I appreciate your content and your honest discussions. Maturity is gained by facing life’s trials not by pretending they aren’t there. Keep up the good work
17:14 "The best thing to do is talk about how "poor" you are." Is a very good advice! We all have problems, so maybe focusing on those as a conversation rather than boasting on what you have accumulated. I am sure you have seen how Expat are NOT to solve peoples problems but approached by many as a savior. Thank you for what you do!!!
Hello Wilma and Greg, Great video. Just wanted to say you are from a different generation and thinking. Wisdom is from Experience. You both really care and love each other. Keep up the Good Work. You are the 1% of Good in this World. 😊
Hello Greg and Wilma, Been married to my Beautiful Filipina for 17 years, living in Indiana. We recently purchased land in Cebu. We enjoy you content of house building, planning to build in about 5 years. Enjoy seeing info on how houses are build in the Philippines. Planning to be my own General contractor for our house build. also enjoy your insight of living in the PI, Thank you Gene @ Rose
You are absolutely correct. Be kind, but don't let people in too quickly, in the end of the day, after enough time passes, people who deserve to be acknowledged real friends will be apparent based on their words and deeds. Continued success and good health! Love the Iron Dome comparison!
Hi Wilma & Greg. There is jealousy indeed, but also envy. Enjoy your life and keep on looking for the action of the people, not only their words. Wish you guys a belated Merry Xmas and a happy New Year!
Much appreciated video 👍 I also very much appreciated your support for Mark, Jen & Rogan. Very sensible video you did with Jen on Marks channel. Would you do a video on how and what to prepare in case of (fatal) emergencies like Mark had? Thanks 🙏🏽 and have a nice weekend!
Thanks appreciate the comment. I won't do a video on my friends passing. I may look to do a video about Healthcare, hospitals here and what paperwork/up front money needed.
@ yes that’s what I meant. I’m not interested in further details about Mark’s passing. But you mentioned in that video he was very well prepared and i think lessons learned from that experience may be valuable information
Your channel is refreshing compared to the other PH channels. Your main goal from what I can tell is not to make money off your vids (nothing against making money on YT). It's more like a hobby that makes it refreshing.
Greg, I suggest that 98 % of us think you did not miss the mark whatsoever! 😂😂😂. It was pointed, succinct, and very sage advice. After almost 12 years in Costa Rica, we found here very similar traits that you mentioned. Likely any country with xpats will experience this. Now, with plans 2025 to move there, I will keep my guard up there as painfully as I learned here.😊😊😊😊 i am not surprised Wilma and you marching to your own drum at get togethers! Well done. Cheers, Tony
@buildingthephilippines - Only very few people (youtubers) who I would deliberately look for to attempt to meet when I arrive in the Philippines. You are both so much like we are, I guess what's coming in your comments most of the time. My Filipina has no experience in the first world living, but so much like Wilma, which makes me grin ear to ear. I so enjoy Wilma. I am sure Wilma keeps you on your toes.
Well said. Apart from my partner I have one true friend I can trust with anything. Unfortunately I find that many Filipinos attach themselves to my Filipina partner in the hope of deriving some benefit from the relationship.
You guys are not so lucky as you are smart. You have created your own luck by your commitment to THE RELATIONSHIP that matters most. My wife and I are Blessed because of our commitment to our faith as well as one another.
Sorry to hear about finding a good friend, but don't give up.being careful is very smart. It's hard to find a good, loving, and faithful friend that you can trust!
I just watched. This episode, almost all of your advises are on point. I’m a Filipina myself here in USA, and that applies even here. Don’t Spill all to people even though you have been seen them many many times. Some people are just being nosy but there they want toI get you spend for them. I 100 percent agree. With your opinions.Especially there,most people are just after your $$ if you have it. 👌👌👌👌
That’s funny I would have never known about Wilma and her job she is quite all the time I’m planning on retiring there in June and I was a owner operator for 30 years here in the USA so it’s funny to hear stuff like can score 😃
@jimmykeller6588 Yes, the dreaded CSA score. Don't want to end up in conditional status. She was a Smyth system trainer as well. She had quite the career.
Hey Jimmy and Wilma I'm a retired OO as well - been married 30 years with my filipina Great advice about keeping cards close to your chest - don't brag Hauled show and specialized freight
Greg; I agree being genuine seems to be lost. I believe since covid it's worse. My wife & don't have time for jealousy or chezmiz. We are still planning to go to Iloilo in Jan 2026. We're not sure if we will build a house or not, my dream is to build a home there, The costs have gone up so much there. I will check it out in 2026 & then make our decision, we hope our budget will be adequate. Martin from Vancouver BC, Canada
I have been a over the road driver for the past 20 years. Owner-Operator for the past 7. I'm going to guess Wilma worked for Walmart? I dedicate myself and truck to Walmart occasionally. My Leyte girl stays with me on the road and loves it.
My wife and I are the same, we do everything together. Also, you should do a video reading mean comments. They’re usually funny because they’re so ridiculous.
The fruit picture to the left of the oven extractor is out of level, or the kitchen cupboards are out of level 🤣On a serious note, thanks for the advice, and your house build series was 100%, great work
Hi Greg and Wilma we are in the process of finding a place to stay and start driving your way Tuesday. What’s your opinion of the beech resort. If you have any.
Nice Video! I would also add I never, ever tell my girlfriends what is best for them and/or try to give unsolicited advice about (fill in the blank) "You’re in no position to lecture the public about anything..." - Ricky Gervais (2020 Golden Globes)
I must be doing something wrong? I haven't made many friends, since moving here, 1 year ago (subject of next video). I have a few good acquaintances in Negros Oriental (you know the other 2), and I'm hoping that over the next year, or so, those will be upgraded? The majority of the people I associate with are family members, and a few from Church. Even most of the "friendly" people are still just acquaintances, though. Maybe my defenses are up too much? 🤔 Love the truthful videos you're putting out, lately 👍 I hope you and Wilma have a happy transition into 2025 💥🇵🇭🌴
Sorry to say, but this video does come off as being a bit of a gossipy, high school mentality. Live your life and never mind what other people think and say about you. My opinion only. Wish you both the very best in 2025. 😊
Your opinion, I appreciate the comment. My goal with this video was to let future retirees to the Philippines be aware of what (more than likely) will happen to them. I guess I missed the mark.
I would say explaining gossip can sound like gossip. But try to understand the true meaning of the topic and the heart of the person sharing information. It can be a reality living in the Philippines or any country. Better to hear the possibilities than to be blindsided.
Yes Sir, I have iron curtain, just like Israel, but it’s people. You are 100% on Track, another reason I always tell people do not sell out of the USA because you never know of China we could be on a plane next week heading to the states if shit hits the fan will be the first ones killed, We have to Exit, Thats just fact, We can fund our community safety from the US, But we cant do shit if we are dead! Happy to see this Video, God Is Great, Remember that, When I came here a Texan told me the only to worry about is other foreigners, In my 4 years everyone I met has failed lol, I font trust only 4 here, wife, nephew, niece, and one sister-in-law, and that is it, I have two full time employees growing my trust, But not yet, lol God Bless
As in everything else, trust but verify. There are too many users and manipulators in this world. Wilma probably laughed at the joke because she is more fluent in English than the vast majority of Filipinas. As far as hateful and disrespectful comments here, an interaction is an interaction as far as RUclips is concerned. It still boosts your content. That should make it even easier to smile and brush it off.
Gossip is unfortunately everywhere some places are worse than other places. In fact it’s one of God’s advice not to do in order to be a righteous person.Proverbs 16:28: "Remember someone who gossips to you will gossip about you, and gossip separates friendships" Proverbs 20:19: "Do not associate with a gossip" Leviticus 19:16: "You shall not go around as a gossip among your people, and you are not to act against the life of your neighbor [with slander or false testimony]" Proverbs 26:20-22: "Without wood a fire goes out; without a gossip a quarrel dies down" 🌺
@@buildingthephilippines the comment is not aimed at you its just to say that people giveaway far more information about themselves than they intend to .
Like always, I enjoy your content and your perspective on life. As my one ACTUAL friend always says: “Birds of a feather flock together.” As we mix in an open society we come in contact with many different lifestyles and philosophy’s. True friendships are rare occurrences that need to be cared for and cherished. On the same note distancing yourself from those with ulterior motives or incongruent philosophies is better for all involved. The good news is that since RUclips is an open forum it provides for the “Planting of seeds “ as I think of it. The people who you probably wouldn’t associate with are given the opportunity to learn from your experiences and your example. How people react is on them and not on you. Keep up the good work. My thought is that the inappropriate reactions you receive are indicative of guilt and jealousy. The CRAB mentality. It could be the first indication of future acceptance and growth
I appreciate your content and your honest discussions. Maturity is gained by facing life’s trials not by pretending they aren’t there. Keep up the good work
Very true, there's plenty of people who want to see you fail. We need to see over them, not at them.
17:14 "The best thing to do is talk about how "poor" you are." Is a very good advice! We all have problems, so maybe focusing on those as a conversation rather than boasting on what you have accumulated.
I am sure you have seen how Expat are NOT to solve peoples problems but approached by many as a savior.
Thank you for what you do!!!
Well said, appreciate the comment.
Hello Wilma and Greg, Great video. Just wanted to say you are from a different generation and thinking. Wisdom is from Experience. You both really care and love each other. Keep up the Good Work. You are the 1% of Good in this World. 😊
Thank you for the comment, appreciate it.
Awesome channel. Classy... Refined...
Confident...
Organized
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A P P E A L I N G !
🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
@jameswilson1522 Thanks James, thanks for watching.
Hello Greg and Wilma, Been married to my Beautiful Filipina for 17 years, living in Indiana. We recently purchased land in Cebu. We enjoy you content of house building, planning to build in about 5 years. Enjoy seeing info on how houses are build in the Philippines. Planning to be my own General contractor for our house build. also enjoy your insight of living in the PI, Thank you Gene @ Rose
Congrats guys on your future retirement to the Philippines.
You are absolutely correct. Be kind, but don't let people in too quickly, in the end of the day, after enough time passes, people who deserve to be acknowledged real friends will be apparent based on their words and deeds. Continued success and good health! Love the Iron Dome comparison!
@BarakTheWonderer LOL, the iron dome is a new term used more often lately. More fancy than bubble or force field. Appreciate the comment.
Happy Holidays to both of you. Your best video this year! Many more to come.
Thank you, appreciate that.
Great advice. Happy holidays
Thank you, Happy New Year.
Hi Wilma & Greg. There is jealousy indeed, but also envy. Enjoy your life and keep on looking for the action of the people, not only their words. Wish you guys a belated Merry Xmas and a happy New Year!
Yes, Merry Christmas and Happy New Year to you. Eyes and ears at the back of your head. Thanks for commenting.
You have a great Channel. Great Info.
@A-RHINO-IN-THE-PHILIPPINES Thank you, appreciate that.
Much appreciated video 👍 I also very much appreciated your support for Mark, Jen & Rogan. Very sensible video you did with Jen on Marks channel. Would you do a video on how and what to prepare in case of (fatal) emergencies like Mark had? Thanks 🙏🏽 and have a nice weekend!
Thanks appreciate the comment. I won't do a video on my friends passing. I may look to do a video about Healthcare, hospitals here and what paperwork/up front money needed.
@ yes that’s what I meant. I’m not interested in further details about Mark’s passing. But you mentioned in that video he was very well prepared and i think lessons learned from that experience may be valuable information
@sumostorms Yes, will look to put something together.
Your channel is refreshing compared to the other PH channels. Your main goal from what I can tell is not to make money off your vids (nothing against making money on YT). It's more like a hobby that makes it refreshing.
100% a hobby. Appreciate the comment.
Merry Christmas and Happy New Tears you two from Canada
Happy New Year, thanks for watching.
Everything you said is true!! If someone is asking me personal questions, I will tell him, what newspaper do you work?? And he will stop asking.
That's a good approach, thanks for commenting.
Greg,
I suggest that 98 % of us think you did not miss the mark whatsoever! 😂😂😂. It was pointed, succinct, and very sage advice. After almost 12 years in Costa Rica, we found here very similar traits that you mentioned. Likely any country with xpats will experience this. Now, with plans 2025 to move there, I will keep my guard up there as painfully as I learned here.😊😊😊😊 i am not surprised Wilma and you marching to your own drum at get togethers! Well done.
Cheers,
Tony
There's always people who think differently than others. It is what makes the world go around. Appreciate the call out. Does that make us 98%ers ?
@buildingthephilippines - Only very few people (youtubers) who I would deliberately look for to attempt to meet when I arrive in the Philippines. You are both so much like we are, I guess what's coming in your comments most of the time. My Filipina has no experience in the first world living, but so much like Wilma, which makes me grin ear to ear. I so enjoy Wilma. I am sure Wilma keeps you on your toes.
More than you know. She's a straight talker in real life, quiet on you tube.
Well said.
Apart from my partner I have one true friend I can trust with anything. Unfortunately I find that many Filipinos attach themselves to my Filipina partner in the hope of deriving some benefit from the relationship.
Yes, that is sometimes true as well. Isn't it all a shame. Retirement is supposed to be happy/relaxing times.
Hi guys, Yes be true to yourself! Happy New Year neighbor!🤠
@joedavis2066 Happy New Year to you, neighbor !!!
Wilma and Greg, the more I learn about you, the more I am happy and respect the both of you.
Thanks Steve, appreciate that.
You two and California Expat have been makin it real. 😊
Thank you, appreciate the comment.
You guys are not so lucky as you are smart. You have created your own luck by your commitment to THE RELATIONSHIP that matters most. My wife and I are Blessed because of our commitment to our faith as well as one another.
I will take either, lucky or smart. I just know I hit the jackpot, lottery and a grand slam home run with Wilma. The rest who gives a - - - -.
Good video!
Thanks
Sorry to hear about finding a good friend, but don't give up.being careful is very smart. It's hard to find a good, loving, and faithful friend that you can trust!
Thanks, Cristina, for commenting.
@cristinateller9107 Best friend is the best enemy, they know all your secrets.
I just watched. This episode, almost all of your advises are on point. I’m a Filipina myself here in USA, and that applies even here. Don’t Spill all to people even though you have been seen them many many times. Some people are just being nosy but there they want toI get you spend for them. I 100 percent agree. With your opinions.Especially there,most people are just after your $$ if you have it. 👌👌👌👌
Thanks for the comment, appreciate it.
That’s funny I would have never known about Wilma and her job she is quite all the time I’m planning on retiring there in June and I was a owner operator for 30 years here in the USA so it’s funny to hear stuff like can score 😃
@jimmykeller6588 Yes, the dreaded CSA score. Don't want to end up in conditional status. She was a Smyth system trainer as well. She had quite the career.
Hey Jimmy and Wilma
I'm a retired OO as well - been married 30 years with my filipina
Great advice about keeping cards close to your chest - don't brag
Hauled show and specialized freight
@@jonpritz9838 Thanks for watching
Greg; I agree being genuine seems to be lost. I believe since covid it's worse. My wife & don't have time for jealousy or chezmiz. We are still planning to go to Iloilo in Jan 2026. We're not sure if we will build a house or not, my dream is to build a home there, The costs have gone up so much there. I will check it out in 2026 & then make our decision, we hope our budget will be adequate. Martin from Vancouver BC, Canada
Thanks, Martin, for the comment.
That’s been on my mind too. I also have been thinking of making a similar video.
You definitely should.
I have been a over the road driver for the past 20 years. Owner-Operator for the past 7. I'm going to guess Wilma worked for Walmart? I dedicate myself and truck to Walmart occasionally. My Leyte girl stays with me on the road and loves it.
She worked for JB Hunt. Happy New Year.
My wife and I are the same, we do everything together. Also, you should do a video reading mean comments. They’re usually funny because they’re so ridiculous.
I like that idea, some of them really makes us laugh. Appreciate the comment.
Everything you said is 100% true.
Thank you, appreciate the comment.
The fruit picture to the left of the oven extractor is out of level, or the kitchen cupboards are out of level 🤣On a serious note, thanks for the advice, and your house build series was 100%, great work
The cross breeze throughout the home moves that picture daily. I straighten it all the time. Thanks for watching.
Hi Greg and Wilma we are in the process of finding a place to stay and start driving your way Tuesday. What’s your opinion of the beech resort. If you have any.
Atlantis or Pura Vida are the best choices. A bit on the high side for cost though.
@@buildingthephilippinesdo you have time to meet up.
@@chrismogren8336 Send PM to Facebook messager to buildingthephilippines
Nice Video! I would also add I never, ever tell my girlfriends what is best for them and/or try to give unsolicited advice about (fill in the blank) "You’re in no position to lecture the public about anything..." - Ricky Gervais (2020 Golden Globes)
Thanks, Ricky is a great comedian. He tells it the way it is.
I must be doing something wrong? I haven't made many friends, since moving here, 1 year ago (subject of next video). I have a few good acquaintances in Negros Oriental (you know the other 2), and I'm hoping that over the next year, or so, those will be upgraded?
The majority of the people I associate with are family members, and a few from Church. Even most of the "friendly" people are still just acquaintances, though.
Maybe my defenses are up too much? 🤔
Love the truthful videos you're putting out, lately 👍
I hope you and Wilma have a happy transition into 2025 💥🇵🇭🌴
Thanks Jerry, Happy New Year.
Sorry to say, but this video does come off as being a bit of a gossipy, high school mentality. Live your life and never mind what other people think and say about you. My opinion only. Wish you both the very best in 2025. 😊
Your opinion, I appreciate the comment. My goal with this video was to let future retirees to the Philippines be aware of what (more than likely) will happen to them. I guess I missed the mark.
No, you didn’t miss the mark. People see what they want to see. It was educational, not gossipy.
@LoganJoannesRollerCoaster appreciate that
I would say explaining gossip can sound like gossip. But try to understand the true meaning of the topic and the heart of the person sharing information. It can be a reality living in the Philippines or any country. Better to hear the possibilities than to be blindsided.
It’s an issue that needs to be addressed around here. They never mentioned anyone, just a general issue that needs to be addressed and resolved.
Also , I was very Surprised About Wilma, She must have been one Tuff cookie , dealing with OTR Guys and Gals
She was really good at her job. She got bigger bonuses than I did.
Yes Sir, I have iron curtain, just like Israel, but it’s people. You are 100% on Track, another reason I always tell people do not sell out of the USA because you never know of China we could be on a plane next week heading to the states if shit hits the fan will be the first ones killed, We have to Exit,
Thats just fact, We can fund our community safety from the US, But we cant do shit if we are dead!
Happy to see this Video,
God Is Great, Remember that, When I came here a Texan told me the only to worry about is other foreigners, In my 4 years everyone I met has failed lol, I font trust only 4 here, wife, nephew, niece, and one sister-in-law, and that is it, I have two full time employees growing my trust, But not yet, lol
God Bless
Thanks for watching and commenting. Appreciate it.
As in everything else, trust but verify. There are too many users and manipulators in this world.
Wilma probably laughed at the joke because she is more fluent in English than the vast majority of Filipinas.
As far as hateful and disrespectful comments here, an interaction is an interaction as far as RUclips is concerned. It still boosts your content. That should make it even easier to smile and brush it off.
I say here, don't trust and verify twice. Thick skin us needed to be successful. Especially on RUclips. Appreciate the comment.
Gossip is unfortunately everywhere some places are worse than other places. In fact it’s one of God’s advice not to do in order to be a righteous person.Proverbs 16:28: "Remember someone who gossips to you will gossip about you, and gossip separates friendships"
Proverbs 20:19: "Do not associate with a gossip"
Leviticus 19:16: "You shall not go around as a gossip among your people, and you are not to act against the life of your neighbor [with slander or false testimony]"
Proverbs 26:20-22: "Without wood a fire goes out; without a gossip a quarrel dies down" 🌺
It's part of society unfortunately. Thanks for watching.
Greg you sound just a little permeable not soft skin. That s not always a bad thing. Thx guys
We are pretty good about not letting anyone or anything influence us. Need to stay under that dome. Appreciate the comment.
Just be yourself guys and happy 2025
Bingo, Happy New Year.
its a very underestimated skill being able to keep your mouth shut .
I could take this comment two ways. Could you clarify for me?
@@buildingthephilippines the comment is not aimed at you its just to say that people giveaway far more information about themselves than they intend to .
Gotcha, just wanted to make sure. For some reason many people like to share way too much information. That's never good. Thanks for commenting.
Like always, I enjoy your content and your perspective on life. As my one ACTUAL friend always says:
“Birds of a feather flock together.”
As we mix in an open society we come in contact with many different lifestyles and philosophy’s. True friendships are rare occurrences that need to be cared for and cherished. On the same note distancing yourself from those with ulterior motives or incongruent philosophies is better for all involved. The good news is that since RUclips is an open forum it provides for the
“Planting of seeds “ as I think of it. The people who you probably wouldn’t associate with are given the opportunity to learn from your experiences and your example. How people react is on them and not on you. Keep up the good work. My thought is that the inappropriate reactions you receive are indicative of guilt and jealousy. The CRAB mentality. It could be the first indication of future acceptance and growth
@@Theravadadann A well thought out response. Thank you.
Let the people talk about you behind your back while Jesus blesses you in front of them. 😇
Great way of looking at it.