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  • @richcooper6527
    @richcooper6527 Год назад +18

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    • @tonyawilhour3284
      @tonyawilhour3284 Год назад

      Ha! I believe it’s a male only forum.

    • @drstevej2527
      @drstevej2527 Год назад +1

      First question is why? Who are you grandpa?

    • @drstevej2527
      @drstevej2527 Год назад

      @jim
      I’m not the one who is triggered by my inquiry. You seem to be getting emotional about my observation.

    • @drstevej2527
      @drstevej2527 Год назад

      @jim
      I don’t speak gibberish. Clearly higher education is not for everyone.

    • @drstevej2527
      @drstevej2527 Год назад

      @jim
      Remember this lesson. Don’t let yourself be triggered by a comment section.

  • @snakeeyez8955
    @snakeeyez8955 Год назад +89

    Just from my personal experience, being kind and loyal to women never got me anything.

    • @lindseyg9666
      @lindseyg9666 3 месяца назад

      well it will if you accept her post wall after her party phase, and you are a resources provider. beta male lol lol

    • @don8668
      @don8668 Месяц назад +1

      It doesn't get any guy anywhere with a woman. Even if a woman meets a kind and loyal guy, she will simply rationalize choosing the hot guy (who is none of those things) by saying the kind and loyal guy was not sincerely a kind and loyal guy.

    • @javiermorales365
      @javiermorales365 Месяц назад

      Have you ever tried a traditional woman? Or even a girl who values traditional roles? My wife is not 100% traditional but she is pretty close and it’s not perfect but she is pretty loyal.

  • @HS-tg1qx
    @HS-tg1qx 7 месяцев назад +45

    "First you get the Money...then you get the POWER...then you get the WOMEN" Tony Montana!

    • @licensedprofessional4742
      @licensedprofessional4742 7 месяцев назад

      Time to snort cocaine like a bear 🐻 and rob a bank! 😂💰💵💸🏦🏧❤🎉🤑

    • @lindseyg9666
      @lindseyg9666 3 месяца назад +2

      bingo, so correct, just get a good pre nup lol lol

    • @spacepope87
      @spacepope87 2 месяца назад +2

      Amen. Just watched it again a few nights ago.

    • @BillyCollins3
      @BillyCollins3 2 месяца назад +2

      I thought that Ellen DeGeneres said that…

  • @badass1g
    @badass1g Год назад +385

    I’m 41 my gf is 23. Best relationship I’ve had to date. It’s all about leading, allowing no BS. And letting them know your boundaries from day 1. No social media chicks for me, they always go down in flames.

    • @rambomoore381
      @rambomoore381 Год назад

      Good luck when you are 50 and she leaves your old ass for a more attractive Chad that's 30

    • @cheekymonkeygirl3378
      @cheekymonkeygirl3378 Год назад +49

      She is in it for the money! 🥱

    • @CeeTeeUSA
      @CeeTeeUSA Год назад

      My condolences. Young kids like her have little to offer outside of sex. You'll regret meeting her, mark my words..

    • @YourzzTrulyy
      @YourzzTrulyy Год назад +47

      23 and no social media? Sounds sketchy

    • @Dad_of_War
      @Dad_of_War Год назад +15

      @@cheekymonkeygirl3378 yeah, so?

  • @arnoldasbucys7786
    @arnoldasbucys7786 Год назад +106

    Sounds like the final answer is... Man with options.

  • @asmrbuddha9033
    @asmrbuddha9033 Год назад +88

    Mean = average score
    Mode = most common score
    Median = the middle score (useful when means are skewed by a small number of abnormally large or small scores)

    • @holocene.
      @holocene. Месяц назад

      Do you guys remember mean “medium” and mode? lol

  • @Krelian4400
    @Krelian4400 Год назад +343

    1. Looks
    2. Status
    3. Money.

    • @LeadLeftLeon
      @LeadLeftLeon Год назад +5

      For most guys. A small number achieve a level of status [fame/clout] that trumps their looks

    • @Krelian4400
      @Krelian4400 Год назад +15

      @@LeadLeftLeon That number is so small that it is insignificant.

    • @quincy-2000
      @quincy-2000 Год назад +7

      @@LeadLeftLeon I dunno, Danny Davito isn’t sought after by women.

    • @jdsartre9520
      @jdsartre9520 Год назад +1

      @@quincy-2000 but tom leykis was (supposedly)

    • @mbg9650
      @mbg9650 Год назад +6

      Intelligence is not required.

  • @chariotsoffire2714
    @chariotsoffire2714 Год назад +112

    The degree on the wall is about status. She wants to tell her friends you went to Harvard. You are a success object to her and she want to use that to boost her status among other women

    • @LeadLeftLeon
      @LeadLeftLeon Год назад +2

      He referenced an older study right. I don’t see any girl mention degrees on F&F.

    • @antilaw9911
      @antilaw9911 Год назад +2

      That's it in a nutshell!

    • @szn1580
      @szn1580 Год назад

      That’s true. Men are success objects. Women are sex objects. Harsh world lol

    • @lindseyg9666
      @lindseyg9666 3 месяца назад +3

      correct men see women as sx objects women see men as success objects

  • @johnmitchell2269
    @johnmitchell2269 Год назад +50

    That survey was done in 2008. Women who were 24 back then were a lot more normal and much more reasonable, I know because I too was 24 in 2008.
    I guarantee you that if you were to do the exact same survey, again in the Midwest of USA, from 107 women with a median age of 24 years, the results would be different. I'd bet most wouldn't care about a guy being potential father/parent material or liking or wanting children, because most women now won't want children. And the monetary side of the scoring would be higher than the looks and/or masculinity/physique.

    • @elsa_nyc
      @elsa_nyc Год назад +14

      And the US economy imploded in 2008 and never recovered. Earning power decreased and costs have soared. I fell awful for anyone entering the working word post 2008. You never witnessed a good economic time.

    • @danlimbaugh3629
      @danlimbaugh3629 Год назад +4

      ​@Elizabeth This is true. I'm 58 and have several friends who lost tons during that downturn. Majorities of their 401k, some lost homes they were 10-15 years into... and a few have only just recently returned to the amount of pay they were making back then. I have 4 friend that have told me "I'll never be able to retire." and it is directly because of that crash.

    • @elsa_nyc
      @elsa_nyc Год назад +3

      @@danlimbaugh3629 i understand. So tragic. One world their entire life and saves for retirement to have it all disappear through no fault of their own.

    • @Kpleaides
      @Kpleaides Год назад +1

      Absolutely spot on

    • @don8668
      @don8668 Месяц назад

      These women may not want children but many of them end up with children because of the lifestyle they are living.

  • @nordicpride9708
    @nordicpride9708 6 месяцев назад +14

    After being in the dating world for about 7 years and racking up a very high notch count, I will say it’s fleeting fun gentlemen. There are a few good women out there, but you need to master the game, get yourself squared away, and never compromise who you are as a man. There are more important things in life than the tang.

  • @Drumbeat52
    @Drumbeat52 Год назад +15

    They cheat and leave those guys also! They only accept guys off the survey when THEIR options are gone. Don't play their games. I am not looking for their approval, I decide which one of them I'll accept, PERIOD!

  • @danbaker7640
    @danbaker7640 9 месяцев назад +12

    1. Money
    2. Cash
    3. Currency

  • @TheGratefulSailor
    @TheGratefulSailor Год назад +121

    Well…I dropped out at 56, bought my yacht and have been cruising the Mediterranean for 4 years…I’m relatively wealthy by EU standards, and I’m in ‘good’ shape (for 61, the girls say my bod is a 10, compared to 35 year olds, I’m a 7). My average age woman in the past 4 years is 42…and they all have bodies of 8 to 10…and another fact: they could care less if I’m sailing away all the time. In fact, it makes me more attractive, cuz they know they don’t have to deal with me…
    So…there’s a data point for ya as you look to the future. Take good care of your body, have enough $$$ to be mobile in a healthy way…and life if fucking awesome

    • @LeadLeftLeon
      @LeadLeftLeon Год назад +4

      You’re buff guy with an interesting, fun life

    • @28pbtkh23
      @28pbtkh23 Год назад +3

      You’re living the dream! 😂😂😂

    • @rambomoore381
      @rambomoore381 Год назад +1

      Lol😂! Either liar or delusional, which one? "All" of your girls in their 40's have bodies 8-10? Lol!!! Hilarious. It's not even possible. I have seen maybe 1 42 year old in all of my life with an 8 body which is absolute best score possible for a woman that old. Keep telling yourself that.

    • @realman1349
      @realman1349 Год назад +3

      Congrats on your successful life. Where are you meeting these women?

    • @BruceLee-dp9sj
      @BruceLee-dp9sj Год назад +4

      Of course, the ladies are going to say that your dad bought is a 10 when they’re on a yacht with a guy who’s wealthy

  • @tallswede80
    @tallswede80 Год назад +76

    is it possible that women don't actually know what they want?

    • @johnmorelli3775
      @johnmorelli3775 Год назад +5

      Considering that the divorce rate (i.e., the failure rate) is ~50%, I think you have your answer.

    • @johnmorelli3775
      @johnmorelli3775 Год назад

      @6 pack 6 foot 6 figs single somehow Unfortunately for them many don't have the good looks, personality, & smarts to attract/hold such HVM.

    • @johnmorelli3775
      @johnmorelli3775 Год назад

      @6 pack 6 foot 6 figs single somehow That's the 'fallback' plan!

    • @tallswede80
      @tallswede80 Год назад

      @SleepingVenus
      i never said you were "the same"

    • @tallswede80
      @tallswede80 Год назад

      @SleepingVenus
      Not an argument. Claiming that something "must be" the case, is not an argument.

  • @jamesg1974a
    @jamesg1974a Год назад +11

    No matter what they say… Every guy knows that if you’re having a hard time, getting one, just start acting a little brash and the drought ends. In fact, you will go to abundance real quick. That’s reality.

  • @luckyjayakody
    @luckyjayakody Год назад +7

    So in nutsell, if you are tall & handome, have some solid educational qualifications, have a good income, then you are way ahead in the game.

  • @LeadLeftLeon
    @LeadLeftLeon Год назад +139

    Being understanding and nice are feminine traits. Every time a male talks about being understanding and compromising in a relationship, I’m tempted to smack him for girly behavior

    • @epicbehavior
      @epicbehavior Год назад +42

      I don’t know if you equate being “nice” with being kind, but one of the problems is that people on the internet seem to think you have two options: be nice and therefor beta, or be a dickhead and be alpha.
      The highest level is to be kind and alpha. That doesn’t mean you’re a doormat for anyone, in fact, you exert your will on the world.
      You can still treat people well. People in abundance can afford to do this.
      People need to understand nuance more.

    • @ARTDEVGRU247
      @ARTDEVGRU247 Год назад +6

      @@epicbehavior bingo

    • @LeadLeftLeon
      @LeadLeftLeon Год назад +5

      To me nice is when someone prioritizes others instead of themself. This is attractive in women but repulsive in men

    • @epicbehavior
      @epicbehavior Год назад +3

      @@LeadLeftLeon What if you could be kind and not an asshole but still always put yourself first?

    • @torferguson3866
      @torferguson3866 Год назад +1

      Compromising is a pretty grim flavor

  • @casualonemmo-player2167
    @casualonemmo-player2167 Год назад +30

    At work, the most beautifull freshly educated nurse (+ she is like 22) ive seen, all of a sudden announced she was a partner with this chad of a doctor. Not much later, they moved in together (bought a house) and got a kid. He earns like x6 of her... life is unfair :)

    • @cheekymonkeygirl3378
      @cheekymonkeygirl3378 Год назад +10

      My sister is a lawyer with a high body count and she had no choice but to settle for someone in a low hierarchy! Not all well-educated ladies are lucky in love! I have seen many Chads cheat on their wives! 😿

    • @Madcomplex
      @Madcomplex Год назад +3

      ​@@cheekymonkeygirl3378 rarely will a successful business woman date down. Rare cases but its there.

    • @Madcomplex
      @Madcomplex Год назад +1

      @@cheekymonkeygirl3378 I saw the like you took back, you learn something new everyday

    • @andrewwaters3038
      @andrewwaters3038 Год назад +3

      She will soon monkey branch and leave him for bigger and better! She will also get him for child support! He will be real smart if he don't marry her!

    • @antilaw9911
      @antilaw9911 Год назад

      They will be divorced

  • @TonyDMV
    @TonyDMV Год назад +9

    Women values degrees because of earning potential (money) and arm candy. If you have a degree in engineering, computer science, architecture or an MD, MS, JD or PhD that is arm candy at the dinner table with her parents (Rich you talked about this in your book) and when she brags to her female friends it puts her higher on the female social hierarchy. Also it supports female hypergamy educational attainment at her level or higher.

  • @chariotsoffire2714
    @chariotsoffire2714 Год назад +8

    Women not linking intelligence to income speaks more to their delusion than to their preference

  • @paulwilson7622
    @paulwilson7622 Год назад +8

    "Nice guys come last". This phrase has been around for decades and viewing this clip, it seems it is true!

  • @yasoru
    @yasoru Год назад +38

    Women aren't lying when they say kindness is an important trait they're looking for in a man, but truth is it's not hard to be kind to a woman you love. It's easy to be kind (also easy to fake being kind) and a lot of men are kind. It's not a scarce trait in men, so it's not a particularly important trait they're looking for, it's a bare necessity.

    • @craigsmith2755
      @craigsmith2755 Год назад +3

      Kindness is one step away from simping.

    • @Tgogators
      @Tgogators Год назад

      It's more likely because it's the first thing that pops in their mind when asked. Upon deeper thought (and if being honest too) they'd say things like being protected and a fun-lifestyle.

    • @Tgogators
      @Tgogators Год назад +1

      @@craigsmith2755 Being selfless for selfish reasons is simping. When the jerk does an act of kindness (picks up her drink, makes sure she gets home safe, etc) he does not expect anything in return, except a "thank you."

    • @Kpleaides
      @Kpleaides Год назад

      The red pill community teach men to treat women like shit....hence why so many single men and women.

  • @jargooey
    @jargooey Год назад +9

    I definitely prefer your videos where you cover research like this over the ones with those other guys chiming in.

  • @econdude3811
    @econdude3811 Год назад +12

    TOP THREE in no particular order cash, credit, and more of both

    • @johnpichla9557
      @johnpichla9557 Год назад +4

      🤣 once you are tapped out, they move on to the next simp.

    • @alonzoperez2470
      @alonzoperez2470 Год назад

      @@johnpichla9557 simp? You give her money and dick. You need to spend money on them bítches if you wanna keep them around.

    • @papinoo1159
      @papinoo1159 Год назад +7

      1. Money 2. More money and 3. Even more money!

    • @dylanshorrorchannel1378
      @dylanshorrorchannel1378 Год назад

      Looks are the most important.

    • @rogerbampino
      @rogerbampino Год назад

      Not if you are Chad. You could be living on a sofa in a dumpster apartment and she would still smash.

  • @vzlano34
    @vzlano34 8 месяцев назад +6

    I just finished reading your book. How is that I didn’t come across your content 10 years ago. Excellent material. Thank you

  • @taylorman40x9
    @taylorman40x9 Год назад +6

    Money, money, and more money.

  • @realman1349
    @realman1349 Год назад +30

    It would be interesting to do a more in-depth study comparing what women say they want versus what they actually want, as demonstrated through their actions. What is expressed in a survey probably doesn’t necessarily match true intentions, although surveys are probably more accurate than what they tell people in person given the relative anonymity.

    • @gottiducati
      @gottiducati Год назад +1

      I agree even then they would lie about certain things as slit shaming is still a thing in their mind

    • @Tgogators
      @Tgogators Год назад +1

      It's similar to an anon (but verified) survey of women who were asked their deepest sexual fantasies: against the hypothesis, it was things like being gangbanged, having sex while others watch, having an experimental bi-encounter, being blind-folded by their partner and doing *whatever* he wants (really that sense of trust and relaxation).

    • @joerabid8313
      @joerabid8313 9 месяцев назад

      Their actions always speak louder than words.

  • @1stdraft611
    @1stdraft611 Год назад +6

    Good to see ya grinding. I'm busy being a welder in training and have two jobs. Getting out of debt this year. I'm not even bothering to date until I move out of state.

  • @Fife_knight
    @Fife_knight Год назад +11

    You better get the most out of your potential, make money, get in shape and do as you please. Don't aim to please these women.

    • @johnmorelli3775
      @johnmorelli3775 Год назад +2

      That is what I eventually did. I went my own way, did my own thing, didn't waste time, money & energy on women.
      Dated rarely and only if I thought the lady was very very interesting, special.

    • @EyeoftheTiger1031
      @EyeoftheTiger1031 4 месяца назад

      Preach! 👏🏻

  • @samjon6403
    @samjon6403 Год назад +24

    I agree with everything. I'm 6'3 built-in masculine with two degrees and a high paying job. I get chased by women even though they are aware I'm a loyal virtuous husband of four kids.

    • @jdsartre9520
      @jdsartre9520 Год назад +3

      "with two degrees"
      Ha. Like they care about your degrees.

    • @samjon6403
      @samjon6403 Год назад

      @@jdsartre9520 earnings potential

    • @DJCloroxx
      @DJCloroxx Год назад +3

      Chased even though your loyal, or BECAUSE you are?

    • @samjon6403
      @samjon6403 Год назад +2

      @@DJCloroxx hahaha

    • @dwdwone
      @dwdwone Год назад +3

      Who wants a woman who would break up a marriage?

  • @lestendsouza9395
    @lestendsouza9395 Год назад +39

    Rich is Top G

    • @prodigym
      @prodigym Год назад +2

      OG Top G

    • @sethpawlik
      @sethpawlik Год назад +1

      Top G is in jail in Romania.

  • @rickytherrien
    @rickytherrien Год назад +3

    There's one flaw on you're rule.Even at 40 year's old with a nice shape,symmetry and jaw line; as a alpha male,i don't want another children anymore with a beautyful women younger(23 years old) than me...cause i become automatically a provider and eventually became a beta male.

  • @joevaccaro6655
    @joevaccaro6655 Год назад +6

    10:39 😂…Rich, thanks for uploading this content and love what you do. 💯

  • @hoodoooperator.5197
    @hoodoooperator.5197 Год назад +5

    Intelligence and "Having a Degree" do not necessarily go hand in hand, believe me. I used two work for 2 PhD and and one MSc Chemists. They knew chemistry, but they were SO EFFING DUMB when it came to business and social matters.

    • @Andrew-iq5ud
      @Andrew-iq5ud 2 месяца назад

      Every single one of my phd coworkers took the covid vax. Several are dead many are sick

  • @mindpoacher4732
    @mindpoacher4732 Год назад +2

    My neighbor is very attractive and she has a boyfriend who is a former guess model , she pays for everything. Im not joking when i say he's dumber than a sack of rocks. one time she needed help with her car and asked if I could help her out.
    When i finshed helping her the next day her boyfriend thanked me and was amazed i could fix the issue. I laughed and told him he's the male version of a blonde bimbo.
    She's finally tried of him and is now letting me She's interested in me.
    This guy has got the looks but that's about it im just very surprised she has stayed with
    as long as she has.

  • @howardmallisonii503
    @howardmallisonii503 Год назад +5

    Nothing matters except what they can take as cash and prizes...

  • @SaulHaro
    @SaulHaro Год назад +25

    I hate those kinds of survey, because people (especially women) tend to lie so they can appease their conscience or ego. Its better to ask more measurable things. How many men have you slept with in the last 3/5/10 months/years? How many of them have been 1/2/5/n years older younger than you? Do you work? How much do you earn? What kind of job had your previous partners? How many of them were fit? Had you cheated? Been cheated on? How many times?
    These kind of questions are more likely to be answered sincerely (and more accurate).

    • @LeadLeftLeon
      @LeadLeftLeon Год назад +1

      In other words measure their actions instead of their words

    • @apontutul
      @apontutul Год назад +4

      Why would they answer those questions truthfully either?

    • @renegadezen7841
      @renegadezen7841 Год назад

      Correct. And haven't we all learned by now what women *say* is completely irrelevant

    • @SaulHaro
      @SaulHaro Год назад

      @@apontutul they wouldn't, but it's easier to find inconsistencies. Plus, if you "ask correctly" people tend to answer more trustworthy.

    • @damascus6480
      @damascus6480 7 месяцев назад

      Chances are If they have a high body count they aren’t gonna be honest with you

  • @w60496
    @w60496 Год назад +4

    Earning potential is more corelated to risk taking behavior and discipline upbringing than intelligence in my opinion. It doent take an incredible amount if intellect to understand the rules of the game.

  • @brentkindle6058
    @brentkindle6058 5 месяцев назад +1

    Sorry Rich gotta disagree with you on this one. The top three things women want are the following: MONEY, MONEY, MONEY

    • @linkbelt111
      @linkbelt111 5 месяцев назад

      Correct, and those women have little to offer.

  • @Wookinpanub235
    @Wookinpanub235 2 месяца назад +1

    To be honest .
    My criteria for women would be :
    1. Attractiveness, not so much stunning good looks but a fit figure- takes care of herself.
    2. History. Does she have tons of baggage, body count ,
    Does she work and is financially secure in her own?
    Baby daddy’s?, et, etc.
    3.Values, morals, opinions for cohesiveness.
    These are just intitial criteria.
    For ling term relationship she would have to be a team player with mutual respect, appreciation , loyalty and trust.

  • @Kipoltious
    @Kipoltious Год назад +20

    You would think loyalty would be high up there. Why would you even want to be with someone that may 'swap you for someone else at first opportunity? Maybe it is because they are not loyal themselves?

    • @imageword5576
      @imageword5576 Год назад +4

      I don't think the score means they don't want to be with someone loyal. It's just not AS important as the other things that scored higher.

    • @LatimusChadimus
      @LatimusChadimus Год назад +1

      Women will look past certain things for other things, which is why loyalty was not as important to them. Like Rich always says, you can do anything you want to a woman but bore them

    • @Kipoltious
      @Kipoltious Год назад +2

      I do see what you are saying (that of the list that was least important), but without loyalty/trust, what do you really have? I feel like that should be the foundation you build on instead of an added perk.

    • @LeadLeftLeon
      @LeadLeftLeon Год назад +1

      they don’t admit that male faithfulness is unimportant in fear of being seen as promiscuous

    • @thoughtfulalbatros9683
      @thoughtfulalbatros9683 Год назад

      Women are loyal af… just not to men
      They’re loyal to themselves, their kids, family, friends and maybe to you for as long as it suits them but then that’s not really loyalty is it ;)

  • @sarah.j.777
    @sarah.j.777 2 месяца назад +1

    lol you know what every attractive woman wants? do you not realize women are individuals??

    • @don8668
      @don8668 Месяц назад

      All women say that but all women want pretty much the same things and behave pretty much the same way to get those things. Women only change when their options start to dwindle.

  • @scottgaylon1196
    @scottgaylon1196 Год назад +2

    Not at all surprising. Don't know why Rich called out the wahmen who say they want nice, understanding men. Yeah , they want a sweet, romantic, loyal, attentive man...but only after he is already hot and wealthy. If your not tall, dark and handsome, you are invisible. We know this.

  • @parshath5819
    @parshath5819 Год назад +2

    12:40 so I just need too look sexy, have a degree and have the potential too make alot of money and woamen will trow themselves at me noted.

  • @cheekymonkeygirl3378
    @cheekymonkeygirl3378 Год назад +6

    Rich, I adore your videos! ❤

  • @ColtonRDean
    @ColtonRDean Год назад +2

    Above all, women want a man with status that can elevate her status. Status is relative to culture.

  • @ArizonaVideo99
    @ArizonaVideo99 Год назад +2

    The intelligence V having as degree is simple to see why. Most woman think they are the smart ones just didn't get a degree. Having one for a man is proof of being successful so they can name drop it with their friends.

  • @tonyawilhour3284
    @tonyawilhour3284 Год назад +6

    I’m way too old but I think I can safely say the ability to make money is pretty much #1 because without that ability, there is no valuable woman that would consider a man. otherwise . Looks is difficult because what’s “ good looking” to females depends on what an individual finds physically attractive… have you ever heard the saying, “beauty is in the eye of the beholder”? There have been MANY MEN that I personally have found NOT ATTRACTIVE at first glance but after getting to know them, or see the type of person they are, I’ve done a total 360! Using Rich as an example… he’s not really what some attractive women would, at first glance, find to be eye catching, but after you hear his voice, how deep, manly, and discern how alpha he is, and confident, decisive…. Then he’s totally HOT! I just don’t want some men out there thinking they have to have the physical appearance of a model looking man to get a woman because that’s totally not the case for most women. People look totally different once you get to know them.

    • @LeadLeftLeon
      @LeadLeftLeon Год назад +3

      Beauty is part objective and part subjective. A borderline dwarf of either gender won’t be as attractive to most people as a regular sized individual. Being fit trumps being skinny fat

    • @swayp5715
      @swayp5715 Год назад

      Thanks.

    • @Tgogators
      @Tgogators Год назад

      Along with it being subjective, nearly everyone takes looks into an account to an extent (guys and girls). I have met a handful of women who proclaimed looks didnt really matter, but that is more of a minority. Everything costs money, thus money=security & power. Turn the tables, look at young women from wealthy families (not all), and they're attractive: they're brutal to men. Just like some millionaire rockstars are proud womanizers.

    • @Kpleaides
      @Kpleaides Год назад

      So true

  • @Patrick.Warrior
    @Patrick.Warrior 7 месяцев назад +1

    Mid way through the video: Looks, money and status.
    They want you to be physically aesthetic, carry yourself a certain way while being surrounded by a network that matters, have the ability to problem solve and make money.
    In summary, provide, protect and bring the excitement along with a valuable status...
    You're in for plenty of attention from women.

  • @jamalclark7379
    @jamalclark7379 Год назад +2

    Being nice understanding and loyal don’t matter until you’re between another woman’s legs then it matters

  • @dcweber1
    @dcweber1 4 дня назад

    Rich enjoying your channel.
    I like to say I'm 5' 7". I would've bet $50 that male height is in the top 3 out of 10 for female requirements. And furthermore I would speculate that height trumps attractiveness, hygiene, intelligence, communication skills and financial success.
    Not to seem bitter, but in my next life I'll be 6 foot two ;-) :-) .

  • @bimerev
    @bimerev Год назад +1

    Inteligence doesn't necessary corelate with earnings. Because is rarely used with maximum potential as it should be... because of lack of confedent...

  • @Brad-t7e
    @Brad-t7e Месяц назад

    That's why the divorce rate is so high. They say one thing in a survey like this. They get what they ask for and end up being unhappy and getting a divorce. What a bunch of knuckleheads.

  • @craiglakin-ck5ow
    @craiglakin-ck5ow 9 месяцев назад +1

    Have a relationship if you want, just remember it can end, make provision

  • @s.c.6367
    @s.c.6367 Год назад +1

    sad statistics,very hard to follow this video. I had to keep remembering that these people are 24 and 25 years old that is what’s wrong with society and it’s getting worse virtue means nothing materialism and looks mean everything😂 what a sad case. Thank you

  • @dangersmymiddlename6341
    @dangersmymiddlename6341 8 месяцев назад +1

    I have seen that when you drink a Dos Equis, beautiful women will throw themselves at you. How did that not make the list?
    Stay thirsty my friends.” 🍺

  • @peplsuk7635
    @peplsuk7635 Год назад +1

    Money, Thing's that money buy's, & other guy's, whether you know about it or not. Stop Lying to Yourselves.

  • @BlackMan614
    @BlackMan614 Год назад +1

    Money, money and more money.

  • @Tbh-ww3vm
    @Tbh-ww3vm 6 месяцев назад +1

    I know
    Money
    Money and finally money lol

  • @Tigornable
    @Tigornable 11 месяцев назад +1

    Piece of paper at a certain prestige university is more about status. Don't think beautiful women could care less about intelligence. They just need someone that can produce enough for them. If not, they think they can move onto greener pastures.

  • @lincolnlawyer9704
    @lincolnlawyer9704 4 месяца назад

    I’m pretty sure woman under thirty don’t find guys that sport a full grey bread like Rich’s very attractive. The coke bottle glasses don’t do it either. Make you look old buddy!

  • @patmagic3301
    @patmagic3301 Год назад +1

    Post wall, completely different. Case in point, sister and nephew. My sister was married to a guy who completely let himself go but had status in the church and money. He died and she married another out of shape guy who had diabetic problems and was even an amputee, but, he had more money and status in their circle. Nephew is out of shape and looks very much like his father, big belly but but makes bank, super model wife. Money and status past 30 and they’ll leave you if you don’t have it. Agree, can’t be nice and thoughtful. I have beautiful wife (not on paper) I’ve done less nice guy stuff than in any other relationship and we’re going on 17 years. Let them complain, let them stew but don’t do anything beyond what you want. Seriously, your odds are better.

  • @the_unplugged_dude
    @the_unplugged_dude Год назад +1

    I consider myself a highly intelligent person but I earn shit. Depends on the business.

  • @kroan49
    @kroan49 Год назад

    Awesome clip! I'm gonna share this with several people I know.

  • @LABoyko
    @LABoyko Год назад +1

    Outliers can distort average, but mean is impervious to outliers. That's why they use it.

  • @GeorgeW-t6u
    @GeorgeW-t6u Год назад +1

    He talks too much.

  • @dynamicwellness33
    @dynamicwellness33 Год назад +1

    Massive contradiction in the study.
    Why would women want a guy that desires a family and kids, which scored high in the study. While at the same time wanting a guy with low loyalty and devotion? Makes no sense…

  • @debunkinghistory214
    @debunkinghistory214 Год назад +1

    I missed the part where it's worth it to deal with all these demands. I've been with hot women, I know what a hot body looks like naked, if there's no deeper connection the excitement wears off after a few lays.

  • @laurynspears4671
    @laurynspears4671 Год назад +3

    Well the ladies have spoken 😂

  • @kenlandon7803
    @kenlandon7803 8 месяцев назад

    Earning potential means more money, smarts means they can't be manipulated as easily. Hence, earning trumps smarts!

    • @Furfire
      @Furfire 7 месяцев назад

      Interesting theory. My theory is that women just assume intelligent men are sexually unattractive by default, so they automatically rate it lower

  • @johnnynitro7523
    @johnnynitro7523 Год назад +4

    In the 80s...it was..
    1. Looks
    2. Money
    3. Cocaine..... ah.. the good ol days.. 😎😎

  • @Tyler-wl8kq
    @Tyler-wl8kq 8 месяцев назад +1

    Shocker ! Women themselves don’t even know what draws them in

  • @eugenemichael2362
    @eugenemichael2362 7 месяцев назад +1

    Money-money did I mention money

  • @hwy1310
    @hwy1310 Год назад +3

    I’m 55 and had a 20 year old ask me for my number…..had to throw that one back, although flattering….

    • @LeadLeftLeon
      @LeadLeftLeon Год назад

      Do average [5s & 6s] 20 year old girls become more appealing as you get closer & closer to 60?

    • @hwy1310
      @hwy1310 Год назад

      @@LeadLeftLeon she was more like an 8, and as I said, I “threw that one back”. A fishing analogy

    • @jdsartre9520
      @jdsartre9520 Год назад

      teach me your ways

    • @oemj7147
      @oemj7147 Год назад

      @@jdsartre9520 You didn't actually believe that story, right? Half of the people on ytube claim they look 15-20 years younger and although they are middle age, they are desired by people 25 years younger. Take a look around, you can see that's a fantasy.

    • @jebediahnightlinger6357
      @jebediahnightlinger6357 Год назад

      @@jdsartre9520 go back to dating your ex wife.

  • @Handle6278
    @Handle6278 Год назад +2

    This is why I never say I'm a nice man. I always say I'm a good man. I'm kind when I need to, not so much understanding. But the difference is big.

    • @West1010
      @West1010 20 дней назад +1

      Agreed. You want to be generally kind but never nice. Big difference between the two, at least to my definition.

  • @1simo93521
    @1simo93521 Год назад

    Kind, understanding and intelligent won't save her from a tiger...
    They want a fierce warrior.

  • @davestevens4193
    @davestevens4193 3 месяца назад +1

    Straight cash homie

  • @IronBadger76
    @IronBadger76 25 дней назад

    Money, attention and even more attention ! Lets see if I was right😂

  • @chrisblack3952
    @chrisblack3952 3 месяца назад

    Just spin plates. Develop an abundance mentality. Work on yourself. I have 4 plates, that is too many already. And so many more “leads” waiting. Have fun. Don’t take dating seriously. I’m 43 and divorced. Plate age ranges are 30 to 40. Listen to advice given on this channel. What you resist, persists.

  • @sarrjel
    @sarrjel 7 месяцев назад

    The study sounds like a beautiful woman’s list for the perfect German Shepherd or Golden Retriever.

  • @LeadLeftLeon
    @LeadLeftLeon Год назад +4

    Valuing a degree over effective smarts shows how sheepish women are hah

  • @alexagates
    @alexagates Год назад

    I hear where you’re coming from but these were broken up into categories! unless they asked all of these questions to the women in an uncategorized and randomized way and the researchers later categorized the answers and scores as they saw fit, then it’s not fair to make the argument that sex appeal ranks above such and such other stuff. The kindness one being low - in its category - shows me that women put a man being good to their kids above that man being kind to them, not wise in my opinion but selfless like a mother would typically be. I don’t think women are saying sex appeal trumps allllll the other stuff that scored lower; I think it means within that category of questions, it ranked the highest. And that should make men feel good - looks ranked a bit lower than sex appeal, confidence, etc.

  • @karenoyama8950
    @karenoyama8950 Год назад +12

    I may be abnormal, but, speaking from experience, all the money in the world, sex appeal and financial resources do not surpass a man of high character. Because, with this virtue, all will be enough! ❤

  • @g-man3093
    @g-man3093 7 месяцев назад

    Anybody think intelligence was low because beautiful women don’t need that to succeed, don’t want to feel dumb by comparison, and worry the guy might get bored and leave.

  • @billb89
    @billb89 7 месяцев назад +1

    1. Money 2. More money 3. Even more money

  • @Elonmuskateer
    @Elonmuskateer 2 месяца назад

    Can we have what men find attractive now please?

  • @venusmeetsmarz734
    @venusmeetsmarz734 Год назад +7

    Kindness and intelligence are traits they desire from men they’re already attracted to.

    • @johnmorelli3775
      @johnmorelli3775 Год назад

      .....too late!

    • @Tgogators
      @Tgogators Год назад

      That's what they study is really saying: It's ranking to what comes highest priority, the the bottom traits matter too and serve as a bonus. Women do tend to look at potential romantic relationships like they do jobs, they look at it the whole package (Remember in elementary where girls would write out comparison charts of boys they had crushes on??? "Job...Car...".

  • @redrabbit5664
    @redrabbit5664 Год назад +2

    This is me of my favorite videos of all time- so telling

  • @dangersmymiddlename6341
    @dangersmymiddlename6341 8 месяцев назад

    👨🏻‍🎨 You cannot argue with emotions. You can accept them for what they are or leave the room. Elvis left the building to live in his world, not their’s.

  • @pugsymalone6539
    @pugsymalone6539 Месяц назад

    1. Money.
    2. More money.
    3. Different money.

  • @JoseRodriguez-c2x6n
    @JoseRodriguez-c2x6n Месяц назад

    3 things that women want. 1 money 2 money 3 money

  • @ericpitsenberger3134
    @ericpitsenberger3134 6 месяцев назад

    Good looking woman in America are shallow!

  • @stevegrantland1201
    @stevegrantland1201 4 месяца назад +1

    Being kind and understanding - survey ranked lowest. (TOP BETA QUALITIES!)

  • @lakshminarayanan-ls5fz
    @lakshminarayanan-ls5fz 8 месяцев назад +1

    My hot wife chose me for my looks and wanted only kids with me just to dump me after the job is done!

    • @don8668
      @don8668 Месяц назад

      If we are being honest, that is what most women want. They want to have children with the strongest and best-looking men and have the richest men (who they really do not want to have sex with) take care of them afterwards. Even worse, they will go back to hot guys for the occasional fling while the rich husband is taking of them (but will still try to avoid any sex with the rich husband). I believe all women are hardwired to behave this way. Only societal judgment and shame prevent all women from acting this way. As I heard a long time ago (and again recently), just accept women for who they are.

  • @jonwilkinson7695
    @jonwilkinson7695 2 месяца назад

    I wonder what the mid women would say.

  • @ChinaConsultingTravelBlog
    @ChinaConsultingTravelBlog 7 месяцев назад +4

    My wife is Chinese. In China the concept of "Face" is huge. She always says that I am her face. Being able to provide and have multiple options is what women want from a man.

  • @tallswede80
    @tallswede80 Год назад +1

    is the scale 0-4 or 0-.4?

  • @mainrig4981
    @mainrig4981 Год назад

    inteligente with earnig potential........no.Rapper.Head mob.gangsta.pirate.vampire.beast with a castle.....quick money in an exciting adrenalin rushing drama way

  • @victorboone2053
    @victorboone2053 Год назад +1

    Real shit! I have to unlearn and regroup

  • @MaxIgnoramus
    @MaxIgnoramus 9 месяцев назад

    How does a man cultivate sex appeal? I believe this is the one thing I'm lacking that is really letting me down. I think have most everything else but Im not sure how to do sex appeal