Doesn't matter: What they are wearing What there gender is Whether your dating them or not Whether they are drunk or not CONSENT IS IMPROTENT! Rape is rape.
the other day a guy who i knew for a year now led me into the school changing rooms and shut the door turned around and said "im gonna rape you" and he didnt get very far that day but he touched me and cornered me. he said if i tell anyone hes gonna bring his group of guys and hold me down. but i told the teacher the other day and everythings fine now i hope...
Eleanor Hope Yes, it should. But there is not anything anybody can really do to keep drinks from getting spiked. You are the only one who can protect yourself against the crazy phsyco bonkers people.
+Caroline Bessette that's exactly what I pointed out?? I said it was sad we have to teach girls to take their drinks with them when the real problem is people spiking drinks
I was raped by my ex because he was saying uncomfortable stuff about me, so I broke up with him when we were alone, but he wouldn't listen and started raping me. Only my best friend who also has been raped twice knows. This video really helps me understand that everything will be ok, thank you
I love how this video is raising awareness. Sadly, this doesn't even begin to shed light on what it feels like. :/ It's horrifying. The way all the other people are accepting and supporting the girl isn't always the situation. Sadly, there's a lot more of blaming the victim. Stay strong guys
Rikky Ruiz Well thankfully rape is more serious with the law now, and usually the victim is believed by the police. I don't know the statistics on disbelief in men versus women, but I can definitely see men being believed less often being true. Rape isn't just a women issue, its a human issue.
my cousin raped me a month ago lost control of my life since I'm 14 and he's 18 ...nobody knows but my uncle...I could never tell anyone else I live nowhere near them so I'm alone here I too afraid to tell anyone my sister knows but not the whole story I didn't tell her about the rape part... I either take a shower for hours because I feel like his touch his hands are still on me or I don't at all
NO means NO and STOP means STOP. POINT BLANK PERIOD. It doesn't matter what they were wearing, it doesn't matter whether or not the person is intoxicated, and it doesn't matter whether or not you're attracted to this person or if they're attracted to you. NO means NO.
Thank you for this video. I am a survivor or sexual assault, and I wish It'd had this reaction, being able to see it portrayed how I wish it had been for me really helped me. Thank you so much for this video!
@@kelbycliett8 No one has the right to rob your house or car, either, but it still happens. Rape is a crime and you can't erase it from the face of the Earth, but you can prevent the likelihood of it not happening. By not drinking in dingy teenage parties, you are making yourself less of a target and even more so by not going to said parties. The OP is right, this is why you shouldn't drink, it's not like things are better when you're drunk, I'm 40, haven't drunk and a girl who enjoys herself a lot when out.
maxx ok I know it will be hard but you need to tell a parent or close family member about this asap! It's not right! Just make sure someone knows about it. If u have Instagram pm me if u wanna talk my username is @dagrandegang
It's just really sad to hear other people's rape stories, let me tell you mine. I got rape when I was a kid I was 9-8 years old my story starts when I was in a theme park I was going to get my tickets till then some worker took me to a room and start asking me some weird question he started kissing me and tuching my private parts I was so scared but I didn't scream or cry cuz I know he will lock the door then I cant escape from him but I told him to do me a favor I don't really remember what I asked for but at this moment I only had one chance to escape the door was opened so I started running and crying .... I know my English is not really good but I just decided to share my story btw nobody knows about my story except my bff....
If I was the blonde girl: 1:say “No” if he doesn’t listen 2:kick him 3:call the cops 4:stay at home and never move And let’s all celebrate for the black guy 👏👏👏 good job buddy
yes!! its disgusting that there's this stigma against guys getting raped!! guys.. its fine to step up.. if something bad happened to u in any situation its fine to step up and say it... because u r not a victim.. u r a survivor
+Kalimantan 15256 yea, but guys have been stigmatized to be hypersexual beings who always want sex, so when it happens to them it's also because the person who technically raped them did not believe them when they said they didn't want to have sex.... It's different, but it's still rape and I think it would be a very profound story if someone made a short about it. Guys feel even more alone than girls when they are raped because of the other stigma about guys having emotions. If they were to tell someone, they probably would feel like they'd be made fun of because they were girly enough to be raped or that they weren't man enough to enjoy having sex. I don't believe that, but a lot of people do. In some ways, the psychological fallout for a male can be worse than for a female...
InvaderKitty if anything happened to you, I hope you are ok now, and have got all the help you could. If anything did happen to you, I hope the fucker who did it got what they deserved. If you're not doing ok, i know it's not easy but try and get some help. I whish you all the best
This video teaches us: If you're drunk have a friend take you home/dorm Never trust a man you don't know to walk you home Don't rape people Don't take advantage of a girl And don't do drugs
1. Always watch your drink being made to know for sure if it’s ok to drink or bring your own 2. Be with your friend so you can keep an eye on each other and leave together 3. don’t judge anyone by there looks anyone can be a rapist or an assaulter or murder or kidnapper 4. Think twice about your decisions if it will affect you 5. Have fun
For a second I was scared to go to college bc of all that party and rape since I'm gona be a freshman but then I remembered I'm going to a catholic university
don't worry it's not as much of an epidemic people make it out to be. if it is actually that bad make sure you have s male friend you can trust to watch over you and watch your alchol intake. never go alone a party never.
Rape might be the most disgusting word I've every heard. I'm a girl, and I'm very worried about my future. How will men treat me or look at me? Even at school sometimes boys stare at my friends and I like we exposing a lot skin. So I'm very happy you made this video. Thank you very much 😘
I ABSOLUTELY HATE HOW HE KEEPS DENYING IT AND HOW HE SAID ‘SHE IS RUINING HIS LIFE’ EXCUSE ME BUT LAST TIME I CHECKED *HE* WAS THE ONE WHO RUINED *HER* LIFE 😡😡😡
Holy shit this is so cringy. people pls if u guys see this happen get someone immediately. don't walk off. stay calm, watch make sure they don't go anywhere and call the cops immediately
if only. if you tell people you got raped you're a lot more likely to be met with shit like "lol no u didn't you just regret the sex" or "are you sure?" or "what were you wearing? were you drunk?" people either don't believe you or [most often] BLAME you. and the dude would have been hi5ed or otherwise not held accountable for it at all cause it's not biggie.
Sad but probably true. However, there are guys out there who would react like the guys in the video. And damn well should. Also getting so drunk and wasted that one rapes a girl is incredibly stupid. This guy was practically begging for something to go wrong the way he was livin' it up. The scary part is that while there are good men out there who would honestly walk a girl to her dorm to safety, how is anyone to know who are the good guys and who are the bad, whether the girl or another guy? Extreme caution is sadly necessary in those situations.
Vanillaphantola of course there are many many guys who would react nicely, but unfortunately most people [women included] would not. and you're right: how is one to know? and about drinking, i really believe drinking could never EVER cause someone to rape someone, in any way. not even the "didn't notice it was rape" way. if you're capable of getting a boner and using force and ignoring someone's asking you to stop, you're not that damn drunk D: [drunk people do not turn deaf, it turns out =p nor does alcohol alter one's moral code, ever]
It's because of the amount of falsified reports. It's assumed men rape ONLY nowadays and a recent survey of woman who "claimed" they were raped, 45% of woman said they falsely accused a man of rape because of shame, regret, or other things. They ask those questions to get a bigger picture, same goes for men who were raped (and yes this does happen and I can prove it with police reports so don't bother) they're asked "Were you drunk?", "What were you wearing?", "Was your shirt off?", etc. Based on awnsers they will investigate it before arresting them. this goes for both men and woman.
I think this short film is saying that sometimes when a guy does something like that he don’t even realize it and that what his doing is wrong (but ending up destroying her life and his life as well)
When I See These Videos I Cry Cuz I Been Through That Kinda Thing And When I Opened Up To A Friend They All Laughed At Me And To This Day I Cry And Cut MySelf If You Been Through This And You Been What That Girl Went To I Been In The Same Ik How You Feel Please Don't Do What I Did Don't Cut Yourself
No one asks to get rape Guy's just can't stand the thought of a girl telling him no so he forces her more in this rage and shes blanking out and when she wakes up she has bruises....Guys try to keep us Shut but Break free and Speak up if your going through rape get help and i wish you the best💙
That's not how rape works, no rapist just does it and doesn't realise. Rapists are generally deranged people who enjoy being responsible for their actions.
I like how they show the man confessing and maybe his thought process. If this is not rape, then what would he define as rape then? Interesting take, good job.
Rape works both ways, when its true and then the times that the victim lies and and the guy gets labeled a sex offender when they didn't, just putting it out there, this video is on point though
False reports of rape are very low, between 2-8% just like every other crime's rates of false reports. It can happen, just not as often as people like to think.
Uva was bad journalism. How can you expect someone to remember all the details of something that happened years ago. and of course there's no evidence now. Duh. A lack of conviction does not mean false report.
Also, lets not blame lack of investigation skills on why rapists go free. Let's blame victims. www.propublica.org/article/police-fail-stop-nfl-darren-sharper-rape-spree
Can we please stop talking about how the guy looks like an actor and look at the story that is being told. That rape is a serious thing and it can happen to ANYONE.
Sexual assault or harassment is never ok I went through it when I was 10 no one should have to go through what I did but if you do then please remember that it is never your fault you are beautiful just the way you are never try to je someone your not and remember smiles are contagious so smile at someone today
My best friend was raped by her ex boyfriend and she confides in me because no one else believes her and her ex has been saying that it was consensual and that she’s been spreading rumors about him and everyone hates her. If anyone has any advice please tell me because I’m 15 and she’s 16 and neither of us know what to do. We’ve told our teachers but they have no proof of what happened so they can’t do anything.
Rapist: "I couldn't breathe, I had to get out" Survivors: "Well that sounds familiar" I mean no disrespect with this comment, I do understand how serious rape is
90% of these comments are "stand with victim" or "never question a "victim"" which is fucking stupid of you don't question the victim or hold them at the same level as the offender then you are throwing away Due Process, just because a woman said something and false rapes are 2-8% this is a false statistic that has been discredited multiple times
It dosent matter
How drunk they are
What there gender is
How old or young they are
No means no
Rape is rape
You couldn't have said that any better
True so true
Basic Shista a
And it is NEVER the victim's fault. NEVER
No means “get the fuck of of me bitch”
the worst part about this is that he's only upset because he was caught
True
what if he likes that girl, who knows maybe they merry
Sad, but true.
julevt Maybe. But 4 out of 5 rapists mostly NEVER show remorse for they're actions. It's kinda sad. :(
Well that's exactly why rapists are rapists.. If they did have remorse, then they wouldn't rape to start with..
Unfortunately, the rapist usually doesn't feel that bad.
True. :(
He only feels bad because he got caught
They dont care
Its only bc he got caught
Only when they get caught 🙄
Doesn't matter:
What they are wearing
What there gender is
Whether your dating them or not
Whether they are drunk or not
CONSENT IS IMPROTENT! Rape is rape.
Star Music can i have permission to correct you
NO means NO and STOP means STOP!! like if u agree!!
Kayla The Undertale Lover agreed !
Kayla The Artist why does it only have 89 likes this is stupid ur comment is right smh u better get more likes
the other day a guy who i knew for a year now led me into the school changing rooms and shut the door turned around and said "im gonna rape you" and he didnt get very far that day but he touched me and cornered me. he said if i tell anyone hes gonna bring his group of guys and hold me down. but i told the teacher the other day and everythings fine now i hope...
No you're wrong no means yes and stop means continue😂😂😂😂.
what the fuck i was literally scrolling down to the comments to say this exact thing
College rule number 1: Bring your own drinks and never leave them unnatended. Gotcha.
+Laura Clark shouldn't the rule be don't spike people drinks... because that's the real problem
Eleanor Hope Yes, it should. But there is not anything anybody can really do to keep drinks from getting spiked. You are the only one who can protect yourself against the crazy phsyco bonkers people.
+fairy floss or maybe we should teach boys not to spike drinks or abuse girls
+Caroline Bessette that's exactly what I pointed out?? I said it was sad we have to teach girls to take their drinks with them when the real problem is people spiking drinks
+Laura Clark hey, don't throw psychotic/Ill people under the bus to prove a point
Hooray! Black guy is hero!!!
Finally hes not the first one to die
He made history
Quarantine Xone lol
@@Emilys_stupid lmao you got us messed up
RASICT! I liked the comment anyway
Finally 1 film where the black guy doesn't have to be the bad guy!
lol😂😂😂😂
+Mini Icecubes In the sequel he is getting killed first tho...
Holy crap you're right!!!! :D
I have seen many videos of British guys abusing girls. (as being bad guys)
Its usually domestic abuse videos.
So meh
What about Star Wars
Reality:
The opposite the victim gets abused and looked down upon
Do stalking counts
She was so innocent even tho she was drunk she said NO
doesnt matter what your wearing
doesnt matter if your drunk or asleep
doesnt matter who you are
rape is rape
no means no
consent matters
preach🙌
PREACH🙌🏻🙌🏻👏👏
exactly
PREACH👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏
PREACH
Girl: crying
Boy: she was flirting with me
Right
The second a girl says stop or no even if she’s laughing or something you need to get off and make sure she isn’t joking because shes probably serious
I know right
2 guys who whooped the other ass in party we need more in this world with people who have a heart
I know right I would do that
and this is why i will never go to parties or shit like that
same
Same, or leave the house except for school.
Couldn't agree more, I have never gone to any part like that. Even if I did I be back by 9pm
Dude Sammeeeeeeee
Same
I was raped by my ex because he was saying uncomfortable stuff about me, so I broke up with him when we were alone, but he wouldn't listen and started raping me. Only my best friend who also has been raped twice knows. This video really helps me understand that everything will be ok, thank you
I love how this video is raising awareness. Sadly, this doesn't even begin to shed light on what it feels like. :/ It's horrifying. The way all the other people are accepting and supporting the girl isn't always the situation. Sadly, there's a lot more of blaming the victim. Stay strong guys
I agree...People would call raped girls sluts and think that its their fault or nobody would care.
+yekaterina nikolina I want to point out that it happens to guys more often then girls, not rape but not believing them
Rikky Ruiz Well thankfully rape is more serious with the law now, and usually the victim is believed by the police. I don't know the statistics on disbelief in men versus women, but I can definitely see men being believed less often being true. Rape isn't just a women issue, its a human issue.
my cousin raped me a month ago lost control of my life since
I'm 14 and he's 18 ...nobody knows but my uncle...I could never tell anyone else I live nowhere near them so I'm alone here I too afraid to tell anyone my sister knows but not the whole story I didn't tell her about the rape part... I either take a shower for hours because I feel like his touch his hands are still on me or I don't at all
Leyal Smith I'm sorry 😞🙁
Leyal Smith stay strong God be with you
Please please tell your mother THAT BITCH WILL go.to.jail hun do it for your saftey AND OTHER GIRLS SAFTEYY
And BE THAT ONE PERSON A KIND PERSON TO HELP ANOTHER GIRLS LIFE
Stay strong
This is why I need to carry a knife and pepper spray when I walking in the morning
Lol I'm 11 and I do
Crystal -_- I’m not in college yet but when I am I will to
You shouldn’t need to
Kyia -_- don’t carry a knife, you will get arrested
Is it not illegal to carry a knife...
I hate rapist with a murder driven compassion
grade A acting.
Jabaru Mclaoin A+
Jabaru Mclaoin A++++
Really good acting
Jabaru Mclaoin A+++++++
NO means NO and STOP means STOP. POINT BLANK PERIOD. It doesn't matter what they were wearing, it doesn't matter whether or not the person is intoxicated, and it doesn't matter whether or not you're attracted to this person or if they're attracted to you. NO means NO.
Thandiwe Croke yes for both genders
Thank you for this video. I am a survivor or sexual assault, and I wish It'd had this reaction, being able to see it portrayed how I wish it had been for me really helped me. Thank you so much for this video!
Wow, a survivor? I've never heard of that
I so sorry for what happen to u I am a survivor of Sexual assault too So I know how u feel ! Stay Strong.
+Mega FIare Studios As in she didn't allow it to degrade her to the point that she took her own life. Resisting suicide is still survival.
I feel all of you bc I survived 2 sexual assaults...Its horrible this shit should happen to no one!
I'm really sorry for what happened to you. I was molested when I was 5 and it's an awful thing to live with.
If only lifetime movies where the same duration as this video.
Omg right I love lift time movies the man has a double life movie
I agree
This why I don’t drink
@@kelbycliett8 yeah!
@@kelbycliett8 No one has the right to rob your house or car, either, but it still happens. Rape is a crime and you can't erase it from the face of the Earth, but you can prevent the likelihood of it not happening. By not drinking in dingy teenage parties, you are making yourself less of a target and even more so by not going to said parties. The OP is right, this is why you shouldn't drink, it's not like things are better when you're drunk, I'm 40, haven't drunk and a girl who enjoys herself a lot when out.
Exactly
I know right
It won't prevent rap4 and also you're indirectly victim blaming.
this is exactly the situation me and my brother are in
he refuses to own up to what he's done and victimizes himself because of what he did to me
Really? Wow........I'm sorry about that...😥 did you tell your mom?
maxx ok I know it will be hard but you need to tell a parent or close family member about this asap! It's not right! Just make sure someone knows about it. If u have Instagram pm me if u wanna talk my username is @dagrandegang
Omg🤧
Omg that's so sad I'm sorry you had to go through with that.
OH HELL NOOOO! BETTER CALL THE POLICE OR TELL YO MOM
The counselor/therapist at the end spoke the truth.
It's just really sad to hear other people's rape stories, let me tell you mine. I got rape when I was a kid I was 9-8 years old my story starts when I was in a theme park I was going to get my tickets till then some worker took me to a room and start asking me some weird question he started kissing me and tuching my private parts I was so scared but I didn't scream or cry cuz I know he will lock the door then I cant escape from him but I told him to do me a favor I don't really remember what I asked for but at this moment I only had one chance to escape the door was opened so I started running and crying .... I know my English is not really good but I just decided to share my story btw nobody knows about my story except my bff....
Sultana's First RUclips channel EVER I'm really sorry , pliz get help
Oh my god that's horrible I'm so sorry! You should talk to someone hun
Omg not even you mom
😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😬😡😡😡😕😑😐😯😨😨😨😨😨😨😶😶😵😳😳😲😲
Damn..
If I was the blonde girl:
1:say “No” if he doesn’t listen
2:kick him
3:call the cops
4:stay at home and never move
And let’s all celebrate for the black guy 👏👏👏 good job buddy
Don't forget that white guy who helped the black guy.
the guy who said "that's pathetic" is my spirit animal now and none of you can say otherwise
Stop, don't touch me there, that is my no no square.
How about we make one of these short films from a guy's perspective? It happens to them too ya know. 💯
yes!! its disgusting that there's this stigma against guys getting raped!! guys.. its fine to step up.. if something bad happened to u in any situation its fine to step up and say it... because u r not a victim.. u r a survivor
Yes but it happens not as much, women get drunk and someone takes advantage of that :(
Kalimantan 15256 It doesn't matter how much it happens. It ALL needs to stop. 😑😑😑
+Kalimantan 15256 well actually it probably happens around the same rate especially drunk men since a wonan has the physical advantage there.
+Kalimantan 15256 yea, but guys have been stigmatized to be hypersexual beings who always want sex, so when it happens to them it's also because the person who technically raped them did not believe them when they said they didn't want to have sex.... It's different, but it's still rape and I think it would be a very profound story if someone made a short about it. Guys feel even more alone than girls when they are raped because of the other stigma about guys having emotions. If they were to tell someone, they probably would feel like they'd be made fun of because they were girly enough to be raped or that they weren't man enough to enjoy having sex. I don't believe that, but a lot of people do. In some ways, the psychological fallout for a male can be worse than for a female...
Wow, if only people did that for me
Did something happen to you? Are u ok
InvaderKitty are you ok hun!?!?
InvaderKitty if anything happened to you, I hope you are ok now, and have got all the help you could. If anything did happen to you, I hope the fucker who did it got what they deserved. If you're not doing ok, i know it's not easy but try and get some help. I whish you all the best
if she can't say no
she can't say yes either
rape is rape
This video teaches us:
If you're drunk have a friend take you home/dorm
Never trust a man you don't know to walk you home
Don't rape people
Don't take advantage of a girl
And don't do drugs
1. Always watch your drink being made to know for sure if it’s ok to drink or bring your own
2. Be with your friend so you can keep an eye on each other and leave together
3. don’t judge anyone by there looks anyone can be a rapist or an assaulter or murder or kidnapper
4. Think twice about your decisions if it will affect you
5. Have fun
Eden Vu yess if your drink tastes salty all of a sudden, DIGARD IT it could have some sort of drug in it
For a second I was scared to go to college bc of all that party and rape since I'm gona be a freshman but then I remembered I'm going to a catholic university
It's possible anywhere, sadly
Annaa Idekijustloveyoutube i was thinking that too
don't worry it's not as much of an epidemic people make it out to be. if it is actually that bad make sure you have s male friend you can trust to watch over you and watch your alchol intake. never go alone a party never.
Lol
I'm in Norte dame right now. So I can relate lol.
"I didn't do it"
The acting was priceless. Good message.
It's great to see that some people still fight back
NO MEANS N0! If a girl/ boy is drunk, they cannot give proper consent! god what is wrong with people.
I cant believe people have the nerve to blame it on what you're wearing and say it's okay
Leah Peterson Exactly. I fucking hate hearing that kind of shit. We know those lowlifes are dumbasses.
What a liar,I can't believe he'd do something like that.Thats jus' wrong
Rape might be the most disgusting word I've every heard. I'm a girl, and I'm very worried about my future. How will men treat me or look at me? Even at school sometimes boys stare at my friends and I like we exposing a lot skin. So I'm very happy you made this video. Thank you very much 😘
it is NEVER the victims fault. NEVER.
I ABSOLUTELY HATE HOW HE KEEPS DENYING IT AND HOW HE SAID ‘SHE IS RUINING HIS LIFE’ EXCUSE ME BUT LAST TIME I CHECKED *HE* WAS THE ONE WHO RUINED *HER* LIFE 😡😡😡
guys don't feel bd after doing this like the video portrays. they continue doing it.
That's true
Thank you so much for this video. I am a survivor of rape as well. However, I am not being taken seriously when I told people that I was raped.
Sarah Wood you shouldn’t tell random people on the internet about this because they won’t believe you
I liked the two other guys who were protecting everyone
It's sad that it feels unrealistic for people to react badly when someone gets raped... like it SHOULD be that way, but it usually isn't
Got caught red handed dude, you should feel bad.
This is why I'm never drinking alcohol at a party
this was really good and spreads the message... nice work
It's shark boy's son Gil!
Holy shit this is so cringy. people pls if u guys see this happen get someone immediately. don't walk off. stay calm, watch make sure they don't go anywhere and call the cops immediately
9:30. He's probably pregnant
+Alice Chernyak More like he finally realizes what a scumbag he is and sick to his stomach thinking about it :p
AmyBlackRoseCena hahaha yeah maybe
if only. if you tell people you got raped you're a lot more likely to be met with shit like "lol no u didn't you just regret the sex" or "are you sure?" or "what were you wearing? were you drunk?" people either don't believe you or [most often] BLAME you.
and the dude would have been hi5ed or otherwise not held accountable for it at all cause it's not biggie.
Sad but probably true. However, there are guys out there who would react like the guys in the video. And damn well should.
Also getting so drunk and wasted that one rapes a girl is incredibly stupid. This guy was practically begging for something to go wrong the way he was livin' it up.
The scary part is that while there are good men out there who would honestly walk a girl to her dorm to safety, how is anyone to know who are the good guys and who are the bad, whether the girl or another guy? Extreme caution is sadly necessary in those situations.
Vanillaphantola of course there are many many guys who would react nicely, but unfortunately most people [women included] would not. and you're right: how is one to know?
and about drinking, i really believe drinking could never EVER cause someone to rape someone, in any way. not even the "didn't notice it was rape" way. if you're capable of getting a boner and using force and ignoring someone's asking you to stop, you're not that damn drunk D: [drunk people do not turn deaf, it turns out =p nor does alcohol alter one's moral code, ever]
+Nahchuva good point. The alcohol probly would just make it easier for someone already capable of such a terrible act to commit it.
It's because of the amount of falsified reports. It's assumed men rape ONLY nowadays and a recent survey of woman who "claimed" they were raped, 45% of woman said they falsely accused a man of rape because of shame, regret, or other things. They ask those questions to get a bigger picture, same goes for men who were raped (and yes this does happen and I can prove it with police reports so don't bother) they're asked "Were you drunk?", "What were you wearing?", "Was your shirt off?", etc. Based on awnsers they will investigate it before arresting them. this goes for both men and woman.
+Vanillaphantola it is acc sad to here that but completly true
It doesn't matter if he/she was laughing or flirting, if someone says no, It doesn't mean 'yes'
I think this short film is saying that sometimes when a guy does something like that he don’t even realize it and that what his doing is wrong (but ending up destroying her life and his life as well)
When you don’t learn your lesson even after almost being thrown off a building
When I See These Videos I Cry Cuz I Been Through That Kinda Thing And When I Opened Up To A Friend They All Laughed At Me And To This Day I Cry And Cut MySelf If You Been Through This And You Been What That Girl Went To I Been In The Same Ik How You Feel Please Don't Do What I Did Don't Cut Yourself
I wish ppl stood up for u like that irl
Hey, did anyone else get nervous when she was walking down the stairs. I thought she was gonna fall.
The worst part is that he is mad just because he was caught. And the is the reason I never go to parties.
*claps* omg
BEST FILM EVER
4:43 Lmao, there always has to be the one person(group).
No one asks to get rape Guy's just can't stand the thought of a girl telling him no so he forces her more in this rage and shes blanking out and when she wakes up she has bruises....Guys try to keep us Shut but Break free and Speak up if your going through rape get help and i wish you the best💙
That's not how rape works, no rapist just does it and doesn't realise. Rapists are generally deranged people who enjoy being responsible for their actions.
I like how they show the man confessing and maybe his thought process. If this is not rape, then what would he define as rape then? Interesting take, good job.
Why I'm afraid of dorms and collage
Rape works both ways, when its true and then the times that the victim lies and and the guy gets labeled a sex offender when they didn't, just putting it out there, this video is on point though
False reports of rape are very low, between 2-8% just like every other crime's rates of false reports. It can happen, just not as often as people like to think.
absolutely
Uva was bad journalism. How can you expect someone to remember all the details of something that happened years ago. and of course there's no evidence now. Duh. A lack of conviction does not mean false report.
Also, lets not blame lack of investigation skills on why rapists go free. Let's blame victims.
www.propublica.org/article/police-fail-stop-nfl-darren-sharper-rape-spree
Woah, never blame victims
Can we please stop talking about how the guy looks like an actor and look at the story that is being told. That rape is a serious thing and it can happen to ANYONE.
Sexual assault or harassment is never ok I went through it when I was 10 no one should have to go through what I did but if you do then please remember that it is never your fault you are beautiful just the way you are never try to je someone your not and remember smiles are contagious so smile at someone today
this film was good but not necessarily does everyone sie with the victim. Most of the time the victim is also blamed :(
This is why I'll always volunteer to be the DD
This brought back such a bad flashback..
I love how he “doesn’t know what he did.” He’s so weird. Ewww
If only lifetime movies had the same 10/10 acting and beautiful message as this short film
My best friend was raped by her ex boyfriend and she confides in me because no one else believes her and her ex has been saying that it was consensual and that she’s been spreading rumors about him and everyone hates her. If anyone has any advice please tell me because I’m 15 and she’s 16 and neither of us know what to do. We’ve told our teachers but they have no proof of what happened so they can’t do anything.
I hate when police ask did you say no?
Yes, cause otherwise that would be consensual lol
It's good that everyone stood up to him!!
thank god the victim spoke up! best. film. ever!
This upsets me so much seeing all the people that were victims of sexual assault and rape in these comments
Doesn’t matter if it’s a girl or a boy no means no gender DOES NOT matter rape is rape.
To all the women out there: Watch your asses! Never do anything you don't want to do.
Don't do drugs kids. THIS IS WHAT HAPPENS!
Also,
Don't drink unreasonably, THIS IS WHAT HAPPENS!
Rapist: "I couldn't breathe, I had to get out"
Survivors: "Well that sounds familiar"
I mean no disrespect with this comment, I do understand how serious rape is
Omg this reminds me of the youth speaks "LIKE OUR BRUISES ARE OURS TO POKE AT AND YOURS TO KEEP AWAY
*Stop rape and sexual assault NO means NO ! **#METOO*
I'm on the weird side of RUclips.... Again....
this acting is so good
90% of these comments are "stand with victim" or "never question a "victim"" which is fucking stupid of you don't question the victim or hold them at the same level as the offender then you are throwing away Due Process, just because a woman said something and false rapes are 2-8% this is a false statistic that has been discredited multiple times
+Gnawler ikr we live in a society where the accused is guilty until proven innocent. It is extremely sad.
And people say we don't need feminists
Yes means yes
No means no
Maybe means no
I don’t know means no
No answer means no
Only yes, means yes.
Unfortunately, this isn't how it works... the rapist is defended by his friends and the victim is blamed
Remember it's not consent if they're drunk
Feels guilty because he got caught. So ridiculous and disgusting.
It happens to men to
If somebody says stop that means you stop you can’t keep going like that’s not ok...
I’m so scared , us girls have to be CAREFUL