My opinion as an INFJ: You are enjoyable to listen to, you are comfortable. I can see how you make such a good friend to these types. You are very much likable.
the 12ish min mark made me laugh because it's true. as an INFJ especially a male when people meet me they tend to instantly trust and wanna talk to me. It's like I attract them with some kinda magic people wanna say hi to me everyday and see what I'm up to even if I don't really want them to but then again that might be because I'm currently emotionally stressed and trying to shut down to recuperate and they aren't letting me lol. Hilariously tho on opposite end of things I find online dating or anything that takes away the face to face interaction removes that magic and I become quite boring and ordinary on first glance and get overlooked until we meet in person.
Fe is crippled by non-physical presence. So many Fe cues aren't in the words but how they are said and the body language accompanying. Text communication annoys me for this reason too, though it obviously annoys you more with Fe a slot ahead of where I have it.
I'm an Infj woman married to an entp man. Although life has its many struggles, like dishes. I would have to say it's the most loving and the closest relationship I've ever had with anyone.
Beautiful explanations that reveal so much. Beautiful revelations that explain so much. So much of what? So much of the heart of the matter. I wonder what you have to say about the friendship potential of the dominant axis of one person matching with the middle axis of another person, compared to the sharing of the middle axis? Like a Ti Fe dom relationship with a Ti Fe middle function? And then would the order of the functions have an important impact? Intriguing stuff to consider.
this was pretty good thanks, grounding, like it brought things into focus and down to earth which is incredibly helpful for the ethereal I find myself floating in mentally a lot of times.
I appreciated your comments on INFJ's and found my self nodding along until you got to the end with your relationship recommendations. An INFJ's deepest desire in a relationship is to have regular, high quality conceptual conversations and that is just not going to happen with an S type. I have ISFJ friends and we get along nicely, but they will never know me intimately and every single one of them watches shit like The Voice. I gravitate to INTJ males. There are challenges there, but I'm up to it. Especially if he's a sexy scientist like Jeremy Wade;) I'd like to consider ENTP or ENFP, but it has to be an N type. Absolutely.
Adding to the idea of INFJ and an INTJ pairing, I would say the more mature each individual is, the more possible a successful relationship is. Maybe there's something to maturity playing a big role in compatibility?
ENTP and INFJ is an excellent pairing in my opinion. However, I think ENTP males do best with ISFJ females, because we want to be nurtured and coddled some.
I think you are right. Maturity plays a huge role because I think people become more broadly compatible as they grow older and internalize acceptance of more clumsy parts of themselves.
I think I heard at the end that you suggested mates for both INFJ and ESFJ. Here might be a crazy one for you: I am INFJ ( done the test/quiz over 10 times and comes out the same all the time). My husband is ESFJ. I will honestly say that we don't 100% get along but I do respect him. We have a five year old son. He's a good father. Why do you say INFJ and ESFJ are not compatible? Although I will tell you, I really don't think we are.
+skippyjomo32 Well, I think it's a judgment/control thing. INFJ will allow herself to be controlled by the emotions of the other more than she really likes or wants to. Simultaneously, the INFJ's egalitarian concern for goodness and truth runs afoul of anything that might be deemed "judgmental." ESFJ, meanwhile, has a script of how everyone ought to behave, and it's shaped by the desire for harmonious cooperation. It will express itself often in good and helpful ways, but depending on the perspective of the person being assisted, these can also be perceived as judgmental and controlling. How well INFJ and ESFJ balance that axis is the key to how well they get along. That's my analysis anyways. Thanks for the great question. If I weren't "going dark" this week, I'd totally have made a video about it.
I would very much appreciate a video on this. If that I can ask, what is your area of study? Are you a PhD or masters component of psychology or something of the like? Do tell. I will say, my INFJ sense has me nose diving into all this MBTI stuff and only coming up for air every so often. Possibly the "passionate" point of myself? I just binge on this shit. It's weird. More a "self discovery" component, I would like to think. I'm actually in therapy and can appreciate the "self awareness" component of it all. Of course, my ESFJ thinks therapy is ridiculous. Wants to know what the "means to the end" is. Well, that in itself is a good question.
+skippyjomo32 I have no training or expertise. I'm just some random dude making shit up. Which, to my mind, makes me more well trained than psychologists. But then again, I am an ENTP ;-)
Hello Floki :) ruclips.net/video/lOKqjhpfeAI/видео.html @1:55 Ni is actually suppressed Ne. Ne taken under control. Whatever a Ne-dom says out loudly, Ni-dom thinks on the inside thru his/her inner voice. Dominant Ne's suppression (compression) into Ni feels to me like this: ruclips.net/video/IddNePW8xU0/видео.html The suppression mechanism as pointed out in the abovegiven video is an armor/constraint. That armour is 'the superego', represented as Ni, which gives Ne focus and discipline. However it also restricts flexibility, is heavy and feels like a prison. It is also noteworthy to mention that Ni-dom develops shadow dominant Ne function as they age and Ne-dom develops shadow Ni. (Ne-doms becomes more disciplined, Ni-dom becomes more spontaneous. In other words, Ni-dom develops more id and relaxes superego restraint and Ne-dom develops more superego to counter his out-of-control id) @4:35 Ni converges into a singularity like a black hole, Ne multiplies into several branches like a lightning, like a pulsar. @9:25 Se is animalist/primal attitude. It acts like a beast (whereas Te acts more like a machine). Se gauges other 'animals' in the environment to assess their hierarchy wrt to the individual, assess their threat level. Like I can beat this one, I should run away from this one etc. @10:10 It is hard to not go down to Se when one lives in a Se-dominant society. I am heavily working out and running to hopefully bring Se under control. When I go down to Se, it triggers conflict and fight/flight mode in me. So I want to develop it so that it gets triggered less often. When it gets triggered, I get enraged and wanna swear, yell and cuss at the person in front of me. Like this: ruclips.net/video/lKaw5SjeHx0/видео.html @12:45 Se doms and Se aux types hate my guts. Their inferiority complexes get triggered around me and they get jealous of me and therefore, act in a mean way to make feel bad about myself. So not everybody likes INFJs. Would that mean Si-dom and Si-aux people (males?) would also hate your guts? @13:45 what do you mean by "the solution is to be discovered by them"? @14:25 Ni conveges/compresses things into singularity (obsessions)? I've met an ENTP (I guess) girl and I liked her very much (because I felt relaxed around her, the flow of conversation was very easy and natural) and wanted to live happily with her ever after, yet she did not want to get in a relationship with me, cause I did not believe in the prevailing religion in my country and she has recently developed a belief in it (so as to bring her impulsive behaviour under control I believe) and wanted a believer for a husband. So we parted ways. Does inferior Si cause such an attitude? The need for Si (and tertiary Fe) grounding manifests as a need to believe a code of ethics like religion and it is easier to grab whatever religion is nearby? Did you have such an experience with your Si? (Could she be acting like a pseudo-ISFJ?)
+yeghor That's great analysis, although I don't necessarily agree with your Ne/Ni analysis, it's still great. Here's a good video where I explain my take on an ENTP using Ni, and my perceptions on Ni and Ne in general. ruclips.net/video/buu4PJsZM_I/видео.html I very much you'll be able to join us on GoToMeeting sometime. Today we won't have one because of work stuff, but hopefully tomorrow or the next day. What time zone are you in?
+yeghor Some people absolutely do hate my guts. I don't think it's Si Doms though. It could be. It's the secretary in charge of attendance. That type. That lady totally despises me because I have no respect for the rules.
Talking with Famous People I am 7 hours ahead of you :) and a bit camera-shy atm and rusty in English. I'd gladly participitate when I feel ready though.
+yeghor No problem at all, whenever you feel comfortable. You could also do as metasoap does, and simply use the chat function of GoToMeeting and type what you have to say. I then will wet it up so that the text you type is in the field of the recording. I'm on now in fact if you want to try it out. I've never recorded a typed + me only on video Q and A before. Sounds interesting. 1. Please join my meeting. global.gotomeeting.com/join/391732629 2. Use your microphone and speakers (VoIP) - a headset is recommended. Or, call in using your telephone. Dial +1 (626) 425-3002 Access Code: 391-732-629 Audio PIN: Shown after joining the meeting Meeting ID: 391-732-629 GoToMeeting® Online Meetings Made Easy®
ISFJ my wife, ESTP my rival that I just keep letting in my life cause I respect her Se as she respect my Ni and my ENTP buddy for our great relationship and awesome conversations from completely different angles of depth. My selections have been verified. 😆 jk 👍
My opinion as an INFJ: You are enjoyable to listen to, you are comfortable. I can see how you make such a good friend to these types. You are very much likable.
I wish my parents had named me "Fancyloaf."
@@Talkingwithfamouspeople Hahahaa :D Thanks for making me smile! That's just an undercover name though. My real name is Katrina.
the 12ish min mark made me laugh because it's true. as an INFJ especially a male when people meet me they tend to instantly trust and wanna talk to me. It's like I attract them with some kinda magic people wanna say hi to me everyday and see what I'm up to even if I don't really want them to but then again that might be because I'm currently emotionally stressed and trying to shut down to recuperate and they aren't letting me lol. Hilariously tho on opposite end of things I find online dating or anything that takes away the face to face interaction removes that magic and I become quite boring and ordinary on first glance and get overlooked until we meet in person.
Fe is crippled by non-physical presence. So many Fe cues aren't in the words but how they are said and the body language accompanying. Text communication annoys me for this reason too, though it obviously annoys you more with Fe a slot ahead of where I have it.
A charismatic fucker, my new go-to description.
I'm an Infj woman married to an entp man. Although life has its many struggles, like dishes. I would have to say it's the most loving and the closest relationship I've ever had with anyone.
Glad this video went up, words for an INFJ to live by for real.
Beautiful explanations that reveal so much. Beautiful revelations that explain so much. So much of what? So much of the heart of the matter.
I wonder what you have to say about the friendship potential of the dominant axis of one person matching with the middle axis of another person, compared to the sharing of the middle axis? Like a Ti Fe dom relationship with a Ti Fe middle function? And then would the order of the functions have an important impact? Intriguing stuff to consider.
I'll just apply for the next open position for wizards when it comes along.
this was pretty good thanks, grounding, like it brought things into focus and down to earth which is incredibly helpful for the ethereal I find myself floating in mentally a lot of times.
+Joseph Barton Thanks so much for watching, and I'm very glad you enjoyed it! An INFJ lost inside his intuition? Shocking. ;-)
“Other people like you”
Me: *doesnt trust it”
“Although you don’t know how other people feel about you.”
Me: oh shit
Found this very inspiring. Thanks.
+metasoap You're very welcome!
I appreciated your comments on INFJ's and found my self nodding along until you got to the end with your relationship recommendations. An INFJ's deepest desire in a relationship is to have regular, high quality conceptual conversations and that is just not going to happen with an S type. I have ISFJ friends and we get along nicely, but they will never know me intimately and every single one of them watches shit like The Voice. I gravitate to INTJ males. There are challenges there, but I'm up to it. Especially if he's a sexy scientist like Jeremy Wade;) I'd like to consider ENTP or ENFP, but it has to be an N type. Absolutely.
Adding to the idea of INFJ and an INTJ pairing, I would say the more mature each individual is, the more possible a successful relationship is. Maybe there's something to maturity playing a big role in compatibility?
ENTP and INFJ is an excellent pairing in my opinion. However, I think ENTP males do best with ISFJ females, because we want to be nurtured and coddled some.
I think you are right. Maturity plays a huge role because I think people become more broadly compatible as they grow older and internalize acceptance of more clumsy parts of themselves.
What do you think about INFJ woman and ENFJ man?
ISFJ OR ENTP OR ESTP. 3 compatible types for INFJ.
😱This is the first video I can think of where you forgot to eat cheese!😭🤧😵
I know a likely INFJ happily wed to his extreme housewife ISFJ-wife.
I think I heard at the end that you suggested mates for both INFJ and ESFJ. Here might be a crazy one for you: I am INFJ ( done the test/quiz over 10 times and comes out the same all the time). My husband is ESFJ. I will honestly say that we don't 100% get along but I do respect him. We have a five year old son. He's a good father.
Why do you say INFJ and ESFJ are not compatible? Although I will tell you, I really don't think we are.
+skippyjomo32 Well, I think it's a judgment/control thing. INFJ will allow herself to be controlled by the emotions of the other more than she really likes or wants to. Simultaneously, the INFJ's egalitarian concern for goodness and truth runs afoul of anything that might be deemed "judgmental." ESFJ, meanwhile, has a script of how everyone ought to behave, and it's shaped by the desire for harmonious cooperation. It will express itself often in good and helpful ways, but depending on the perspective of the person being assisted, these can also be perceived as judgmental and controlling. How well INFJ and ESFJ balance that axis is the key to how well they get along.
That's my analysis anyways. Thanks for the great question. If I weren't "going dark" this week, I'd totally have made a video about it.
I would very much appreciate a video on this. If that I can ask, what is your area of study? Are you a PhD or masters component of psychology or something of the like? Do tell.
I will say, my INFJ sense has me nose diving into all this MBTI stuff and only coming up for air every so often. Possibly the "passionate" point of myself? I just binge on this shit. It's weird. More a "self discovery" component, I would like to think. I'm actually in therapy and can appreciate the "self awareness" component of it all. Of course, my ESFJ thinks therapy is ridiculous. Wants to know what the "means to the end" is. Well, that in itself is a good question.
+skippyjomo32 I have no training or expertise. I'm just some random dude making shit up. Which, to my mind, makes me more well trained than psychologists. But then again, I am an ENTP ;-)
Ni : show me your nature
Fe : so it can be nurtured
Ti : some fuckers...
Se : ... just wanna watch the world burn.
Hello Floki :)
ruclips.net/video/lOKqjhpfeAI/видео.html
@1:55 Ni is actually suppressed Ne. Ne taken under control. Whatever a Ne-dom says out loudly, Ni-dom thinks on the inside thru his/her inner voice.
Dominant Ne's suppression (compression) into Ni feels to me like this:
ruclips.net/video/IddNePW8xU0/видео.html
The suppression mechanism as pointed out in the abovegiven video is an armor/constraint. That armour is 'the superego', represented as Ni, which gives Ne focus and discipline. However it also restricts flexibility, is heavy and feels like a prison.
It is also noteworthy to mention that Ni-dom develops shadow dominant Ne function as they age and Ne-dom develops shadow Ni. (Ne-doms becomes more disciplined, Ni-dom becomes more spontaneous. In other words, Ni-dom develops more id and relaxes superego restraint and Ne-dom develops more superego to counter his out-of-control id)
@4:35 Ni converges into a singularity like a black hole, Ne multiplies into several branches like a lightning, like a pulsar.
@9:25 Se is animalist/primal attitude. It acts like a beast (whereas Te acts more like a machine). Se gauges other 'animals' in the environment to assess their hierarchy wrt to the individual, assess their threat level. Like I can beat this one, I should run away from this one etc.
@10:10 It is hard to not go down to Se when one lives in a Se-dominant society. I am heavily working out and running to hopefully bring Se under control. When I go down to Se, it triggers conflict and fight/flight mode in me. So I want to develop it so that it gets triggered less often. When it gets triggered, I get enraged and wanna swear, yell and cuss at the person in front of me. Like this:
ruclips.net/video/lKaw5SjeHx0/видео.html
@12:45 Se doms and Se aux types hate my guts. Their inferiority complexes get triggered around me and they get jealous of me and therefore, act in a mean way to make feel bad about myself. So not everybody likes INFJs. Would that mean Si-dom and Si-aux people (males?) would also hate your guts?
@13:45 what do you mean by "the solution is to be discovered by them"?
@14:25 Ni conveges/compresses things into singularity (obsessions)?
I've met an ENTP (I guess) girl and I liked her very much (because I felt relaxed around her, the flow of conversation was very easy and natural) and wanted to live happily with her ever after, yet she did not want to get in a relationship with me, cause I did not believe in the prevailing religion in my country and she has recently developed a belief in it (so as to bring her impulsive behaviour under control I believe) and wanted a believer for a husband. So we parted ways.
Does inferior Si cause such an attitude? The need for Si (and tertiary Fe) grounding manifests as a need to believe a code of ethics like religion and it is easier to grab whatever religion is nearby? Did you have such an experience with your Si? (Could she be acting like a pseudo-ISFJ?)
+yeghor That's great analysis, although I don't necessarily agree with your Ne/Ni analysis, it's still great. Here's a good video where I explain my take on an ENTP using Ni, and my perceptions on Ni and Ne in general. ruclips.net/video/buu4PJsZM_I/видео.html I very much you'll be able to join us on GoToMeeting sometime. Today we won't have one because of work stuff, but hopefully tomorrow or the next day. What time zone are you in?
+yeghor Some people absolutely do hate my guts. I don't think it's Si Doms though. It could be. It's the secretary in charge of attendance. That type. That lady totally despises me because I have no respect for the rules.
Talking with Famous People I am 7 hours ahead of you :) and a bit camera-shy atm and rusty in English. I'd gladly participitate when I feel ready though.
+yeghor No problem at all, whenever you feel comfortable. You could also do as metasoap does, and simply use the chat function of GoToMeeting and type what you have to say. I then will wet it up so that the text you type is in the field of the recording. I'm on now in fact if you want to try it out. I've never recorded a typed + me only on video Q and A before. Sounds interesting.
1. Please join my meeting.
global.gotomeeting.com/join/391732629
2. Use your microphone and speakers (VoIP) - a headset is recommended. Or, call in using your telephone.
Dial +1 (626) 425-3002
Access Code: 391-732-629
Audio PIN: Shown after joining the meeting
Meeting ID: 391-732-629
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+yeghor In other words, it's possible to join and interact realtime with ever saying a word or having an image seen by anyone.
ISFJ / ENTP / ESTP -- compatible to INFJ for what type of relationship?
Who are some INFJs in fiction? Any villains?
I think I'll make a video about INFJs in fiction, and why there are so few.
@@Talkingwithfamouspeople That’d help me immensely. I’m a writer, and after studying your vids, identifying types have become harder.
The INFJ I speak of in this video is heard on this video.
ruclips.net/video/SAqYIc6Uw9Q/видео.html
ISFJ my wife, ESTP my rival that I just keep letting in my life cause I respect her Se as she respect my Ni and my ENTP buddy for our great relationship and awesome conversations from completely different angles of depth. My selections have been verified. 😆 jk 👍
Well said!