The 7 BIG SIGNS He's Emotionally ATTRACTED To You!
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7 big signs he's emotionally attracted to you... In this dating advice for women video, I will share with you signs he’s emotionally attracted to you so that you can be able to understand men better and even get to know how men think. You may see the signs of emotional attraction with a guy either on first dates, in online dating, or somewhere in the dating process. Take heed to this relationship advice and be sure to watch the entire video so that you can crack the man code and know when there is an emotional attraction between you and a man as well as know how men think.
I want you to understand men and know what men think because a lot of guys will desire you and may want to entertain you in various ways. However, not all of them will have that emotional attraction to you that is needed to get emotionally attached to someone and foster a healthy relationship with them.
This dating advice video will enable you to understand men better and know how men think so that you can easily identify the signs of emotional attraction and know if he’s emotionally attracted to you or not. As a relationship coach, I want you to be able to crack the man code and be able to know how men think so that you can know when you are emotionally attached to someone.
As a certified life coach, relationship coach, and dating coach, I want to make dating and relationships easier for you. I pray that you find this dating advice helpful and that you will receive the man who is truly best for you.
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Let it be so 🙏🏾
Will this be the same for a friend.. My "friend" does all 7 we talk for hours he text me almost every morning good morning first. I met him 16 years ago and he never changed on me. I would break cause I wanted more and he was a workaholic and I wanted more. 16 years later and he has continued to be the same listener, compassionate, understanding, thoughtful, patiently waiting man I know. In yet, I can't get him to commit. No wife and only one grown child. I'm not waiting on him but I've decided if he's not for me I'm not moving forward again unless I find someone like him.
1- He compliments the non physical. 2- You two are able to talk for hours. (His willingness to talk for hours- interact, and enjoy your non sexual company.) 3- He expresses what he thinks about you. 4- He values your opinion. 5- He ENJOYS YOUR NON SEXUAL COMPANY. (Does he act funny or doesn't want to hang out when your cycle is on..) Whats the 'quality' of that time together when it's not sexual at all. 6- They're willing to be vulnerable with you. (His dreams, his past, how he feels..) 7-He's willing to bring you into his world.
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Where is this man?
@@audreynicoletti7329 Out there somewhere.
Wow now i can marry ...with my fianceee.because of my exhusband who was toxic i am so scared..but my fiancee do all this..
Two out of three ain't bad
I have to admit I am nervous about dating! At 37 I am more focused on my relationship with GOD! I know the man GOD has for me will come unexpectedly!🙏🏽
I hope he wasn’t the one chasing me down after I got in the cab the other day. 🤣
Thank you Stephan for your knowledge and wisdom! GOD bless you!🙏🏽
Thank you for sharing and may God bless you as well!
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Awww, nice post! If that was "the one," sis, you two will cross paths again. If not, that may have been God rushing you away from him in that cab!!! 😊🙏🏽
I hear you , Im focused on me and my relationship with God.
@@shaneensmith5016 😉 He is faithful!
My new friend constantly sends bitmoji flowers 💐, virtual hugs and asks my advice and tells me how much he appreciates my honest advice. It's a pleasure to converse with him. He flirts with me and respects my boundaries. He seems afraid sometimes if he doesn't follow my advice, so I let him know our friendship isn't based on whether or not he does what I advise but rather honesty, respect and transparency. I see a friendship building that will last a lifetime!
Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback.
I so agree with the 7 pointers. I wrote them down and checked them off as you outlined them. We talk, 3hrs, 4.5 hrs..our record BEST was 5hrs and 45mins..hell the other night..he wouldn't hang up..and he fell asleep.😊 Of course I woke him up and told him that I am hanging up so he can go to sleep.
He compliments my heart, more than my beauty. He shares personal things, and he loves to ask my opinion and he uses the option often times. He's just so awesome 🥰❤🙏
Thank you for sharing.
Glad to hear that I appreciate your feedback, thank you for sharing!
@@MeetStephanSpeaks You're welcome 😊❤
You have a good way of explaining the most important topic to most of us! I wish everyone could hear what you have to say.
How in the world I ever was into a man who only could come up with compliments like: you are amazing, you are sweet, beautiful, etc. Couldn't mention anything unique about me. It was so surface level. Boring. Hey how are you? That was the only thing he could come up with. It says it all...
What if you're a mature young woman, healed from divorce, have studied and put into practice necessary changes, is willing to be vulnerable, affectionate, and communicative...like your book, How to Get Him to Cherish You...I read that and asked myself some really hard questions, faced the truth, and decided that I want to be that woman. I am her, I am a wife, I am a mother, I am a overall good woman. PROBLEM...most blk men out here in Cali are dating outside their race or aren't on my level of maturity. Now what? Trying not to be discouraged in the wait. 🙄 I am a sista that wants and respects a blk man, PERIOD!! GOD help me in the wait.
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@@MeetStephanSpeaks What are your thoughts? I'm waiting on God, but I get discouraged in the wait at times. By no means am I going to settle because I'm not desperate and I know my worth. The enemy is trying to convince me that there's nobody out there for me. I stay busy in the things of the Lord, self improvement, school, work, kids, etc.
I’m confused. Why only blk man? If you remain closed minded and racially selective, you will not only miss out on some fantastic men, but most likely remain single for the rest of your life. Two choices: either open up your mind or move to Atlanta, Cali isn’t the place for you.
@@XYZOxyz I've tried dating outside my race. It's not for me, it's not where my heart is.
Thankful🙏🏼🙌🏼
I went through ALL that(past toxic intimate encounter/soul tie) because I can look back at ALL these valuable lessons I had to understand about karmic relationships and experience first hand(lose
Trauma
Abuse
Lies
Manipulation etc...)
That's how I've transmuted it ALL(grateful for the Lessons🙏🏼)
And now my current relationship is unbelievably successful and I am in bliss with my current intimate partner.(Twinflame)
Its truly unimaginable how much I am blessed🙌🏼1111
I'm 50 and I just don't bother about a relationship any longer... "It's TOO MUCH WOOORK!" A man really needs to make up their mind at some point of age. It's ridiculous that maturity doesn't kick in along their life journey. Sad...
"You should know what you want to do, what you want in life, and how you want to be treated, and how you want to live." It's not hard...
It's really ashame that a person can't keep up with the other person who has it together with a mindset. I should be motivational to the other person while being fed alone his/her journey. Oh, that's right.... But, you have to want it!
Thank You
Well Stephan……I’m starting my journey and I have a lot of work to do. I’m already in a relationship and my man has all 7. However, I need some deep healing from my past and my walls are up. 🤦🏽♀️
Thank you, I’m woke now!
Glad to hear that, thank you for your response!
Such a great video🙌🏽👏🏽💯
I was told that I am beautiful like my mom!
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Amen. Thank you
My pleasure ❤
I need a man who I am spiritually connected to because a man who loves God will understand how to love me..
Glad to hear that, thank you for your response and I pray that you receive the man who is truly best for you the man God has for you!
This is so true. I thought it was bullshit until i tried to do it the round about way. God knows best.
I totally agree. I'm 51 Christian men that age around my area don't seem to exist.
So true hun
Yes indeed.
A man who is invested in you emotionally will see beyond the physical outlook. Your intelligence, your assertiveness, your patience, your vulnerability etc,
Thank you for sharing you're absolutely right!
When a man have a relationship with someone I know it's hard for me to get involved with this person can't get involved he is tide to her I've moved on hoping that he will to
Let's be real , without physical attraction there is no attraction.
I'm a woman and I look for physically attractive, fit, healthy eye candy.
I married 32 years ago to a man who is handsome, healthy,and smart.
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Thats a good point and valid, ABUSE IT we'll run.....
Something I noticed early on in my relationship is that voicing my insecurities about myself often didn't turn him off or push him away. He also never played them against me. He took note and would intentionally make compliments about the things I usually complain about. And even though he is happy with my body he helps me get it to where I am happy with it. That's deep love and acceptance. I was truly blessed with a great husband!
Wow...really hope i get that one day!
Beautiful. And when he does all of this for you I can bet you feel as if you are walking on air. Blessings to you both.
My prayer is to have that type relationship.
You were? Are you still with him then ?
OMG! Attention DOES NOT equal respect or value or seriousness. You definitely hit the nail on the head.
This is so true. I met a man one time who just kept wanting to see me and always calling, anytime he came around, he always wanted to have sex. Anytime I tried to have particular talks with him, he said he wasn’t ready to have them in between all this he was still talking marriage (and you don’t want to know me? Wow) 2 months later I broke off the relationship cuz it felt choking!
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I agree. And yes. It's nice for a man to compliment a ladies appearance. But... I had rather him also compliment my. Heart.. my mind. My soul. All which makes up the entire person..I also believe. Most.. men. Want the same treatment. They need respect also.. and good communication is the key to the success of a great team./ friendship/ love..A couple that works together and respects each other. Can become the best... Long ....lasting relationships...and. Stephan is right. If you cant talk. W. Each other. How are you going to get along if you get married one day.? It's best to know each other's needs and flaws. N. The good bad n ugly.. but look past the bad times and know that the good stuff is going to outweigh the bad.
That’s why I state I’m celibate in the beginning.
I really like how thorough and gently you explain things in detail. Leaving hardly any room unessential questions. Still being authentic. This is sound advice brother. Keep it up ✊
Glad you enjoyed it thank you for your feedback and be sure to share so that others can receive love and healing!
Speaking in a way woman can receive it.
I like your ideas
My 20 year old son said the same thing after over hearing me listen to Stephan.😇
Because you know us women have a lot of questions lol
STEPH YOU SEEM LIKE U GOT A GOOD HEART....WHOMEVER RAISED YOU DID A GREAT JOB......WE SUPPORT YOU 100%.....
Thank you very much I'm happy to hear that 🙌
Thank you very much I'm happy to hear that 🙌
@@MeetStephanSpeaks STEPHAN THANK YOU...
Agree 💯 🙏🏽
💯God keep him. I pray the best for him and all like him.😇
I swear. Dating has been a struggle. The society has failed us. Lack of maturity.
I agree
Agree too
Absolutely. Both men and women
lack of real men i agree
I agree with you 100 %
Sometimes , I wonder if its just better to be Single with out the Headaches and Stress.
I hate it when a man says I’m sexy because I feel they’re not “seeing “ who I really am. Saying that immediately puts me on alert
Me too
What do you reply when they say that? I never know how to respond.
My partner has NEVER used the word sexy ... always beautiful but never that. I hadn't thought about this before. But he's the best thing.
@@waitwhat6882 say thanks n keep it moving. You can cut them off to teach them to stay away from that bs like
Say I know
Or there's more to me than that
@@waitwhat6882 just say "thank you"
You just made my day. I've been single for over 13yrs and I've met a man and feel in love with him so very quickly. He gives me all 7. Thk you! WE ARE IN LOVE! ❤
Congrats sis!!!
That's Beautiful.🤍
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Awwww bless you both🙏💕
Amen! Congratulations.
Text messages have become the primary reason for some relationships have failed
I love texting...but my boyfriend hates texting...so I guess that's a good thing
This is so true.. I use to love texting over talking now I hate it. I’m talking to this guy & all he wants to do is text I’m literally losing interest
i hate when this happens
He pulled away when I wuestion him but I can feel he is really into me.
@@estherboothe6371 How does a man pulling away = a display of interest? 🤔
I love just letting my man hold me and listen to him reminisce on his youth in Senegal, his job, how he feels, etc because he gets lost in it and it’s beautiful. He opens up so much more than he ever does elsewhere lol we hate to hang up and hate to leave one another. It’s definitely more spiritual than physical but that makes the physical more satisfying too. 🤗
Thank you for sharing. I appreciate that!
1.Non physical compliments... yep he always tells me he loves how much faith i have in a god wants him to become better.
2. Talk for hours..yep we do for hours with non sexual conversation and has said he loves the flow of our conversation.!!100% accurate
3. Express they were thinking about me . hmm doesnt do that often infact rarely
4. He values your opinion.. yeah he does value it and wants to know what i think.
5.enjoys non sexual company..yes he always does. He calls me during the day too from work.
6. Willing to be venerable. He talks about his past/ and future with me.
7.emotional investment. Talks about introducing me to fam and friends.
Great advice for sure, thank you
Glad you enjoyed it, thank you for your feedback ❤
How’s the relationship now ?
I have to admit, these were some real good gems of advice. And you're not talking AT women...you are talking TO us. What a difference. Thank you. 🙏🏾
Glad it was helpful thank you for your feedback and be sure to share so that others can receive love and healing!
Absolutely. I'm blown away right now though...the 24:38 mark....you are talking to me like you've been reading my diary lol
@@MeetStephanSpeaks hey! A sista needs help lol please!!
@@latricemarie6188 😂😂😂
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When you both are so in tune with each other, like you can feel what each other are thinking and like you know what the other one is going to say even before they say it. It’s that spiritual connection that is a clear indicator that you both are emotionally attracted to each other.
You are absolutely right, thank you for sharing!
That's how my husband and I were long ago before all the cheating and things. Honestly, I should have been listening to these things from the beginning instead of choosing to ignore a lot of issues from the start. I wanted to show him there are good , willing to be better and grow women out there. But eventually I had to admit while I'm giving 100, he's giving 40 and at some point, can no longer use a BAD PAST MARRIAGE as a crutch. When you want better and want to be BETTER you do WHATEVER it takes to grow in many aspects
I’m sorry to hear that. Yes you’re absolutely right both parties should be putting in 100% to nurture the marriage ❤️
@@annekajordan6952 oh no need to be sorry. When I finally had made up my mind that a divorce needed to be done, it has felt like such a freeing experience. you have no idea. It took so much from me for a very long time and if I'm being honest I finally had to get to a place where I admitted and accepted that I had become that woman that I told myself I would never be in regards to taking certain things from a man. And I've been on this journey of getting myself back because I had allowed a lot to be taken from me mentally emotionally spiritually and in some ways physically as well. I didn't want to admit that I was dealing with someone that had narcissistic characteristics and was very manipulative but looking back on so much I was sad to have to accept that that's what it was. It was a huge learning experience and though there were a lot of things that were not great there were so many blessings that had come out of the situation including growth for me. There were issues that I had that I didn't see were a problem my relationship with my oldest daughter have gotten so much better my relationship with my mom had gotten better I learned how to put my foot down in certain regards and my 1 year old pumpkin. He was not a bad person just not the man for me and has a lot more growing to do, has a very screwed perception of the things that are and are not okay in a relationship worst yet a marriage, and hopefully can get to a place of allowing God to do what he needs to do so that way he can mature into a better person and heal from a lot of wounds from his past/present. If someone gets to a place where they refuse to get help then at that point there's really nothing that you can do they have to get to that place on their own and maybe God used you as a stepping stone or you know to assist that person in some ways but it may not have been meant for them to be in your life for a whole lifetime and that's okay. We are just supposed to plant seeds and let God do the rest.
@Neia Love Yes your right, people need to take that initiative for themselves to get the healing that they need and I am glad you are now on that journey of healing and like you said you have taken valuable lessons from the situation and have grown from it. May God continue to bless you and your lovely children 🙏❤️
No. 1) He laughs with YOU! NOT at YOU!
No. 2) He likes working with YOU!
No. 3) He's NOT afraid to share his feelings with YOU!
No.4) He likes the same music as YOU!
No. 5) He wants to spend more time with YOU! Lunch, etc.
No. 6) The conversation NEVER ends!
No. 7) YOU make him laugh and SMILE, most days! lol 😎
Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback.
He has all of this on me
Great topic!! I appreciate it🙏
Thanks 😊
I was looking for this comment, thanks!
I'm not willing to open up cuz I meet master manipulators.. So now.. I don't even want it no more
I'm sorry to hear about that and I pray that you heal all that you have been through! 🙏
Date a different type of guy. We as women pick the same type of guy
I feel that I’m in the same situation!!
You never talk about these out of state relationship it's alot of those going on out of state you have to be mature and trust in your Man or woman it's alot going on with these out of the state
1. He compliments your non physical attributes. 2:00
2. You guys are able to talk hours. 4:35
3. They expressed they've been thinking about you. 8:50
4. He values your opinion. 13:15
5. He enjoys your non sexual company. 17:21
6. They're willing to be vulnerable with you. 22:15
7. He's willing to bring you into his world. 25:09
Thank you for your support.
Stephen, you are the best
Thank you ❤
NOTHING IS GUARANTEED now a days so just take things day by day. TIME Heals and Reveals. 🙂
Thank you for sharing your thoughts I appreciate your feedback!
Big Fact.
I love this 💕. I literally just stopped seeing a guy because we both were too interested in sex but I didn’t see any potential of us connecting on a deeper level.
You did the right thing. Thank you for sharing I appreciate your feedback!
Just did same thing
I think i gotta do the same thing....:/
I have to do the same thing....
Same here. Had to let him go !!!
I’ve been seeing a man for a few months and he hits all 7. First time in years that I’ve felt 100% confident in my role in his life. He is absolutely amazing.
we want updates please! :) x
Me too! Married 25 years to the wrong man, divorced for 6 years, and presently in a 7- month so far relationship with a wonderful man!! We just click on so many levels. At 65 I never thought I would find love like this. I wish you happiness, too! 😀
You hit things on the nail on EVERYTHING. I have internalized some things...and wanted to always have those 3-6 hour phone conversations. We had non-physical for 4 -5 months...relationship lasted 2 years... not together now..but he called recently to get my opinion and convo lasted 3 hours. Ladies there are some good dudes still out there. Stay valuable
@Mwb B externally sad. Why you are separated then, after you had a long conversation through phone?
GOD BLESS YOU!
I’m young and not really ready to date yet but your advice will really help me in the future. 🙂
Thank you very much I'm happy to hear that 🙌
Thats a great thing get this knowledge early.
Yes, this is definitely good advice
Really?
@@dandymiky9577 ?
Excellent video. I am being courted as we speak and this speaks volumes. He is definitely mentally focused. Day one he made it known that he is dating with a purpose and that God is head everything. We video chat for hours and crack up like besties it's so natural. Thank you for all you do because we appreciate your sharing your gifts with the world.
Glad to hear that, thank you for your response and be sure to share so that others can receive love and healing!
@@MeetStephanSpeaks I always share your content fam. God bless you brotha
But don't be shocked when he ghost you or break up with you, secondly it's the mature of men to break up with you, in order to see if they can leave without you!
*One of the most important signs of emotional attraction is when he prioritizes quality time with you. If he consistently chooses to spend time with you, engages in meaningful conversations, and creates shared experiences, it shows that he values your presence and cherishes the connection you share.*
There is this player who tells me he loves me but he never compliment me ever not even once , he doesn't read my text messages , how I know is that when he then needs to speak to me in order to ask me to meet him at some restaurant I will then ask him about what I wrote in my message and he has no clue 🤣🤣😅😅 then a day came i told him how do you say to love a woman that you never compliment even once , we never have a proper conversation , he said oh well you already know you are beautiful so I dont need to tell you that hahaha 🤣🤣🤣🤣 I have deleted his number he can't contact me and thank goodness I never even kissed him not even once let alone having a bedroom meering with him . He's a joke 🤣
I agree with everything you said.I married my best friend my real best friend, we know everything about each other,the good and bad. We communicate always, we compliment each other, respect came first through. We are celebrating our 11th year anniversary of marriage and prior to marriage we were best friends for over 10years. I never pressured him to marry me and never seen it coming,but greatful and honored that he did. He is my king my air and I am his queen and he treats me as a queen. Oh one more thing, we don't argue, we talk, we don't use foul language towards each other ever. Respect key factor in relationships 👌
Thank you for sharing, I appreciate that!
You have been blessed by God with so much wisdom at a young age
Thank you very much I'm happy to hear that 🙌
I’m only here to learn. Thank you
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My bf and I have upto 8 hour conversations at times .. we always have so much to talk about he's always complimented my personality and says I'm on his mind 24/7... We've gone through some really tough times together but weve always worked it out because we're so emotionally invested
Listening to this and I’m doing a mental check with the guy I’m dating and he’s a 7/7. Only physical intimacy we’ve done so far is holding hands and cuddling. But we can talk on the phone for hours, he compliments me on my character, we are in agreement on spiritual matters, and he’s told his mom about me.
Glad to hear that, thank you for your feedback!
Wow! Marriage material
@@manastalksessions ❤
I couldn't agree more. To have a man that is willing to talk & listen for hours, Then willing to give authentic feedback seems like a dream. That's a man of value that deserves Respect. You got me I def got you through thick & thin, Simple!
Mine does this and he easily takes the word 'listen' to brand new heights. Thank You Jesus for my best friend.
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Thank you for sharing. I appreciate that!
So true. I’m so thankful for mine
Your name is beautiful & so are you.
@@t.y.6640 Why Thank you! 😊
Cancel dates on your cycle...lololl Yes red flag!!!!!lol
Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback.
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Well periods don't stop anything around herw
I love these examples. My new man does all this and more. We both were looking for people who we could have great conversations with. We compliment each other in non sexual ways. I get little notes in my lunch bag and I also do the same( his shirt pocket etc). He said I love the different ways you style your hair (he admired the styles he saw on FB). We also love God and believe our relationship was brought together by him. Thanks for the information.
That's wonderful. I'm curious, what do women who are in good relationships come here for? I know I come to these types of videos for advice, empowerment and some insight into why men behave the way they do. When things are going well I wouldn't usually need to look for these videos bc ....THINGS ARE GOING WELL lol. I usually come here for encouragement and a sense of comradarie amongst other women who are experiencing the same thing. If your relationship is going well and your man is doing all the right things, what brings you to these videos? You can obviously do whatever you want to do but I'm always curious.
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@@gabrielle-d1b I came across Stephan Speaks when I was single. I wanted to hear what he had to say. Eventhough my relationship is going great I listen to pass the advice or share the video with other Women.
@@gabrielle-d1b too much to learn to just stop trying to learn... how do you know what you have if you don’t research what’s out here, what’s happening in today’s world in relationships
I just met a man. We’ve been on a couple dates but We only talk through text messages. Barely any phone conversations. When we do talk it’s short.
You are awesome!
I am a single 58 year old professional woman dating for the 1st time in a very, very long time.
Thank you Stephan....I needed this more than you know! 🙏❤
i am married but separated for 4 yrs .my husband has cheated on me .i find it very hard to move on please give me yr advice D.R thank u
Start by forgiving yourself.
Forgiving yourself for staying in the marriage longer than you should and understanding why you did. Love on yourself. You are out of this unhealthy situation and need to stay out. Forgiveness and understanding should fuel you to move on ❤🙏
Likewise I am almost 50 and had given up but have someone showing me all 7 qualities mentioned here so I am feeling encouraged
Hi Susanne. Thanks for sharing. I too am 58 and have not dated for over ten years. Sometimes I feel as if I would open my mind to the thought another time I am petrified. I often wonder if there are any eligible man who loves the Lord and is willing to allow God to teach him how to love me. Sigh...
Yo, some men aren't even CAPABLE of Communicating their emotions beyond physical attraction...lol.
And I have discovered that some people will never have the wisdom or maturity they need to develop a healthy relationship of any kind. This one guy that I used to be involved with when I was in my toxic stage of life. Broke it off with me back then, because in all honesty. He wasn't looking for anything serious. He just wanted someone that he can use. He keep trying to pop back up in my life, acting as if he want something serious. But I'm over him. Some people simply don't have the maturity and wisdom they need to develop a healthy relationship of any kind.
Good job ridding of him. It’s not easy. If this guy ever marries, he will behave in the same manner. How they treat you dating is what the future holds. All the best to you.
You are so right! I definitely agree
What if the guy is just a people’s person and can spark/carry on a conversation with literally everyone? How can you tell the difference?
You mean he also just talks with you like the rest?! Then maybe he's just friendly lol ... doesn't mean he wants you as a gf if he's talking to every other woman as well and if he hasn't asked you on a one on one
Do you feel that he can be emotionally attracted living in a different state we face time all the time stay on the phone for hours we only been together twice been talking for 3 yrs
The guy I’ve been talking to completely changed after I told him I was falling for him. We haven’t been intimate since and I’ve heard every excuse in the book. I need to pull away because I clearly got my answer
Thank you for sharing. This video will also help you answer some of the questions that you might still have Why He Loses Interest...When You Show Yours check it out here 👉 ruclips.net/video/YWvNpbhMQXc/видео.html 👈
@@MeetStephanSpeaks thank you for this! I find a lot of your videos really helpful.
I wouldn’t tell a man you’re falling for him unless he had told you that first.
@@gabrielamartinyuk9894 ok
@@gabrielamartinyuk9894 yes and if he only wants casual sex and nothing serious he will give you hints.
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Beautiful said 💗
Great words of wisdom!
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What do you call it when you can talk for hours and can enjoy each other’s company, yet he’s still not ready for anything serious. I feel like men are more confusing. It’s like they want to benefit from so many things that seem consistent in someone who wants a relationship without actually committing to a relationship.
I feel you it, definitely isn't an easy situation but we need to focus on doing what is truly best!
You worded it perfectly! I just experienced this with a guy and ended up hurt this exact way. It’s very confusing.
Unfortunately, sometimes we're used for place holders
@Melissa Hayes yes I agree!!! I dated someone like this for 7 - 8 months recently and i liked him but decided to reduce contact with him due to him not wanting to move to next level of one on one!!!
I think he had other options, Or was intended for a relationship just the "🍪 IN COOKIE JAR"..😉😁
I am literally a minute in and this is soooo good! Thank you Jesus for your heart and insight and relationship with God to do this! Women really need this especially when they didn't learn about this or boundaries growing up. My daddy- I know If he knew to teach me this he would have. But, now i am redefining certain boundaries to really make a wise decision as woman how to find a good man and discern his intentions. This is good. I have been praying for a resource like this.
The thing also is sometimes us women can do crap to ourselves by holding back not speaking up our own needs and letting man have sex with us when we are not even sure ourselves if he's right for us! We need to start setting standards and not being afraid to walk away not matter how much you like/love someone....love yourself more!
This is the best advice.
He just might be on to something here 🧐💁🏽♀️👏🏽
Ha, I’ve given up! I’m getting too old to be playing these games and most men are only interested in physical situationships.
I just like watching your videos cause you’re soo fine 🤩
Me too lol!🤣🤣
Dang! Thought there wasn't a line🤣 I see now there is one🤣🤣
Same here...
Thing is, most the guys my ages (50 +) have decided they are flying solo, and they won't tell you. So really hoping for a meaningful relationship with someone 50+ is like chasing wind. And for me dating a younger man is a No No.
@@Makgosi-gadi You got that right! That’s why I really don’t pay attention to these videos that tell you to do this or that to attract a man. If it happens it happens.. I really don’t stress about it any longer.
I had a guy who showed me all 7 signs and he is extremely emotionally unavailable. 5 years later, on/off, and he still doesn’t see me as a romantic partner. I moved on from him 2 years ago, cause I ain’t got time for that🤷🏼♀️🤷🏼♀️
Maybe he just likes you as a friend and enjoys your company as a friend
@@bslorbust That’s exactly it:)
This is so sad because I can honestly say I think I have experience this. And it's weird. But letting go is the best thing because you'll waist time investing in a Dream Man. Meaning he is a great friend but will never make you The One. His lost 🙄. But it's complicated I know. Stay true to yourself no matter what. I'm in it now. About to let goooooo. 💪🙏🏽💪🙏🏽💪🙏🏽
Current situation and year 5
Too old for this
@@denisewilson3967 I am over it, over him! I don’t see him as a romantic partner anymore! Moving forward! Good luck to you🙏🏻
As of recently, I’m out of 38 yr marriage with what some call a “high value” man. He and I, we made 3 beautiful children. The more I hear from Steph, the more I understand why, despite love, we had unhealthy attachment issues. I started to heal my pain, and I became courageous enough to end it, despite my husband’s desire to remain in our dysfunctional marriage
I'm sorry to hear about that and I pray that you heal from all that you have been through 🙏
Iam going through this now. Been in this unhealthy relationship for 21 years. Finally coming to an end. Very happy 😊.
Your videos have helped me a lot. THANK YOU SO MUCH.
Glad to hear that thank you for your feedback and be sure to share so that others can receive love and healing!
When a guy starts to text me too death I just stop answering and go ghost. Sorry sir I will not be your text buddy
Lol! Ima about to ghost somebody soon. 🤣🤣🤣
Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback.
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He cannot know your desire unless you communicate it.
Omgggg some just want to be a PEN PAL TEXTING. 🤣🤣🤣🤣 It drives me crazy 🤪. But I bring it up Quick and call him out on it in a Loving ❤way. Nip it in the butt Queens . The SOONER you take care of the Red Flags the better it is to NOT WASTE so much time.
I’m here to learn new tips, so that I can apply them to my next relationship. You have taught me a whole lot, and I’m very grateful for your knowledge and insight.
Glad to hear that, thank you for your response!
Wow, I used to think that my man never wanted me cuz he doesn't make sexual advances towrds me, but now I understand he just is just as happy being with me and just chill. It brought us much closer and able to overcome our differences. Thank you for that clarity. I appreciate you very much.
Hello mr (sambaba) he's the best when you came to recovery relationship. He was one that helped me.
Amen. I know when it's the right man because God has already told me. And everytime l am around him l get so weak. And l love to be around him. And he showed me he would make me first in his life. I never had anyone treat me like that. I was always the one showing the love because l wanted a father figure. But now l want my soul mate and l found him. And l will love him forever. ❤
Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback.
"If you can quantify who loves who more, you're in the wrong relationship" 💯
Super Amen!
Most definitely!
Amen to that.
I believe this 23 years n we still say love u more no love you more / Don’t get me wrong I’ve had a lot of hard times it’s pretty late right now but I just wanted to say something you’re exactly right
Agreed!
“Stop taking the minority and projecting it on the majority” 🙌🏼🔥 okaaayyyy!!
THE FEW PEOPLE WHO GAVE THIS A THUMBS DOWN ARE EMOTIONALLY UNATTRACTIVE....
😂😂😂
Thank you for these videos and explaining men. I grew up without a man in the house and never could figure men out...Wow!
The day I was flipping ribs with my fingers and he came over for the first time... And jumped on and helped. We laughed and had the best time ever which never stopped.
The part about the woman giving her opinion or advice and him not using it or Doing what she advised..And her taking it personally! Her is me!🙍🏾♀️🙎🏾♀️🙋🏾♀️🙋🏾♀️Definitely hit home for me. I think I can say with confidence..That I'm conscious of this now and I try my hardest to check myself. And to keep from internalizing it and taking it soooo personal. Thanks Stephan for always helping us to be more aware of these things that we can improve within ourselves to help us have healthy and long lasting relationships. 💞🙏🏾💞
It's my pleasure, thank you very much I'm happy to hear that 🙌
I have all three The Man God Has For You, Love After Heartbreak and the Journal Love After Heartbreak. I enjoyed them all but I haven’t finished working in my journal. It requires a lot of soul searching that I’m not sure of but I will finish it before I get into a relationship. I’ve been Abstinence for two years now, healing and growing my faith with God. You have been a great inspiration so thank you.
My pleasure ❤
Finally someone giving quality dating advice. And not just, text this, say this, wear this, do that.
❤ 🙂 Thank you!
@@MeetStephanSpeaks Love your wholystic knowledge and how you deliver your content!
The vulnerability is the strongest point here. Open yourself up so you can weed out people that aren't sincere
Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback.
Great video 🔥🔥🔥 I love the advice you gave of how terrible it is to think find a man who loves you more than you love him
It definitely isn't an easy situation but we need to focus on doing what is truly best!
7 for 7 with my best friend! I know he loves me. I love him too and our friendship is so amazing!! Thank you for this video! I have no doubts now.
Glad I could help!
You cannot heal what you’re not prepared to feel.
Can you elaborate on that please what does that mean exacly
It’s hard to focus on what he’s saying when u staring at his flawless hair and guns. 😳
Lawd give us strength 🙌🏾😂😂😂😱👀
Right😄.... If only more men had the insight that he has! Super attractive 😉
Completely agree, I opened up to a guy that was pursuing me and he quickly ran away, and although it hurt, it saved me so much time 😅 I don't have to worry about being lead on.
I was suprise of the lenght 32min when I click, now Ive to watch till the end, what a trap 😂
🙂 thank you for watching
It was edifying, thanks for me I ve missed my Boaz, I realise it now, but I m working on my healing thank your two books, man god has for you and love after heartbreak ( p.100 now), the list a kinda hard...
This is very true. My boyfriend don't verbally compliment, but he just looks at me in awh most times. We stayed on the phone for 7 hours our first time talking. Since then we still can talk on the phone 2 to 3 hours at a time. We both have busy lives, but we make time for each other. Monday was my birthday and I just had surgery, but he made it his mission to do something for my birthday. Of course sexual was off the table, but it left plenty of room for plain intimacy. So everything you are saying is right.
Thank you for sharing. I appreciate that!
7 hours... That’s a Big Red Flag,
@@stormstargazer3056 um how?
@@MeetStephanSpeaks can you weigh in on the comment below
@@thespillwithcristyt come on ! That is ridiculous behavior
Leave the sex off of the table initially, and you'll see how he truly feels about you. A man can get sex from anyone at any time (as told to me by my friend, who's very male) Lol
Thank you, Stephan, for your insights on various aspects of relationships. I must get your book 'The Man God has for You' soon. One love! 🌞🙏🏽
Defo get this back ASAP. It's a quick, informative, fun read
I love that... using your vulnerability as a tool to uncover who the man/ woman really is. That works for both sexes.
Absolutely!
I know. That is a good one. I never thought about it like that.
In the Gym getting all this Knowledge...Nice workout "Motivation"👌💯
Thank you very much I'm happy to hear that 🙌
This man's mojo gives me light definitely and his laughs are the best everytime 🖤 keep shining and sharing , it's really helpful and powerful content 🌟 we need to hear those words from someone (specially a dude) more than once
Thank you very much, I appreciate that!
I bought your book years ago. I was going through a separation then divorced. I was angry I didn't want to hear anything about man. Well here I am listening to you, and now I am ready to read this book.
You got this, I pray you heal all that you have been through!
@@MeetStephanSpeaks thanks so much
My dead on georgous co-worker shows all this signs.. but he is married. I keep it respectfull and friendly because he is a married man and a co-worker, and I do like him as a friend but I am noo homewrecker.
Hi Stephan! I really enjoy your videos I’ve learned so much from you!❤️ I’ve been talking to this guy for 5-6 month long distance so I was wondering if you could make a long distance advice video of the “dos and don’t” for a better relationship.
THANKYOU❤️
Great suggestion, I will add it to my list to get it done!
Every point you put in here is absolutel what I'm going through now... My friend introduced this guy to me! Only for few days we got eachother contact... He meationed all the points you gave...
Thank you for sharing. I appreciate that!
Maybe he is listening to what we are listening to
Yes im going through but im not gonna through i feel Stephan all the way around he's the truth tell him babies i feel ya i love watching him his handsome self and i came in on the right topic
Great points Stephan! He complements your non-physical attributes and is willing to spend time with you when it is not sexual. If you're on your cycle does he not want to hang out? "We're not going get down anyway, so I don't want to be around you!" Hilarious! 😂😂😂What's the quality of the hang out when sex is not involved? If you don't have that emotional and that spiritual, you are bound for failure. Amen! Thank you as always for equipping us women! 🙏💙🙏💙🙏💙
Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback.
That part
Amen
"It doesn't work against you if he's the right guy"
Wow. Sometimes you just need a guy to say this out loud in a RUclips video for it to sink in. Thanks Stefan for all the -tea- content!
My pleasure ❤
This video makes me sad because I knew a guy that had no prob conversation till the sun came up and cried at times ,,,he had a girlfriend 😭😭
I'm sorry to hear about that and I pray that you heal all that you have been through! 🙏
@@MeetStephanSpeaks thank you. My cutoff game is strong but it does still hurt. I'm working on it.
Same sister same🙄🙄🙄
Married!!
I’ve noticed that I attract emotionally stunted men. I can now recognize it in them, but I would prefer to not even draw them to me.
Hopefully it will happen less and less as you begin to attract the right men. I wish you the best! 🙏🙏🙏
Might need a change of scenery from where you are meeting these men.
@@misselle1430 I'm not meeting them at any specific place.
Stephan’s advice can actually be applied to a lot of life things ❤
Amazing and spot on! God has truly gifted you with the ability to educate His people on relationships. I’m blown away by the amount of wisdom, knowledge, and insight I’ve gained from this video. Thank you!🙏🏾
I'm happy this has been helpful to you, don't forget to share so that others can receive love and healing ❤ 🙏
God help me I am not trying to be negative here but lately guys have been taking these good tips and using them for nefarious purposes. I think we talk too much these days. Idk...but there are too many wolves in sheep clothing.
Yes, it definitely isn't an easy situation.
Dropping gems on this Stephan! Thank you for taking the time to explain things in such a way that is relatable to many current situations ppl are going thru. You are very appreciated. This hits home. Ready for a part 2.🤗💯
Glad you enjoyed it! Thank yo fro sharing!
Operative word ... all other things 'consistent'!
Consistency is definitely key!
@@MeetStephanSpeaks I observe the 'consistent' off and on of all of the positives, which is weird. #smh
Thank you so much Stephan. I'd like to introduce my man to my brother but it only went as far as my mom because my brother is hateful, judgemental, and rude about so many things in respect to me. I just can't. But he has introduced me to the important people in his life so I have exhaled, and man it felt SO good. He's serious. I've waited so long. We were friends in high school and jealous individuals turned on us both. Then in December he called me and it had been a very long time. The thing is he hasn't stopped calling, he hasn't stopped caring, and he hasn't stopped moving at the right forward pace. I'm free to fall in love with him. Thank you again. I know he did the work but I'm thankful for confirmation. Peace and love big brother! You're a gift! 💕
Thank you for sharing. I appreciate that!
This is all commonsense. When looking for a man, look for someone that actually likes you. You, you. Not your parts. Someone that makes you feel as happy as you do with your girlfriends.
Women aren't dumb. Why do you all keep listening to male gurus??? Smh ill never understand.
ONLY a man can explain how men thinks. Women may explain how men thinks based off of experience.
Men and women are different. Men think and process things differently than women do especially in a relationship.