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Girl the chills when you said you have to protect the parent & there is no protection for the child!!! Baby!!!!! Stop telling my business!!! 😂😂😂😂😂
My sister's father slapped my mom and my mom sliced him close to his temple. It was blood everywhere that me and my sibling cleaned up. Both my mom and sister's dad went to jail that night. They only stayed for a weekend. But me and my siblings had to clean the blood. That was the first and last time he ever put his hands on her. It was traumatizing. I guess that's why whenever I felt threaten by a man I pulled a knife out, including on my brother. I had anger problems bad and resulted to violence. Glad I grew out of that but I was raised in Brooklyn, NY where you kind of got to be tough.
Wow....glad you did too. Hugs❤ to your experience.
Kudos to your mom
😢😢 I'm sorry you went thru that. I also grew up in Brooklyn, NYC and you definitely have to grow up tough. I hope you're healing now😊
Too many of us have grown up in toxic households!! My husband and I are determined to break the cycle
Y’all can….We broke ours but it took years of counseling, meditation & prayer but my kids are really our ancestors dream!
@@Dionne3116 thanksss I appreciate it! Therapy is def a great first step…it’s done wonders for my husband and I together and separately
Bondy you MUST read her first book "I'Tina" she goes deeper into her early life and her days with Ike that the movie never talked about. Definitely a page turner.
Came back to say RIP Tina Turner 💕💕💕💕💕
Yes RIP to the legend Tina Turner ❤️❤️❤️❤️
That "River Deep Mountain High" is still a banger! 😄
1:03:47. “You betray me”. Moments like that in my childhood is why I don’t trust a soul to this this day. If my Mother; who I love more than I love myself can betray me; why should I trust anyone else? Therapy has been helping me, but it’s a tough hurdle to get over.
I empathize with you and send you hugs💚 That trust factor being extinguished based on a mother's betrayal....emotional and logical at the same time, in my opinion.
You saw the worst, you don't need to open yourself up to possibly see it again unless you're a masochist.
Please keep protecting your energy and peace and continue to heal as needed.
I grew up in an abusive household. I too have a memory that I'm not sure is a memory or my fears of violence as a child manifested into a thought. I have no idea. I also had to heal myself from the anger that I had growing up. I took it out on my niece because everybody in the house took it out on me. I'm so glad I'm better now. I made things right with my niece. And im a better person. It was never my fault. But I KEEP HIGH boundaries with my family. That's what they deserve
We all need a Jackee!!! ❤❤❤❤❤
The "rock me baby" is my favorite part of the movie! I'm like damn now I want the whole performance. Angela did that! ❤ Oscar worthy!
Bondy, thank you so much for doing this 5mths ago & giving Mama & Queen Tina Turner her flowers. I think it would've deeply touched by the empathy & love you showed... especially since so many in our era have thought it funny to put callous words about her in their rhymes. May she have a joyful entrance into the realm of the Ancestors & The Divine. May her peace & joy be eternal. May she know how much we love her worldwide. Long Live Tina Turner's impact.❤❤❤🙌🏿🙌🏿🙌🏿🎶🎶🎶
P.S. I hope to God today's NOT your birthday🤗 but that whichever day it is you have the fabulous time you deserve 🎂💙💙💙🤗
Lawrence played that part!!!
Him and Angela played their parts in the movie.
They should of both got oscars especially angela basset
1:05:12 First of all Bondy, just thank you for sharing your gift with the world ❤🙏🏽 How you broke down how the anger and abuse was then taken out on you is what is happening in so many of our homes and is normalized in our culture.
Bondy, I had to come back and watch this. Tina turned has passed May 24, 2023 😢❤
River Deep Mountain High causes a reaction in me that literally brings me to tears
I too grew up watching this a lot. I watched 2 weeks ago and I was so triggered. I have an aunt I watched go through this and is actually still going through it verbally. 💔
Bondy this was so brave of you to share this with us. I am happy that you are doing the work that you need and sharing it with us because little do you know, through your healing your helping to heal us. Sending you love and light 🫶🏽
I’m just now seeing this NTWG , oddly enough a few days after the passing of Ms. Turner. Great breakdown per usual, but most importantly thanks for your transparency and vulnerability. I sincerely hope this review/ analysis helps to bring healing and therapeutic release. 🙏🏽
This NTWG is everything!!!
The switch up into shake a tail feather!!! Baby i was ready!!! Singing Ike’s guitar sounds!!! 😂😂😂😂
The head drop after the smack in the head!!! I just feel so seen!!! Bondy is so silly!!! That’s that you done fucked up now pop! 😳😂😂😂
Bondy! This was THE BEST NTWG ever!
I caught the playback, sorry you had a rough childhood. I had the same upbringing as you., it was my mom and stepdad tho cause my dad was always in and out of jail. I remember every fight, the cussing, us kids jumping in the fight 😂, the calling the police,etc. my mom stabbed him and even shot at him before 🤦🏽♀️. It was definitely traumatizing, we would leave and then return a few days later like nothing ever happened. I vowed to never have my children experience what I went through. I’ve tried talking to my mom about all of this and she swears it didn’t happen the way that I remember 🤷🏽♀️, I just leave it alone. I from New Orleans too and your Gemini sister (5/29) you know how our parents came up, they never want to address anything.
Just wanted you to know that you’re not alone and I commend you for sharing your experience with us ❤️. You just don’t know how much you encourage and inspire others, please don’t stop ❤️❤️
We love you 💙💙💙💙💙
Not we done went to therapy during NTWG!!
My fav part is in the beginning when her as a little girl does the “oh oh oh ooooh” adlibs
When you made mention of Anna Mae cooking them dinner due to not wanting to be abandoned I had to pause and self reflect because that resonated with me so much and it’s still something I’m in the process of trying to heal.
This is a movie I just can't watch in its full entirety. I watched it as a child and have never watched it again but I'm here for Bondy's review though.
Baby proud Mary will always make be a whole dancer!! A swimmer & all!!! 😂😂😂😂😂
OMG YOU HAVE NO IDEA IVE WAITED FOR YOU TO REVIEW THIS MOVIE! THIS IS MY FAV MOVIE OF ALL TIME. ANGELA AND LAURENCE WERE ROBBED OF OSCARS!,
I just wanted to hug Bondy through this video. Whew ❤
My mother and step-father was abusive towards me and my sisters. That is very very real in our community!!!
Thank you for your review! Your childhood makes sense. Listening to you throughout the years, I assumed you Father was a “dad of a certain era”, rather than physically abusive. I did not grow up in a violent household, so I did not understand. You speak with such respect and admiration for your Father that I assumed he just had, “his ways”, so I was always puzzled about your childhood.
Because he still was all of the good things and when people die that's what you hold on to until you have to heal from the trauma.
@@iamBondyBlue I had a very similar childhood. My mama is very similar to Tina's and sold me out ... Unfortunately, I've been stuck in the cycle in my own marriage. Healing from the trauma is so hard but I know it's worth it. We seem to have similar personalities and people don't understand how that trauma changes you until they've lived it. Here's to the beauty of life though! Joy & pain is a part of life. I choose to acknowledge the pain but focus on the positives. ✨ Please in Love & light, honey.
On this rainy Wednesday i think I’ll rewatch it with my Bondy Blue Adult eyes ! 🥂
Tears left all over the freeway driving home listening to this. Thank you for sharing your journey! My dad did the same thing ...aggressive discipline while telling me I love you the most and this hurts me more than you. That never sat right with my spirit....
Spider is the father of her oldest child. He played the saxophone. And there was a line earlier where she told Eileen that “saxophone players are sexy” and giggled.
I remember seeing the pool scene as a child with my mom!! & them children crying is always why I bonded with this movie!!!
Bondy….let me first say I’m sorry about what you had to endure and I hate that you didn’t have anyone. With that being said, you described in detail some very specific details about your experiences that I went through. Girl, I had to take a minute to pray and sit in my feelings. Thank you for the courage to share that with us. ❤
Bondy this is the first time I’ve heard you go into details about your childhood!! I swear we are twins!! & you are def inspiring those with how you understand & express yourself in reference to your childhood!!! ❤❤❤❤❤❤
WOW Bondy! I’m new to your platform and just seeing this video. The way that your relationship with your dad was and your parents relationship is almost a mirror to my own life. Thank you for sharing. As a kid, I often felt like no one in the world could understand what my life was like. My dad never directed anger toward me but he was an alcoholic and he and mom’s relationship was volatile when he was drinking. He died 11 years ago and I spent a lot of my childhood being angry at him and sort of punishing him for not getting the help that he needed. I felt like we made peace when he was ill before he passed. Again thank you so much for sharing and being relatable
You have to protect everybody but no one is protecting you. WOW I felt that a lot, that's deep.
This is Definitely your Best NTWG! Probably because I actually grew up when Ike and Tina were at their peak. But the movie was a real eye opener for me.
This me and my brother movie!!!! We will literally just call/text each other to say 🗣you must understand that thee touch of your hand makes my pulse react!!!! We LOVE this movie!!!!
So I watched Ike Turner's Unsung and the way his family and so called friends did not want to hold this man accountable for his unhealthy mental health and what he put Tina and people around him through really baffled me. Not to down play his song writing and producing skills but they know good and gotdam well Ike was unstable and the drugs didn't help. Btw this is making me wanna really watch it(my niece turned me against it for years LOL).
OMG i feel like your childhood mimic mine except the abuse went on. I remember I yelled for my stepfather to stop hitting my mom and jumped on his back. He turn his rage to me and my mom just stood there while i got beat. Afterwards, my mom would blame me for stuff she knew she would get beat for, so i can take the beating for her. SHe even participated. Man it took me years of counseling to have a successful relationship. I still struggle some but for the most part, I’m good. Some movies to this day, i can not watch certain movies,
Hugs💚
The people that go through the most turn out to be the ones who try to show others love the most. Atleast that’s my experience!
I didn’t realize I had daddy issues until my parents divorced & I was in my late twenties!!!
Bondy, I love being your background singer.
Thank you for your transparency. Sending you blessings and light.
Be the lead singer cause Bondy can't sing,fr fr...lmao..she tells a good story tho.
I want to cry 😢 when bondy speaks about betrayal
Bondy me and you both watched this movie a lot as a kid like I know the movie front to back just like you I even was singing w/ you every song🙌🏾🙌🏾🖤
Lord the sympathy for self!!! 😢
I was already grown watching this movie and those parts where Anna Maye was disturbing when I think back to it
Bondy I'm so sorry baby I really am. I know this pain all to well love. I always say the kids of the 80s and 90s we're forgotten about. No one gave the kids help or a listening ear. It was always like what happens in this house stay in this house you never knew what to feel. Thank God for therapy and growth and healing. I'm so happy your in therapy and you are healing and I pray for you and your healing, growth, and understanding. Love you Bondy💙❤️🙏
I appreciate your vulnerability. The only memory I had as a child was the day my dad punched my mom. When we left she married a man that didn't physically abuse her but she allowed him to physically abuse us while she physically , verbally and emotionally abused us. She gave him so much freedom and not listening to his own sisters and female cousins about him being abusive. I didn't speak about him touching me repeatedly until I was 24. He entered my life when I was 5. Counseling helps because I can talk about it now. For the longest I thought everything was just a bad dream
Geez, humans are vile. Please take these💚💚💚💚
I have never been jealous of anyone but when you said your parents took you to a TINA TURNER CONCERT OMG!!! Dreams
Friends learn to control your emotions!! It works wonders in the world!!! ❤❤❤❤❤
Thank you for sharing your story ❤
This is one of my favorite movies and you just made me realize that that movie connected so much to my childhood ,my mother was in a abusive relationship with my stepdad he was a good dad but once he started drinking he was another person no child should have to experience being woken up out your sleep on 3 different occasions to hide and run to your grandparents house because you think he’s going to kill you to only go back to the same crap again for 7 years . What hurts me the most was my brother said something to my dad sister about my mom getting beat on and my mom beat me for it because it was a secret so I truly understand how you felt.
The speed at which I clicked on this is!!! I can recite this movie beginning to end I have seen it that many times lol
That narcotic!!! 😂😂😂😂😂
I just want to say thank you Bondy for being so forthcoming
I appreciate you for sharing you with us❤ and I love how musical you are... 😊 that's what I want to sound like 🤣 now I'm over here background singing for you. Moves and all 🤣😂🤣😂
As a Gemini, I always see shit dually!! ♊️ gang
I caught the end of the live and I’m watching the playback now…girl you are so right about those old performances, I just turned to one in the middle of this and girl I’m out of breath with that performance!!! They went in!!!
I just saw Tina the musical it was amazing , I been listening to her songs ever since
Girl you have the same effect, i said imma watch this review so many time!!! For my favorites channels, y’all don’t know how much y’all perceptive are greatly enjoyed!!! This was def fun!!!❤❤❤❤❤
I was the youngest but I do know the oldest always deals with more or the worst
Why am I over here singing the background 😆 I’m an Ikette. This one of my favorite movies and can recite it word for word. I always tell my husband “I’m just trying to help Ike”.
Thank you for sharing your personal connection to the movie. Terrific job as usual.
Yes, Tina shoulders!!!
Hearing you review this movie gives me much more understanding of why you feel the way you do about men, when it comes to certain topics. Thank you for being open and transparent with us Bondy. This was so good!
Dear Bondy been a subscriber for years! I just want to say Thank You for sharing your story with us. The wild thing is as a culture I think we have mostly all experience similarities especially through trauma to the point it is in our dna and we are all learning to unlearn and to seek healing. Some one said all black love stories are struggle love and I kind of agree. We do trauma bond because how can we not, it is embedded in the culture, we just must learn to heal and not replicate it. Happy healing Bon Bon.
Still in the beginning but Bondy your backup singer and drummer is right here❤❤😂
Perfect timing!! I needed something to cheer me up!!! This is my favorite movie!!! ❤❤❤❤❤
Yo I overstand about trying to be a protector for a parent and was betrayed or felt that way. I also understand about a father's anger issues and abuse being looked at as discipline. Literally just started trying to deal with that.
I ALWAYS come back to this review ❤ Bondy you really did TF outta this one 👏🏾👏🏾
Hi Bondy, Thank you for the Excellent review and for sharing so much of yourself today. I've been watching you a couple years and I never knew this about your dad and your family because you always spoke so highly of him.
My aunt passed away today and I logged on to listen to You today because I knew you could take my mind off of the sadness while I worked. Thank you.
😘❤️
100 Percent Bondy! Kudos to you Sis!
You got me with this one… 😢😢 thank you for sharing your story with us. We love you Bondy
Wow, you are a beautiful, brave soul for sharing your story! I knew you would bring so much insight to this review and vocals (yasss Lord). Thank you for being you, presenting your authentic self and being vulnerable. I can relate to some of your experiences. So much wisdom!! 👏🏾
Yess I’m singing along with you
Baby that i just can’t walk out!!! Whew lord!! 😢
Bondy I’m at the part in the video where you are talking about the abuse you experienced, I am 63 years old, I’m in therapy, trying to heal from it all. It’s hard because my long term memory is strong, and it all constantly replays in my mind. Thank you, for all you do…I Love You So Much
I guess i love this movie because my momma loves it because she was also being abused & “didn’t know”…..
I love this movie … I watched Ike turners unsung years ago and it was mentioned that a lot of the violent scenes were severely dramatized for cinematic effect … the most terrible scene in the movie with the r*** Tina confirmed never happened in real life 😳… it broke my heart when his daughter stated “ my father wasn’t an angel , but he wasn’t the devil either “ … his musical legacy has been over shadowed by his terrible deeds … Tina is a strong beautiful woman and I’m glad she overcame her traumatic experiences …
Great breakdown Bondy!! I would love too see you do Disappearing Acts☺️
It’s so odd loving this movie the way I do, like this was someone’s life for real & I just watch it leisurely like it wasn’t traumatic asf for Tina.
Oooh Bondy when you talk about your mom betraying you when you needed her to protect you from your dad….maaan listen it took a long time to stop being angry at my mom. Mind you my dad is a preacher so it’s all biblical and it’s his way or the highway. But when they needed to vent about each other very inappropriately, I was the security blanket. Only this year did I find out my brothers experienced many of these things too. But as the only girl and oldest I always felt I received the brunt of everyone’s wrath and they wonder why I was so angry and volatile for so long, blaming me and calling me bipolar, as if I don’t have a psychology degree. When you mention the part about you being the youngest, I think about my youngest brother, and how angry of a person he is, I’m 8 years older and my brother right under me is 6 years older than my youngest. So when we went off to college it was just him, I often wonder what makes him so angry, and as close as we are he doesn’t divulge the source of his anger. Your reviews are more therapeutic than you know.
Background singer!! 🙋🏾♀️🙋🏾♀️🙋🏾♀️🙋🏾♀️🙋🏾♀️
Bondy I can tell therapy is really working for you because a few years back you would have never been able to be this candid. I love that for you, nn
Ike was a bad man & that put a dumper on his light! Because we def beyond talented!!!
Hi Bondy, a big virtual hug to you and thank you for sharing your review on this movie with a perspective like nobody else!! My mom abandoned me 15 years after I was born, and my dad died when I was only 5 years old. I was raised by my late grandmother. But she was overly protective and abusive throughout my childhood. But I was still there for her and my father figure, whom she married in late 1988. After all of them had passed away, I was left with nothing! I have been traumatized ever since. I tried religious beliefs i did not agree with. But by 2014, after coming out as a gay man, I was in my darkest time ever because more of my blood abandoned me also while other family treated me like shit. Tina Turner will be an inspiration to me towards my continuing survival. Some trauma I have overcome while others I am at peace with. I personally think that what Ike Turner got away with back then, and what R. Kelly almost got away with decades later, today's musicians would never get away with it now!!
You really got me thinking. I haven’t talked to my mama in months because she married a man who abused the whole house, I haven’t been able to stomach her since. She has more grace for him then her own kids and it’s sad. So for my own sake I stay away from her and my stepdad and my biological father well he’s absent so I don’t deal with him either
I love Bondy for this. Laughing at myself singing along and reciting the entire movie with her. I can reenact this entire film myself. Classic
Wow! I felt all of this when you shared your story. My Dad used to beat my mom in the 90s and my grandmother would always tell me to call the police. These childhood traumas still live with me today.
Hugs💚
This was your best installment of NTWG!❤️ Thank you for your vulnerability, you did your thang on this one💙❤️💙❤️
Bondy....you have a BEAUTIFUL VOICE! You STUNNED ME when you started singing at 18:02. Your voice is captivating 💕💕💕💯
When I tell you that I sung the entire 2 hours. This is hands down my favorite video from this series. It was so good. I know it was hard to go into detail about your past, but I so appreciate you sharing it.
This one hit home for me...I can relate to everything you shared about your childhood. I grew up in a toxic abusive household and im still trying to heal from it it til this day. Ive had one round of therapy and going back for more. Thank you for your transparency.
I love sum singing Bondy! Loved it! Wish I could’ve caught the live❤️
Another great walk through! You have a talent to analyze things that gets me so enamored!
Bondy thank You sharing. I too had to endure my mother’s abuse by someone who wasn’t my father and not only that, my sister and I had to spend several nights including school nights helping defend my mom. This also lead to my abusive relationship that I recently got out of for 6 years. I should’ve stayed gone after having a child with someone else but I went back and things got worse to the point where I’m calling the police every month because of his anger toward me and some of it probably is because my daughter isn’t his and after we broke up the first time I moved on and got pregnant by my daughter’s dad months after the break up. Her father is someone I knew since college and was a fling but I accepted it and moved on and back with my ex. The problem lies when we fight and argue my daughter sometimes was in the room and that is very toxic. My daughter is now 5 years old and I had to make the best decision for her because she’s at an age where she is talking and going back and discussing these things with her dad and I can’t and won’t have that. Abusive relationships are very Toxic and I encourage anyone who’s in one to get help and leave if you can to protect yourself and your children if you have them. ❤
Thank you, Bondy…I dont have that particular memory as a child, but I’m in an emotionally abusive marriage now, and I feel like my daughter feels like she has to “protect” me when I’m sad, and I hate that she feels like she has to take that on at 11 years old…never really thought about it until watching your video…❤