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  • Опубликовано: 24 май 2018
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    Will He Miss Me If I Leave Him Alone
    We get asked will he miss me if I leave him alone multiple times every week. Many people are afraid of the no contact or radio silence because they think that the man they love will forget about them.
    You’ve probably asked yourself will he come back if I leave him alone or perhaps your friends have told you “ leave him alone and he ll come back ” but you are still somewhat afraid that he simply won’t ever reach out again….that he’ll move on and forget about you!
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Комментарии • 777

  • @LoveAdviceTVCommunity
    @LoveAdviceTVCommunity  4 года назад +7

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  • @deeprollingriver5820
    @deeprollingriver5820 5 лет назад +453

    Look...if he forgets you then you pick yourself up, dust yourself off and start all over again

    • @TheMethodgirl
      @TheMethodgirl 4 года назад +5

      Ugh, so hard.

    • @lauralou1115
      @lauralou1115 4 года назад +5

      Easier said than done.😢

    • @mixedchickULike
      @mixedchickULike 4 года назад

      Lizzo must have read this. "Do my hair toss, check my nails, baby how you feelin?
      Feelin good as hell." LoL

  • @aoiken5321
    @aoiken5321 6 лет назад +680

    I changed from binge watching mukbangs to love advice videos lol..

  • @poorhai9321
    @poorhai9321 5 лет назад +123

    If he forgets you when your gone then he does not love you he is not worth your effort if youre trying to force him back.

  • @ges3061
    @ges3061 6 лет назад +453

    It’s been 7 months and he misses me but you live and you learn. He had a third party and played me. His loss at the end.

    • @milagrosrodriguez4136
      @milagrosrodriguez4136 6 лет назад +13

      GES84 84 I I can relate been 6 months no contact for me

    • @frediciapeters1259
      @frediciapeters1259 6 лет назад +8

      Milagros Rodriguez going thru that now girl I understand

    • @fashionstyle7349
      @fashionstyle7349 5 лет назад +15

      GES84 84 same here, but he had already got this girl me not knowing about her, they look happy now it hurts but I don’t contact him anymore, miss him so much but I have to move on

    • @brickzj3123
      @brickzj3123 5 лет назад +1

      Same as mine.

    • @hillarybillary21
      @hillarybillary21 5 лет назад +3

      Fashion Style looks can be deceiving hun!

  • @veeoby3364
    @veeoby3364 4 года назад +153

    It all depends. If he had low interest, he might not miss you. If he doesn't love you and doesn't want to commit, he wouldn't care and be glad you're gone.

    • @babalwanonjaba9627
      @babalwanonjaba9627 4 года назад +5

      fully agree with you

    • @Aleyna_304
      @Aleyna_304 4 года назад +15

      True indeed. Those who doesn't want us, doesn't miss us at all.

    • @Smaug-im3zh
      @Smaug-im3zh 4 года назад +28

      Not always. I had a guy who tried to friendzone me after leading me on, told him I dont befriend men I've been intimate with and that I have no need to keep in contact with someone who thinks it's ok to lead someone else on. He came back in 3 weeks asking for commitment. I told him no thanks 🤣

    • @farzyhusseinali9894
      @farzyhusseinali9894 4 года назад

      I agree with u @vee oby

  • @Kdawg1287
    @Kdawg1287 6 лет назад +310

    I'm doing no contact with my ex gf after 6 weeks. playing the long game. Patience. But since then I've gotten a new job, hit the gym, and really paying attention to these videos to craft myself and understand relationships. I was with my gf for 6 years and realized I made a lot of mistakes. But I can no longer look into the past. I only look at what I can do in the present. you guys really helped me look forward to either reconnecting with my ex or having a really healthy relationship later down the road with someone new when i'm ready again! Keep fighting the good fight fellow friends!

    • @latoyahenson
      @latoyahenson 6 лет назад

      KDAWG1287 Thank great

    • @malinaschroder2000
      @malinaschroder2000 6 лет назад +1

      Wonderful! Keep it up strong men!

    • @sherricaves6321
      @sherricaves6321 5 лет назад +4

      Good job..my Dad gave me one piece of advice, Life only moves in one direction..keep looking forward, not back. He's right :)

    • @inklily
      @inklily 5 лет назад +1

      Love2 Laugh I love that advice from your dad! ♥️

    • @N3dita
      @N3dita 5 лет назад +7

      It was a year ago you posted this. Now I can’t help but be curious how things turned out for you and your ex. Did you get in touch with her? Who reached out first? Etc. would be great to read about it 🤗

  • @aliceburns29
    @aliceburns29 5 лет назад +74

    For me I don't need for him to contact me. Once I'm done that's it. Apparently, his not available in all areas. Which I 'm not making myself available for the unavaible. I definitely move on. My time is very valuable.

  • @goddessrulz3094
    @goddessrulz3094 6 лет назад +134

    I’m not afraid to let go of anyone...I need my space always. We talk cool...we don’t speak cool as well.

    • @baeeerock9836
      @baeeerock9836 5 лет назад +6

      Goddess Rulz i need to get on this mindset

    • @Bornawinner77
      @Bornawinner77 5 лет назад +3

      This for me also applies to family and friends...I've learnt a lot over the years, so im pretty much the same as you.

  • @elainerobinson5635
    @elainerobinson5635 5 лет назад +56

    Going thru a no contact now and YES its very scary but empowering ...im getting myself together I've lost weight got my 👙 body going on went back to school even hit the lottery only 10$ but a winner when he comes back i may not want...loving the new me❤

  • @NevenShtaya
    @NevenShtaya 6 лет назад +172

    Your advice help me much in my last relationship..lady’s listen for what he say carefully that’s will help you much .don’t be needy and keep your dignity in first place

  • @snake7686
    @snake7686 6 лет назад +111

    I'm eager to reconnect with my ex after 7 months of our breakup. I've learned to dance salsa since. One of the best things to do after a breakup is to learn to dance. It builds self confidence and attracts others.

    • @malinaschroder2000
      @malinaschroder2000 6 лет назад

      how is it going?

    • @darkwoman0
      @darkwoman0 5 лет назад +6

      Omg snake that’s what I’ve been doing ! Dancing ! It works. I’m now 6 months post break up. Life is good🤗❤️

    • @bethforst1498
      @bethforst1498 5 лет назад +2

      Good answer, makes you feel vital and fun loving.

    • @aebglenda27
      @aebglenda27 4 года назад

      Wow

    • @lotusmccary9365
      @lotusmccary9365 2 года назад

      That's a great tip. I love to dance.

  • @LadyofCleves65
    @LadyofCleves65 6 лет назад +45

    I miss him so much and trying to improve myself. But its been a hard journey.

  • @rushiacampbell9380
    @rushiacampbell9380 4 года назад +8

    The first guy that spoke made so much sense. It’s true because it’s happened to me I’ve become needy and they come back telling me how much they want me back and forever

  • @autumnrose6370
    @autumnrose6370 5 лет назад +22

    Great Commentary Coach Alex and Adrian! Let me add my positive spin! Pulling AWAY ALWAYS WORK! If some of you all really care about your ex, you will let them go - to find their way in life. You have to be still and truly reflect and ask yourself - Are you a good partner? Do you have some unfinished business that will get in the way of a healthy relationship? Are you truly mentally, financially, and physically healthy?, etc., Some of you all have never been without a partner. Are you satisfied with your self? You have to be women enough and get out of the brothers faces and say, it's not you.. I'm not ready, I refuse to mess up your life. That's a true woman..Stop focusing on a rebound.. waste of energy.. Be woman enough and say, God don't send no one my way, until I become the woman you called me to be (know my divine purpose). Wanting a man to make up for what other men did, is to much responsibility for a man. Back off your ex.. leave them alone! You are the problem too.. that is why the relationship failed. When I walked away, and left him alone.. He came to me humble. My silent prayers were more effective than my words, and actions; AND I worked on myself!

  • @jo-annereid2746
    @jo-annereid2746 4 года назад +16

    Thank you for the reminder that we have VALUE. That is something so easily forgotten when feelings get hurt.

  • @lokaloka3568
    @lokaloka3568 5 лет назад +17

    I hope my husband will comeback to me soon. I miss him so much.

  • @seraphina6647
    @seraphina6647 3 года назад +12

    The more I binge watching these dating advice videos, the more I love myself not to put up with the bs 🙃.

  • @Leeohlin89
    @Leeohlin89 3 года назад +7

    Women need this. Thank you for sharing this from a man’s perspective. 🙏🏼

  • @rihabrihab9192
    @rihabrihab9192 6 лет назад +122

    You draw a smile on my face despite the pain i'm feeling ! thank you so much experts

  • @BrendaBaBoom
    @BrendaBaBoom 4 года назад +8

    If he’s let you go and for him to chance “missing” you, that’s days and months RISKING you the opportunity to be gone and forget him forever. Simply move on.

  • @lizzylewis5793
    @lizzylewis5793 5 лет назад +12

    Same here I went NC, and I have been getting into rigourous outdoor activities like hiking, raquetball, outdoor aerobics, its been so freeing doing what I love, eating healthier and dropping pounds at the same time.

  • @ofentsemothiba5452
    @ofentsemothiba5452 5 лет назад +49

    I did the no contact rule and his now texting me telling me that he misses me. I don't even how to reply or if I should even reply

  • @michellemcdougall8692
    @michellemcdougall8692 5 лет назад +43

    I wonder if he still wants me.I just want to feel love in return and not feel like an outsider in his world.I love him so much and if space and time is what he needs he truly has it from me.I will wait for my love.

    • @63MIJ63
      @63MIJ63 5 лет назад +2

      Michelle McDougall I'm in the same. Has he contacted?

    • @Itskeyra12
      @Itskeyra12 5 лет назад +1

      Currently how I feel.

    • @Unknown.beauty
      @Unknown.beauty 5 лет назад +1

      Me too... did he contact you?

    • @chrissantybueno2771
      @chrissantybueno2771 5 лет назад

      Same

    • @marvinkennedy725
      @marvinkennedy725 5 лет назад +9

      Have you thought while your waiting for this person that the real person you should be with might pass you by and you miss out on your true love,life is short and second chances are rare.

  • @Softsoul.
    @Softsoul. 2 года назад +4

    A couple a days ago I was so heart-broken but today I feel much better and I dont even want him to miss me. I'm better of without someone who doesn't want me. Closed chapter and never looking back

  • @carolmaz8675
    @carolmaz8675 3 года назад +2

    It’s a win win for the lady
    1 if he misses you and realises your worth win
    2 if he stays away you are now free to meet me right

  • @najmaali2140
    @najmaali2140 6 лет назад +37

    It work for me and because of this channel I got straight thanks you sir 😍😍😍

  • @aoiken5321
    @aoiken5321 6 лет назад +135

    His accent is so cute :””

  • @crisps1363
    @crisps1363 6 лет назад +190

    My 1st week...but it is super hard.......

    • @CatCatCaat
      @CatCatCaat 6 лет назад +2

      how was it?

    • @dunya28
      @dunya28 5 лет назад +12

      same right now 2nd day and i cant handle it !!!

    • @dunya28
      @dunya28 5 лет назад +58

      Wow ! I can’t believe I was going through that phase ! I totally forgot him and I’m very much living my best life 😍
      He did come back ! But after I realized that my life is better without him .. so I left him 🙈👌🏻

    • @jovananikolic9576
      @jovananikolic9576 5 лет назад +3

      What happened after 6 months?

    • @ladyq4832
      @ladyq4832 5 лет назад +1

      @@dunya28 yay!!

  • @miriamponzano8839
    @miriamponzano8839 6 лет назад +7

    Probably one of the most inspiring videos I have seen yet from you guys. Thank you so much for this video I have been doing about three months of no contact and I feel stronger each day. Although there are times that I miss him so much and want to contact him again but I am trying to do the best I can to be proactive and not reach out and work on myself. In a message, he told me that he will not reach out to me and please not to reach out to him..but i tried a few times after because i really wanted to try to move past our fallout and try to salvage what we had but he kept blocking me everytime. So i gave up on trying. I have not contacted him and these past couple of months he is still on my mind, i am just stronger mow and recognize my worth and dignity and that he in reality lost something good.thank u for this

  • @jackeyhenry1867
    @jackeyhenry1867 5 лет назад +12

    Its a ego booster for most of them

  • @kgray165
    @kgray165 4 года назад +5

    It’s harder when y’all wasn’t official yet and you get into one argument and you apologize for your wrong an they ghost you

    • @ashleighearby3333
      @ashleighearby3333 4 года назад +1

      Or maybe y’all had 2 arguments then you realize you was wrong so you apologize now they find you annoying and you getting on they nerves now they need “space” 😒

  • @lifetobelived9102
    @lifetobelived9102 4 года назад +3

    This is even true when married if one person gives all the time. The other person may start to expect and assume that even if he or she neglects their partner that their partner will continue to put up with it.
    In some cases these uneven relationships will continue but in many cases the “giver” will address the unevenness and in some cases just give up and leave.

  • @sahara6630
    @sahara6630 2 года назад +4

    I love how thoughtful and caring these two coaches are. Thanks for the advice and insights 🙂👍

  • @mariasoeters306
    @mariasoeters306 6 лет назад +45

    Guys I love this video!! Still fighting the good fight. He indeed checked my instagram story hahaha

    • @neringa_nb
      @neringa_nb 6 лет назад +9

      Maria Soeters That they re checking stories or liking posts doesnt mean that they want you back:) my story is same, he likes my posts, looks at my stories but its only curiousity, and while you expecting something from him you always hoping... and sometimes its different from reality:)

    • @mariasoeters306
      @mariasoeters306 6 лет назад +12

      Fairy Dust I know what you mean! I can honestly say I'm happy. So if he doesn't come back it's too bad, but I'm pretty sure someone else who is even more amazing will cross my path :)

    • @mariasoeters306
      @mariasoeters306 6 лет назад +5

      adgnzls thanks! And yes, I got myself back. Even a better version than before me and him started dating. Pretty proud of myself!

    • @samlove3239
      @samlove3239 6 лет назад +2

      Maria Soeters omg my ex did that too but didn’t reach out

    • @mariasoeters306
      @mariasoeters306 6 лет назад

      Angela Hero not yet ;)

  • @Tunabreath2001
    @Tunabreath2001 2 года назад +2

    I KNOW that my ex still loves me. That doesn't mean she will admit it or do something about it. That doesn't mean I should chase her either when she keeps pushing me away. So I'm deciding to move on because I need someone more mature and up to MY standards, whether it's her or not. Infact I don't need anyone, I'm happy being on my own actually. What I mean is, my partner NEEDS to be in MY league. I've settled for far too long.

  • @sarahred247
    @sarahred247 4 года назад +4

    I left him alone & he sent me divorce papers.

  • @beccamartin8232
    @beccamartin8232 6 лет назад +56

    I don’t think my ex misses me or has ever missed me since the break up 10 months ago because he’s too busy with his new relationship that he got into a week after we broke up, I’m starting to lose hope

  • @classylassie85
    @classylassie85 5 лет назад +25

    This is a reverse psychology question: what if your ex or estranged boyfriend is playing a game by waiting for YOU to make the next move ? 💡

  • @freetube508
    @freetube508 3 года назад +1

    If a guy leave me, it's a blessing. When he cannot sense my worth for him, he is never a right one for me. Goodbye honey 🍯💖

  • @priscillas986
    @priscillas986 6 лет назад +10

    6:49 I love it!! French/English = Frenglish

  • @rachelpeters1927
    @rachelpeters1927 5 лет назад +1

    Love advice TV coaches are really awesome :) I came across of this channel when I was desperately trying to get answers from all the questions inside my head, I only had two boyfriends in my 28 years of life, and both of them, they leave me for someone else, can you imagine how damaged my self esteem and self worth was? Self pity, feeling worthless, feeling that I am replaceable. I was crying the whole 2 weeks. And I am very thankful that I found you guys, your words are really helpful, you always say to your videos to value ourselves to not put them on the pedestal to feel good, little by little as I continue to watch your videos I realized "yeah, I am unforgettable, I am awesome, I have a great personality, I am valuable, I have a lot of friends and they like me for who I am because I am fun to be with, I have a sense of humor, witty, and always laugh a lot. Whenever we have a get together with my friends they always make sure that I can make it because there is no fun without me. If that people can see my worth why am I sulking at home thinking about my ex who dumped me and decided to be with someone else. For the past weeks I was thinking that she maybe way more pretty and GF material than me, but now, I realized because of you guys, the lovely coaches, its his lost not wanting to be with an awesome girl like me. He can never find another like me, and nobody's gonna love him like I did. I will keep on watching your videos not for the reason to want him back but for the amazing advises that you give that inspires me everyday :)

    • @LoveAdviceTVCommunity
      @LoveAdviceTVCommunity  5 лет назад

      Thank you so much for your words! We are so proud of you and the journey of transformation and self-discovery that you have taken :) - Adrian

  • @leahsegaetsho3066
    @leahsegaetsho3066 5 лет назад +8

    Thank you for this message. I almost cracked and contacted him. My situation is even harder because im pregnant with he's child. Its hard though

    • @111LMBL
      @111LMBL 5 лет назад +2

      leah segaetsho keep your head up ! Stay strong

    • @margomazzeo1680
      @margomazzeo1680 4 года назад +1

      Wow..sorry..

  • @bria2luv305
    @bria2luv305 5 лет назад +1

    I ve been doing no contact for 6 days. Our last contact was Mar 22nd. I emailed an apology for my part in ruining the relationship. I apologized for anything I said that made him feel that I didnt love him, whatever that happened to be. I told him I dont expect him to reach out to me. I just wanted to say I'm sorry. As of today, I go back to no contact and working on myself and going on a date here and there. I want him back, but he also has to want us to succeed. I accept it whichever way it goes.

  • @warlordtrall
    @warlordtrall 6 лет назад +9

    Could you do a video like this for men and also one on how to forgive yourself for break up mistakes

  • @freetube508
    @freetube508 3 года назад

    Whoever left me willingly, I was tremendously benefitted

  • @gayanetigranyan5582
    @gayanetigranyan5582 4 года назад +2

    If he comes back by your method
    I don’t know how to appreciate u😭

  • @nimstutorials
    @nimstutorials 5 лет назад +20

    Love u both of u r great

  • @alysehiltbrunner9448
    @alysehiltbrunner9448 4 года назад +1

    I decided to go on a date so I can work on taking my focus off of my ex. I am seeing guys coming after me and I’m seeing more of my worth.

    • @LoveAdviceTVCommunity
      @LoveAdviceTVCommunity  4 года назад

      GREAT! This is exactly what you need to be doing - Adrian

    • @alysehiltbrunner9448
      @alysehiltbrunner9448 4 года назад

      Thank you! My story is crazy but I actually did no contact and my ex reached out to me. We almost got back together then I repeated the same cycle ( for the 3rd time) ... being needy, emotional, crazy! So he ended it again but the good thing is he said he loved me and maybe down the road we can talk again but he doesn’t want to be with me if I keep losing control of my emotions. Now I’m seeing my worth and learning I have my power back. It’s such a great feeling to have self control and know your value. Anyway I’m working with Coach Abby! I was desperate, couldn’t find anything that could help me , and I found you guys! Thank you for all you do and for taking the time to respond. You guys have been exactly what I needed to get through this.

  • @zoniabell963
    @zoniabell963 6 лет назад +32

    My ex moved on with another woman quite quickly
    I used the no contact rule and he came back basically begging me to be friends.. To me he still wants access to me although he is in another relationship
    Ive tried to stay friends but I really don’t want to be involved with him or his new girlfriend at all
    He has asked me to visit them few times as he says he misses his ‘best friend’. And that it’s not the same without me being around
    I’ve gone no contact again because all this does is confuse me and I feel annoyed that he wants his cake and eat it to
    I still have feelings for him and this just isn’t healthy for me

  • @olganozdratenko3394
    @olganozdratenko3394 5 лет назад

    Yes!! 100% will try to come back. There hasn’t been an ex who hasn’t tried to come back at least a couple of times. So, yeah. Go out with your girls. Go to the gym. Get a massage. It’s not a matter of if, it’s a matter of time. You’re welcome.

  • @lc9629
    @lc9629 4 года назад +2

    Ive been playing this no contact with the same guy for 19 years...always get back together but no commitment.

  • @haiphuha9093
    @haiphuha9093 6 лет назад +29

    Can you guys make a video on when you are in love with someone that closed off themselves from relationships and love, due to past relationships? What would be some advice for people in that situation? Thank you!

    • @cynthiaarons9373
      @cynthiaarons9373 5 лет назад +6

      Hai Phu Ha : You should not have to work hard in loving. Just love & give from your heart. If those are not good enough, it means you are not with a high quality man!

  • @Saffeyah
    @Saffeyah 6 лет назад

    That lady example is so relatable because you see on Facebook Instagram that he’s living his best life then makes a comment about something you post and you’re not friends on one of the pages, you know he is still checking for you. No contact works. It’s having patience while it is happening that sucks.

  • @mhavic369
    @mhavic369 5 лет назад +1

    Once a man says give him space, time, pull away thing YES it's your priveledge and his priveledge too. Initially yes "miss"word is a layman's word we normally use . But here both most think especially "US" ladies that it is "NOT" your responsibility as a woman or lady to make him a man. We complain that we are mistreated and cheated but the truth is because we buy and allow it.

  • @aquariuschild0710
    @aquariuschild0710 6 лет назад +2

    Thankyou for the grand advice...I feel I need to really spend time on myself and find myself as I feel in a negative bubble and I must come across as super negative and not someone to want to be around. I have made small changes into my life i.e joined the gym, spending time reading books, watching new shows, engaging in things that make me happy. Im trying to do whatever it takes to make me happy..Really fall in love with my life

  • @JayCee539
    @JayCee539 4 года назад +1

    I'm sure 100% that he doesn't miss me!!!!

  • @ughjess
    @ughjess 6 лет назад +38

    yeh but the problem isnt whether he miss u is t it? its whether he will want to try again with you… & it seems hopeless. unless u guys have another view?

    • @stevokennedy2383
      @stevokennedy2383 6 лет назад

      j yes I feel its hopeless honestly I think no contact backfired he started dating someone else and I'm sad and stuck

    • @malinaschroder2000
      @malinaschroder2000 6 лет назад

      Same here

  • @marshaanis4057
    @marshaanis4057 5 лет назад +2

    Damn with no contact I can't pick which one of you to contact that French accent is like 🔥🔥 and the one talking about the Brazilian woman is so 🔥🔥😎

  • @danishaferreira7796
    @danishaferreira7796 4 года назад +5

    Oh my gills, I know that this totally goes against the rules but this hunk of man in the navy blue shirt on the left is so attractive and sweet😘

  • @jessicadeasis1808
    @jessicadeasis1808 4 года назад

    It's been 5 days of NC and it still hurts. The hope is still there but I dont know how to get rid of it. He looks happy without me. I hope this disconnect from him allows me to love myself more and invest in my growth. Sending everyone love on this channel ❤

  • @lilove6560
    @lilove6560 10 месяцев назад

    Thank you. I was running out of patience. Everything is going to be alright 💗

  • @user-mr6qd5bg7j
    @user-mr6qd5bg7j 6 лет назад +31

    I texted him after NC 35 days he texted back the next day, I waited a couple days to text back and now nothing from him. It was a funny friendly text! I GIVE UP 🤗

  • @Snigelkotten
    @Snigelkotten 6 лет назад +4

    thank you for all your wonderful videos guys! really helped me stay strong in this no-contact period :) Good luck all you lovely people, you are all awesome ! xx

    • @LoveAdviceTVCommunity
      @LoveAdviceTVCommunity  6 лет назад

      Thank you for your support Mandy G! We really appreciate it and it fuels our fire! - Coach Steven www.withmyexagain.com

  • @nicolebrowne3632
    @nicolebrowne3632 6 лет назад +14

    Please define the word "Clingy " because that is what my ex said a few times before our breakup. I would you to explain exactly what your meaning of it is? He was saying because I wanted to see or be around him" I am being Clingy or Needy" but my definition is when you love someone you would want to be around them.

    • @tierra4390
      @tierra4390 5 лет назад +5

      nicole browne I definitely agree! My ex sometimes told me this as well. I was like "so me being all about you and loving you is considered clingy?" It's so confusing..doesn't make sense to me.

    • @DarknessIsThePath
      @DarknessIsThePath 5 лет назад +3

      @@tierra4390 "all about you" is exactly what they mean by being clingy, you have to have your own life as well, your entire life cannot revolve around your partner only no matter how much you love them because it makes you look desperate, needy and someone that he or she will drag along without knowing it and will start to feel like a burden to them

    • @isisre3
      @isisre3 5 лет назад +7

      It’s manipulative and mentally abusive to call u clingy when u only expect him to spend time with you. That’s basic in a relationship. It’s the beginning of the end when he starts calling u clingy. My ex did the same when he spent absolutely no time w me at all

  • @angelsarah79
    @angelsarah79 5 лет назад +1

    The problem with no contact is if your goal is to get back with them, then during all the months of no contact he’s having sex with other women or investing time in at least one other woman while you’re out of the picture. Then if you do get back with each other after no contact, then we have to try to get rid of the last chick he was with or the women he was having sex with. They’re still in the picture unless the man chooses to drop them cold turkey which won’t happen because he’ll want to keep her or them around as an option just like he kept me on Facebook as an option. I hate dating and relationships in this day and age.

    • @LoveAdviceTVCommunity
      @LoveAdviceTVCommunity  5 лет назад +1

      Thank you for sharing your story. This doesn't happen in every instance though :) - Coach Adrian

  • @landriahm6161
    @landriahm6161 4 года назад +1

    My ex husband periodically comes around asking for a second chance. But the only reason why is because I'm done for good...I never contact him during the entire time he left n it's not bc I was playing games but bc I had truly move on with my life!

  • @GoldenAngel-
    @GoldenAngel- 3 года назад +2

    This can work with people who see you as a Friend... I have a Friend like that , he been ignoring me like unbelievable, he has to get my attention back... otherwise Im walking out on him
    and our 6 month Friendship 🥺

  • @merselinoliguori4946
    @merselinoliguori4946 5 лет назад +1

    Guys you're cool. I have been following you guys on RUclips. I had some bad times too and guess what? My ex came back to me.. I think we're going to get back together. Greetings from Suriname guys.

  • @RA-tw4lx
    @RA-tw4lx 6 лет назад +5

    You guys are doing a great job , that too in such a loving manner !!!

  • @audreyderrick4972
    @audreyderrick4972 5 лет назад +3

    There's a guy I met after a week and he wouldn't leave me alone. I changed my number because of his persistence just found myself stalking his Facebook. Go figure.. I was so use to the attention

  • @ms.evelynnn
    @ms.evelynnn Год назад

    I’m dealing w this currently😢 … and towards the end made me smile / laugh & I been sad all 💔😂 the working on yourself plan is key 🔑it will in away prepare you for the outcome wether getting back w each other or going separate ways….

  • @rebeccahedge7566
    @rebeccahedge7566 5 лет назад +2

    I am now 2 weeks into my break up with my ex-fiance. 2 months after buying our first home together, he explained that he needed to go away and think, concur his fear of being alone (he went from relationship to relationship to relationship) and see if being with me is what he truly wants. Yesterday, I made a foolish decision and saw him walking down the street and (though I had the intention of just asking to get some of my things out of his car) I broke down and begged him to come home and get back together. As I walked away, I realised instantly my mistake and regretted doing that. I want to begin the no contact and work to improve myself with the goal of getting back together. I want to be able to leave him alone and give him the space he asked for but now I am in our place alone and feel like I am constantly reminded that this was the first step we were taking as a committed couple and it is hard and I feel fear that it won't work out. Any advise or guidance would be appreciated. We live in a very small town so it is hard to not see him and feel like I am back at square one in this whole process.

  • @clairefoxall2313
    @clairefoxall2313 5 лет назад +1

    Yes it does work. If you want to hear from them again ?? Had 3 ex's get back in touch but I've moved on.

  • @kellyperkins6568
    @kellyperkins6568 5 лет назад +2

    U guys are the real deal Alex and Adrian😁

  • @dragonfly8184
    @dragonfly8184 5 лет назад +1

    My boyfriend neglected, ignored me, made no time for me and overall took me for granted. He would take days more than 4 to 5 days where he didnt call or contact me......will NC still work? He does have some narcissistic ways but overall he's extremely stubborn. Will he still come back?

  • @lalapsy23
    @lalapsy23 4 года назад

    Many people in relationships today are not in love, they are in like , companionship, familiarity, desperation, dependency, they do not know what love is.They have found soneone who is in the same boat or who shares the same ideas of what a relationship is and that's why they're together. Alot of these relationships are ending fast or are broken, people are not taking the time to connect there souls , spirits or in getting to fully understand someone mentally. I believe in love absolutely but in today's world many people have no idea how to Love their partner.

  • @carmelcohen2523
    @carmelcohen2523 5 лет назад +2

    I hope you are right. My husband of 28 years left at the end of September this year. I has visited several times when our kids are herem without me asking but I have begged him to come back and he knows how devastated and depressed I am. He said he will be hear for family Christmas dinner as we will ALWAYS be family, just not a couple but he still loves me, so he says. I want him back so much, please help me. When he stays we are still intermit. I am so messed up

    • @LoveAdviceTVCommunity
      @LoveAdviceTVCommunity  5 лет назад +1

      If you are looking for help for such a serious situation, please book a coaching session with one of our experts www.withmyexagain.com/coaching/ so we can work with you one-on-one - Coach Steven

  • @eumesma4725
    @eumesma4725 2 года назад

    I needed this!! And I'm also Brazilian. But i need this. Thank you. Specially i did so much for him. I'm sure he will remember me the rest of my life. Thank you

  • @leilahadams955
    @leilahadams955 3 года назад

    My guy friend at work fell in love with me.He was my agony aunt. I was in an unhappy relationship but I have kids. Then I told him I cant sleep with him. Then he kept his distance and disappeared. Now after years we work in the same building. So he sees me laughing chatting with me new female friend. He greets when he is with his colleagues but not when he is alone. So I pretend like we never were. Cos thats what he did to me. I still have feelings. But I will never be a doormat again. When he asks how I am Im always running on my way somewhere. No take backs. Even though its hard. Feel how I felt... I am in control now not him.

  • @Zeemas
    @Zeemas 4 года назад +1

    If he is applying this also then it will go no where

  • @jakemamauag4405
    @jakemamauag4405 4 года назад +1

    I am 25 and and its my firts time to be in a relationship, I had him a few days ago and now I feel like he’s getting cold. I can’t tell anyone about this because. And now I’m here trying to understand and learn what is the right thing to do.

  • @manishamakvana1199
    @manishamakvana1199 5 лет назад +1

    Alax sir is just superb

  • @teneshabryant3809
    @teneshabryant3809 5 лет назад +1

    I value my self more. I love myself more 🥰.
    He is looking at my Mother Facebook because my pictures is on there, oh well. He added my mother as a friend on Facebook.He know I block all contact. 😇 No contact.

  • @abcdefg208
    @abcdefg208 4 года назад +1

    To be honest I'm so heartbroken that he cheated on me with the females that dont care about him

  • @xXleikabawseXx
    @xXleikabawseXx 6 лет назад +1

    What if its been 28 days, without him reaching out? Other than him saying he hopes the best for me 13 days ago. We were together for a year and a half, broke up once before 5 months before this breakup, and he said he loves me but isn't in love with me. But besides the breakup, we had a great relationship. Minimal fighting. It truly felt like on my end, that we were really into eachother. Loved deeply. I know I did. We had one argument, and the next day he didn't reply all day to my texts other than to tell me we were going to talk when he came over. I knew immediately he was leaving me. I called him and begged in that moment but I haven't since that day. The breakup was drawn out over 4 hours, we held eachother. Cried together. He just said he knows he can't go on anymore. I want him back, so badly. The first breakup we only lasted 13 days without eachother, and he came back. He reached out during then too. He looks at my insta stories occasionally, deleted me off of snap. His parents told me they miss me. I miss him so much, and them. I'm having a hard time accepting that it is the end, if it is the end. But it is the end. Lol. I don't want it to be.

  • @freetube508
    @freetube508 3 года назад

    If anybody left me, he could not sense my worth, so I was saved from idiots

  • @tasheaiyyawelch3249
    @tasheaiyyawelch3249 6 лет назад +15

    Hi love advice TV can you do a video about an ex who you been with for years but they treat you like you never was in their life I'm not sure if this question makes sense

    • @nancynavarro4537
      @nancynavarro4537 6 лет назад +1

      Tasheaiyya Welch like you guys break up and now he’s acting like it was 1-2 months relationship right ?
      That’s what’s going on w me too

    • @mariap4207
      @mariap4207 5 лет назад

      Me too..after 9 years..i feel a lot of pain

  • @Mii2012
    @Mii2012 5 лет назад

    After the breakup, he told me everything that is physically wrong with me vanity wise, called me every name in the book....asked me to come over...slept together, told me he loved me and the next day, I asked if i could come hold him and he said nuh, I'll pass then eventually blocked me. It was a 2 year relationship, no infidelity...just lots of Leo Type A against Leo Type A and he says it is tired and doesn't want me anymore.

  • @freetube508
    @freetube508 3 года назад

    Guy once get a woman, never leave her until she does too much stupidity to lose herself, lose her control or too much kind or too much over acting or need any serious help etc. Let him go if he is not smart & wise one rather taking advantage of your simplicity or kindness. If you stupid then it's really difficult for you to leave him or he leaves you

  • @celenathetrinigirl
    @celenathetrinigirl 6 лет назад

    Such hope! Yes, I will work on myself!

  • @melissamiller4740
    @melissamiller4740 4 года назад +2

    My ex bf likes to keep his emotions on the inside, i am the complete opposite

  • @lisatestani6123
    @lisatestani6123 5 лет назад +2

    Hey guys, thank you so much for all of your sound advice. So powerful and I employ your techniques and they work every time ❤️

  • @sobster123
    @sobster123 6 лет назад +3

    yOu guys make me smile!!!!!😀 Especially Alex

  • @deepukankaria6973
    @deepukankaria6973 3 года назад

    To all coaches natalie, alex, adrian and danny.... Ur all so awesome team work

  • @kellyreid8891
    @kellyreid8891 6 лет назад +1

    I left him alone. Then late on a Saturday night he sent me a pic of him and I. No words. I said ok. Weird. He said not weird. Then said it’s his favorite pic of him and I and he’s deleting it. Why would he do that? He knew I’d be asleep.

  • @milagrosrodriguez4136
    @milagrosrodriguez4136 6 лет назад +6

    I been doing the no contact going on 4 months haven't heard from him I hope he falls in the 80% that he will miss me n reach out but I'm kinda doubtful in the part that he had a rebound so that but yeah it does scared me we was 2 years together n me living an hour n a half away he had trust issues so I'm just hoping for the best in him reaching out but I do feel stronger now did a new look making myself feel better I know I was a good woman to him n he knows it to he has told me I was the only one who treated him right so it took me off guard when he left me hopefully I be another success story

    • @malinaschroder2000
      @malinaschroder2000 6 лет назад

      Who broke up?

    • @milagrosrodriguez4136
      @milagrosrodriguez4136 6 лет назад +3

      Kitty Cat he broke up with me I lived an hour n a half away we grew up together I found him on fb we was 2 years together but he had trust issues from his pass n in a way couldn't pass we grew up together but he was happy he said I was the only woman who treated him right n he was fighting his feelings for me n I think in a way I paid for what his other relationships did😢 I he stopped replying to me over a month so I went to see him than he told me he couldn't trust plus he fucked up n couldn't fast me I reached out in Jan n Feb he didn't reply so I didn't reach out no more its been 6 months haven't heard from him I still miss him n all but he has to reach out he was the one who made that decision but I feel like he won't plus he did a rebound so idk anymore

    • @jovananikolic9576
      @jovananikolic9576 5 лет назад

      Did u get back together?

    • @milagrosrodriguez4136
      @milagrosrodriguez4136 5 лет назад +1

      @@jovananikolic9576 No😪 been a year he never reached out its still hurtful.

  • @kaizendiva239
    @kaizendiva239 4 года назад

    For me th no contact rule i did i for me ... I was sooo needy and he was soo mean to me ... That i didn t felt goof at all ... I missed my older self ... my laugh .. the way i enjoued life and the peace of mind and powerfull woman i was before ... So made the defision to not contact him to find my power again ... And mad it clear to myself that even if he move on or leave iam ok with it .. because i need to gain myself and the fact that i ll gain myself is wayyyyyy much powerfull than the fear of losing him ....

  • @downhomegirl5
    @downhomegirl5 4 года назад

    I have a lot invested but, I walked away because, I was not getting the attention that I deserved. I simply said, I wish things were different. If he doesn't care to ask what I want then he is a self centered moron & he will never put my needs as a priority. Focusing on me as I couldn't date if I wanted too, I'm in Love with this man. Wish me luck.🌞

  • @janineplaatjies1691
    @janineplaatjies1691 5 лет назад

    I broke up with him because I am terrified of getting hurt and disappointed.
    I am a South African, we are so culturally diverse.
    His family welcomed me with open arms.
    He wanted me to change my religion to his. I said that I won't be able to. We are both Christians.
    I do love him dearly.
    He finally said that I can stay in my church and support him in his.
    I am very jealous in a romantic relationship.
    This is how I destroyed all my previous relationships by breaking and making up.
    I am tired of making wrong choices. I love him but am very scared.
    Please please can you advise?