In about a month, I'll be embarking on a period of solitude in South Asia. And I'm hoping that, instead of loneliness and despair, I find clarity and direction. Thanks for the tips!
Wise words, especially the nurture your existing connections part. Having done my share of international solo travel, I can definitely relate to how your solo adventures open you up to new connections. Those that travel with a friend or especially an SO are FAR less approachable and in a way insulated from new connection opportunities, at least of the one-to-one variety. Traveling as a couple or group or family you generally tend to connect with others who are the same, so there's that.
Great video Tika~ I found being being in new cities its much easier to strike up conversations with random people and put yourself out there, for some reason at home (Melbourne) it feels very unusual to go outside of your comfort zone; Honestly not sure if its fear of being seen by someone you know (although who cares right?) or that I;m so comfortable here its very rare to be out on my own. However, I've started to do a few of the things you've mentioned and started branching out and doing new things such as running club, volunteering - you're correct its so much easier joining activities with randoms but instantly having some common grounds as you're doing that 'thing' together. Thanks again!
As adults making new friends is difficult. Your environment is kinda fixed in place, like work is your social life more often than not, and old friends you have had for a long time. So if you suddenly move, you know no one. Tip: Try joining a group, like a hobby course - example: beginner ceramics, sports group, volunteer group, then just be very social in that group and ask to join grabbing a coffee, that is a great way to make new friends.
I’m 26 and I feel so lonely, I can’t express it. Recently I joined a sport group and because of my fair of being seen by others, I cannot be authentic and show my true self. And I think it is going to be like that all the time. People in our group just don’t seem to be interested in making new friends as we leave in a small city and they came to this group with their friend already forming mini groups inside of the whole group. If someone felt the same, please share your thoughts on this and how I can move forward
most of the time i want someone for going out for breakfast, tea and coffee after i try Solo Date, its change everything, solo dates are amazing u talk with urself explorer new place listen other people talks understand how they thought very very helpful.
30's and 40's are the loneliest times from what i hear, if you dont start a family young and marry you will be lonely for a very long time now a days. So women, make a family early or be lonely later.
find book Unveiling Your Hidden Potential by Bruce Thornwood. Whoever find this book will have unfair adventage than other poeple. You'll thank me later
In about a month, I'll be embarking on a period of solitude in South Asia. And I'm hoping that, instead of loneliness and despair, I find clarity and direction. Thanks for the tips!
Wise words, especially the nurture your existing connections part. Having done my share of international solo travel, I can definitely relate to how your solo adventures open you up to new connections. Those that travel with a friend or especially an SO are FAR less approachable and in a way insulated from new connection opportunities, at least of the one-to-one variety. Traveling as a couple or group or family you generally tend to connect with others who are the same, so there's that.
Never felt it, always felt comfortable being by myself, gotta take it to the next level of mental strength
I AM ALSO GOING THROUGH SOMETHING SIMILAR. THIS VIDEO IS REALLY RELATABLE
This is so relatable to me.
Great video Tika~ I found being being in new cities its much easier to strike up conversations with random people and put yourself out there, for some reason at home (Melbourne) it feels very unusual to go outside of your comfort zone; Honestly not sure if its fear of being seen by someone you know (although who cares right?) or that I;m so comfortable here its very rare to be out on my own. However, I've started to do a few of the things you've mentioned and started branching out and doing new things such as running club, volunteering - you're correct its so much easier joining activities with randoms but instantly having some common grounds as you're doing that 'thing' together. Thanks again!
Thank you.. needed this..
Keep going through while enjoying abit of life will forget feeling lonely🌹🫰
I love this! I’m working on being “seen” too
Solitude is the key to success
As adults making new friends is difficult. Your environment is kinda fixed in place, like work is your social life more often than not, and old friends you have had for a long time. So if you suddenly move, you know no one.
Tip:
Try joining a group, like a hobby course - example: beginner ceramics, sports group, volunteer group, then just be very social in that group and ask to join grabbing a coffee, that is a great way to make new friends.
Lots of soul-srarching in the forest n nature is good for the soul.
I’m 26 and I feel so lonely, I can’t express it. Recently I joined a sport group and because of my fair of being seen by others, I cannot be authentic and show my true self. And I think it is going to be like that all the time. People in our group just don’t seem to be interested in making new friends as we leave in a small city and they came to this group with their friend already forming mini groups inside of the whole group. If someone felt the same, please share your thoughts on this and how I can move forward
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The sound bath sounds amazing! Where can I access more information about this girly? 🌞
Nice . I am also lonely
I have been lonely for 20 years only has one relationships .
uss. i'm going through the same.
To try not to be so lonely I socialize with my friends of the institute or church and I play games like world of warcraft or counter strike
most of the time i want someone for going out for breakfast, tea and coffee after i try Solo Date, its change everything, solo dates are amazing u talk with urself explorer new place listen other people talks understand how they thought very very helpful.
Any plans yet after Australia?
India Himalayas is a good destination. I m a solo backpacker n been to 24 countries. I plan to go to Iran nx Feb.
Relationships these days could get your ass killed. That's why I prefer to be single and enjoy my solitude.
30's and 40's are the loneliest times from what i hear, if you dont start a family young and marry you will be lonely for a very long time now a days. So women, make a family early or be lonely later.
5th 🕔😭
Hey I'm new to your channel
Do you think therapy helps with coping with loneliness?
Therapy only works if you're aware and you actually work on it
@@speedymitch1 Can you give an example?
Never been this early 😂
Im in Melbourne, i would love to make new friends :). If you wanna try table tennis 🏓 or casual hang out please let me know😄
Learn yoga n meditation.
What about your 40s?
RJ
This video has 111 likes when I click play ❤ lucky me 😂
awesome news !!! :) lol
Unveiling Your Hidden Potential by Bruce Thornwood(thank me later)
Do not get this book, this is a scam unfortunately!
You think its bad now? Its the worst for Asian men..
Hence the drop in birth rates
you should probably engage with your comment section lol. not a single heart or reply
blah? mental fart 🤣
find book Unveiling Your Hidden Potential by Bruce Thornwood. Whoever find this book will have unfair adventage than other poeple. You'll thank me later