Recently I realized that my ex isn't for me and I'm not for him. I was telling him to give it all to God. I sent him a link about being a man of God and he got really angry at me, saying I'm expecting too much from him and he can't give me what I want. I didn't even question why wouldn't he want to be a good man to himself or even to a woman but he enjoys the good person I am, the good I give him. He has a pattern of harmful behavior. I took that as a sign to step all the way back, focus on God and myself. He sent messages after and called and I ignored them, messages stating that he's the problem. Each time he comes back the pain is worse. I love God and myself.
@@Jay21LynThat's funny because my relationship also ended on October 15th. I realized my girl was cheating on me. I caught her red handed flirting with someone else on her phone. Then on 17th, she called her sister who came and over turned the story. It happened that now I was the one who with the problems. Saying that I was manipulative and controlling, because I asked her not to take drugs or alcohol, go clubbing or partying, wearing revealing or exposing clothes. It was a whole thing.
@@westwood3016 sorry to hear. We gotta accept this is the way they are and try not to change them. It's all about them and the wars they are fighting so don't take it personal. I've learned that the hard way. It's hard because for me I thought who doesn't want someone to love them etc but it's beyond that. Whether they are struggling or stubborn we will drain ourselves trying to make them change and appreciate us. My mental health is on the floor because I stayed hoping for change. Never again I say. It's just me and God now.
@Jay21Lyn I said to myself that lost that relationship, but gained my relationship with GOD. I have never been more prayerful in my life than how I became after that whole encounter. Blessed is the crisis that broke your heart and brought you closer to GOD. What's funny is that I tried to get her to walk in GOD's ways but she didn't want any of that. I hope she decided to follow GOD in the right way.
God woke me up out of my sleep a few weeks ago and told me everything I want, everything I've been manifesting: peace prosperity joy health and living in abundance etc He would give me but would not do it with that man by my side. I was afraid.. I've known loved & dealt with that difficult man off and on for 24 yrs. But I was scared to let him go.. asked God to show me how, help me do this - end it for good the right way. Woke me up on 1/7/25 with the plan. I had it done by 3pm. Finito. Now I'm holding onto God's hand refusing to let go. I am learning how to love myself again after all those yrs of narcissistic abuse I am free. And I am obedient. Never going back.. Never. Thank you Heavenly Father for your grace, love & blessings! Thank you Lord for hearing my cry and freeing me!🙏🏾❤️
Going thru. I kept trying to make things work. We cannot have even a conversation without him getting upset. So until one is aware of triggers, wants to go to therapy, surround yourself with men’s counsel. I have told him our season has come to an end. God is talking. We should listen.
I'm also going through a very similar situation. Every conversation triggers her anger, disrespect, & condemnation--something you would usually see in a man--she is exhibiting. No sense of peace at home 😔...15yrs of marriage. 3 boys. Please pray for us.
After watching this video, this shows that God did speak correctly to me about my ex’s and he was right about me being with my current boyfriend. He makes me feel peace, joy, happiness. I can be my complete self around him without judgement. I feel closer to him and God especially when I’m pursuing God. I have grown so much with him better than living with anyone else I’ve ever lived with. I know he will be my husband and we will have beautiful children together inside and out. I’m so grateful for him and I’m Glad God chose us to be together.
This is what I needed to hear, God is always , always on time! God I'm sorry and I am focused on your love for me nothing else matters unless you send it to me...
Dr. Miles Monroes' words are anointed, even from beyond the grave. It's like when men threw the body of a dead friend onto the bones of Elisha, and the man was raised from dead because even Elishas' bones were still anointed even from beyond his grave.🤔❤❤🙏
Ask God to teach you how to close all doors you have opened for him (your ex, misery loves company). Go “Totally Silent (no responses to him (your ex)). Then ask God to teach you how to Love Him (God), as He (God) teaches you to love yourself. ❤
God doesn't play games with people hearts and I refuse to let you continue to play with mines. I 've waited over 10 yrs and you still continue to play games, I can still love you with my whole heart and be at peace wiith you no longer in my lifre, I'm not waiting another day or year for an unstable man, who can't truful or honest and doesn't want to respect or love me right.....
I had debilitating anxiety with every person I dated that I did not need to be dating. My nervous system was shot. During the good moments and the bad moments. I did therapy and they told me I had attachment issues and it’s all in my head. I wish I had Godly counsel to fully understand. I thank God for RUclips as it’s been my therapy with the Godly counsel from pastors and ministers. I now have a partner that gives me peace. I’ve never dated someone like this that made me feel at ease. Even during hard moments, hard conversations, I’m still at peace in trusting in God that He’s in this.
@@courtneypatterson4016 keep seeking the Father's will for your life!!! Don't stop praying until you know it's God for sure, praying for God's best for your life! 🩷
Thank you for the massage, it makes me sad that I have to hear this now. I am in a very bad relationship. Pls Lord Jesua protect my children & I in your loving arms. Amen
@@NobodywithoutJesusChrist may I encourage you to ask the Holy Spirit to help you to let go for your sake. The enemy is seeking to destroy you through this relationship!
I’m currently in a hard season in my life. It hurts to not have something work that you wanted to work and be. I know that God’s Will doesn’t matter with what we want. It’s what is truly beneficial and good for us. Not just what makes the flesh happy. But the spirit🙏
This message leaves out 2 critical things. In a marriage covenant, most of the things he mentioned are not grounds to end your marriage. Secondly he never addressed looking at yourself. Many times we do things that weaken and erode our relationships without even realizing that our spouse may misinterpret our actions. There were some great nuggets in this message.
This message is totally about the red flag and taking accountability for your personal growth with God and what He wants for you, not a self-willed arrogance residing in your relationship partner. Everything that has been stated is directly ministering to you to take accountability and weigh each action that you are experiencing in your relationship which leads you out of His plan for your life. Peace/Shalom
Oh my God, may you please help me out with the situation I am in need of someone who real Christian ✝️ . May God intervene in it, and His willingness to make it happen this 2025...for you are my source of everything in our lives.
If anger keeps showing up in him it’s because she’s a narcissist. The angry person is always responding to an abusive situation but because it’s the most clearly emoted, assigned fault. It’s not the actuality because people don’t care about actuality but popularity.
Pietermartzburg kzn South Africa. It's true, relationships must be run on BIBLICAL basis. The enemy users our nearest and dearest to hamper our SPIRITUAL progress.
Very true my Partner drains me in every way mentally, emotionally, spiritually 😢😢 we have two kids together I’m scared to live I’ve always wanted a family of my Own because I Don’t come from one , how do I just leave where do I even start 😢 I pray God give me strength 😢
im here cause im looking up ways to rid this long going desire to be with this man😪I have a strong desire to be married to him, to have a family with him to be an example of Gods love and his greatness & to show others… the desire won’t go away after fasting and constant prayer. and he’s back w his gf again after ending things w her 3 times and now he’s decided he wants to marry her. My desire and this feeling still won’t go away, and I absolutely hate this. Trying to figure out what I can do to rid this, I don’t wanna feel this anymore.
I'd like to say God will never give up on anyone unless they reject Him. We humans don't have the power to change ourselves. it's frustrating! But when you let go and let God help you, it's easier and faster. Give it all to Jesus! I'm speaking from experience
I agree completely with you @oluwabukolaakeju Just give it all up to him, pray for the grace to do so, allow God arrange your life by himself and you’ll see he never gives up on us
Stay strong man you ain't the problem, your human we all make mistakes. we all good and bad. And remember a problem can always solved with the right help.
When the Lord shows us some of the signs run 🏃♀️ don’t wait for the rest to see it will take you out to your grave be wise run 🏃♀️ for your life beloved in Jesus name
Hmmm. The Lord is faithful to be with you in the fire. Just lean on Jesus, Know His Word and search for marriages like yours and how they overcame. The Joy of the Lord is your strength, never try to get upset to sin. See your husband from the standpoint of God's Love: Ask the Holy Spirit to guide you to LOVE your husband using (1 Corinthians 13). Don't judge by what you see in his actions, but judge based on the Word of God. I will be praying for you, Lilian. Brother-in-Christ
I love my husband but i need to move on from him he hinks that leaving. God out of his life.is.good dealing halfway not really committing i want to give my life to the.service of god this relationship has brought me nothing stress fesr and poverty i ask god to help me fiind am answer soon i awnt a diiffernt way of life right now
This is not Myles Munroe speaking. It’s AI. If this is from one of his books, you should people know. The message seems good, but it’s deceptive to put his name and altered voice on it. Maybe you have good motives, but realize the potential problems this creates. Keep open honesty in content.
Please pray for Esther wisdom, peace joy, comfort Brian peace joy wisdom salvation for Esmeralda for salvation peace joy wisdom and orlanda peace wisdom joy financial blessings for peace joy financial blessings wisdom, for Jim for God delivering for cancer bring health joy, for his wife for peace joy health, Francisco for salvation joy financial blessings thanks
When the Lord shows us some of the signs run 🏃♀️ don’t wait for the rest to see it will take you out to your grave be wise run 🏃♀️ for your life beloved in Jesus name
Recently I realized that my ex isn't for me and I'm not for him. I was telling him to give it all to God. I sent him a link about being a man of God and he got really angry at me, saying I'm expecting too much from him and he can't give me what I want. I didn't even question why wouldn't he want to be a good man to himself or even to a woman but he enjoys the good person I am, the good I give him. He has a pattern of harmful behavior. I took that as a sign to step all the way back, focus on God and myself. He sent messages after and called and I ignored them, messages stating that he's the problem. Each time he comes back the pain is worse. I love God and myself.
How long ago was this?
@westwood3016 the beginning of November 2024. Why you asked?
@@Jay21LynThat's funny because my relationship also ended on October 15th. I realized my girl was cheating on me. I caught her red handed flirting with someone else on her phone. Then on 17th, she called her sister who came and over turned the story. It happened that now I was the one who with the problems. Saying that I was manipulative and controlling, because I asked her not to take drugs or alcohol, go clubbing or partying, wearing revealing or exposing clothes. It was a whole thing.
@@westwood3016 sorry to hear. We gotta accept this is the way they are and try not to change them. It's all about them and the wars they are fighting so don't take it personal. I've learned that the hard way. It's hard because for me I thought who doesn't want someone to love them etc but it's beyond that. Whether they are struggling or stubborn we will drain ourselves trying to make them change and appreciate us. My mental health is on the floor because I stayed hoping for change. Never again I say. It's just me and God now.
@Jay21Lyn I said to myself that lost that relationship, but gained my relationship with GOD. I have never been more prayerful in my life than how I became after that whole encounter.
Blessed is the crisis that broke your heart and brought you closer to GOD.
What's funny is that I tried to get her to walk in GOD's ways but she didn't want any of that. I hope she decided to follow GOD in the right way.
God woke me up out of my sleep a few weeks ago and told me everything I want, everything I've been manifesting: peace prosperity joy health and living in abundance etc He would give me but would not do it with that man by my side. I was afraid.. I've known loved & dealt with that difficult man off and on for 24 yrs.
But I was scared to let him go.. asked God to show me how, help me do this - end it for good the right way. Woke me up on 1/7/25 with the plan. I had it done by 3pm. Finito.
Now I'm holding onto God's hand refusing to let go. I am learning how to love myself again after all those yrs of narcissistic abuse I am free.
And I am obedient.
Never going back.. Never.
Thank you Heavenly Father for your grace, love & blessings!
Thank you Lord for hearing my cry and freeing me!🙏🏾❤️
Going thru. I kept trying to make things work. We cannot have even a conversation without him getting upset. So until one is aware of triggers, wants to go to therapy, surround yourself with men’s counsel. I have told him our season has come to an end. God is talking. We should listen.
I'm also going through a very similar situation. Every conversation triggers her anger, disrespect, & condemnation--something you would usually see in a man--she is exhibiting. No sense of peace at home 😔...15yrs of marriage. 3 boys. Please pray for us.
After watching this video, this shows that God did speak correctly to me about my ex’s and he was right about me being with my current boyfriend. He makes me feel peace, joy, happiness. I can be my complete self around him without judgement. I feel closer to him and God especially when I’m pursuing God. I have grown so much with him better than living with anyone else I’ve ever lived with. I know he will be my husband and we will have beautiful children together inside and out. I’m so grateful for him and I’m Glad God chose us to be together.
Marriage based on purpose
not to fulfill emotions ..
Sooooo true
In my opinion, this was a message for those who have yet to be married but are dating and courting.
This is what I needed to hear, God is always , always on time! God I'm sorry and I am focused on your love for me nothing else matters unless you send it to me...
Dr. Miles Monroes' words are anointed, even from beyond the grave. It's like when men threw the body of a dead friend onto the bones of Elisha, and the man was raised from dead because even Elishas' bones were still anointed even from beyond his grave.🤔❤❤🙏
Our HOLY SPIRIT IS WITHIN US AND SPEAKS TRUTH
Ask God to teach you how to close all doors you have opened for him (your ex, misery loves company). Go “Totally Silent (no responses to him (your ex)). Then ask God to teach you how to Love Him (God), as He (God) teaches you to love yourself. ❤
Word 👌🏾❤️❤️
This was definitely a message I needed to hear at such a time as this.
Yes i needed this too. I always felt like this. But to hear someone else say it. Makes me know i wasn't wrong. Stay blessed 🙌
PREACH!!!
God doesn't play games with people hearts and I refuse to let you continue to play with mines. I 've waited over 10 yrs and you still continue to play games, I can still love you with my whole heart and be at peace wiith you no longer in my lifre, I'm not waiting another day or year for an unstable man, who can't truful or honest and doesn't want to respect or love me right.....
same here! 9 years, 2 kids here 😢 God wants better for us.
This is spot on 💯
Exactly what I need at this moment. All of these signs are present in my marriage
Mine too.
same😢
This is God, clarifying my doubts and confusion.Thank you holy spirit i love you my ABBA 🙌🏾🙏🏾
I had debilitating anxiety with every person I dated that I did not need to be dating. My nervous system was shot. During the good moments and the bad moments. I did therapy and they told me I had attachment issues and it’s all in my head. I wish I had Godly counsel to fully understand. I thank God for RUclips as it’s been my therapy with the Godly counsel from pastors and ministers. I now have a partner that gives me peace. I’ve never dated someone like this that made me feel at ease. Even during hard moments, hard conversations, I’m still at peace in trusting in God that He’s in this.
THANK YOU for sharing this. I needed this confirmation. It's great to know it's not psychological but spiritual.
I've encountered this several times!
@@courtneypatterson4016 keep seeking the Father's will for your life!!! Don't stop praying until you know it's God for sure, praying for God's best for your life! 🩷
Thank you so much God! ❤
Good word! 🔥 Pray the content creator becomes confident with their own identity. 🙏
when you don't want them and they wont go away but you know it will happens on God's timing.
Thank you Jesus for this message 🙌
Thank you for the massage, it makes me sad that I have to hear this now. I am in a very bad relationship. Pls Lord Jesua protect my children & I in your loving arms. Amen
Me too.. n the worst is I cant let go 😪
@@NobodywithoutJesusChrist may I encourage you to ask the Holy Spirit to help you to let go for your sake. The enemy is seeking to destroy you through this relationship!
@@DutymanagerSI-yz9di I am praying for your deliverance and your children!
I’m currently in a hard season in my life. It hurts to not have something work that you wanted to work and be. I know that God’s Will doesn’t matter with what we want. It’s what is truly beneficial and good for us. Not just what makes the flesh happy. But the spirit🙏
Excellent video 😊signs spot on
Proverbs 16:9
Hello Everyone...
May God hold you in the palms of his hands and GUIDE you with his grace ...❤
Thanks God for intervening
This message leaves out 2 critical things. In a marriage covenant, most of the things he mentioned are not grounds to end your marriage. Secondly he never addressed looking at yourself. Many times we do things that weaken and erode our relationships without even realizing that our spouse may misinterpret our actions.
There were some great nuggets in this message.
This message is totally about the red flag and taking accountability for your personal growth with God and what He wants for you, not a self-willed arrogance residing in your relationship partner. Everything that has been stated is directly ministering to you to take accountability and weigh each action that you are experiencing in your relationship which leads you out of His plan for your life. Peace/Shalom
Maybe they are sings before you walk down the aisle not when you already say I do that’s for another sermon 😂
@@paulfelix9081Exactly 💯.
@@paulfelix9081Exactly 💯.
At mark 8:03 tells a very good read to end a marriage
I needed to hear this.
Lord Have Mercy! 💔
I was meant to be here today and see this video plus the message makes alot of sense so it’s time to get on etc…
Me too❤❤❤
Pray for me.. it's really hard..
Oh my God, may you please help me out with the situation I am in need of someone who real Christian ✝️ .
May God intervene in it, and His willingness to make it happen this 2025...for you are my source of everything in our lives.
Wow this hits thank you 🙏🏽
On point in EVERY way!
Thank you Mr Myles for that message, words like those shows us how to bond with our partners in a relationship wether in marriage or not ❤
Really need to hear this
AMEN 🙏 VERY NEEDED!
This is deep and true.
If anger keeps showing up in him it’s because she’s a narcissist. The angry person is always responding to an abusive situation but because it’s the most clearly emoted, assigned fault. It’s not the actuality because people don’t care about actuality but popularity.
so profound ❤❤❤
I wish I knew this earlier
Can I tell you. Now we have to pick up the pieces and try to move on. Right now I think I really need counseling
I needed this too
Pietermartzburg kzn South Africa.
It's true, relationships must be run on BIBLICAL basis.
The enemy users our nearest and dearest to hamper our SPIRITUAL progress.
Very true my
Partner drains me in every way mentally, emotionally, spiritually 😢😢 we have two kids together I’m scared to live I’ve always wanted a family of my
Own because I
Don’t come from one , how do I just leave where do I even start 😢 I pray God give me strength 😢
Me too same situation @@kgothatsobrie9054
Yessssss ♥️ and Amen 🙏🏾. Thank you.
Amen I BELIEVE GOD and Trust GOD not Man❤
Can the video be timed stamped the seven sign to understand?
Sometimes it’s both sides
Glory Hallelujah praise God blessings blessings and more blessings in Jesus mighty majestic and matchless name Amen 🙏🏿🦁🦅💪🏿
im here cause im looking up ways to rid this long going desire to be with this man😪I have a strong desire to be married to him, to have a family with him to be an example of Gods love and his greatness & to show others… the desire won’t go away after fasting and constant prayer. and he’s back w his gf again after ending things w her 3 times and now he’s decided he wants to marry her. My desire and this feeling still won’t go away, and I absolutely hate this. Trying to figure out what I can do to rid this, I don’t wanna feel this anymore.
will we ever have proper relationships. does it evn exixst
Yes it does exist
Yes it does my brother
Yes, but only in God.
I ask the same 😢
Wish I knew this 20years ago
what about if there are only some signs present, but not all?
God is not a God of confusion. If you don’t know, pray for wisdom & guidance & he will help you
Praise TMH GOD
Love you Jesus
Should be recorded when he was Live with the audience
Profound
You all need to quit having so many ads. Some people really need to hear what is being said.
FACTS!!! 😇
I’m the problem?? I’ve tried changing who I am, & no matter what I do, I’m still the problem. God gave up on me a long time ago.
I'd like to say God will never give up on anyone unless they reject Him. We humans don't have the power to change ourselves. it's frustrating! But when you let go and let God help you, it's easier and faster. Give it all to Jesus!
I'm speaking from experience
I agree completely with you @oluwabukolaakeju
Just give it all up to him, pray for the grace to do so, allow God arrange your life by himself and you’ll see he never gives up on us
Stay strong man you ain't the problem, your human we all make mistakes. we all good and bad. And remember a problem can always solved with the right help.
Wayyyy too many ads!!!!!! Come on!!!
When the Lord shows us some of the signs run 🏃♀️ don’t wait for the rest to see it will take you out to your grave be wise run 🏃♀️ for your life beloved in Jesus name
I married to a wolf in sheep clothing!
Hmmm.
The Lord is faithful to be with you in the fire.
Just lean on Jesus, Know His Word and search for marriages like yours and how they overcame.
The Joy of the Lord is your strength, never try to get upset to sin.
See your husband from the standpoint of God's Love:
Ask the Holy Spirit to guide you to LOVE your husband using (1 Corinthians 13).
Don't judge by what you see in his actions, but judge based on the Word of God.
I will be praying for you, Lilian.
Brother-in-Christ
Amen love ❤
Amen 🙌
Amen.
True
Amen
I love my husband but i need to move on from him he hinks that leaving. God out of his life.is.good dealing halfway not really committing i want to give my life to the.service of god this relationship has brought me nothing stress fesr and poverty i ask god to help me fiind am answer soon i awnt a diiffernt way of life right now
Amen 🙏🏽
Amen Amen Amen Amen Amen 🙏
Amen🙏🏿 !
Not myles Munroe
Amen 🙏
❤❤❤❤
Who cares if its not him the person speaks truth y everyone keep saying its not him who cares its not y listen then seriously
🙌
This is not Myles Munroe speaking. It’s AI. If this is from one of his books, you should people know. The message seems good, but it’s deceptive to put his name and altered voice on it. Maybe you have good motives, but realize the potential problems this creates. Keep open honesty in content.
Is this AI or really him?
Please pray for Esther wisdom, peace joy, comfort Brian peace joy wisdom salvation for Esmeralda for salvation peace joy wisdom and orlanda peace wisdom joy financial blessings for peace joy financial blessings wisdom, for Jim for God delivering for cancer bring health joy, for his wife for peace joy health, Francisco for salvation joy financial blessings thanks
This is AI
It us. And I wonder if his family sold the rights to his voice. 🤔
Is this AI generated?
You speak too fast
Speak with pause so that people can understand what you are saying
😂 not myles
Really?
@JESUSHELPUSHEisLORD it is not him at all but well what the imposter does he pushes his agenda
Not Myles Munroe
I know finally he ain't talking fast 😅😅😅😂😂😂
Does that matter? It's still the truth.
When the Lord shows us some of the signs run 🏃♀️ don’t wait for the rest to see it will take you out to your grave be wise run 🏃♀️ for your life beloved in Jesus name
True
Amen
Amen
Amen
Amen
Amen
Amen
Amen