Got Ghosted, But Now He Wants Back In? What Should You Do?
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- Опубликовано: 16 сен 2024
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Don't ask a ghoster anything unless you just want to hear a bunch of lies. Let him stay ghost.
@Sweetie Bellie you gave him another 3 mths.?
Bunny Drop Agreed 100%!
Block him on all social media and your phone. When the ghost tries to come back, let him find out what a ghost looks like. You are too good for his disrespectful ass.
southern belle AMEEENNN
Hallelujah
Totally agree. Let him feel what it feels like to be used and abused. My advise from experience don’t allow him back in. Hell do it again happened to me. He already showed you he didn’t care if he lost you. Now he comes back cause he want to keep playing. Tell him to play with his mama.
I do the same
I meet a guy off pof dateing site we had talk alot we got known each other for 4 weeks we got along fine he call me all time we talk he text me too . he ask to go on date with him we plan meet. Up for lunch date for sat. We talked the date on Friday he has not talk to me today we going to date i have not got call or text from him i called and text him on Friday to ask if we still dateing on sat he dident reply my calls Santa voicemail. I saw him online on pof. I send text on pof he dident reply he got off pof date chat.i dident Waite for him talk to me i gone to Beach my sister today today i was going go on date the guy ghost me and he's acting very shady I haven't heard from him I know when he gets back at me he's going to have some lies and excuses but I'm going to tell him off and then I block him and keep moving on
No...you move on..being alone is better than tolerating his disregard... A man who tells you he was just too busy...he lies...he will always make time for women he wants to talk to.
True
💯 percent right!!
You just made a 17 year girl respect herself thank you
doll dish you just made my whole day ❤️.. Keep Shining, sis!
Thank you ! you too
If you don't respect yourself, then nobody else will.
I’m proud of you babe ❤️
Just move on invest in some one who values your time, while you trying to uncover all of his mess,uncover in some one new
Why deal with a ghoster when you can kick him to the curb and make space for a man in your life that wont ghost you and will be 100% about you? Consistency is attractive.
I was ghosted recently and then he popped back up out of the blue. When he ghosted me IT KILLED ME EMOTIONALLY.... I went to counselor to figure out what was happening..... I figured out that I was upset because I was looking to that person for validation (make me feel good about myself) so while he was away and a lot of counseling I got stronger......... When he popped back up.... I was nice but I had no expectations and I didn’t respond with desperation. I was polite......The truth is we can’t know why another person acts the way the do, but we can only control ourselves. I am much stronger now so when he goes in and out (he has since ghosted me again) i am moving on......
Why would you even waste your time ?! If a guy likes you he will be around, if he ain’t, he’s wasting your time.
Say no and keep it moving
Never try to understand disrespect,just move on.Men that ghost are trash.👍🏾
Thank you. There are so many men on RUclips making videos blaming women for expecting too much too soon. Naw he's a POS.
Bro I'm in a better relationship now
The guy who ghosted me is now suffering seeing how happy I am and wants me back after realising he will never get someone better than me
That's what his ass gets
Autumn Smith whenever we start to focus on ourselves they tend to see they lost out. Stay beautiful girl and don’t settle for someone who doesn’t prioritize you.
I feel so used, I helped this guy out so much when he was down on his luck and lost his job.
Then one day we got into an argument and he just disappeared.
It has been 4 months and I still have not heard from him.
I just don't understand how you can up and leave someone who was good to you 😢
I'm so sorry to hear that. He doesn't sound like someone you want to invest your time in anyway. Be glad he did you a favor.
Never become a man floor rug. Fuck em. Let him bring himself up. You maintain your own. Men don't respect the ride or die chic.
what was the argument
Men love bitches. Treat him like shit he’ll be begging to love you
The same happened to me.
Let his ass go✌
Ghosters are selfish and immature,they show you by leaving without an explanation, Letum leave but never let them back Life is too short for the B S...
You got to be a fool to let anyone back in after the first time you got ghosted. They only looking for a booty call and or are desperate. If you looking for booty, then go for it. If you looking for something real, you aint gonna find it in a ghost. Final answer. Then end.
There was this guy we would video chat then he ghosted for three months. Ends up he said he had lost his phone. I'm deciding I'm going to ghost him and break his heart.
If beyonce can get cheated on anybody can..
Emotional unavailable beings do this ghosting a lot And when they are hurt they don’t talk at all too
Exactly. Very immature silent treatment from ppl with low self esteem 💯
I sort of ghosted a girl recently (in my mind i wasn't ghosting, i just didn't answer a single textmessage)... apparently i really hurt her but it wasn't my intention. I'm just an introverted guy and can go long stretches of time without communicating. Also I didn't really see her as a romantic prospect but as an acquaintance.
Point being: sometimes the other person is oblivious to your high level of investment. I'm not an egocentric guy, had she asked for my help with anything I would have gladly done so since I think highly of this person.
Let the dead bury the dead.
Sorry shanay, you playing yourself. You are fool to get involved any further with a ghost. Why would you bother after the first time? Unless he got hit by a car and was in a coma,,,,,,,,,
This guy I known for 6 years on and off keep disappearing for days, weeks,months at a time and come back. Like nothing never happened. He in prison. He always got lies and excuses. I got tired of listening to it and ignoring him. I got tired of hurting myself
Candy Jones block him
@Candy jone the same thing happened to me. Mine is 5 years dear hmm. He even gave me a promise ring. I should have believed my mum
Okay so he comes back and you tell him how you feel. You're not comfortable. He doesn't care....he pushes his way in. When you question him he becomes angry and now it's my fault for asking questions and I have ruined the day
Dawan Vester you have to decide if you care more about “ruining his day” then getting clarification around his intentions with you
You have such a soothing voice, dope message, and beautiful personality! So glad I stumbled upon your video. Keep inspiring others Queen. ☺🙏💛👌👑🔥#NewSubscriber
ZenQuarian Hart Thank you, sis! I truly appreciate that! ❤️❤️❤️
Cracked me up when he said he’d been away. Either he thought I was stupid or that women are stupid. Because who leaves their phone when they go away? Er were not yet in a relationship but, the lack of effort in his stupid lie told me he was too disinterested to even be creative with lying.
Spoken so beautifully and 100% and more true!! Serious insight! Key points were very much on point and using as a guide line!!
Girl you ROCK! 🤣🤣 You need to be FBI, CIA, PREACHER, TEACHER, DOCTOR 😂😂. Love your suggestions and attitude 👍🏻👌🏻
Just ghost him back 🤷🏻♀️
I know it wasn't me deep down. But I wanted the relationship. But since he's ghosted, NO. It's good to get the information why he left though because you missed red flags before. Don't miss them again. If you can build the relationship together then good. Never be in one- sided relationships. As far as taking things slowly with you, that's NOT ghosting. You can stay with folk and still move slowly. But really ghosts need to continue traveling and you can stop hearing from them and seeing them.
I'm glad the person who ghosted me hasn't had any attempts to sneak back into my life. Our mutual friends says he's afraid I might do something to him.
My guy ghosted me in my 20s and got married to someone else. After 30 years he then contacted me. We talked over telephone for a month then met for a drink. We both fell in love which is never wanted or thaught about. We have been together for almost two years and it's hard to trust him even though he has asked me to marry him and put a ring on my finger in still do not trust him. Please never go back to your x because it will be difficult for you women. His name is Robert incase anyone knows him. Best wishes to you women.
You took Kim back after 30 years ……. 😮
I’ll ask the questions for sure...but I want him back ❤️🙏🏻🦋
3:40 😂😂😂😂😂 I laughed so hard. That's so me
Can’t even get to know anyone if one emotionally unavailable being ghosts you
God bless you!!❤️❤️❤️❤️ Thank God for ladies like you
Liana Ocastro thank you!!
Thank you for this mama! I needed this.
Tasha Danielle absolutely! Thanks for watching!
You are so funny. I like your two videos...dope AF. Thanks for helping love.
KevaCarmelle thanks boo, I appreciate that!
Mine never gives me explanations after he does it. I ask but he refuses to answer
Sarah Brewer leave him
A guy ghosted you and just called after a week, no sorry no apology he just act like everything is fine, and after someone days you decided to ask him why and if this is what he want. He said no but he doesn't have any explanation for now. What will you do as the lady? This guy is good in all areas, but communication is the problem that he has.
Girlll I love this video :)
Very insightful! Thanks for sharing! I like you already!
Shanay you are hilarious!
Thanks girl!
i love you, and i heard your words * this happened to me where he vanished for a week, now suddenly he comes to my house and parks his car without letting me know or calling.. i havent given him the time of day nor have i responded to his advances of calling before..
Move on it just happened to me February my Birthday month and Valentine's day he called I didn't pick up the voicemail said hi its David how are you hope your fine give me a call I never call back I'm living my life going on cruises enjoying family and friends I don't have time for a boy
I haven't had aghosting since the first I have seen at my house
Ps - aint gon be no boooooo hi boooooo hi boooooouch! Me upside his head
Amazing video!
I realy like you girl very funny how you act it up you made me laugh
Good information thanks
No just move on
Lol, if I can get with you, I will never ghost you smile
Finally someone explains it
He Saïd once That we met in a bad moment !
What does it mean !
He ghosted 4 years now !!!
He come back ,What should i do ?!!
I like ur video. Shanay j.russel
It's helpfull and gives the right and necessary answers
Marleine Shalhoub thanks sweetie! I appreciate that
great video
You're a genius
Girllllllll you are spot on
Carina Fine thanks love!
I agree about data digging! Lol. I cold asked about the lies asking bout the truth. Man showed up at my door w flowers out the blue. I opened the door wanting to smake the hell outta him. But I started crying cause I thought he died. Seriously! He had health scare but Im cautious though.
Hahahahahaha you are smart and funny
why we disappear
1.The Insecure,controlling , Always need to be right and never wrong ,Jump to conclusions behavior your showing in this video is why .
2. We pick up on that early
Thank you for commenting. Why ghost, though? Why not just tell her you're no longer interested?
Shanay J. Russell My pleasure. The reason we Ghost is not because we are not interested . It's because we are falling in love with you , while at the same time not sure if we are your one and only .. Because there's always another guy on deck right ?
Rocky V1 Then simply ask! Ghosting is a dick move.
Rocky V1 it can be true for some women, but when most women are all about you there is no one else.
@@thetruther9521 Absolutely there are other guys on deck. Why shouldn't there be? If you don't have a commitment with a woman she is just as free and single as YOU ARE to do what she wants.
Great viedo
I been goshted a lot this year
My guy ghosted me after I asked him bout a lady he lied bout having a relationship with bf..he told me to go fuck with the lady
Four months he never got in touch but rather gave his brother money to be given to me
He’s back lol..I will send him my wedding invite in months
Am not a door way he goes in n out of
He started with days,weeks then months
Because when we first started talking. I was first or close second or third. Do to how many kids or baby Daddys u have. Maybe that different way u act at my house. But way different when I'm around your people. Women keep think it's you. But really it's your situation that we really don't know how to work with. No I don't like that your 6ft grown ass son wants a doggy bag. Why is your kids calling. Changing plans. Men don't wanna be next or last, so when we ghost it's for a lesson moment to get u back on track. If I put u first. U should consider where am I in your life.
James Smith so why not just communicate that instead of ghosting them?
Because once again. Ma'am to explain anything to alot of women especially black women is to open a door for discussion , to let you also vent on where to go about our relationship. Truth is at this point we don't care that much or at all. I as a man sitting across from you as a woman in that first conversation over coffee (be cause that how a man chooses a woman ). We see five or ten years down the road. We see you meeting our parents, friends and sisters. Now at any time that doesn't fit you like us go back on the shelf. I think you ladies call it the ,biuld a man program. One for sex. One for dinner outside the house ,the fat gay dude that helps you point out your future men. The simp that will drag your kids all over town but won't go see his own..
Hello
Hi Ladies!! You all have given me such encouragement through this video. So much so, that I’ve decided to do an unscripted series for women who have been ghosted before. I will be posting the flyer today. If you are interested in sharing your story right here on this platform please do take a look and email me or comment on this post!
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Your too funny.
what's your facebook?
Jorge Flores Shanay J. Russell
Did u ask urself wat u dun to make him ghost
People have lives beyond you, get over yourself! Most of you people far over communicate in the first place, your so needy, that you have to be in constant contact or you think something is wrong with your relationships. You act as if people do not have emergencies, he’ll what if he had been injured was knocked out for a whole week. Most of you would just give up on someone! Social Media has made most of you people nuts, or at least Narcissistic!
Being comatose for a week, getting out of the hospital, explaining what happened, and both you and your partner mutually making sure each other are okay is not ghosting and would not be considered as such by literally anyone. Also love is literally scientifically proven to fire off chemicals in your brain that create a feeling similar to addiction, so it's literally the proper response to always want to be around someone you love -- that is, if you actually love them in the first place and are not just lying to them or yourself for the sake of some ulterior goal. How 'bout _you_ get over _your_ self and actually *communicate* your current stance with one of the few people in your life who cares about you and who believes that you care about them and are committed to them because, at some point, you probably told them that you do and that you are! But you, sir, can go tf off if you want to.