don’t think of you, and to know that they do, just makes me think I’m not.. losing it.
I have never had a grandma I can call object to. Margaret is that for me. Good work. Love you guys.
I'm one of those people that "listens while I sleep"... thank you for all these videos... after 5 years and him just up and leaving because he isnt sure if he still wants me since he met someone knew... my emotions are everywhere and I still struggle to sleep. I get so angry on occasion and immediately break down and cry. It's not me. This relationship has hurt me so much more than any other relationship ending. It's so hard. I'm doing the workbooks, journaling, working out, and talking to a local therapist... quarantine isnt helping much. I just hope I can get myself in to a better place before he comes back around... its only been 2.5 months but it feels like a life time has gone by. I'm struggling everyday.
I am so sorry and I understand fully
Almost 2 years later and i dont even want this guy back... thank you @Craig Kenneth for you, Margaret, Victoria and the workbooks. Your videos "are a light in dark places".
The two of you dug me out of a pit after a really painful breakup with an avoidant (before I knew what it was). I've been single, and I'm doing great. I've built a cozy home within me, and no matter who comes and goes, there's richness of hobbies & skills with me that make me value the solitude, and make me more valuable to the people that come into my life. Though I'm fine, I miss you guys and your voices form time to time and come back to listen and just check up on y'all. I leave your videos running when I work / do art (especially with Mozilla Firefox's pop-out video feature). I love the two of you, thank you for your work and for giving me resilience in the face of dispair. 💜
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I would like Winnie The Pooh. Margaret's voice is soothing. You can tell her kind heart from simply her voice.
It’s been a month and a half of no contact. Just found out today that he’s been asking people if they have heard from me or if they have seen me. This is a good sign right???
He's thinking about you. I was in NC for 3 months and not a day goes by that I don't think about him. Same goes for him.
My ex has been asking about me for 3 years! It doesn't mean *%^& , because I offered him another opportunity recently, which he declined (he was the dumper btw not me, I poured everything into him and stood by him in thick and thin, - him ? - Lol! He threw it all back in my face). But apparently he keeps asking after me and thinks I'm gonna be relegated to being his 'friend' now, lol! No, in his case it was pure guilt for how nasty he was to me, and I guess he wanted reassurance that I'm still alive in case the grass isn't greener. He can go to hell.
I dumped mine. It think about him constantly regardless of how toxic they were. My feelings were real and they don’t just turn off. All the best to you.
I dumped mine, three months NC I FINALLY answered his call. He says he is not happy, was trying over and over to talk to me, can’t eat or sleep and cannot go in without me in his life...one day at a time right now...
I did what you guys suggest and he came back but I stopped working on myself and my anxious attachment style. Well, needless to say, it caused problems and we're no longer talking... again. This time, I plan to continue to work on myself whether he, or anyone else comes into my life. Thanks for your videos.
I really like this video. Thank you for saying that exes never not think about you. It made me feel a whole lot better.
My ex may think of me, but has no hope in his life about himself or a relationship. I’m moving forward and starting to date someone else who is positive and excited to see me. Accepting my ex’s choice. Maybe now thoughts of my ex will begin to fade.
Stacey Swope good move you are trying to move on. Hope you have a great start to the week!
Lmfaoo you always provide a soap opera experience in the comments section of these videos!!! 💀💀💀💀💀
Maurice Braxton y
Seeing you on a lot of different videos, Stacey. I hope to get to a point where I am as secure and confident as you. Mine left me because of my tremendous anxiety and depression and she had lined someone up. I'm crushed. I hope that I can work on myself and maybe she'll see it and reconsider but I have 0 control over that. Partially using you as an inspiration. Take care.
Seeing your comments on a lot of videos, Stacey.
Hope you've moved on now. Or gotten back with your avoidantly attached (was it?) ex.
Your comments are old, btw, and I'm a bit curious about your story, if you could share? 😅
Craig and Margaret, thank you so much for all you do, you truly help me through each day!
whenever i wakes up suddenly in the nights or cannot sleep in the night , I watch your videos guys! Videos are comforting and giving us hope and give me smile.
Unless your ex is a narcissist, because narcs aren't capable of attachment. LOL!
Miss Chocolate true!!
Yep. My ex narcissist hardly even thought about me during the relationship. Straight on to next victim after discard, never gave me one passing thought since.
Especially the covert narcissists. Narcissistic Personality Disorder is a dangerous mental illness that can put their victims lives at risk.
Exacto Mondo!!
Ooh, didn't think of this. I've suspected her to possibly have narcissistic tendencies.
Thank you for this video..it was exactly what I needed to hear. Was feeling very low and hoping to hear something from you that would lift my spirits. I am working on my self every day and hoping my ex will re-consider. Even if not, I will still come out of this a new/much improved man...(even at 61 years old) thanks to you both! Cheers, Rob
Wow i am also not able to imagine faces and voices!Two days ago i listened to your advice and got a picture of my ex out of my closet. It helped me tremendously! Before i thought i need to put everything away. Now i am so much better ❤
OMG you guys are right i went to sleep every nite with your videos on ,, and watched it again in the mornin when i woke up.. Its really help me and makes me strong
Missing my ex and her two sons every day...been 3 months since break up.Thank you for my email coaching.I hope she will reconsider and start again.I have nothing without her.Just want my family life back :(
"I would sleep with your videos playing." Correct!!!!
Me too
That's true, I have never go to bed alone...I have to watch your videos to feel better. Thank you both for being my company and my tear cloth at night🙏🙏🙏.
Relationships are a power struggle . Someone always loves the other person more then the other down the road . Beginning feelings are often equal and so intrigued with excitement and mystery.but as one in ravels his or her true self many traits are often dampening .Why they never work ,people are never satisfied with what they have and always want better wether it’s a car a house ,furniture, a boat ,and yes people!
Im listning on this at the first day at the gym. My gf wanted space yesterday.
And when she reach out yo me.. I’ll be ready! Thank you!!
I play while going to sleep too every night
My comfort zone
I'm so glad I came across this video and he said he was also in a long distance relationship. I have been on the channel for about 3 weeks now and yes the videos keep me going. I can't afford to get the coaching right now but when I do, I will definitely reach out to you guys. The videos are a blessing and I am so grateful for your knowledge and I have already learned so much in these 3 weeks and trying to make improvements in myself. ❤ Thank you so much.
For the last few months after my separation, i have been watching all your videos day and night and it not only educates me but soothes me. I'm still hopeful my husband comes back to me.
It is a very scary and it’s sad to think that your ex won’t think about you, knowing that their last words were, “it’s over” or “we’re done”! Just hearing Craig and Margret talk about that literally made me just cry! What gets me through it, are listening to these success stories AND watching the videos.
Last words I've heard from my ex girlfriend... "bye"
It's heart wrenching. How can she throw away 2 years and 3 months of beautiful memories
Last words I heard were “you need to go.. please”
@@-1nterruption-960 It’s sad. She threw away 5 and a half years of our relationship.
@@KingJack86 That’s harsh, I’m sorry
You have become my Lullaby at night and my motivation in the morning.😘 50 First Dates...one of my fav Drew Barrymore and Adam Sandler movies😍 Coach Craig MVP!🤸🏽♂️🎉🤸🏽♂️
Same here! Listening to Craig and Margaret first thing in the morning and before going to bed is like a pep talk. It keeps me grounded.
I was crying. We got separated. A week after he had a girlfriend. They fought. We had a fight too. They got separated after a week. That was 5 weeks ago. Now, I am not sure, not clear yet, but it seems that they are together again. So painful. But watching your videos seems my medicine for my pain.
I was given up at birth and in foster care for the first year of my life. I had a devastating breakup 3 years ago. He threw me away and went back with his ex wife. He sent me a text on my birthday but I know it means nothing. I have been alone for 3 years and it is still hard. I just want to move on, but at 54 years old that is a hard thing to do also.
She “said” she never stopped thinking about him. I guarantee she wasn’t thinking of him while sleeping with other men. Once she got tired of that unfulfilling life she went back to him. And he didn’t level up enough in that 8 months since he has no better options than someone who left him.
@@user-qk7dn9lb7e you can be ugly but if you level up your finances, physique and style you will have a lot more confidence and a lot more options. That’s if you actually go out and have a social life of abundance on top of all that. Plenty of ugly guys getting women out there and plenty of good looking men getting no play whatsoever.
When they are in rebound they do not give a damn and not think about the dumpee. You are nothing to them and if they reach out it is either to check if they have still power on you or to use you when rebound does not work. Before to dump you again. Run!
I come to you as so many others have, with a thankful heart. We know about the dark days and the despondency and despair of a breakup. Your videos have help me hold on and I will be contributing to the cause very soon. You and Margaret are like yin and yang her perspective builds into your perspective and it makes a complete reliable source of information or so many hurting people. I very seldom leave a comment on RUclips I hope you will answer me back because if you do I will feel as I have achieved a great success success. Thank you sincerely from myself and so many other hundreds of people that have found solace and comfort in your messages. Sincerely Blake in Tennessee
Thank you for the kind words
i broke up with her. and i started pleading. begging. crying when i realize how hard life is without her. what should i do? she dont want this relationship anymore and she want me to move on as fast as i could. i regret a lot dumping her. damn!
Even though you did the breaking up you need to go NC and give her space.
Have done that before. Took me a few weeks to realise my fuck up and about a year to get over it.
Even though I'm long over her I've never met anyone that comes close to the kinda woman she was.
I've loved since her but I loved women that were not worthy of being loved.
Ond of those things, when it's there on a plate for you you think it'll always be there for when you want it or ready for it but then when it's gone there's fuck all you can do about it.
Did she reach out?
@@justinstevenson9680 why take your girl for granted?
I still live with my ex. And I wish to god I could get her out of my mind forever. She moved me across the damn country to break up with me without a try. I want to move on now. It's just extremely difficult because you are right we do not forget.
My ex contacted me after 5-6 months and 2 months of solid NC. I thought she would never reach out, she had me blocked on multiple platforms, and told me to move on.
Mind if I ask how you got contacted? My avoidant ex got angry and blocked me everywhere even though I did so much for her. This was only a week ago now but I’m trying to find the strength to be patient.
@@ethanware7992 she texted me 6 months after we broke up. I went into a solid no contact for 2 months.
How are you guys now? I did something similar. Broke up then started nc 4 months after the breakup. But it’s been 2.5 months since then....and he’s the avoidant type? Or at least he’s not in tune with emotions as most people (he blatantly stated that to me when we were dating). Would you say I should keep hoping or nawww? 😂
I needed this tonight! Thank you Craig
I wish it didn’t mean goodbye but rather let’s pick a moment in time to rename our lives together
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2021 and we’re still falling asleep to your videos to soothe us❤️❤️❤️
You're so right, Coach Craig! I watch these videos to soothe me and I sleep with them as well:)
Thank you so much for all of this!
But if he is a narcissist, he’s not coming back! Understand this!
So, she's never going away? I'll never get rid of this remorse & guilt, ever? It's been 6 years & I'm still longing for & missing her.. there's not a day that goes by, god help me.
What happened if you don't mind me asking?
If its going on this long you need therapy.
It’s funny, because I go to sleep watching your videos as well. Lol It’s soothing to know, that this is normal.
Hi from London Coaches Craig and Margaret, left a message on another video of yours in August when I was extremely distressed due to my breakup being very recent at the time, but now it’s almost the end of the year and I am doing a lot better. Have watched your videos very often and have gained a lot of useful advice and insight from them, now whether she comes back to me or not I am happy with myself and have rebuilt my self confidence. I too belong to the listen to your videos as you fall asleep club!
Did she reach out?
How about in my case... Our relationship lasted for almost 4 years but it was all long distance. We only see each other around 3x a year. Our breakup wasn't so clear and one day, we stopped communicating because we kept fighting. 10days later, I learned he is dating someone new. He said he likes the girl because he sees himself in her. I am confident that she could never fill in my shoes and she will live under my shadows because I have helped him so much straighten up his life and his family loves me (they don't like the girl because of her reputation). He wants us to be bestfriends and still communicate. If I stop communicating, I feel he will completely forget about me because the girl is there whenever he wants to see her. I am miles away.
The only way i can sleep is by listening to your videos .. it's been 10 days.
Thank you from the bottom of my heart.
My partner walked out on me after 39 years I’m devastated....I’ve done everything wrong...I’ve been completely out of my mind...but I’m going into no contact from now....it takes a lot of will power...& I’m going to work on myself too...thank you Craig 🙏🏻
How are you now? Just wondering as this was 2 years ago?
I’m ok I still miss him...but I’m learning to live a different life now...I wish him & his new girlfriend n her children...thank you
@@maureenmaureen2217 God bless you. If you can cope with that, I certainly should be able to cope (and fully get over) my ex. It's been 3 years and it still hurts like hell and I'm scared to open up to someone new. Gotta get him gone. I'm glad you're ok and I hope you find a new love at the right time for you x
@@heatherwoodley8244 you just got to accept it........yes it hurts still.....but there is so much to be grateful for.....it’s ok to cry it’s ok...but most of all love yourself ❤️
Awe love coach Margaret! Xoxo
She cheated on her current boyfriend with her ex? Most likely, she will also cheat on her ex, if she gets back with him. He has put himself in a position to be in a back-and-forth relationship with her. Actually, not even a relationship; more like a situationship.
You both are terrific! I enjoy listening to you two and have learned a lot about myself and things I need to work on every time I watch a new video. I didn't realize how soothing your videos actually were until you mentioned how others felt soothed by them. I do notice I feel calmer and more balanced after listening to you two. Thanks for caring enough to put up videos to educate others about what issues they may have developed from childhood and how it affects them in adulthood. You cover so many different topics that it can benefit a wide audience of people watching and doesn't just stop at relationship/dating advice. I appreciate your work and enjoy your sense of humor.
One hour for each month she made me wait. That’s hilarious 😂
My ex reached out after 5 years recently. However I’m back watching these videos again due to a different breakup. Just thought that would be interesting to share. Hoping my last reaches out. Regardless it’s all love.
I do listen to your videos all day every day to make me feel better. I am currently suffering from a long distance break up and I'm afraid that he may just move on. So I am working on myself and I am comforted in the fact that he may think of me sometime. 😊I cannot afford the coaching at this time.
I thought I was the only one that I fall asleep to their videos... I feel so lost and they sooth my anxiety... the comfort I get from no one..
Sometimes I also listen to your videos while I sleep. Even if I wake up through the night, I'll find that it has soothed me some and put me in in a much better frame of mind.
I'm ashamed to say this but there is another relationship coach on RUclips who highly and I mean highly recommended the viewers to listen to Coach Kenneth. Prior to that, I had never heard of you. Smiles 😃
I'm almost embarrassed to tell you that I have forgotten that coach's name. There are a couple of them that come to mind who may have recommended you but I've been listening to you and not him since then.
THANK YOU! That was good advice about taking advice from friends. Don't like to hear them say you have to move on time to get past this.
Hes already screwing up by texting back and fourth with her.
This never grow old Thank you both.I prayed and asked for a sign because I am following your No Contact. In two days I was amazed to receive a text from him after 6 months. I keep praying and following your coaching videos he texted again and unblocked me. We are now texting taking it slow .