10 Reasons Why The No Contact Rule Works On Everyone ⏳💘😍
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- Опубликовано: 2 авг 2024
- This video covers 10 reasons why the no contact rule works on everyone. ⏳💘😍
Does no contact work on everyone? Yes, everyone!
Does the no contact rule work on everyone even in my unique situation? Yes, EVERYONE!
I'm going answer why does no contact work by explaining the psychology of why no contact works.
But does no contact really work? Does no contact work on men? Does no contact work on women?
Yes... I'm telling you... it works on everyone. I'll explain it from the point of view of why no contact works on men (and you can just as easily apply this to why no contact works on women) and you'll see exactly why the no contact rule is the most important factor in how to get an ex back.
You'll understand that no matter what, the no contact rule will work for you and what kinds of results to expect from it.
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When you let him go, even though you still miss him at times, you realise you can be happy without him.
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You still have to go on without him even if you are not happy without him.
Much happier in fact
If he had potential and was ready to change then you shouldn’t give up on him
I'm ready
3 weeks is not nearly long enough. You should never contact them at all for any reason forever. Let them contact you first.
True saying...
If he contects after a week or less time than three weeks? Should I answer? Maybe if I ignore it than he will give up on me and would stop sending texts.
@@mayshetah3617 If he contacts you and you want to talk to him. Talk to him. Don't play games and ignore him or he might just think you moved on. Just don't act overexcited to hear from him, don't be rude either, just be normal. Don't give him the impression that you can't live without him. Because even if he is not in your life. You will still live a great life.
But as I said don't ignore him. As long as he is the one contacting you first, it's fine to text him.
Just never text first. Allow him to come to you ok.
But let me ask. Are you the dumper or the dumpee?
@@monas ok got you. Thanks:) I'm the dumpee. He gave up on our relationship of almost six months just because a small argument. It's his first relationship and I think he just panicked, but I was surprised he gave up on us that easley. I got very hurt and to be honest I don't know he was the right man for me.. because it wasn't even a fight. It's very disappointing, and I told him that we need to be strong for each other in order to move on and that not everything is always sunshine and butterflies between us, and that's why we need to talk and work things out. He just sat in sailence and replying he don't know what to say to me. There's a room for talking, I just don't know if will give up on me that fast again. I need someone strong to be by my side and maybe he's not wanting me enough to be that guy.. because one thing happen and he gave up.
@@mayshetah3617 Read my previous post.
I feel he doesn't want you badly enough. He probably has other distractions and that's why he doesn't even want to work on anything, such as someone else even. obviously I don't know for sure. And I don't want you to be sad, it's just... anything is possible. Just try focus on you. Not this guy who is too much of a coward to address the problems and run away. You need a real man ok.
If you get back with him. It will be hard for you to trust him and you will feel paranoid that he might leave again.
How long since the break up? Has he contacted you at all since?
My bf broke up with me a week and a half ago. I was devastated and felt like I had lost a huge part of me. I couldn’t eat, I couldn’t sleep, I could barely function, I threw up multiple times a day because the thought of actually losing him made me sick. We work at the same place. He avoided eye contact and seemed fine whenever I saw him. I’ve always been the type to beg for him to stay. I loved him more than I ever loved anything in this world. I started watching these videos. At times they seemed to really help, but others it was hard. I went through a week of no contact and boy was it the hardest week of my life. But he came back today, telling me he couldn’t sleep, he was very unhappy, this was very hard for him. I told him he seemed fine and he wouldn’t even look at me. He said he couldn’t because when he did, he pictured me with someone else and it killed him. We talked and he asked me to give him just a little more time to be sure. I agreed. I have hope that we will sort this out soon. I believe in the saying that two people have to fall apart in order to fall back together even stronger.
Update: We got back together today (2 weeks later). We had the best conversation, saying we will both work on the things we need to. He told me how much he missed me and he can’t live without me. I’m so happy now.
aww, congrats 🦋
It is so kind of you to share and to share updates. Your happy state now is so very sweet. I wish you the absolute best.
This was sooooo inspiring THANK YOU ..I’m going through this right now..I hope she reaches out during NC..but I’m also working on myself..
Update?
this is my exact situation right now. we’re starting no contact right now, im taking it step by step starting with not texting him for a day, and then seeing if i can make it 3… ect. this has motivated me so much you have no idea.
“I don’t know if I want that person back, I don’t know if I want to be treated that way.”
-that hit deep
"Some ex's are not worth revisiting" Bingo!
Yeah
YOU got that right!
He can't miss you unless you really are "gone"
That's what the No Contact creates. If there are weeks/months of reaching out and begging this will never happen.
I have a question I am practicing the no contact it's been about a week and he did reach out on Easter I ignored him his sister is about to die and if he reaches out to me after the death of his sister would that be a reason to reply with a generic response like sending you love and blessings to your family
What About deleting him from all the social media as well!?
@@jana0013 It's not advised. Just don't comment or like any of the posts. Go watch some of Coach Lee on RUclips.
@@whiterobin01 ohhh ok. I tough it might be better because then he can see that he didn’t have access to you.
I like how this woman just gets to the point and doesn't talk about lots of other things
You can't reach for something greater unless you're willing to let go of what you're holding on to.🙏💗
Sorry ❤️ but I couldn't let go of him , we still in contact because we are friends , we have a deep connection because we are alike
Words of wisdom.
"Some exes aren't worth revisiting!" 100%!!!
The no contact rules seem work for me. One time he just read my text and didn’t reply. I didn’t send any other texts because of self respect. 4 days no texting. Guess what happens. In 4 days, he takes an initiative to text me even when he doesn’t like texting. You can use the law of attraction to manifest his text message and just go enjoy your life & don’t worry about this anymore
If he’s or she is a narc, save yourself and just LEAVE! No need to drive yourself crazy with any extra antics.
Yes run and never look back
Yup they're shitty 0partners
I like how you keep it real in straight to the point so women won’t seem so desperate
You have no idea how much your videos are helping me to heal my ex's wounds and to make me feel unique and important again. I'm the master of my life.
Thank you so much. Greeting from Argentina!
I want to thank you having watched several videos and having been stagnant and being in an obsessive loop thinking of the past within that relationship.You have granted me clarity to weigh the situation and to save myself and apply the lessons your videos are teaching me.THANKs Stay blessed.
Wow I love this I had to let go of a guy wile I was gone I gained so much more love for myself and A new healthy relationship with myself.
Two weeks No conduct... Am happy feeling better day by day... I deserve better, i don't regret what i told him, was only scared. Am working on myself with my God.. ❤️
Amen me too
Great video. No Contact really does work you guys. I dealt with a Narc who blocked me out of nowhere, now she unblocked me on Valentine's Day when I was going Day 38 No Contact.
Now i'm on Day 50+ stlll no comtact. My best friend who has years of dating/relationships experience, a lot of his Exs contact him that he doesnt even respond and he's always with women. He knows a lot and passed all his dating/relationship experiences and advice to me.
I dont know what to do with this Narc that I.know.
I’m so glad you started doing a RUclips channel, I’ve received emails from you and Eric so it’s refreshing to actually see you and hear you :-) I love the advice you both give from both perspectives
Thank you so much!
Such great advice and delivery. Thank you Sabrina!!
You Make me feel so confident going through this breakup. Thank you so much!!!
This is exactly what I needed to know! Thank you so much 🥰
Excellent vídeo Sabrina.Just as you said. 3 weeks out and he contacted me..., appreciating me more than ever before. BUT NOW IM STRONGER💪. Much better. Loving myself more and I can now handle the situation better and not fall into that narcotic jonkie love addiction. Love dependance is just a matter of not loving yourself enough. Love your work Sabrina
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Then what? After no contact for 3 weeks, then what do you do?
So after 30days, sent a friendly Valentine card. I got an email from him thanking me and wishing me a Happy Valentine's day. Today, he called me. I was cooking so didn't see it was him before picking up. He actually apologized for his behavior and wanted to continue our long distance thing. We talked for 3 hours! Thank you for helping me try something new and not obsessing over it. That 30 days helped me heal myself and be okay if he never contacted me, but he did! I was shocked!
Preen Acres Parrots great. But you contacted him first.
@@cycolburn99 yes, but after 30 days on no contact and I wasn't begging him or putting any pressure on him. Just friendly card to let him know he was in my thoughts. He now calls every day!
Hi Sabrina, in my case I had to step away since my guy needs the time and the space to work on a personal issue. Although this problem has nothing to do with me, but its presence impacts our relationship. In this case, should I follow the “no contact” rule until my man is ready?
Your advice on relationship topics are very helpful; thank you.
Just started talking to someone new recently this will definitely help. Thank you so much
Loving your videos addicted just found you earlier. Subscribed already . Hadn't spoke for weeks before isolation. Thank goodness realized he was a narccist. Keep up the good work please. Keep safe.
I just cant thank you enough Sabrina for this powerful and inspiring video
I needed to hear this. I was devastated when my ex dumped me for no reason. He said its him not me. Hearing this we just are not compatible
I like your style, right to the point and the content is right on. Any advice for a very older woman?
He says he doesn’t feel the love for me like he used to before, so yeah i stepped up and broke up with him, i hope no contact works and he realises
What happened now.?
@@sharnashields7118 but i am now focusing more on myself rather than getting back together, and i know he will be back, I don’t care when or how, i just know he will
No contact is for the dumpee. You broke up, it's your responsibility to reach out to him
@@antilaw9911 Not always true. In this case she dumped him because he wasn't acting right.. He needs to be a man and realize what he had and reach out first. But he won't do that if he truly didn't love and care about her.
@@tahmidachowdhuryuzma7317 did y'all get back together
We never know the true value of something until we don't have it anymore 🙌 Thank you Sabrine! Ur messages are so powerful and helpful
I am ready! I really appreciate this!
You’re fabulous Sabrina!!!!
Right on target.
Sometimes u need disconnect to reconnect
I'm ready! Thanks for this video!!
Really appreciate your advice!
I say focus on yourself and what comes in is for you....also rejection is protection.
Keep moving forward the person that loves u will not make it hard on you. Break up is very depressing but it gives us a chance to focus on self love and be happy without them..I know its easier said than done but the right man will find u...
Yes... I'm going to follow your advice.... Thanks for the video 😘🖤....... keep it up 😁
Im ready now😍 thank you for the advices,it helps me a lot...
Totally works!! Thank you
I love it when you say I actually married my ex boyfriend.💍😅
Great advice! Love your videos.
Thank you for this :)
I really enjoyed this video, thank you so much it made a lot of sense 😊
Well, mine certainly wasn't afraid of losing me. Kept telling me to try and move on, so i did. Stopped contacting him, and he never contacted me again. I guess I didn't mean that much to him, but now I have found someone who values me a lot more than he did. So it kind of worked out for the best, at least for me it did.
That’s cause he was dating Someone else
Sabrina , you are the best adviser. You talk things in real life..
Love every single video.
I am big fan of yours and Eric’s.
Keep doing what you’re doing guys.
Lots of love.❤️
We've been broken up for almost a month. The first week of no contact, he accused me of cheating. And now, we're going back and forth and I'm still defending myself with him. Nothing has changed. So tonight, I restarted the rule 😔
What happen???
First off you dated an insecure man that’s all
I beg to differ to a point with todays Social Media and how easy it is to say next! Nearly everyone needs to keep that in mind! @@sandovalpaul
This does work but there is also the side of it where if you do no contact the other party could think you just don’t care and move on. It’s a catch 22.
Your Videos are really very helpful. Thank you 😘
You are Amazing!! Thank you!
You have really helped my head thanks I suffer with depression through my boyfreind I have been with him nearly 4 years but things need to change👍🤔x
Thanks there is a lot more too it I've been there for him so much I'm too soft hearted x😔
You're pretty hot you should try other options (me)
One thing i have to say is breakups are hard to get over especially when u really liked the person
hey I got my ex back and you can get yours back in 24hrs
@@runekamohammed1544 i got him back the day after i posted this
@@RiasReview omg this is so cool!! I wish my situation was like this… it’s been 2 days and I’m already sensing her missing me but who knows what will happen
You're the best! Always to the point! Love you! ❤
This is so true thank you sweetie
This is gem 💎
Wish I could agree but ppl overrate relationships.if we're truly belong to each other then it'll last.
Thanks for this video ❤️
Thank You. ❤️
Currently doing the no contact rule. After a year of “dating” and two weeks of being in a official relationship ( then he broke it off ) still being there with him after he broke it off ( I know, I’m stupid 😫) I’m finally cutting ties with him. It’s barely been a week of no contact. He text me twice n called me once within that week and I completely ignored him. I Don’t view his ig stories. I’ve been a ghost on ig. I know he’s wondering wth happen to me lol. Oh well. Feeling better already . No contact rule in full effect
I loved your efforts mam❤️
Even if they don't come back you still started the healing process, a W either way.
1000likes for the advice..you are really awsm..your vdo s help me most of the time to get him back..I use to apply it over n over and this not only help in my relationship but also help me to rebuil my self confident..think a lot
It works on everyone, only when they're still interested. For me who's not at all interested in my ex, no contact is a bliss.
So if they lost interest then there's no chance of reconnecting I guess that must be my case. The ignorance just stays ignorant to us I guess. They must be happy we aren't in their lives anymore if they felt smothered by us in some way right? That's why they stay ignorant I guess..
Idk. I wasn’t interested in a guy who did this to me but out of boredom I did think about him and reach out lol
I was just thinking about her sweater when she said that
Thanks for doing these video
this is excellent advice thank you
In the end I realized we're both using no contact rule 😅
sameee 😭😭😭
I begged for him for 2 weeks then I found these videos
Then he sendet hot and cold Messages and now he doesn’t message me at all
I‘m really confused
I‘m just gonna do no contact and see if he messages me another time
Update: he blocked me for a week then he unblocked me and I got a text asking how I am and that I’m still important to him 😗
that was almost 3 weeks ago
Uhm update update: we are back together 😂
When have you answered to him first time? Was a significant text or he came to your place?
PS Sorry for my english, i'm italian 🙏❤️
Hahahahaha excellent
Thanks 🥺you videos help me so much!
Yes, your right that it’s not guaranteed everytime. I dated one boy twice, but the second time around it felt even worse.
Ive been in ths hard situation and been watching a lot of videos around youtube and finally I GOT TO REALIZED THINGS! I can finally say that I REALLY WANTED TO CONTINUE MY LIFE WITH OUT HIM FOR A MOMENT. I WILL FINALLY GIVE HIM THE SPACE HE REALLY WANTED. I cried a lot for how many weeks thinking of him and kept telling him how missed him and loved him so much! That gross but I ddnt regret it atleast I gave my best shot. Now I will be focusing on myself not just because I want him to feel my absence but ofcourse I want to focus really on my goals in life. These situation we have wont defntly help us and most importantly wont help myself. Thank you for all the coaches who putted all these effort to let us realized that we have to give importance of ourselves! I love the way you speak btw cus I speak the same as you do. HAHA.
I love him but I also need to love myself more!
🤗❤️
How are u doing now? Did he contact you?
You are such an amazing person and I love your tops its gorgous .
Thank you!
Lmfao💀
Great channel and advice
Thank you 🙏🏽
I love him, and even though we're so different, and he never loved me like I do him, I decided to let him go because he was never really mine. He hurt me but I still loved him because I didn't want to obligate him. This last time, he said and did things that really destroyed my equilibrium. He was mean, rude, selfish, and cold. I need my heart healed. Do you have any advice for me?
And if he does not come back that means he is not the guy for you and that GOD has someone BeTTER for YOU!!!
That’s true
Great Advice!
Im ready!!!
I have three kids with the man who left me because I was “confrontational”. How do I not contact him at all when I have kids with him?
Hi sabrina, i love your video, i was really in a on and off relationship, i always do the no contact but i always failed to finished it. Im so weak because whenever he contacted me, i always answer and accepted him, in the end , Im the one whos been hurt. today i will start again. i wish i can do the 3 weeks no contact rule .your video really motivate me. Thank you so much
Yeah, so you never really did it.
Focus on yourself. Be selfish. You deserve it
So totally correct.
We dated for 2 years and he broke up with me because I have trust issues and put a lot of stress on the relationship, but he keeps telling me he just needs time to figure himself out and figure out if we’re meant to be because he’s not sure anymore. All I wanna do is just say the right thing to get him back. We struggled with addiction which caused a lot of fights but we got sober so I thought we could get through anything. I’m so heartbroken
What if both parties are not contacting each other for these same reasons. Endless game of chicken
I'm in the same place. Mexican standoff.
Yea me and my ex both decided together that we shouldn't contact each other for a while just to give each other space from the situation ... does no contact work the same then?😅🤞🏻
Hahaha
@@rebeccahilliard448 how to workout that situation if both had dealed.
@@tintinpenaredondo6531 oh it didnt work out but I'm seeing someone much better now so I'm happy, the universe works in weird ways
He cant miss you if he is sleeping with someone else.😆 but thanks for the advice 🤗
Love this !! Thanks
+2349056214156⏯⏯⏯ Hello it's works I can't believe am with my love again after so many years of break-up.
👆👆👆Wh'stapp him.
im here to get strength and support :) thanks Sab
What if you're married but separated (with children)? I am thinking that minimal contact is necessary - when contact happens, make it all about the kids...and that's it. Any advice?
So i did the no contact for a week but i got a few drinks n messed up by making a video tlking about the no contact and he saw it and wrote something about alot of women being heartbroken in this world. So the next day i deleted everything bcause i hated that i embarrassed myself by doing that bcoz of how he made me feel
If I was a man and broke up with my ex,
And finding out that my ex still wanted me back but she didn't contact me at all... Then that would make me angry and frustrated too.
My ex and I dated officially for 4mos, had a big fight (misunderstanding), then resumed. 1st girl after his divorce Feb 19. We're best friends, but he recently asked me what I wanted- said relationship. He left and I texted the next day, but using no contact since. Grueling but I see now why it's necessary. He said that he couldn't see life without me in it, but not sure if he can trust his feelings. Trying to stay strong!
Love your videos ❤️👍🏻
I am doing no contact I am strong it does hurt somewhat. I know he missing me already he unfollow me on sm. I dont want him to hurt 💔💔ethier. I am working on myself forever and more now!. I pray if he is for me and I for him then we shall get back our relationship REALER than before! Better and beautiful! No one will get inbetween us!
I KNOW true LOVE OVERCOMES ALL OBSTACLES. LETS SEE WHAT HAPPENS. I SHALL UPDATE you all in a month 🙏🏽🤞🏽💗💎🐝🌄🐝💎💗🙏🏽🎨🖼
How did it go?
Your videos are really interesting and informal
Question: when you have been seeing someone for 9 months and he questions if you love him is that a red flag
"if u like my sweater"🤣
Love this
My boyfriend and had been together 5 months, no arguments, we got along great. We had known each other for 20 years before we ever dated... three weeks before the breakup he looked at me and said “So we are going to take a run at this ?”. Then 3 weeks later he just stopped talking to me, after a day and a half of him not contacting me, i texted him asking if he was dead in a ditch.. he replied i’m still alive.. then he came over that thursday night and told he stopped himself from saying “i love you” for the 1st time on the previous monday, and he was sorry but he no longer had feelings for me? i’ve been in no contact for 10 days and he hadn’t tried to contact me once? how do feelings of love disappear overnight?
That was an obsession, not love.
He lied
No contact rule blew up in my face I tried it and stood my ground but he married some woman he barely knew 2 months later and dropped off the face of the Earth 🙄
It's meant for you though doesn't mean it was for nothing
@@Moonshine668 I don't understand how?
@@amyring3865 The purpose of it is first and foremost for you to change and develop independently , to live your life so that you are not relying on that person to decide for you your own worth or happiness achieve this and regardless of whatever happened to him you still rose above his decisions and made the best of them in order for them to work in your favour meaning yes he done you a favour because you can be a better person without him and if you don't know that then you are not at that stage of realisation yet
He had been seeing her all along..he did you a favor. Chin up dear
Amy Ring just wait.it will put him in chaos,bcz rebound doesn't last long. If she was already there while he was dating you thn you have to move on..
I’m ready! 🙂
I'm having one now and it helped a lot 🙏🏾 thank you Sabrina