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Loved this guy, good soul on him could tell straight away. I was also the product of a single mother household. Early 40s now, only just started to wake up the past few years. Rich your videos are a lifesaver thankyou very much brother from another mother :)
@ Darren Man, I just started getting straight a few years ago (I'm 60 now). The single mother household has absolutely whacked us...but it's up to us to do the work.
I remember when I was a kid the only time you ever heard "PTSD" was when it was very rarely associated with vietnam war vets who saw the most extreme and brutal combat. This guy has PTSD over breakups with his girlfriend? The last girl I dated kept talking about her ptsd and she got pissed off when I asked her if she had seen much combat. Clint Eastwood was right... We have had a front row seat to the pussification of america.
Right there with ya guy. I was in iraq/Afghanistan and it drives me crazy seeing so many people wave the PTSD flag. I had an exgirlfriend say that same crap to me. All because of things that happened to her when she was 19 and foolishly ran off to California with an ex-con that was a crackhead and had no plan to speak of. " self-inflicted ! " That's what I told her to. " had you not done that stupid shit and held on to one second of clarity, those things wouldn't have happened! ". Hahaha Of course I was the asshole! Haha And that's why I hate hearing the PTSD excuse from those who never served in combat. It you get into their back story, it's usually something they did and caused themselves.
People tend to focus on how they were treated by someone they wanted, forgetting that they themselves used and abused the people they didn’t really want. If you’ve been hurt try to remember that you have done the same to other people, you just didn’t care.
A difficult woman is an intentional women. One who strategically picks a fight so she can go and do what she really wants to. The win win for her is she realizes why she can "Convince" You to TAKE the blame which enables her to do it again in plain sight. She turns them into..What's the term"? 16:53 --> Reinforcements
This should be done at birth or a young age. After a certain point it doesn't matter. My sons 11 and at this point it wouldn't make a difference to me (according to 23 and me he is genetically my son).
Wow, thanks Rich and also thanks to Phil for this discussion. If you're Phil and reading this, focus on YOU. I know you comprehended that in your mind but I wonder if your emotions are on board with that. Anyway good luck with however you decide to proceed
Phil, like Rich stated work on yourself so that you are happy and satisfied with yourself. Don't build for others but for yourself, that lets you have self confidence where you can set the healthy boundaries that are there to help you vet people that come into your life. You need to have and work towards having a mindset of abundance. Best of luck to you.
Ex cheated on me after 2 years together. I fell to the betatization by a thousand concessions. Redpilled since 2020 but reverted in 2021. Issue now is the idea of sex repulses me because my ex cheated with my gym partner so the messy situation comes to mind whenever I think about sex in general.
@@TruthTV8556 Nah I don’t need to pay someone to explain the details of what happened and why it makes me feel the way I do. I have thought it through personally and spoken to family about it and explored what happened and lead to it. It’s probably just a fresh wound that will take a while to heal before I can think of sex positively again. No magic word from a therapist will fix my situation.
Idk. If she sends you a message months later just to tell you she's over you she's probably not. But I guess that was her test. Because I would expect that she thought you would've had her blocked everywhere and she realized she still had your mind because you didn't. Also did he listen to what he said? "I take care of my child's mom with child support" no. That is supposed to only take care of your child.
Women neither want players nor so-called "Alphas". They want someone loving and caring to raise a family with. Not every woman is your cup of tea, and not every woman will dig your vibe. That's the difficult part. Finding someone you love and that someone loves you back. It's energy, not "frame".
Rich: please do a dedicated video (or series of videos) about the safe world theory topic. There's so much there that you (especially) should dig deeper into. Thanks for all you do!
It’s not your fault… but it is now your responsibility to fix. It’s kind of like having red pill rage. You need time to process but eventually you have to move on fix yourself.
@@Tarikb90 never give women that much power man. It’s all your fault if your a beta male, if you blame women for anything then your giving them your power which is worse than beta. Men who blame women for their short fallings aren’t beta they’re b******.
@@Asscrackistan enough with these analogies. The day you decide to become a man and stop, blaming the world for your failures, including a single mom is the day you become a real man until then like I said, you’re not even worthy of calling yourself a beta male, because at least a beta male is a man.
No sir, do not go through a player faze. I met my husband when I was 18, he’s the only man I’ve ever been with. Him not being a player is why I am so submissive, loyal, and respectful of him. I’m 34, he’s 40 and we’ve been married 15 years now.
This guy has the potential for Rich to pass the torch to. He needs to do the rest of the work tho. Looks a little like he could be Rich's son if he wasn't already 30+ years old...Great video. Rich just saved a bunch of lives...again. 💯
"Try to stay away from single moms." He's got a kid, so this isn't going to be easy for him. He's better to match up with a single mom, but he still has to apply his dominance. "Don't tell my child what to do." means you should be gone. Remember: Men with children are looking for someone to love them and their children. Women with children are looking for someone who can provide financial support for her and her children.
I’ve been red pilled for awhile now, and I have a hard time caring enough not to be black pilled… seems like they’re not worth staying in a LTR with anymore IDK 💁
The stripper story reminds me of when i was in my 30s and an ex came over to dump me wearing a see through top so it would hurt me more. I was like "yeah, thats fine you want to break up but please tell me you didnt wear that to work". Ive never been able to figure out if that was beta or alpha 😅😅😅
Thats funny. I was on a bumble date in Mexico city a couple weeks ago and I was super nervous as she was very attractive. I was on her wrong side and she physically stopped in the street and told me off for it there and then. 'the man stands on the other side...' God damn, latin women are proper women
What you do if your ex texts you that she is"in a happy relationship"" having an amazing time with her new man" etc.etc.aftet you get that text,you wait about 4-6 hours and then text her back"busy " and that's it. That will turn that whole hurtful text around on her. And make her start questioning things.
You should just ignore it. That will do more damage to her ego. If she keeps texting you abt her new relationship. Just reply "good for u but i dun freaking care"
@@1simo93521 blocking the ex gives her the idea in her mind that you cared enough to block her, meaning you were thinking about her. Don’t reach out to her, don’t respond to her, and don’t open any of her social media post. Forget about her, that shows you don’t care. Blocking her means you cared enough to go out of your way just for her
@@1simo93521 nah,you want to show her that you don't care what she does ( even if it's not true). And if she sees you going out having fun and you doing the work, that's even better!
I know several single moms whose kids have turned out great. Many guys are single dads, by choice too. Better than staying with a person who’s turned out to be totally different to who you’d met.
Being the best version of yourself and leveling up is great but the only way to truly kill your beta self is by dealing with the sh*fitness of how horrible you are in dealing with women, making mistakes and learning from them.
Travel go overseas and go to MMA gym and surround yourself with Real Red pills alpha .. but bro for real you look like a tough guy . And shout out to the Goat of the game Mr Rich
A beta simp is a personality. People who have it cant escape it. Everything you try to do to "fake (make) it go away" will just make you look cringy. It will be obvious. Women will still take advantage of you. If youre a good guy by nature then you need to go search high and low for a compatible match that appreciates your specific personality. She probably wont be as attractive as the women you want but thats okay. Those are the cards you've been dealt. Its funny when men think theyre entitled to a smoking hot chick, or high desirable, educated, career etc but she also has to be loyal and low maintenance. Men need to start normalizing that you can be wealthy, successful, determined and be content and happy with a mediocre looking woman because you your self are probably mediocre. Another thing to highly consider is the attitude this guy in the interview has. He "dated" a single mom with for 7 months before it started going down hill. You see, thats okay. You were just dating and she didnt like what you had to offer. She doesnt have to stay just because YOU thought it was working out. Thats s thing with men, they usually try to stay even if its not working out whereas a women will leave the relationship. Sure, it sucks and it hurts but you're not entitled to another person. You dont own people. Someone can leave the relationship for whatever reason and you have to accept that. This guy has a bad experience and now he's essentially wanting to give up and dissatisfied with the current state of his life. I dont know how he survived this long. Learn to take trials and tribulations and keep pushing forward. Pick your self up and try again. Learn from YOUR mistakes, hold your self accountable and stop always blaming the woman for why youre unhappy. It didnt work out with his wife either. The common denominator is THIS GUY. Ive been burned by women and ive burned women my self. Either keep trying and dating until you find the right one or like K. Samuels says, but a dog and die alone.
Beta simp is not a personality. It's a learned behavior. A guy can go from a simp to a no bullshit alpha mindset. Semen retention, working out, healthy diet, knowledge in female nature and some deep self reflection with mentors can help. The biggest problem most men have now is low testosterone levels, it's a massive problem.
So I’ve watched a few of this guy’s videos over the last day or two and it seems all of his advice boils down to this…. women want rich, good-looking men. I will give him credit for figuring out a way to make money from people by telling them something that has been common knowledge for oh… I don’t know… couple thousand years maybe?
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Loved this guy, good soul on him could tell straight away. I was also the product of a single mother household. Early 40s now, only just started to wake up the past few years. Rich your videos are a lifesaver thankyou very much brother from another mother :)
@ Darren Man, I just started getting straight a few years ago (I'm 60 now). The single mother household has absolutely whacked us...but it's up to us to do the work.
Same here. My mom is a great person, but being raised by only her and having no masculine men to look up to…I got brainwashed and weak.
Bro tried to make a stripper reconsider her life I’m crying rn 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Bro was tryna save one for the team😂
It IS funny, but he was only 21 at the time. He might have had a bit of a religious upbringing.
@@Hechangethnot and crazy part is she don’t wanna be saved 😂
@@n.vanh.7666 I was like “no way bro” 😂
Lol!!!!! Seriously needs his head checked.
I remember when I was a kid the only time you ever heard "PTSD" was when it was very rarely associated with vietnam war vets who saw the most extreme and brutal combat. This guy has PTSD over breakups with his girlfriend?
The last girl I dated kept talking about her ptsd and she got pissed off when I asked her if she had seen much combat. Clint Eastwood was right... We have had a front row seat to the pussification of america.
Example no 678549 of word inflation. This guy chased a red flag, it turned out to be a red flag and now he’s got trauma issues?
Military veteran here, you are absolutely correct.
Right there with ya guy. I was in iraq/Afghanistan and it drives me crazy seeing so many people wave the PTSD flag. I had an exgirlfriend say that same crap to me. All because of things that happened to her when she was 19 and foolishly ran off to California with an ex-con that was a crackhead and had no plan to speak of. " self-inflicted ! " That's what I told her to. " had you not done that stupid shit and held on to one second of clarity, those things wouldn't have happened! ". Hahaha Of course I was the asshole! Haha And that's why I hate hearing the PTSD excuse from those who never served in combat. It you get into their back story, it's usually something they did and caused themselves.
This man gave the stripper a side hug and tried to get her back on the right track😂
Bruh I’m dead asf at that part 😭
😂😂
People tend to focus on how they were treated by someone they wanted, forgetting that they themselves used and abused the people they didn’t really want.
If you’ve been hurt try to remember that you have done the same to other people, you just didn’t care.
Essentially women are ticking time bomb all relationships have an expiry.
Fantastic Video Rich ! This was a great topic & video. Keep the videos coming.
A difficult woman is an intentional women. One who strategically picks a fight so she can go and do what she really wants to. The win win for her is she realizes why she can "Convince" You to TAKE the blame which enables her to do it again in plain sight. She turns them into..What's the term"? 16:53 --> Reinforcements
This guy should get a DNA test with his kid his ex could have lied about that to collect money for support
This should be done at birth or a young age. After a certain point it doesn't matter. My sons 11 and at this point it wouldn't make a difference to me (according to 23 and me he is genetically my son).
Wow, thanks Rich and also thanks to Phil for this discussion. If you're Phil and reading this, focus on YOU. I know you comprehended that in your mind but I wonder if your emotions are on board with that. Anyway good luck with however you decide to proceed
14:11 he did sound like he said “Do a course.”
I’m glad someone can admit it. I’m tired of every guy everywhere saying they are Alpha but somehow watching these videos all the time…Lol.
Yeah, alpha is a misnomer used if this context. Obviously the vast majority of men aren't alpha males.
There is no relationship equity !! Ever ever get that out of your heads , that’s the first thing to swallowing the Red pill
Phil, like Rich stated work on yourself so that you are happy and satisfied with yourself. Don't build for others but for yourself, that lets you have self confidence where you can set the healthy boundaries that are there to help you vet people that come into your life. You need to have and work towards having a mindset of abundance. Best of luck to you.
Ex cheated on me after 2 years together. I fell to the betatization by a thousand concessions. Redpilled since 2020 but reverted in 2021.
Issue now is the idea of sex repulses me because my ex cheated with my gym partner so the messy situation comes to mind whenever I think about sex in general.
@@TruthTV8556 Nah I don’t need to pay someone to explain the details of what happened and why it makes me feel the way I do. I have thought it through personally and spoken to family about it and explored what happened and lead to it.
It’s probably just a fresh wound that will take a while to heal before I can think of sex positively again. No magic word from a therapist will fix my situation.
Idk. If she sends you a message months later just to tell you she's over you she's probably not. But I guess that was her test. Because I would expect that she thought you would've had her blocked everywhere and she realized she still had your mind because you didn't.
Also did he listen to what he said? "I take care of my child's mom with child support" no. That is supposed to only take care of your child.
Women neither want players nor so-called "Alphas". They want someone loving and caring to raise a family with. Not every woman is your cup of tea, and not every woman will dig your vibe. That's the difficult part. Finding someone you love and that someone loves you back. It's energy, not "frame".
He did say “do a course”
Rich: please do a dedicated video (or series of videos) about the safe world theory topic. There's so much there that you (especially) should dig deeper into. Thanks for all you do!
He definitely said "do a course" 😎
14:10 awkward..... I wonder if he said "of course" and it was muddy or he did say "do a course" and backtracked after richs reaction.
He did say do a course lol 😂
He said 'of course'
Allot of men need to come to this realization. Allot of the male communities are becoming the male version of feminism.
Mgtow and freshandfit in a nutshell
I would say be a salesman to this guy
It’s a numbers game
I think men should stop blaming being beta on their single mom, your still a man. What you do and who you are is 100% up to you.
It’s not your fault… but it is now your responsibility to fix. It’s kind of like having red pill rage. You need time to process but eventually you have to move on fix yourself.
@@Tarikb90 never give women that much power man. It’s all your fault if your a beta male, if you blame women for anything then your giving them your power which is worse than beta. Men who blame women for their short fallings aren’t beta they’re b******.
@@Tarikb90 no matter what other people do in life. They still cannot stop you from doing what you really want to do.
Yeah but it's like starting the race 3 laps behind
@@Asscrackistan enough with these analogies. The day you decide to become a man and stop, blaming the world for your failures, including a single mom is the day you become a real man until then like I said, you’re not even worthy of calling yourself a beta male, because at least a beta male is a man.
Totally cut off the X.
Thanks. Solid.
Scarcity...
Talk more, talk to many, aim at losing them because your an Ahole rather than being too nice
No sir, do not go through a player faze. I met my husband when I was 18, he’s the only man I’ve ever been with. Him not being a player is why I am so submissive, loyal, and respectful of him. I’m 34, he’s 40 and we’ve been married 15 years now.
This guy has the potential for Rich to pass the torch to. He needs to do the rest of the work tho. Looks a little like he could be Rich's son if he wasn't already 30+ years old...Great video. Rich just saved a bunch of lives...again. 💯
I'm so beta, I'm gamma male.
Lawl
Im beta and for that reason I do not consider a relationship at all
10:02
"Try to stay away from single moms." He's got a kid, so this isn't going to be easy for him. He's better to match up with a single mom, but he still has to apply his dominance. "Don't tell my child what to do." means you should be gone.
Remember:
Men with children are looking for someone to love them and their children.
Women with children are looking for someone who can provide financial support for her and her children.
I’ve been red pilled for awhile now, and I have a hard time caring enough not to be black pilled… seems like they’re not worth staying in a LTR with anymore IDK 💁
That’s Danny D ??
If you are nice you will get eaten alive. I was so so beta it was sad.
The stripper story reminds me of when i was in my 30s and an ex came over to dump me wearing a see through top so it would hurt me more. I was like "yeah, thats fine you want to break up but please tell me you didnt wear that to work".
Ive never been able to figure out if that was beta or alpha 😅😅😅
Make sure you got that DNA test for your son just in case, you never know until you know
What's the 10 %
You’re definitely underrating yourself Phil, you’re a solid 8.- I really liked this guy. Best of luck to you, dear.😊
Thats funny. I was on a bumble date in Mexico city a couple weeks ago and I was super nervous as she was very attractive. I was on her wrong side and she physically stopped in the street and told me off for it there and then. 'the man stands on the other side...'
God damn, latin women are proper women
On this vid Rich is simple, true, genuine, native, real.
What you do if your ex texts you that she is"in a happy relationship"" having an amazing time with her new man" etc.etc.aftet you get that text,you wait about 4-6 hours and then text her back"busy " and that's it. That will turn that whole hurtful text around on her. And make her start questioning things.
How do you think it will do that
You should just ignore it. That will do more damage to her ego. If she keeps texting you abt her new relationship. Just reply "good for u but i dun freaking care"
Your first mistake is not blocking your ex on everything.
@@1simo93521 blocking the ex gives her the idea in her mind that you cared enough to block her, meaning you were thinking about her. Don’t reach out to her, don’t respond to her, and don’t open any of her social media post. Forget about her, that shows you don’t care. Blocking her means you cared enough to go out of your way just for her
@@1simo93521 nah,you want to show her that you don't care what she does ( even if it's not true). And if she sees you going out having fun and you doing the work, that's even better!
I know several single moms whose kids have turned out great. Many guys are single dads, by choice too. Better than staying with a person who’s turned out to be totally different to who you’d met.
🧢🧢🧢🧢 all stats say single moms raise shitty kids predominantly
I know the other half.
Move to Asia man…better to get a foreign women than another western one
I'm 26 I don't understand how men struggle with females it is obvious you just gotta be a f winner in life
Just don't be ugly, have a mission, be close to the best at it. Always seemed to work for me.
Primarily, read CHATEAU HEARTISTE, especially if you're in a social setting alone
This dude needs to read/listen to Man Uncivilized by Traver Boehm.
Cold showers chiropractic adjustments will kill the PTSD.
Being the best version of yourself and leveling up is great but the only way to truly kill your beta self is by dealing with the sh*fitness of how horrible you are in dealing with women, making mistakes and learning from them.
Guy is on the right way.
Travel go overseas and go to MMA gym and surround yourself with Real Red pills alpha .. but bro for real you look like a tough guy . And shout out to the Goat of the game Mr Rich
A beta simp is a personality. People who have it cant escape it. Everything you try to do to "fake (make) it go away" will just make you look cringy. It will be obvious. Women will still take advantage of you. If youre a good guy by nature then you need to go search high and low for a compatible match that appreciates your specific personality. She probably wont be as attractive as the women you want but thats okay. Those are the cards you've been dealt. Its funny when men think theyre entitled to a smoking hot chick, or high desirable, educated, career etc but she also has to be loyal and low maintenance. Men need to start normalizing that you can be wealthy, successful, determined and be content and happy with a mediocre looking woman because you your self are probably mediocre.
Another thing to highly consider is the attitude this guy in the interview has. He "dated" a single mom with for 7 months before it started going down hill. You see, thats okay. You were just dating and she didnt like what you had to offer. She doesnt have to stay just because YOU thought it was working out. Thats s thing with men, they usually try to stay even if its not working out whereas a women will leave the relationship. Sure, it sucks and it hurts but you're not entitled to another person. You dont own people. Someone can leave the relationship for whatever reason and you have to accept that. This guy has a bad experience and now he's essentially wanting to give up and dissatisfied with the current state of his life. I dont know how he survived this long. Learn to take trials and tribulations and keep pushing forward. Pick your self up and try again. Learn from YOUR mistakes, hold your self accountable and stop always blaming the woman for why youre unhappy. It didnt work out with his wife either. The common denominator is THIS GUY.
Ive been burned by women and ive burned women my self. Either keep trying and dating until you find the right one or like K. Samuels says, but a dog and die alone.
Beta simp is not a personality. It's a learned behavior. A guy can go from a simp to a no bullshit alpha mindset. Semen retention, working out, healthy diet, knowledge in female nature and some deep self reflection with mentors can help. The biggest problem most men have now is low testosterone levels, it's a massive problem.
@@leor4473 what you said is not even remotely true.
@@sloanmagnum5009 how is it not true?
But you did say you would do a course😂
He wants to take a course? Yeah, that’ll work.
💫
Dude seems cool to me. Just needs to find a lay-up to get over the ex.
Men are made, whereas women are just born.
To me this guest is at least a 7- and with some work he can be an 8. Good luck to all men working on themselves.
Button up your shirt buddy you're not that guy
Go make 50 million a half a year before you find a gf
😂
This guy just seeps Beta.
So I’ve watched a few of this guy’s videos over the last day or two and it seems all of his advice boils down to this…. women want rich, good-looking men. I will give him credit for figuring out a way to make money from people by telling them something that has been common knowledge for oh… I don’t know… couple thousand years maybe?
First
You only need to 'game' a low quality modern woman.
This guy was involved with a narcissist.