Dating as a Transgender Woman
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- Опубликовано: 12 сен 2024
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I’m a lesbian and I find this really informative as I have a friend who is trans, I think you are a strong woman! I wish we were just people without other labels! 😊
omg. you have such a beautiful energy about you. Im so happy I found your channel.
I love your attitude. It's a difficult path and accepting yourself, being positive and living your on yours terms is the way to go!
This was the first "Dating Advice"-Video that really helped me out!
After a really rough, dysphoric night out, I found this video and your channel this morning and you made me feel so much better. Thank you. Thank you so so much.
just came across your youtube and the energy and happiness you generate is awesome. i will have to binge watch everything you have out there.
your absolutely giddy and you have a smile from ear to ear, so happy for you !😁
Claire; I really enjoy your videos and I enjoy listening to your stories and having you there to share your life experiences with all of us. I think you are very brave to do this. I have a very special person I share my life with and am old enough to be your grandparent so I'm not trying to hit on you but as one person to another I do find you to be very interesting, likable and attractive. Seattle is a beautiful city and you are a beautiful, charming young woman. I hope you find someone very special to share your life with and I hope you will always be surrounded by goods friends there in Seattle or wherever life takes you.
Ub r so beautiful
Omg! I just love you! As recently coming out I just.... ugh! I can’t even express in words! Love you so much!
Claire I've been watching a lot of your videos and think that you have a smile that would light up any room; a beauty that goes far deeper that your skin; and eyes, your eyes are so kind and lovely. If I was 35 years younger I'd date you in a heartbeat.
RUclips led me here ;) I'm not trans but I find your channel interesting and cute so far. Started from the beginning happy to see how you put that bubbly sweet personality to work for you. Thanks for sharing.
Hello to a beautiful fun woman. My late girlfriend of many years college and on till she died of cancer began as a hidden trans , late 70's on. She was my college roommate then lover. I was in training also as an Army Officer for an Intelligence Agency. Naturally during lie detector tests I had to be honest...but we'd prepared and I answered honestly.
When I found she was in the pre surgery stages it came as a mild shock.but by then I knew I saw her as a woman and she naturally saw me as a guy fro. The heart and soul. Honestly it began in our showers daily..the dorm had group showers so we always showered together at off hours. I knew she had very blonde and light hair..but I covered for her. Since I had no family I went home with her then we went home on vacations near where I was training, btw...she always passed.
Of course I had problems till she explained that in her heart she loved me as a full woman would for her man.
I then began slowly thinking it over . Worked out
Just came across this video. it's a joy to watch because you are so happy. Thanks!
as someone new to all this it is so cool to hear how other women navigate through their lives. thank you so much. i also wanted to say how much i like your videography, you get some beautiful shots. kudos.
Claire, it's so great of you to respond! I don't know which store, but I'll find out.His story is so much like yours. He left Boston for Seattle less than a month ago without knowing where he'd end up. He did have one big advantage over you in that he was pretty certain to be hired back by MAC if he wanted.I'm going downtown tomorrow morning for a blow/dry which is when we'd meet for breakfast. I miss him soooo much. I'm so amazed by what you've achieved there since your move. Thanks for sharing your journey.
So so so glad you're happy! Can't wait to see more joy
Gosh you are so gorgeous
I really do enjoy listing to you. Claire. Dating has become nearly impossible for me since I had started my transitioning almost 2 years ago from MTF. I suppose that I am attracted to females and do not know if that is what is what is making dating so hard for me. There really is no question here for me to ask. I am very much well liked by so many women, but they are all so young and into men. I have never had this many girl friends in my life. It feels so great having them as friends, at the same time it's like I need something much more than a friendship. I do not know where I am going with this. I just started late in life being myself and have lost my family due to it. I am really happy today and you and many others have played a role in me finding the courage and in achieve my new found happiness. I would like to thank you for that, Clarie and I am so happy that there are people like you out there
Your Welcome :-) I did listen all the way!! Sometimes the Love Of Your Life is a friend that has been right there with you all the time you just have to open your eyes and see. My Love & Soulmate David passed away in 2017 & he and I were friends for years before I couldn't take it anymore and kissed him one night. We had 7 wonderful years together. I hope everything turns out beautifully with you and your 'he'.
This video made my heart soar like a hawk. It was just wonderful to see your spontaneous delight. Yes - please share what's present and real if you're willing. Also, if you're willing, you could do an enormous favor for me. One of my dearest friends just moved to Seattle. His name is Franky and he works at MAC there. He's the most brilliant makeup artist ever. If you could go and say hello to him for me, he will shower you with affection...and give you awesome makeup advice. Just say Charlie from Boston sent you. You are adorable. I'm so happy for you.
Really enjoy your videos and this one especially, the Happy Happy and the hint of giddy hope it works out for you.
BTW love your music !
U had me at "let's go get a beer" ....lol
I love your smile and how happy you can just be you're awesome
Love it!!!! Glad you are so happy, basically glowing through my screen haha be safe, keep rocking out, and please, never stop smiling
Claire, you have one of the most incredible smile I have ever seen.
OMG, it was so much fun watching your video. You are so full of life and seem really excited about this guy. I'm a closet trans female from Grand Rapids, Michigan and I hope when I finally do come out, I can have the same excitement as you do in this video. You are amazing!
BTW... sorry it didn't work out. :-(
BTW... sorry it didn't work out. :-(
Think what you have in your heart is very true and pure ( this is all written in your positive smile!); really pray you meet that being who can appreciate and love you as you are......
Yay a video! So happy to hear your voice 😊
I love the twist but ur personality it freaking awesome....how could anyone not fall in love you?
So genuine, the mannerisms, picturesse scenery, a breeze with the sound of the ocean. Honest human emotion is rare on this rehearsed, jaded platform... it's just amazing to see the love for your man and I hope it lasts. Perhaps you can handle the hate you'll receive if you are successful... just don't lose this intimacy, this je ne sais quoi in your message.
Great video. You are a beautiful girl
Glad to see this video, good inspirational one, one to keep and play whenever the world gets you done. thanks Love it
Hi Claire, you are such a positive light in the world. I love your posts so much!!
Wow u r so gorgeous... Your simile lightens my heart at one clock Sunday morning here In North Carolina I love your positivity... simply instructions
would be a great thing on how to be a great guitarist. I recently got one and it ain’t making no sense??? Is there a guitar learning book for dummies? Anyway keep doin what u r doin❤️
you have such a pretty smile. the kind of smile that makes your entire face light up
I'm a transguy and I watched your vlog ;) this one it just popped up
You are a great gal and I feel very close to you and your experiences, I am transitioning as well and happy to see you becoming who you are destined to be. You are a lovely and wonderful person. Any man lucky enough to have you in his life is going to be blessed a thousand fold.
why are you so damn cute?! I love my trans sisters. xoxo
Mia Racer Hola amor estás bien guapa
Great video Claire. Thanks for sharing. I'm going to put a video up about my dating experiences and my sexuality as a trans woman soon. I'm glad you put some safety info in there. I would add a note about safety calls. Give date information to a trusted friend about your date and include the contact info for the person you are going to see, the locations and times you expect to be at, and a return time. Call or text your friend afterwards so they know you are ok and not to alert the cops .
You should do your vlogs for you because beings you is what is drawing me to your vlog and why I will keep watching.What kind of music do you play and what instrument? Do you have any CD's yet I sort of feel like I would like to support commercially people who are special to me and while I became a transgender ally because I work in the field of HIV as a very old (64 y/0) MSW social worker) my following vlogs has given me a passion to want to support transgender women in their life quest because I have never seen a more special group of people in my personal or professional life. You guys are so brave and so full of passion and so full of joy and so full of life that I just feel personally energized and see life in a much more optimistic when I see life thru your eyes. So many of you have such a great gift of personal optimism and the ability of imparting this optimism to others thru your vlogs. Frank vozak (frank.vozak@va.gov)
I enjoyed your video and your energy. I would really like to meet a trans woman like yourself. Best wishes
Michael
heart on your sleeve, love this videos
I agree..you are glowing..beautiful
never worry , with those sensuous lips , those fantastic eyes, your voice melts away any question that you are a gorgeous talented woman beyond most. A man should count himself very previlaged to even be near you . Good loving soon i am convinced
I think you are very brave in going after what you want or desire in life. I think you inspire other people with your video's. 👍 Good luck to you with everything you do in life (and in a loving relationship😉). I wish you good blessings in all you do! ❤️ 😘
geez you're gorgeous!!!
Guy's opinion: Uh, I see a woman, who is gorgeous without a lot of makeup. Great personality. Someone a geeky guy could have a good conversation with but attract a normal guy too. I think you'll do fine dear. I love your enthusiasm for life and your positive nature.
Dean Koontz reference! lol
OMG Claire! You're so adorable! You can see the changes in the shades of red in your face :P I hope things with that guy goes well :) I haven't tried posting that I'm transgender on okcupid yet, seems really scary :s
Watching this to understand better (after finally watching your music video) and I'm wondering where you moved from?? I'm from Rhode island and related so so so hard!!! On the privacy thing!
Claire , you are a very pretty charming young woman. Congratulations for meeting a nice guy who could appreciate you as a woman and for the very special person you are.
You held my attention and made me feel more positive about the world.
Great to see a new video from you Claire. :)
I'm in the very early stages of MTF transition, and even though I'm attracted to women, I feel like transition is gonna push me towards Asexuality. And I'm actually ok with that. It potentially removes one of the more difficult aspects of life after transition. (Absolutely certain I don't like men, so that's a relief, for me anyway. :P hehe)
Guys do watch..and some guys love the feminine energy transgender women have.
What???
You are a nice person. I wish you well and lots of happiness.
What a beautiful place.
Keep up your positive attitude, girl.
Congrats on playing Trans-pride that year, I hope all went well with that gig!
I love you and I miss you and I love watching you talk 💖
You are such a Beautiful Person! I can't believe any guy wouldn't want to be with you. I find you attractive because you are you if that make sense.xx
Such a positive page!!!! I love it!!!!
Ohhhh!! I'm so happy for You!!!!.. and I understand about wanting to be alone!.. you need a car girl!!! believe me there are a lot of place's you could go! you just need to explore more!
Hi Claire,
I'm a single older guy. I liked your video and positive attitude. Where do you live? I live in Illinois, USA.
Hi, I'm Nikki and I'm a recent subscriber to your channel. I too am trans mtf, but I'm in early stages of my transition. I haven't even started estro HRT yet, so I've got a long ways to go. Your vlogs are very helpful and bring some really good insight, but I do have some serious questions. How do I properly deal with my dysphoria, especially since I still have so many masculine traits, including my voice? I mean, I do look and sound feminine already for a born male, but I still have quite an issue with my masculinity overshadowing my feminine traits. How do I deal with all this? How can I feel and enjoy being a woman without being repulsed by the man I see upon every reflective surface I come across?
You are awesome and very positive,wish you much success
Yep, you are a hottie. To answer your question re; guys viewing your stuff...yes we do. At least I do. I'm glad you're happy - it really shows! I hope you find every happiness in this life. Sincerely, Gabes
you keep mentioning that you miss home.. I think we all do to some aspect..whether it be the emotional or physical part of home.. But, where are you from?
Ur so funny...I love your smile
This video is so absolutely cute!!! I love it!
You look so beautiful and happy♡
...I wished I could go on dates...being trans is one thing, but being trans AND overweight is hard...
This video was so awesome! You're so awesome!
Your pretty..!
Perhaps this video should be updated for dating post SRS.
No video ever brought me joy like this one
Claire, I have put that I am a transwoman in my profile on JustShe and have contacted well over 100 women, and so far no woman has responded to me. I lost a marriage because I was not upfront and I made a vow to not hide anything anymore. So far, no dates.
so pretty!
I watched this video again and I am thrilled that a really sweet girl met a really nice guy.You are such a cute and charming young woman and you so deserve wonderful things in your life because you are so kind, so hopeful, so sweet, so engaging, so kind so respectful, and so accepting. Still looking forward
So many smiles my gosh
You're lovely. I've been in a 3 year dating slump. Being out or not doesn't seem to make much of a difference. People don't seem to want to message me on Ok Cupid or Tinder. I don't have freinds or family to bounce idea off of to figure out what I'm doing wrong. When I message them, they don't respond. If I magically get a first meet, they take my messages as hostile afterwards. I really don't know why. I'm really lost as to what to do. Can you make a new trans dating video? Love your channel. And I'm glad I found you.
I think you way of meeting a guy sounds very appealing to me as a cisgender male ........it seems very nice way for a man and a woman to get to know each other and see if it would be fun to spend time together.. I think you would be a fabulous friend to get to know no matter what.
Thank you for your open mind and intelligence ! 🦄
That's cool.. I am originally from Ontario...kinda makes us neighbors ☺ but, live in Alberta, Canada
You are a beautiful and interesting person; I'd love to be your friend. Your humanity is contagious. God bless!
Awww 🥰🥰🥰 this was so sweet
WOW YOU LOOK GREAT
I don't have a issue with transgender people but I have a big issue with those that don't say anything... like I have HSV.. I tell everyone if I like them.. If I didn't tell people it's not fair to them..
Matthew Smith what is HSV ?
I just googled it
Matthew Smith
Agreed!:)
good luck dating doll. I am also a transgender woman so I feel your pain. Im post op and it's still difficult dating. stay sweet! :-)
You are very beautiful and atractive and talented .......
i miss your videos
Wish you lived in Toronto ❤️
I vink its good to talking abaud your gender life
I'm so jealous of him
love your video!!!!
You are soooo much fun!!!
Wish I could have been at your performance.
Trust it went ok.!
I’m in Seattle. Let’s meet
You are so bubbly xx
I was on okcupid and 90% of the guys who messaged me were the creepy chasers. They'd want to know how big I am, if I would do them, etc. Of the few decent guys who did message me, the closest one was 500 miles away. Like wtf? You gonna come see me? And really, none of the guys ever put any thought into their initial contact. It was always one or two word messages: "Hey", "Hey sexy", etc. I mean damn, I'm not expecting a 10,000 word essay on your first introduction, but show me you've put some thought into this. /endrant 😂
Cool video
Pretty 🌹
needed this...
This is 4 yrs old this video....yikes like to have update...lol