You were right.... had been in relationships that led me to abandon self care. Was Obese and now I am in the gym every day. Lost 32 lbs and loving my life! Now just overweight but the goals are in place to be my best. Great info!
As a woman I to have done this. It’s all about boundaries and balance. If a woman you are seeing only is available when you are not well then that might be a red flag. This is why men shouldn’t always be so nice and pay for everything.
Same here man.. i was betatized through a thosand concessions (more like a million) i constanly felt sick and had no energy. I was playing video games more than everything. I didnt feel like ever doing everything and gained 125 pounds. It came to a point where i was closer to 400 pnds than 300 and that scared me so i bought myself a gym membership and put in the work. I can tell you i started feelimg better and stopped being a doormat. Broke it off before covid than Got back together to kind of prove to myself I made the right decision and sure enough less than a year later got rid of her I am down 125 poundsAnd in the best shape of my life And now it's weird getting much a stares from the opposite sex (im 6'3 250)
I see these guys at parties all the time-- they'll introduce their wives as "the best thing that ever happened to me, I don't know why she'd ever settle for someone like me!" All the while the wife has this embarrassed, sheepish grin as her husband basically announces to the room that she married an idiot.
😄 exactly, so crystal clear now when that happens… the ‘my bucket is full’ beta. Who talks like that. I just look at her, smirk, and grab a refill. She knows.
This is very true . Been single and successful since 23 . Now I am 43 years old and dated many women. I was the beta in 1 relationship, I was played the whole time .
@@catherinek3409 I think the one who is afraid of women; is the one who feels unappreciated and under value but says yes dear and gets married any way... If he sees the red flag and walks then he is definitely not scared. if it's all green flags then great but until that day I'd advocate dont ignore red flags just for the sake of getting married. .43 for a man is actually just fine.
That's a great first step. Next identify areas in your life where you want to improve and put in the work. Every day, no excuses, drop your bad habits and beta friends cold turkey.
My housemate is exactly like this and he has the fucking nerve to call me an incel, he dates 4/10s off tinder, immediately falls in love then goes on a massive cocaine/booze binge when it doesnt work out its pathetic, he literally cannot fathom why I only focus on work and myself and not pointless relationships.
@@pickupartistacademy217 very true, Twitter and tik Tok are “exposing” the Red Pill, but let’s be real, simply “Knowing” it’s coming doesn’t mean they can stop it. As long as men are being authentic, they will still submit
@@rejectwokeness1314 I agree. Some boys raised by fathers who are slaves to their wives will put future women in the same light as to how their father displayed affection.
Got my driver's license, got myself a house with a good mortgage. Stable job as a cook making good money. She said i still have to proof myself 😂 this is gonna be my 4th gf in 2 years. Im done no cap
It's amazing how plugged in I once was. I thought if I married a train wreck solo mom that I could save her with being a simp. Didn't go to well for me. Bummer that I found your channel before I meet her. Would hsve saved me hundreds of thousands.
I’m a beta male. Your points are all valid apart from the one on being physically out of shape. Lots of alphas are out of shape and lots of Betas live in the gym
Can’t thank you enough for your groundbreaking content Rich.Everything here is 100% bang on.Also have your book.Truly life changing.Many many thanks from Australia 🙏
I kind of see I have a few beta issues to resolve... I wouldn't call myself beta by any means, but I have an area to improve. Great videos, keep opening the eyes of men 🤘🏻
Same here. The part about allowing toxic chicks into my life is one I’m still working on. Why do I do this? I’m always saying “never again,” yet here I go again…
Hey Rich, In regards to pyiscally out if shape, did you ever hear Jordon Peterson mention about a photo of the guys in line to sign up to go to Vietnam all of them with their shirts off ready to get their medical. every one had a great body and were all lean, he then asked what would that photo look like today.
I felt that part about the photo thing and it not being reciprocated, she didn't post pics of herself with her goods hanging out but def didn't post me on her pages but would constantly hassle me about "you don't ever post me,are you ashamed of me?" But I had plenty of pics of her on my page and u go to hers and see one or 2 of me and her. When Rich was talking about that it was like he was talking about me hahaha, looking back at it I get angry at myself for being so blind and putting up with so much BS and never getting what I should have been for as much as I was doing for her. Man was a beta simp ass fool, def working on myself and never gonna settle for that kind of treatment again. Thanks for all u do Rich, you've helped me tremendously and opened my eyes to a whole new world.
First of all, love is ALWAYS CONDITIONAL! A rich woman will never fall in love with a homeless man. If you married a super model, would you still love her if she put on 100 pounds. I don't think I would. I don't know if love really exits. But, my lust for young gorgeous woman is real. But it's just LUST! Most beta men want a woman to make them feel significant. Hense the phrase "TROPHY WIFE".
Yup I live in California and I see so many young guys and men becoming more feminine. Im like bros go work out and build more Testosterone, stop listening to MSM, and stop playing the victim. Start taking control of your life and not having someone control how you live and think. Today we no longer have that freedom and liberty that we once had. Even in this way of being an unplugged Male and saying no to this feminism and MSM I say this and I stand for this. "Give me liberty or give me death" - Patrick Henry
The last point on leadership, it is more how you lead. I work in the consulting industry and you get two clear types of leadership, one who was a "yes man" and climbed the ranks because he would do everything and anything to appease people above him. The other kind of leadership is the dominant type, the see a problem they call it out, they dont pull rank and they dont care about rank, they are results driven and can take control of a situation. the latter isnt a beta.
I'm happy to announce that I don't have any of those above traits anymore. I was once blue pilled AF, had a beta mindset but can honestly say I've never been a simp. Rich's book put a lot of things into perspective.
I Don't show any of those signs but do not think of myself as an alpha male I just do wot I want wen I want and nothing or anybody will get in my way. 😀👍🏿
I shop at a dude's franchise and it opened my eyes on how his wife was treating him. He didn't tell me his life story, but it was just something mentioned in passing. Basically he had a chore list that the wife provided before he could get any action.
I wonder if I am plugged in. If Women were on a pedestal with me. I would have a lot more grief in my life. I am single/childless/never married. I can do what I want. When I want. If a woman is in my life romantically. It's on my terms.
If I was a Beta. I would go along with all my ex's whimes. Like have a kid out of wedlock or put up with mini tantrums. I am more Mr. Fade out. No Drama for the most part.
God i was like that in some point . Took the redpill while ago although i feel it is too late but fk it . I do it for myself . Guys being aggressive in some point instead being nice will be so rewarding for you
If someone calls you an a-hole, then unless they are a genuine certified a-hole or she's being overly emotional in the moment about something, then you've likely done something wrong. People are naturally selfish so no one should assume that if someone is calling them an a-hole that they're doing something right. Strong, unselfish, unafraid people don't get called a-holes
A real alpha isn't an asshole, because that is NOT a prerequisite. Priding yourself on being an asshole, or thinking you have to be an asshole to be an alpha, is a belief born of insecurity. I'm kind to others, because I'm kind to myself first. I know my value and I have boundaries, therefore I don't need to get off on mistreating anyone. When somebody doesn't serve a role in my life, they're gone. I walk away. Being a dick and trying to force control of every situation is the perfect example of not being in control. Live in confidence and certainty and you won't need to be a dick.
@@charliepayne9378 coping with what? I do what I want to do, when I want to do it. I'm jacked, I play in bands, I have tons of hobbies and I lead in my life, completely and totally. And if someone isn't on board with it, I purge them from my life. There isn't time for being an asshole. I don't need to be arrogant. I know what I am and who I am, and because of that, others know it too. I don't need to simp to anyone, because they're nice to me and treat me like I deserve to be treated. I, in turn, reciprocate/mirror the behavior. And if they aren't, they're gone. I'm out. Being an asshole to feel alpha as phony as Will Smith's beta tantrum. If you're secure and a true alpha, you don't need to be a dick. That comes with emotional maturity, which is also an alpha attribute. If you think being an asshole is a prerequisite, then you haven't reached alpha yet. And, one final note.. if a woman calls me an asshole, she's gone. Name calling is disrespectful and I don't stand for it. But I also don't engage in it myself. If your fights with women include hurling insults back and forth, your emotional maturity needs work.
I have got a big ego and love being competitive and must win so I've never felt properly beta but know I had some traits. I'm pleased that most of these are not me. Pedestalling has been my biggest problem but this I'm working on now. That said, I've always been sickened when I've seen friends post lots of lovey dovey pictures and then the girl posts nothing. I can't believe how my friends don't spot this or pick this up. I did raise it once and a friend said I was bitter. lol I'm not but just think it looks a bit humiliatiing to them.
Build yourself into a man of character and strength, a man of discipline and self-control, a trustworthy man who puts his skills in the service of others and you will be fulfilled in life. If masculinity and manhood are topics that interest you, feel free to challenge yourself with some ideas on the Mastery Order and challenge back if you have other points of view. We can only become better men if we engage in challenging discussions. Looking forward to hearing your points of view. All the best to you!
I would say you are spot on at 80%. I use to raise German Shepherds, Usually a litter of eight and only one Alpha. The Alpha could usually be picked out within a few weeks. Many woman confuse money with what they think are Alphas and this seams to be part of the problem. Elevating guys like Zuckerberg or Gates to Alpha status is a large part of the problem women have today. Alphas are born Alphas, simple as that. Guys like Zuck and Gates may get you a lot of toys but they will never make you wet and without doubt you will eventually cheat.
I don't have any of those symptoms. I have to admit I have a very complicated wife as a person. I accept that because she is compliant also. Strange thing is when I become more successful I'm getting more attention from women and her.
If you are are an overall decent personality, you're practicing self care, in good shape, self sustaining and have skills in the bedroom, you should never have to negotiate intimacy with a woman. Suggesting that you have to do a task or tasks to be desired is degrading and insulting.
I agree with everything except the tell guys be themselves part. Being yourself is just that being yourself not afraid to hold back what you’re thinking not afraid to be who you are as a person just because your afraid what someone might think of you. Usually being yourself is what’s going to get you in life not being yourself is what’s going to get you stepped on and lost of respect cause people especially women can tell when you’re being someone you ain’t. I tell people to be themselves all the time but I just explain in depth of what I mean by “themselves”. Basically be the same person you feel the most comfortable around.
Become your best self and be authentic. Figure out your life's mission and start executing. Check out the ManKind Project for peeling the onion to figure who you are, at a deeper level and figure out your life's mission and tactics to execute on it.
My brother you 1000% speaking the truth. In my country a RUclipsr was involved in some controversy - scandal and his girlfriend immediately left him. I checked out theirs Instagram accounts because there was linked in the news, his account pictures with them too together, nature, cars ect. On her accounts only and only her, posing in bikini, lingerie... she have only pictures of herself nothing else nothing not even picture of cat or dog.
I realize many viewers may not be Christian, but there’s a good example in the Bible that illustrates your comment about people today wanting a ruler. In this Bible passage, God gave the Israelites and opportunity to accept God as their king, but they wanted a human ruler instead; so God gave them kings, but told them, in so many words, that they’d regret it-and they did. My point: Human nature “is what it is”-and has been that way a very long time.
It’s not just getting obese fellas. I am short and had lots of muscle in my younger days. Found myself skipping the gym and atrophy set in. I was doing the husband duties at the time. Sacrificing myself for the family, of course ex wife cheated anyways. She mentioned something once before I divorced about she didn’t feel like I could protect her. It might have been just more garbage coming from her mouth but I did let myself get too scrawny.
Beta to me is caring what anyone thinks of you. Women, other men, bosses, coworkers, family, people on RUclips and social media. A true alpha is his own man. Needs no one else. Women are just a bonus.
@ 7:33. I highly recommend you DO buy the book. The red flag chapter is only one sliver of valuable information from the book. Fork up the cash, buy the book, you will not regret it, I can guarantee you that.
There's other terms that are somewhat - if not entirely - synonymous with this. Soyboy, soyim, Small soul bugmen. Not only physically out of shape, but mentally, emotionally, and spiritually. Not saying I'm perfect in all those categories - not many people are, but at least being aware and trying to change it is a big distinction.
@@bentaylor5328 I feel like when rich says “most men” it’s really inaccurate. It’s not most men, it’s a small minority who are struggling. Just like there’s a small minority of men who are extremely successful (take the distribution curve for example). Growing up I had a normal life. Parents are still together, grew up upper class, had proper mentorship etc. I find myself seeing this content and find that it’s appealing to guys who didn’t have a strong father figure or unresolved child hood trauma where they need to be on the extreme of calling themselves “the prize”. You don’t need to be an asshole to sleep with women, or have a relationship. I feel like this content is taking it to the extreme because it’s for guys who are extremely struggling.
@@MakeUmad4life yea I agree. I've never really hung around the betas. I had a pretty hard knock life growing up, it was chaotic. I didn't have the best guidance but I learned a lot of hard lessons about life early on. By the time I was an adult I could see women for what they are and I never lied to myself about my value in the "marketplace". I've always just taken what I wanted and women have always been attracted to my confidence and honesty. Today, I'm in my late 30s, I'm married to a woman I'm compatible with and I'm happy. My main focuses now are my career, personal development, and wealth building.
@@MakeUmad4lifeHow do u know they arent buddy Ever heard of 'women are wonderful effect' society believes women are inherently innocent and men are evil Why do u think courts and criminal Justice system favour women?
I agree with what you said about betas wanting big government, but wanted to make an additional point about responsibility. The other enticing thing about having the government take care of you means that you get to avoid taking responsibility, whether it's something specific like doing your own research regarding Covid vaccines, or something general like doing what your heart thinks is right. Doing nothing means that you don't ever get faulted on being wrong.
total sense... my god....my last relationship 9 years of my life good thing we never had kids, i did so much and i was like that putting her on a pedestal and more that was back in 2013, she was a real numb nut, selfish bad sex everything and yet i was so blind. Today i woke up, i am close to 50 and could care less about women, i train and thank you so much for the vids on peptides btw, started using some of them. I see an escort from time to time and have no plans on getting a full time GF.
Was like this in my first marriage. It was a zombie life. Didn't truly wake up until a year after the divorce. Remarried 4 years later and life is infinitely better.
I'd consider myself a sigma, definitely not beta. However, I struggle to attract even average women. I lift weights and I'm always told I'm good looking. It's quite odd
Most people are like young children & look to authority figures like big government to take the role of the father figure unlike myself who only looks to myself for guidance
I was dating a women - 33 . Loved with parents and other siblings. I am divorced with one son who is 9. This woman wanted me to sell my house and move in with her and parents with my son- have more kids and have her Dad home school them part time . Also she always said she was in charge , never wanted to discuss the details of our future - just wing it type of approach. She wanted me to be the bread winner . I told her I already had a stay at home wife and it did not work- first wife cheated because I worked to much to provide for our expensive lifestyle . The girl I was dating is 33 virgin and very religious , refused to move in together before marriage . I down loaded a Bible app / how to date with intention and learn more about your partner - hoping she would want to get to know me and we could fo the daily affirmation thing together . She said that was stupid and does not do things like that ! Lol The biggest red flag was she has daddy do everything for her and wants me to take over that role . Fuck that
And yet, the happiest women tend to be the ones who are content with being led by a strong alpha type. The first type of dude any chick will cheat on is a beta who is weak and pathetic. If you're such a Chad alpha type that she finds your dominance alluring, she will stick around more. This is the norm.
Need advice. Me and my LTR rn living in different cities and visit each other once a month. That day she went to the chinese restaurant with her gf, other People and one dude, Who was the friend of these People. They ate, drank a Lil bit and went for a taxi. Ordering was taking long and somebody made a joke : "we need to put ass as a profile picture so we get a ride way faster". And this guy, Who already dating their other gf, jokes : "her's wouldn't fit the screen". And then added "dont get offended, its a compliment". So, to be clear, I'm pretty sure if I was there with them he simply wouldn't say this or else I would literally punch him. But now, since she told me about this and Thats all on a distance, I dont know how to react to this. Because, on the one hand, this is nothing and Just a joke while they're drunk. But on the other hand, why tf would you make such joke? So Im 50/50 wanna visit him and throw him on the concrete. But isn't it childish that I got mad at nothing? Idk, need ur opinion
@Harvard Dropout...no offense bud but it sounds like she may have beta orbiter or other males or she claims are "just friends " around her. Guys just don't make comments like that unless there is sole reciprocation on the girl's end. You see her once a month and she's in a different city. Save yourself the grief and cut ties or at least expect that she very likely is cheating. These girl's night's out are code for women riding the carousel man. Hope everything works but you need to understand these things to protect yourself. When shot hits the fan tell yourself....she's not yours, it was just your turn. GL bro n welcome to the red pill
Is it true though? Would it fit in the screen? Honestly, you're getting mad at the wrong thing. If it was rude or a joke who cares? The only question that really matters is does your gf give off flirty vibes and disrespect you when you're not around.
The only thing I'm not is ripped , I can't be arsed with the gym every day . other than that I'm great . No worries ! If she ever wants to leave then goodbye babe the doors over here lol .
Getting ripped is a dietary issue. Say goodbye to empty, useless carbs; bread, pasta, pizza, junk basically. Not you? Kay, but you've gotta lift weights. Not every day, but at least 2-3 days a week lift heavy shit. Make it your life, and the changes will show in no time. Don't lift....enjoy low T as you get older.
Stop finding excuses, dude. I got ripped in about 5 months, going to gym 3 times a week. And I'm not even done yet. I never ever in my life, felt so good about my body.
Get that body, not for the women. But you may find your self in a situation you don't want to be in. You don't need to fight the guy, running away with decent cardio could help.
Don't worry too much on getting ripped. I mean.. it's better being ripped than not, but being ripped is not a magic that gets you girls. Girls like six packs sure, but attraction has far more in it than that, and being ripped is probably one of the weaker qualities women desire, far more important and crucial qualities women find high value in a man.
From a single professional woman's point of view, we women struggle (but rarely admit) to balance our career achievement, often following the example of our father, and desire for a romantic relationship, usually following the example of our mother. I don't think many women really "like" being an Alpha. They want "it all." Yet don't minimize that a woman with brains can be a help in a relationship. It's something both genders need to try to work out, the balance of the male and female sides. Simple, in concept, but not easy in practice.
Ah the plugged in fools. I always wondered why these guys were always taking pictures at family events and whatnot looking like a puppy dog following her around. It's pretty damned sad, because like Rich said you look on her social media he's almost non existent.
I rather have dangerous freedom over peaceful slavery any day! Lot of men are getting on more like women always posting stuff on social media and lot look for valuation from others And are always like and comment on pretty girls post that they never meet, Guys just need to stay of social media stop posting every single thing what they are doing, Just work on your purpose, work hard do things you enjoy Let the women wounder and get them to chase you because they will miss all that free valation you give them
Been watching videos from this channel as they pop us recently, but I’m going to have to beg to differ on the not “putting women on a pedestal”. This whole channel is either directly or indirectly about women, and how to position yourself to get these women who are more hypergamous “monkey branchers” by nature.
I'm not on the list... why do I still feel like a beta? Is it because I'm pursuing excellence and I think I can always do better? Also I'm not spinning plates haven't for a couple years now!
All you guys out there: The number one thing you need to do is control your money! I mean control your money. I learned great lessons from my first wife. (Thank God and Grayhound She's Gone!) Don't co-mingle funds and NEVER LET ANYBODY WRITE CHECKS ON YOUR ACCOUNTS ARE YOU CRAZY? Happiness is money in the bank, a good cash flow, and nobody but you touching it. You can work everything else out that you want to, but nothing brings respect like CONTROLLING EVERY PENNEY YOU MAKE AND KNOWING EXACTLY WHAT YOU GOING TO DO! That means saving, investing, then buying the other stuff you gotta.
You were right.... had been in relationships that led me to abandon self care. Was Obese and now I am in the gym every day. Lost 32 lbs and loving my life! Now just overweight but the goals are in place to be my best. Great info!
As a woman I to have done this. It’s all about boundaries and balance. If a woman you are seeing only is available when you are not well then that might be a red flag. This is why men shouldn’t always be so nice and pay for everything.
Keep pushing brother 👊🙌💪
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Same here man.. i was betatized through a thosand concessions (more like a million) i constanly felt sick and had no energy. I was playing video games more than everything. I didnt feel like ever doing everything and gained 125 pounds. It came to a point where i was closer to 400 pnds than 300 and that scared me so i bought myself a gym membership and put in the work. I can tell you i started feelimg better and stopped being a doormat. Broke it off before covid than Got back together to kind of prove to myself I made the right decision and sure enough less than a year later got rid of her I am down 125 poundsAnd in the best shape of my life And now it's weird getting much a stares from the opposite sex (im 6'3 250)
@@tankmerc7632 I’m in the same position. Worried about letting her go for the fear of not finding anyone
I see these guys at parties all the time-- they'll introduce their wives as "the best thing that ever happened to me, I don't know why she'd ever settle for someone like me!" All the while the wife has this embarrassed, sheepish grin as her husband basically announces to the room that she married an idiot.
😂😂
I never understood guys with that mindset, even in my plugged-in beta days. It's like, what, you don't have ANY redeeming qualities? Dude...
🤣 total fools. She's also often grinning thinking about Chad or Steve in Sales.
best wingman ever
😄 exactly, so crystal clear now when that happens… the ‘my bucket is full’ beta. Who talks like that. I just look at her, smirk, and grab a refill. She knows.
This is very true . Been single and successful since 23 . Now I am 43 years old and dated many women. I was the beta in 1 relationship, I was played the whole time .
43Year old Alpha make who is single, are you afraid of women.
@@catherinek3409 I think the one who is afraid of women; is the one who feels unappreciated and under value but says yes dear and gets married any way... If he sees the red flag and walks then he is definitely not scared. if it's all green flags then great but until that day I'd advocate dont ignore red flags just for the sake of getting married. .43 for a man is actually just fine.
I’m a plugged in beta! I guess the first step for greatness is recognizing the problem!
Yes.
4sure bro
Yea good luck taking advice from this covert beta male.
How’s it coming? You working on yourself?
That's a great first step. Next identify areas in your life where you want to improve and put in the work. Every day, no excuses, drop your bad habits and beta friends cold turkey.
My housemate is exactly like this and he has the fucking nerve to call me an incel, he dates 4/10s off tinder, immediately falls in love then goes on a massive cocaine/booze binge when it doesnt work out its pathetic, he literally cannot fathom why I only focus on work and myself and not pointless relationships.
Ignore people who act and say things like that to assert dominance over you…he’s the one who is insecure not you
when you make money you are the chad King no matter what. Just like our fella Elon Musk the great
It’s crazy to think that there are still 90% of men unaware of the red pill, getting played and divorced, taken advantage and etc
I know what you mean. I was blind for a very long time. Not anymore.
@@naveedrehman2987 Hard pill to swallow at first, but reality should be accepted, not neglected 💯
@@naveedrehman2987 lmfao noob
Darwinism. Let them. They need to fall before they continue to live.
@@pickupartistacademy217 very true, Twitter and tik Tok are “exposing” the Red Pill, but let’s be real, simply “Knowing” it’s coming doesn’t mean they can stop it. As long as men are being authentic, they will still submit
This is what happens when boys are raised by their mothers and fathers were completely or mostly absent.
Its not true, many fathers are betas too and they could be worse role models than the mums are
@@rejectwokeness1314 I agree. Some boys raised by fathers who are slaves to their wives will put future women in the same light as to how their father displayed affection.
@@rejectwokeness1314 both can be true
What you said is the fruit. Feminism is the root.
Got my driver's license, got myself a house with a good mortgage. Stable job as a cook making good money. She said i still have to proof myself 😂 this is gonna be my 4th gf in 2 years. Im done no cap
Stay the course, my good man!
Nah let her go back to the streets Brodie 🤝
Good. Now you can live how you want.
Maybe you do. I wonder, how does one "proof" themselves?
@@The_Kirk_Lazarus I'm thinking what you thinking 😉💪💯
Watching Rich's videos inpired me to rewatch 'The Matrix' yesterday. It was like revisting a decades old prophecy.
Yeah, the woman in the Red Dress...
Since it's release, every time I watch this movie I pick up something new. Watch V for Vendetta if you haven't already, also made by the Wachowski's.
@@MMA-CLIPS2 Same here, and yeah, V for Vendetta is on my to watch list. They're talented guys.
It's amazing how plugged in I once was. I thought if I married a train wreck solo mom that I could save her with being a simp. Didn't go to well for me. Bummer that I found your channel before I meet her. Would hsve saved me hundreds of thousands.
"Happy Wife, Happy Life" makes me cringe when ever I hear a guy say that
I’m a beta male. Your points are all valid apart from the one on being physically out of shape. Lots of alphas are out of shape and lots of Betas live in the gym
Weird flex, but ok.
@@RagePlanet not a flex. Just stating facts
@@lutaayam I respect that
So many betas in the gym, so p.whipped, told what to do, girlfriends walk all over them.
Sounds like me, beta male.. chasing women but not excellent, I’ve been watching a lot of Corey Wayne
There’s a reason YT doesn’t have your videos showing up in my feed anymore. Speaking the TRUTH
Consider subscribing to the channels / content you like. You will be less vulnerable to the whims of the "algorithm."
And don't forget that not everyone that goes against the mainstream media automatically comes alpha.
Correct.
True. A lot of new folks mistake red pill awareness for being alpha.
Can’t thank you enough for your groundbreaking content Rich.Everything here is 100% bang on.Also have your book.Truly life changing.Many many thanks from Australia 🙏
Groundbreaking? You are pathetic
I kind of see I have a few beta issues to resolve... I wouldn't call myself beta by any means, but I have an area to improve. Great videos, keep opening the eyes of men 🤘🏻
Same here. The part about allowing toxic chicks into my life is one I’m still working on. Why do I do this? I’m always saying “never again,” yet here I go again…
Hey Rich, In regards to pyiscally out if shape, did you ever hear Jordon Peterson mention about a photo of the guys in line to sign up to go to Vietnam all of them with their shirts off ready to get their medical. every one had a great body and were all lean, he then asked what would that photo look like today.
Except for Leonard in Full Metal Jacket! Haha That's what many would look like today. Sad but true
I felt that part about the photo thing and it not being reciprocated, she didn't post pics of herself with her goods hanging out but def didn't post me on her pages but would constantly hassle me about "you don't ever post me,are you ashamed of me?" But I had plenty of pics of her on my page and u go to hers and see one or 2 of me and her. When Rich was talking about that it was like he was talking about me hahaha, looking back at it I get angry at myself for being so blind and putting up with so much BS and never getting what I should have been for as much as I was doing for her. Man was a beta simp ass fool, def working on myself and never gonna settle for that kind of treatment again. Thanks for all u do Rich, you've helped me tremendously and opened my eyes to a whole new world.
I have a notion telling me that love could be a social construct or at least what is believed is love. Keep it up, Uncle Rich 💪💪
First of all, love is ALWAYS CONDITIONAL! A rich woman will never fall in love with a homeless man. If you married a super model, would you still love her if she put on 100 pounds. I don't think I would. I don't know if love really exits. But, my lust for young gorgeous woman is real. But it's just LUST! Most beta men want a woman to make them feel significant. Hense the phrase "TROPHY WIFE".
Just subscribed.
Yup I live in California and I see so many young guys and men becoming more feminine. Im like bros go work out and build more Testosterone, stop listening to MSM, and stop playing the victim. Start taking control of your life and not having someone control how you live and think. Today we no longer have that freedom and liberty that we once had. Even in this way of being an unplugged Male and saying no to this feminism and MSM I say this and I stand for this. "Give me liberty or give me death" - Patrick Henry
The last point on leadership, it is more how you lead. I work in the consulting industry and you get two clear types of leadership, one who was a "yes man" and climbed the ranks because he would do everything and anything to appease people above him. The other kind of leadership is the dominant type, the see a problem they call it out, they dont pull rank and they dont care about rank, they are results driven and can take control of a situation. the latter isnt a beta.
That reminds me of the "Crucial Conversations" book. I highly suggest it as it teaches you how to confront conflict and not be a passive and yes man.
I'm happy to announce that I don't have any of those above traits anymore. I was once blue pilled AF, had a beta mindset but can honestly say I've never been a simp. Rich's book put a lot of things into perspective.
The problem with chasing excellence is the lull before the launch 😣
been able to do stuff around the house from DIY to cooking and cleaning should be the basic shit for men and women to be able to do.
Got the book, keep learning more. Great work, Mr. Cooper. Thanks for the HIGHLY USEFUL INFO!!
Is it worth a read? This guy has good chat
We need to give this to every single king we know fellas. Many of us have been there and we have to pull them up. For real.
That’s how you stop simping ya gotta unplug these dudes mentally or help em unplug themselves u can’t do it for em
@@greatestever7623 facts
I Don't show any of those signs but do not think of myself as an alpha male I just do wot I want wen I want and nothing or anybody will get in my way. 😀👍🏿
Feeling so sad. Been this man since birth, turning slightly. But about 2yrs ago something just snapped in me.
Been successful leader and interpreneure is kind of chasing excellence.
Bought your book... like your style bro!
I’ll give a shot to your book,
I shop at a dude's franchise and it opened my eyes on how his wife was treating him. He didn't tell me his life story, but it was just something mentioned in passing. Basically he had a chore list that the wife provided before he could get any action.
I wonder if I am plugged in. If Women were on a pedestal with me. I would have a lot more grief in my life. I am single/childless/never married. I can do what I want. When I want. If a woman is in my life romantically. It's on my terms.
If I was a Beta. I would go along with all my ex's whimes. Like have a kid out of wedlock or put up with mini tantrums. I am more Mr. Fade out. No Drama for the most part.
Consider worrying less about a label (Alpha, Beta, SJW, Simp, Incel, etc.). Are you "chasing excellence" and becoming the best man you can be?
God i was like that in some point . Took the redpill while ago although i feel it is too late but fk it . I do it for myself . Guys being aggressive in some point instead being nice will be so rewarding for you
Ya need to have a warrior mindset
The ones that constantly call themselves "alphas" are the biggest betas
Thanks for the great content again Rich. You are saving the world (maybe it's not too late :D ) .
Easiest way to know if a woman views you as an alpha: She calls you an ass hole or other names similar
If someone calls you an a-hole, then unless they are a genuine certified a-hole or she's being overly emotional in the moment about something, then you've likely done something wrong. People are naturally selfish so no one should assume that if someone is calling them an a-hole that they're doing something right. Strong, unselfish, unafraid people don't get called a-holes
I smell beta / simp
A real alpha isn't an asshole, because that is NOT a prerequisite. Priding yourself on being an asshole, or thinking you have to be an asshole to be an alpha, is a belief born of insecurity.
I'm kind to others, because I'm kind to myself first. I know my value and I have boundaries, therefore I don't need to get off on mistreating anyone.
When somebody doesn't serve a role in my life, they're gone. I walk away.
Being a dick and trying to force control of every situation is the perfect example of not being in control.
Live in confidence and certainty and you won't need to be a dick.
@@freepressright keep coping bro
@@charliepayne9378 coping with what? I do what I want to do, when I want to do it. I'm jacked, I play in bands, I have tons of hobbies and I lead in my life, completely and totally. And if someone isn't on board with it, I purge them from my life.
There isn't time for being an asshole. I don't need to be arrogant. I know what I am and who I am, and because of that, others know it too. I don't need to simp to anyone, because they're nice to me and treat me like I deserve to be treated. I, in turn, reciprocate/mirror the behavior.
And if they aren't, they're gone. I'm out.
Being an asshole to feel alpha as phony as Will Smith's beta tantrum. If you're secure and a true alpha, you don't need to be a dick. That comes with emotional maturity, which is also an alpha attribute.
If you think being an asshole is a prerequisite, then you haven't reached alpha yet.
And, one final note.. if a woman calls me an asshole, she's gone. Name calling is disrespectful and I don't stand for it. But I also don't engage in it myself.
If your fights with women include hurling insults back and forth, your emotional maturity needs work.
Great content as usual ,thank you!
I have got a big ego and love being competitive and must win so I've never felt properly beta but know I had some traits. I'm pleased that most of these are not me. Pedestalling has been my biggest problem but this I'm working on now. That said, I've always been sickened when I've seen friends post lots of lovey dovey pictures and then the girl posts nothing. I can't believe how my friends don't spot this or pick this up. I did raise it once and a friend said I was bitter. lol I'm not but just think it looks a bit humiliatiing to them.
On the right track.
It is a harder road, so probably why many just go with the group.
Build yourself into a man of character and strength, a man of discipline and self-control, a trustworthy man who puts his skills in the service of others and you will be fulfilled in life.
If masculinity and manhood are topics that interest you, feel free to challenge yourself with some ideas on the Mastery Order and challenge back if you have other points of view.
We can only become better men if we engage in challenging discussions.
Looking forward to hearing your points of view.
All the best to you!
You can never out-alpha a society of beta’s. You can quote me on that.
You’re right on point brother.
I would say you are spot on at 80%. I use to raise German Shepherds, Usually a litter of eight and only one Alpha. The Alpha could usually be picked out within a few weeks. Many woman confuse money with what they think are Alphas and this seams to be part of the problem. Elevating guys like Zuckerberg or Gates to Alpha status is a large part of the problem women have today. Alphas are born Alphas, simple as that. Guys like Zuck and Gates may get you a lot of toys but they will never make you wet and without doubt you will eventually cheat.
I don't have any of those symptoms. I have to admit I have a very complicated wife as a person. I accept that because she is compliant also. Strange thing is when I become more successful I'm getting more attention from women and her.
Good stuff once again thanks
Bottom 80% 😂. It’s crowded asf down there
If you are are an overall decent personality, you're practicing self care, in good shape, self sustaining and have skills in the bedroom, you should never have to negotiate intimacy with a woman. Suggesting that you have to do a task or tasks to be desired is degrading and insulting.
I agree with everything except the tell guys be themselves part. Being yourself is just that being yourself not afraid to hold back what you’re thinking not afraid to be who you are as a person just because your afraid what someone might think of you. Usually being yourself is what’s going to get you in life not being yourself is what’s going to get you stepped on and lost of respect cause people especially women can tell when you’re being someone you ain’t. I tell people to be themselves all the time but I just explain in depth of what I mean by “themselves”. Basically be the same person you feel the most comfortable around.
Become your best self and be authentic. Figure out your life's mission and start executing. Check out the ManKind Project for peeling the onion to figure who you are, at a deeper level and figure out your life's mission and tactics to execute on it.
This describes me…even the damn pics, road to being unplugged
My brother you 1000% speaking the truth. In my country a RUclipsr was involved in some controversy - scandal and his girlfriend immediately left him. I checked out theirs Instagram accounts because there was linked in the news, his account pictures with them too together, nature, cars ect. On her accounts only and only her, posing in bikini, lingerie... she have only pictures of herself nothing else nothing not even picture of cat or dog.
Shit, this channel and David Goggins got me chasing excellence again.
I realize many viewers may not be Christian, but there’s a good example in the Bible that illustrates your comment about people today wanting a ruler. In this Bible passage, God gave the Israelites and opportunity to accept God as their king, but they wanted a human ruler instead; so God gave them kings, but told them, in so many words, that they’d regret it-and they did. My point: Human nature “is what it is”-and has been that way a very long time.
Ouch the truth hurts ....but
Hopefully knowledge will
Bring forth change
Great video
I put myself on a pedestal that no one can knock me down
It’s not just getting obese fellas. I am short and had lots of muscle in my younger days. Found myself skipping the gym and atrophy set in. I was doing the husband duties at the time. Sacrificing myself for the family, of course ex wife cheated anyways.
She mentioned something once before I divorced about she didn’t feel like I could protect her. It might have been just more garbage coming from her mouth but I did let myself get too scrawny.
Beta to me is caring what anyone thinks of you. Women, other men, bosses, coworkers, family, people on RUclips and social media. A true alpha is his own man. Needs no one else. Women are just a bonus.
So true.
Just bought your book
@ 7:33. I highly recommend you DO buy the book. The red flag chapter is only one sliver of valuable information from the book. Fork up the cash, buy the book, you will not regret it, I can guarantee you that.
There's other terms that are somewhat - if not entirely - synonymous with this. Soyboy, soyim, Small soul bugmen. Not only physically out of shape, but mentally, emotionally, and spiritually. Not saying I'm perfect in all those categories - not many people are, but at least being aware and trying to change it is a big distinction.
Trudeau is awful! This guy knows his stuff.
Madam Bovary is needed reading for ALL men.
A1!
Maybe if you do the dishes more!! 😂😂🤣🤣
I feel like 80% is a huge figure. Most guys Ik who are friends with me are nothing like the list. Absolutely nothing.
You're in the unplugged elite.
@@bentaylor5328 I feel like when rich says “most men” it’s really inaccurate. It’s not most men, it’s a small minority who are struggling. Just like there’s a small minority of men who are extremely successful (take the distribution curve for example).
Growing up I had a normal life. Parents are still together, grew up upper class, had proper mentorship etc. I find myself seeing this content and find that it’s appealing to guys who didn’t have a strong father figure or unresolved child hood trauma where they need to be on the extreme of calling themselves “the prize”. You don’t need to be an asshole to sleep with women, or have a relationship. I feel like this content is taking it to the extreme because it’s for guys who are extremely struggling.
@@MakeUmad4life yea I agree. I've never really hung around the betas. I had a pretty hard knock life growing up, it was chaotic. I didn't have the best guidance but I learned a lot of hard lessons about life early on. By the time I was an adult I could see women for what they are and I never lied to myself about my value in the "marketplace". I've always just taken what I wanted and women have always been attracted to my confidence and honesty. Today, I'm in my late 30s, I'm married to a woman I'm compatible with and I'm happy. My main focuses now are my career, personal development, and wealth building.
@@MakeUmad4lifeHow do u know they arent buddy Ever heard of 'women are wonderful effect' society believes women are inherently innocent and men are evil
Why do u think courts and criminal Justice system favour women?
I agree with what you said about betas wanting big government, but wanted to make an additional point about responsibility. The other enticing thing about having the government take care of you means that you get to avoid taking responsibility, whether it's something specific like doing your own research regarding Covid vaccines, or something general like doing what your heart thinks is right. Doing nothing means that you don't ever get faulted on being wrong.
The last three plus years have definitely proven that most guys are major betas.
One-itis is common for these guys too.
total sense... my god....my last relationship 9 years of my life good thing we never had kids, i did so much and i was like that putting her on a pedestal and more that was back in 2013, she was a real numb nut, selfish bad sex everything and yet i was so blind.
Today i woke up, i am close to 50 and could care less about women, i train and thank you so much for the vids on peptides btw, started using some of them. I see an escort from time to time and have no plans on getting a full time GF.
This makes me guilty.... Thanks... Will surely make changes in it
Was like this in my first marriage. It was a zombie life. Didn't truly wake up until a year after the divorce. Remarried 4 years later and life is infinitely better.
Are you more of an alpha male in your marriage now?
I'd consider myself a sigma, definitely not beta. However, I struggle to attract even average women. I lift weights and I'm always told I'm good looking. It's quite odd
You're not a sigma you're a normal man
I can assure you gentleman a women will never get "wet" while your "drying" dishes. 😂
7/10 of this list is me. Damn…
Get out there buddy and knock that list down
Yes your right there Is no other way around this
Most people are like young children & look to authority figures like big government to take the role of the father figure unlike myself who only looks to myself for guidance
I was dating a women - 33 .
Loved with parents and other siblings.
I am divorced with one son who is 9.
This woman wanted me to sell my house and move in with her and parents with my son- have more kids and have her Dad home school them part time .
Also she always said she was in charge , never wanted to discuss the details of our future - just wing it type of approach.
She wanted me to be the bread winner .
I told her I already had a stay at home wife and it did not work- first wife cheated because I worked to much to provide for our expensive lifestyle .
The girl I was dating is 33 virgin and very religious , refused to move in together before marriage .
I down loaded a Bible app / how to date with intention and learn more about your partner - hoping she would want to get to know me and we could fo the daily affirmation thing together .
She said that was stupid and does not do things like that ! Lol
The biggest red flag was she has daddy do everything for her and wants me to take over that role .
Fuck that
Good ass info
I would add a couple of signs to the list - they believe in horoscopes, Tarot cards, etc. and often quote some great philosophers))
If you want to be an alpha though, woman say it's 'controlling' and get rid
And yet, the happiest women tend to be the ones who are content with being led by a strong alpha type. The first type of dude any chick will cheat on is a beta who is weak and pathetic. If you're such a Chad alpha type that she finds your dominance alluring, she will stick around more. This is the norm.
Need advice.
Me and my LTR rn living in different cities and visit each other once a month. That day she went to the chinese restaurant with her gf, other People and one dude, Who was the friend of these People. They ate, drank a Lil bit and went for a taxi. Ordering was taking long and somebody made a joke : "we need to put ass as a profile picture so we get a ride way faster". And this guy, Who already dating their other gf, jokes : "her's wouldn't fit the screen". And then added "dont get offended, its a compliment".
So, to be clear, I'm pretty sure if I was there with them he simply wouldn't say this or else I would literally punch him. But now, since she told me about this and Thats all on a distance, I dont know how to react to this. Because, on the one hand, this is nothing and Just a joke while they're drunk. But on the other hand, why tf would you make such joke? So Im 50/50 wanna visit him and throw him on the concrete.
But isn't it childish that I got mad at nothing? Idk, need ur opinion
@Harvard Dropout...no offense bud but it sounds like she may have beta orbiter or other males or she claims are "just friends " around her. Guys just don't make comments like that unless there is sole reciprocation on the girl's end. You see her once a month and she's in a different city. Save yourself the grief and cut ties or at least expect that she very likely is cheating. These girl's night's out are code for women riding the carousel man. Hope everything works but you need to understand these things to protect yourself. When shot hits the fan tell yourself....she's not yours, it was just your turn. GL bro n welcome to the red pill
@@CityOfBrotherlyLoveTours Dinner guy negging her for her attention. She probably spinning plates. The end.
Is it true though? Would it fit in the screen?
Honestly, you're getting mad at the wrong thing. If it was rude or a joke who cares?
The only question that really matters is does your gf give off flirty vibes and disrespect you when you're not around.
The only thing I'm not is ripped , I can't be arsed with the gym every day . other than that I'm great . No worries ! If she ever wants to leave then goodbye babe the doors over here lol .
Getting ripped is a dietary issue.
Say goodbye to empty, useless carbs; bread, pasta, pizza, junk basically.
Not you? Kay, but you've gotta lift weights. Not every day, but at least 2-3 days a week lift heavy shit. Make it your life, and the changes will show in no time.
Don't lift....enjoy low T as you get older.
Stop finding excuses, dude. I got ripped in about 5 months, going to gym 3 times a week. And I'm not even done yet. I never ever in my life, felt so good about my body.
Get that body, not for the women. But you may find your self in a situation you don't want to be in. You don't need to fight the guy, running away with decent cardio could help.
Don't worry too much on getting ripped. I mean.. it's better being ripped than not, but being ripped is not a magic that gets you girls. Girls like six packs sure, but attraction has far more in it than that, and being ripped is probably one of the weaker qualities women desire, far more important and crucial qualities women find high value in a man.
@@maxpaws3977 what? I like skinny guys. 🤔🤷♀️
It’s better to unplug even if you get into beta phase…Eventually you will graduate to alpha level.
lmfao "Alpha"
Some dudes just need to feel what a pump feels like everything will change lol
Thanks
From a single professional woman's point of view, we women struggle (but rarely admit) to balance our career achievement, often following the example of our father, and desire for a romantic relationship, usually following the example of our mother. I don't think many women really "like" being an Alpha. They want "it all." Yet don't minimize that a woman with brains can be a help in a relationship. It's something both genders need to try to work out, the balance of the male and female sides. Simple, in concept, but not easy in practice.
All too true
Ah the plugged in fools. I always wondered why these guys were always taking pictures at family events and whatnot looking like a puppy dog following her around. It's pretty damned sad, because like Rich said you look on her social media he's almost non existent.
1:45 all the time!
I am looking at that fucking picture of me kissing her on the cheek as she smiles to the camera ... SOB how did I sleep for so looongggg!!! AAAHHHH
do you have 10 signs you are an unplugged alpha...
Facts
I rather have dangerous freedom over peaceful slavery any day!
Lot of men are getting on more like women always posting stuff on social media and lot look for valuation from others
And are always like and comment on pretty girls post that they never meet,
Guys just need to stay of social media stop posting every single thing what they are doing,
Just work on your purpose, work hard do things you enjoy
Let the women wounder and get them to chase you because they will miss all that free valation you give them
I will save you my lady 🤣🤣.
I am a sigma male. How do we fair?
Been watching videos from this channel as they pop us recently, but I’m going to have to beg to differ on the not “putting women on a pedestal”. This whole channel is either directly or indirectly about women, and how to position yourself to get these women who are more hypergamous “monkey branchers” by nature.
I'm not on the list... why do I still feel like a beta? Is it because I'm pursuing excellence and I think I can always do better? Also I'm not spinning plates haven't for a couple years now!
All you guys out there: The number one thing you need to do is control your money! I mean control your money. I learned great lessons from my first wife. (Thank God and Grayhound She's Gone!) Don't co-mingle funds and NEVER LET ANYBODY WRITE CHECKS ON YOUR ACCOUNTS ARE YOU CRAZY? Happiness is money in the bank, a good cash flow, and nobody but you touching it. You can work everything else out that you want to, but nothing brings respect like CONTROLLING EVERY PENNEY YOU MAKE AND KNOWING EXACTLY WHAT YOU GOING TO DO! That means saving, investing, then buying the other stuff you gotta.