definitely worth it once you find the right person, but man it can take while to get there. Those bad experiences are still important to have to grow. Good luck
Nah I thought I found the “right” person but she dumped/discarded me when life got difficult for her. You cant win against peoples traumas and insecurities. Tbh most people better off focusing on their purpose and not let a women distract them from that. The opportunity cost (esp how uncommitted women are) is rarely ever worth it.
@@Monkofthecaribbeansame situation happen to me jus gotta be grateful for the memories and not take it personally, who knows maybe they come back years later
Your channel is genius - there’s a niche of guys like us who grew up playing these games as kids with no worries in the world. Now it seems like we’re lost in this world and don’t fit in. Great to hear your advice on topics that cross my mind every day!
If you went to a car shop and just took the first car you saw, would that be a smart choice? Or would you test drive multiple cars figure out what you like then make a decision? Same with dating. The reason you date around is because as a human, you don’t know anything until you try it. Life is trial and error. Settling down with the first woman you meet and expecting it to last long term is a fool’s errand.
@@jc3productions362 I specifically said "Dating around UNSERIOUSLY". Obviously it is good to test your psychological compatibility with several people, but if you don't take it seriously, you can overlook red flags and just stay with a person because it's convenient or fun in the moment without thinking about the big picture. That's the distinction between being serious or unserious in this case.
@@jc3productions362yes but you’re test driving seriously, to figure out what works for you. Test driving unseriously means years from now you plan to switch cars and you just go to a dealership to drive a Miata when you actually might need a work truck later.
Date seriously with the intent of marriage, but also don’t settle for someone who sucks. I was very fortunate and got engaged when I was 20 and married at 23. The right woman is out there, once you find her you’ll know!
I won’t gatekeep like this sucka. I got engaged at 21 and married at 25. Best decision I have ever made. In all but rare circumstances, the quality of the women you attract, and especially the quality of the one you call your significant other is a reflection of your own quality. I had spent a lot of time before even meeting her on becoming a better person. So I knew she was the one extremely early on.
@@gregkareem9824 He just got lucky is all. I had 2 relationships with girls I could say I wanted to marry and have kids with and both girls ended up snaking me. So it is what is is. Had they been the "one" I could have been married in my 20s and had kids. But here I am at 27 single. There was nothing he did that was special to keep a girl he simple by chance found a good girl (hopefully) who was loyal and stuck around. Knowing she's the one is very simple. It's all about her actions. If she's loyal, doesent have guy friends she wants to hang out with, actively helping you be a batter person and level up aswell as loving and nurturing and not like these new age women then she's a keeper.
I've been with the same woman since I was 20. I was very volatile as a person before I met her and she helped me lazer focus my goals and I believe I'm more successful now because of her. Through this journey I've also found that it doesn't matter how much money you make it's how you keep track of it. I've had multiple years of making 250k and had nothing to show for it a year later. She makes much less than me but is an expert at tracking the pennies and ultimately better off after the year than I am most of the time. We bounce off each other, pick each other up when we are down, try new things togther and no it hasn't all been perfect at all. I wouldn't change any of it and we are going on 9 years together now. It's a beautiful thing to build with someone who cares.
From 20 to about 29, I focused on my career and casual dating while grinding hard. I made a lot of money and had fun, but as I hit my peak, the lifestyle of partying and casual dating started to spiral out of control. It felt like I was losing myself. Now, I’ve been with my person for almost 3 years, and life has been so much better. The stability, connection, and joy I have now make me wish I had made this shift sooner.
I'm in my 30s so I can give some prospective on this. Definitely date around in your early 20s. Why? Because you learn how to deal with women and how to vet them. The more experience you get with them the more you'll know what you want in a partner and how to set boundaries. When you are inexperienced, most guys will be doormats. Also chicks are sleeping around like crazy in their 20s and as seen in this video, marriage in your 20s will likely end in divorce because it's way too easy for them to replace you. Spend your 20s building a foundation for your life and once you hit your 30s, women will come and you'll know how to deal with them; not to mention 20 year old women love older men so you'll have no problem pulling mid 20s in your 30s. Never settle. It's always better to be alone than cleaned out in court or having your image ruined by false allegations. Over 50% of marriages end in divorce and over 80% of the time women initiate them. You don't have to be a gambler to not buy into those odds. Take your time.
This, I think dating with intention is good. Dating casually is just so tiring because the connection part just not there in the end and honestly, it's false intimacy lol and most people in their 20's cannot separate the sex from emotions (which is incredibly hard to do because of neurological bonds, hormones, etc). I agree with the boundaries part too! Far too often I've seen men and women in their 20's lack boundaries and are typically only looking for 'casual' or 'no strings attached'. I would say it isn't only women who are sleeping around like crazy but both sexes tbh. I think when you find the right person they will add value to your life but until then, focus on bettering yourself and don't settle less.
More redpill cope. If you werent attractive to women in your 20s, you will not be attractive to them in your 30s. And no, money does not create attraction.
@@Dxtsr Yeah exactly, I think people have to ultimately learn from their own experiences in order to initiate change. Until then, they're going to keep doing the same shit that really doesn't result in anything more than false senses of connections which hurt more down the road tbh. I can guarantee you most men and women haven't ever questioned why they prioritize no strings attached situations over dating someone with intention. It's easy to not be open and vulnerable lol but it hurts you more in the end tbh. Glad this guy is bringing this up on his channel though bc it seems like it resonates with a lot of people
That’s why i advise people that don’t have much experience with women to try dating around for a bit. That’s what I did, I had been the person that always wanted to settle down and find the woman to spend my life with and after going into these situations with the wrong approaches a few times, i decided to try dating around for a bit. And after doing that for pretty much all of 2024 I’ve learned that i just don’t enjoy it. I mean i learned how to make myself more attractive and how to become someone that people want to be around but there’s nothing like having experience dating around before deciding to settle down…cause now I don’t think I’ll have any regrets
@@LegendaryMamba24 you won’t have any regrets until you realize you’ve pair bonded with multiple partners and realized now your ability to form a strong relationship with one person is severely diminished
@ ask your parents how many people they were with before they got together. I bet you the answer is not 0. Idk why our generation is so infatuated with the whole idea of settling down with the first person you see, other generations didn’t do that and a lot of them are doing just fine
@@LegendaryMamba24 Yeah, that's why their divorce rate was abysmally high. The culture is degenerate through and through I don't defend it. Of course it wouldn't be zero, but my parents are not a shining example of a functioning marriage. Many people live in unhappy marriages, and they can often be drawn back to multiple previous relationship partners. Matter of fact I'd consider my own set of parents to be just that.
Kevin samuels was the best man for this kind of advice and I follow his philosophy. Don't get angry at either men or women drop the gender wars aswell. Regardless of your gender and age, make yourself the absolute best version of yourself that you can be for you, and no one else. From there, pick from your best options at that point. If you are the best version of you for yourself, you will be the best version of yourself for your partner. Some people at a young age are ahead of themselves, while some are late bloomers. Its a case by case situation. As for sleeping around and having fun, im pretty sure studies show the more men and women " have fun " with multiple people their pairbonding ability starts to wither away so, enjoy that at your own risk.
I don’t agree on “figuring yourself out” first. Sometimes life happens and you meet the right person who drives you to be the best version of yourself. Hard and fast rules on life are silly.
@@WhereisYunoGasai This Bro. A lot of people on videos like this don't understand it, that's why they keep consuming and consuming without any actual progress. Oneself needs to Just Live.
@@JohnSmith-eo2yx Thats how I personally lived when I was younger, and those relationships blew up in my face. Relationships in most cases are very reflective, and for the majority of people a partner will not motivate you to do anything life changing, all of that comes from with in doing it for yourself, and I've seen that to be true not just in my own relationships but with everyone I've known. There are many people who also get destroyed due to dating people when they just aren't in a good place in life.
@@WhereisYunoGasai Bold assumption, but I agree with someone's philosophy due to how my own life experiances and relationships that have transpired, and what the person said aligns with me and my life experiences, so it all makes sense in my eyes. You can live life how you want to all you want but if there is solid advice and plans to utilize it doesnt make you a sheep for using a template or incorporating someone's ideas.
I really needed to see these comments and hear your points. I've been trying to bounce back from some really traumatizing experiences with women and honestly my cop out has been trying to find connections through dating apps for some quick meet ups and such. I can confidently say it's a waste and makes me feel less valuable not as a man but as a person. All I'm really trying to do is get a hint of what genuine love feels like again. If anyone in your 20s needs to hear it, seriously just focus on yourself and find genuine connections. Doing that now and I'm much happier doing so. Remember guys, quality over quantity 👍. Love to everyone and best of luck in your careers/relationships.
Date as much as you can, go through heartbreak, break hearts. Learn who you are, what you like, what your love languages are, find what you want in a partner. Be open and honest with yourself with every woman. Don’t be afraid to fall victim to cheating or just not being the one for another person, always grow with every person you meet.
28 year old man here. I found my soon-to-be wife when I was 22 and she was 18 at the time. We've been together for over 5 years now (engaged for 2 months). I can tell you, nothing beats coming home to the right woman. I've had some dating experience and dealt with the bad ones. I would say, date around to recognize which women are good for you and which ones aren't. This is how I know that my fiancé was the right one for me. Don't be the person to settle for the first woman you meet, because those are not always the right ones for you.
Married with the person I met when I was 20 years old. I am 28 right now and I would say it is worth it to settle if you find the correct person. Dating different woman simply is a waste of time. Especially if you are chasing P*ssy. If you find the right woman who wants to cook for you and do a lot of stuff which nowadays “independent woman’s” don’t want to, I guarantee you she is a keeper. Most women nowadays are a pain. They can’t even cook an egg. These feminist is something careful to be around. If you are together you can build something from there. Maybe it is true I wasn’t able to fully work on things I would like to do, but maybe if I did I would never met the right person.
It's absolutely insane how many women my age have absolutely zero idea how to cook. They may know how to bake sweets but they have zero idea how to cook a proper meal.
YT algorithm blessed me up, I was looking for music when I found this. I’m 18 and still deciding what type of man I want to be, your advice has helped me organize stray thoughts surrounding my future. Good video!
Get out there and live life first buddy, stuff might change including your values and ambitions for the future. Go to college or get a well paying job and live on your own and find out what you enjoy in life when you’re on you’re own first
Risk reward ratio on causal dating is probably the worst return. Instant gratification is the only “reward”, while the risks range from small like wasting time, and large like STDs and even false accusations.
Explore, yes, but if you find someone amazing who sets your heart on fire, go for it. When you're in your 30s, your options will be smaller, and you may realize all the short-term fun wasn't worth the amazing partner you had those years ago.
Best i can say is focus what you want you're career and break the cycle where you are dating around idk about that just be carefull but focus on you're career or what you want
The way I was brought up, I believe that building relationships is how you grow and learn more about yourself. Having someone who knows you-flaws and all-can be like an expedited path to personal growth because they reflect who you are right back at you. It’s up to both you and that person to decide if you want to take the time to truly understand each other. Career-wise, I find less merit in the routine because it often feels like just paid-for chores. You get into a cycle, and overall, there’s less room for growth and fulfillment. As a man, I do believe money is important because it provides more choices. However, it’s even more valuable when paired with genuine connections.
You can do a bit of both if time allows. Date casually, sleep with beautiful women, realize it’s not always what it’s cracked out to be, be open minded, realize what you want in a partner and what you want in life, find someone who will compliment that. Always be respectful and a decent human being, whether you plan on sleeping with a woman once or spending the rest of your life with her. Don’t let your happiness depend on one person, be comfortable being alone before you look for someone else.
I was going to write a long-winded comment about what ended up working for me, but my wife is too unique and ideal for repeat strats😄 All I will say is that she proved to me that there are AMAZING women out there who will be perfect wives in spite of everything we’re used to seeing on social media.
This was the exact question I’ve been asking myself especially over the last few months so it’s crazy this video was recommended to me. I’m 25 and went the career path. I’m not even gonna lie, I’ve always been socially awkward so that’s one of the big reasons. But also because if I ever find someone I don’t want to be broke and not able to provide. I want to set myself up now so I don’t have to while others are depending on me. And as far as doing both at the same time, I just don’t like the idea. I think it’d be too much stress. I don’t think I’d have the time and energy to do both and I like giving 100% to whatever I do. I don’t wanna have to compromise and only give 50% to each if that makes sense. Plus I’m a trucker now so I literally live out on the road so it’s basically impossible for me at this point in time anyway. To make it clear, I don’t care about career or making money for the sake of being rich. I just want to make enough money to set myself up for the future. Pay off debt, put away a decent sum for retirement, etc. My endgame is to have a family that I can provide for and support but also not having to worry about living paycheck to paycheck. I’m not happy right now going the career path but I’m thinking in the long term. Make sacrifices now to be happy later.
But you can’t measure love, a lot of people get married for papers, for their kids, to not die alone if you get married at an older age and etc. So marriage rates does not reflect for people who actually find that person you want to spend the rest of your life with. Definitely for younger people, don’t feel pressured to stay in a relationship if you can actually say to yourself “I don’t love this person.” But if you think you find that perfect person try your best to hold on to that.
This channel is somewhat different, very distinctive What i see is the legit MW2 09', aka the best COD ever, in a gameplay And what i hear is words from pure thoughts and conclusions And oh boy, this mix is, in fact, very distinctive.
Yea man Im honestly lost and sad I'm 25 and I thought my career would bring me the happiness i needed but it did not. I hate it every day, I realized all I ever wanted was a nice lady who support me and do to the same for her. I do not want to sleep around and never did, I just need one person and thats it. I dont know what to do and I feel like my time is running out
be in a serious relationship with a person that understands and respects that you put a lot of time towards career. In this way you can date serious and still have a lot of time to focus on career. Obviously this takes a special breed of woman but I found one that understands my perspective on what I want to do. It doesn't hurt that I also set boundaries early on so I'm not being controlled and squashed down to meet her expectations. I see it far too often where my friends get into these relationships and you never hear from them again because they don't know how to set boundaries with their partner. They end up being controlled and inherit these social pressures from their spouse to start living in a way that's inauthentic to who they are. It's like they forget who they were and what they wanted out of life before they got into that relationship. I suppose compromise is inevitable but it also doesn't have to be to a point where you're neglecting all the things that make you happy in order to meet your partners expectations.
Dating literally has nothing to do with masculine excellence. Money will out do her value. Sex? Hire a 10/10 hooker. Food? Hire an expensive chef. Cleaning? Hire a maid. Someone smart? Call the billionaire in your contact list. Someone to talk to? Hire the best therapist. Someone to pray for you? You can do that yourself. Being rich is better than having a good woman imo. Then again, depends what you want out of this human experience.
Exactly everything is risky. I been with the same woman for 4 years and married for 2 at 23. She’s perfect and everything I could ask for. And it sucks. I’m supposed to be traveling the word and doing so much more with my life like joining the military and going back to college. I’m young I can make mistakes and try plenty of things out but now I’m working 50 hours a week to support both of us. I can’t let her go though she’s way too beautiful and perfect but that aching feeling eats at me everyday because I don’t even see her more than 2-3 nights a week and all day on weekends at least but she still has to take care of her family because of their problems so she hasn’t even spent the night at my place more than 4 times this whole time. I don’t know what to do
If you need to talk to someone professionally about your feelings, do it immediately and get this straightened out. It's a tremendous waste of everyone's time if you string them along because of your indecisiveness. Don't let the feelings you have fester and spread because it WILL affect the both of you. It's not fair, but in life we have to make hard decisions. You must decide on the path that you want and set your mind straight. You can't live one life while wishing for another one. If she is supporting your and your struggles, why not stick it out with her and keep it up?
I’m 25 and have never had a real relationship, I gave up in high school. Haven’t been with one since. I go to work, go to the gym, play some video games, play some basketball or go skate 🛹
Same here bro! 25 and never been in a relationship. I just do what I want everyday and its a blessing. I want to have the experience but I’m not pressing for it. It becomes too stressful, having to worry about should I say this or that or give her distance just to ask her out. It really feels too complicated nowadays to even go on dates and I’m not doing dating apps those are not good for my self esteem lol.
I started casually dating when I was 18 slept around now that i’m 21 it's better off to date with intention but u really have to do both to know what u like and you'll definitely know what u don’t like being young and someone loving u when u not even established yet is special and shouldn't be taken for granted
you remind me so much of seananners and Jschlatt (the weekly slap not his main lol). I have my own take on this advice as someone who has settled down AT 20. I want to preface that I am extremely lucky to have found someone who is so fantastic for me and the best partner ever. She IS the drive behind my career success. I genuinely would not be as driven to succeed if it was not for her constant encouragement. I know it's a cliche of the "a good woman can make a boy a man." but it's absolutely true. I would say focusing on your career in your 20's is fantastic, but in terms of worrying about "settling down" early, as long as you are ready to live the rest of your ONLY life with that man or woman, it is absolutely worth it. and hey, rent is cheaper when you like your roommate so much you only need a 1 bed
If doing RUclips videos is your dream, keep chasing bro, I for real felt like I sat with a wiseman while watching some good gameplay, thanks for real, I appreciate it since I do sometimes feel lost in this aspect but your vision resonates really well with mine.
I mean if you meet your person you try to make that work it costs, money time and energy and commitment. If it works out or if it works you gain consistency. If you aren’t ready for that and value exploration over consistency then sure date around but it gets old, it costs money, time and energy. I’d say there are pros and cons to both sides it’s all about your path you’re on and what you’re looking for. Don’t date around if you’re not ready to miss out on one great thing to change your life but don’t settle down with something you genuinely do not see yourself building your life with as a partner who you can’t grow with. But discover yourself first.
I can asnwer this question easy. PUT YOURSELF FIRST ALWAYS! If you cant take care of yourself you cannot take care of a significant other/family. DO NOT SETTLE DOWN IN YOUR 20'S!! heartbreaks are needed once or twice. AS MEN WE HAVE SO MUCH TO OFFER AND POTENTIAL in this world BUT WE NEVER REACH OUR FINAL FORM CAUSE WE ARE CAUGHT UP IN PROVIDING FOR ONES AROUND US! YOU LIVE ONCE! ENJOY IT!
im 23 and all the good women are taken us single men at that age are left with the bad ones and theses women are going to the top 1 percent of men. i started to believe i have to do now is be a stepdad at 35. because i am the type of guy to live like this in my 30s very sad but no choice
I’d say career first and I know what everyone’s about to say but all I ask is hear me out. You can’t support a person working a dead end job, you have to be swift and get an important career so you also can have a status. I’m not gonna say what career I found myself in because I’m not hired yet but I got selected for a federal agency. Get an important title first so your presence demands respect.
The end of the video summary (*chefs kiss*). This is the first video I've seen of yours, but you already feel like a best friend giving me wisdom. Thank you man! You earned my sub.
NEVER settled. M27. Single. Engineer. Talking to women has gotten easier and knowing if they really f^ck with you too. ALWAYS put God first and your purpose EVEN when you find a wife. TRUST you ain’t missing out on anything Almost all women I’ve talked to here and there eventually over time revealed who they are. They ‘hoed’ around in their teens and early 20s and now are trying to be ‘saved’, shi funny asf lol Or women who choose the career like men EVENTUALLY realized they wasted their prime. Don’t get things misconstrued I personally look for women who can take care of themselves in some capacity but those women don’t really want to build they just want to use yours and spend theirs too All in all, vet these women and set back and ASK THEM QUESTIONS. Trust me you’ll see if they are who they say they are and always following your gut instincts
You dont find someone. You do your daily life de best you can, and when you dont expect someone is in your life. Not being in a relationship concerned to be heartbroken, is the most coward thing in this life. It is easer to cope with videogames, isnt it? Been there. Done that. Playing videogames as you keep aging, will make you heartbroken with yourself. I got heartbroken countless times. Until I mature enough and learned painful lessons. Now I have the best wife I could possibly asked for. Quit videogames, be a better and mentally stronger man. We have a biological need to reproduce and a spiritual need to find a partner for life. Talking about this while playing call of duty is just like a drug that numbs your mind while being kinda hyppocrite. You have the Duty as a man to do the best you can in real life, not hiding yourself in video games.
I wish you touched on the the fact that dating involves being given choice. Not everybody has this choice and if they put energy into that lifestyle, they may experience emotional stress and physical strain given their lack of choice; it has negative health implications overall.
@@UserRobot215You wont be the type of person who spends time writing comments on youtube about how ugly they are. You probably want me to give you a perfect logical answer as to how this will solve your issues, but bro look at how you talk about yourself. Whos gonna love you if thats how you think of yourself.
It's hard to find a girl who's set apart, especially with all of the propaganda that has been going around. I went career route in my 20s and ended up setting with someone older than me.
yo just wanna say i love this old school feel you're bringing back to call of duty, if you ever want a guest for a dual comm at some point i'd be really down :)
Great video, man. I love the old-school MW2 commentary like the old days of my childhood. I'm 26 and have been dating my girl for 5 years now. I love my girl and wouldn't hurt her, but sometimes I just wonder if i've missed something that my friends have all experienced since many of them have been with dozens of women. I've only had two girlfriends, and i've slept with 3 girls total. I've never purposely slept around or even had a whore phase, while all my friends have. It's not that I don't love my girlfriend, but i'm wondering if i missed stuff my friends did. I'm worried that because I haven't been with many women, I will have some sort of "midlife crisis" about it.
Date around. How you figure out anything in life is trial and error. Why do people change careers, change interests, hobbies, ect? Cause they thought they would like it, then they tried it and realized it wasn’t for them. Same thing with women. You may think you want xyz type of woman till you get her and realize “damn I actually don’t want this”. Also dating around helps build social skills and gets you used to women in general so when you do find the one, you know how to handle her, cause you know in general how women operate. People just say settle down cause they have this weird moral hangup with sex and think they’re holier than thou for just picking the first chick they see.
Your career doesn't care about you, and you'll likely be stagnated. The woman you love and want to start a family with will hopefully be there forever. If you believe it's the one, and have thought hard on it, follow your heart
The number of quality women is in the range of 1-3%. Date until you find one of the decent ones and then try to make that work. Also, smart men don’t get married. If a woman truly loves you and has no ulterior motives, she will not require legal marriage.
basically, should you waste some time finding a girl or should you waste a LOT of time finding many girls...more girls is more waste of more time and more money. faster you get married, more success you will have in your career anyway. if you really want to focus on your career, best thing you can do it get married ASAP. anything else will cause you to drag your feet
in my opinion i realized that i wanted family, wife and kids just a little late. right now at age 28 i dont wanna date random girls that everyones already had. my ex tells me she tried to tell me that i beat myself up for it lol. i wanna go home to my wife and kids after work now not spending my time at bars trying to date its really lonely out here all the good girls are take ln up. moral of the story if you have a good girl who will spoil you and start a family then keep her cause in reality they arent many out here 😞💯
in my opinion the statistics you used may not take into account the reason said marriages started. for example how many of these marriages happened after an accidental pregnancy? i would argue there is a huge difference between a young 18 19 year old religious couple who abstained together and pray together, vs people who had sex for fun and took enough responsibility to marry for the kids sake. another statistic shows couples who pray together daily have way lower divorce rates i'm sure you have heard of that
the best part about your channel, you're playing the REAL MW2
I refuse to play any other version of it!
On xbox too
@@whylearntechthe only good thing about mw2019 is milsim skins
Are the servers on for mw2?
“do you wanna play the new COD?” No bro if I want bad spawns and bad servers I’ll just play on the throw backs
Finding someone is hard for some people. Personally I wouldn't settle but if I found someone that's worth finding I'm definitely keeping that woman!
definitely worth it once you find the right person, but man it can take while to get there. Those bad experiences are still important to have to grow. Good luck
@@whylearntechI'm just naturally a sometimes angry, or shy or just weird dude who like military lol I don't like most strangers
Nah I thought I found the “right” person but she dumped/discarded me when life got difficult for her. You cant win against peoples traumas and insecurities. Tbh most people better off focusing on their purpose and not let a women distract them from that. The opportunity cost (esp how uncommitted women are) is rarely ever worth it.
@@whylearntechI’m 25 and I’ve been dating around since I was 16 it took this long to find the woman for me
@@Monkofthecaribbeansame situation happen to me jus gotta be grateful for the memories and not take it personally, who knows maybe they come back years later
Your channel is genius - there’s a niche of guys like us who grew up playing these games as kids with no worries in the world. Now it seems like we’re lost in this world and don’t fit in. Great to hear your advice on topics that cross my mind every day!
I appreciate that. You basically outlined the reason I made the channel, because i felt//feel that same way during my 20s!
Dude that’s a perfect comment . Sort of what I was thinking too
Straight facts. Dating around unseriously is one of the dumbest things one can do.
It usually leads to a path of unhappiness
If you went to a car shop and just took the first car you saw, would that be a smart choice? Or would you test drive multiple cars figure out what you like then make a decision? Same with dating. The reason you date around is because as a human, you don’t know anything until you try it. Life is trial and error. Settling down with the first woman you meet and expecting it to last long term is a fool’s errand.
@@jc3productions362 I specifically said "Dating around UNSERIOUSLY". Obviously it is good to test your psychological compatibility with several people, but if you don't take it seriously, you can overlook red flags and just stay with a person because it's convenient or fun in the moment without thinking about the big picture. That's the distinction between being serious or unserious in this case.
@@jc3productions362well said
@@jc3productions362yes but you’re test driving seriously, to figure out what works for you.
Test driving unseriously means years from now you plan to switch cars and you just go to a dealership to drive a Miata when you actually might need a work truck later.
Date seriously with the intent of marriage, but also don’t settle for someone who sucks. I was very fortunate and got engaged when I was 20 and married at 23. The right woman is out there, once you find her you’ll know!
Married at 23? How old are you now? How did you knew she was the one?
Still didn't answer the question nah gatekeeping info like this is wild moe smh humans man why am I not surprised
I won’t gatekeep like this sucka. I got engaged at 21 and married at 25. Best decision I have ever made. In all but rare circumstances, the quality of the women you attract, and especially the quality of the one you call your significant other is a reflection of your own quality. I had spent a lot of time before even meeting her on becoming a better person. So I knew she was the one extremely early on.
@@gregkareem9824 He just got lucky is all. I had 2 relationships with girls I could say I wanted to marry and have kids with and both girls ended up snaking me. So it is what is is. Had they been the "one" I could have been married in my 20s and had kids. But here I am at 27 single. There was nothing he did that was special to keep a girl he simple by chance found a good girl (hopefully) who was loyal and stuck around. Knowing she's the one is very simple. It's all about her actions. If she's loyal, doesent have guy friends she wants to hang out with, actively helping you be a batter person and level up aswell as loving and nurturing and not like these new age women then she's a keeper.
I've been with the same woman since I was 20. I was very volatile as a person before I met her and she helped me lazer focus my goals and I believe I'm more successful now because of her. Through this journey I've also found that it doesn't matter how much money you make it's how you keep track of it. I've had multiple years of making 250k and had nothing to show for it a year later. She makes much less than me but is an expert at tracking the pennies and ultimately better off after the year than I am most of the time. We bounce off each other, pick each other up when we are down, try new things togther and no it hasn't all been perfect at all. I wouldn't change any of it and we are going on 9 years together now. It's a beautiful thing to build with someone who cares.
Congratulations!
Your story is really inspiring, wishing the best for the two of you and thank u for sharing
What do you do to make so much???
@Young_23 catastrophe field adjuster. This year was my slowest one I made 180k pre tax. Pretty slow year for me
@@will9846 learn some humbleness next lol. 180k a year and calling it a slow year is a sign of an egotistical person
Dating around does NOT allow you to focus more on your career. In my experience, casually dating took up way more time, energy and effort.
Yeah, it didn't work for you and your career which is understandable. Everything varies by approach, and individuals have different approaches.
I agree, being SINGLE single gives you more time but dating is draining financially and emotionally
It entirely depends on what type of relationship you have. If you're in a toxic relationship, it's a different comparison
Yes it does especially if u get them in and out purely to keep your libido sated
From 20 to about 29, I focused on my career and casual dating while grinding hard. I made a lot of money and had fun, but as I hit my peak, the lifestyle of partying and casual dating started to spiral out of control. It felt like I was losing myself. Now, I’ve been with my person for almost 3 years, and life has been so much better. The stability, connection, and joy I have now make me wish I had made this shift sooner.
I'm in my 30s so I can give some prospective on this. Definitely date around in your early 20s. Why? Because you learn how to deal with women and how to vet them. The more experience you get with them the more you'll know what you want in a partner and how to set boundaries. When you are inexperienced, most guys will be doormats. Also chicks are sleeping around like crazy in their 20s and as seen in this video, marriage in your 20s will likely end in divorce because it's way too easy for them to replace you. Spend your 20s building a foundation for your life and once you hit your 30s, women will come and you'll know how to deal with them; not to mention 20 year old women love older men so you'll have no problem pulling mid 20s in your 30s. Never settle. It's always better to be alone than cleaned out in court or having your image ruined by false allegations.
Over 50% of marriages end in divorce and over 80% of the time women initiate them. You don't have to be a gambler to not buy into those odds. Take your time.
This, I think dating with intention is good. Dating casually is just so tiring because the connection part just not there in the end and honestly, it's false intimacy lol and most people in their 20's cannot separate the sex from emotions (which is incredibly hard to do because of neurological bonds, hormones, etc). I agree with the boundaries part too! Far too often I've seen men and women in their 20's lack boundaries and are typically only looking for 'casual' or 'no strings attached'. I would say it isn't only women who are sleeping around like crazy but both sexes tbh. I think when you find the right person they will add value to your life but until then, focus on bettering yourself and don't settle less.
You are speaking facts but sadly young guys will not listen to us. It’s better to let them learn on their own, how women truly are by nature..
More redpill cope. If you werent attractive to women in your 20s, you will not be attractive to them in your 30s. And no, money does not create attraction.
@@Dxtsr Yeah exactly, I think people have to ultimately learn from their own experiences in order to initiate change. Until then, they're going to keep doing the same shit that really doesn't result in anything more than false senses of connections which hurt more down the road tbh. I can guarantee you most men and women haven't ever questioned why they prioritize no strings attached situations over dating someone with intention. It's easy to not be open and vulnerable lol but it hurts you more in the end tbh. Glad this guy is bringing this up on his channel though bc it seems like it resonates with a lot of people
I already did the work im tired of chasing the bag It did not brought me any happiness to my life and Im 25... All I need is one girl.
I think the real answer is that whatever you choose to do you will always wonder what would happen if you picked the other option.
No matter what you do in life, you’ll regret it
That’s why i advise people that don’t have much experience with women to try dating around for a bit. That’s what I did, I had been the person that always wanted to settle down and find the woman to spend my life with and after going into these situations with the wrong approaches a few times, i decided to try dating around for a bit. And after doing that for pretty much all of 2024 I’ve learned that i just don’t enjoy it. I mean i learned how to make myself more attractive and how to become someone that people want to be around but there’s nothing like having experience dating around before deciding to settle down…cause now I don’t think I’ll have any regrets
@@LegendaryMamba24 you won’t have any regrets until you realize you’ve pair bonded with multiple partners and realized now your ability to form a strong relationship with one person is severely diminished
@ ask your parents how many people they were with before they got together. I bet you the answer is not 0. Idk why our generation is so infatuated with the whole idea of settling down with the first person you see, other generations didn’t do that and a lot of them are doing just fine
@@LegendaryMamba24 Yeah, that's why their divorce rate was abysmally high. The culture is degenerate through and through I don't defend it. Of course it wouldn't be zero, but my parents are not a shining example of a functioning marriage. Many people live in unhappy marriages, and they can often be drawn back to multiple previous relationship partners. Matter of fact I'd consider my own set of parents to be just that.
Hey man I asked the question and you did a great job answering. Very comprehensive and well thought out. Thanks!
Kevin samuels was the best man for this kind of advice and I follow his philosophy.
Don't get angry at either men or women drop the gender wars aswell. Regardless of your gender and age, make yourself the absolute best version of yourself that you can be for you, and no one else. From there, pick from your best options at that point.
If you are the best version of you for yourself, you will be the best version of yourself for your partner. Some people at a young age are ahead of themselves, while some are late bloomers. Its a case by case situation.
As for sleeping around and having fun, im pretty sure studies show the more men and women " have fun " with multiple people their pairbonding ability starts to wither away so, enjoy that at your own risk.
I don’t agree on “figuring yourself out” first. Sometimes life happens and you meet the right person who drives you to be the best version of yourself. Hard and fast rules on life are silly.
Life isn’t black and white, swim in the grey and live life how YOU want not how everyone else tells you how to.
@@WhereisYunoGasai This Bro. A lot of people on videos like this don't understand it, that's why they keep consuming and consuming without any actual progress. Oneself needs to Just Live.
@@JohnSmith-eo2yx Thats how I personally lived when I was younger, and those relationships blew up in my face. Relationships in most cases are very reflective, and for the majority of people a partner will not motivate you to do anything life changing, all of that comes from with in doing it for yourself, and I've seen that to be true not just in my own relationships but with everyone I've known. There are many people who also get destroyed due to dating people when they just aren't in a good place in life.
@@WhereisYunoGasai Bold assumption, but I agree with someone's philosophy due to how my own life experiances and relationships that have transpired, and what the person said aligns with me and my life experiences, so it all makes sense in my eyes.
You can live life how you want to all you want but if there is solid advice and plans to utilize it doesnt make you a sheep for using a template or incorporating someone's ideas.
I really needed to see these comments and hear your points. I've been trying to bounce back from some really traumatizing experiences with women and honestly my cop out has been trying to find connections through dating apps for some quick meet ups and such. I can confidently say it's a waste and makes me feel less valuable not as a man but as a person. All I'm really trying to do is get a hint of what genuine love feels like again. If anyone in your 20s needs to hear it, seriously just focus on yourself and find genuine connections. Doing that now and I'm much happier doing so. Remember guys, quality over quantity 👍. Love to everyone and best of luck in your careers/relationships.
Date as much as you can, go through heartbreak, break hearts. Learn who you are, what you like, what your love languages are, find what you want in a partner. Be open and honest with yourself with every woman. Don’t be afraid to fall victim to cheating or just not being the one for another person, always grow with every person you meet.
What us love language?
28 year old man here. I found my soon-to-be wife when I was 22 and she was 18 at the time. We've been together for over 5 years now (engaged for 2 months). I can tell you, nothing beats coming home to the right woman. I've had some dating experience and dealt with the bad ones. I would say, date around to recognize which women are good for you and which ones aren't. This is how I know that my fiancé was the right one for me. Don't be the person to settle for the first woman you meet, because those are not always the right ones for you.
Everything you said was straight firrre
5head groomer strat
Married with the person I met when I was 20 years old. I am 28 right now and I would say it is worth it to settle if you find the correct person. Dating different woman simply is a waste of time. Especially if you are chasing P*ssy. If you find the right woman who wants to cook for you and do a lot of stuff which nowadays “independent woman’s” don’t want to, I guarantee you she is a keeper. Most women nowadays are a pain. They can’t even cook an egg. These feminist is something careful to be around. If you are together you can build something from there. Maybe it is true I wasn’t able to fully work on things I would like to do, but maybe if I did I would never met the right person.
It's absolutely insane how many women my age have absolutely zero idea how to cook. They may know how to bake sweets but they have zero idea how to cook a proper meal.
Lmao cant even cook an egg. Hilarious
YT algorithm blessed me up, I was looking for music when I found this. I’m 18 and still deciding what type of man I want to be, your advice has helped me organize stray thoughts surrounding my future. Good video!
Get out there and live life first buddy, stuff might change including your values and ambitions for the future. Go to college or get a well paying job and live on your own and find out what you enjoy in life when you’re on you’re own first
Be the man you want to be.
This my new favorite channel, love the advice
tom brady is 1 of the only situations where i respect him choosing his career over relationship
Risk reward ratio on causal dating is probably the worst return. Instant gratification is the only “reward”, while the risks range from small like wasting time, and large like STDs and even false accusations.
For most guys the only result of attempting to casual date will be wasted time.
love the videos man. they feel more like talking with buddy than watching a video with a script.
That woman that wanted you to make $200,000 could never make that
Most women have more realistic expectations, it’s just the delusional girls they interview outside nightclubs who think that way.
Explore, yes, but if you find someone amazing who sets your heart on fire, go for it.
When you're in your 30s, your options will be smaller, and you may realize all the short-term fun wasn't worth the amazing partner you had those years ago.
20s is crazy broad. Focus on yourself until a woman comes along the way. Don’t avoid taking to women, but don’t seek it as your only purpose
Best i can say is focus what you want you're career and break the cycle where you are dating around idk about that just be carefull but focus on you're career or what you want
Don’t let yourself get attached to anything you are not willing to walk out on in 30 seconds flat, when you feel the heat around the corner.
Timeless quote from a timeless movie
patrice oneil type quote
The way I was brought up, I believe that building relationships is how you grow and learn more about yourself. Having someone who knows you-flaws and all-can be like an expedited path to personal growth because they reflect who you are right back at you. It’s up to both you and that person to decide if you want to take the time to truly understand each other.
Career-wise, I find less merit in the routine because it often feels like just paid-for chores. You get into a cycle, and overall, there’s less room for growth and fulfillment. As a man, I do believe money is important because it provides more choices. However, it’s even more valuable when paired with genuine connections.
You can do a bit of both if time allows. Date casually, sleep with beautiful women, realize it’s not always what it’s cracked out to be, be open minded, realize what you want in a partner and what you want in life, find someone who will compliment that. Always be respectful and a decent human being, whether you plan on sleeping with a woman once or spending the rest of your life with her. Don’t let your happiness depend on one person, be comfortable being alone before you look for someone else.
But seek ye first the kingdom of God, and his righteousness; and all these things shall be added unto you.
I was going to write a long-winded comment about what ended up working for me, but my wife is too unique and ideal for repeat strats😄 All I will say is that she proved to me that there are AMAZING women out there who will be perfect wives in spite of everything we’re used to seeing on social media.
This was the exact question I’ve been asking myself especially over the last few months so it’s crazy this video was recommended to me. I’m 25 and went the career path. I’m not even gonna lie, I’ve always been socially awkward so that’s one of the big reasons. But also because if I ever find someone I don’t want to be broke and not able to provide. I want to set myself up now so I don’t have to while others are depending on me. And as far as doing both at the same time, I just don’t like the idea. I think it’d be too much stress. I don’t think I’d have the time and energy to do both and I like giving 100% to whatever I do. I don’t wanna have to compromise and only give 50% to each if that makes sense. Plus I’m a trucker now so I literally live out on the road so it’s basically impossible for me at this point in time anyway. To make it clear, I don’t care about career or making money for the sake of being rich. I just want to make enough money to set myself up for the future. Pay off debt, put away a decent sum for retirement, etc. My endgame is to have a family that I can provide for and support but also not having to worry about living paycheck to paycheck. I’m not happy right now going the career path but I’m thinking in the long term. Make sacrifices now to be happy later.
But you can’t measure love, a lot of people get married for papers, for their kids, to not die alone if you get married at an older age and etc. So marriage rates does not reflect for people who actually find that person you want to spend the rest of your life with. Definitely for younger people, don’t feel pressured to stay in a relationship if you can actually say to yourself “I don’t love this person.” But if you think you find that perfect person try your best to hold on to that.
This channel is somewhat different, very distinctive
What i see is the legit MW2 09', aka the best COD ever, in a gameplay
And what i hear is words from pure thoughts and conclusions
And oh boy, this mix is, in fact, very distinctive.
Truly an experience.
"Don't drink too much coffee" I needed to hear that, subbed
reminds me of old school woodys gamer tag (something mondays) good content man 👌🏾
I really needed to hear this, thank you so much.
If you find someone who checks most of your boxes. Settle. Because that is rare nowadays. Very very difficult to find someone in today's age.
Yea man Im honestly lost and sad I'm 25 and I thought my career would bring me the happiness i needed but it did not. I hate it every day, I realized all I ever wanted was a nice lady who support me and do to the same for her. I do not want to sleep around and never did, I just need one person and thats it. I dont know what to do and I feel like my time is running out
Dating around is the most useless thing you can do. You will be both physically and mentally drained
be in a serious relationship with a person that understands and respects that you put a lot of time towards career. In this way you can date serious and still have a lot of time to focus on career. Obviously this takes a special breed of woman but I found one that understands my perspective on what I want to do. It doesn't hurt that I also set boundaries early on so I'm not being controlled and squashed down to meet her expectations. I see it far too often where my friends get into these relationships and you never hear from them again because they don't know how to set boundaries with their partner. They end up being controlled and inherit these social pressures from their spouse to start living in a way that's inauthentic to who they are. It's like they forget who they were and what they wanted out of life before they got into that relationship. I suppose compromise is inevitable but it also doesn't have to be to a point where you're neglecting all the things that make you happy in order to meet your partners expectations.
Though as depressing as the pros and cons of me still being single are, this gave me a little hope to hold out to find the right one
Dating around to find what you like is so true
Dating literally has nothing to do with masculine excellence. Money will out do her value. Sex? Hire a 10/10 hooker. Food? Hire an expensive chef. Cleaning? Hire a maid. Someone smart? Call the billionaire in your contact list. Someone to talk to? Hire the best therapist. Someone to pray for you? You can do that yourself. Being rich is better than having a good woman imo. Then again, depends what you want out of this human experience.
Yep. He uses the word “partner” so i already know…he’s in for some tough lessons
You sound miserable lmao
TGOD hits at 7:38 n you got weddingskink on your team lol
Exactly everything is risky. I been with the same woman for 4 years and married for 2 at 23. She’s perfect and everything I could ask for. And it sucks. I’m supposed to be traveling the word and doing so much more with my life like joining the military and going back to college. I’m young I can make mistakes and try plenty of things out but now I’m working 50 hours a week to support both of us. I can’t let her go though she’s way too beautiful and perfect but that aching feeling eats at me everyday because I don’t even see her more than 2-3 nights a week and all day on weekends at least but she still has to take care of her family because of their problems so she hasn’t even spent the night at my place more than 4 times this whole time. I don’t know what to do
If you need to talk to someone professionally about your feelings, do it immediately and get this straightened out. It's a tremendous waste of everyone's time if you string them along because of your indecisiveness. Don't let the feelings you have fester and spread because it WILL affect the both of you. It's not fair, but in life we have to make hard decisions. You must decide on the path that you want and set your mind straight. You can't live one life while wishing for another one. If she is supporting your and your struggles, why not stick it out with her and keep it up?
I’m in a very similar boat, I’m so happy with her but I feel like later I might live with the regret of not doing shit while I’m young
I’m 25 and have never had a real relationship, I gave up in high school. Haven’t been with one since. I go to work, go to the gym, play some video games, play some basketball or go skate 🛹
Sounds cool bro. If u find a girl hope she enjoys the same things Fr bro. She might!
I game with mt girl all the time. FPS games, everything
Same here bro! 25 and never been in a relationship. I just do what I want everyday and its a blessing. I want to have the experience but I’m not pressing for it. It becomes too stressful, having to worry about should I say this or that or give her distance just to ask her out. It really feels too complicated nowadays to even go on dates and I’m not doing dating apps those are not good for my self esteem lol.
I started casually dating when I was 18 slept around now that i’m 21 it's better off to date with intention but u really have to do both to know what u like and you'll definitely know what u don’t like being young and someone loving u when u not even established yet is special and shouldn't be taken for granted
Doubt you’ll even see this but keep up your vids. Only account i wait for vids for
you remind me so much of seananners and Jschlatt (the weekly slap not his main lol). I have my own take on this advice as someone who has settled down AT 20. I want to preface that I am extremely lucky to have found someone who is so fantastic for me and the best partner ever. She IS the drive behind my career success. I genuinely would not be as driven to succeed if it was not for her constant encouragement. I know it's a cliche of the "a good woman can make a boy a man." but it's absolutely true. I would say focusing on your career in your 20's is fantastic, but in terms of worrying about "settling down" early, as long as you are ready to live the rest of your ONLY life with that man or woman, it is absolutely worth it. and hey, rent is cheaper when you like your roommate so much you only need a 1 bed
This is a gem of a channel. Subscribed✅
If doing RUclips videos is your dream, keep chasing bro, I for real felt like I sat with a wiseman while watching some good gameplay, thanks for real, I appreciate it since I do sometimes feel lost in this aspect but your vision resonates really well with mine.
I mean if you meet your person you try to make that work it costs, money time and energy and commitment. If it works out or if it works you gain consistency. If you aren’t ready for that and value exploration over consistency then sure date around but it gets old, it costs money, time and energy. I’d say there are pros and cons to both sides it’s all about your path you’re on and what you’re looking for. Don’t date around if you’re not ready to miss out on one great thing to change your life but don’t settle down with something you genuinely do not see yourself building your life with as a partner who you can’t grow with. But discover yourself first.
I can asnwer this question easy. PUT YOURSELF FIRST ALWAYS! If you cant take care of yourself you cannot take care of a significant other/family. DO NOT SETTLE DOWN IN YOUR 20'S!! heartbreaks are needed once or twice. AS MEN WE HAVE SO MUCH TO OFFER AND POTENTIAL in this world BUT WE NEVER REACH OUR FINAL FORM CAUSE WE ARE CAUGHT UP IN PROVIDING FOR ONES AROUND US! YOU LIVE ONCE! ENJOY IT!
im 23 and all the good women are taken us single men at that age are left with the bad ones and theses women are going to the top 1 percent of men. i started to believe i have to do now is be a stepdad at 35. because i am the type of guy to live like this in my 30s very sad but no choice
Go younger
I’d say career first and I know what everyone’s about to say but all I ask is hear me out.
You can’t support a person working a dead end job, you have to be swift and get an important career so you also can have a status. I’m not gonna say what career I found myself in because I’m not hired yet but I got selected for a federal agency. Get an important title first so your presence demands respect.
Dude, something about your content scratches an itch I’ve had since the OG Mw2 days. Keep it up!
The end of the video summary (*chefs kiss*). This is the first video I've seen of yours, but you already feel like a best friend giving me wisdom. Thank you man! You earned my sub.
Getting major mail monday vibes here
I really appreciate the advice ❤
I’m focus on my job as of now. Yes it gets lonely, no I don’t try to give in. I’ll wait till someone will probably come by in life. If not, oh well
The OG MW2 CMON MAN THIS IS WHAT IM TALKING ABOUT
hey bro awesome video. love the insight
My algorithm doing the most right now
Dude great video bro, helps me with some guidance
Love this channel man
NEVER settled. M27. Single. Engineer. Talking to women has gotten easier and knowing if they really f^ck with you too.
ALWAYS put God first and your purpose EVEN when you find a wife. TRUST you ain’t missing out on anything
Almost all women I’ve talked to here and there eventually over time revealed who they are. They ‘hoed’ around in their teens and early 20s and now are trying to be ‘saved’, shi funny asf lol
Or women who choose the career like men EVENTUALLY realized they wasted their prime. Don’t get things misconstrued I personally look for women who can take care of themselves in some capacity but those women don’t really want to build they just want to use yours and spend theirs too
All in all, vet these women and set back and ASK THEM QUESTIONS. Trust me you’ll see if they are who they say they are and always following your gut instincts
yep. never, ever put them first
You dont find someone. You do your daily life de best you can, and when you dont expect someone is in your life. Not being in a relationship concerned to be heartbroken, is the most coward thing in this life. It is easer to cope with videogames, isnt it? Been there. Done that. Playing videogames as you keep aging, will make you heartbroken with yourself. I got heartbroken countless times. Until I mature enough and learned painful lessons. Now I have the best wife I could possibly asked for.
Quit videogames, be a better and mentally stronger man. We have a biological need to reproduce and a spiritual need to find a partner for life. Talking about this while playing call of duty is just like a drug that numbs your mind while being kinda hyppocrite. You have the Duty as a man to do the best you can in real life, not hiding yourself in video games.
Cool perspective. Ya video games can be one issue amongst many.
Lol, and what is "a man" these days.
Nothing wrong with playing video games. Its a good way to unwind after the day. Good message but no need to generalise.
There’s just something about mw2 red tiger
You can do both of course. If you find the right person.
I wish you touched on the the fact that dating involves being given choice. Not everybody has this choice and if they put energy into that lifestyle, they may experience emotional stress and physical strain given their lack of choice; it has negative health implications overall.
I’m too ugly and short for dating.
The only choice I get is being forever alone/single
Get in shape. Stop whining. No girl wants a guy with a victim complex.
@@officialtbhoops🔥🔥
Learn to love yourself
@ what is that going to solve?
@@UserRobot215You wont be the type of person who spends time writing comments on youtube about how ugly they are. You probably want me to give you a perfect logical answer as to how this will solve your issues, but bro look at how you talk about yourself. Whos gonna love you if thats how you think of yourself.
nah bro lowkey i be watching your vids everyday
How about just listening to your instinct. If she’s the right one for you, you won’t need to think twice.
It's hard to find a girl who's set apart, especially with all of the propaganda that has been going around. I went career route in my 20s and ended up setting with someone older than me.
Are you a fan of Black Ops 1 at all? Would love to see more commentaries with that game 😁
This reminds me of Mail Monday from Woodysgamertag. I love these old school life commentary cod videos.
Good luck everyone
Settle down in your 30s, trust me… enjoy your remaining 20s and early 30s, have fun…
You can still have fun with one partner yk
If you are going to say "trust me", your perspective would matter more with some context. Share your story, if it doesn't dox you..
If you want a family settling down in your 30s is an objectively awful idea
Have a girlfriend who supports you and focus on your career. Literally unstoppable combination
great advice
awesome video
yo just wanna say i love this old school feel you're bringing back to call of duty, if you ever want a guest for a dual comm at some point i'd be really down :)
3:16 For God so loved the world that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life
I just think you should avoid marriage at all costs these days unless you're religious. The value for men getting married is high risk low reward.
Great video, man. I love the old-school MW2 commentary like the old days of my childhood.
I'm 26 and have been dating my girl for 5 years now. I love my girl and wouldn't hurt her, but sometimes I just wonder if i've missed something that my friends have all experienced since many of them have been with dozens of women. I've only had two girlfriends, and i've slept with 3 girls total. I've never purposely slept around or even had a whore phase, while all my friends have. It's not that I don't love my girlfriend, but i'm wondering if i missed stuff my friends did. I'm worried that because I haven't been with many women, I will have some sort of "midlife crisis" about it.
Don’t care until you make good money. Women love conditionally. That’s it.
Sad but true. Women wait at the finish line and pick the winners. The realities of life are harsh and bleak.
Depends. If you find someone that fits really well, settle down in your teens. If you don't find someone who fits don't settle down at all.
Date around. How you figure out anything in life is trial and error. Why do people change careers, change interests, hobbies, ect? Cause they thought they would like it, then they tried it and realized it wasn’t for them. Same thing with women. You may think you want xyz type of woman till you get her and realize “damn I actually don’t want this”. Also dating around helps build social skills and gets you used to women in general so when you do find the one, you know how to handle her, cause you know in general how women operate. People just say settle down cause they have this weird moral hangup with sex and think they’re holier than thou for just picking the first chick they see.
Your career doesn't care about you, and you'll likely be stagnated. The woman you love and want to start a family with will hopefully be there forever. If you believe it's the one, and have thought hard on it, follow your heart
The number of quality women is in the range of 1-3%. Date until you find one of the decent ones and then try to make that work.
Also, smart men don’t get married. If a woman truly loves you and has no ulterior motives, she will not require legal marriage.
aint no way we're dropping mw2 commentarys in 2024
@@link39521 there’s no way I’m NOT dropping MW2 commentaries in 2024, AND 2025
If you find a good woman (fun, feminine, fit, ambitious, personality) …keep her. ….and handle ya business 💯
When you find the right one, it's worth it bros.
basically, should you waste some time finding a girl or should you waste a LOT of time finding many girls...more girls is more waste of more time and more money. faster you get married, more success you will have in your career anyway. if you really want to focus on your career, best thing you can do it get married ASAP. anything else will cause you to drag your feet
great video
Date around or else you’ll be curious what other girls r like and end up cheating
You can do both, the right women will be a pillar of support for your shared success.
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in my opinion i realized that i wanted family, wife and kids just a little late. right now at age 28 i dont wanna date random girls that everyones already had. my ex tells me she tried to tell me that i beat myself up for it lol. i wanna go home to my wife and kids after work now not spending my time at bars trying to date its really lonely out here all the good girls are take ln up. moral of the story if you have a good girl who will spoil you and start a family then keep her cause in reality they arent many out here 😞💯
in my opinion the statistics you used may not take into account the reason said marriages started. for example how many of these marriages happened after an accidental pregnancy? i would argue there is a huge difference between a young 18 19 year old religious couple who abstained together and pray together, vs people who had sex for fun and took enough responsibility to marry for the kids sake. another statistic shows couples who pray together daily have way lower divorce rates i'm sure you have heard of that
In like to try multiple woman! Why not? When you’re 30 yeah sure settle down