The boldest prayer I started praying each time I meet a man was "God, if this man is not for me please may you remove him from my life." Each time I meet a new man, I place that in God's hand. Sometimes, I don't say it, but this is my standing point! Thank you so much for this video!!
But instead of praying from an expectaction of a nagative mindset, why not pray from an expecteaction of a positive mindset. Instead of looking for RED FLAGS, why not look for GREEN FLAGS?!!?
@@yeshuaiscoming9024 I'm sorry it didn't work. It didn't work because both parties have to do what I posted. Some way some how, and for whatever reason or reasons, either both parties stop or 1 of you did. I hope our Beautiful Creator Bless you with a partner whereas neither 1 will never stop doing what I posted 😁
I would have not met my husband if our Creator wasn't involved. I asked our Creator for my husband and I'm very thankful that my prayer was answered. Thank you! Hallelujah 😍🙏
Funny, I was never too religious ....after watching your videos I started to pray at night, God please send me who's for me. Stop allowing me to choose abusers druggies and narcissistic men who hurt me. I'm an empath and easily manipulated, all it took were a few sob stories and a nice smile and some jokes and the odd gift here n there... . "I can help them , they love me.. .we can overcome their serious issues" No. They have to help themselves they never loved me! they loved ACCESS TO ME.!!!! ACCESS TO MY LOVE AND RESOURCES AND MY OVERLY GIVING HEART. NO MORE. I'm allowing God to lead me to the good one.
I can totally relate to your message! Thank you for being so transparent and vulnerable 🙏 It's almost embarrassing to admit. In my personal life, I live a simple, peaceful, non-drama life and don't come from a background of addicts yet I fall for the narcissist the addicts and the ones that are unavailable... You're right, All it takes is a few sob stories making me laugh and maybe dinner or a gift here and there and I'm hooked 😭😜 I'm recognizing more of who I am and how to have healthy boundaries and also healing my child wounding... These type of relationships are always short-lived and create such a dramatic traumatic cycle and are always the hardest to walk away from it seems!
People read scripture. Sometimes there are evil spirits that are preventing the partnership. Ask in prayer for clarity and removal of all unholy blockages.
This is true and sometimes people ignore these red flags. If someone is pulling you away from God, you need to move on and find someone who will push you close to God. We are emotional marginalising ourself in the name of Love and in most cases it ends in teard
I had an ex that yelled at me for participating in bible study when he thought I should’ve been at work. However I work for myself. That should’ve been my sign to run but I stayed with him 3 more years until finally last year, I had enough and ghosted him.
everytime I give associates relationship advice, I ask them whether or not they pray together. Almost all the time, they say no.🤦 People make romantic relationships more difficult then what they are. All you gotta do is pray together, be patient, sacrifice, never give up, and show empathy- make sure all of this is done compassionately, respectfully, consistently, persistently and genuinely 🤷♀️ BOOM - That's it🤷♀️
You have to have things in common.. prayer isn't going to make someone attracted to someone ..basic things like having things in common.. having goals and physical attraction is also important
Often Christian couples get together and don't have anything in common and many wives don't even like their husband's.. sometimes the proposals are the lord told me you would be my wife and she goes along thinking he's a man of God
@@crystalvouse6435 no one gets into a relationship expecting both parties to have everything in common. They at least have something in common because they're in a relationship. I mentioned sacrificing and patience. Those 2 things work perfectly, when it comes to getting involved in even more mutual things that are common. Couples Praying together is one of the most powerful things that humans can do and sadly, it's underrated in our society. A wife can start to like her husband again but of course, he gotta put in the effort in order for her to change her outlook of him. The bottom line - most relationships fail because people don't want to put in the work to make it work. 🤷♀️
Crystal House I agree with you, I turned down a couple of guys from church just because of that line "God told me you re my wife". There's more to look forward to in marriage than just being a praying together couple. What happens when we re weak and one of us doesn't invest much in praying anymore
I was so glad to hear you speaking on this. What you said was all facts! I know it can be hard to remove the person when it's become a soul tie because you feel bound & binded by the person. But pray! pray! pray! & God will give you the strength & the courage to let them go. Speaking from experience ❤
Soooo for no reason except that I missed him, decided to visit him one early morning. Something just pushed me to go....I knocked and he opened the door confidently not expecting it was me. Only to find another woman in the bed sleeping....didn't ask Qs, I walked away without saying a word. So maybe God wanted me to see that
I agree with this one. I am not perfect but, I do believe being like minded when it comes to the foundation of a relationship. It should be developed in and with God (trinity). He adds so much Value and Peace that surpasses All understanding. ❤️🙏🏼
Stephan the waiting game is real in relationships. Timing is everything with God and a good foundation is important for successful relationship. You video right person wrong time help me out so much. Faith in God and Faith in that person no matter if there are negative words or actions it will come to pass. Wait!Bobbie Simon
Yes is important to be on same or very similar spiritual level if u r beliver. If God is most important to u especially. I see many women's getting married with men who r less spiritual than that women, and then this women soul gets frustrated because she can't teach a man basic spiritual things
When we pray for God to remove someone , God is not going to tell you to remove the person from your life since that person is constantly behaving badly towards you means they need to go , you just have to put your foot down and know enough is enough but what you need to do is ask God to give you spirit of braveness and strength to stay firm because the abusers they always come back . You just have to stay strong and keep praying for someone better.
I think a great barometer is "Do we bring out the best in each other, at least most (80%+) of the time?" The best in us is our Higher Self, that part of us which is most connected to God. The worst in us is the most disconnected. So there's the most tangible, noticeable sign you can have about what God is telling you about your relationship.
I had an ex who was smiling very superior when I was talking about God, that was a tremendous big sign but still no. Once I was fighting with him over taking communion, another red flag. At one point when I was writing in my diary I was calling him Satan, only red flags and I ignored them till the moment when he was breaking up with me on my birthday 😡😥 then was too much....I was first crying with big tears, then swear that nobody will hurt me again like that and I was walking away and never looking back again. Just walk and walk and walk. Further and further and further.
Yes Sir! Absolutely! Can 2 walk together lest they agree? God must always be at the center. Three-fold cord all the way honey! Otherwise everything will fall apart eventually if He is not in the lead.
If he was truly the man for you, you wouldn't need to pray to God to remove him from your life if he isn't the one because he'll be showing you every day that he's the one.
I asked God to give me a sign if he isn’t the one and he’s been showing me signs. Him and I had a disagreement on me saving myself for marriage and he said he doesn’t want to wait and if we haven’t done anything for 6 months then he’s leaving. I cried because he said he was Christian but isn’t doing Christian things. Then he started yelling saying, “ITS NOT ABOUT WHAT GOD WANTS, WHAT DO YOU WANT” is this not a huge red flag?
I was dating this guy who made me regret all the time and i kinda start blaming God. I slept in his place only twice and had bad dreams about him rejecting me. I wanted to convince myself that it was probably some evil forces fighting that we shouldn't be together. Then, few days after, i still had another bad dream about him...the following morning i ended the relationship. I still thank God till date🙏🙏
Profoundly video💯🔥🔥🔥❣️ I totally agree, I feel this also may differ for some is that just by a simple “Kissing” can blind someone in their decision to know for sure, if that person is not the one. Meaning it can feel more like an hypnosis being in an trance like state, if we are not aware spiritually. Some people have these abilities knowingly or subconsciously. Kissing someone who is not for us can influence your mind state and as soon as you know it, you can be caught up in a relationship that you shouldn’t be in and or have you doing things that you should know better. Mostly women are influenced by this strong hold. Having a strong spiritual foundation with The Most ☀️High can bring you back on our right spiritual path to see more clearly on who is who.💫✨🙌🏾 Energies transfer…
I feel that this man was wounded it was not our time! I prayed a lot and it seemed right it everything seemed to line up, but unfortunately he was wounded and didn't see that he was! But I hope God helps him learn how to heal weather it's meant to be or not!
Just watched this morning episode of Koereyelle - "What men really want" with you in it. Great episode, u lay it down just as it is exept the divorce part. I think 2 people should talk before marriage how many children they want or even if they want any. To me when u getting married it should be for life, so there r many aspects of life 2 people needs to have conversations about even what is a breaking point for them, so if they really love each other they can avoid it
I have been married 22yrs this past year I have been asking God is my husband the right man. He was into God now he is trying to pull me away from God as I get closer he getting further away.. I shouldn't have to choose between God and my husband.
@@ieshaanderson1317 we no longer talk so its not an option anymore. Im 31 so I was disappointed. But i took myself off the market until next year God willing.. so I can heal. Thank you very much for being sweet to me. You are a God sent!
@@DaintyAbby You're welcome Dear. I understood in your previous comment that it was over. I was referring to a future partner. I hope your journey of healing will lead you to feeling completely healed and ready ready for a lifetime partner who will provide you with an abundance of peace, love and happiness 😉
When it’s not true love there is a lot of confusion . One day you feel this is right and the next day it’s something in you that you can’t explain or see but you can feel that it isn’t right . Regardless of how great she/he is as a person . It’s also similar to a ballon …when you or the other person let go it pops/dissolve or disappear as quick as it arrived . But when it is real the love grows pass surface and into unconditional. It’s no longer about what you gain but what can you give. You also will want to be that person’s peace and protector . Even if you’re a woman you want to keep him from harm. When it’s the real thing , You can sense that your purpose is connected to this individual. You become a better person not just for her but more importantly for you. The love you have for her is something like the air we breathe …the more we exhale the more there is available to inhale. It doesn’t rob us of Our identity and it’s not sacrificial . it’s what sooner or later , we understand to be in obedience. Unlike counterfeit lovers we have no desire to control it . Bc intuitively we know we can never lose it. Dr Maya Angelou once said “love liberates “ and from my experience that’s the truest words that has ever been spoken. The love for each other not only is shared between the two of you but it’s also something you are able to effortlessly give away to others without any expectations whatsoever.
sweetheart is not love if every guy you go out with or every guy you meet you meet him on aisle at the grocery store and y'all go out a couple times and you in love that's not love girl is lust you're just horny and I love love is God is love he's kind and he's patient with us but you know God will get tired of us too now so stop falling in love with every man you meet and every man you go out with cuz believe me all those men they ain't in love with you girl now them men trying to get you laid
My problem with the first point is that the man in my life was actually way more religious than me. He disappeared when I asked him to be consistent with me and to communicate. He ghosted me. I don't think that's something God would advise. I'm praying for God to bring him back because I miss him but I still haven't heard from him. My heart is broken but I don't want to reach out and chase him.
Standing Ovations for this important information! Thank you Stephen for your important information! You talking truth! I loves your videos. You are always to the point! God bless your RUclips channel! You are the BEST! God bless you and your family!🙏😇💖🇨🇦
It appears that so many men have left the church, however the church/temple is inside our bodies our souls. So don’t be so hung up on the church the building but more so the spirit of the person and they’re fruit. It’s like everyone has been so disbursed out to find the person/spirit mate in wilderness.
I just had this conversation with THE LORD! I don’t want to miss my blessings from GOD!🙏🏽❤️ Thank you, Stephan! Blessings sent your way! Be safe! Love you!❤️🌟👑
I can answer that due to my relationship going good. You will know cause God will continue to put things in front of u to c clear as day. And it took me sometime to learn that. And I knew God was putting things in front of me and in all honesty I just chose to b disobedient so yes u will know. Very good topic Mr. Speaks well done. And ask God to show you trust me he will.
All you have to do is talk about finances, family, faith, and fitness. And you will easily see if someone is for you. If you don't agree 100% on those areas it is 100% guranteed to fail.
You are absolutely 💯 correct. When I, asked God to remove him after I, explained I, have a son who's an adult and a daughter who is in my care. He said I, can't wait to get you all alone. So when I, asked God to remove him from my life. He literally removed him from this planet. Nor did I, ask for that either. Just to remove him away from me. He must have been that 😈 and wicked. He was a very toxic person from head to toe.
amen amen amen I thought about something else Steve said cuz I have to book in my house is he just going to play you or do he have a plan for you long-term or you just a short-term thing play you or do you have a plan for you amen hallelujah I looked at your post and that's true do we have a plan for you for your relationship cuz he just going to play you that's some good info
I I believe that you’re right about underminer and not being respectful of me seeking God with my ex-husband us not walking together being an equally yoke were probably the biggest reason I had to divorce my husband & The drinking also were the biggest downfall for my ex-husband and I. Now I’m at peace with myself and God. I do have a guy friend & I would like to be married again but I am really trying to take it slow praying 🙏 & reading 📖 & talk’n to God get’n closer with God so the Holy Spirit can you show me & teach the right way the way truth and the life to the path that I must take.
God/Universe/Most High (whichever it is for everyone) speaks to us through intuition. If it occurs to the other person (male/female) to "mess" up and they do it... it's because God has someone better for them.... right?? And so this woman for arguments sake was praying and praying for God to remove this person and she didn't realize that her prayers were being answered. God made sure this person messed up as to nudge her to cut that person off and open herself up to the one that is meant to represent Gods unconditional love in 3D form. People need more guidance in self worth, being careful with what they wish for and seeing the signs or understanding that EVERYTHING is a sign from God/Universe. Me to you, you to me and other to each other. NOTHING is a coincidence. Everything is meant to guide you to your destiny.. 🙏💛
Thanks that you're there to explain and I'm one of this kind of woman, I like seeing my child to be in good relationship and be happy and not only my child but even my brother and sister but my brother and sister didn't see it they didn't know that I love them reason why when I seen them being with the wrong person I'm telling them that person is not going to be good for them but they don't listen to me and I'm always right but this doesn't mean that God didn't want me to be with anyone only God giving me back a favor to send me the right man for me have a bless they to us all
It is very hard to decipher because ppl go as far as have ministers pray over a marriage and the marriage isn't good .. and also no one can " pull" you away from anyone . There's something inside that person they don't wanna deal with.. if the relationship that's strong enough it will withstand.. some one being " pulled " away from God they were never with God to begin with.. you can pull someone away from church not God or anyone .. and prayer does work when I pray remove ppl he does they start acting funny style and distancing themselves thats God!
Very good insight, I agree. No one can truly pull you away from God if your relationship with Him is solid. Having a believer with you is much easier, and perhaps more blessed, but it doesn't guarantee anything for the future. It is certainly very helpful and helps ease things along, if both you and your partner see eye-to-eye, spiritually speaking. But if anyone later decides to question their faith or loses their faith, then that puts a huge strain on the relationship. I think basic respect, commitment, love and caring is much more important, and will show a person's true colours. God created marriage before He created Christianity, and people all over the world marry every day. God wants everyone to be happy and loved and have their own family, be they unbelievers, Hindus, Jews, Muslims, Buddhists, etc. Perhaps before making a rash decision, take time to think and pray about it. That's my opinion. 🤷🙏
I fully respect the , children part however when they are grown and have a partner at home there should be limits to leaving your partner in the early am hours frquently to aide them. Responsible relationship boundaries come first. You can't cuff with your adult children. That's also ungodly
I knew in my heart that guy Dwayne wasnt keeper or man of god he show his true colors I was in church cry in over everything's too I blocked him it was emotional attachment he didn't love me or care he wasnt getting his attention he choose his friends because they support him he had bad energy hideing its on him was broken
Only speaking for myself here, but I’ve been talkin to god and asking for guidance in every way, for 50 years. To date, he’s never replied. I think some of us just aren’t on his radar. 🤷♀️
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The boldest prayer I started praying each time I meet a man was "God, if this man is not for me please may you remove him from my life." Each time I meet a new man, I place that in God's hand. Sometimes, I don't say it, but this is my standing point!
Thank you so much for this video!!
Awww, I put this post before the section where you said it came up. Thank you!
100% accurate...and : "Dear God, remove all that is bad for me and in the afterlife, and only bring that which is good for me." Ameen.🤲🏼💯☝🏼🙏🏼
Wow that's intense. Thanks for sharing.
I say the same exact prayer and it always works!
But instead of praying from an expectaction of a nagative mindset, why not pray from an expecteaction of a positive mindset. Instead of looking for RED FLAGS, why not look for GREEN FLAGS?!!?
It's real funny how we choose partners without consulting with God then later ask him to intervine
Listttennnn! Lol I have lived that indeed 😅 and paid terribly!
You better shut your mouth a keep on talking 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 this is so true
@@lawanda891 😆 🤣 😂
Jeanette I hope you don't blame God for your mistakes 😅
@@lawanda891 🤔😂
A couple who consistently, persistently and genuinely prays together stays together. Hallelujah 🙏
I've tried that but just didn't work. Now 47 lol Lord God I always ask him. The wait is loong
@@yeshuaiscoming9024 I'm sorry it didn't work. It didn't work because both parties have to do what I posted. Some way some how, and for whatever reason or reasons, either both parties stop or 1 of you did. I hope our Beautiful Creator Bless you with a partner whereas neither 1 will never stop doing what I posted 😁
I would have not met my husband if our Creator wasn't involved. I asked our Creator for my husband and I'm very thankful that my prayer was answered. Thank you! Hallelujah 😍🙏
Wow! This is encouraging to hear
@@kimberlys347 Thank you my sister 😉
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I need to know the prayer you did dear🤗🤗
Wish mine was. I’m 62 missed having kids. And haven’t found the right man yet
Funny, I was never too religious ....after watching your videos I started to pray at night, God please send me who's for me. Stop allowing me to choose abusers druggies and narcissistic men who hurt me. I'm an empath and easily manipulated, all it took were a few sob stories and a nice smile and some jokes and the odd gift here n there... .
"I can help them , they love me.. .we can overcome their serious issues"
No. They have to help themselves they never loved me!
they loved ACCESS TO ME.!!!!
ACCESS TO MY LOVE AND RESOURCES AND MY OVERLY GIVING HEART.
NO MORE. I'm allowing God to lead me to the good one.
This is powerful 👏🏾
You are typing my life😭😭😭😭
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I can totally relate to your message!
Thank you for being so transparent and vulnerable 🙏
It's almost embarrassing to admit.
In my personal life, I live a simple, peaceful, non-drama life and don't come from a background of addicts yet I fall for the narcissist the addicts and the ones that are unavailable... You're right, All it takes is a few sob stories making me laugh and maybe dinner or a gift here and there and I'm hooked 😭😜
I'm recognizing more of who I am and how to have healthy boundaries and also healing my child wounding...
These type of relationships are always short-lived and create such a dramatic traumatic cycle and are always the hardest to walk away from it seems!
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People read scripture. Sometimes there are evil spirits that are preventing the partnership. Ask in prayer for clarity and removal of all unholy blockages.
Exactly!
yes similar to Jacob who wrestled until his blessing was loosed....held up in the spirit..
you are correct sis...
FASTING IS A EFFECTIVE WEAPON
So true!!!
If you see red flags that's God showing you to leave that person alone run!
No one should ever be forced to force any relationship. Take your time. Amen!
Thank you!!! If YOU bring the toxic person into your life, YOU have to remove them!
yep we must choose and dethrone Satan in our home.
on that energy rat now!
& not playing
This is true and sometimes people ignore these red flags. If someone is pulling you away from God, you need to move on and find someone who will push you close to God. We are emotional marginalising ourself in the name of Love and in most cases it ends in teard
Beautiful! I just told someone I cannot do things ungodly and expect my mess to be blessed!
Amen 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
I asked God to guide me in choosing my husband. Now I am a widow and still ask God to guide me in this area.
I had a dreams about being with him. I was nervous and was going to cancel our first date. But I had a dream saying stay with him, he's HIM!
I think it's important for couples to have a close relationship with God a house divided cannot stand.
I had an ex that yelled at me for participating in bible study when he thought I should’ve been at work. However I work for myself. That should’ve been my sign to run but I stayed with him 3 more years until finally last year, I had enough and ghosted him.
That's super positive. Idk what made him go against that. Oh yeah, that was a humongous red flag
everytime I give associates relationship advice, I ask them whether or not they pray together. Almost all the time, they say no.🤦 People make romantic relationships more difficult then what they are. All you gotta do is pray together, be patient, sacrifice, never give up, and show empathy- make sure all of this is done compassionately, respectfully, consistently, persistently and genuinely 🤷♀️ BOOM - That's it🤷♀️
You have to have things in common.. prayer isn't going to make someone attracted to someone ..basic things like having things in common.. having goals and physical attraction is also important
Often Christian couples get together and don't have anything in common and many wives don't even like their husband's.. sometimes the proposals are the lord told me you would be my wife and she goes along thinking he's a man of God
@@crystalvouse6435 no one gets into a relationship expecting both parties to have everything in common. They at least have something in common because they're in a relationship. I mentioned sacrificing and patience. Those 2 things work perfectly, when it comes to getting involved in even more mutual things that are common. Couples Praying together is one of the most powerful things that humans can do and sadly, it's underrated in our society. A wife can start to like her husband again but of course, he gotta put in the effort in order for her to change her outlook of him. The bottom line - most relationships fail because people don't want to put in the work to make it work. 🤷♀️
Crystal House I agree with you, I turned down a couple of guys from church just because of that line "God told me you re my wife". There's more to look forward to in marriage than just being a praying together couple. What happens when we re weak and one of us doesn't invest much in praying anymore
@@etvscandalfanpage2011 of course you need more then just prayer in a relationship. That's why I mentioned the other things in my comment.
I was so glad to hear you speaking on this. What you said was all facts! I know it can be hard to remove the person when it's become a soul tie because you feel bound & binded by the person. But pray! pray! pray! & God will give you the strength & the courage to let them go. Speaking from experience ❤
In Jesus name Amen
Ameen!🤲🏼
Soooo for no reason except that I missed him, decided to visit him one early morning. Something just pushed me to go....I knocked and he opened the door confidently not expecting it was me. Only to find another woman in the bed sleeping....didn't ask Qs, I walked away without saying a word. So maybe God wanted me to see that
I agree with this one. I am not perfect but, I do believe being like minded when it comes to the foundation of a relationship. It should be developed in and with God (trinity). He adds so much Value and Peace that surpasses All understanding. ❤️🙏🏼
Stephan the waiting game is real in relationships. Timing is everything with God and a good foundation is important for successful relationship. You video right person wrong time help me out so much. Faith in God and Faith in that person no matter if there are negative words or actions it will come to pass. Wait!Bobbie Simon
My,my,my......Stand still and let God have His way in your Life 🧚
Yes is important to be on same or very similar spiritual level if u r beliver.
If God is most important to u especially.
I see many women's getting married with men who r less spiritual than that women, and then this women soul gets frustrated because she can't teach a man basic spiritual things
When we pray for God to remove someone , God is not going to tell you to remove the person from your life since that person is constantly behaving badly towards you means they need to go , you just have to put your foot down and know enough is enough but what you need to do is ask God to give you spirit of braveness and strength to stay firm because the abusers they always come back . You just have to stay strong and keep praying for someone better.
I have ask God to remove someone from my life and he did immediately.
I have been praying for confirmation regarding this Thank U!
I'm glad it was helpful to you 🙌
I think a great barometer is "Do we bring out the best in each other, at least most (80%+) of the time?" The best in us is our Higher Self, that part of us which is most connected to God. The worst in us is the most disconnected. So there's the most tangible, noticeable sign you can have about what God is telling you about your relationship.
Thank you for sharing this , I need to hear this , because I been praying the wrong prayer for to long, God bless you
I had an ex who was smiling very superior when I was talking about God, that was a tremendous big sign but still no. Once I was fighting with him over taking communion, another red flag. At one point when I was writing in my diary I was calling him Satan, only red flags and I ignored them till the moment when he was breaking up with me on my birthday 😡😥 then was too much....I was first crying with big tears, then swear that nobody will hurt me again like that and I was walking away and never looking back again. Just walk and walk and walk. Further and further and further.
Yes Sir! Absolutely! Can 2 walk together lest they agree? God must always be at the center. Three-fold cord all the way honey! Otherwise everything will fall apart eventually if He is not in the lead.
AMEN AMEN AMEN AMEN AMEN, Sister 🎉
When I was listening to you I started to cry.You are telling the truth.l'm not happy at all.No love for me in it.thanks.
Be encouraged Linda. Like Stephan said, lean on God. Also, listen to your intuition.
@@d.k.1910 that last sentence-- trust your gut.
u have to take courage to choose to live
Mannnnn 5:14 what you said is absolutely true, there is that prayer and no movement or change from us ourselves. Wow you got us figured out 😭
If he was truly the man for you, you wouldn't need to pray to God to remove him from your life if he isn't the one because he'll be showing you every day that he's the one.
We fast and pray together. You guys may not, but I gotta love that. ❤️
I asked God to give me a sign if he isn’t the one and he’s been showing me signs. Him and I had a disagreement on me saving myself for marriage and he said he doesn’t want to wait and if we haven’t done anything for 6 months then he’s leaving. I cried because he said he was Christian but isn’t doing Christian things. Then he started yelling saying, “ITS NOT ABOUT WHAT GOD WANTS, WHAT DO YOU WANT” is this not a huge red flag?
Yes my sister , it's a huge red flag
I was dating this guy who made me regret all the time and i kinda start blaming God. I slept in his place only twice and had bad dreams about him rejecting me. I wanted to convince myself that it was probably some evil forces fighting that we shouldn't be together.
Then, few days after, i still had another bad dream about him...the following morning i ended the relationship. I still thank God till date🙏🙏
Profoundly video💯🔥🔥🔥❣️ I totally agree, I feel this also may differ for some is that just by a simple “Kissing” can blind someone in their decision to know for sure, if that person is not the one. Meaning it can feel more like an hypnosis being in an trance like state, if we are not aware spiritually. Some people have these abilities knowingly or subconsciously. Kissing someone who is not for us can influence your mind state and as soon as you know it, you can be caught up in a relationship that you shouldn’t be in and or have you doing things that you should know better. Mostly women are influenced by this strong hold. Having a strong spiritual foundation with The Most ☀️High can bring you back on our right spiritual path to see more clearly on who is who.💫✨🙌🏾 Energies transfer…
I feel that this man was wounded it was not our time! I prayed a lot and it seemed right it everything seemed to line up, but unfortunately he was wounded and didn't see that he was! But I hope God helps him learn how to heal weather it's meant to be or not!
Just watched this morning episode of Koereyelle - "What men really want" with you in it.
Great episode, u lay it down just as it is exept the divorce part.
I think 2 people should talk before marriage how many children they want or even if they want any.
To me when u getting married it should be for life, so there r many aspects of life 2 people needs to have conversations about even what is a breaking point for them, so if they really love each other they can avoid it
IS THERE A PART 2 TO THIS????THIS IS POWERFUL
I prayed and asked god to remove my husband and he never left so after awhile I left on my own I couldn’t take it anymore
The child analogy blessed me!!!!! Thank you
Amazing message...may God bless you for encouraging so many others, including me!!! 🙌🏾
When you ask to God to remove if a thing, he will, but we don't accept it, and that vexes God. Things will likely get worse. ❤
Good video.
I love the passion💗Notice the red flags and protect yourself and your faith!
I have been married 22yrs this past year I have been asking God is my husband the right man. He was into God now he is trying to pull me away from God as I get closer he getting further away.. I shouldn't have to choose between God and my husband.
Thanks for making me realize who pulls me away from God, is not worth keeping.
I included God even before I got into a relationship but I still got burned. Still kept my virtue tho ✌🏾
I'm sorry that happened to you. You prayed together with your partner consistently?
@@ieshaanderson1317 separately. I did my own, he did his.
@@DaintyAbby oh okay. Thanks for responding. Are you open to praying with your partner?
@@ieshaanderson1317 we no longer talk so its not an option anymore. Im 31 so I was disappointed. But i took myself off the market until next year God willing.. so I can heal. Thank you very much for being sweet to me. You are a God sent!
@@DaintyAbby You're welcome Dear. I understood in your previous comment that it was over. I was referring to a future partner. I hope your journey of healing will lead you to feeling completely healed and ready ready for a lifetime partner who will provide you with an abundance of peace, love and happiness 😉
Everything u said I was totally Agree. They also have 2 believe and pay attention 2 the Signs
Go head man of God !!!! You are speaking Truth …. Thank you 🙏
That click at the subscribe got my attention, nice add!👏🏽
How do I know if what I feel is real? I always feel so intense when I fall in love, and it always ends with a disappointment.
You will know when it's real when the relationship gives both of you peace, happiness and calmness. 😉
@@ieshaanderson1317 that makes sense, thank you 😊
When it’s not true love there is a lot of confusion . One day you feel this is right and the next day it’s something in you that you can’t explain or see but you can feel that it isn’t right . Regardless of how great she/he is as a person . It’s also similar to a ballon …when you or the other person let go it pops/dissolve or disappear as quick as it arrived . But when it is real the love grows pass surface and into unconditional. It’s no longer about what you gain but what can you give. You also will want to be that person’s peace and protector . Even if you’re a woman you want to keep him from harm. When it’s the real thing , You can sense that your purpose is connected to this individual. You become a better person not just for her but more importantly for you. The love you have for her is something like the air we breathe …the more we exhale the more there is available to inhale. It doesn’t rob us of
Our identity and it’s not sacrificial . it’s what sooner or later , we understand to be in obedience. Unlike counterfeit lovers we have no desire to control it . Bc intuitively we know we can never lose it. Dr Maya Angelou once said “love liberates “ and from my experience that’s the truest words that has ever been spoken. The love for each other not only is shared between the two of you but it’s also something you are able to effortlessly give away to others without any expectations whatsoever.
sweetheart is not love if every guy you go out with or every guy you meet you meet him on aisle at the grocery store and y'all go out a couple times and you in love that's not love girl is lust you're just horny and I love love is God is love he's kind and he's patient with us but you know God will get tired of us too now so stop falling in love with every man you meet and every man you go out with cuz believe me all those men they ain't in love with you girl now them men trying to get you laid
Yes, indeed they have done it and God will judge them. Sealed.
My problem with the first point is that the man in my life was actually way more religious than me. He disappeared when I asked him to be consistent with me and to communicate. He ghosted me. I don't think that's something God would advise. I'm praying for God to bring him back because I miss him but I still haven't heard from him. My heart is broken but I don't want to reach out and chase him.
Leave his ass be!!!
So clear this message, but so painful to accept. Thank you.
Standing Ovations for this important information! Thank you Stephen for your important information! You talking truth! I loves your videos. You are always to the point! God bless your RUclips channel! You are the BEST! God bless you and your family!🙏😇💖🇨🇦
So my ex says he believes in God, but thinks Jesus is a fake. That opened my eyes to him being the wrong male.
It appears that so many men have left the church, however the church/temple is inside our bodies our souls. So don’t be so hung up on the church the building but more so the spirit of the person and they’re fruit. It’s like everyone has been so disbursed out to find the person/spirit mate in wilderness.
I just had this conversation with THE LORD! I don’t want to miss my blessings from GOD!🙏🏽❤️
Thank you, Stephan! Blessings sent your way! Be safe! Love you!❤️🌟👑
I can answer that due to my relationship going good. You will know cause God will continue to put things in front of u to c clear as day. And it took me sometime to learn that. And I knew God was putting things in front of me and in all honesty I just chose to b disobedient so yes u will know. Very good topic Mr. Speaks well done. And ask God to show you trust me he will.
Stephan this message is very eye 👁 opening & informative. Thank you 🙏🏾.
All you have to do is talk about finances, family, faith, and fitness. And you will easily see if someone is for you. If you don't agree 100% on those areas it is 100% guranteed to fail.
Thank You for this word!
my pleasure ❤
You are absolutely 💯 correct. When I, asked God to remove him after I, explained I, have a son who's an adult and a daughter who is in my care. He said I, can't wait to get you all alone. So when I, asked God to remove him from my life. He literally removed him from this planet. Nor did I, ask for that either. Just to remove him away from me. He must have been that 😈 and wicked. He was a very toxic person from head to toe.
Wow
amen amen amen I thought about something else Steve said cuz I have to book in my house is he just going to play you or do he have a plan for you long-term or you just a short-term thing play you or do you have a plan for you amen hallelujah I looked at your post and that's true do we have a plan for you for your relationship cuz he just going to play you that's some good info
Thank you.
Sometimes life is difficult
Very good advice. God bless Stephan Speaks and his family!
I I believe that you’re right about underminer and not being respectful of me seeking God with my ex-husband us not walking together being an equally yoke were probably the biggest reason I had to divorce my husband & The drinking also were the biggest downfall for my ex-husband and I. Now I’m at peace with myself and God. I do have a guy friend & I would like to be married again but I am really trying to take it slow praying 🙏 & reading 📖 & talk’n to God get’n closer with God so the Holy Spirit can you show me & teach the right way the way truth and the life to the path that I must take.
Thank you for this video, this is the best video I've ever watched about this subject matter. God bless you Sir!
Stephen, you are DEFINITELY speaking TRUTH✨♥️
1:57 they pull you away from God rather than to Him
God/Universe/Most High (whichever it is for everyone) speaks to us through intuition. If it occurs to the other person (male/female) to "mess" up and they do it... it's because God has someone better for them.... right?? And so this woman for arguments sake was praying and praying for God to remove this person and she didn't realize that her prayers were being answered. God made sure this person messed up as to nudge her to cut that person off and open herself up to the one that is meant to represent Gods unconditional love in 3D form.
People need more guidance in self worth, being careful with what they wish for and seeing the signs or understanding that EVERYTHING is a sign from God/Universe. Me to you, you to me and other to each other. NOTHING is a coincidence. Everything is meant to guide you to your destiny.. 🙏💛
I feel the concern in your tone Stephan
Stay blessed in your authenticity.
Thanks that you're there to explain and I'm one of this kind of woman, I like seeing my child to be in good relationship and be happy and not only my child but even my brother and sister but my brother and sister didn't see it they didn't know that I love them reason why when I seen them being with the wrong person I'm telling them that person is not going to be good for them but they don't listen to me and I'm always right but this doesn't mean that God didn't want me to be with anyone only God giving me back a favor to send me the right man for me have a bless they to us all
You need to change the name of your Chanel to Stephan Shouts ! 😂☺️
I needed this information, thank you. I am now a subscriber. 💖💖🙏🏾💖
It is very hard to decipher because ppl go as far as have ministers pray over a marriage and the marriage isn't good .. and also no one can " pull" you away from anyone . There's something inside that person they don't wanna deal with.. if the relationship that's strong enough it will withstand.. some one being " pulled " away from God they were never with God to begin with.. you can pull someone away from church not God or anyone .. and prayer does work when I pray remove ppl he does they start acting funny style and distancing themselves thats God!
Very good insight, I agree. No one can truly pull you away from God if your relationship with Him is solid. Having a believer with you is much easier, and perhaps more blessed, but it doesn't guarantee anything for the future. It is certainly very helpful and helps ease things along, if both you and your partner see eye-to-eye, spiritually speaking. But if anyone later decides to question their faith or loses their faith, then that puts a huge strain on the relationship. I think basic respect, commitment, love and caring is much more important, and will show a person's true colours. God created marriage before He created Christianity, and people all over the world marry every day. God wants everyone to be happy and loved and have their own family, be they unbelievers, Hindus, Jews, Muslims, Buddhists, etc. Perhaps before making a rash decision, take time to think and pray about it. That's my opinion. 🤷🙏
I wasn't ready for this video
Good to hear 👍🏿👍🏿👍🏿and I am still praying for good man if not rather be single. Thanks so much for your help ❤️❤️❤️
With all due respect. Gentleman #StephanSpeaks
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Wise and True Confirmation...🌹
After watching you I don't say that prayer any more.
Thank you brother for this wonderful explanation🥰
I fully respect the , children part however when they are grown and have a partner at home there should be limits to leaving your partner in the early am hours frquently to aide them. Responsible relationship boundaries come first. You can't cuff with your adult children. That's also ungodly
I wish I could give this guy 2thumbs up !!
Hmm this is interesting but what if someone's family is toxic. And the partner isn't but obviously doesn't want anything to do with the family antics?
It's not yet time in what way? Like am a bit confused someone should please help me out on the phrase.
Godbless you. I can always depend on you to give a great message 🤗🙏🏽
I knew in my heart that guy Dwayne wasnt keeper or man of god he show his true colors I was in church cry in over everything's too I blocked him it was emotional attachment he didn't love me or care he wasnt getting his attention he choose his friends because they support him he had bad energy hideing its on him was broken
I'm sorry that happened to you. I hope you're over him now
Needed this
Why do a man don't like going out but he work but don't do nothing fun wth his family
I had a man who never respected god so I did cut off him & remained as friend
Thank you, I have been agnoring these messages not sure is it because I'm afraid of losing him or being alone.... I'm getting mixed signals. Help
PREACH KING 👏!
That’s a good word. Yes.
We all have free will is it.
Is it bad if you get rid of someone then see a rainbow the next morning! 🤔
Steph when are u going to get married though?
Only speaking for myself here, but I’ve been talkin to god and asking for guidance in every way, for 50 years. To date, he’s never replied. I think some of us just aren’t on his radar. 🤷♀️
You asked God for a husband?
Which God are u speaking too…try JESUS today
I agree 💯, thanks.