7 BEAUTIFUL Things A Man Will Do When HE REALLY Values You

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    7 BEAUTIFUL Things A Man Will Do When HE REALLY Values You... You deserve a man who values you and loves you. In this dating advice video I'll explain the things a man will do when he values you. Take heed to this dating advice video, and watch to the end.
    It's important to know what men do when they value a woman. Be sure that you don't settle for less in a relationship and only be with a man you are truly on the same page with.
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Комментарии • 198

  • @MeetStephanSpeaks
    @MeetStephanSpeaks  Месяц назад +3

    ❤Get your copy of the bestselling book "How To Get A Man To Cherish You..." here --> www.becherishedbyhim.com

  • @Daniealce657
    @Daniealce657 4 месяца назад +111

    If he doesn't bring you more peace he's not the one...

  • @lizellejafta8895
    @lizellejafta8895 4 месяца назад +243

    A couple of months ago I met a man who said that he valued me. He said it more than once but his actions spoke way louder than his words.

    • @jaetherese8063
      @jaetherese8063 4 месяца назад +23

      YUPPP!!! actions/patterns are much more VALUABLE than words ever are.

    • @janellsheskier359
      @janellsheskier359 4 месяца назад +12

      Be mindful of consistency. A gentleman was showing me a version of his true self for quite some time. But then.......
      Just remember everybody knows how to behave for 5 minutes. Not saying this is your scenario your situation however just be mindful and watchful

    • @jackiepittman7686
      @jackiepittman7686 4 месяца назад +4

      Same here, action always speak louder than words!!!

    • @mslusiana8339
      @mslusiana8339 4 месяца назад

      RUNNN!

    • @altheajester209
      @altheajester209 4 месяца назад

      @@jaetherese8063😊😊😊

  • @princessj830
    @princessj830 4 месяца назад +67

    This is why maturity is so important...

  • @simplyapze4419
    @simplyapze4419 4 месяца назад +116

    I thank Jesus always for sending my partner to me. He is such a wonderful person. He was my best friend first and now I got a best friend and best man ❤️💙

    • @jsmiles3942
      @jsmiles3942 4 месяца назад +2

      Ha! Mine too! And it truly IS the best combo ❤❤

    • @riochime386
      @riochime386 4 месяца назад

      So why are you on this video commenting then? 😂 This is a video for people struggling not the happy.

  • @RoseRose-ow5zy
    @RoseRose-ow5zy 4 месяца назад +73

    Thats me. I don’t bring men around family unless thats the one I’m gonna build with.

  • @wangarisworld8314
    @wangarisworld8314 4 месяца назад +62

    I had so many of these negative men that i was wondering if God really had anyone for me and when i had given up, God blessed me with a man who does each and every thing you have mentioned here! Won't he do it 🙌

  • @wowfactor2615
    @wowfactor2615 4 месяца назад +250

    Dating nowadays is like doing open heart surgery.Always on the edge.

    • @MeetStephanSpeaks
      @MeetStephanSpeaks  4 месяца назад +40

      It can feel like that at times, but with the right approach it can become a very natural and comfortable process

    • @reesa219
      @reesa219 4 месяца назад +8

      😂😂😂

    • @LataraReed
      @LataraReed 4 месяца назад

      😂😂😂lol😂😂RIGHT...YOUR HEARTS GETTN ⛏️ PICKED AT EACH PERSON @SCAPELPLEASE 😂😂 LOL

    • @user-zw2rp4qp3j
      @user-zw2rp4qp3j 4 месяца назад +2

      True lol

  • @Perseverance1843
    @Perseverance1843 4 месяца назад +24

    Relationships are a partnership, you can't just think if yourself and always do only what you want.

  • @user-fh1tr9zp3l
    @user-fh1tr9zp3l 4 месяца назад +58

    Hey ladies !
    Once boundaries are discussed and clearly understood
    Please do not overstep his and expect him to honour yours
    Together let's create harmony
    Stephan this was such a welcoming afternoon treat
    God bless you

    • @MeetStephanSpeaks
      @MeetStephanSpeaks  4 месяца назад +4

      Absolutely! 🙌 and I’m glad you enjoyed the video

  • @xmissviolencex
    @xmissviolencex 4 месяца назад +30

    Your videos have helped me so much this past weekend. I finally cut out this toxic guy from my life i had been friends with for 4 years. I cared for him a lot but his actions just didn't add up. I'm tired of playing these games with people.
    I just wanted to say thank you for your videos. They've put a lot of things into perspective for me lately.

  • @MonA-bh7pk
    @MonA-bh7pk 4 месяца назад +38

    This video came at the perfect time for me. I’m watching this with my heart hurting. Ive only been desired and lusted after I truly hope I experience this someday. I want to cry tears of joy instead of tears of pain. Thanks for this video God bless you

    • @PricelessJesus
      @PricelessJesus 4 месяца назад +3

      God will give u someone ❤

    • @cynthiareynolds1941
      @cynthiareynolds1941 3 месяца назад +2

      I have been there sis. I cried so many tears for so many years. I now have this perfect gentleman in my life . I am so grateful 🥲

  • @Allexandra04
    @Allexandra04 4 месяца назад +13

    He does all these things! I wanna cry! 😭 ❤

  • @reginadavis1028
    @reginadavis1028 4 месяца назад +46

    That "hiding you" piece, is key!! As an ex cheater, I wasn't going into public or posting pics w/my side dude but he showed me off to EVERYBODY he knew. Yes he KNEW he was the side dude, didn't like it, but dealt w/it because his emotions got wrapped up in it. We ALWAYS THINK WE CAN DEAL W/BEING THE SIDE DUDE/CHICK UNTIL feelings get involved. So from the jump if you're a side piece, KNOW that there's certain things he's NOT doing. If you DON'T KNOW, let him NOT showing you off BE THE SIGN YOU AIN'T THE MAIN ONE!

    • @MeetStephanSpeaks
      @MeetStephanSpeaks  4 месяца назад +6

      Thank you for sharing that info with us. I hope peope learn from this 🙏

    • @audreymickens4390
      @audreymickens4390 4 месяца назад +1

      Stephan, that periwinkle color looks great on you! Just saying. Love your content.

    • @JessicaBrueggeman
      @JessicaBrueggeman 2 месяца назад +1

      If you choose to be a secret that's on you, but when a man manipulates you into believing he's emotionally available, only to find out he was keeping you a secret from his ex." It's crazy to think that's off tho. Or so I'm told. Bet, if it were the other way around he'd be just as bewildered. I don't move like that, but all types of people, "are out here on the move like that."

  • @KatlegoAnne
    @KatlegoAnne 3 месяца назад +6

    My emotional abuse began with a guy I met in Uni last year & he was lethally sexy, Zulu, very masculine, confident & he lured me in with kind acts then started to abuse me emotionally. Then this year, I recently met a guy, we're not dating, we're just good study buddies & he does everything for me without me even asking for it. That's when I learnt how a real man is supposed to treat a woman. And we might never date, but I appreciate everything he does for me. He buys me food, reassures that I can solve this mathematical problem, always accompanies me to my residence. Everything I was begging the previous guy to do, he does it effortlessly.

    • @maibuimaibui
      @maibuimaibui День назад +1

      You guys should date. I'm telling you it's extremely hard to find a good man like that. DO NOT let him go!

  • @ThePoet143-Mrs.B
    @ThePoet143-Mrs.B 4 месяца назад +78

    If you do not have a relationship with Christ first then you got some things to do just saying amen 🙏 Jesus amen amen

    • @MeetStephanSpeaks
      @MeetStephanSpeaks  4 месяца назад +12

      Amen 🙏

    • @darlenegolden1057
      @darlenegolden1057 4 месяца назад +4

      That's all I need to do??????

    • @ThePoet143-Mrs.B
      @ThePoet143-Mrs.B 4 месяца назад +6

      That's the start, make sure you know who you are in Jesus Christ first and foremost other things from there tend to fall into place
      Something I always say is things may seem like they are falling apart but they could be just falling into place

    • @LaiYunLuk
      @LaiYunLuk 4 месяца назад +2

      Amen

    • @TiffaneyWelch
      @TiffaneyWelch 4 месяца назад

      I have been getting counterfeits in my life they either want sex ​@@MeetStephanSpeaks

  • @gwendolynfaulkner357
    @gwendolynfaulkner357 2 месяца назад +4

    I am 59 years old been trying to date men in their 60’s play so many games. The younger men value me more. So I am giving a wonderful man a chance in his 40’s he is more mature than the ones 60 plus. He has his shit together better than the older ones. So stay open to younger men ladies.

  • @iroowshideaway
    @iroowshideaway 4 месяца назад +5

    For two years, till mid 2023, I've been going back and forth in a 'situationship', and it showed me the importance of acknowledgment ! In love relationships or friends, family... we can get somewhere when there is accountability and/or acknowledgment. 🙏 Thank you for another great vid, really love your energy.

  • @tenabree6376
    @tenabree6376 4 месяца назад +45

    He claimed to want to marry me but HID ME THE WHOLE TIME! If I'm not good enough to be seen by family and friends I'm not good enough for you for ANYTHING!✌️✌️✌️✌️ Patience ran out for me!

    • @GreenRoses07
      @GreenRoses07 4 месяца назад +4

      It happened to me, coz why hide me?

    • @jackiepittman7686
      @jackiepittman7686 4 месяца назад +1

      Same thing happened to me for a year! I'm like peace out ✌️

    • @KM-eo8uw
      @KM-eo8uw 4 месяца назад +1

      Happened to me. 5yrs I waited n left after all that time n stil haven’t met his parents or so called frenz 😏

    • @danyabarraza4658
      @danyabarraza4658 4 месяца назад

      4 years!

    • @cynthiareynolds1941
      @cynthiareynolds1941 3 месяца назад

      This happened to me. I just dumped him and I moved on with my life it’s been almost two years now

  • @jamesefuentes
    @jamesefuentes 3 месяца назад +6

    This was spot on! And this is coming from a man 😄 Great discussion-James

  • @BuckkyKatt886
    @BuckkyKatt886 4 месяца назад +4

    My crush will be my supervisor as of Monday (due to my promotion). We had been flirting since Jan but never made a move to go out (different departments). Then I was up for promotion in March so we just never had time to pursue it. Im happy I'll be spending more time with him, but now things are so different. I already passed on another job opportunity to him so we wouldn't be in the same chain of command. Lol It's literally so heartbreaking to feel like someone is your soul mate but you can't do anything about it. 😢

  • @brittpayne7198
    @brittpayne7198 4 месяца назад +17

    My husband of 16 years has never put me down on looks, or stuff that could truly wreck a person. He DOES let it show that he is annoyed at how much I talk with my hands or over dramatize imitating a voice of someone else. That's not bad I guess in comparison of what he could be doing. Otherwise, he supports my many projects that I never finish, or career decisions. So this video is really helping me understand more about the male mind. To further add, I had a boyfriend before him who seemed to enjoy saying lil things like, omg, i thought when I touched your hair it would be soft and untangled, but it's like a horse tail where I might not be able to get my hand out! Stuff like that. He didn't last long...

    • @MeetStephanSpeaks
      @MeetStephanSpeaks  4 месяца назад

      I'm happy to hear that 🙏

    • @brittpayne7198
      @brittpayne7198 4 месяца назад

      ​@@MeetStephanSpeaks I added to my comment to make an example of how to see a jerk in a man. Lol

  • @wandafossett846
    @wandafossett846 4 месяца назад +10

    💜💜💜🤗☝ ✔
    Stephan you look absolutely
    Royal in that. Lavender Shirt😍!!!
    Thanks for teaching people how
    To relate to one another without
    Making a Mountain out of a mole
    Hill... Men do lack a lot of training
    In relationships. And women should
    Recognize when the man they love
    Can be a goof ball at times and one
    Who is as you say. I'll never be right
    For the Wrong person !!! Especially
    If she has the conversation about
    His attitude and its not corrected.
    Finally 😂 God first 🙏 Connection
    And Red Flags. I love this video again
    Passion for God and Compassion for
    People 💖💖💖 💋🌳🌈💯

  • @ConchettaTucker-vc3cm
    @ConchettaTucker-vc3cm 4 месяца назад +10

    Thank you.....🙏🏽 waiting for him ❤

  • @janellerodgers3923
    @janellerodgers3923 4 месяца назад +12

    Thank you, Mr. Stephan!!!

  • @StKrane
    @StKrane 16 дней назад

    Just wanted to say how much these videos have helped me over time. Thank you for sharing all this knowledge in your unique way. I truly appreciate that!

  • @Cindy_Love_2025
    @Cindy_Love_2025 4 месяца назад +5

    I love your quote!❤️👏🏼💯
    Fantastic video! 💓👍🏼
    You’re on point!💓💯

  • @tinker2217
    @tinker2217 4 месяца назад +4

    Love the sweater Stephan. Very nice. ❤

  • @SharonSolomon-xs6ni
    @SharonSolomon-xs6ni 4 месяца назад +8

    Thank you for all your help,your talks has been so helpful

    • @MeetStephanSpeaks
      @MeetStephanSpeaks  4 месяца назад

      You’re welcome ❤️ I’m glad it has been helpful to you

  • @carineokeh3543
    @carineokeh3543 4 месяца назад +9

    Thanks for this video. It came at the right time.❤

  • @emmam2602
    @emmam2602 4 месяца назад +1

    Watching this after coming out of a bad relationship that didn't appear like it until intuition and God revealed it.

  • @jalisam7383
    @jalisam7383 4 месяца назад +7

    I met a guy that i dated for 6 months, and he is so interested in having a kid. But he is very differently but i feel as if he has a lot to hide.

    • @thenutrientwhisperer3700
      @thenutrientwhisperer3700 4 месяца назад +1

      Oh my God girl, you better freaking run and run fast. Six months? Wants a baby? He just wants to use your uterus girl. Ron. What’s it gonna do takeoff with the kid or sue you for custody? He just wants a baby damn

    • @drivnbyart
      @drivnbyart 4 месяца назад

      Why have a kid with someone you feel you don’t know well?

    • @user-fh1tr9zp3l
      @user-fh1tr9zp3l 4 месяца назад

      He wants a kid ? Go buy a goat
      Why u westerners call children kids ?

    • @reggiesinsai6577
      @reggiesinsai6577 4 месяца назад +3

      I like the fact that you said you feel he's hiding something. Listen to that feeling and act... Your tuition never lies

    • @AfroCuban4life
      @AfroCuban4life 4 месяца назад

      Hobosexual narcissist alert!

  • @anikaray4192
    @anikaray4192 4 месяца назад +9

    This was great, I enjoyed this content.I would especially love to have a mam value or ask for my opinion and also a relationship where we both inspire each other to grow.Thank you for making all of these important points.🙏🧡

  • @noniamuleya2622
    @noniamuleya2622 4 месяца назад +15

    3 weeks ago I was here, looking for guidance and advice because I liked a guy who I kept on asking myself if he was into me because he would not communicate with me constantly but he asked me on a date and took me on that date and held my hand whatsoever but now I am in a relationship with someone who checks on me constantly and sends me his working schedule and tells me what's more important to me besides him(I.e family and my studies) and I am happy and moved on from the guy who barely checked on me .

  • @user-fh1tr9zp3l
    @user-fh1tr9zp3l 4 месяца назад +5

    In a serious relationship i need BALANCE
    I love a dominant talking man who exhudes masculinity but
    Certainly knows when to tone down and be extra ticklish 😅
    No yes man ah ah dont be a freshman

  • @shaniashanea4279
    @shaniashanea4279 4 месяца назад +3

    Thanking God for a great man❤️

  • @anitamoses4071
    @anitamoses4071 4 месяца назад +5

    Another interesting video stephan
    Thanks 😊

  • @reneeparker2559
    @reneeparker2559 4 месяца назад +1

    Thank you, Stephanie! I needed to hear this conversation.

  • @wendykaranja4801
    @wendykaranja4801 3 дня назад

    Thank you Stephan 🙂

  • @KM-eo8uw
    @KM-eo8uw 4 месяца назад +2

    Lovely vid Stephan 👍🏼

  • @MajellaFox
    @MajellaFox 4 месяца назад +3

    I pray yeshua send him to me ....

  • @kandaeprince8670
    @kandaeprince8670 4 месяца назад +3

    OMG!!! London tour *jumping up and down* thank you😁

  • @bwuralicious
    @bwuralicious 4 месяца назад +47

    "He does not hide you" I know toxic fellas and chics that would show off their partners to family and friends. They ( family and friends) know this guy/ chic is the side piece but play along.They all know the main partner who eventually gets the ring😂😂😂. He/She shows you off is not a guaranty.

    • @MeetStephanSpeaks
      @MeetStephanSpeaks  4 месяца назад +21

      Very true, but if he does hide you, then there is likely something wrong.

    • @LataraReed
      @LataraReed 4 месяца назад

      MISERABLE 😖 GAMERS ....SMH & TOXICS ARE THE WORSEST 👉👉TOXIC - TERRIBLE OXYMORONS XRAYING ILL & CRAZYYY SHITT _DROPS😂😂😂😂😂😂

    • @Bluesmoke4200
      @Bluesmoke4200 4 месяца назад

      Necessary but not sufficient

    • @user-fh1tr9zp3l
      @user-fh1tr9zp3l 4 месяца назад

      Or maybe this was the agreement between them both
      This chic may just be entertaining a small pin man 🤣

    • @Erica-cf1xb
      @Erica-cf1xb 4 месяца назад +1

      The one who gets the ring is in the dark. The family was so good at role playing with sneaky that now who do you trust is always questionable.

  • @LastKing89
    @LastKing89 4 месяца назад +2

    Amazing video, thank you brother

  • @cynthiawblessed8177
    @cynthiawblessed8177 4 месяца назад +2

    This video is enlightening and a blessing.

  • @NoName-hu8ju
    @NoName-hu8ju 4 месяца назад +7

    “Just because a man desire you doesn’t mean he values you”, motives matter….Please say it louder for the woman in the back!!!!

    • @junehat4217
      @junehat4217 3 месяца назад

      Just because a man tells you he values you doesn't mean he really does 💅

  • @HalfSweetness
    @HalfSweetness 4 месяца назад +9

    I 💯 % am keeping all these things in mind. As I should, much love and respect Mr. Steph-fine!🙏🏼😁

  • @amaal1
    @amaal1 4 месяца назад +3

    Amen 🙏🏽 thank you Stephan!!

  • @marynapetrina3376
    @marynapetrina3376 4 месяца назад +2

    That’s Totally right 🙌🏾

  • @mznonda
    @mznonda 4 месяца назад +1

    I look forward to a new video. I listen and I ask myself. How do this apply to me. You be hitting it on the head EVERYTIME.
    I WISH I KNEW THEN WHAT I KNOW NOW. Ive always wondered was something wrong with me. Was I asking too much to be respected, appreciated especially valued.
    Nope I wasnt. Manipulation is real. Narcissistic are real.
    Toxic men are very real.
    Thank you, Bless you 🙏

  • @AkabaPulcherieRose
    @AkabaPulcherieRose 4 месяца назад +2

    Very true and very accurate 💯☝️👌👍🙏🙏☺️

  • @lildreamer1313
    @lildreamer1313 4 месяца назад +2

    Wow, the cultural piece sang to me. I’m exploring a new connection who is widower. He’s met a lot of my friends, but not my family. I haven’t met his friends or family except his eldest son by accident. He seems to be VERY tight with his family & in-laws family to the point his MiL stays with him when she’s in town & they’re going on a family trip next month.
    We’ve only been exploring this connecting for a few months, so I’m not expecting much (yet). I am curious how this would go as I’m of Caribbean/Japanese descent with a very small family & he’s Vietnamese with a HUGE extended family & HUGE extended family of his late wife. I’m definitely careful & patient since his children are involved. I don’t feel he’s “hiding” me, but feel it’s too soon to have a conversation or boundaries established.
    Stephan, I’d love to hear more on thoughts on this cultural topic if you will. Much appreciated. Love your channel! 💛

    • @user-fh1tr9zp3l
      @user-fh1tr9zp3l 4 месяца назад

      This seems complicated as the Hamas Israel war
      A lot to upload and unpack 😲

  • @MelissaMaysHome
    @MelissaMaysHome 4 месяца назад +3

    Well this is just in time. I have a shitty husband and he's going through with divorce in two days.
    After leaving us and hearing today how happy he is not being under my thumb, I'm like thank God I'm having a blessing is disguise cause he ain't no real man!

  • @amandamirandamabaso6806
    @amandamirandamabaso6806 4 месяца назад +2

    What a great topic😊 because last night he called just to ask me how am i feeling when we are having a heated discursion and how he contributed by talking harsh words that led to me crying and he then notice he is hurting my feeling and i admited my feelings and then he apologised as he comforted me, and culmed me down then i found it easy to forgive him.

  • @MsLilac88
    @MsLilac88 3 месяца назад

    Hello Stephan, I feel enlightened by your relationship advice videos, thanks so much for sharing, a man needs to show the woman that he values her. 😊 Hope you are doing fine. 💜

  • @wafavlogs5
    @wafavlogs5 4 месяца назад

    I just came across your channel today,impressed !

  • @FrancesHernandez-hf5ys
    @FrancesHernandez-hf5ys 4 месяца назад +1

    💯Amen Thank you Stephan!!! 🙏

  • @enaalexis92
    @enaalexis92 4 месяца назад

    Looking good 😉that ring is beautiful and the message is good too 😊

  • @kikiwi7073
    @kikiwi7073 4 месяца назад +1

    How do i get over a man who really valued me, but i wasn't able to handle things in a heanthy way, leading him to break up with me?

  • @patriciaviii
    @patriciaviii 4 месяца назад +1

    Hi Stephan!❤ love ya

  • @Jamsweet85
    @Jamsweet85 21 день назад

    I am in love with a men he is nice to me but I feel like he does not value me at all. He said he love me all the time but the energy I put in him he does not put it in me at all. But since Night I was on Facebook and I saw a video of a romantic setting that a man put up for a person he wanted to ask to be his girlfriend, and I show it to him and ask him if he would do something like this for me he said he doesn’t think about these things and that these things take creativity and he doesn’t have creativity so I asked him if when he look at me if he doesn’t have any feelings to do stuff like this for me he said no i was take back by his answer am confused about the-relationship I am in.

  • @TashaStPierre
    @TashaStPierre 4 месяца назад +4

    How about if we both know each other boundaries and a new situation comes up? What now? ❤

  • @heatherjeffrey8997
    @heatherjeffrey8997 4 месяца назад +1

    Stephan I like this video thanks

  • @Katrica670
    @Katrica670 4 месяца назад +3

    @26:28 yet I hear sooo many women say males are sooo selfish cause they always end up compromising and sacrificing more, yet he loves her, and stays with her?!

  • @ChizoromHappiness
    @ChizoromHappiness 4 месяца назад +1

    Nice talk

  • @genelldavis268
    @genelldavis268 4 месяца назад

    What about a situation where he’s discreet because he’s has reconciled with his ex, but durning a break you meet him & caught in emotional entanglement? But you & him remain in contact with each other. Only realizing their mutual feelings involved. So, maybe hard pull back. Which it becomes complicated.

  • @indiajohnson1986
    @indiajohnson1986 3 месяца назад

    Great video ❤

  • @cynthiareynolds1941
    @cynthiareynolds1941 3 месяца назад

    This was good info thanks 🙏🏽

  • @RayanEiPOWERELECTRICLLC
    @RayanEiPOWERELECTRICLLC 4 месяца назад +2

    Great video sir I wish my ex fiancé watched this video week ago.
    Thank you

  • @RoseMoke
    @RoseMoke 4 месяца назад +1

    Thanks so much

  • @olgaalabie2346
    @olgaalabie2346 4 месяца назад

    The funny thing is he does all this things be we are still friends 😊

  • @funwithprincy
    @funwithprincy 3 месяца назад

    All the points are so valid and thanks a lot Stephan.
    I have a question though about that second to the last point: this man professes love and says he's in the relationship with me for marriage, yet for four years and no proposal.
    However, he runs and gives me the silent treatment for weeks and even months when we have an argument, or don't agree with his point, or when he crosses the line with me. Stephan, how can i deal with this silent treatment because it's ruining our relationship? And I always call first after his silence. We're both way above 50s.

  • @GrowlingAraknid
    @GrowlingAraknid 4 месяца назад +3

    Thanks!

  • @jusscrystal
    @jusscrystal 4 месяца назад

    19 years and he never ever chooses to bring me around his friends yet tells his lil 20 yr old
    l - l oes
    that he can’t wait show them off… it’s frustrating but he never has valued me

  • @carmenelizabethchamorro8608
    @carmenelizabethchamorro8608 4 месяца назад +2

    Stephan Thank you great Video Blessings & Love (Elizabeth) Can we talk????📲 Good Afternoon Happy Monday 💕🥰🙏🏽💕🥰🙏🏽💕🥰🙏🏽

  • @sanjadanilovic5986
    @sanjadanilovic5986 4 месяца назад +2

    Nice❤

  • @one_luv807
    @one_luv807 4 месяца назад

    Do you provide advice on dating a professional athlete?

  • @lesiabobo3613
    @lesiabobo3613 4 месяца назад +1

    Where can we ask questions??

  • @MelO_247
    @MelO_247 4 месяца назад +1

    @stephanspeaks ok so question: what you have been married to a person for 2 decades and during half of that time period didn’t value you, (according to your description in this video) but now that you are separated is starting to value you. Is she being naive to give that man another chance or is she allowing her trauma and ego keep her from having a healthy relationship with this man?

  • @jadedvixen81
    @jadedvixen81 4 месяца назад +2

    Can I decide to become asexual in my 40's??? 😅

  • @Portia620
    @Portia620 4 месяца назад

    Being blunt could be something with ADD or something that’s not Neurotypical so and it can hurt other peoples feelings if you’re really truthful and I’m not saying it doesn’t need to be worked on I’m just saying that there is other reasons besides trauma let’s be very mindful of that

  • @jackiewisniewski7167
    @jackiewisniewski7167 3 месяца назад

    My ex did not listen to me when he ask my opinion. Now, his wine business failed and it goes on and on and on…

  • @anonymousbutthetruth.135
    @anonymousbutthetruth.135 4 месяца назад +1

    Your videos are good, bit too lengthy.. and keeps revolving around a topic a lot, rather than giving the straight conclusive pointers.. it seems always scattered which reflects lack of clarity.

    • @spiritofhonuguidanceforlife
      @spiritofhonuguidanceforlife 4 месяца назад

      You have one subscriber. He has over a million....Plenty of other channels to watch if you don't like his format.

  • @Katrica670
    @Katrica670 4 месяца назад +1

    @24:00 but he would obviously still be treating her good if he valued her! 🙄

  • @kristalynncreates
    @kristalynncreates 4 месяца назад

    I disagree with some of the things regarding changing people. I beleive when we meet the right person both people in the relationship will choose to be better because the other person inapired us. It will automatically be synergistic. Not because one partner encouraged other. If it's the right person, encouragement will not be necessary.

  • @faithing88
    @faithing88 4 месяца назад

    He thought i wasn't smart ooooh well

  • @msmonroe4802
    @msmonroe4802 4 месяца назад +1

    💯

  • @ThePoet143-Mrs.B
    @ThePoet143-Mrs.B 4 месяца назад +3

    Mmmm mmmm so so so good yes yes yes thank you for saying that hiding you is not part of a good relationship ❤

  • @MsLilac88
    @MsLilac88 3 месяца назад

    I wish to get your book, Stephan, but I am staying in Singapore, is there international shipping to Singapore? 😊

  • @346bre
    @346bre 4 месяца назад +5

    What does it mean when a man tells you he wants you to heal first and that he’ll wait on you? Also when he consistently texts you everyday but you don’t see him much in person?

    • @tenniebramlett8827
      @tenniebramlett8827 4 месяца назад +6

      Sounds suspicious...He is not making you a priority . Also, sounds like he is gaslighting. RUN!!!

    • @karenluebke1605
      @karenluebke1605 4 месяца назад +4

      Yep. Been there and it’s so confusing. He texted and called me everyday! Called me a few times a day. That tells me he’s interested!
      But he never claimed me. I never stayed the night. On the weekends he would tell me he was tired or didn’t feel good, so we wouldn’t get together. This went on off and on for 3.5 years. Eventually he’ll quit talking, but he always comes back professing love! It’s great for a couple months, but always goes back.
      We’re done now. He’s actually messaging me now, but I ignore it.
      I still don’t know what that was.

    • @JStig12
      @JStig12 4 месяца назад

      @346bre Are you talking about both scenarios combined with the same man, or two different scenarios with two different men?

    • @346bre
      @346bre 4 месяца назад

      @@JStig12 same man

    • @Erica-cf1xb
      @Erica-cf1xb 4 месяца назад

      Healing has no timeline. Does not mean he won't have sex with someone else in the meantime. According to men, that means nothing. You may find out you are better without him. He's trying to shelf you. You are single until married.

  • @RacilleAshley-sf7yv
    @RacilleAshley-sf7yv 4 месяца назад +1

    🙏

  • @menkasharma392
    @menkasharma392 4 месяца назад +1

    ❤❤❤

  • @noemiareis1121
    @noemiareis1121 4 месяца назад

    Stay alone woman and be happy when it comes from God its going to be simple and open

  • @traceytoleito.6372
    @traceytoleito.6372 4 месяца назад

    🙏♥️

  • @fosterjanine5112
    @fosterjanine5112 4 месяца назад

    I don't care about who loves me or not because I know I value myself and I know my heart and the kind of person that I am and I have nothing to prove to anyone. I fear God not man. As far as I am concerned the word " LOVE " has been abused so many times and these Narcissistic men love you just as much they can use you and treat you like slave, doormat and possession. They seek power and control. I have been honest.

  • @betsymendez4939
    @betsymendez4939 4 месяца назад

    Am tired of your videos

    • @kaykay422
      @kaykay422 4 месяца назад +11

      Then don’t watch them 🙄

  • @Iamgorgeousbri.
    @Iamgorgeousbri. 4 месяца назад

    First 30 seconds beautiful in itself 🥹

  • @karezoticsndour2879
    @karezoticsndour2879 4 месяца назад +2

    I think I made a mistake moving in with him cause he told me in the beginning he didn’t want to get married, he also listened to his sister when she told him when she first met me that he was not getting married again

    • @Kelsiejordan
      @Kelsiejordan 4 месяца назад +2

      At least you can always move out

    • @karezoticsndour2879
      @karezoticsndour2879 4 месяца назад

      @@Kelsiejordan I think about moving out but also feel that the damage is done and he may not ever marry me now that we’ve already made love. We are old too, he is 76 and I’m 64

  • @reneesmith5403
    @reneesmith5403 4 месяца назад +8

    When a man values you, he is going to want to hear from you. ...true connection.

  • @MLove-777
    @MLove-777 4 месяца назад

    ✨🙏✨