Hater's gonna hate..... I spent most of my early life being the supportive relative, but time after time when I got the opposite in return, I became bitter until I started following successful people like Robert Kayasaki and Dean Graziosi. Through their motivational books and videos, I learned that I was just giving those people space in my head that was only hurting my mindset and efforts to achieve what I wanted in life. I subsequently began seeking positive influences and found Alux along the way. Once I was able to realize that I had been negatively programmed from a very early age to believe that I would never accomplish anything worthwhile, or that my efforts would never be good enough, I have since been able to tap into my fiercely independent and rebellious entrepreneurial spirit and do what inspires me to go for my life's goals and aspirations in spite of my fiercest critics. Today I no longer let my broke relatives tell me how to be financially successful, and instead push ahead with the things I truly want to accomplish instead of letting the toxic people in my life talk me out of trying.
@@ViburaBlanca But I don't understand one thing that's if you're unlucky for example let's say......You got an accident cause someone pushed you on the road, and it's not like someone aimed to push you and successfully did, It's like out of ALL the people YOU are the one who got pushed, so no matter how hard you work, the luck will stay the same! that's why I don't believe in luck.
Outwork and out perform every single one of them... They talk smack and u work They gossip and u work They laugh at u and u work One day they will realise that where they are at and where u are They will lose and u will win They will have nothing to talk smack about
Like Dana White and alot of other wealthy people said..the more the haters try to slow you down from sucess..the more you push harder... and the more sucessful you become...nothing will even come close to stopping me...life is beautiful👍👍👍👍🤙🤙🤙
The Large Beast sure you can, it’s called ignoring them. People make it the hardest thing in the world to get rid of haters, when all you gotta do, is block and ignore. Plain and simple as I get put it for you.
@@williambanks1245 exactly. It’s not everything you see online that you accept as the truth. If you read a haters comment ignore it. Don’t let it enter your head. The reason why people find it difficult to ignore haters is because they always believe what the haters say. We’re humans. Most people will always talk trash. You don’t have to listen to them.
Haters are interesting people. The vibe I get from them is anything you can do I can do better. Like they're in secret competition with me when I never asked them to compete with me. It's like they assume I think I'm better than them when I never said anything like that nor do I hold those views. I only compete with myself. If it's not that, there's something about me that triggers their insecurities by me being myself. Which isn't my problem, they need to address it with in themselves. They say things they think will trigger me but I see straight through it. I read psychology books, watch lectures from FBI and CIA agents and university professors on reading people and body language, and learn strategies and tactics from life coaches. I empower myself and yet the haters I deal with, they don't read books, they don't expand their knowledge and they compare themselves to others when they shouldn't. They have low IQ and vibrations and they think their attempts at triggering me will work, I see everything they're trying to do. I don't focus on these haters as I'm constantly working on myself but I'm clearly a big deal to them because if I wasn't, they wouldn't be trying to bring me down or compete with me. They would focus on themselves and their goals, but they don't do that. Winners focus on winning and losers focus on winners.
My mother is the CEO of her own aerospace manufacturer and recently graduated from Harvard with her Owner President Management Cert. What haters don't see is the divorce, 5 kids, grinding, hard work, MS diagnoses, pain, and sacrifice she had to make to get there. She inspires me to work as hard as she does so that maybe one day I too will have success like she does and Alux only motivates me a little more. Haters. gonna. hate.
I'm not sure if anyone realizes this, but you people are using hate to fight hate. You are defeating the purpose of your so-called "movement" to stop hate. Here's the gist, people: Hate will never be stopped because hate are all based from opinions. And we humans live off of opinons. The best way to fight hate is to not fight at all, but to embrace it. Make the best of the hate by using it as a way to boost your spirit. Fighting hate with more hate is only going to lead to more hate. Just learn to accept it.
Francisco Domene love that. Well said. That one second of valueble time you spent on haters and always worry about their destructive criticism is only going to weigh you down and keep you from succeeding in reaching your goals in life.
Alux.com yaa I have a cousin but she is a bitch who always hate me because she thinks I have a better life than her and she is lizard she does so many bad shits
10 years ago, i used to get miserable when i get haters now i enjoy when i notice a hater it makes me more powerful knowing that i have someone uncomfortable.
One year ago, I used to get sad very easily when people said me something. Now I never bother what people say about me and do what I want. First I used to help many friends or sometimes almost whole class regarding projects. Then also they used to demotivate me. Now, I only think about myself and about what I want to achieve and how to achieve it. From childhood I was a big target of the bullies. Even in college many people used to demotivate me. Even many people in my family think I don't matter much. Also once teacher removed anger on me by giving very less marks, because of which I lost one year. Even after winning big programming competitions, people used to think I am socially backward. But this made me very strong mentally. Now days I have learnt to handle life. Thanks a lot this video gave me more motivation to handle haters. Now days I have learnt to ignore haters because of my previous mistakes. Haters gonna hate. BTW even if there are many haters, there are some friends and my parents who support and encourage me a lot.
My father told me a few years ago I couldn't get a degree so I got one. He said I couldn't get a master's so I got one. He told me I couldn't get a good paying job so I got one. He said I couldn't win a girl's heart with no money so I did. Now he wants me to get him a house so I said no. Lol. My father is my motivation. He thought I was stupid like him, but I get my genes from my mom who divorced him 18 years ago.
deee dawwwggg Damn lol makes sense but, sometimes people make mistakes. Sooo you can't judge someone's entire character off of one mistake. I think you should probably re-watch this video😂😂😂🤙🏽
Haters are going to hate- I have watched so many of these videos but never leave the comment phrase but I finally had to. In fact I lost the comment and not I am going back an typing it again because of how much I appreciate it. I've been gaslit and put through so much the last few years with toxic people around me that I thought I was the one who was crazy until I started watching these videos and realize it's not just me who thigs this way. The constant barrage of negativity and toxic people had me stumble but the old RUclips algorithm led me to these videos and I finally watched a few and you have honestly changed my life and put me back on the …no let me know to hold fast on my path. Thank you
This video made me cry cause there is so much truth in it. Haters hate you for the fact that you did better than them in life. Don't fall for their disgusting comments they may throw on your face or to others and you will remain strong. Remember - you are better than them. That is why they hate you. This includes bosses who can't stand to see you are happier than them in life. Being happier in life for what you have itself makes you better than them. Many thanks Alux for this insightful video.
“If you are willing to look at another person’s behavior toward you as a reflection of the state of their relationship with themselves rather than a statement about your value as a person, then you will, over a period time cease to react at all.” - Yogi Bhajan
I get classroom hate all the time. Majority of the time I do the most talking during discussion and answer questions. While everyone scared to talk in the class. They Envy me, because I'm strong.
I ignore the haters, and sometimes it’s sad but when they are my best friends i‘ll cut the friendship because I always try to get rid of all the bad energy and give them a real reason to hate
1 thing you should know about your hater! Often when you understand the psychology of a hater, you'll realize that it has absolutely nothing to do with you. The hater is confused, insecure and actually hates themselves; and is just looking for someone else to unload the heavy load they are carrying, so they can feel better. That's pretty sad.
The worst thing for them is to realize they are totally irrelevant to you. If you want to drive a hater crazy address them by the wrong name. It tells them they don’t matter to you. And their reaction can be quite funny. Haters got to hate but you don’t have to care if they do. People only have as much power over you as you give them.
I get classroom hate all the time. Majority of the time I do the most talking during discussion and answer questions. While everyone scared to talk in the class. They Envy me, because I'm strong. Most people in my school are very depresse and sad with theirselves.
Whenever i can tell someone is sending hate my way i pull their card and tell them this... hating on me isnt going to solve your problems! The hate suddenly disappears on the surface! Try it
Let me tell you something. Love is the decision so the hate. Everyone loves someone so they hate sometimes. If you don't love, you don't need to hate anything. So the love is hate of another manifestation of the same thing like the two sides of the same coin. Tell me who is your enemy and I will let you know your strength. Totally impossible to love your real enemy so every aspect of our life. Hate is part of life. Use it well or it will use you. Right or wrong, all are one. Which is love. There's BT
Haters are gonna hate , but keep going the way you are and keep thinking that everythings are gonna be alright and that is just where things get better ! This is a really good video !
Im so caught up with myself, taking care of business and enjoying life...i can honestly say..i really dont notice anyone hating..btw good video and 100% agreed..🥇🥇🥇🥇
I got a job promotion which almost doubles my salary, but I have to move to another State. One of my friends was so against me moving, and I never understood why. This video explains it all!
Rommel V he could of really been your freind. i like 2 keep my friends close. my best freind right now has a house that probably 3 times as big as mine. he drives a 42k truck. I drive a scooter. he has a hot wife. IM HAPPY FOR HIM I DONT HAVE ANY JEOLUSY FOR HIM!!
Or they just don't want you to go cause they'll miss you? You know, precious context is required for people to understand your story better, that way they don't think you're just jumping to the most egocentric conclusion possible.
Or Rommel's perceptions of his friends is right, he knows them well enough, they've made comments around him and to others about his success. They cannot accurately see how he has worked beyond effort to value to have his salary double, to move out of state when they don't know how to achieve the same results. Suggesting to him that he might be wrong is like suggesting to a man or a woman that maybe it wasn't rape-rape. Maybe s/he misunderstood? Trust yourself first, you're the only one who should never and therefore won't lie to you.
Haters going to hate… I am a man who is blind but nevertheless I am successful, published author, law student, Olympic hopeful, national champion, I have a good personality and a very positive outlook on life I believe in living in my life to the full us and I let believe in living a life of limitless potential, I have lots of haters because when they look at me they see no excuses for themselves because I can do all the things and beyond anything they can do and the fact that I am also blind really stings them
"Misery loves company." Why? Because if they're miserable and if they can make you miserable or be around miserable people. Then this normalizes the misery and makes it OK! "Haters gonna hate," and they love misery!
This video is so good & just what I was looking for. Such clarity on how the bitter person's mind works. Haters may hate you but deep down...they actually hate themselves.
Alux video ideas: Success, building self confidence, making more money, being at peace, gaining wisdom, being independent, getting more done, breaking bad habits, overcoming shyness, reaching goals, avoiding sadness, making your mark on the world, rich money habits, overcoming depression, avoiding bad relationships, getting motivated, success on the job, hoarding & getting organized, overcoming fear, changing your life.
I’m someone who plays competitive Call Of Duty Modern Warfare. I had to recently unfriend a Twitch streamer. He got mad because I would get more kills than him and get the final kill cam on all of his streams. He tried to play it off like my kills and tactics are not any good. But, he failed to realize that I invest a lot of time practicing to get good, while he’s slacking off. Success comes in different forms. I succeed with first person shooter games by practicing. And this guy can’t tolerate someone being better than him at the game. Life doesn’t reward those who slack off and he needs to realize that. For those reading this, you need to surround yourself by those that want to see you succeed. The haters are irrelevant and they just want to slow your role down. When the Lakers are winning, the haters don’t say anything. But when the Lakers are loosing that’s when the dogs start barking.
yep they are everywhere, Mostly its jealousy, I used to cook for a living, I remember being an average chef and everyone liked me, but once I got good at cooking then all my co workers hated me and put me down behind my back saying I can't cook and stopped talking to me..
Haters are my greatest motivators. When I see a person driving a beautiful car or having a large mansion, I think,''wow, good for them.''. I never wish a person's failure. How is someone failing going to benefit me unless its bidding on a logistics settlement. Hey, Alux? Haters gonna hate.
Faraz this makes me uncomfortable because I'm just now realizing this in my own life. I haven't even done much in my opinion and I can feel the tension.
I'm not sure if anyone realizes this, but you people are using hate to fight hate. You are defeating the purpose of your so-called "movement" to stop hate. Here's the gist, people: Hate will never be stopped because hate are all based from opinions. And we humans live off of opinons. The best way to fight hate is to not fight at all, but to embrace it. Make the best of the hate by using it as a way to boost your spirit. Fighting hate with more hate is only going to lead to more hate. Just learn to accept it.
In the book "think and grow rich" said about positivity is constructive energy and negativity is destructive energy. that means the more you hate the more destructive energy you accumulate results in unhappy, unhealthy and more failures lifestyle.
TQ... Fantastic video. How about a video on "How to deal with haters?". Appreciate all the good work you girls and boys at Alux produce. Keep up the good work. Cheers.
I simply ignore them. They secretly follow on social media but never hit like button but always be first to comment something acerbic, just don't reply them, they will become even more frustrated😉 Haters gonna hate.
Oh my god, this is the type of the video that makes the most sense in the world! Thank you Alux, regardless of what haters think, we should always trail the path we are pointed to, as long as it is safe just disliked for being so.
Great video! My mother taught me when I was very young that the people who make fun of you and bully you are actually envious of you. That has carried me a long way. I learned to stick to my own values, treat people right, and be the best of whatever I wanted to be. I'm now 62 and living exactly the way I want to live. I'm sure that I've had haters, but I've been too busy living life to notice.
Having the suffered Living in Kentucky my latter teenage years when my parents moved there that Mindset is a certainly in the south and others places where theirs more Poor then Good.
I have learned that some people are going to dislike you for no earthly reason. And when confronted, if they say they do not have a problem (denial) - shut them off! Because now that person is a waste of your valuable time.
Every one on here that's striving to do anything positive has one, but the most effective way to deal with those people is to love them in spite of.That stategy just totally messes with their head, because for some weird reason ur hater sees u as a threat, and they are not even on your radar. Because you are playing the game, and the hater is just a spectator, a fan
I ignore the Haters and I just let them continue to be the way they are!! I took my wrestling from the back yard to indoor where by doing this makes us more legit..I have haters who do the same thing I do(which is wrestle) and constantly run their mouth about and try calling me out saying I never was trained and I only hold 1 show a year but that 1 show a year is all I can afford!!! Usually wrestling promotions have sponsors but I don't have a business way with people so I prefer others who know what they are talking about do the talking but nobody seems to step up an do it even though I know they can talk really good with people..
defintely agree with the haters gonna hate thing, i realised making everyone happy is impossible hopefully not too late, left my job because i realised things that were being blamed were not only not my fault but also completely out of control, now that i've left there and have moved onto much greener pastures working for people who actually can run things, its a hell of a wake up call because i' now determined to sppend the rest of 2018 improving myself, getting my shit together and taking control of what i can, love this channels content because while some of it is really really brutal its old school tough love and its sinking in.
I am going through something similar. Boss is cutting my role down for power politics and my team hates me for not getting work, which literally is not in my control. Surrounded by haters. It's tough but I am learning to block the noise off and focus on myself and possibly get a new job.
00:30 🚶 Success often leads to having haters, suggesting that if you're facing criticism, you might be on the right path. 00:58 👁 Being ignored is worse than being hated, as it implies your efforts are not noteworthy. 01:27 🎤 If haters could do better, they would have done it already; their criticism often stems from inability to achieve similar success. 01:56 📉 Haters often criticize others to justify their own mediocre or failed lives. 02:35 🔄 Haters are unlikely to succeed unless they change their mindset and approach. 03:03 ⏳ Haters waste their time hating instead of working to improve their chances of success. 03:18 🧠 Haters possess a limited mindset, believing success is finite and someone else's success diminishes their own opportunities. 03:59 😞 Haters are generally not happy individuals, and their hatred stems from their own dissatisfaction. 04:27 🔄 Haters fear change and are usually left behind as the world evolves and progresses. 04:56 🤬 Envy is a driving force behind haters, who resent others' success. 05:23 🍀 Haters often attribute others' success to luck rather than hard work. 06:05 🤔 Haters don't truly know the person they hate, including their struggles and efforts. 06:46 🙏 Secretly, haters often wish they were in the position of those they criticize. 07:29 🚀 Haters typically do not invest in self-improvement, preferring to criticize others instead. 08:09 🕵♂ Haters often obsessively follow the profiles of those they hate, knowing their every move. 08:37 🗣 Haters frequently gossip about their targets to their friends, inadvertently spreading awareness about them. 09:20 💪 The criticism from haters can fuel ambition and drive to prove them wrong. 10:02 🤷 Haters will always exist regardless of your actions, so it's futile to try pleasing everyone. 10:30 🤝 Engaging with or ignoring haters is a personal choice; focus on how you handle their criticism. 10:57 💰 Remember to stay focused on your goals and success, regardless of haters' opinions. ✅ Summary complete.
I ignore my haters beacuse if you get them your reaction they will just be coming for more and more and more and the worse it's going to be for you the funnier it will be for them unless if they start physically abusing you or really geting in your hed then it's the time to take actions and show them that they are NOT going to mess with you but the best way too deal with your haters is to keep doing your best and be more successful than them but don't be bitchy about it don't be egoistic share your success but have a limit and what I also want to say is that never start a fight if some one is being a bitch to you just ignore and remember be more successful than them but if it starts to get physical then take action but if you're the one starting a fight and bullying some one else and making them feel bad about them and their lives and if one day they finally get back at you then you deserve what's coming at you like I said don't be a bitch and also keep your nose where it belongs don't be bitchy on social media and insult people on social media beacuse how would you feel if someone called you fat, ugly, slut or something like that MIND YOUR OWN BUSINESS and even if you really hate someone you don't need to confront them about that or be a bully unless if they are being a bitch to you (IF YOU'RE JUST RANDOMLY SCROLLING THROUGH THE COMMENTS I REALLY UREG YOU TO READ THIS I PERSONALY THING IT'S GOOD ADVICE IF YOU ARE BEING BULLIED OR SOMTHING LIKE THAT)Boom mike drop😂💜remember you are loved.💙
Also there are people who are hated, despised and mobbed for being misfigured, ill, poor or have the wrong background. When they get successful, their haters go megahate.
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H: Having
A: Anger
T: Towards
E: Everyone
R: Reaching
S: Success
The Master Of Statistics that was perfect🖒🖒🖒🖒🖒
The Master Of Acronyms wow nice1
Speechless 😎
@@justicemartinez2625 Hell yeah 😁
Good!!!
When you have haters always remember nobody gets jealous of losers!
Wow,well said🖐🖐
Actually they do. All they have to assume they’re less lucky or talented than you are. Most haters don’t know shit about the people they’re hating on.
Larissa Shen true
The thing is, you need supporters and fans. How do you gain supporters and fans under such a situation?
How true.
Haters literally do great hard work to point out our flaws. If you started getting haters probably you are on path to be successful.
Gaurav Tiwari YAY IM GOING TO BE successful
Gaurav Tiwari do you hate nazis?
Diamond Kittens Gaming amen
Derrick Burns amen
Not Always. But sometimes its true,well said👍👍👏
Hater's gonna hate.....
I spent most of my early life being the supportive relative, but time after time when I got the opposite in return, I became bitter until I started following successful people like Robert Kayasaki and Dean Graziosi.
Through their motivational books and videos, I learned that I was just giving those people space in my head that was only hurting my mindset and efforts to achieve what I wanted in life.
I subsequently began seeking positive influences and found Alux along the way.
Once I was able to realize that I had been negatively programmed from a very early age to believe that I would never accomplish anything worthwhile, or that my efforts would never be good enough, I have since been able to tap into my fiercely independent and rebellious entrepreneurial spirit and do what inspires me to go for my life's goals and aspirations in spite of my fiercest critics.
Today I no longer let my broke relatives tell me how to be financially successful, and instead push ahead with the things I truly want to accomplish instead of letting the toxic people in my life talk me out of trying.
haters gonna hate! 👍 I read a quote that said "self love is the biggest middle finger to your haters" and how true that it!
+Love Meg great quote! Kill them with your happiness!
Alux.com Now, make a video on these "Joe AI" like hopeless lovers
"They hate us 'cause they ain't us" is James Franco's line from 'The Interview' ...
Claytos Republic omg I love that movie
Or you could just not care enough about them to give them any fingers at all! Shouldn't that be the goal?
"success is the best revenge" - Frank Sinatra
Mario Angelo the best revenge is torturing them for a year straight and have them live with it.
MASSIVE SUCCESS IS THE BEST REVENGE!!!!!
@@jimmywashington8207 YES IT IS FEELS AWESOME!!!
Agree
@@blazedfan131 So they can pick a knife and stab you when you let them go. It was a idiotic Hollywood movie fake suggestions.
If you don't have haters, you're not living big enough.
ipnotiK from Italy I guess am not living big enough.
True!!
Haters gonna hate
Or you are good
HAHA
Haters gonna hate! Learned that the hard way....When you become successful, the haters throw shade, and try to sabotage your accomplishments.
The Harder You Work, The Luckier You Get - One of the most inspiring lines ever🙂
Luck has nothing to do with it.
@@TroyTumaIsTheShit How od you know??
@@TroyTumaIsTheShit luck has everything to do with it. If it was just hard work, there would be a lot of millionaire construction workers
@@ViburaBlanca But I don't understand one thing that's if you're unlucky for example let's say......You got an accident cause someone pushed you on the road, and it's not like someone aimed to push you and successfully did, It's like out of ALL the people YOU are the one who got pushed, so no matter how hard you work, the luck will stay the same! that's why I don't believe in luck.
"Being a hater is time consuming, you have to take time out of your life to stalk a person"
Obsessed, jealous, vengeful, rumor spreaders have 0 place in my life
H:Having
A:Anger
T:Towards
E:Everyone
R:Reaching
S:$uccess
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TR3WAY RED PILL GANG yea bro so did I I cut a lot of friends off I only have like three really close friends
Outwork and out perform every single one of them...
They talk smack and u work
They gossip and u work
They laugh at u and u work
One day they will realise that where they are at and where u are
They will lose and u will win
They will have nothing to talk smack about
If Haters Could Do It Better, They Would've Done It Already
Like Dana White and alot of other wealthy people said..the more the haters try to slow you down from sucess..the more you push harder... and the more sucessful you become...nothing will even come close to stopping me...life is beautiful👍👍👍👍🤙🤙🤙
Haters are going to hate. Ignore them and keep moving forward.
@I Change My Profile Picture Every Month CHALLENGE exactly
The Large Beast sure you can, it’s called ignoring them. People make it the hardest thing in the world to get rid of haters, when all you gotta do, is block and ignore. Plain and simple as I get put it for you.
@@williambanks1245 exactly. It’s not everything you see online that you accept as the truth. If you read a haters comment ignore it. Don’t let it enter your head. The reason why people find it difficult to ignore haters is because they always believe what the haters say. We’re humans. Most people will always talk trash. You don’t have to listen to them.
Bad tutorial for evil politicians, i'm sure karma will bite
Some of them live in the past LMAO and lastly I cannot stop ppl from loving me, man or woman. I don't care. 😂🤣😄
Haters are interesting people. The vibe I get from them is anything you can do I can do better. Like they're in secret competition with me when I never asked them to compete with me. It's like they assume I think I'm better than them when I never said anything like that nor do I hold those views. I only compete with myself. If it's not that, there's something about me that triggers their insecurities by me being myself. Which isn't my problem, they need to address it with in themselves. They say things they think will trigger me but I see straight through it. I read psychology books, watch lectures from FBI and CIA agents and university professors on reading people and body language, and learn strategies and tactics from life coaches. I empower myself and yet the haters I deal with, they don't read books, they don't expand their knowledge and they compare themselves to others when they shouldn't. They have low IQ and vibrations and they think their attempts at triggering me will work, I see everything they're trying to do. I don't focus on these haters as I'm constantly working on myself but I'm clearly a big deal to them because if I wasn't, they wouldn't be trying to bring me down or compete with me. They would focus on themselves and their goals, but they don't do that. Winners focus on winning and losers focus on winners.
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My mother is the CEO of her own aerospace manufacturer and recently graduated from Harvard with her Owner President Management Cert. What haters don't see is the divorce, 5 kids, grinding, hard work, MS diagnoses, pain, and sacrifice she had to make to get there. She inspires me to work as hard as she does so that maybe one day I too will have success like she does and Alux only motivates me a little more. Haters. gonna. hate.
Please contact me I could help with natural remedies for your mothers condition .she has an amazing story .Inspiring really !!
I'm not sure if anyone realizes this, but you people are using hate to fight hate. You are defeating the purpose of your so-called "movement" to stop hate. Here's the gist, people: Hate will never be stopped because hate are all based from opinions. And we humans live off of opinons. The best way to fight hate is to not fight at all, but to embrace it. Make the best of the hate by using it as a way to boost your spirit. Fighting hate with more hate is only going to lead to more hate. Just learn to accept it.
Sarah Makosky ❤️
That's fucking awesome man way to go-- aerospace??? She is a wonderful woman.
Sarah Makosky wow 😊
Don't spend even a second of your time on haters..
Haters gone hate
Francisco Domene love that. Well said. That one second of valueble time you spent on haters and always worry about their destructive criticism is only going to weigh you down and keep you from succeeding in reaching your goals in life.
What if its your immediate family?
Easier than said
Mykael_91 Do like my wife and I are doing,Prove them Wrong.
We are happy, my sister hates that.
I make my haters more jealous by getting more success and show them what they told that i cant do is wrong.
That's very true. Sometimes the haters are your family. I totally agree.
Those in your inner circle can do the most damage!
Alux.com yaa I have a cousin but she is a bitch who always hate me because she thinks I have a better life than her and she is lizard she does so many bad shits
Probably 90%!! Sad because I want them with me but it's not going to happen with their current mindset
This is very true! Most annoying ones cos you're stuck with them
I know right? Also now I know 173 Aluxers are hated by their families.
"One week they Love You"
"Next week they Hate You"
"Make Sure You Get Paid Both Weeks"
My Motto Exactly... LLS 😂🤣😂🤣
McGregor lol
10 years ago, i used to get miserable when i get haters now i enjoy when i notice a hater it makes me more powerful knowing that i have someone uncomfortable.
The Woe is me loser mentality always have FEAR to guide. Themselves.
one week they hate you,next week they loves you,make sure you get paid either ways,......😂😂😀😁its true👍👍
peter ladu savio not
@@cat101gaming it is true when you are famous
One year ago, I used to get sad very easily when people said me something. Now I never bother what people say about me and do what I want.
First I used to help many friends or sometimes almost whole class regarding projects. Then also they used to demotivate me. Now, I only think about myself and about what I want to achieve and how to achieve it.
From childhood I was a big target of the bullies. Even in college many people used to demotivate me. Even many people in my family think I don't matter much. Also once teacher removed anger on me by giving very less marks, because of which I lost one year. Even after winning big programming competitions, people used to think I am socially backward. But this made me very strong mentally. Now days I have learnt to handle life.
Thanks a lot this video gave me more motivation to handle haters. Now days I have learnt to ignore haters because of my previous mistakes. Haters gonna hate.
BTW even if there are many haters, there are some friends and my parents who support and encourage me a lot.
I want to thank all my haters, you only made ME greater!
Amen
Yah same I blew up bc of my haters and now I’m almost at 100 subs
The only thing to remember is - ( Every time you see someone dying you or hating on your progress smile and keep moving forward ) . well said 👍
Ambed Anand downing
Haters become my waiters. They wait for me to become successful.
YOU JUST MADE MY DAY
@SarkyBegger Okay, grammar police.
BlazeOfficial That’s not grammar policing- they’re talking about haters becoming actual waiters (that serve customers) XDD
@@soso3792 Oh, lmao.
Join us at the top. It's a lot less crowded than the bottom.
👌
My father told me a few years ago I couldn't get a degree so I got one. He said I couldn't get a master's so I got one. He told me I couldn't get a good paying job so I got one. He said I couldn't win a girl's heart with no money so I did. Now he wants me to get him a house so I said no. Lol. My father is my motivation. He thought I was stupid like him, but I get my genes from my mom who divorced him 18 years ago.
deee dawwwggg Damn lol makes sense but, sometimes people make mistakes. Sooo you can't judge someone's entire character off of one mistake. I think you should probably re-watch this video😂😂😂🤙🏽
Hahaha wow good job
😂
Good for you! Sounds like my family. We always prove them wrong, don't we.
An evidence that "Reverse Psychology" does work!! :) You should thank your dad and give him a house. :)
Alot of people have always been jealous and hated me, I was born to be successful.
Ian Smith just ignore them and keep yourself busy. They are jealous of you
Ian Smith we all are. But some acknowledge it while some others deny or give up. Keep on
Haters can smell progress.
lol
Haters are going to hate- I have watched so many of these videos but never leave the comment phrase but I finally had to. In fact I lost the comment and not I am going back an typing it again because of how much I appreciate it. I've been gaslit and put through so much the last few years with toxic people around me that I thought I was the one who was crazy until I started watching these videos and realize it's not just me who thigs this way. The constant barrage of negativity and toxic people had me stumble but the old RUclips algorithm led me to these videos and I finally watched a few and you have honestly changed my life and put me back on the …no let me know to hold fast on my path. Thank you
Say it in one word "jealousy"
Haters are going to Hate!
This video made me cry cause there is so much truth in it.
Haters hate you for the fact that you did better than them in life. Don't fall for their disgusting comments they may throw on your face or to others and you will remain strong. Remember - you are better than them. That is why they hate you. This includes bosses who can't stand to see you are happier than them in life. Being happier in life for what you have itself makes you better than them.
Many thanks Alux for this insightful video.
Never understood why I had so many haters.
They're jealous of success.
Same they really did hurt me
Me too :(
Same
“If you are willing to look at another person’s behavior toward you as a reflection of the state of their relationship with themselves rather than a statement about your value as a person, then you will, over a period time cease to react at all.”
- Yogi Bhajan
In my classroom every single one of my classmates are my haters
Why?
Because I get nonstop A+ in my tests
Like if you also have haters in your life!
Damn
I have haters and I’m a small youtuber idk why.
I get classroom hate all the time. Majority of the time I do the most talking during discussion and answer questions. While everyone scared to talk in the class. They Envy me, because I'm strong.
NoteSalad well I had my comments disabled
Congrats on getting A+ in your tests !! 😄
Proving people wrong is the best feeling, thank you for this video. I will become successful on RUclips!
I ignore the haters, and sometimes it’s sad but when they are my best friends i‘ll cut the friendship because I always try to get rid of all the bad energy and give them a real reason to hate
Yeah I agree just get rid of them to get rid of the bad energy if not anything else! Cheers!
Haters gonna Hate... but guess what? I'm gonna keep living comfortably without stress as I've worked for it.
"One week they hate you, the next week they love you. Either way get paid BOTH weeks." LMAO! 😂😂😂😂 Love this!!! #HatersGonnaHate
1 thing you should know about your hater! Often when you understand the psychology of a hater, you'll realize that it has absolutely nothing to do with you. The hater is confused, insecure and actually hates themselves; and is just looking for someone else to unload the heavy load they are carrying, so they can feel better. That's pretty sad.
Shit, I'm not even anything special yet and I already have haters
Woodland Tactical join the club :-)
Woodland Tactical
Same.
Cz u have something better than u r haters😄😇...... So they hate u
Lol, good one.
Me tooooooooo
The worst thing for them is to realize they are totally irrelevant to you. If you want to drive a hater crazy address them by the wrong name. It tells them they don’t matter to you. And their reaction can be quite funny. Haters got to hate but you don’t have to care if they do. People only have as much power over you as you give them.
Monique Lehnhardt very nice
"They hate us 'cause they ain't us."
Facts
TheChamp1971 that’s simply not true in a lot of ways
I get classroom hate all the time. Majority of the time I do the most talking during discussion and answer questions. While everyone scared to talk in the class. They Envy me, because I'm strong. Most people in my school are very depresse and sad with theirselves.
Whenever i can tell someone is sending hate my way i pull their card and tell them this... hating on me isnt going to solve your problems! The hate suddenly disappears on the surface! Try it
😄😭😁☺️😅😆🤤🤣😂
haters gonna hate
the biggest trouble with haters is that even you don't own much, they're still gonna find a reason to hate you
daniel jeremie It's not what you have, but what you are. If you're not a piticul loser, they'll hate you.
adeyemo adenike truee 😂
Let me tell you something. Love is the decision so the hate. Everyone loves someone so they hate sometimes. If you don't love, you don't need to hate anything. So the love is hate of another manifestation of the same thing like the two sides of the same coin. Tell me who is your enemy and I will let you know your strength. Totally impossible to love your real enemy so every aspect of our life. Hate is part of life. Use it well or it will use you. Right or wrong, all are one. Which is love. There's
BT
Agreed.
I love how there are no haters in the comments. 😂
mynameisliana ikr 🤣
Thats because Alux deletes them all ;)
@@izzzzzz6 How do you know? Did he tell you, just wondering? :)
Who could hate Alux?! Pffffft 🤣
I have haters in real life.
"Haters gonna hate" most definitely.
Haters are going to hate. They don't understand and they don't want to. Sad, but true.
Christina Paparo They always think they know it all about anything and anyone.lol
Haters are gonna hate , but keep going the way you are and keep thinking that everythings are gonna be alright and that is just where things get better ! This is a really good video !
The 257 people who disliked this video are haters. 😏
stargazerlilly608 so true😂
Yeasss
I don't understand how u can dislike this video. Oh! Its exposing u (hater)
This video is so great. The people disliking this video are haters. They can’t handle the truth.
haha, exactly
HATERS gonna hate always!!!!
Txs for ALL your tips and advice, I love it!!!!!
Im so caught up with myself, taking care of business and enjoying life...i can honestly say..i really dont notice anyone hating..btw good video and 100% agreed..🥇🥇🥇🥇
I got a job promotion which almost doubles my salary, but I have to move to another State. One of my friends was so against me moving, and I never understood why. This video explains it all!
Rommel V he could of really been your freind. i like 2 keep my friends close. my best freind right now has a house that probably 3 times as big as mine. he drives a 42k truck. I drive a scooter. he has a hot wife. IM HAPPY FOR HIM I DONT HAVE ANY JEOLUSY FOR HIM!!
Rommel V maybe he was actually your friend and cared for you and didn’t wanna see you leave
Or they just don't want you to go cause they'll miss you? You know, precious context is required for people to understand your story better, that way they don't think you're just jumping to the most egocentric conclusion possible.
Or Rommel's perceptions of his friends is right, he knows them well enough, they've made comments around him and to others about his success. They cannot accurately see how he has worked beyond effort to value to have his salary double, to move out of state when they don't know how to achieve the same results. Suggesting to him that he might be wrong is like suggesting to a man or a woman that maybe it wasn't rape-rape. Maybe s/he misunderstood? Trust yourself first, you're the only one who should never and therefore won't lie to you.
Congrats!! I wish my best friend doubles her salary!
Hatters gonna hate,,,,, Hate me or love me but just keep following me
Haha, true!
In a memetic and robotic world its good to listen to some healthy positive and real stuff! Really appreciate this channel
People only throw shade when your shining to brite.nobody put on shades when its dark only when the sun is out.so let the haters hate
I ironically already knew everything in this video but needed my knowledge to be explained threw someone else.
yeah they hatin but they broke tho
+Stunninglyyy haha, true!
haters gonna hate
Stunninglyyy not really
Haters going to hate… I am a man who is blind but nevertheless I am successful, published author, law student, Olympic hopeful, national champion, I have a good personality and a very positive outlook on life I believe in living in my life to the full us and I let believe in living a life of limitless potential, I have lots of haters because when they look at me they see no excuses for themselves because I can do all the things and beyond anything they can do and the fact that I am also blind really stings them
Ricky Kim how’d you type this?
uh oh
Christian Rodriguez Probably voice-to-text!
So So Howd he get to this video..
"Misery loves company." Why? Because if they're miserable and if they can make you miserable or be around miserable people. Then this normalizes the misery and makes it OK!
"Haters gonna hate," and they love misery!
This video is so good & just what I was looking for. Such clarity on how the bitter person's mind works. Haters may hate you but deep down...they actually hate themselves.
absolutely
Alux video ideas: Success, building self confidence, making more money, being at peace, gaining wisdom, being independent, getting more done, breaking bad habits, overcoming shyness, reaching goals, avoiding sadness, making your mark on the world, rich money habits, overcoming depression, avoiding bad relationships, getting motivated, success on the job, hoarding & getting organized, overcoming fear, changing your life.
I’m someone who plays competitive Call Of Duty Modern Warfare. I had to recently unfriend a Twitch streamer. He got mad because I would get more kills than him and get the final kill cam on all of his streams. He tried to play it off like my kills and tactics are not any good. But, he failed to realize that I invest a lot of time practicing to get good, while he’s slacking off. Success comes in different forms. I succeed with first person shooter games by practicing. And this guy can’t tolerate someone being better than him at the game. Life doesn’t reward those who slack off and he needs to realize that. For those reading this, you need to surround yourself by those that want to see you succeed. The haters are irrelevant and they just want to slow your role down. When the Lakers are winning, the haters don’t say anything. But when the Lakers are loosing that’s when the dogs start barking.
Haters gonna hate 🙌🏼
I started loving haters after this video... Tq alux!
yep they are everywhere, Mostly its jealousy,
I used to cook for a living,
I remember being an average chef and everyone liked me,
but once I got good at cooking then all my co workers hated me and put me down behind my back saying I can't cook
and stopped talking to me..
I'm devoted to ignore haters. But the much I do that, the much they are trying to distract me.
What did you do? This is what is happening to me now I don't want them to get the chance to distract me, should I still ignore them.
Haters are my greatest motivators. When I see a person driving a beautiful car or having a large mansion, I think,''wow, good for them.''. I never wish a person's failure. How is someone failing going to benefit me unless its bidding on a logistics settlement.
Hey, Alux? Haters gonna hate.
The more successful, hard working, good looking you are, the more people will conspire to bring you down. Speaking from experience.
Buy hey, that's the price you have to pay for the lifestyle you're gonna live!
Faraz this makes me uncomfortable because I'm just now realizing this in my own life. I haven't even done much in my opinion and I can feel the tension.
Looks is luck.
haters gone hate!
Roland Burks Haters gonna hate.
Ain'ters gonna ain't.
I'm not sure if anyone realizes this, but you people are using hate to fight hate. You are defeating the purpose of your so-called "movement" to stop hate. Here's the gist, people: Hate will never be stopped because hate are all based from opinions. And we humans live off of opinons. The best way to fight hate is to not fight at all, but to embrace it. Make the best of the hate by using it as a way to boost your spirit. Fighting hate with more hate is only going to lead to more hate. Just learn to accept it.
These haters are sometimes annoying but can bring out the best in us. HGH!!!
Haters gonna hate.
The person who says something is impossible should not interrupt the one who is doing it.
haters gonna hate I'm going to work hustle move dem musclez
slide on by an wave cause I don't have time to hate I'm here to levitate
ya feel me
In the book "think and grow rich" said about positivity is constructive energy and negativity is destructive energy. that means the more you hate the more destructive energy you accumulate results in unhappy, unhealthy and more failures lifestyle.
TQ... Fantastic video.
How about a video on "How to deal with haters?".
Appreciate all the good work you girls and boys at Alux produce. Keep up the good work. Cheers.
I simply ignore them. They secretly follow on social media but never hit like button but always be first to comment something acerbic, just don't reply them, they will become even more frustrated😉
Haters gonna hate.
Oh my god, this is the type of the video that makes the most sense in the world!
Thank you Alux, regardless of what haters think, we should always trail the path we are pointed to, as long as it is safe just disliked for being so.
This video should be made into a best selling book.
Not only will haters hate they also plot to bring you down if they think they can.
Haters are going to hate
Great video! My mother taught me when I was very young that the people who make fun of you and bully you are actually envious of you. That has carried me a long way. I learned to stick to my own values, treat people right, and be the best of whatever I wanted to be. I'm now 62 and living exactly the way I want to live. I'm sure that I've had haters, but I've been too busy living life to notice.
Having the suffered Living in Kentucky my latter teenage years when my parents moved there that Mindset is a certainly in the south and others places where theirs more Poor then Good.
Haters and envy go hand in hand. Ignore them and keep moving.
Love this video!! very helpful! I am literally going to put a link to this video as an auto-reply to all the haters in my life..
I have known haters to hate me for being in love... isn't this interesting or maybe paradoxical...!!! Thank you Alux for this eye-opening video.
I can still achieve even though I use an electric wheelchair because of cerebral palsy.
Anastasia Tempest yes you can
Yes, you can
I apparently love my haters they give me reasons to be even more successful
I have learned that some people are going to dislike you for no earthly reason. And when confronted, if they say they do not have a problem (denial) - shut them off! Because now that person is a waste of your valuable time.
Johnny Lackland yes...some of them are just jealous
I use them to keep going, but, try to forget them as soon as they come up, haters going to hate, let’s keep them busy.
Ignore them. Why should we waste time on them
Tanmay Musale Good advice.
So what Thanku
Every one on here that's striving to do anything positive has one, but the most effective way to deal with those people is to love them in spite of.That stategy just totally messes with their head, because for some weird reason ur hater sees u as a threat, and they are not even on your radar. Because you are playing the game, and the hater is just a spectator, a fan
I ignore the Haters and I just let them continue to be the way they are!! I took my wrestling from the back yard to indoor where by doing this makes us more legit..I have haters who do the same thing I do(which is wrestle) and constantly run their mouth about and try calling me out saying I never was trained and I only hold 1 show a year but that 1 show a year is all I can afford!!! Usually wrestling promotions have sponsors but I don't have a business way with people so I prefer others who know what they are talking about do the talking but nobody seems to step up an do it even though I know they can talk really good with people..
thank you alux .com you change my mentality & my life too ....
god Bless US🙏🙏🙏
more success 🙏🙏🙏
more life 🙏🙏🙏
more win ❤️
+Sahil Tanwar right back at you 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼
defintely agree with the haters gonna hate thing, i realised making everyone happy is impossible hopefully not too late, left my job because i realised things that were being blamed were not only not my fault but also completely out of control, now that i've left there and have moved onto much greener pastures working for people who actually can run things, its a hell of a wake up call because i' now determined to sppend the rest of 2018 improving myself, getting my shit together and taking control of what i can, love this channels content because while some of it is really really brutal its old school tough love and its sinking in.
I am going through something similar. Boss is cutting my role down for power politics and my team hates me for not getting work, which literally is not in my control. Surrounded by haters. It's tough but I am learning to block the noise off and focus on myself and possibly get a new job.
00:30 🚶 Success often leads to having haters, suggesting that if you're facing criticism, you might be on the right path.
00:58 👁 Being ignored is worse than being hated, as it implies your efforts are not noteworthy.
01:27 🎤 If haters could do better, they would have done it already; their criticism often stems from inability to achieve similar success.
01:56 📉 Haters often criticize others to justify their own mediocre or failed lives.
02:35 🔄 Haters are unlikely to succeed unless they change their mindset and approach.
03:03 ⏳ Haters waste their time hating instead of working to improve their chances of success.
03:18 🧠 Haters possess a limited mindset, believing success is finite and someone else's success diminishes their own opportunities.
03:59 😞 Haters are generally not happy individuals, and their hatred stems from their own dissatisfaction.
04:27 🔄 Haters fear change and are usually left behind as the world evolves and progresses.
04:56 🤬 Envy is a driving force behind haters, who resent others' success.
05:23 🍀 Haters often attribute others' success to luck rather than hard work.
06:05 🤔 Haters don't truly know the person they hate, including their struggles and efforts.
06:46 🙏 Secretly, haters often wish they were in the position of those they criticize.
07:29 🚀 Haters typically do not invest in self-improvement, preferring to criticize others instead.
08:09 🕵♂ Haters often obsessively follow the profiles of those they hate, knowing their every move.
08:37 🗣 Haters frequently gossip about their targets to their friends, inadvertently spreading awareness about them.
09:20 💪 The criticism from haters can fuel ambition and drive to prove them wrong.
10:02 🤷 Haters will always exist regardless of your actions, so it's futile to try pleasing everyone.
10:30 🤝 Engaging with or ignoring haters is a personal choice; focus on how you handle their criticism.
10:57 💰 Remember to stay focused on your goals and success, regardless of haters' opinions.
✅ Summary complete.
I ignore them. They're not worth my time.
Haters gunna hate, this was a great video, well done.
I ignore my haters beacuse if you get them your reaction they will just be coming for more and more and more and the worse it's going to be for you the funnier it will be for them unless if they start physically abusing you or really geting in your hed then it's the time to take actions and show them that they are NOT going to mess with you but the best way too deal with your haters is to keep doing your best and be more successful than them but don't be bitchy about it don't be egoistic share your success but have a limit and what I also want to say is that never start a fight if some one is being a bitch to you just ignore and remember be more successful than them but if it starts to get physical then take action but if you're the one starting a fight and bullying some one else and making them feel bad about them and their lives and if one day they finally get back at you then you deserve what's coming at you like I said don't be a bitch and also keep your nose where it belongs don't be bitchy on social media and insult people on social media beacuse how would you feel if someone called you fat, ugly, slut or something like that MIND YOUR OWN BUSINESS and even if you really hate someone you don't need to confront them about that or be a bully unless if they are being a bitch to you
(IF YOU'RE JUST RANDOMLY SCROLLING THROUGH THE COMMENTS I REALLY UREG YOU TO READ THIS I PERSONALY THING IT'S GOOD ADVICE IF YOU ARE BEING BULLIED OR SOMTHING LIKE THAT)Boom mike drop😂💜remember you are loved.💙
I agree with you.
Also there are people who are hated, despised and mobbed for being misfigured, ill, poor or have the wrong background. When they get successful, their haters go megahate.