4 Ways To KNOW When God Doesn't Want You With THAT MAN

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    4 Ways To KNOW When God Doesn't Want You With THAT MANe... In this dating advice video, I will share with you some Godly dating advice that will help you determine when God doesn’t want you with someone. Many people are finding themselves in relationships that God doesn’t want them to be in, but the hard part is understanding how to tell when God doesn’t want you in that relationship. Take heed to this Christian dating advice and be sure to watch the entire video.
    Many of you lean on God when it comes to health, career, and other stuff but when it comes to dating and relationships you leave God out making you miss out on Godly dating experiences. I want you to embrace these Christian dating tips that I share in this video so that you can experience Christian dating and have healthy fulfilling relationships.
    If you don’t understand how to connect with your spirit in a way that you are comfortable with hearing God’s voice it will be difficult to know when God doesn’t want you with someone. However, in this Christian dating advice, I will help you understand how to get in tune with God so that you can know what God wants you to do and when God doesn’t want you with them.
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Комментарии • 197

  • @MeetStephanSpeaks
    @MeetStephanSpeaks  Месяц назад +14

    ❤️ Get your copy of “40 Prayers For My Future Husband” here 👉 www.prayersformyfuturehusband.com

    • @1002Ana
      @1002Ana Месяц назад

      Can you do a video on having an abusive husband, and how to handle this situation when it comes to God, and what do I need to do.

  • @Petra.80
    @Petra.80 Месяц назад +357

    God sees the hearts of men. He hears conversations I don't hear. He is so protective about us. Forget relationships now, your desires and first strengthen your relationship with God first... Surrender totally and see how all the hurt will go away.

    • @MeetStephanSpeaks
      @MeetStephanSpeaks  Месяц назад +26

      Well said 🙏

    • @LoveNice-u2j
      @LoveNice-u2j Месяц назад +1

      I’m so excited my broken marriage has been restored my ex love is back after he left me and our kids for another woman.I was so happy to me how he help many people to bring there lover back

    • @LoveNice-u2j
      @LoveNice-u2j Месяц назад

      Massage him from help right away📲

    • @LoveNice-u2j
      @LoveNice-u2j Месяц назад

      *@✛2347063272473👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾🔥🔥🪴🪴❄️❄️🔮Hong Kong’ s *Entscheidung *herrlich.

    • @Petra.80
      @Petra.80 Месяц назад

      @@LoveNice-u2j The love God has for them.

  • @thelovelycharity
    @thelovelycharity Месяц назад +56

    The 4 Signs:
    1. When the person pulls you away from God, rather than closer to God.
    2. They create a toxic environment
    3. They distract you from your purpose (both distract and pull you away from your purpose)
    4. When they refuse to grow in God with you
    PLEASE watch the video for full context though. It's really good! 💕

  • @enaalexis92
    @enaalexis92 Месяц назад +116

    God says “I will make a way in the wilderness and rivers in the desert.” He will let you know when a new era is about to begin .

    • @EdnahChirchir
      @EdnahChirchir Месяц назад +3

      Exactly 💯 you said what God told me one year ago when I needed some big change. I always remind him that when I feel weak

  • @katiefromKona
    @katiefromKona Месяц назад +155

    I was engaged and one night I got this feeling don’t do this and so I broke it off. It was the hardest thing in my life, but I heard the call of God to say don’t do it and It hurts!

    • @jacquelinejohaness1073
      @jacquelinejohaness1073 Месяц назад +22

      I can imagine how that might hurt but God's voice is very strong and it is the best

    • @MeetStephanSpeaks
      @MeetStephanSpeaks  Месяц назад +14

      🙏

    • @tonyahayes9229
      @tonyahayes9229 Месяц назад +15

      I've been through this. After I ended it, God gave me confirmation of my decision. 🙏🏽🙌🏽

    • @quinlaverdure
      @quinlaverdure Месяц назад +18

      Obedience is better than sacrifice. GOD will rather hurt your feelings for the now, to protect the calling on your life, and reward you later even if you don't understand what He's up to rather than let you slip into destruction, all led by your emotions, because feelings are fluctuating & deceitful. Sending blessings! 🙏

    • @TooComic
      @TooComic Месяц назад

      🤣🤡

  • @giastiles1
    @giastiles1 Месяц назад +43

    Had a man ask for my number. I told him it's a no for now but that I'll pray on it and get back to him. Went to God and heard to let my no be a no. Yesterday, the guy followed up and again asked what God said, and I told him just that. He then belittles my going to God for every decision and says that he doesn't believe God, etc etc, and continues to persist. I said that's probably exactly why God said it was a no.
    Sis, trust your Self, that's your intuition. God is always speaking to us. Don't be afraid to listen and follow that regardless of how that other party is able to receive it. God first.

    • @michellegirau8136
      @michellegirau8136 29 дней назад +1

      That was good that you did that. Now you can see what would happen in that relationship. Prayer can work fast sometimes.

  • @FeliciaWolfe-e7y
    @FeliciaWolfe-e7y Месяц назад +96

    Great video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love him so much I can’t stop thinking about him, I’ve tried my very best to get him back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of him, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss him and just can’t stop thinking about him

    • @LillianVance-z7j
      @LillianVance-z7j Месяц назад +2

      its difficult to let go of someone you love, i was in a similar situation, my relationship of 12 years ended, but i couldnt just let him go i did all i could to get him back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual counselor who helped me bring him back

    • @FeliciaWolfe-e7y
      @FeliciaWolfe-e7y Месяц назад

      Amazing, how did you get a spiritual counselor, and how do i reach him?

    • @LillianVance-z7j
      @LillianVance-z7j Месяц назад

      His name is Owen Abiola, and he is a great spiritual caster who can bring back your ex.

    • @FeliciaWolfe-e7y
      @FeliciaWolfe-e7y Месяц назад

      Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked her up now online. impressive

    • @cyndinniwest5827
      @cyndinniwest5827 Месяц назад +5

      Of course you're gonna think about your ex, but time will heal you YOU WOULD'VE definitely gotten over him in time, I was in a relationship for 15 years and got over that, so I know anyone can get over someone.

  • @user-ui6uu3zo6o
    @user-ui6uu3zo6o Месяц назад +38

    If a man tells you I dont believe in God! Run...He shows you right away. Look at their spirit and how they act. Especially when they cross your personal boundaries. That's a red flag! I dont care what position they hold.

    • @giastiles1
      @giastiles1 Месяц назад +3

      Come on, algorithm! You better speak to us. 😊

  • @tristamarie7115
    @tristamarie7115 Месяц назад +27

    Also, I would caution others when it comes to the 'Christian guy' who you aren't suppose to be with. He may look good on paper, but maybe not the best fit for you for whatever reason. That was my situation...nice guy and everyone loves him, but knew in my spirit he wasn't the one. Couldn't put my finger on it and nothing in the natural that would make alarms go off, but I just knew. Maybe instead of 'If he isn't the one for me, take him away,' what about "If he's not for me, remove my desire for him.' ?

  • @lorrecco
    @lorrecco Месяц назад +91

    From experience I strongly believe God does answer that 'if he's not for me..' prayer. Normally when I have prayed it, a guy be gone in less than a week

    • @tiffanyyisrael7989
      @tiffanyyisrael7989 Месяц назад +5

      Yep, the one I prayed about was gone the next day.

    • @ringrinka
      @ringrinka Месяц назад +3

      for my case, when i pray this, in several days i will see/know that he not a good godly man or already in relationship or already liking someone else that the woman type is not like me. so i know that his type is not someone like me. at least at that time. so i release my feeling toward him

    • @mariahcharnelle
      @mariahcharnelle Месяц назад +5

      i think he may mean in a case where you may be already “committed” to someone in some way (exclusivity, marriage, kids, etc).
      if you havent chosen to be committed to a person, you may be in a space where youre gauging if you should choose them….so praying that prayer is valid bc you havent yet made a choice to commit yet.
      but usually when it comes to someone making a conscious choice to commit to someone in any way and then we pray “God if theyre not for me, please remove them”, its like telling God that we were not responsible for choosing this person and hence we will not take responsibility for the conscious choice to remove that person from our life ourself….whether God guided them or allowed them to our lives, we always have a choice at the end of the day.
      i feel like what he may have been saying is THAT specific prayer kind of negates the fact that we have free will and that we should be taking accountability for our choices

    • @Christ-Made
      @Christ-Made Месяц назад +1

      Every time

    • @Cclearly9
      @Cclearly9 Месяц назад +2

      @@mariahcharnelleGood breakdown

  • @nady9025
    @nady9025 Месяц назад +64

    I love that you include God more into your messages lately, I have prayed for that, thanks!

  • @user-fh1tr9zp3l
    @user-fh1tr9zp3l Месяц назад +65

    Anyone or anything who is distracting us from GOD is unacceptable
    who has ears to hear let them hear
    Thanks Stephan

  • @kaciayres6485
    @kaciayres6485 Месяц назад +48

    My ex and I broke up in February. This devastated me and I ran right back to God. Neither one of us were where we needed to be in our relationship with God so I know that He is the one who caused it to end. I've rededicated my life and have been working so hard since myself. My ex agreed to do this also but I'm not sure he is. I really feel like ours is the "not quite time" situation and would just like prayer for patience while I'm waiting.

    • @PricelessJesus
      @PricelessJesus Месяц назад +3

      Praying x

    • @kaciayres6485
      @kaciayres6485 Месяц назад +2

      @@PricelessJesus Thank you so much ❤️🙏

    • @PricelessJesus
      @PricelessJesus Месяц назад

      @@kaciayres6485 God has someone 4 u

    • @essenceg11
      @essenceg11 Месяц назад +2

      Same here and I agree.. Right person, but it's the wrong time 😢

  • @brandicollins3511
    @brandicollins3511 Месяц назад +25

    Being shown all the signs and red flags 9 Xs out of 10 the man won’t leave you have to leave

  • @pengefeza2563
    @pengefeza2563 Месяц назад +22

    If we involved God from the beginning of the relationship yes he can help us .
    We need to understand that God hates divorce unless there are fornication and violences involved.
    God is a peace maker and love.

  • @staceyjones2696
    @staceyjones2696 22 дня назад +5

    Like I heard an older wiser person say, God won't bless no mess!

  • @JackieS812
    @JackieS812 Месяц назад +14

    I’m not allowing anyone to take me away from God! Either he’s the one or he’s not the one and, I’m good either way! Thanks again, Bro. Stephan! Much love!❤

  • @brandicollins3511
    @brandicollins3511 Месяц назад +20

    This goes for friends as well

  • @SofiUk0319
    @SofiUk0319 Месяц назад +10

    Best piece of advice I could myself n others would be to never shut off your conversation with God, especially when you know deep in your heart that the 1 you chose isn't right at all for you. I am trying with all my might to listen and pay attention this time around... I will not run away either this time, because that's another tendency of mine, run away before ever giving anyone a chance to love me for me ❤

  • @clipsbysunny5773
    @clipsbysunny5773 Месяц назад +27

    My guy was going to visiting. I had not seen him for a few months. The night before I plaid about it and said to god “ if he not for me , take him away from me “..The next morning he called me and told me he was at the airport and was not coming to me. God is amazing , I knew he wasn’t the one. Pray and he will answer

  • @KeishaLauren
    @KeishaLauren Месяц назад +5

    I prayed from the first when meeting someone and God told me to let it go and I have. He was not a bad guy but he wasn’t the right guy. To God be the glory; He doesn’t withhold any good thing from us.

  • @londontyler6598
    @londontyler6598 Месяц назад +8

    God won’t & don’t bring us a broken mate

  • @seafoamgreen9651
    @seafoamgreen9651 Месяц назад +21

    I know for sure a third-party blocked it. They wedged themselves in between us by deceiving my person. And when he finally learned, the truth, too much time has passed.

    • @patriciabukator2622
      @patriciabukator2622 Месяц назад +13

      No 3rd party can block everyone has a choice..people always blame a 3rd party..I stopped doing that..he chose that person🤷‍♀️..and if they wanted to be with you they would it’s an excuse…no one is stuck I don’t buy it anymore

    • @Victoria_Loves_Jesus
      @Victoria_Loves_Jesus Месяц назад +1

      @@patriciabukator2622 please don't gaslight this person

  • @olayinkacredle
    @olayinkacredle Месяц назад +5

    PLEASE someone summarize the four points

  • @denisep7885
    @denisep7885 Месяц назад +13

    This was good!!!! Perfect timing!!!
    Btw you was awesome on that Nick cannon show ! I don’t think everyone on the panel understood /embraced your input but know you spoke truth!

  • @yoshikigoro8563
    @yoshikigoro8563 25 дней назад +2

    I just cut off a man i had suspicions of being the one God had sent to me. But what had happened was he was spiritually immature (lovebombing, negative response to communication problems, etc.) And i found myself correcting biblically at times.
    Sometimes the guy loves Jesus, reads his bible, doesnt do anything sexually immoral, but the point is that the man is the HEAD, and if youre leading, girl you are taking his position and it will not change.

  • @jacquelinejohaness1073
    @jacquelinejohaness1073 Месяц назад +27

    Am in a relationship but we fight alot and I just pray that i can hear God's voice😢

  • @JUSTKEEPSHININGBRIGHT
    @JUSTKEEPSHININGBRIGHT Месяц назад +18

    AFTER 23 YRS OF MARRIAGE I FEEL GOD IS TELLING ME TO GO! FOR SURE!

    • @Uzuri-Love
      @Uzuri-Love Месяц назад +5

      I can relate. You're not alone.

    • @JUSTKEEPSHININGBRIGHT
      @JUSTKEEPSHININGBRIGHT Месяц назад +2

      @@Uzuri-Love ITS PAST TIME.

    • @Uzuri-Love
      @Uzuri-Love Месяц назад +3

      @@JUSTKEEPSHININGBRIGHT Everything always works out at the right time. Keeping shining ✨️ bright Queen! 🦋🦋

    • @misemefein100
      @misemefein100 Месяц назад

      If you've hit the wall then you won't get a lot of rides in the cock carousel

  • @SleepyPariah
    @SleepyPariah Месяц назад +4

    I’m literally just waiting on God’s timing. I’m not budging until I confirm with God. I’ve been traumatized doing things in my own timing ok lol

  • @georginaboateng205
    @georginaboateng205 Месяц назад +6

    Ladies,beware with losers acting as lovers .pray and ask God to reveal them to you.

  • @TawandaClark-ii9ps
    @TawandaClark-ii9ps Месяц назад +7

    It's always something trying to find a way to push someone whose trying to go forward to move backwards. It's craazy😵😵😵

  • @Victoria_Loves_Jesus
    @Victoria_Loves_Jesus Месяц назад +10

    i just wasted 2 1/2 months on a guy who was accidentally leading me on 🤡🤡🤡

  • @letitiabowman1913
    @letitiabowman1913 Месяц назад +3

    GOD is the foundation, covering, completion! We must seek his divine will in all aspects of our lives for his glory and for the good of others🕊️Pray, wait, seek wise counsel (Stephan 😉) Once given remain/abide in him that he preserves the gift through his power!

  • @paulettealston8372
    @paulettealston8372 Месяц назад +5

    You didn't lose yourself in your thoughts of expressing yourself. You're saying exactly what God wants you to say and how to say it. Magnificent message Stephan.

  • @jjjohnson1219
    @jjjohnson1219 Месяц назад +6

    Love what you said and sometimes a lot of us don't want to hear the truth - but the truth has to be told. God is truly amazing and we have to be obedient.

  • @7spiritprayerwarrior-sf9he
    @7spiritprayerwarrior-sf9he 26 дней назад +1

    Try reading the first 5 books of the Bible. And the apostles letters. And learn God's will. ... Yes! It's that easy. Get audio Bible. Down load to your phone... Yes! It's that easy

  • @goldenblue3865
    @goldenblue3865 Месяц назад +3

    #1+ Weak People, #2 - Very Well said, #3 - Balance * Stay Focus ! #4 - Very Important

  • @natalieturner664
    @natalieturner664 Месяц назад +1

    God says, he hates putting away, meaning divorce. Jesus said, if someone leaves their husband or wife… they should return to that person; of course abuse would be the exception… In stead of thinking the grass is greener on the other side, turn to God’s Word and then just watch him work. This Stephan man has found a niche giving silly women, dumb advice; he clearly does not know or care about what God has already said!❤

  • @RhenaLoveTarot
    @RhenaLoveTarot Месяц назад +5

    It's crazy when you do try to leave but they holding on to you for dear life.

  • @carmellaconstancio
    @carmellaconstancio 29 дней назад +1

    Respect to you always Professor Stephan!💪🏼👊🏼🙏🏼🏆 Your guidance has encouraged me to fast for clairity... and now I understand that getting the "flesh" out of the way is how God Comes Through

  • @mejesokhana
    @mejesokhana Месяц назад +4

    Thank you brother for being my eye opener. I'm single, and I am so happy. I love myself more now. All thanks to you 🙏🏿

  • @elenarae_
    @elenarae_ 27 дней назад +1

    A lot of the times people pray to God and come up with their own answer and claim it to be from God. If you have to pray a prayer for God to remove someone from your life, that's already an indicator that that person shouldny be in your life. Period.

  • @MK-tr8ok
    @MK-tr8ok Месяц назад +3

    Bang on! Thank you for sharing this, so much wisdom. I went through all this and I thank God for rescuing me it wasn’t easy to take that bold step, he said move to this city that’s where your healing is, do not worry about the money or where you’re going I have my people go, live everything,, this wasn’t easy but I had to do it I was physically dying this man I married was the devil.. I woke up sick that morning packed what I needed I left to new city, no family, no money, no job but when I say God makes ways I have no words to describe it, his goodness and mercy is unmatched. Today I find myself smiling my heart full of gratitude I am happy, healed and restored, i love you Lord!

  • @GloW_Bug1
    @GloW_Bug1 Месяц назад +2

    I’m giving my boyfriend a “test drive “ He is Religious. However he has been disappointing me left and right. I told him if it doesn’t improve I’m out. I’m working on myself as well. I just didn’t see an equal investment.

  • @ElPatrickson
    @ElPatrickson Месяц назад +2

    I literally prayed for God to give me a sign and a couple nights he got in a drunken rage while taking me home from work, and then I jumped out the car because I didn’t want to die and I walked home. When he finally made it home, he ghosted me and moved out so that was very clear that I did not want him in my life anymore.😊

  • @Shilpa91000
    @Shilpa91000 Месяц назад +2

    Would god want us to be with someone I'm not attracted to?

  • @artsycrafts7958
    @artsycrafts7958 Месяц назад +1

    I put god first and my ex wont accept that he wants to blame me being religous and following god a reason why we're not together and yes hes right, im tired of sin and not having peace when i was with him been together off and on for 3 years and im done i gave him his chances and he never changes, he wont even read the bible or will try to be religious but wants to pull quotes from the bible just to justify how he thinks hes rights and our entire relationship he just always wants to be right wven when he's in the wrong, and i was tired of it, im struggling being a single mother but id rather struggle and get back to the lord then be with someone that will never truely love me or respect me and what i believe and i belive in the lord and that he has better for me.

  • @Towanda-xq2xg
    @Towanda-xq2xg Месяц назад +12

    God day young man, the last few generations have been dropped on the head, you don't have to have a GED dealing with man or relationships period! When someone wants you, you will know, no test, no playing game, no drugs, no mental illness, who does all this and all is well! Had to share out of showing people mercy, grace, keep up the amazing work and let's go! 👊👊👊👊👊👊👊👊

  • @eveyreyes1889
    @eveyreyes1889 Месяц назад +2

    I love watching ur videos..Much love from Los Angeles California

  • @amiejackson4582
    @amiejackson4582 Месяц назад +1

    Yes and Amen I am waiting for GOD'S very best my BOAZ is on his way....🙏❤️🙌

  • @lavonnewells6003
    @lavonnewells6003 Месяц назад +1

    THANK YOU, THANK YOU, and THANK YOU!! I can’t even tell you about how he always has to be one up on me. When others are around he is a AWESOME BUTTERFLY! And that’s not even the whole beginning!!

  • @TawandaClark-ii9ps
    @TawandaClark-ii9ps Месяц назад +1

    Right now... I do not know what the universe is in confusion about right now. The DF wants and needs her DM, and if I know and understand this, then why the universe doesn't? I'm waiting on him, been waiting on him, which is preparing to receive him.🙏🏾 I don't know what else does this takes to be understood. Whatever needs to be worked out we can just figure that out together. It really is more of a requirement at this point.

  • @TawandaClark-ii9ps
    @TawandaClark-ii9ps Месяц назад +1

    Please Use Caution 🙏🏾...Example "Obssession" starring Idris Elba

  • @nailed_sa
    @nailed_sa Месяц назад +1

    @meetstephanspeaks This gave me some more clarity that I’m on the right path thank you, I actually said a prayer for my clairity the last few days I feel like God was partially speaking to through ur messages here ❤

  • @neniaemat1079
    @neniaemat1079 Месяц назад +1

    My ex is about to meet me, but I feel something wrong in him I do always pray to God that if his intention to meet me Just to take advantage for me I pray that there's a way to separate then he broke up with me the time he is near to come and meet me. Now he is in Manila but we don't meet

  • @laurahero8778
    @laurahero8778 21 день назад

    Preach with this! I found my partner who had known me 8 years ago but with my short term memory conditions & epileptic disabilities, I had no clues on who he was. Yet with my best-friend’s knowledge of him on my behalf, she matched him & I together again & now we have been together for a new year! Cons however are the *’nobodies perfect but nobodies making any improvements’* motivations within this year. Due to God’s timing, our bodies structures hasn’t changed nor evolved but will that change our relationship with each other & with the man above? 😞😔

  • @rachelgarbe3932
    @rachelgarbe3932 22 дня назад

    My boyfriend works all the time...I send him videos or talk about a book I think would help us grpw spiritually but often his answer is....I dont have time.
    What do I do?? Helpppp please

  • @jacquelinejohaness1073
    @jacquelinejohaness1073 Месяц назад +3

    Stephan i need advice because i really don't know what to do, am in this relationship where by we fight like cats and dogs and he just keeps on blaming me that am not communicating well and i don't priorities him rather than i just priorities my family 😢...what should I do please 😔

    • @Leighlaaa
      @Leighlaaa Месяц назад +4

      Leave.

    • @CJizzy819
      @CJizzy819 Месяц назад +5

      Leave. You deserve better.

    • @Shelly-pl2vn
      @Shelly-pl2vn Месяц назад +1

      Get out, I was in a marriage like that for 20 years- it was an emotional rollercoaster. Don't do that, your peace is important.

    • @Shelly-pl2vn
      @Shelly-pl2vn Месяц назад

      What if you don't know what your purpose is? L.o.l

  • @PerpetualOjochide
    @PerpetualOjochide 27 дней назад

    Hi Stephan, thank you for all you do for us by advising us.
    I have a question, what if they always talk about praying together all the time and hardly create time to get to know each other and they say, "there is no commitment yet"

  • @LindaAnn-v5m
    @LindaAnn-v5m Месяц назад +3

    Your timing is profound for me! I'm currently following a journey of understanding when God might be guiding us away from certain relationships. However, in my situation, God has given me a different message. He's been calling me to share my personal relationship with him with my new boyfriend that I barely know and help this person open up and heal from past hurts from his childhood.This man is a man of faith also. So I told him about my personal and sacred relationship with God. And told him exactly what God told me and right after that he stopped texting me for almost a month.Then he text me for a couple of days and once again no texts again. God, once again said don't give up so I again explained that in a text very emphatically. I feel a deep obligation to follow through because God has never asked me to do something like this before. I'm struggling with this because, I want to honor what God is asked. How do I navigate the situation and stay true to what I believe?

    • @BriannaLanders
      @BriannaLanders Месяц назад +2

      This mostly sounds like confusion. God is not a God of confusion. Also when God tells you about your purpose especially in this situation this is between you and God. I believe you should fast and pray to God and he will answer your prayers. Remember God gives clear instructions. I hope this helps✨

    • @thesexynun1749
      @thesexynun1749 Месяц назад

      No no this person is a narcissist who is trying to control u please be careful

  • @fantasiaroberts5157
    @fantasiaroberts5157 Месяц назад +1

    I could say so much but I won't, so all I will say is I fully agree with you. Another great video.👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾🙏🏽💚💚🙌🏾

  • @dawnatchison
    @dawnatchison Месяц назад

    My husband of ten years has pushed and pulled for years and now wants to discard me - I’m so confused not knowing if I should continue to pray and believe God works all things out for my good, or let him go 😢

  • @michellegirau8136
    @michellegirau8136 29 дней назад

    Mine definitely can be abusive at times. He also was so horrible while I was going to school and taking care of my children and our baby because I wasn't making income at that time. He refuses to make more money. I now have a masters degree and I have a good job but I still feel like he heavily relays on my income. One thing he does have is he does belive in God and that's what makes it hard to leave. The biggest red flag at the beginning was I was his AP and he acted all holy while messing with me while he was still married his justification was she was abusive and I was done. But it's abusive so I wonder if she really was or it was him the whole time just making excuses.

  • @sherrikins3557
    @sherrikins3557 18 дней назад

    i know someone who both claimed be to Christian, however the guy would talk bad about her mom and pulled her away from her family. He was cheating on her the same time. She found out and was so sorry she let him do that.

  • @AmenKonjo-s2n
    @AmenKonjo-s2n День назад

    God bless you man of God❤🙇‍♂️🫶🫶🫶

  • @TawandaClark-ii9ps
    @TawandaClark-ii9ps Месяц назад +1

    I tell ya...guys REALLY need to listening to their DIVINE FEMANINE woman when they're trying to warn them about something, because it is for a good reason. Notice I said DF, because usually they are not the ones whom are going to tell their man the wrong thing.

    • @TawandaClark-ii9ps
      @TawandaClark-ii9ps Месяц назад

      Like something I was trying to warn Simba about last year in the Spring.

  • @shonb989
    @shonb989 Месяц назад +1

    What about signs if he wants you to be with someone. I'm getting ready to reunite after 3 yrs with a guy on Saturday!!

  • @laurenreavis8516
    @laurenreavis8516 Месяц назад +3

    Thanks!

  • @meka4021
    @meka4021 Месяц назад +2

    Amen to this message it was just what I needed to hear conformation

  • @renateabi2662
    @renateabi2662 Месяц назад +1

    I'm presently engage but I'm having some concerns cus he doesn't want me to work but be a stay at home mum and wife. I'm praying and hope itll change but...

    • @jessicad8345
      @jessicad8345 Месяц назад +2

      When someone tells you who they are, believe them. If you don’t want that for yourself and don’t feel called to it , don’t ignore that difference.

    • @renateabi2662
      @renateabi2662 Месяц назад

      ​@@jessicad8345 Thank you ma'am it's time for a change

  • @joycehand3067
    @joycehand3067 Месяц назад +1

    Stephen, in 1996 our Lord told me the name of my perfect match. I have been waiting. I am now 75. The last time I asked, he said my match isn't ready. What do you suggest I ask? Do I just continue to wait? Do I stop asking more questions?
    Your conversation reminded me of my past. I wish I had not married him.

    • @MjtheChicagokid
      @MjtheChicagokid Месяц назад +1

      Dag, I think by this point, he should at least clue you in on what decade he'll be ready

  • @Munchie--Creations
    @Munchie--Creations Месяц назад +2

    He so good me like no other thank God 🌕

  • @tomitonockabanks4054
    @tomitonockabanks4054 Месяц назад +2

    ❤❤❤ Amen thank you so much brother

  • @levinaajuesi2105
    @levinaajuesi2105 Месяц назад +3

    Well am dating a guy who made me got closer to God. I had issues with him which i left not contacting him for a while but whenever i take to prayer that God should give me a better guy this thought coming to my head that this guy will come and that a lot of pressure is weighting on him and i should pray for him. Am really when he calls he will tell this is what happened and all.
    There were times he disappear due to the death of a family his brother and that affected him.
    I can just say in my heart God i miss this guy and i will see him. This got me confused and most time this same feeling keep telling me his yours. The only issue i have with him is him not calling most time but sometimes. So i had to give myself a break to focus on God. I just need an advice

    • @fluffyoliphant6951
      @fluffyoliphant6951 Месяц назад

      I would never normally comment but your comment resonates with me after an experience I had with a man which is quite similar to yours. It sounds like your guy could have cptsd or be of an avoidant disposition. You could look up some reputable you tubers on here who explain why some people do this type of thing which might help you decide whether to keep on trying with him or not .

    • @heatherdimsdale
      @heatherdimsdale Месяц назад +2

      People make time for what's important to them. Don't be fooled.

  • @Cindy_Love_2025
    @Cindy_Love_2025 Месяц назад

    Powerful message!!!💯💯💯💯
    I love this video!❤️
    Excellent job!👏🏼
    I know whoever the man God has for me, my future forever love & I will build our relationship on godly values. God will be the center of our lives & be put first. God will always be the foundation of everything in our future.
    He & I will be aligned with God’s will & know the purpose God has for us!
    Praying & encouraging one another!
    🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼❤️💯

  • @latonyalnc
    @latonyalnc 13 дней назад

    This was so helpful.

  • @janjISMYname
    @janjISMYname Месяц назад

    Hello, Stephan. What are your thoughts on chemistry? Is it important? I'm the type that need to build a connection on a deeper level before I'll hold hands even, however if there's no chemistry I will 9/10 end it before it begins. The man I'm talking to, had our second date last night where he invited me to go to church, I have 0 chemistry. I think he's attractive, not my "type", but I removed that from my list several yrs ago! But I feel NOTHING. He's a Christian, we share same values and ideas. I'm torn..

  • @Shelly-pl2vn
    @Shelly-pl2vn Месяц назад

    1st John :2:19 They went out from us, but they were not of us, for if they had been of us they no doubt would have continued with us, but they went out that they might be made manifest that they were not all of us-

  • @Tuhan-f7y
    @Tuhan-f7y Месяц назад

    Hi Stephen, I do think men should be financially stable, but do you think it’s appropriate for a woman to leave a man when he’s going through financial problems, or when he looses his jobs.
    Why do you think there is an issue for a woman paying for the bills when he is going through financial problems.I think you mentioned that before.
    Also, why is it that your against couples building a life together. I am not saying a woman building a man up, but I saying both working together, and helping eachother out, and the woman’s income could be bonus for contribution.
    Correct me if you don’t disagree with this.

  • @ComplyAndDie87
    @ComplyAndDie87 29 дней назад

    Back and as hurt as ever. Many Revelations have happened since we have spoken last. Burning in the embers, but will soon be rising again. Lord spoil us with powerful men who see your calling and answer. Amen.

  • @detrabooker3662
    @detrabooker3662 Месяц назад

    9:14 am
    I was in a Relationship with a Guy for 6 years things were great a few things went left and got out of hand broke up 4 years later still hanging with Ex now but he sees me as just friends.
    Question: Why do he always invite me on trips if we just friends and I truly love him today never stopped. What is he trying to prove to me?

  • @nicholecornes1915
    @nicholecornes1915 14 дней назад

    Listen to him

  • @cheveriawallace6117
    @cheveriawallace6117 Месяц назад +2

    THANK U❤❤

  • @lillysart24
    @lillysart24 Месяц назад

    I accidentally opened RUclips (needed the app next to it) after receiving a message from a guy I had a date with that there was no romantic interest. The only thing I saw was this thumbnail and it definitely felt like God was confirming this wasnt the right guy for me. Kinda the message I needed to see after already feeling like God was telling me this week that this wasn't the right one for me.

  • @TawandaClark-ii9ps
    @TawandaClark-ii9ps Месяц назад

    While listening to this I hear the song "Free_Mind" by TEMS, and to tell you the truth that is how I feel. Like when you are doing something positive with your life, or start to get a breakthrough here comes something or somebody trying to ruin it all. Sometimes it's your own family unfortunately. I swear I just can't wait to get away from here.

  • @barbaraglover4451
    @barbaraglover4451 Месяц назад +1

    Thank you my bro Amen

  • @yssnvalina
    @yssnvalina Месяц назад

    If he hepls to cultivate my rel w God, but not by talking w me😭🤣 is that ok?

  • @londontyler6598
    @londontyler6598 Месяц назад

    He pushed me closer to keep from loosing my mind on him. I knew then, this was not of Good from the God I serve

  • @kevinkeza4989
    @kevinkeza4989 Месяц назад

    God I thank you for this revelation. I thank you that the man you have for me Manifests.

  • @empresstameica7438
    @empresstameica7438 Месяц назад +1

    Amen

  • @1Daniegirl
    @1Daniegirl Месяц назад +1

    Love this one 👍🏽

  • @chrtyhwrd
    @chrtyhwrd Месяц назад

    Thank you for touching on this topic. I been seeing a lot of post this week about this. My question had been how do we know God wants us to let go. My intuition is silent. You explain how the woman said she prayed that prayer but he was never removed. This is my current experience. Thank you for breaking this down. I am too is in a toxic relationship with my man i been with 13 years

  • @lisacatherineoblsb
    @lisacatherineoblsb Месяц назад

    ❤ not all learn even after we bought the book and read it. And still keep doing what we know is not what God would want. Let you control the outcome With God's plan. Namaste, blessings.

  • @KyMiche978
    @KyMiche978 Месяц назад

    I’m listening God, your timing of all things is perfect.

  • @ttwilson6756
    @ttwilson6756 Месяц назад

    This video confirmed some things for me, so I am glad that it came across my feed. I love that your videos are Christ centered. That is so needed and you are doing great!

  • @EverlynnMwallo-xe3ps
    @EverlynnMwallo-xe3ps Месяц назад

    May God continue to give you wisdom to teach the likes like me.

  • @hips196439
    @hips196439 Месяц назад

    THANK YOU SO MUCH STEPHAN FOR THIS MESSAGE I REALLY NEEDED TO HEAR THIS. GOD PLEASE CONTINUE TO USE HIM /YOU

  • @eluz8856
    @eluz8856 Месяц назад +1

    💜

  • @Citrusfruits50
    @Citrusfruits50 Месяц назад

    Nobody is ever interested in me fir some reason

    • @user-fh1tr9zp3l
      @user-fh1tr9zp3l 25 дней назад

      You,re joking right 😅

    • @Citrusfruits50
      @Citrusfruits50 25 дней назад

      @@user-fh1tr9zp3l no - last time I even went out on a date was 17 years ago

  • @songbird4945
    @songbird4945 Месяц назад

    😒