When GOD Sends You THE ONE

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  • @MeetStephanSpeaks
    @MeetStephanSpeaks  2 года назад +120

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    • @ceciliamurray4959
      @ceciliamurray4959 2 года назад +5

      Blessings to you brother

    • @AmahreTheRose
      @AmahreTheRose 2 года назад +2

      When I tell you, every word you spoke was prophetic and inspired by God! I’m in tears right now! Thank you! 💯🙏🏽

    • @MeetStephanSpeaks
      @MeetStephanSpeaks  2 года назад +4

      ❤ 🙂 Thank you.

    • @chica2086
      @chica2086 2 года назад

      These were perfectly great and heavy points that came through!!!! Thankyou for putting these important things out!

    • @TrevorJM
      @TrevorJM 2 года назад

      What do you do when your mother tells you you must not continue a relationship, because her spirit does not agree with the spirit of your girlfriend?

  • @netterz3411
    @netterz3411 2 года назад +2931

    I prayed to God one night asking him to send me "the one" and how I'm so tired of dealing with the wrong ones. No joke soon after I prayed I met my husband. He litterally answered my prayers it was crazy! Been together 15 years now and still going strong 🥰

    • @MeetStephanSpeaks
      @MeetStephanSpeaks  2 года назад +112

      Thank you for sharing your experience! Hopefully, it will help others learn from it. I appreciate that 🙏

    • @stephanieo8933
      @stephanieo8933 2 года назад +27

      Congraltions sis I am still prayed for a boyfriend God bless you and your family.🙏❤

    • @EmeraldLuvsYouALL
      @EmeraldLuvsYouALL 2 года назад +12

      Aww ❤️ amazing luv it

    • @esperantabadette6932
      @esperantabadette6932 2 года назад +17

      Comgrats🎉🎉🎉🎉hope God will do it for me too when he wants😊❤i’m waiting to him ❤❤❤🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

    • @esperantabadette6932
      @esperantabadette6932 2 года назад

      @@MeetStephanSpeaks ❤🙏🏾🫶🏾👏🏾amen amen amen🧎🏾‍♀️🧎🏾‍♀️🧎🏾‍♀️🙇🏾‍♀️🙇🏾‍♀️🙇🏾‍♀️

  • @user-vk7ex8xg1i
    @user-vk7ex8xg1i 2 года назад +1923

    Remember, God doesn't always send us who we want, but he sends us who we need.

    • @MeetStephanSpeaks
      @MeetStephanSpeaks  2 года назад +68

      💯 Yes! Thank you for sharing ❤

    • @christiansnaturestudio6599
      @christiansnaturestudio6599 2 года назад +7

      What if I am not happy of the woman He sent me? Depression intensifies. I hate college and labor

    • @christiansnaturestudio6599
      @christiansnaturestudio6599 2 года назад +5

      Damn dating sounds iring especially when I never had a gf that I want.

    • @Pinkcandy777
      @Pinkcandy777 2 года назад +7

      @@christiansnaturestudio6599 she's not good 4 u please be careful 🙏

    • @JesusCamejo2012
      @JesusCamejo2012 2 года назад +48

      i do not think so, God is Almighty he would never sent someone you do not clearly love brethren, God is genuire perfect, he knows what is good for you and for your lifetime

  • @RosaX305
    @RosaX305 Год назад +499

    When I met my husband, he said he had been praying for me. I responded by telling him I was preparing myself for him. We married a year to the day after meeting, and we have never been apart longer than 10 hours since the day we met.

    • @istandforfreedom1111
      @istandforfreedom1111 Год назад +13

      ❤️ thats beautiful 😍

    • @Eve90
      @Eve90 Год назад +5

      God bless you

    • @gapeach7814
      @gapeach7814 Год назад +4

      So beautiful

    • @juliarodrigues8085
      @juliarodrigues8085 Год назад +6

      This is beautiful indeed. I believe God is preparing me too. I wish you both a long fulfilling life together ❤

    • @rachaelramos
      @rachaelramos Год назад +1

      Damn if I ever got married I'm sure my hubby would drive me nuts to where I need to go away 😂

  • @serenenana8821
    @serenenana8821 4 месяца назад +65

    I read today, "when God is not giving you guidance, stay where you are". Love this.

    • @endswithme555
      @endswithme555 2 месяца назад

      💯
      There’s a purpose in the wait. Divine timing is a real thing

  • @foodforthought2374
    @foodforthought2374 2 года назад +826

    It’s important that people realize that when GOD sends “the one” - that does not mean there will not be troubles. There will be obstacles to overcome. With the right partner this can be done. I think some people tend to fall into the misconception that because God brought you together it’s going to be smooth and seamless. It can bring a time if needed testing and that brings bonding.

  • @naltikun5784
    @naltikun5784 Год назад +289

    I believe sometimes God sends you someone you think is the one but is really a life lesson to prepare and get stronger for the true one at the right time 👍

    • @skst8675
      @skst8675 Год назад +1

      I am agree

    • @sanharrison7533
      @sanharrison7533 11 месяцев назад +1

      AMENNNN

    • @BB25_25
      @BB25_25 11 месяцев назад +21

      No, that’s a counterfeit. God isn’t the god of confusion, he wouldn’t do that.

    • @skst8675
      @skst8675 11 месяцев назад +8

      @BB25_25 yes he does sometimes to give a specific experience you need to go further in some purpose. To go higher you need to be stronger and have more capacity in your mentality :)

    • @BB25_25
      @BB25_25 11 месяцев назад +1

      @@skst8675 a specific experience maybe, but God wouldn't send you a guy to mess you around, sleep with you and abuse you. That's an excuse to stay in a toxic relationship and make sense of it. You've turned away from God to follow these routes.
      Learn from bad experiences of course, but don't believe they're from God. When you turn to God he'll never send you down that road, go to him when these people come into your life and pray for guidance.

  • @teneekaedmund5236
    @teneekaedmund5236 Год назад +366

    Put God first in everything!!.
    There is really a God, I prayed asking God to show me if my ex was the one for me, God showed me the very next day that he was cheating. After a few months later I prayed to him asking him to send a God fearing man and the right man for me he sent him and I thank God everytime and give him the Glory and the praise 👏🏽 NEVER STOP PRAYING 🙏🏽

    • @MeetStephanSpeaks
      @MeetStephanSpeaks  Год назад +10

      Thank you for sharing your experience! Hopefully, it will help others learn from it. I appreciate that 🙏

    • @charlyblack763
      @charlyblack763 Год назад +4

      True pray never stop and trust him

    • @knowledgenerd2hinkle275
      @knowledgenerd2hinkle275 10 месяцев назад

      Be...au...ti...ful🎉❤🎉😊

  • @charlinecharlostin3188
    @charlinecharlostin3188 Год назад +50

    God will have you meet the right person, but not let the relationship work immediately because he has to develop you.

  • @sophiaf.
    @sophiaf. 2 года назад +533

    When God sends you 👈🏾the one ☝🏾…
    “Be Thankful 🙌🏾”
    “Trust Him 🤞🏾”
    “Pray 🙏🏾”
    “Relax 🧘🏽‍♀️”
    &
    “Rest 😴”

    • @MeetStephanSpeaks
      @MeetStephanSpeaks  2 года назад +17

      ❤ 🙏

    • @charlyblack763
      @charlyblack763 Год назад +4

      True trust him

    • @mikyl-fo8rh
      @mikyl-fo8rh Год назад +7

      Be alert of the devil and her jealous girlfriends who will work to sabotage the relationship

    • @ladybug644
      @ladybug644 Год назад +6

      The resting part... I've waited so long already

    • @sophiaf.
      @sophiaf. Год назад +1

      @@ladybug644 Isaiah 40:31

  • @kat1546
    @kat1546 2 года назад +188

    I pray that we meet the person that God prepare for us.❤

  • @nettastrawberry2709
    @nettastrawberry2709 3 года назад +467

    Trust the process. Everything is connected.

  • @Kay-jw8fv
    @Kay-jw8fv 2 года назад +193

    “When god bring you the original the devil brings you the impostor” wow. So true speaking from experience!!!!

    • @carolyncobb2745
      @carolyncobb2745 Год назад +1

      I couldn't believe that this happened in older relationships.

    • @kaaaatttttth
      @kaaaatttttth Год назад +1

      It just happened to me very recently

    • @cy8zf6ldae85
      @cy8zf6ldae85 Год назад +10

      I can relate to this when the devil send you the imposter, confusion will occur , but when God sends you the original...just one look you'll be in peace.

    • @sixteen.candles.4644
      @sixteen.candles.4644 7 месяцев назад

      Yes. Devil sent my persistent counterfeit BD and God sent me my amazing Godly Bf.

    • @carlagrado7201
      @carlagrado7201 5 месяцев назад

      Yes. I agree and I asked about it yesterday and He gave me scripture to back it up. I still don't know who is who...

  • @mirandaokon
    @mirandaokon 3 года назад +242

    🗣The bigger the blessing, the greater the attack💯

  • @molinajoseph7315
    @molinajoseph7315 2 года назад +224

    Psalms 37:23- The steps of a good man are ordered by the Lord, and he delighteth in his way.

  • @crystalmccade7225
    @crystalmccade7225 2 года назад +107

    I like the part where he says that alot of people think that if you have a connection that means everything will go smoothly. Connections are very intense and people can feel vulnerable. If there is any lack of healing it will get exposed. Theres alot that can go wrong if we do not habdle it correctly. Slow down and pray some more. Ask God how to proceed regardless if you feel they are the one for you.

    • @MeetStephanSpeaks
      @MeetStephanSpeaks  2 года назад +8

      Indeed, it really helps when we embrace prying and asking God how to proceed.

  • @shaylajenkins3475
    @shaylajenkins3475 3 года назад +515

    This is such a good topic. It helps me realize again that my fiancé is the man God has sent to me. We met 1 1/2 before we started dating, and we were definitely nowhere near ready for each other. Right place, wrong time. He was in the middle of a separation from his wife, and I was stuck in a relationship that I couldn’t get myself out of (my own personal battle). But after we were able to get out of the bad relationships we were in and I grew closer to God, we started dating and helped him grow closer to God. He’s still working on his faith, I’m still working on mine. But we work on it together and individually.

    • @MeetStephanSpeaks
      @MeetStephanSpeaks  3 года назад +13

      Thank you for sharing, I appreciate that!

    • @chiqui0816
      @chiqui0816 3 года назад +20

      Wow!! Your story is so relatable🙏 It's a struggle and a huge spiritual battle. I pray your relationship grows in the Lord.

    • @watchingyoutwo3800
      @watchingyoutwo3800 3 года назад +1

      If Angels put you together than your misappropriation by the Angels and your dna needs to be checked and that you might be to close for comfort and that you are considered“Incest” and are out of Gods’ hands and on your own! Never to be an actual Angels!!

    • @brendarodrigues3046
      @brendarodrigues3046 3 года назад +10

      Beautiful. Thanks for sharing. It’s rewarding to be able to share the most intimate parts of yourself with someone who has the desire to truly know you. Building together starts a little something like this. Kudos!!! Both of you built a connection through Christ not trauma. It’s already off to a healthy start. Blessings
      BIG BIG L💞VE - 🌺InspirationByB

    • @chabee3666
      @chabee3666 2 года назад +7

      Lol someone’s husband you entertained you believe he’s your soul mate and god sent him to you lol why would you think
      He’d send you to him and him to you. Neither of you have closed the door on the relations you were in. Good luck with that.

  • @markdenton2883
    @markdenton2883 Год назад +71

    I prayed for my wife and my wife prayed for me and through God we met.
    We saved ourselves for marriage I waited and saved myself for 7 years prior and we even now have a strong relationship and keeping building up on our faith is one of the most important thing you can do. Keep God first before you focus on anything else and God will lead you through to where you need to be.

    • @eloiseprays
      @eloiseprays 2 месяца назад +1

      Thats beautiful ❤

  • @graceballore7016
    @graceballore7016 Год назад +135

    I want to put my prayer here too..God pls send the right person for me Im so tired of loving the wrong person.🙏

    • @Play-jv3oi
      @Play-jv3oi Год назад +5

      Pray from your heart and he will answer

    • @anteantic986
      @anteantic986 Год назад

      stop choosing wrong men i understand you women choose guys based how much you get wet but i dont belive that's godly way

    • @elly-smileyndume6806
      @elly-smileyndume6806 2 месяца назад

      It’s you and me 🙏🏾. In the name of Jesus.

    • @elly-smileyndume6806
      @elly-smileyndume6806 2 месяца назад

      It’s you and me 🙏🏾. In the name of Jesus.

  • @tarshagreene4661
    @tarshagreene4661 Год назад +32

    I am 47 years old and been a widow for 12 years. I been praying for God to send me the one who will love me and except my 13 year old son. 😊❤

    • @careyf7859
      @careyf7859 Год назад +2

      Praying for you. I'm 50, been widowed for over 5 years with a 14 yr old daughter. I've also been praying for God to send someone that loves the Lord, would love me and my daughter. God bless!!

    • @tarshagreene4661
      @tarshagreene4661 Год назад +1

      I will be praying for you and your as well😇

  • @jenng5925
    @jenng5925 3 года назад +40

    Very timely video. The Devil definitely can send you an imposter. That’s why I silently offer my prayers to God because He reads hearts.

    • @MeetStephanSpeaks
      @MeetStephanSpeaks  3 года назад

      I'm happy this has been helpful to you. Thanks for sharing!

  • @elissabell1213
    @elissabell1213 Год назад +31

    I can attest! When God showed me “the one” all I could do was pray because I could not see how it would happen….it was a very necessary six year process and as discouraged and impatient as I wanted to be, I still had to pray for God to be in control. I’m grateful because even though we “knew”, God knew we weren’t ready and we definitely would’ve messed up!

    • @naomidambe
      @naomidambe 2 месяца назад

      Are you both together now?! 💗

    • @elizabethmarrerocreates
      @elizabethmarrerocreates Месяц назад

      Thank you for sharing, I'm in that process now, 4 years since our first date. How did you stay steady and patient?

  • @grayirishgalt
    @grayirishgalt Год назад +23

    Prayed for the one. Saw her shortly after, heard a quiet voice in my head that said ‘that one.’ It was not a love at first sight type of feeling. 25 years together.

  • @NuraDi99
    @NuraDi99 2 года назад +142

    I want to thank you for this message. About 22 years ago I met this beautiful man ( physically & spiritually) at our religious center. We became friends and I found out that I had actually met his family(wife, child, parents, etc.) at a celebration that he didn’t attend.
    A year later, I met my now ex-husband. After 20 years of marriage to a cold, sneaky man, the only major blessings I received was my 2 daughters.
    About a month ago, who do I meet again at a mutual gathering of friends but my “ spiritual-he’s-the-one” guy from the past. We were both staring at each other🤩. He called me a week after and we talked about our divorces, laugh a lot, and been dating since. We decided to take things slow.
    Life is strange and I laugh sometimes wondering if the Almighty, the Devine had a plan all alone. Peace & blessings ✨🌺

  • @ingrained2train
    @ingrained2train Год назад +100

    I remember I was working with my therapist and he asked me what I wanted in a wife
    So I wrote it down
    He said “good, now let it go, trust God, and start loving yourself”
    I did just that and not even a month later I reconnected with a woman who I met years earlier who wound being the exact woman I wrote down with my therapist!
    She literally checks all my boxes, my soulmate, the perfect woman for me and we’re getting married!
    So amazing what happens when you know what you want and love yourself in the process

    • @viennabella4591
      @viennabella4591 Год назад +6

      WOW! What a beautiful story!!!!

    • @ingrained2train
      @ingrained2train Год назад +1

      @@viennabella4591 thank you so much 🙌🙏

    • @giojuanchulo
      @giojuanchulo Год назад

      is it okay to leave my girlfriend because of her past?
      it makes me feel sick and besides that she often lied about it…
      i don’t like Liars and a bad past hurts me help…

    • @gapeach7814
      @gapeach7814 Год назад +1

      Congrats

    • @gapeach7814
      @gapeach7814 Год назад

      @@giojuanchuloou need to find a therapist as well to work through that.

  • @olufunker.awosogba2654
    @olufunker.awosogba2654 3 года назад +41

    Main Points (and just a few of MANY gems)
    1. Slow down and pray more.
    Verify with God if the person is the person for you and how to proceed.
    2. Be prepared for chaos
    The devil does not want what God wants to join together to happen
    Beware of outside noise
    "When God is bringing you the original, be prepared for the devil to bring you the imposter"
    3. Be open, honest, and transparent
    Especially about how you feel about the person
    4. Don't have sex
    Can cloud judgement and focus on the wrong things
    Can hinder deeper emotional and spiritual connection
    5. Lean on God's understanding
    ...when the relationship is going great as well as when it is not
    6. Listen to your spirit and not just signs
    Be careful about asking for signs because the devil can throw signs
    The same sign can be interpreted in different ways. Always go back to God to confirm signs.
    7. Trust His timing
    Romans 8:28
    This was amazing, invaluable, and so needed. Many speak about preparing for the one but this is the first I've heard a speaker focus on what to do when we come across the one.

  • @marcilk7534
    @marcilk7534 Год назад +18

    I met the one 33 years ago. We lost touch about 30 years ago. We talked a few times 19 years ago, but he was married with a child. After some devastating events he went through, I spent 4 years trying to find him to offer help. When we finally reconnected, the time was finally right for us. We are both certain, and we are both ready.

  • @essking2877
    @essking2877 Год назад +232

    You are really operating in your gift when you coach from God's perspective. Thank you!

  • @chinazamefenarhua4257
    @chinazamefenarhua4257 10 месяцев назад +13

    Before I used to think that when you meet the one things will go smoothly. I am currently with the one and it has been very tough. I am seeing things in me that needs to be worked on and my relationship with God is also getting better. I pray God gives me the patience to wait on his timing for us to finally be together.

  • @Lionqueenbe
    @Lionqueenbe Год назад +35

    This was oddly specific about exactly what I’m going through. God had to have sent me here. I didn’t even click this video. It played after another video I just finished. God is good all the time 💙 Thank you Jesus

  • @Solgotmotion33
    @Solgotmotion33 3 года назад +101

    You helped me find the love of my life

    • @MeetStephanSpeaks
      @MeetStephanSpeaks  3 года назад +7

      Glad I could help, I appreciate your feedback!

    • @feliciapryor855
      @feliciapryor855 Год назад

      @@MeetStephanSpeaks Lol, you made me laugh when you laughed on the "don't have sex" one...your laugh and the way you hit your leg! 😂 Your laugh is contagious 😂😂

  • @heidifisher8973
    @heidifisher8973 3 года назад +41

    Jealousy and envy is the devil and when outsiders see a soulmate connection between two people they want it for themselves. They usually deep down don't care about the person they are pursuing even though they shower them with attention, compliments even say I love you and will mimic the other person in order to create a false connection. They want the powerful connection, not the person. I absolutely agree with your point about timing. I feel a soul connection with someone atm but I think we both have our own issues to sort out before we proceed into a relationship. Real soulmate connections are intense and overwhelming, exposing our true selves to another person is scary as hell and is why it's so easy to be seduced by the devil.

    • @MeetStephanSpeaks
      @MeetStephanSpeaks  3 года назад +2

      It definitely isn't an easy situation but we need to focus on doing what is truly best!

    • @chabee3666
      @chabee3666 2 года назад

      If you’re with the right person you won’t be afraid to unmask yourself he will let his pride down ans be vulnerable. Ans you will be in your Devine feminine self l, soft and submissive. Trusting. He will make you feel protected. You won’t have those fears. yourself. I’d you’re still making excuses as to why you can’t do this or it’s the wrong time. Than you haven’t met your mate or he hasnt met his.

  • @gabriellove8488
    @gabriellove8488 3 года назад +44

    Who else appreciate this

    • @MeetStephanSpeaks
      @MeetStephanSpeaks  3 года назад +1

      Thank you for your feedback, I appreciate hearing from you ❤️

    • @gabriellove8488
      @gabriellove8488 3 года назад

      @@MeetStephanSpeaks God bless

  • @emilylives2051
    @emilylives2051 2 года назад +57

    I really like all the comments about how God worked in their relationships. Thank you God you care about all things concerning us and continue the good works you've begun in us.

    • @MeetStephanSpeaks
      @MeetStephanSpeaks  2 года назад

      Thank you for sharing. I appreciate your feedback ❤️ 🙏

  • @JNS0702
    @JNS0702 10 месяцев назад +14

    This hits my soul. I met my one at the wrong time. The connection from the first time we met and spoke was like no other. I have never felt a connection with anyone. This man brings such a feeling of sense and calm in his presence. He makes me want to be a better person. He draws me closer to god. Everything is perfect. My walls came down. I was so vulnerable with him in ways I’ve never been with anyone. The first 2 months was heaven. That was the calm before the storm. I was not prepared for what followed. In so many ways. All of our insecurities started rearing their ugly heads and has torn us apart. I prayed to god and was so mad. I asked why would he do this to me. My life was changing. He did that to show me of all by pain and hurt from my past that I had to heal from. It took this for me to see how all my past hurt and pain was playing a part in my life and relationships. I am now walking in my journey of healing and growing spiritually. And man healing from past hurt and pain hard. Very hard. I know that this is what god has planned for me. I am trusting in my god to guide me and heal me. I pray that my one will walk his journey to healing as well and we connect again. This connection is so strong. He is my soulmate. I feel it. I see it. I sense it. God tells me to not give up on him. God is leading me and I am following.

    • @carldouglas7777
      @carldouglas7777 8 месяцев назад +2

      Praying for you both,

    • @JNS0702
      @JNS0702 8 месяцев назад

      @@carldouglas7777 thank you.

    • @zayraroa
      @zayraroa 5 месяцев назад +1

      amen ❤

    • @teejaybee9
      @teejaybee9 4 месяца назад +3

      I pray that you both heal from past hurt, lean on God, and walk the path that he has for you. What God has for you is for you.

    • @JNS0702
      @JNS0702 4 месяца назад +1

      @@teejaybee9 thank you. I appreciate it

  • @kimjones3262
    @kimjones3262 3 года назад +85

    Years ago God told me to start praying for my husband. After that I didn’t hear anything from God for years relationships came and went still nothing from God. Several years later after a breakup God spoke and said. ‘ praying for your husband doesn’t stop once I send him it’s a continuation’ my thought was that once he’s here my prayers can stop but what I had to realize is that 1. The time/years I spent in prayer wasn’t just for him it was also preparation for me as well. 2. Sometimes God will see how we handle waiting. Will we give up, throw a temper tantrum because it’s taking too long, will we get mad and turn from God? The best way to know a person’s character is how they behave when they don’t get what they want. 3. I have to be willing to obey God when/ if he says ‘ he’s not the one’ I’ve come to the place where I can say God if it’s not him you have my permission to move him ( not always easy to accept believe me). 4. I had to remember that all those years ago God said ‘ pray for YOUR husband not A husband big difference this says that he already knows the man he has for me and I have to trust his timing and will ( again, not always easy)

    • @patricebyam4361
      @patricebyam4361 3 года назад +1

      Amen Sis. I’m at this level of my spiritually that I have been talking and walking with God. It gets challenge and God knows as well and that’s when He wants us to lean in. I’m praying for everything. Reading the comments someone stated that “God told them to pray for their husband”. I received the same message from Him. This connection has helped me to pray about everything and it’s helping me to heal. Many blessings we are His beloved children.

    • @Rwissam1987
      @Rwissam1987 3 года назад +1

      I'm sorry if I am rude, but how does God speak to you? I have always wondered if people who say this are either lying or delusional. Seems that only Christians seem to teach each other to say things like this. I'm really curious and open minded about hearing the answer.

    • @kimjones3262
      @kimjones3262 3 года назад

      @@patricebyam4361 Amen!! I will join you in continuously praying and doing the work in preparation for the gift of marriage 🙂

    • @kimjones3262
      @kimjones3262 3 года назад +8

      @@Rwissam1987 No problem thank you for asking. So I hear people say that God doesn’t speak but let me assure you that He does. years ago I was home from college my parents and I went to church and told my brother to lock the back door. We came home assuming the door was locked and went to bed. I was in a deep sleep when I heard God say ‘ wake up!’ the voice wasn’t loud or startling but there was a sense of urgency. I was tired and wanted to go back to sleep again God said ‘ wake up, do not go back to sleep! Look at the door’ when I looked at the door there was a man standing in the doorway. Again God said ‘ do not go back to sleep!’ When I looked again the man was at the foot of my bed and told me not to scream I of course yelled for my father and the man ran out of the house. When the police came and took my statement she said the person I described had raped a girl a few blocks from us. When God speaks it is with clarity sometimes it’s a small voice other times as I mentioned it’s with a sense of urgency. Regarding the story of God telling me to pray for my husband it was almost 15 years before I heard from God again. I’d been asking God why did I need to pray for this man and I don’t even know him? God responded ‘ because of the weight he carries as a father, husband and as a man’ now notice he didn’t say ‘ burden’ he said ‘ weight’ there’s a difference a burden is something we dread carrying but weight builds strength. So I began to pray that God would give him the strength to carry our family and I also prayed that I wouldn’t become like a burden you know the scripture about the nagging wife that causes her husband to go to the rooftop for some peacelol. I prayed God allow me to be the wife he can’t wait to come home to. When we lean in to God and seek answers from him and remain still he speaks in so many ways. Some times he says yes, others no or even not yet but our obedience to his voice is what really matters. I pray this helps. God bless!!

    • @MA-yc7pz
      @MA-yc7pz 3 года назад +1

      I needed this ❣️

  • @elevate536
    @elevate536 3 года назад +58

    The outside world is a reflection of how you view yourself! If you love yourself and pour that energy into the universe, you will naturally attract a significant other who matches your energy🦋💭

  • @christydixon5337
    @christydixon5337 3 года назад +57

    A popular life coach stated "if it was the wrong time, then it was the wrong person." I do not typically hear someone say that it's possible to meet the right person at the wrong time, and it is cool because some people may have found themselves with this type of situation of meeting who they've prayed for, before they we're ready for them...; thank you for sharing your unique viewpoint; it bares faith, hope and more realization.

    • @chabee3666
      @chabee3666 2 года назад +4

      Say that louder people’s just making excuses on here.

    • @marywirrick7097
      @marywirrick7097 Год назад

      Wow yes

  • @Myret
    @Myret 7 месяцев назад +9

    I stopped praying for “the one” because I’ve prayed for many years. I’ve changed and grown so much, but apparently my other prayers are by far more important.

  • @Ghanaman93
    @Ghanaman93 3 года назад +146

    My mama sent me this, she’s the MVP 🖤 great video as always Stephen 🙏🏾 best life advice is to SLOW DOWN AND PRAY MORE. Learning to discern God’s voice effectively protects us from so much unnecessary stress and damage to and from others

  • @nathaniaregina
    @nathaniaregina 3 года назад +14

    I've been seeing/ talking to this guy for 5 months... He has all the wonderful qualities I look for in a man, a genuine connection , checked my boxes and I prayed for God to show me signs if he's for me, like everynight I'd pray and be willing to surrender to God even if I truly like him, I was willing to let go. Last night...I confessed to him that I have feelings for him and he said that he only consider me as friends. He just got out from the divorce less than a year ago and his current goal is to explore the world, and romantic relationship is not his priority. I was embarassed but also relief at the same time.
    Somehow, deep inside, fast or slow, I have a faith that he's the one. I'm not gonna be waiting in agony, but deep inside, I wasn't sad that he's gone. I have a faith that he will come back once he's ready at the right time and relationship will take off. Idk.... now I'm confused if my intuition and sense of peace is a voice from God or am i fooling myself ...

    • @debbycostanich1696
      @debbycostanich1696 3 года назад +1

      I think that is a good sign. He told you the truth. Have patience. I have been in the same situation for over 2 years and we are bonding more and more every day. We are in the place between friends and ?

    • @lacoyawhitfield1547
      @lacoyawhitfield1547 2 года назад +2

      He don’t want you boo… if he not scared someone could snatch you up while he’s “traveling” then he don’t see you as the one… move on… save yourself the heartache

  • @annekajordan6952
    @annekajordan6952 3 года назад +15

    Yes anything God has has created the enemy tries to mimic & produce an imposter & it can cunningly ‘resemble the truth’ but is only there to cause harm. A counterfeit can NEVER be as good as the real thing - the blessing that God has for you 🙏

  • @wachirasuzy4412
    @wachirasuzy4412 Год назад +32

    It's a difficult situation to be in when you hear God confirming something but in reality is totally the opposite.

  • @diamondunicorn2421
    @diamondunicorn2421 2 года назад +18

    So true your video. I’m experiencing this now. I finally met my divine partner after many years of being single and not interested in being monogamous or committed. Until I did the inner healing and self improvement. Then he came along. And trust me. When it’s sent by source, it will be sent to you not always in the glitter package you expect it to come. Content and character becomes more important than the necessary outside packaging.

  • @Angelwr1luv
    @Angelwr1luv 2 года назад +40

    Yes, just be still, wait and listen. Put it in God's hands, he will steer you in the right direction, don't worry so much about finding the guy. Focus your energy on God. He will do it for you. This is the way to true peaceful love I think. Compromising, Communication, Respect, Faith in God, Boundaries. Having Tools for dealing with conflict the right way. Thanks Mr. Stephan again very good knowledge. I've learned a few things from your channel that I changed about me also, that I thought I was doing the right way but was so wrong.

    • @MeetStephanSpeaks
      @MeetStephanSpeaks  2 года назад +3

      I'm happy this has been helpful to you, and I pray that you heal all you have been through 🙏

  • @mwhite805
    @mwhite805 3 года назад +23

    It's very rare to find a Man that speaks the truth about trusting in God for direction in a relationship And to hear you speak about fasting as well , I think you have good points and when you do put your trust in God he will lead You and Yes , His timing is not our own For He says Trust in the Lord with All your heart and lean not to your own understanding. Thank You!

  • @micheboohawaii9430
    @micheboohawaii9430 2 года назад +19

    I prayed for so long to meet my Boaz. I finally met him. But we haven't officially meet up in person, yet. He has also been waiting a long time for his Ruth. This man is patient. I love it. No rush or pressure. I know God is not ready for us to meet in person yet. I trust and will wait for the Lord's guidance. But I know for sure he is my Boaz. One day, I got a phone call from a terrible man I dated 6 years ago. I was shocked and irritated. Why is he asking me to go out with him. I blocked him and rebuked the devil. He was definitely the imposter. Then one day, I met a man in the parking lot of Walmart. He was also an imposter. Both of these 2 imposters were sent by the devil. I have a very good relationship with God. So the enemy couldn't win. So now, I am just waiting patiently until God tells me it's time and gives me His spiritual guidance. I love God so much❤

  • @BabeRuthuk
    @BabeRuthuk 3 года назад +58

    Stephan - this video is prophetic. You’re describing kingdom marriage. God bless you abundantly. I pray your spouse is everything you need and more in Jesus name.

  • @lindsaybrown2346
    @lindsaybrown2346 2 года назад +139

    This touched my spirit in so many ways. I was just in the bathroom at work crying and reciting scripture Exodus 14:14 because last week the guy who I think is the one for me ended our relationship because his ex is still coming around and he was torn between the both of us since the ex has been around his daughter and I never met his daughter or family he felt that their circumstances looked better than mine since we've only dated for 3 months...but it has been the best 3 months I've had in so long! I am so confused and been praying everyday, every morning asking God why did He allow this man into my life only for him to leave and go back to an ex that doesn't even leave in our state! Ugh....I needed clarity and healing and this video Stephan definitely gave me that vessel I was looking for. I felt this is confirmation! I will Trust in God on this one! 🙏🏽 Thank youuuu ❤

    • @hilo5901
      @hilo5901 2 года назад +32

      The ex probably can’t accept him moving on. To run back to her & their problems, you don’t need that! Ask God to help you move on - to better!

    • @darawatkis7084
      @darawatkis7084 2 года назад +33

      Sounds like my story. I met a good man four years ago. He treated me well. Spent time with him , we had a connection. Then to later find out that he’s holding on to a girlfriend overseas. I did ask God “Why would you bring this man in my life”? I later realize zed why. It was to prepare Me for the right one. He was just a preview of what was to come.

    • @melissah7266
      @melissah7266 2 года назад +8

      Wow.. This story sounds so familiar. I met this man 16 years ago, but we were both in other relationships. He contacted me to confess how he felt about about me last year. Now we were both divorced.. We started spending time together and planning our future. I thanked God everyday for reconnecting us, because I had never experienced what this man had shown me. Last week after meeting his family, his ex decided she wanted him back. He made the decision to go back and sacrifice his own happiness for the sake of his young child. I’m trying to make sense of why God would send him after all these years, only to then snatch him away.

    • @audreynicoletti7329
      @audreynicoletti7329 Год назад +9

      @@melissah7266 your too good for him. Be grateful you weren't married and have kids to him .

    • @Beyond_nicolas
      @Beyond_nicolas Год назад

      Did you find the one yet

  • @mindtobodyfit
    @mindtobodyfit 2 года назад +127

    Personally I think you are the best love coach out there! ☺️ Thank you!
    You clarify everything I feel to be true ❤️

  • @billvegas2072
    @billvegas2072 3 года назад +9

    Months ago I found god after I hit rock bottom from my divorce. I prayed every day and made time for God every single day. Blessings started showing up that I once never believed would happen. I was short on rent and I talked to God asking him what do I do. That night, I had the pleasure of serving Dana White who tipped me $1000 which put me in a position to pay my rent plus groceries. I then prayed that my ex wife comes back in my life despite her infidelity and deception I still loved her and wanted my family back. She came back. Then left in a week. Came back again, left two weeks later. Came back two weeks ago but asked me to wait for her while she has her fun. I agreed. She left again. I truly believe God is shaking me trying to wake me up, slapping me around, trying to get me to realize this is not my person.

  • @jacquelynhorton7563
    @jacquelynhorton7563 3 года назад +97

    This is an amazing monologue. When emotions are strong we slowly distance or release our hold. I have created a support system to walk this journey. Discernment is needed in this event, waiting, listening and praising God.

    • @MeetStephanSpeaks
      @MeetStephanSpeaks  3 года назад +1

      Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback!

  • @naimam3976
    @naimam3976 2 года назад +37

    Im a muslim woman in her early 30s and I can so relate to this video. Last year I fell in love with a man, I just wanted him to be the one so much that I ignored a few reds flags. Its been almost 4 months and Im still not completely over him. I feel like this video was made for me. Thank you!

    • @MeetStephanSpeaks
      @MeetStephanSpeaks  2 года назад +4

      I'm happy this has been helpful to you 🙏

    • @Soouber
      @Soouber 2 года назад +2

      Ameen Sister, very true. Turning to our AllMighty Creator for everything is crucial. Everything is a test (fitna), don't let shaytan/satan deceive you. Good monologue Stephan, God bless you for being real.100%🙌🏼 Working on our own connection at all times with our Creator is crucial Inshallah...He knows best.Ameen Brother.🤲🏼🙏🏼📿

    • @linaazmiin7479
      @linaazmiin7479 Год назад +3

      sister Always do istekhara prayer before meeting the guy , I Had crush on my neighbourd seen him often I did istekhara prayer and next day he move out . I did many. timess I love the anwser I get because I move on soon after

  • @JamaicaLove876
    @JamaicaLove876 2 года назад +38

    When God sends you the one it is something that you know in your spirit & the love feels intense with genuine connection. Also you align in many ways such as values, beliefs, vision & purpose.Many great points! Excellent video. Blessings & light to you, Stephan.

  • @missaliciaandfamily4833
    @missaliciaandfamily4833 2 года назад +9

    This so sad 😞 - Sometimes people leave their soul mate because it's easier to be with another person or start fresh versus, allowing the relationship to have a breakthrough

  • @tisaligon-roman6353
    @tisaligon-roman6353 3 года назад +33

    Best advice ever received. I’ve always gone to God for many things in my life but as I’ve gotten older God is the only one I turn to for everything. God isn’t gonna spill your business to anyone else and will always give you what you need. Only with God are you allowed to trade your burdens for blessings! Blessings to all here. ✨🙏🏼✨🌻

  • @lisajones-franklin3574
    @lisajones-franklin3574 3 года назад +33

    Good morning Stephan. I love your analogy about the car. I believe that sometimes GOD will reveal the person to you in order for you to prepare to receive it. I also love what you said about the enemy using family members to cause chaos to keep people apart. I've been praying for my future husband's family (parent, siblings, aunts, uncles, cousins, nieces, nephews, GOD children, pets if he has any, etc) friends, employees, business associates, all the women that might want to marry him...lol and anyone that he may come in contact with. Prayer is so important. Thanks for this reminder. Have a blessed day. 🙏🏽🙌🏽❤

    • @MeetStephanSpeaks
      @MeetStephanSpeaks  3 года назад +2

      Indeed, prayer is very important thank you for sharing, I appreciate that!

    • @angelawalker3550
      @angelawalker3550 3 года назад +1

      Wow! This is so true.

  • @judittar8776
    @judittar8776 3 года назад +126

    Stephan, this message is so timely, may God keep you blessed so that you can convey these messages to all of us. I am forever grateful. You're truly precious. Thank you so much!

  • @juliannalin19
    @juliannalin19 2 года назад +11

    All glory to God raising you up to preach the right way to have a relationship and marriage that honors Him. ✝️

  • @DailyElevate
    @DailyElevate 20 дней назад +1

    7 months ago, I met the best man; however, I kept asking God to remove him from my life if he wasn't the one. Well, this morning, God showed me. My friend found him on the dating sites. I'm ending it today. It hurts so bad, but I am so happy God is clearing the path for me to meet the man for me.

  • @candacesmith5572
    @candacesmith5572 3 года назад +11

    I would continue doing what I'm doing. Being at peace, walking in love, and observing him.

  • @tammycorder5515
    @tammycorder5515 3 года назад +127

    I really appreciate and needed this. I am currently talking to someone and everything you said is so beneficial in my situation. I respect what you say because you stress the importance of seeking God 1st when you are waiting on your mate. Thank you.

    • @MeetStephanSpeaks
      @MeetStephanSpeaks  3 года назад +10

      My pleasure ❤

    • @kiyahardin95
      @kiyahardin95 3 года назад +1

      I love your encouraging advise, it’s very inspiring & very helpful in my situation..

    • @mariahconklin4150
      @mariahconklin4150 2 года назад +1

      Me to and it also has been a month. I wish you the best

  • @felishapittman2778
    @felishapittman2778 3 года назад +21

    The realness of this message and on time as always... 🙏

    • @MeetStephanSpeaks
      @MeetStephanSpeaks  3 года назад

      ❤ 🙂 Thank you for watching, I appreciate your feedback!

  • @aprilshowers5820
    @aprilshowers5820 2 года назад +14

    I wish I had seen this video sooner! I have met a potential husband a little over a month ago. We fell for one another from day 1. There was a friend on my part still in the picture and a trip was planned prior to me meeting this guy. I was faced with making a decision to go on the trip with a guy I've known for years who I was comfortable with, had fun with, but knew it wasn't turning into something long term OR cancel the trip and see what happens with the new guy who I had been seeing for all of 2 weeks. The connection and chemistry was there, I felt he could have been my person, but due to the short time frame, not really knowing his true intentions, I decided to go on the trip. needless to say, I chose the imposter. I do regret it because it has totally ruined the potential although I have tried to reason with him and explain where my heart belongs. He has let me go because he felt it was a test for me from God and he answer to walk away. We are very hurt by it and I really prayed things could reconcile. I have no other choice but to let him go now. We did continue to talk a bit but he definitely shut down. This video came to me last night when I was trying to find answers, and it was definitely on point, so on point, it was as if the situations mentioned were about us. Thank you for your insight. I have learned alot! I will make sure I talk to God more before making decisions. I am now more prepared for next time. Whether it be with him or the next potential person.

  • @KandiaHaynesworth
    @KandiaHaynesworth 2 года назад +5

    God will never send someone's spouse to you. Even if they are separated. Separated but Married is still married.

  • @bonitagarner3982
    @bonitagarner3982 3 года назад +20

    Wow, I've always thought if it was meant to be it would just flow so to speak. Clearly, I need to talk to God more. 😁 Great teaching Stephan...very enlightening. 👏🏾👏🏾

  • @tabasimk9568
    @tabasimk9568 3 года назад +15

    On point dear brother Stephan. I’m in a long distance relationship, I’m in the U.K. and he is in the USA. We are engaged and waiting for his 🇺🇸 passport to arrive. The distance has allowed us both to prepare for one another and build our emotional, spiritual and mental connection. We both prayed about each other and have been given the full answer from God, “yes”. Covid travel restrictions is the chaos which we have used as a blessing.

    • @MeetStephanSpeaks
      @MeetStephanSpeaks  3 года назад +1

      Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback and I pray that you keep moving in faith ❤ 🙏

    • @watchingyoutwo3800
      @watchingyoutwo3800 3 года назад

      If Angels put you together than your misappropriation by the Angels and your dna needs to be checked and that you might be to close for comfort and that you are considered“Incest” and are out of Gods’ hands and on your own! Never to be an actual Angels!!

    • @daddywayne5258
      @daddywayne5258 3 года назад

      m e s s a g e h I m n o w

    • @daddywayne5258
      @daddywayne5258 3 года назад

      v i a W h a t s A p p

  • @ZizoLivi
    @ZizoLivi 3 года назад +48

    Needed this today as I’m always praying for this… I’m in a situation where I feel God put this man in my life for a reason. Now, I’m praying if he’s the one God wants for me. We are in a long distant relationship, so in a way that just works out better because we get to know each other better and so far, he’s seems really sincere, God-fearing, and just giving very good vibes. I have a good feeling, but still trying to heal and at the same time, I’m just worried moving forward …only because of my previous toxic relationship. Thanks for all you continue to do to help us SS. 🦋🙏🏻

    • @watchingyoutwo3800
      @watchingyoutwo3800 3 года назад +1

      If Angels put you together than your misappropriation by the Angels and your dna needs to be checked and that you might be to close for comfort and that you are considered“Incest” and are out of Gods’ hands and on your own! Never to be an actual Angels!! Keep to your innocence and god will provide your life with the best husband on earth and a long life of youth!

    • @rashawntaylor4316
      @rashawntaylor4316 3 года назад +2

      Goodevening real good man will sacrifice too make his woman happy n ask what ‘s you need help with, ask what’s your future goals ! A real good man will send you roses , put god first in his life n also make you first properity , keep gas in your car , help with bills , Communcations is the key n always luv you no matter what

    • @chocolatebaby313
      @chocolatebaby313 2 года назад +2

      This is the story of my life..Currently... I'm trusting God on this... 🦋🙏

    • @rashawntaylor4316
      @rashawntaylor4316 2 года назад

      I keep real n honest

    • @gwortman3515
      @gwortman3515 2 года назад

      Follow your gut.... use your womanly intuition .

  • @crystaldesiree9186
    @crystaldesiree9186 Год назад +6

    I am freshly healing from a 15 year breakup. I thank GOD for you Stephan Speaks! Watching you helps in ways I never would have imagined. You are my church, my adviser, spiritual leader, my mentor and the list continues…. Man. Thank you! God bless you and keep them coming 🙌🏽

  • @ginagonzalez5763
    @ginagonzalez5763 2 года назад +15

    I love this video for many reasons: 1. Your spirituality comes to the surface and there is a meekness humbleness, transparency about you. 2. You talk heart to heart. Not that the other videos you don't, but this is more palpable. 3. There is a connection when one spiritual person speaks to another. I'm sure a lot of people can agree with that. Wow!!! All I can say is Wow!!! I praise God for you and this video. God Bless you. I can surely relate to this video and will refer to it over and over. Just because it's the best video ever. Not that you won't make others like this one or better, bit this is the best one by far. Thank you Stephan, thank you.

  • @honeyblu1586
    @honeyblu1586 3 года назад +18

    Stephan! You brought yo momma's cooking today ! God Bless this message and let all the people who need to hear it, I pray you all heal from this, and open your heart chakras to give that love to yourself. If you block out pain you block out pleasure as well. Thank you 💜

    • @MeetStephanSpeaks
      @MeetStephanSpeaks  3 года назад

      Glad you enjoyed the video and don't forget to share so that others can receive love and healing ❤

  • @rayveti
    @rayveti 3 года назад +6

    I agree with you 💯 I wish to add that us woman need to spend a healthy amount of time being single and stop being available for casual relationships, situationships and entanglements. A woman who is not afraid being single is super attractive and highly valued. The time during single hood is sacred and precious, It’s the best time to use that opportunity for us to connect with our intuition and God.

  • @Mekia-hr8qh
    @Mekia-hr8qh 3 года назад +26

    Stephan, Stephan, Stephan. Your video’s come right on time. Thank you for being a willing vessel for the Father. I pray and ask God to send my future husband in his season not mines and when he feel it time it will be.

    • @MeetStephanSpeaks
      @MeetStephanSpeaks  3 года назад +3

      Glad to hear that, thank you for your response, and I pray that you receive the man who is truly best for you the man God has for you 🙏

    • @Mekia-hr8qh
      @Mekia-hr8qh 3 года назад +1

      @@MeetStephanSpeaks Thank You ❤️! Likewise for you. 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

    • @rashawntaylor4316
      @rashawntaylor4316 3 года назад +1

      Good morning real good man will sacrifice too make you happy n also ask what ‘s you need help with n what ‘s your future goals ! A real man will send you roses , put God in his life n also put your first properity , help with bills , keep gas in your car, also take you work on your off days , also work too bones too you didn’t have too work that hard . A real man will luv you , honor , value you !

    • @Mekia-hr8qh
      @Mekia-hr8qh 3 года назад

      @@rashawntaylor4316 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽 I agree

    • @rashawntaylor4316
      @rashawntaylor4316 3 года назад +1

      I take this very seriously

  • @patricedean4977
    @patricedean4977 2 года назад +14

    Thank u this is a confirmation and a answer to my prayer.We are triggered by each others flaws and were working on it.when i met him i was force to make changes and happy to say that i am closer to God than ever before.

    • @MeetStephanSpeaks
      @MeetStephanSpeaks  2 года назад

      Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback.

    • @vernicelli
      @vernicelli 11 месяцев назад

      I can relate to what you're going through with my partner. The challenges have escalated, particularly due to his mental health battles. However, I haven't given up, especially when he's in a battle against his own mind. It's simple to remain committed when everything is smooth sailing, but it's during the tough times that real commitment is tested. I also want to emphasize that while offering support is crucial, it's essential not to forget about your own well-being. In a healthy relationship, boundaries, open communication, mutual respect, and trust play vital roles.

  • @daughterofzion9017
    @daughterofzion9017 Год назад +8

    Stephen, you hit my soul with this one! Going through a painful process of divorce after 10 years of marriage and a custody battle involving 3 children. Never knew I would be here but here I am. I want to be open, fully heal and be ready when God brings me the right person.

    • @garnetsossi8381
      @garnetsossi8381 3 месяца назад

      Bible sais not to remarry unfortunately

  • @johnettarodriguez4544
    @johnettarodriguez4544 3 года назад +5

    Gafternoon Stephan this is a great topic now the word says when a man find a wife he finds a good thing and has found favor with God… That being said I’ve learned over past hurt and not waiting on God so through my relationship with God and my faith in him I’ve learned how to put God first and keep him first also I’ve learned how to write what I’m wanting in the man God has for me u have to be very specific and please ladies/men wait for marriage before u engage in sex and learn Gods voice make sure it’s his voice and not u God has given us a tool to follow as to how he wants us to live we have to remember his commandments and the word says be ye Holy as I am Holy it’s not easy to walk in the way God has for us u have to put this flesh under subjection daily so we have to a that relationship with God trust in him in all they ways and fasting and praying 🙏🏿 plays a big part in our daily walk God will develop our Spirit of discernment this is how I’m trying to walk daily thank u 🙏🏿 Sir for this word that u have for us God bless

  • @BrendaSolis_
    @BrendaSolis_ 3 года назад +35

    I always feel like you’re speaking directly to my spirit. Even when reading your books. My situation has been aligning so perfectly with this. I’ve constantly been so back and forth. But I know I have to put my trust in God not matter what the outcome is. He always works things out for our good. Thank you Stephan

  • @nefertiticosmetics9098
    @nefertiticosmetics9098 3 года назад +15

    I needed to hear this this morning. I believe the "one" has been presented to me but I was told that I have to wait. It is heart breaking when you and that person have a connection but the timing is wrong. I know that I have a purpose to fulfill before I can be united with this person. But just like the kid waiting on the car the waiting is hard. Continued success King 👑, and thank you for your continued words of wisdom and encouragement. I look so forward to all of your videos.

    • @chabee3666
      @chabee3666 2 года назад

      Stop confusing yourself. The timing may feel wrong to you I’d it wa meant for you it was the right time. but if it’s not the right time it’s not the right person. Stop making excuses.

  • @cmartin836
    @cmartin836 2 года назад +9

    Stephan I want to thank you BIG TIME for teaching these principles. God taught me these things over the past two years. I am blown away at the goodness of God, His loving kindness, and to thank you from my heart for teaching others how important this is. It's an exciting thing to go through...to learn and grow, pray and get closer to God, and many more benefits. Over these years He has given me pages of prophecy for my life, instructed me on where I need to get better, and has given me a strategy that, blew me away, to work from. And I'm laughing at the two years of attacks that have taken place to end the possibility of our coming together. I have learned how to fight the spiritual and wear that armor. It's not easy, but it's worth it!! God has made me a better person. Only God can do such miraculous things! Stephan, thank you and God bless your heart!!!

  • @reginapickney3125
    @reginapickney3125 3 года назад +15

    I finally read my Ebook The man God has for you last week and omg this is exactly what I need to hear. It's awesome ✨

  • @sarahrayman620
    @sarahrayman620 3 года назад +151

    One of the best videos you've done! That was a Divine message that many people, including myself need to hear or be reminded of. I'm waiting for the right person that is willing to go through and do the work to have a deep and fulfilling relationship. I see it as having a missional relationship if it's God centered. Praying through individually and together in the tough times. Just love how Jesus brings to light the best way to approach relationships. It's a lifelong working at it. Thanks again Stephen!!

    • @MeetStephanSpeaks
      @MeetStephanSpeaks  3 года назад +1

      My pleasure ❤

    • @watchingyoutwo3800
      @watchingyoutwo3800 3 года назад

      If Angels put you together than your misappropriation by the Angels and your dna needs to be checked and that you might be to close for comfort and that you are considered“Incest” and are out of Gods’ hands and on your own! Never to be an actual Angels!!

    • @purple630ca
      @purple630ca 3 года назад +1

      @@watchingyoutwo3800 Say that again... You say What?

    • @sarahrayman620
      @sarahrayman620 3 года назад +3

      @@watchingyoutwo3800 I have no idea where you get your philosophy, because it's certainly not of God. God, Yeshua, the one true God directs our steps alone. I do hope and pray that the eyes of your understanding be enlightened and that you will know the full hope of your calling in this life, willing to make Jesus Lord of your life and flee from Satan the great Deceiver!!

    • @steven9842
      @steven9842 3 года назад +1

      So true mistakes we all make in relationships and get hurt at the end of it…I pray everyday for the wisdom and patience to be able to have a good relationship with someone again

  • @joy6742
    @joy6742 3 года назад +9

    Wow! Confirmation at it’s finest! God is awesome!😊

  • @ulyssia.dennis
    @ulyssia.dennis 3 года назад +86

    Stephan, I pray you are deeply encouraged and strengthened to stay focused on your mission. Comment after comment confirms that this message (and all of your videos) are right on time for some many of us (including me). You are doing God’s work and making a difference ❤️. P.S. Thanks again for the recently added captions 😊.

  • @summits4ataxia
    @summits4ataxia Год назад +5

    When I prayed over what led me to my now wife. We were still just courting he showed me year after year giving her one white rose. This was my birthday 2 weeks before the new year awhile back. We were talking on new years eve and got brave enough to tell her. Little did I know until waking up on new years day to her message. That she who had been single for 38 years that she had been quietly waiting for God to send her the man with one white rose. The rest is history. We are both paired so well. Even each of our long term best friends can see it in our eyes. Each in their own way stating how we bring each other full of life and faith.

  • @jeanweston986
    @jeanweston986 3 года назад +7

    Omg!!! I'm going through this exact thing with the guy that I think is the one!!! And you are right there is chaos!!!! It's definitely not easy!!!! Thanks for your advice!!! And thank you Lord for leading me to this vlog!!!🙏🏽

    • @bryanjason8319
      @bryanjason8319 3 года назад +1

      Hello how are you doing hope you're safe?

  • @sandramoore1391
    @sandramoore1391 3 года назад +31

    OMG good morning. Good topic: yes I pray and I know he showed me my potential boaz. But like you say my prayers are continuing.

  • @barbarabrown2277
    @barbarabrown2277 3 года назад +5

    God rules in our hearts with
    Divine Peace. When He sent someone into our lives. Be Still and Know God, Be Calm, and Trust God's Good Timing for everything.

  • @lmjohnson777
    @lmjohnson777 3 года назад +25

    Amazing! This was more than a relationship message for me…it’s about my desires and goals for sure! Thank you God 💕

  • @yessenialrs
    @yessenialrs Год назад +5

    I trust you fully God. I know everything is Divine Timing and the one is also preparing for me ❤

  • @marcelabeda6645
    @marcelabeda6645 Год назад +4

    I met my person at 20 and listened to the outside noise that came from my biological mother who is a racist and prejudice. Met him again at 33 and I listened to the outside noise and at this time I have too much emotional baggage from my ex. I ran away from him due to intense feeling of vulnerability. I might have lost him forever but God has a plan. It hurts knowing that you hurt someone you love so deeply. Even scarier not knowing what the future holds. I hope everyone finds healing and do deliberate and continuous effort to better themselves. Trust God’s timing, always.

    • @MeetStephanSpeaks
      @MeetStephanSpeaks  Год назад

      Thank you for sharing, you will find my video on the five reasons why God will send you the right man at the wrong time to be interesting. Check it out here 👉 ruclips.net/video/1AyaARlBpqw/видео.html

  • @feliciap.2297
    @feliciap.2297 3 года назад +5

    "Once we receive God's blessing, we don't need his guidance anymore." THIS RIGHT HERE!!!💯💯💯 One of the biggest mistakes we could ever make! I've been there and missed many blessings. Only if we just listen and follow God's guidance. Trust we will have an abundance of peace!🙏🏽🙏🏽😊 Right on point Stephan!

    • @MeetStephanSpeaks
      @MeetStephanSpeaks  3 года назад +1

      Thank you for sharing, I appreciate that!

    • @cinduhughes3351
      @cinduhughes3351 3 года назад

      Dont listen to 👨 man. God is our only. H. O. P. E. Cant. Make. F. R. I. E. N. D. S anymore or meet any. G. O. O. D. Men. All our out for. M. O. N. E. Y. N. Selfish. 💏 lovers of. Themselves. No. Affection or. Concern. For. Their. Partners. Health or. Sufferings. Dont care. Fake. Dont want. Commitment just. Narcs. Like. Devil. Tools. To. Deceive n. Liars to yr face. No. Trusting. Anyone. These. Days. Were in the. Judgment. Last last. D. A. Y. S. Come. Kingdom. Come. 🙏 🙏 🙏 🙏 xox. Hugs. N. Faith. Hope. Peace. 💘 🐦🐺🐒🐸🐼🐑🐘🐴🐴🐴🐴🐴🐴🐴

  • @ddazz1403
    @ddazz1403 3 года назад +17

    This was such a great message, great reminder that God is present in all. I will pause and put God first, thank you!

  • @mandy8780
    @mandy8780 3 года назад +8

    I'm soooooo ready for this 💃💃💃 at times I cant even sleep watching all your videos. Thank you for this valuable knowledge and wisdom. A real gem. How selfless of you.
    May God continue to use you to advance Hos kingdom. 😊

    • @MeetStephanSpeaks
      @MeetStephanSpeaks  3 года назад

      ❤ 🙂 Thank you for watching I appreciate your feedback!

  • @yardiegyal86
    @yardiegyal86 Год назад +3

    I learned this week to be very specific and detailed in my prayers. I told God, if he's the man you choose for me, then you will make a way for him to contact me before the next morning. Got a call that night. And before you ask, I tend not to pray outloud when asking God for something. I know the devil is always listening

  • @iiamtiyonna
    @iiamtiyonna Год назад +3

    “Be Prepared For Chaos” Lord Mercy!

  • @annekajordan6952
    @annekajordan6952 3 года назад +14

    I absolutely love this video and love the wisdom you shared 🙌🙏. There are so much powerful things to learn from every point you made. I agree that there may be chaos or difficulties when two people who have a connection meet, causing fear or doubt, but I do believe if the connection is TRULY from God, those two will overcome those difficulties & yes with God’s guidance, there is no way the enemy will succeed in keeping those two apart. When it’s truly of God, love will cast that fear out & allow the two to embrace each other. This is one of the reasons why rejection can be such a blessing, because the right person will overcome & will not be driven by fear but by love ❤️

  • @queeneva1985
    @queeneva1985 3 года назад +11

    I asked God to show me my husband now that I’m working on myself so we can be best friends when it’s time for us to get married…and months later God connected me to this man of God via Facebook and from day one we both felt a strong connection…He naturally became my best friend and we both are growing into this beautiful friendship, trusting that God will make things happen if we were truly meant to be together. Ive learned so much from my past failed relationships and now I know better…I’m meeting what I can call good men in my area but I never feel really connected to them as I felt with my Facebook friend..it’s really weird and sometimes I wonder why..but I believe God does everything for a purpose..I simply need to focus on God and allow him to guide me🙏🏾

  • @jackiesantos5832
    @jackiesantos5832 3 года назад +40

    Your words always inspires me ❤️❤️❤️

    • @MeetStephanSpeaks
      @MeetStephanSpeaks  3 года назад +3

      Glad to hear that ❤ thank you for your response and be sure to share so that others can receive love and healing!

  • @veronawillis610
    @veronawillis610 2 года назад +2

    Right person wrong season, everything must be totally aligned

  • @03-five-r.19
    @03-five-r.19 Год назад +2

    I wish and I pray to God that next person will come into my life is really the one.