✅Have you ever had a friend or family member exhibit narcissistic traits? ✅What are some of the biggest challenges you've faced in dealing with narcissism? ✅After experiencing narcissistic abuse, what advice would you give to someone who's just starting their healing journey? Narcissism is a topic that can leave us feeling confused, hurt, and even a little lost. If you'd like to share about your journey (completely optional, of course!), I'm sure others facing similar situations could learn from your experience. Have a good day. 😊
They're controlling, they're cheap, evil, jealous, so much hatred inside their heart but they always idolize themselves like they're the best..they're like a vampire that sucks all your energy. So leave them asap and you will glow-up very soon.
This was very well spoken!!! I managed an 8yr relationship with a narc who left me when I had to move in with my mother who was dying with cancer... after having lost my sister to cancer 8mo's earlier. That was 12 years ago and he still calls me to this day trying to "hoover" me. This entire time he's wanted me back and I have refused. I've only kept in contact with him because I feel there is good in him somewhere and I know his history. He lost his mother a month after I lost mine. I showed him what authenticity is by being there for him even though he wasn't there for me. I'm not emotionally torn, I just know that hope is my divinity and to lose that is to lose myself. Peace with all ;)
Your story is so powerful. Eight years is a long time to be with someone who exhibits narcissistic traits, and it speaks volumes about your strength that you were able to leave that situation, especially during such a difficult personal time. The fact that you haven't been swayed by his attempts to 'hoover' you back is a true testament to your self-worth. It's admirable that you showed him compassion even when he wasn't there for you, but prioritizing your own well-being is absolutely crucial. Holding onto hope is beautiful, but it's important to direct it towards healthy and fulfilling relationships. Peace to you as well!
To become safer as a human being, I had to risk letting go of my need to be safe... And I had to access and process the buried hurt, anger and fear, driving this need... To become more loving, I had to give up holding on to the unreasonable need: to be loving, all the time... And I had to access and process the shame, hurt, fear and anger that were driving this need... To access a deeper compassion than ever felt before, I had to let go of trying to live up to the expectation of having to be compassionate... To become more vulnerable, I had to bring into consciousness all the programming and commands that kept vulnerable emotions inaccessible... To feel more connection with other human beings, I had to challenge the command that I have to be alone, to be safe, and to survive... To feel more love, I needed to stop seeking safety and I needed to risk allowing people: to come close...
Very insightful video. Most people I grew up with had these narcissistic traits. I finally cut all ties with them and it’s the best decision ever. I wish I did this sooner, but better late than never!😊
I'm glad the video resonated with you! It sounds like you've had some challenging experiences with narcissism. Making the decision to cut ties with people who are draining or negative is a powerful step towards self-care. It's inspiring to see your strength and resilience. Have a good day! 😊
Me too. It’s really confusing when you have a narcissistic family and a narcissistic community. You’re the truth telling oddball who everybody scapegoats. If you know the families who are cheating and drinking and abusing, they expect you to keep that a secret and if you don’t, or you threaten the status quo, they will scapegoat and crucify and ruin your life. As a child, you don’t even know that’s happening. You don’t know you’re being smeared behind your back or that an entire community is shunning you. They shun you because if you talk about the dysfunction now because they’ve shunned you so badly no one will believe you when you try to tell the truth. They tell everyone, you’re crazy, mentally unstable, and taking drugs, and people believe it!! It’s sickening! It’s really vile and should be a criminal offense. I knew the most beautiful girl who took her own life as a result of this scapegoating dynamic in her family. She didn’t understand what was happening, and couldn’t handle the isolation and ostracization and smear campaign. Tell me that should not be a crime with a penalty of death or certainly life in prison.
@@thirstonhowellthebird this hit me hard. You are so right. What you just said pretty much describes what I experienced living in Tucson for 30 years. I am so glad I finally got out of that evil narcissistic community. Thanks for sharing your experience.
@@Cosmicchaos2675 I’m really sorry for what you’ve been through. I have such a rooted life where I live that it would be such a hassle to move. People end up believing so you just learned to be happy in other ways and know that those people were never your friends and anyone who would choose to believe the gossip isn’t worth being a friend with. Most people do move away, and moving to a different country or state. I stayed on purpose because I plan to be a reminder of these criminals as to what they’ve done and what they will not get away with because God sees everything and the lake of fire will be their permanent residence. That gives me solace.
This is all based on the assumption that you know they are disordered, ie Narcissist, psychopath, etc. The stereotype of these people is erroneous when most are covert. To add difficulty when trying to discern the disordered is a spectrum of pathology. Now, you have many many situations where yiu meet someone, start dating, become more and more attracted to them, and fall in love, only to find them disordered when their mask starts to slip months or years later. You are already heavily invested! Red flags are actually pink. You are not trained what to look for anyway. And they are very good at being your soulmate. This situation is not as clear-cut as this video implies.
Thank you for sharing your nuanced perspective. You're right, narcissistic traits can exist on a spectrum, and covert narcissism can be especially challenging to recognize. It's true that sometimes red flags can appear subtle or even positive at first. The goal of this video wasn't to present a one-size-fits-all solution, but rather to raise awareness of some common signs.
He (the Narc) would say things that I thought were degrading, I would say "That's not nice" in his eyes We were oil and water b/c I didn't agree with his ways, I never once insulted him in fact he would insult his own daughters and say their house was dirty or the one daughter was wearing a dress like mine and he said right in front of her : look she has the same dress as you except she is much fatter in it" and laugh out loud, and again I would always say "that's not nice" that's all, never insulted him but I was always the one that caused us to be oil and water....then he did the discard.
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✅Have you ever had a friend or family member exhibit narcissistic traits?
✅What are some of the biggest challenges you've faced in dealing with narcissism?
✅After experiencing narcissistic abuse, what advice would you give to someone who's just starting their healing journey?
Narcissism is a topic that can leave us feeling confused, hurt, and even a little lost. If you'd like to share about your journey (completely optional, of course!), I'm sure others facing similar situations could learn from your experience. Have a good day. 😊
They're controlling, they're cheap, evil, jealous, so much hatred inside their heart but they always idolize themselves like they're the best..they're like a vampire that sucks all your energy. So leave them asap and you will glow-up very soon.
Wow, thank you!
This was very well spoken!!! I managed an 8yr relationship with a narc who left me when I had to move in with my mother who was dying with cancer... after having lost my sister to cancer 8mo's earlier. That was 12 years ago and he still calls me to this day trying to "hoover" me. This entire time he's wanted me back and I have refused. I've only kept in contact with him because I feel there is good in him somewhere and I know his history. He lost his mother a month after I lost mine. I showed him what authenticity is by being there for him even though he wasn't there for me. I'm not emotionally torn, I just know that hope is my divinity and to lose that is to lose myself. Peace with all ;)
Your story is so powerful. Eight years is a long time to be with someone who exhibits narcissistic traits, and it speaks volumes about your strength that you were able to leave that situation, especially during such a difficult personal time. The fact that you haven't been swayed by his attempts to 'hoover' you back is a true testament to your self-worth. It's admirable that you showed him compassion even when he wasn't there for you, but prioritizing your own well-being is absolutely crucial. Holding onto hope is beautiful, but it's important to direct it towards healthy and fulfilling relationships. Peace to you as well!
The woman speaking is Dr.Ramani Darvasula Clinical Psychologist and not Dr.Brene Brown.
To become safer as a human being,
I had to risk letting go
of my need
to be safe...
And I had to access and process
the buried hurt,
anger and fear,
driving this need...
To become more loving,
I had to give up holding on
to the unreasonable need:
to be loving,
all the time...
And I had to access and process the shame, hurt, fear and anger
that were driving this need...
To access a deeper compassion than ever felt before,
I had to let go of trying to live up to the expectation
of having to be compassionate...
To become more vulnerable,
I had to bring into consciousness
all the programming and commands
that kept vulnerable emotions inaccessible...
To feel more connection with other human beings,
I had to challenge the command
that I have to be alone, to be safe, and to survive...
To feel more love, I needed to stop seeking safety
and I needed to risk allowing people: to come close...
So beautiful 😍
Perfect video about narcissism on RUclips! This video has brief scientific facts, emotion, and good taste in music. Good job guys! 😊
Glad you enjoyed it!
Very insightful video. Most people I grew up with had these narcissistic traits. I finally cut all ties with them and it’s the best decision ever. I wish I did this sooner, but better late than never!😊
I'm glad the video resonated with you! It sounds like you've had some challenging experiences with narcissism. Making the decision to cut ties with people who are draining or negative is a powerful step towards self-care. It's inspiring to see your strength and resilience. Have a good day! 😊
Me too. It’s really confusing when you have a narcissistic family and a narcissistic community. You’re the truth telling oddball who everybody scapegoats. If you know the families who are cheating and drinking and abusing, they expect you to keep that a secret and if you don’t, or you threaten the status quo, they will scapegoat and crucify and ruin your life. As a child, you don’t even know that’s happening. You don’t know you’re being smeared behind your back or that an entire community is shunning you. They shun you because if you talk about the dysfunction now because they’ve shunned you so badly no one will believe you when you try to tell the truth. They tell everyone, you’re crazy, mentally unstable, and taking drugs, and people believe it!! It’s sickening! It’s really vile and should be a criminal offense. I knew the most beautiful girl who took her own life as a result of this scapegoating dynamic in her family. She didn’t understand what was happening, and couldn’t handle the isolation and ostracization and smear campaign. Tell me that should not be a crime with a penalty of death or certainly life in prison.
@@thirstonhowellthebird this hit me hard. You are so right. What you just said pretty much describes what I experienced living in Tucson for 30 years. I am so glad I finally got out of that evil narcissistic community. Thanks for sharing your experience.
@@Cosmicchaos2675 I’m really sorry for what you’ve been through. I have such a rooted life where I live that it would be such a hassle to move. People end up believing so you just learned to be happy in other ways and know that those people were never your friends and anyone who would choose to believe the gossip isn’t worth being a friend with. Most people do move away,
and moving to a different country or state. I stayed on purpose because I plan to be a reminder of these criminals as to what they’ve done and what they will not get away with because God sees everything and the lake of fire will be their permanent residence. That gives me solace.
@@thirstonhowellthebird 🙏 Amen! Jesus is Lord of Lords. Praise Him and his righteous glory forever and always!! Stay strong and endure till the end 😸
Incredible video! ❤
Good Lessons
Thanks for watching
This is all based on the assumption that you know they are disordered, ie Narcissist, psychopath, etc. The stereotype of these people is erroneous when most are covert. To add difficulty when trying to discern the disordered is a spectrum of pathology. Now, you have many many situations where yiu meet someone, start dating, become more and more attracted to them, and fall in love, only to find them disordered when their mask starts to slip months or years later. You are already heavily invested! Red flags are actually pink. You are not trained what to look for anyway. And they are very good at being your soulmate. This situation is not as clear-cut as this video implies.
Thank you for sharing your nuanced perspective. You're right, narcissistic traits can exist on a spectrum, and covert narcissism can be especially challenging to recognize. It's true that sometimes red flags can appear subtle or even positive at first. The goal of this video wasn't to present a one-size-fits-all solution, but rather to raise awareness of some common signs.
What a blast! ❤
😊
I feel like i fell victim because of Brene Brown.
Very well said and skilfully combined. Thank you.
Glad you enjoyed it!
So if the narcissistic person finds you so annoying, why don't they leave - he threatens it all the time?
Jordan Peterson dr R a volcano 😂 best thing I ever heard lava rage 😤
I grew up in a family like that😢
crazy making
A bit deceiving - Dr. Brown was barely even on this. Still good tho
Jordon Paterson never calls out Trump as the obvious narcissist
Sir koi job mil sakta hai
Interesting compilation, but does not address the title of the video.
He (the Narc) would say things that I thought were degrading, I would say "That's not nice" in his eyes We were oil and water b/c I didn't agree with his ways, I never once insulted him in fact he would insult his own daughters and say their house was dirty or the one daughter was wearing a dress like mine and he said right in front of her : look she has the same dress as you except she is much fatter in it" and laugh out loud, and again I would always say "that's not nice" that's all, never insulted him but I was always the one that caused us to be oil and water....then he did the discard.
You can explain him why he was wrong. Narcissistic people don't know his or her fault.