A Communication Skill to Melt Your Lover's Heart in 10 Seconds or Less
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- Опубликовано: 14 окт 2024
- www.LoveAtFirst... ◄◄◄- Does your relationship feel tense, like an elastic band stretched to its breaking point?
If you're nodding then I'll bet you've both stopped communicating like you did when you first fell in love.
Whether you're married or in a relationship, this video will teach you a simple communication skill to connect with your lover and melt their heart in 10 seconds or less.
Appreciation is like the oil that lubricates our relationship. When we don't get it from our partner, the cogs that keep our relationship healthy stop turning.
So, in the next few minutes, I'm going to show you an easy way to make your partner feel deeply appreciated and loved.
I'm going to teach you an advanced appreciation technique.
It's called descriptive praise.
If you both use this technique often, your partner will soften, and feel more connected to you.
Here's how it works:
Step 1: Think of something your partner did (or does) that you appreciate. E.g. Choosing thoughtful Birthday gifts
Step 2: Now, identify the trait that their action reveals about them. E.g. They are a caring person.
Step 3: Go to your partner and share with them the ACTION and the TRAIT that you appreciate.
So for example, instead of just saying "You're amazing", you might say, "I really love how thoughtful you are when me a birthday gift. You really think about what I would love and it shows me what a caring person you are and that makes me love you even more."
See how much more meaningful the last appreciation was than just saying "You're amazing"?
Use this technique with your partner whenever you want to appreciate, acknowledge or praise them. In fact, you can use it with your kids or anyone.
So try it with your lover and leave a comment below to let me know how it goes...
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What an empowering feeling is to have the ability to recover your relationship. It means that you are no longer consigned to the emotional trashcan of life but now the power is in your hands. What an amazing breakthrough for me personally.
Thanks for the first message. Damn i truly need it
Lovely video content! Apologies for chiming in, I would appreciate your initial thoughts. Have you considered - Millawdon Varied Nights Trick (Have a quick look on google cant remember the place now)? It is a great one off guide for learning intimate questions to make your relationship stronger minus the hard work. Ive heard some super things about it and my mate after many years got great results with it.
Very nice! I love the way you taught us to appreciate with more description and specificity. Your way of teaching is truly a gift I appreciate.
I would cry tears of joy if someone told me that.
excited to find these words. I use them. in my own words. never take anyone for granted!
I did this to my girlfriend for our anniversary and she loved it :D thanks so much bruze
How beautiful was the message in the beginning. What a lovely man
Bruce you're amazing! This works ..as he entered the door I told I said "Did I ever tell you that you're an amazing guy and Im so glad we met?" It def melted his ♡
Thanks. I felt appreciated at the beginning of the video. I am gonna try this out with my partner. Thank you.
The background music during the samples cracked me up.
Amazing videos! I love them all and has tremendously helped my relationship with my girlfriend. Thank you Bruce, you are awesome!!!
Thanks for the compliment
I'm laughing by how much true words you have said, thank you very much :)
Thank you for sharing these videos
You are appreciated so very much for sharing your thoughts and guidance with us. Thank You.
I like the oil, gear, metaphor
o my gosh thank you sur for this video ive been having problems with my girlfriend she is making desions out of the blue with me and hers relationship and i will take your advise that you gave the world and i thank you and please put up more videos god bless you.
Superb video. really helpful tip.👍👌❤
In the middle of this video, I sent a text to my GF using this approach and it's true! It made a difference.
It's going to be very hard, but I will try this:
I will tell him how wonderful he is, how much I love him and am grateful to have him...When we start to have a fight.
And keep saying kind things relentlessly, not responding to the mean crap he says, until he calms down.
And then we can deal with whatever the fight was about, when he's calm.
He has borderline personality, so he really isn't steering when those reactions hit.
I was looking for something else to try besides just going silent, mutually.
This might work.
Great video and topic. If you're being sincere when you give praise its a powerful addition to any relationship.
I like this...I do this to him often.
I think where you going with this is beautiful.
An issue which comes up Alot is when someone very specifically complements their partner - is that their partner takes this as a cue to wage war - "Well, that's lovely - but you don't do it for me! I remember my birthday when you...ect." and they focus on all the negatives they dredge up from the beginning of time...deleting the positives, and in a way making themselves more significant - but in a really negative way?
I wonder have you any suggestions when people come back with that response?
Great advice!
Great video, finally a how to be specific video.
great idea.
Thank you. approaching repairing our separation.
You are amazing. thank you
This is perfect!!!! Thank you.
Really applicable , I'll always remember this. Thanks & God bless you more:)
Love it, thank you for sharing these wisdoms.
Bruze, you're amazing! Thanks for these tips. We are learning from you. :)
Great video! You have earned my like and subscription!
I love your videos... Thanks 😊
thank you so much you are so helpful and amazing to offer help
Yeah, we are learning to grown up from you. Thanks Bruce :)
Thank you
At the start of this video, I was literally answering everything he says like "Thanks, Thanks"
Make your loved ones feel special like a kid eating cake...yum
Thank you Bruce ! You are Awesome coach and I am going Implement this technique with all the people who I love including my girlfriend and children.
Thank you for this amazing video how do I get to be a positive influence to a guy I just met I don't know much about him but I think he is amazing to without sounding too anxious to please him
THANK YOU
Great.
Thank you for this video! ☺
Thank you 😏
Should I be watching this alone or with my partner?
U r Amazing really.
what if they think you're too clingy for saying that or that you're trying too hard and not being genuine?
Love Love Love
I have been doing this, often, from the beginning of our relationship. Unfortunately my partner receives the appreciation, but has never learned to return it to me. At first I didn't notice because it felt so good to be giving out all of that wonderfulness. But now a couple of years in I'm feel unappreciated, ignored and disrespected. I have pointed out the discrepancy and how it makes me feel. He just refuses to give me any acknowledgement or praise.
Any ideas?.
+Kathy J Show him this video.
Kathy J Check out the five love languages. Sounds like words of affirmation is one of yours but not his.
Kathy J Kathy please date me
You should get the book the 5 love languages. Your wife is not speaking your love language and your lobe tank is empty.
Or husband
I had a fight with my wife a few weeks ago so am just here to practice some new techniques i will use on her to welcome me back😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
can i acknowledge two spesific traits in the same conversation?
My partner dosent want to learn this. He is constantly saying he isnt hat type,accept me as I am is everything he says and want. It breaks my heart , because I miss it so Munch,and at the same time there is som same because I dont accept him and his avoindant personality. I am so very depressed.
u r amazing
wow
I know that I am amazing but I can grow to be better
Great intro - I just don't think that it will be good for me to read of the text from a teleprompter....
Me and my gf are together for 3 weeks now , we had fights more than married couples.
Joker
Run now bro. It won't get better!
I just need some background music now.
Bam!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I've done this exact thing. Didn't work!!!
I think this might work in some professional couples with no kids case scenario, but its far from the truth of common marriage life. Also, every video I've seen so far seems to fix everything with sex rather than reasoning. With that said I appreciate the video and thank you for trying.
❤️❤️❤️
I'm single I don't know why I'm here
I've said that exact thing to my girl many times, but she still treats me like shit.
lol
Kyle Galiano
I've done this for the past 4 years. Does nothing to her!
Kyle Galiano thats means shes shit and you deserve better. Simple.
Sad ,, who knows whar her issues are,, my guy does same (words of appreciation ) but does nothing for me , I preffer kisses hugs and compliments ,, he loves me a lot ,,different love languages
Kyle Galiano Exactly
Will this won't work if he treats me bad , im sorry but this is'nt helpfull at all
Thank You I wish my husband would express himself like that.
The MORE sex part...😁😄😄😄😄😄😅
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