ENTJ female here. Great video. Took me forever to accept a relationship with my boyfriend bc I’m so analytical. But now that we’re together, he makes me laugh and relax. He also knows how to playfully tease me which I like 😏
S Lines Thank you that’s so great to hear and I appreciate you liking my video 😊. In some ways it’s good that you’re analytical because you took the time to look at him objectively before falling in love. I wish you much success in your relationship.
Odell Hea, I know from my experience and observation, I don't have the conversation "are we an item?". With relationships, I display my feelings with my time, attention, resources, respect, and vulnerability. Due to ENTJ s extreme loyalty, and typically our dedication to honesty, we tend to think this is enough. Typically, if this clarification is necessary, it is due to miscommunication or insecurity. I hope that this helps you out. Feel free to shoot me any other questions. 🙏🏽
Fckya Feelingz I talked on the phone for 6 months and we never dated We talked on the phone every weekend anywhere from 8 to 24 hours but I was in a space where I didn’t want to date so I was looking at it as friendship but then I fell for him and when I started to want to date again he got mad but he didn’t do anything so I don’t understand
I'm an ENTJ trying to break the relationship. Well I don't love him like he does, but I also feel sad that I hurt him. However, I stay strict to the end. You don't believe me, but I've made a calendar to the date I'm gonna finish it all (we're in the process of deciding) and I check the days off everyday:| Just can't wait to finish this goal-less relationship which has a really emotional guy in it. I'm really sad though, wish I've never started this.
Fatemeh Hoseyni I understand. Breaking up with someone is sooooooooooo hard! I admire your courage and I think it’s good that you have compassion for him too because he’s going to hurt a lot. But I guess that’s why they wrote the saying “all is fair in love and war“ because when it comes to love you have to go with your heart and free him so you can both find the person you’re truly meant to be with. I wish you well.
How do I know that an ENTJ girl is interested in me? Because I'm getting confused by the one I'm crushing on...I even wrote her a letter telling her I liked her and she wrote one back that she doesn't feel the same saying that we are better as friends, even though we have similar interests and my intuition keeps telling me she likes me
Prayer Black Very interesting scenario. I can think of one marriage that wasn’t successful and it ended with a lot of arguing-the Infp male was not intimidated at all. I think the relationship was GREAT for the first few years and it could have been successful but the ENTJ female had unresolved issues from her past that crept up and she cheated. I think anything is possible. I think a good relationship is built on respect and understanding and acceptance of who someone is.
@@TamsPsychAdvice Thanks, It's Wise To Accept The Faults Of Others As Romantic Prospects; I Will Always Remember This 👆🏼 Some Issues Are Against My Morals To Personally Deal With
Odell Hea I slightly disagree with you. It depends on the person. I actually had a boyfriend who was an ENTJ who was very upfront about what he wanted so I didn’t feel dragged along at all. He made me feel very secure in the relationship. However, I know someone right now who is dating one and he seems very commitment phobic but that is probably due to his past experiences. It’s always hard when a relationship doesn’t work out the way we want it to. It’s so hurtful and it’s hard not to long for that person. It’s hard to MoveOn. But there’s someone better out there for you Who is going to be a much better connection for you- I just feel it! He is going to treat you so well, he will protect you and look out for you and want to have fun with you and be your best friend and comfort you and put a smile on your face every day. That guy would not have made you happy in the long run 🏃🏽 because he wasn’t ready. I think there’s someone else who you are going to connect with (if you can find the strength to open up) and you are going to be so so so happy. Keep working on you and what you want in your life. Find some fun hobbies that you can do so that when you meet Mr. right you will have lots to share with him!
I love being an ENTJ!!!
Yup, I’m very forward when it comes to matters of the heart. ❤️
ENTJ female here. Great video. Took me forever to accept a relationship with my boyfriend bc I’m so analytical. But now that we’re together, he makes me laugh and relax. He also knows how to playfully tease me which I like 😏
S Lines Thank you that’s so great to hear and I appreciate you liking my video 😊. In some ways it’s good that you’re analytical because you took the time to look at him objectively before falling in love. I wish you much success in your relationship.
I'm after an ENTJ girl. May I ask you for some advice?
Javier Villar Yes, fire away.
ENTJ female and ya damn right bout me! I'm driven take no shit, a smidge controlling blah blah blah. Intellectual stimulation is a MUST for me
Love 💕 it!
As an ENTJ male, this is spot on. Touché 🙏🏽
Fckya Feelingz why do you all take so long to peruse ?
Odell Hea, I know from my experience and observation, I don't have the conversation "are we an item?". With relationships, I display my feelings with my time, attention, resources, respect, and vulnerability. Due to ENTJ s extreme loyalty, and typically our dedication to honesty, we tend to think this is enough. Typically, if this clarification is necessary, it is due to miscommunication or insecurity. I hope that this helps you out. Feel free to shoot me any other questions. 🙏🏽
Fckya Feelingz I talked on the phone for 6 months and we never dated We talked on the phone every weekend anywhere from 8 to 24 hours but I was in a space where I didn’t want to date so I was looking at it as friendship but then I fell for him and when I started to want to date again he got mad but he didn’t do anything so I don’t understand
Fckya Feelingz thank you for responding
ditto for female ENTJ 👍🏻
I'm an ENTJ trying to break the relationship. Well I don't love him like he does, but I also feel sad that I hurt him. However, I stay strict to the end. You don't believe me, but I've made a calendar to the date I'm gonna finish it all (we're in the process of deciding) and I check the days off everyday:| Just can't wait to finish this goal-less relationship which has a really emotional guy in it. I'm really sad though, wish I've never started this.
Fatemeh Hoseyni I understand. Breaking up with someone is sooooooooooo hard! I admire your courage and I think it’s good that you have compassion for him too because he’s going to hurt a lot. But I guess that’s why they wrote the saying “all is fair in love and war“ because when it comes to love you have to go with your heart and free him so you can both find the person you’re truly meant to be with. I wish you well.
@@TamsPsychAdvice Thank you for your kind words, it made me calm in this hard period of life💚
please do an Entj Intp in a relationship video
Harsh and cold? We don’t mean it like that. -ENTJ female
as an ENTJ, i suggest you buy a microphone it will be better for us and you too.
Super helpful
Love these please do more videos yayyy
Odell Hea I sure will! Thanks for sharing with me what you like 😄
How do I know that an ENTJ girl is interested in me? Because I'm getting confused by the one I'm crushing on...I even wrote her a letter telling her I liked her and she wrote one back that she doesn't feel the same saying that we are better as friends, even though we have similar interests and my intuition keeps telling me she likes me
If she says she doesn’t like you, she doesn’t. We’re honest. But we might like your attention and being flirtatious. - ENTJ female
I'm sure she's serious when she said that to you so it's better to be friends.
Female entj here. You won't be confused if she's interested.
@@SomeGal yeah that's a no from me then...I dislike people who use me for attention
@@Neson.Services she blocked me a few months after we stopped talking...does that factor change your answer?
yess love it :)
TinyLoaf96 Thanks so much! It means a lot to me.
Ever Encountered A Healthy Relationahip Where The ENTJ Female Is The Submissive One With Her INFP Male Partner?
Prayer Black Very interesting scenario. I can think of one marriage that wasn’t successful and it ended with a lot of arguing-the Infp male was not intimidated at all. I think the relationship was GREAT for the first few years and it could have been successful but the ENTJ female had unresolved issues from her past that crept up and she cheated. I think anything is possible. I think a good relationship is built on respect and understanding and acceptance of who someone is.
@@TamsPsychAdvice Thanks, It's Wise To Accept The Faults Of Others As Romantic Prospects; I Will Always Remember This 👆🏼 Some Issues Are Against My Morals To Personally Deal With
ENTJ submissive?! 😂
I cant see an entj being submissive in general 😆
But they take too long
Odell Hea I slightly disagree with you. It depends on the person. I actually had a boyfriend who was an ENTJ who was very upfront about what he wanted so I didn’t feel dragged along at all. He made me feel very secure in the relationship. However, I know someone right now who is dating one and he seems very commitment phobic but that is probably due to his past experiences. It’s always hard when a relationship doesn’t work out the way we want it to. It’s so hurtful and it’s hard not to long for that person. It’s hard to MoveOn. But there’s someone better out there for you Who is going to be a much better connection for you- I just feel it! He is going to treat you so well, he will protect you and look out for you and want to have fun with you and be your best friend and comfort you and put a smile on your face every day. That guy would not have made you happy in the long run 🏃🏽 because he wasn’t ready. I think there’s someone else who you are going to connect with (if you can find the strength to open up) and you are going to be so so so happy. Keep working on you and what you want in your life. Find some fun hobbies that you can do so that when you meet Mr. right you will have lots to share with him!
Tams PsychAdvice yes I’m with someone new now but I was wondering I left him when I learned he believed in 50/50 but I’m still curious