No, what Jessica says works but you have to be ready to walk away once she pushes your boundaries… I see 17 msges and I ignore for hours or days sometimes.. I mute her page, see the number of msges rise without opening them and let her see I’m online doing my thing
100% correct! She reveals secret to make her feel like she is winning, u kill that by saying stuff like … Smile n say I finally got that out of you.. Next secret 😝
Hi Jessica, you have made my life way more calmer and simpler. I have never commented before but I have been following you for about 5 years now and I have to tell you, it's been amazing. Follow through and keep quiet.
Usually the very attractive women behave this way. It’s more common than people think. She will initiate the toxic cycle with a little bit attention, sweetness towards a man who is usually busy or minding his own business. But, as soon as the guy starts to reciprocate by complimenting her, asking her out and chasing her, she would make a total 180 degree turn to the other direction and it will be a slow and painful rejection for the man who was fine before falling into this trap. A lot of women do this simply for validation and to feel desired knowing full well they don’t like the man they are playing games with. It absolutely can ruin a man’s life who tend to think in a very straightforward and simple way. Beautiful women who are toxic can be dream killers by draining a man emotionally and by wasting all his energy and time. Men need to stay in their frame.
Yes I've been chasing a woman for a yr and a half long distance. She disrespected me and still does. In my head I definitely feel like she's been cheated and don't even respect me. Claims she loves me but it's been an emotional rollercoaster. I've actually had my heart broke and she was so dramatic and treacherous. Told me she will have sex with men and send me the vid out of spite. Told me to commit suicide and I'm fat with a small p. I went through a depression and stalked her for months while drinking. I got back in contact and she said she never cheated and was just mad. Got back with her she's still playing games and I don't feel like we don't ever talk or know each other. She still disrespect me. All of my hopes for life is ruined ngl. She changed me and Im stressed and depressed. Thought about suicide a lot. Now she says I'm broke and wants a real man who provides. I sent her money when we was "dating. and when she got upset she said she took my money and to kill myself. Now days she tells me she loves me and wants me to do better.
This usually happens in a class disparity relationships. I pray every man practice the act of silence in such instances which is the best tool to crush her ego.
The best thing to deal with a female Narc is to Walk Away and never look back because you cant beat them at that game. Its who they are and there is no game you play with them and Win. Just use your legs and walk away. Or you get Walked On
This is a underrated channel , Jessica you have an amazing ability to decode interpersonal relationships and power dynamics between men and women kudos to your wisdom.
When you text her she starts misbehaving, she will respond and at other times not respond. When you stop, out of the blue, she texts you to say "I have missed you, you don't text me again". Your archetypal narcissist, they want to be chased.
I just walked away from a narcissist yesterday the girl I’ve been with a year but at the start of the relationship she was really into me but as time progressed these signs started to appear and her actions really drained my energy I always used to question myself because of her games but now m finally free and thanks to you I don’t miss her much now thank you Jessica
I have experienced and experiencing this with a loved one. I always quiet whenever she's seeking validation on wrong things she did, all i do is to keep silence and do as if she doesn't exist, she would push further and later apologise for her wrong but that doesn't mean she wouldn't start another drama the other day. I have been silent but if i can no longer i'll opt out.
Good info Jessie,these ppl will mess up your life and emotions big time and unfortunately there's more about than ppl think because many are covert and get away without being sussed out for years (male and female) try saying No to one and you'll get a revealing reaction as they hate the word No! More guys need to watch out for other warnings signs,it's scary stuff but true x
You described someone I know regarding narcism.. all I do is send the word CORTISOL.. I explained it to her or I just say ok and ACT what I say I’ll do..
Nooooooo lie I’m going through this with my girl now she act like she never do anything wrong and never take accountability of her own ishhhhh and we fight a lot and be both scorpions 🦂 I have a problem with her , her mo. Do and she has no friends she crazy and out on in front of only fans. She be draining my energy and draining the hell out me everyday that I have to drink and smoke everyday. 😢
Your 1yr too late Jessica 🤦♂️ but then again I didn’t find your content until after my narcissistic relationship ended but it pushed me to do some research and know the 9 DSM5 signs to watch out for.
The only thing that works is walking away, nothing can work with a narcissist.
agree .... but it is hard when u have wife and kids with her.
Then the second best solution will be absolute silence, only when there is dire need of talk, then speak.
@@Shiv00532 If you are married to that person, that is a pointless marriage don't you think?
Either way it's pointless, so why to talk and create more embarrassment to ourselves, probably by silence we can reduce the stress and strain from it.
No, what Jessica says works but you have to be ready to walk away once she pushes your boundaries…
I see 17 msges and I ignore for hours or days sometimes..
I mute her page, see the number of msges rise without opening them and let her see I’m online doing my thing
The more quieter you are, the more you hear... Power of silence!
I totally agree
@@so3710 true
👍 I totally concur, in fact SILENCE is the greatest weapon in my arsenal right now.
100% correct! She reveals secret to make her feel like she is winning, u kill that by saying stuff like … Smile n say I finally got that out of you.. Next secret 😝
Hi Jessica, you have made my life way more calmer and simpler. I have never commented before but I have been following you for about 5 years now and I have to tell you, it's been amazing. Follow through and keep quiet.
Appreciate you 🙏🏾
Yes, the best thing is to let go. Walk away when you can.
The best is to run, run for your life, no games, just run for your life. I met one, and she turned my life upside down.
It’s more like your life is pulling away from you 😢
You need discernment Bro. You are dealing with a jezebel spirit
Usually the very attractive women behave this way. It’s more common than people think. She will initiate the toxic cycle with a little bit attention, sweetness towards a man who is usually busy or minding his own business. But, as soon as the guy starts to reciprocate by complimenting her, asking her out and chasing her, she would make a total 180 degree turn to the other direction and it will be a slow and painful rejection for the man who was fine before falling into this trap. A lot of women do this simply for validation and to feel desired knowing full well they don’t like the man they are playing games with. It absolutely can ruin a man’s life who tend to think in a very straightforward and simple way. Beautiful women who are toxic can be dream killers by draining a man emotionally and by wasting all his energy and time. Men need to stay in their frame.
100%true.
Yes I've been chasing a woman for a yr and a half long distance. She disrespected me and still does. In my head I definitely feel like she's been cheated and don't even respect me. Claims she loves me but it's been an emotional rollercoaster. I've actually had my heart broke and she was so dramatic and treacherous. Told me she will have sex with men and send me the vid out of spite. Told me to commit suicide and I'm fat with a small p. I went through a depression and stalked her for months while drinking. I got back in contact and she said she never cheated and was just mad. Got back with her she's still playing games and I don't feel like we don't ever talk or know each other. She still disrespect me. All of my hopes for life is ruined ngl. She changed me and Im stressed and depressed. Thought about suicide a lot. Now she says I'm broke and wants a real man who provides. I sent her money when we was "dating. and when she got upset she said she took my money and to kill myself. Now days she tells me she loves me and wants me to do better.
This usually happens in a class disparity relationships. I pray every man practice the act of silence in such instances which is the best tool to crush her ego.
Silence is the best medicine.dont be a slave of a fellow human being in the name of love
I totally agreed ❤
Thanks Jess ❤
Over the years you have educated me to become the kinda man I am today that sees through behavioral patterns like an X-ray
Glad to hear it
I have met one narcissist in my life, it was hell on earth 🌎 Master the art of Silence 🤐 simple.
Perfectly said! Jess.
Thank you for reaffirming what I'm doing right.
The best thing to deal with a female Narc is to Walk Away and never look back because you cant beat them at that game. Its who they are and there is no game you play with them and Win. Just use your legs and walk away. Or you get Walked On
This is a underrated channel , Jessica you have an amazing ability to decode interpersonal relationships and power dynamics between men and women kudos to your wisdom.
Silence Is Golden ❤
It's even worse when they don't even think they are playing a game or denies it.
Wow so profound,, watching from Kenya ❤
Thanks for watching
Truly this happens but men don’t talk
When you text her she starts misbehaving, she will respond and at other times not respond. When you stop, out of the blue, she texts you to say "I have missed you, you don't text me again". Your archetypal narcissist, they want to be chased.
I just walked away from a narcissist yesterday the girl I’ve been with a year but at the start of the relationship she was really into me but as time progressed these signs started to appear and her actions really drained my energy I always used to question myself because of her games but now m finally free and thanks to you I don’t miss her much now thank you Jessica
Absolutely profoundly! Watching from Zimbabwe 🇿🇼.
Thank you ma'am.
I have experienced and experiencing this with a loved one. I always quiet whenever she's seeking validation on wrong things she did, all i do is to keep silence and do as if she doesn't exist, she would push further and later apologise for her wrong but that doesn't mean she wouldn't start another drama the other day. I have been silent but if i can no longer i'll opt out.
@@olakunleoriyomi forget the intimacy and leave with more time, energy and dignity
Good info Jessie,these ppl will mess up your life and emotions big time and unfortunately there's more about than ppl think because many are covert and get away without being sussed out for years (male and female) try saying No to one and you'll get a revealing reaction as they hate the word No! More guys need to watch out for other warnings signs,it's scary stuff but true x
I always say a quite mouth is a powerful weapon
My mum Jessica, Always a privilege to learn from you.
All your videos are a blessing
This is so interesting! Thank you sooo much!❤❤And you were absolutely stunning and brilliant in this video! Thank you again for this excellent video!❤
Thank you so much!!
So the takeaway, "leave". "It's time to cut ties" like you said, when you realise there's a narcissist in the picture
Always my winglady much appreciated, watching from Uganda 🇺🇬
Yes ofcourse ma'am, your videos have ALWAYS been helpful and will always be.
Thank you Ma with much love 💞😘❤ from Nigeria.
STOP PLOTTING AGAINST SOMEONE ELSE …..BE SINGLE , STAY SINGLE .
Very resourceful episode.
Very profound tips
Thanks for sharing Jessica🎉
Glad it was helpful!
Wow this is happening to me right now 😢thank you for this video, I have to be brave 💪
You got this!
Best video ever! I learnt a lot.
You described someone I know regarding narcism.. all I do is send the word CORTISOL.. I explained it to her or I just say ok and ACT what I say I’ll do..
Thank you, Jessica 🎉😢
I should have known this long ago.
You're so welcome!
Wish I had heard this before! Thank you 🙏🏼
You're so welcome!
Very insightful content.... I'm also watching from Kenya 🇰🇪
Awesome! Thank you!
Your 💯 percent correct my sist
Very informative,thank you Jessica,from Kenya with love❤
Very true well said
Masha Allah
Good presentation
Watching from Ethiopia 🇪🇹 😌
Spoke to me 😅. Bless you Jessica 🙏
Sticks with this kinds of information from you . I'm always winning ... 👌🔥
Happy to hear that!
Thank you. You have just saved me.
Manze I love this... Watching From Kenya 🖤❤️💚
Always keep silence, thus the key.
Those eyes ❤ out of this world 😍
I’m only trying find love and give the love I have offer to give not play all these games
Jessica pls, we know this is your channel. 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂. Lol 0:29
New people discover my channel everyday 😉
Right video at the right time, thanks Jessica now I have got this .
Perfect!
Good Stuff ❤
Thanks 🔥
Many thanks. Jessica
After one canceled date and then an unanswered text I'm done with her
Nice presentation...
Amazing! 👍🏾
Thank you! Cheers!
The missing link in this video is that some female narcissists are magical in bed and it can be very difficult to forget them 😂
Lady Jess❤
Remember sometimes the most powerful response is no response at all…
🎉❤🎉 job done ✔️
I need a new female friend now,
True 🙏💪❤️
what's the point of winning back control when it would be a lifetime of contestation?
Yeah what’s the point… walk away while you can
Exactly just leave unless you yourself has become emasculated and must remain quiet for the relationship to work...at that point you have lost
Hi Jess, how can I reach you for a session
Nooooooo lie I’m going through this with my girl now she act like she never do anything wrong and never take accountability of her own ishhhhh and we fight a lot and be both scorpions 🦂 I have a problem with her , her mo. Do and she has no friends she crazy and out on in front of only fans. She be draining my energy and draining the hell out me everyday that I have to drink and smoke everyday. 😢
Run
❤❤❤
💯💯❤️
Your 1yr too late Jessica 🤦♂️ but then again I didn’t find your content until after my narcissistic relationship ended but it pushed me to do some research and know the 9 DSM5 signs to watch out for.
When you have kids with the narcissist?
A dilemma i find myself in.
Fact...
I needed this video than anyone here 🥹