DEALING WITH HATERS | THE HIDDEN PSYCHOLOGY BEHIND HATERS
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- Dealing with haters is something that comes along with success, but have you ever wondered why haters gonna hate? Find out the psychology behind haters and what causes them to lash out at you for, what you might consider, no reason at all.
Once you understand the psychology that explains why they do what they do, you can learn how to use it to push harder and measure your success.
This is so accurate. People who hate on you are just REALLY jealous and insecure.
It's not accurate at all. It labels ALL criticism as hate! That's a very dangerous road to take.
Learn the difference between hate and criticism...
@@AnoNymous-dh2sv I think that's the problem. Haters always scolding you for little things and forced you to give up what you love which it's not how criticism works. They are not correcting you, they are hurting you... for what?
They are evil!
@@AnoNymous-dh2sv Why do Strangers critize me at all?! They can go to hell, I have No sympsthy for Them, haha!
Just remember if someone hates you, that's their problem.
True :)
True
😂😂😂yeah
I understand this, but part of me wants to listen to them, in case I'm doing something wrong
@@hyperchord dont listen to dumb they are trying to pull You to their level
'A man without enemies is a man without character' Paul Newman.
The Power of hate!
Awesome comment...thanks!
True
Yes,absolutely great personalities are always criticized...that's one of characteristics of truth
For example jesus pbuh is one of great personalities against whom many books are written
You know you're doing it right when you have haters
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Tnx:) have nice day.
I aint got shit going and they still hate...
@@latashaalexander4019 Lol
I couldn’t agree more.
More enemies you have, more you must be convinced that you are on the right path.
As a Sith lord I agree with this
Even if racist kills other color people? He would have ton of enemies. Think about it.
Or you are just unneccery a55hole, its also possibility
Agreed 👍! Fuck jealous haters! UK 🇬🇧
Big facts 💯
It is 100% True! Some people are SO insecure that they will pose as your "friend" while constantly criticizing you. That is not a friend. That is a "FRENEMY." Distance yourself from these losers.
Yep your right been in those situations b4
Got a couple guys at work trying to do that shit. Not working "buddy". I've had it with fake fucks obsessed with stirring shit up. I just need to remind myself with videos like this that there will always be people that will try to bring you down, but to keep your vision clear in your mind and don't give them the time of day.
This can even happen in a religious situation, people love-bomb initially, gain your trust, get some dirt to "pray for you" and actually use against you (scapegoating, getting some reward for themselves, etc.) It's just a sign of a spiritual block in their own lives. We all have our own junk, no need to use it against each other. No different than flinging our own poo at others and vice versa...🙊 We can all grow if and when we really want to, when we acknowledge something that needs our attention. I hope this blesses anyone who reads this.
@@lancemay2253 they try to bring us down to make themselves feel better. you have something they want.x
Some like gosip while u near and can hear them....
Haters don't even like themselves.
U Restauro ..too true👌
I truly believe that
TRUE 😂 I pity them Lol
that's exactly the point !
True af
"They hate us, cause they ain't us"
I don't get it. When my friends accomplish stuff in life, I genuinely feel happy for them. Even when my own life situation sucks.
STRAIGHT FACTS!!
Cause you are secure in yourself
Facts
That’s because you’re a winner in life . Being a winner is not a reflection of the materialistic things you earn in life, it’s a mindset. The core of it is conditioning your mind to become abundant.
It’s knowing that I’m ok with losing something or someone because I know I’m capable of getting something just as good or better. Don’t change you’re on the right path.
You hope to be rewarded with love by your friend. But if someone comes along and tells you that your friend has cheated on his or her way to that success, even if it can be proved, you might have found someone to hate. Many people are not hated for their success or for stealing successfully but for telling the truth and getting heard.
It's not always about hate towards success, sometimes miserable people will spot a "weakness" on you, and they will pray on that to make them feel something good.
"When your friend sees you succeeding where he or she failed, the HATE will be even stronger" That ain't your friend...GET RID OF THEM.
That's true.we really shouldn't waste time and energy apologize and explaining why we do it.its up to them to fix themselves
Jimmy Heuangpangna my friend tried to kill me after I graduated cosmetology school I put her in it she didn’t make it for a month someone told me she was going around asking someone to kill me
Exactly
MagicalIndigo-my bandmate who tried killing me once, was applauded recently by the religious community. The police were so concerned by this that they advised me to stay well away from her.
We have first hand experience of this. When we moved to executive end of our town, it was the people who were our best friends that became haters, literally over night. It was a massive shock. A kind of inverted snobbery. Plus lots of false rumours about how we got there. In a small town, people are soooooo willing to listen...
people use hate and humiliation to try to control you and shut you down, its their way of keeping you in line ... it can really become a motivation, easier said than done but its true, take it as a challenge...
I will....ty.....
1234qwer ...And it is also how people get shot up and killed.
Exactly. Seeing you succeed eats them up alive, killing them a thousand times, humiliated.
@@saranagh7097 rather fight then love on my knees
Female on female hate is relentless, they invest time into breaking other females down, they scan females to find a flaw , then blow their flaws up on a billboard to feel good about theirself
If you have any possitive skill or characteristic, probably you're gonna receive some hate.
Yeah...cause they are really jealous of you
Not probably... it is guaranteed! 😎
Bidinho Casfin 333 likes 😁🙏💚🦋
@@Flatleava apparently making a comprehensible statement is difficult for you
Haters are miserable and they project their misery onto happy people. They are insecure and wish to devour those of us who do the inner work that keeps us blessed! Been there, done that. I am blessed and protected in Jesus name. 🙏❤️🙏
Facts 💯💯
Haters Hate Because You're a reflection they wish they could be!!! plain and simple!!!
Agree.
I like this comment👍😀
Like my sister 🤦🏼♀️
True
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Just ignore the haters, live ur life
It such a simple concept that i can't follow.😥☹🙁
It's hard to ignore them they're acting out, lying on you, attacking you, criticizing you, undermining your progress, and intentionally disrupting your flow. Like he said, it's the people who are closest to you that show the strongest hatred. People you barely know may show negativity toward you, but you can ignore that a lot more easily. People close to you will do things like let you count on them, then let you down. Or withdraw support for some made up reason that doesn't make sense. They'll make it sound like you've done something so horrible (that may have nothing at all to do with them) and in their self-righteous indignation make it seem like they're just so upset about it, it's their job to make you suffer to learn the error of your ways. It can be quite convoluted. You'll start getting confronted by other family members or friends about the narrative about you that they're spreading. Apparently, I've had a lot of experience with haters. I usually keep it pushin', in spite of them. But I've got to be honest, I've been caught off guard thinking they had my best interest at heart, because we were so close. It's taken me awhile for me to realize just how deep their hatred/jealousy ran. It's painful when people you were the closest to turn on you when you REALLY start to achieve.
@@nanaanan4731 if your friends become your haters then they are fake friends and you need to get rid.
Agree
High Im Damon
But I don’t know how to...💔
Haters go after free spirit folks
Too true! It's their FULL TIME job!
Because they're happy. Free spirits have found value and contentment in their lives without needing anyone. It all comes from within. Cue the jealous haters. But when 2 free spirits meet it's magic. When you meet another free spirit, get their number, maybe you will connect.
@@lalaland4028 great advice.. I will!
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SAY IT LOUDER
People at my schools hated me for no reason. I was usually on my own, I had lots of thoughts, I didn't socialize. And many other students hated and bullied me a lot. I'm guessing that they didn't envy me. They had their own issues and they found someone like me to pick on -- to make themselves feel superior and better... and entertained.
Stargate Max . Right. Bc you are awesome. They are NARCISSIST...
Stargate Max ..Your heart is what evil can't stand...They don't have your kind Heart...
...Going forward, how's life treating you , now ? ..plans for the future ?
Trust me, you had SOMETHING they lacked (or they PERCEIVED you as having it.). A lot of “herd mentality” humans are threatened by “lone wolves” because the lone wolf is beyond their influence and doesn’t need peer validation to feel comfortable.
Stargate Max This is Awesome Also It Gave Me Great Insight from the other Point Of View
Life is like a video game, if you don't have haters coming at you from every angle, then you aren't playing the game right.
dam
Say that to an ill person after school shooting
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It's satisfying by the way
May God ...???😂??
If someone hates you,you must be doing something right👍🤘
Yep Let Them ! Focus On Yourself ! That's All That Matters !
Facts
If nobody's criticizing you, you're not living big enough; Listen to the fool's reproach, it's a kingly title! I used to hate my haters, now I pity them...
If nobody is criticising you, you aren’t living big enough, that is an excellent pearl of wisdom!!
ipnotiK from Italy
Real Talk. I eat haters for breakfast now.
True
But how do you deal with a hater who you see in a daily basis that follows you around becomes friends with all your friends who films you in secret when you having fun so he can potentially use it against you, who tries to make you look like a loser in front off your friend and when you confront him acts like he did nothing wrong?
papa mito Be patient and don't react. Eventually your true friends will see this person for what he really is, and they'll drop him like a bad habit. Time always brings out the truth.
Also for your own peace of mind, seek advice from those who are close to you who you are certain you can trust.
For this hater to go to all this trouble, even trying to become friends with your friends, this person can't have much of a life. So just play it cool, youv'e already won.
haters are their own judge. make themselves look dumb
Priscilla Baez you right about that .... Make them look dum , say nothing, do nothing and be nothing ..... Speech is silver and silence is gold which one would you choose?
Priscilla Baez .. NARCISSIST....
YES! They do.
yes this is true some hater accusing me of stealing he's account...I just laughed because it's easier to walk away from a evil then to have to prove myself to evil...Time will expose this evil..I know who I am no need to waste my time on unhealthy toxicity...@mom
Susana A I see where you are coming from. When you confront someone for talking or doing bad, you make sure for sure it is happening and not just guessing. You talk to the person and if they deny anything that you know. They’re pretty much lying to you. Pretending to be our friend when they have other motives. You let it slide for a little bit but after a while you may want to call the person out to see why they are being the way they are and if they still deny it, you cut that person off, because you deserve better.
WHEN THEY WATCH YOU ALL DAY AND CAN’T QUIT 👍🏻😁
I've been working next to a man like that for four years...definitely the weirdest black hearted hypocrite around.
It's a girl on my job very jealous of me nothing but a hater
Like my neighbors! Im the topic of their conversation on a daily basis!
He that is hated on unjustly is a king. For tho he may be lowly in the eyes of his enemies, their very attempts of his destruction are what places him on his throne when he overcomes them with dignified honor and great majesty.
Haters don't have virtues, etiquette,no good morals,they only want to see you in pain,and the haters are happy when something bad happen to you
You just described my mother 🤣
Definitely this has happened to me and it’s still happening
Sounds like Sqiudward from SpongeBob SquarePants
Exactly still even happening right now😅
Agree with u right
"haters make me famous." - paris hilton
Trueeee
She sure took the right attitude about it..✌
true
THAT is strong
And that's one that doesn't even deserve the fame.
Teach yourself to block it out completely. Build a wall, put the trash behind it and never even let it be a memory. Who the hell really cares what this person or that says?? They're focused on you and not themselves so who's really winning? Learning to ignore most of the haters will leave you alot less stressed out and a much lower blood pressure I suppose.
Victor Gronek {Grińgo} ..It matters when they steal your $920.00. The Narcissist is a thief. Wish I had my camera on. I do now... God bless you abundantly dear..😀😀
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Victor Gronek {Grińgo} This is some great Teaching's..Yes will do my dear.. Will try any way's !!
Victor Gronek {Grińgo} Really. really good Intellect here! Much appreciated. Need this on my Wall to read everyday next to my BIBLE..
Without the spirit of God living inside you the torment of haters will be too much.
You were not designed to deal with these issues on your own.
The best thing you can do is go somewhere private and cry out to God in sincerity
HELP ME GOD!
I NEED YOU!
COME INTO MY LIFE!
FORGIVE ME FOR MY SINS!
He will truly come to your assistance.
He will bring peace, joy, direction and hope.
Amen
Never hate your haters back!
If you find them excessively on your mind you can do this.
Remove any stress build up by going for a run. The best stress buster to clear your mind.
Forgive your enemies even if you have to do it on a daily basis.
Pray for them to be blessed and be genuine about it.
If you become bitter and hate back you have lost the spiritual battle and the haters have won!
Be positive and friendly with the people who dont hate you if it is a work based environment.
Only talk to your haters if you have no choice. Any other time use a no contact policy and ghost them. This shows you dont need their approval.
Never confront the haters
Never lose patience
Never get angry
This is what they want.
Be forbearing.
Be long suffering.
When you can walk in a room and the atmosphere turns thick and cold to the bone and the hair stands up on the back of your neck. And it’s a room full of people. You can feel it. I can.
Frankie Flowers I feel it so strongly, I sense these people are like demons, they make you feel really cold.
true
You could be empathic!
NEVER GIVE UP ON BEING A GOOD PERSON THERE SPIRIT CANT STAND YOURS I HAVE SAID THE SAME THING ITS BECAUSE WE SHINE THERE DULL
@@josephfarrier3978very true!
In the bible it says, people who feel inferior to you can teach you alot about their soul. Haters are insecure, sad, lack confidence or inner joy
Thats what’s really getting to me, that someone could be so rotten. I couldn’t imagine projecting what they say. Thank you for your comment
Most haters are found in the family circle and at the job.
@1chaoz yes
Agreed
Very true.
100%
My hater was from school/college
Haters are my motivators. I’m going to work hard to become very successful and make them hate me even more 😂
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Agreed
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The best kind of revenge.
Absolutely
Hate from others is my fuel.
joe king same here
How to stop hating person that hate you?
Smile and be nice it kills them
Always pay evil with good . The hater will die inside slowly out of guilt.
Rebound their hate by being better at least it works for me
Envy is like acid; it eats away the container that it's in.
Yes
Very very true
Perfectul right!
Proverbs 14:30
A sound heart is life of the flesh. Envy rottenness to the bone. (KJV)
A heart at peace gives life to the body, but envy rots the bones. (NIV)
This is the truth!!!! My entire family chose me as the scapegoat at a very young age. I was the one who always asked "why" when I wanted to know why we do things. They always hated that I wanted to understand the purpose of things. To this day, and I am 67 years old, my family hates to have discussions at all, they do not want to understand why they think a certain way, they just want to hate anyone who will make them think.
The haters are jealous and want you to be lowered down to their level just like them. I think it is better to crush, humiliate, and intimidate haters. I like to play with my inner dark side. I sometimes like being a Sith Lord and not always being a Jedi Knight.
yes i embrace my darkness too.
How do do that? Just curious.
@@jafp1617 what ever they do or their proud of just do 10 times better
I totes understand. I enjoy utilizing my different personalities as well. 1. Galvatron of Transformers The (cartoon Movie (1986) 2.Amara of "Supernatural".
@@TimeLordMe3rd my favorite personality would be vegito
So today I had a run-in with a hater and it really put me in a bad mood. Then I found this video and it helped me a lot. Thanks! :)
Same! It’s brilliantly put together
Saro Dantra ..Right.. Me too!! God bless you dear..People are jealous of your heart and joy.. Imagine being empty all day everyday .Man that's rough.. Rejoice you are full of strength and happiness!!! JESUS is Lord..
I cannot think of that singer's name. 🎶But I Shake It Off- I Shake It Off! Haters Gonna hate, hate, hate, but I Shake It Off🎶
They wanted you in a bad mood you shouldnt let them win
@genwords1789 that’s how I got here, looking for that song. Female singer..
*They say your haters are your biggest fans*
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MANI TRIPPLE G R dey???
MANI TRIPPLE G not when they try to kill u
@@magicalindigoadult3838 who try to kill you and how?
@@leogelu many people in different way one person put the gas on with the oven all the way up when they left my party good thing I didn’t light a cigarette back then and now my own godmother tried to get me jumped because she’s telling people that I am not the race I am because I’m mixed and made older woman attack me still have ptsd from her humiliation when we went out she would embarrass me about my race.
*Hater:* _CALL ME A BIGGEST FAN, AND YOU'RE GONNA LIKE IT, YA MORON!_
Jeez! That's pretty unhealthy and unnecessary.
I have actually noticed that whenever I felt "hate" for someone and like wanted to leave a stupid hate comment on their social media or something, that person actually had something that I craved. Whether it be popularity, self confidence (that I lack), or even just cooler clothes lol.
Start asking yourself why you hate on someone - I'll guarantee, envy is the root.
Absolutely! 💯
U shut up n stop speaking the truth 😩
I hate one dud voice.....fucking deep it can cut bread...maybe vegetables too...
Introspection is priceless,it's the key to growth. All the best ☺️
K SE . What a great person you are. God bless you abundantly!! You are not a NARCISSIST..You are growing into GREATNESS my dear..
Broke it down perfectly! I can't believe the nature of "grown adults" today that I see. It's like watching and dealing with babies most times.
Yep. It's clear to see that many need to do some inner child work/healing.
“Your actions are casting a spotlight.” Powerful
Haters are a lower I.Q. fanbase means they're thinking about me I'm always on their minds even if it's in a negative way.
Oh wow now i know....so.i been on their mind all this damn time...wow.....
They could be high IQ but with psychological issues.
I see you haven't had the misfortune of meeting a high IQ unbearable person,who everyone can't stand but keep around BC of their expertise.
Thank your lucky stars.They are the WORST💩
And also: Yes, quote; "If the world hate u it hated me first" unquote,...and What Goes Around Comes around. Haters will get theirs.
They’re not necessarily lower IQ, BUT they are always deficient (real or perceived) in some way compared to the “hated” target. Women who PERCEIVE themselves as “unattractive” or “less attractive” than a peer will hate the target, categorizing her as “stuck up” or “snobby” or “conceited” even if the target is actually quite polite and respectful to them.
In my entire life, I cannot recall a single emotionally healthy and intelligent person expressing “hate” or other maladjusted bullying behavior.
Agreed
been feeling low because of the haters around me<
this video is really helpful in getting over it.
thank you!!
That was the goal, Raju!
Raju K
That's exactly what they want .keep grinding and succeeding in your goals
Raju K i feel what it's like to be hated with many people, sometimes i just wanted to be alone...
But after a watch this now i know why there are people don't like me as a collage....
Raju K ..same
My absolute best friend is a self made millionaire and I am not.
Yet we have never let financial status become an issue in our friendship.
If more people could learn to value the true meaning of a friendship , what a better place this world could be !
brian houle is your friend in a position to invest in a growing company
This also shows that you are secure in your own skin and have a good sense of self-regard. 😊
“Love me or hate me, it’s still an obsession”
-Lady Sovereign
My greatest line in a song came from Nas on a song called Stay. “ Some seek fame cause they need validation. Some say HATE is confused Admiration “. Maybe people see too much of their failures in a person who’s (realer) , meaning driven focused , and ambitious.
I find it fascinating that haters think that there's no consequences for what they do or say and everyone should just take their crap. + hating is a lot of work
Yup
True. Hoping karma does its job because as angry as I get with the injustice of unfair treatment, deception, sabotage , betrayal etc ... Having to plot, scheme to calculate revenge.... It's not me man.... You go that way you just become toxic yourself. It's a poisonous way to live. Unhealthy for you. And your success and happiness will grind their gears like nothing else and I've seen this with my own eyes.
I'm exceptionally good looking, smart and strong. I deal with hater scum all the time
Same💯
Same
Same
Same , thanks for posting this comment I’m glad I’m not the only one. Don’t let haters get to you, life is too short ❤️
Same
This is so true. I like to repeat 'I don't hate the people who hate me and I am not jealous of the people who are jealous of me' when haters do or say something to put me down. Because I don't want to pollute my energy and let it ruin my day or bring me down
Right
Im in a crap job, but Im a happy person at work anyway, and man has that brought out some haters.
Im going through the same thing.
I won't lie. Their is one person who is always laughing, but he is unproductive and I even told him stop constantly approaching me with silliness. What is the difference between someone being annoying and someone you hate?
O true, I have had people hate me because I had a positive happy disposition at work. My life wasnt perfect by any means (lots of problems) but seeming happy brought out the green monsters. Even bosses hate it, all the while preaching positivity. They love drama.
People with NPD can't stand seeing others happy. 🤔
Laugh at haters...it really pisses them off. 😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣🤣😂🤣
And they hate being IGNORED...and I LOVE IT...
Brilliant and true😂😂😂😂
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SPOT ON😂😂😂
Not good tho when you work with them! At work there is no good outcome I'm afraid
No matter how many haters you have. You will be successful ❤️❤️
These haters are called Narcissists.
the thing I hate most about haters is they never have the guts to say a word to your face always behind your back
That's why it's good not to tell anybody including family anything about what you are doing. You don't have to tell anyone that your successful. It's safer that way. This was a good vid.
There’s ABSOLUTELY NOTHING WRONG WITH YOU. YOU’RE BEAUTIFUL!!!✨ WHETHER GUY OR GIRL. WE ALL HAVE FLAWS, BUT THAT’S WHAT SET US ALL APART AND MAKE US
D I F F E R E N T. Remember that.🎯😏 GOD BLESS!
Haters motivate me so much.
Give me hate and I will prove you wrong.
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Ok then umm....
You're ugly? Too basic. Ok hmm you're stupid. No too childish. You're umm youre you're youre uhh youre an idiot! Meh I guess that'll work. Ok hehem let's try that again
Youre an idiot
Was that ok? Lol
I never had haters in my life, maybe jealous individuals, until the haters moved in next door three years ago. I get on with everyone I come into contact through my businesses and my general demeanor towards others. But these individuals are genuine haters. They choose to be haters, are unfriendly and cannot be spoken to. No matter how hard I try.
Regardless, I wish the haters all the best and they succeed in their lives and careers.
“If you are willing to look at another person’s behavior toward you as a reflection of the state of their relationship with themselves rather than a statement about your value as a person, then you will, over a period time cease to react at all.”
- Yogi Bhajan
The worst kind of hate is when it's couched in passive aggressive behaviour or language so you're doubting yourself thinking " am I imagining this ? ' there's lots of sly people take real pleasure in this way of undermining others .
This is so amazing ! Ive struggled all my life with wanting everyone to like me and just being completely distraught when people hate me , and I have had maaaannnnnyy!! This truly put everything in perspective !!!
I wish I could like this a million times! Everything he said was true.
I know right!
Dealt with haters all of my life. I've been the number one salesman in more than one industry and many companies and have been fired because of non-selling, hater scum. What I still don't understand is why haters are believed more than honest people who only show up and do their job. I have often felt the parallel between Jesus and myself in that demons come out of the woodwork when I'm around.
That's an awesome accomplishment! The reason why haters 'are believed more' is because social psychology causes the 'herd' to ridicule those who stand out. In society, if you stand out, people tend to hate you because it shines a spotlight on them. They might feel inferior because they don't have the courage to stand out while you do.
Hope you enjoyed the video! ;)
phuckugugu mee too
The haters around motivated me to start a technology company.
Gave them something real to hate on. That makes me better each day.
you rise to the top.
phuckugugu All the prophets were persecuted because of their superior levels of humanity and goodness. History shows the messages brought by prophets now dominate the world and the haters are just remnants in history.
Do you not want to b different at all instead being part of the same as in the Tetris game from Nintendo?
Haters gonna hate.
lovers gonna love
PLAYERS GONNA PLAY 😎👑💯
Live a life man good luck 😎
Facts
Spot on. I learned through life experiences, so much that I couldn't deny it. I have a hater every place I go. I thought people got jealous because I'd talk about things I'd try to do to be better and they interpreted it as me bragging. I'd mention that I'm failing with my efforts and tell them the flaws that made me want to be better, nope. Still jealousy, now I keep my plans and daily activities to myself, except with few people.
I make people feel insecure about themselves..THE HATERSSS..sad but awesome!😂😂😂👍👍👍👍
I think this video just saved my life. These haters got my blood pressure elivated. Now equipped with this info I can get off the BP pills.
I'm a young/good looking 53 year old man and always had haters.
I was always the smartest guy in the room and had deal with haters. When I announced to my family my desire to start a technology company all I got was hate.
Them haters want to be Dj Digital
"The Original".
You have one of the best channels on youtube. Positive content with no hate.
Launching my startup Electron Mechanical Corporation and youtube channel in 2018 with new vigor! Thanks!
Good luck Handsome!!!
Dude i admire you im 37 and been living my best life and i dont have any freinds left.. good i do what i want now
Now I know why the guy in my class kept personal attack me and try so hard to make me feel bad.
I'm not successful.. why do I have haters..?
Ricardo Saucedo lol I be thinking the same shit sometimes. But like beauty even success can b in the eye of the beholder, they maybe jealous of natural qualities u have, they wish they had.
Ricardo Saucedo potential
Depends on what is viewed as success. For instance I have no job, I have no car(I'm still young and working on those things), my success has put me on the path to gain what I lack. While I see those around me are jealous.
Someone who used to be very close to me is jealous. I've changed my hair, my style of dressing. I have always been a handsome man. This person doesn't view themselves as handsome so they detest me for it.
Another has looked up to me his whole life but doesn't like to admit it to himself. He doesn't know what he wants to be or do with his life, he is still young even more so than I and has time to figure this out, but has chosen to let peer pressure direct his energy toward negativity.
Another man who is close to my family, both he and my uncle are like brothers. They had dreams of being athletes and they see themselves as failures because they did not reach that goal. Theyve gone bald and are overweight. I am young, healthy, and have a full head of hair.
Success is a matter of how you perceive yourself, I think. That may be why they are jealous much in that I(from my perspective) have very little to be jealous of, yet I have many who are jealous of me and act immature and do things to spite me.
blacktee31 Good thinking :) **Remember to always be with people that know a lot more than you.** IT'S A RULE
blacktee31 I feel you man I was never spoiled and my parents would literally give me nothing but yet people would always hate on me maybe because I was still calm, chill, and happy without having the things they had and they would always try to show of their material stuff and ask me why I don't get what they have. I guess they thought it would bring up their self esteem up if it made me jealous but in reality I really didn't even care to the point I wouldn't even realize they were showing off until much later. Most of the times it was ugly insecure friends who would try to impress everyone and try to have a lot of friends. I guess they thought if they had more stuff then I did it would rank them as a high status then me but I always saw them as losers/children and I always saw myself more intellectually higher than them because of that so I guess that is why I have no idea what it feels like to be jealous.
The passive aggression: an awesome example. Great perspective.
Yes. So common amongst toxic types... Also silent treatment. Left on read etc ...
For 29 years I lived in a small town where the entire town hated me! I got 5 drive-by shootings, ongoing vandalism, animal mutilations etc. Two ladies, if you can call them ladies, assaulted me in broad daylight saying, "Go back to where ever you came from" & "you fit in here"! When going to the police the cops told me, "Well maybe you should think about moving"!? I left that small town with C-PTSD from the ongoing abuse. Thanks to this video, I now feel vindicated! Thank you for posting!!!
If you have haters just dab on them
crazy puffle Usually I would hate comments like this, but Im not gonna hate.
i like your comment
What if they dab back?
@@dioxide39 🤣🤣
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I mean,even heroes have those haters we call villains
And those villains' lives revolve around the heroes'
So true I went through this when I started my business. I lost every “friend”
So sad, do you still have your business?
@@ninjapirate123 yes I do
@@dbswaistbeads Thats good, you must never give up on what you want to achieve no matter how many haters you have, just keep going.
@@ninjapirate123 😢😔 thank you so much!!! I haven other choice ❤
@@dbswaistbeads wdym you haven't other choice?
Hate is also triggered by fear. They see something in you that intimidates or threatens them.
Exactly what Yoda from Star Wars would say: Fear leads to anger which leads to hate which leads to suffering & suffering is the Path of the Dark Side!!!
1. Projecting flaws
2. Insecure in themselves (personal failure)
3. No purpose in their life
4. Low self esteem
5. Feel inferior
Funny how I get haters when I upload my own content, sending me playground insults and unoriginal name calling
+John Smith. Those haters seem to be mentally unhinged. What I notice about the haters who come to my RUclips channel is that a lot of them seem to have no subscribers on their RUclips channels and very few views on their videos despite that their channels have been in existence for a substantial period of time. It's as though they're taking their failures out on others. The haters who have no posted videos at all are merely keyboard warriors hiding behind their computer screens.
B.B Lone Vibes so would you block haters that are real life friends in your real life or allow them to continue in the audience?
B.B Lone Vibes Everyone is entitled to their own opinion. Don’t let the haters get to you. They’re just miserable in their own life.
Man God bless yall!! Someone called me ugly and then told me to kill myself and I'll be honest, it hurt me alot to hear that. I couldn't believe they said that. Ironically I've been getting more compliments and have been more successful than ever but I'll NEVER forget what they said. I try not to hate but I hate what they said to me, and all over a stupid opinion on Tekashi 69 staging his robbery. I must have pissed off his fan but tbh I thought I was being respectful smh
@@joeydinero9300 sorry you went though that.... Im sending hugs....
If you ain't got no haters , you ain't poppin' ! Lol anyways great video.
Facts 💯💯
I like that message. It reminded me to stay on a high road and just my own thing. Not to be affected by haters but to motivate myself more to do my best everyday. Thank you for sharing 🙂
I love the haters that tell me they hate me but the haters that act like they are my friends,family or loving partner now that’s deadly!!
Powerful. What I love the most about this piece is how it explains a hater's psych and how you ought to handle it, yet at the same time reminding you to be conscious that you don't become a hater yourself.
Only people at a low level in life with a low mind set...will use their time and energy into hating on some other person...sucessful people will spend their time and energy in themselves...life is beautiful and only gets better..btw awesome video!!!😂
Thanks for this video!
Difficult to make your own path, but I can’t see myself doing it any other way.
Haters gon’ hate.
Hi. Just wanted to say a huge thank you for doing the research and making this video. I had done exactly what you said, I chose to doubt myself and look for what was wrong with me. This cost me a lot in terms of time, money, emotions, pain.. I never understood why I was so hated in college when infact I was doing pretty well in high school and then after watching your video, I realized something.. I was at the top of my class in college and like you mentioned, that got me more haters, nay sayers and bullies.. I fell into depression because of it. Until today I was blaming myself and believing that I deserved it.. but your video opened my eyes to the fact that there’s indeed something wrong with them. Happy and content people don’t go around destroying others. Thank you once again.
I’m cool with being hated on, it’s the watching me and watching me struggle that upsets me every time cause you can really consider me dead !
This is sad but true. I had a lot more people around me when I was broke and struggling. As soon as I began seeing a bit of success, Ive had to pretty much isolate and cut people off.
It's been said by all sucessful people...when your doing something good in life...people are going to try and stop you..HATERS!!!..good video and very true!
Great video! I watched it 3 times, to get the full meaning.
As the video said, Haters can inspire you to new heights, if your intentions are good.
Ive found that when they smirk at you....or talk behind your back...it helps if you just smile frequently thru their madness. That drives them insane. When you are calm, stable and mannerly towards them, it forces them to look within.
If you havent yelled at them, or shot their mother, trust me, in their silent moments, they will ask themselves "Why do I hate this person so much?"
Without hate love wouldnt feel so good.
+Homero Eggert. That post of yours makes me think of this one saying from the Flower Children of the Haight-Ashbury section of San Francisco. "Haight" is love.
Or because of hate, having love is so freeing!
Its so true.....
Start appreciating little things you have with even feet huging .......lmao
What love?
Thank you. I needed to hear that. Sometimes haters get the best of you and that's exactly what they want.
I needed to hear this. It breaks my heart when people stop being Cool or friend's with me, because, they think, I'm "too good". That's not the case at all. I'm just a happy go Lucky, optimistic human working a 9 to 5.
now I know why I've been hated all this time !
Love love this video. I usually am not the type to think ppl get jealous of me to make myself better but this explains how my coworkers are with me. I do nothing but work hard and sell the most retail but yet all i get in return is them talking shit and i did nothing to them to deserve that. They must feel threatened by a stylist that is brand new and yet have better numbers over them who been working as one 4 to 8 years. If only ppl supported eachother more often the world would feel more happiness and less drama.
Get away from them, Hon. But be consoled for know that what Goes Around Comes around. And u Know, ur special to God🤣😂, and those that hate u,...Mother have them, Mother love them, Mother U-KNOW- WHAT them.
@Vanessa. I got someone who annoys me at work. Whenever I'm in earshot he'll speak in this overcompensating way. Almost begging for attention. I told him once. I'm a quite style person. So please stop addressing me unprofessionally each time we cross paths, even though it's a warehouse environment. I refuse to act like a clown at work. I guess the annoying part is, I not even getting credit for being the most productive around clowns.
The knowledge you gived me has changed my life directly 180. I am so grateful to you. I even phone called one of my greatest friend and tell him to watch your channel. You will get more views on your videos. Keep going! I believe in you!
Thank you for being you.
"Criticism is something we can avoid easily, by saying nothing, doing nothing and being nothing.." - Aristotle
In my opinion there are 2 paths of Criticism:
1. Criticism from haters on the path to sucess or (Sucess Criticism);
2. The criticism from your friends and family, more importantly your own as a result of not succeeding and living up to your potential (Failure Criticism)..
Those on the path to sucess will experience alot more criticism because of haters..
I get so much hate in society because I'm a punk rocker and have the bravery to just be true to myself and not be the same as them
a lot of people utterly hate me, even if I am a total failure.. :(
Gioia Rodati hey a great song to listen to is "Keep getting up" by Mandisa that song helps me alot!!
apparently, from reading through others comments on this, its because what you perceive as a total failure is way better than what they are.
There us something there that makes them feel guilty or jealous. Are you good looking? Do you have a nice body? Are you happy?? I was criticized at my job cause I was happy & smiled alot. Another girl was criticized for the same reason. I think our joy made them jealous. They felt miserable & our smiling faces & happiness made them angry
Maybe you're not the total failure you think you are. You can't be if you have haters
Gioia Rodati ..It's your heart and beauty. And your heart keeps your beauty even brighter....JESUS is Lord..
Took a while for me to realize this one... I always thought people would admire someone's drive... but nah'
Nope they will just hate
I always did as well. I mean that's how I reacted so... I'm assuming you get inspired by other also 😘
me too.
@@katk3489 so sorry I am just noticing your comment. But yes, I absolutely get inspired by other people's success and even the energy that they give off.
Sorry again for the delay. And that is a good question. 🙏🏾
@@slr-d not a problem ☺ thank you for messaging back. I hope you're doing well!
I got an idea "Shake it off!" lol great video again man.
Snigglebread Yeah shake your foot off in their azz
😮 my mother alway told me " you know you are doing good if people are hating on you"
My daughter who is an absolutely amazing teenager with lots of things going for her is dealing with haters right now so I just sent her this video.
I appreciate you making it.