As always, it was an excellent presentation by Brené Brown, the hard reality I learned from years of working in a corporate role is, that your co-workers are not your friends, never be loyal to any company, they will replace you overnight, and never change who you are just to fit in, always be your authentic self, remember bullies are not only in the playground but at work as well. Never stay in a dead-end job, if you are not happy, start planning, and start applying for other jobs, shut off social media, because you deserve to be happy, you matter, and you deserve to be respected.
As an artist this is spot on. My sister once told me I’m equal to art in target or home goods. I deserve target prices. It’s he’d me back and got me off my path. I’m know now I’m worthy. I actually had art in a museum at age 17. I lost a lot of time but I learned boundaries and self care. I’m painting again.
For those of you reading this comment, it's okay, it's normal to feel lonely sometimes, if you're going through tough times, keep trying, but never give up,
She is absolutely spot on. When you become your authentic self and not live your life according to the way others want you to live, you will indeed get your A$$ kicked. And at times, kicked hard. But continue on your journey to be your authentic self. All things are working out for your good. It will set you free on a higher vibration. ❤❤
Brene, you deliver in a powerful way, you clear the road bring the clarity to the surface. You think where others can’t, and their cheap 2 cents are nothing more than reactions, which are actually boring to the rest of us. Keep being profound, thank you for your work!!
Fascinated with your wisdom! I’m living my best life post divorce. Published a book on finding true WHOLENESS after divorce called “THE SUN ALWAYS PIERCES THROUGH” 🌧️ ☀️
🎉sister your comment lends credence to catapulting my brain dump/ book post divorce. 22 years, the “ughs “ that pop in head… Lord remove. I’d love to read your book. ☮️
Oh my god you have made me cry , my dream for personal reasons is to participate in a ted talk one day brene and you have just inspired me so much 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻 thanku so much god bless you 🙏🏻
Preach gurl! I am showing up! I have goosies from your speech! You are award winning in my heart 💜 I have a lot of healing to do so Tysm for helping me to make sense ❤
This piece really gets into me, especially when I'm feeling doubtful about myself. The "Arena" comes to mind when I am feeling people are trying to put me down for whatever reason. I hope this gets shown in schools, especially Jr. High and High School.
“When we stop caring what people think we lose our capacity for connection. When we become defined by what people think we lose our capacity to be vulnerable.” ♥
You didn't read the rest of it. The end of the speech is the very best part of the whole speech. I discovered this speech about a year ago and it bowled me over. I went to my computer and made posters of the speech to hand out to everyone I know
Brené , you have inspired me for such a long time now and still I'm learning. Thank you so much. Thank Gpd or the Spirit there are so many good people in and out of the arena too, not only the critics😊
So grateful you stopped caring what people think about you ❤and have been so vulnerable! We need more love and vulnerability with each other. That is how we will grow. 🙏🏻
Brene, I have read your books and listened to you, and you have allowed me to accept myself as I am. It's taken a long time, but I got in the end and have recommended you to so many people. Sensing love and light ✨️ 💛 🪽🙏🏼🌈🌎
Please don't do that, it's insulting to yourself, one day you won't care at all if somebody hate you cause it's their problem, not yours. Don't waste your energies on them, usually they hate themself.
Once again listening to it your words I realign thank you honestly I just got chills You're amazing I need to be reminded to be vulnerable because otherwise I'll just be a Metcalf lol
This is so helpful and true. But I dont have the 1 person to pick me up. Bad divorce. I thought he was my 1 person but really he was my destruction. So I'm learning to have only myself. It's hard and it's scary
You are so strong. I also had to be my one person. The one person who I thought was my person also abandoned me and destroyed my whole life. I had to completely rebuild my life. It was scary- but in the end because we did it by ourselves it means so much more. You got this.
This was spot on. The images that accompanied her words were beautiful but curious why the majority of people in the images were men? Interesting. More curious than criticism.
Absolutely good, And be ready for the sequences. And it's possible that what I think is office politics is simply a case of different worldwide. I need to then ask what is it that they know that I do not. ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉
What am I interested in knowing is why out of the 79000 views only 2400 thought it was worth their while to truly tune into the message and give it the thumbs up?
Great video! I'd like to quote BB's speech in an academic paper of mine. Could you please provide the original source of her work that you referenced here? Thank you in advance!
The irony is that these hateful people who attacked Brene were the impetus for her having a life-changing shift and that shift then enabling her to grow and help countless millions. So, joke is on them. As they sit in their mother’s basements spewing hate while eating hoagies.
Men are most likely to not reach out,seek therapy or do self help.... It helps them to see other men who represent their internal struggles. Women will still come see the video because we're already trying to fix ourselves.
About a 1/3 into this video I became quite distracted in that the majority of the imagery were men. I could barely hear the message anymore wondering why. I scrolled back through the video to see if I missed something but no, mostly men. Probably 95% men vs 5% women's images. I find that quite odd. I do like Brene Brown's messages. Just curious about the choice not to show women as surely it was a choice whether conscious or unconscious.
When I watched Brown interviewed by Oprah, and they both trashed Donald Trump (and basically men in general), I stopped listening to both of these women. Very good decision.
Thank you for sharing this! As I start the Fall semester as a creative instructor at the junior college level, I will be sharing this with all my students!!!
This is the most beautiful inspirational video I’ve ever listened to!! Thank you so much for sharing!! I wrote a children’s book and received a frustrating review from a critic, I took it hard and stopped writing completely. …🥲 I’m going to regroup and pick it back up and continue to tell my story😍!! I love my story. I want to share it and because of your words, I will find the courage!!!
Absolutely.... I refuse to have any WHAT IFS in my life.... Great talk, thank you. 100% agree with everything...
As always, it was an excellent presentation by Brené Brown, the hard reality I learned from years of working in a corporate role is, that your co-workers are not your friends, never be loyal to any company, they will replace you overnight, and never change who you are just to fit in, always be your authentic self, remember bullies are not only in the playground but at work as well. Never stay in a dead-end job, if you are not happy, start planning, and start applying for other jobs, shut off social media, because you deserve to be happy, you matter, and you deserve to be respected.
As an artist this is spot on. My sister once told me I’m equal to art in target or home goods. I deserve target prices. It’s he’d me back and got me off my path. I’m know now I’m worthy. I actually had art in a museum at age 17. I lost a lot of time but I learned boundaries and self care. I’m painting again.
Good for you!👏👏👏
Flying solo !! God is good 👍🏻
For those of you reading this comment, it's okay, it's normal to feel lonely sometimes, if you're going through tough times, keep trying, but never give up,
Thank you ❤
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Thank you❤
She is absolutely spot on. When you become your authentic self and not live your life according to the way others want you to live, you will indeed get your A$$ kicked. And at times, kicked hard. But continue on your journey to be your authentic self. All things are working out for your good. It will set you free on a higher vibration. ❤❤
Thank you! This is what I needed to hear, when I needed to hear it. I like the part about the armor. Time to shed that❤️
How so wonderful and lucky we all are, that YOU, showed up!
Thanks Brene for your Courage & Bravery to Always show Up. You are a Bright Light in this world.
Brene, you deliver in a powerful way, you clear the road bring the clarity to the surface. You think where others can’t, and their cheap 2 cents are nothing more than reactions, which are actually boring to the rest of us.
Keep being profound, thank you for your work!!
Fascinated with your wisdom! I’m living my best life post divorce. Published a book on finding true WHOLENESS after divorce called “THE SUN ALWAYS PIERCES THROUGH” 🌧️ ☀️
🎉sister your comment lends credence to catapulting my brain dump/ book post divorce. 22 years, the “ughs “ that pop in head… Lord remove. I’d love to read your book. ☮️
Oh my god you have made me cry , my dream for personal reasons is to participate in a ted talk one day brene and you have just inspired me so much 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻 thanku so much god bless you 🙏🏻
Preach gurl! I am showing up! I have goosies from your speech! You are award winning in my heart 💜 I have a lot of healing to do so Tysm for helping me to make sense ❤
Shame, scarcity and comparison, so true! And it’s not necessarily comparing ourselves to others… it’s what we think we should have already obtained.
This piece really gets into me, especially when I'm feeling doubtful about myself. The "Arena" comes to mind when I am feeling people are trying to put me down for whatever reason. I hope this gets shown in schools, especially Jr. High and High School.
“When we stop caring what people think we lose our capacity for connection. When we become defined by what people think we lose our capacity to be vulnerable.” ♥
Brene, you are incredible. You are Gods gift to this century 🤗
You didn't read the rest of it. The end of the speech is the very best part of the whole speech. I discovered this speech about a year ago and it bowled me over. I went to my computer and made posters of the speech to hand out to everyone I know
Where can we find the whole thing?
May prosperity and abundance fill your life in every way as you continue to embrace gratitude and positivity.
Brené , you have inspired me for such a long time now and still I'm learning. Thank you so much. Thank Gpd or the Spirit there are so many good people in and out of the arena too, not only the critics😊
So true. I will listen to this daily. I have to show up. You are an amazing role model
I sooo needed to hear this tonight!! Thank you, Brene!!! 💝
So grateful you stopped caring what people think about you ❤and have been so vulnerable! We need more love and vulnerability with each other. That is how we will grow. 🙏🏻
Thank you for showing up.
Brene, I have read your books and listened to you, and you have allowed me to accept myself as I am. It's taken a long time, but I got in the end and have recommended you to so many people. Sensing love and light ✨️ 💛 🪽🙏🏼🌈🌎
Please what is the title of her book.
Daring Gently @@njumesnowl1328
Absolutely the best I have listened to in my life ❤ I will take this to my heart, it will help me so very much in my life and what I do❤
Loved this. Really resonated with me. Need to watch it again and again ❤
I needed this so much today thank you!
Loce you Brene. Please dont listen to ugly comments. They are jealous of you .❤❤❤❤
The men in the arena - LOVE IT! Inspirational ❤
I identify with the statement, "I am trying to win over the people who hate me."
Please don't do that, it's insulting to yourself, one day you won't care at all if somebody hate you cause it's their problem, not yours. Don't waste your energies on them, usually they hate themself.
Beautiful!
Goosebumps... Wonderful speech.
So profound. I saved it and will listen to it again!
So beautiful. Thank you for your transforming perspective.❤
this video changed my vision about courage, thanks!
THANK YOU GOD , YOU ARE SEATED AT MY LEFT AND IM AT YOUR RIGHT !
I reserve a seat for you because I understand what you’re saying and I love 💗 it thank you!
Thanks for sharing that there really is a way to be able to converse with confidentiality...
Thank you for a great video! It certainly hit home.❤
Simply wonderful
Wow! Outstanding 👍❤
Your words are so true so meaningful
Thank you
Thx I have always listened to what you have to say. Today I understand, I’m in💪🏿👍🏽🤓
Once again listening to it your words I realign thank you honestly I just got chills You're amazing I need to be reminded to be vulnerable because otherwise I'll just be a Metcalf lol
Thank you
Truly amazing. Thank you for the insight🙏🏽
well said! I enjoy every second of this!
I let it all in these days the good the bad and the ugly it all belongs exactly as it is
Agreed. I call it "Teenage Wisdom", all these teens have great philosophies about life. Until they're actually living it...
Love the message ❤
THANK YOU JEHOVAH
Hallelujah Amen 🙏🏽
Thank you❤️
I could not hear the hate anymore❤
Beautiful
so powerful!
Oh Thanks ❤
This is so helpful and true. But I dont have the 1 person to pick me up. Bad divorce. I thought he was my 1 person but really he was my destruction. So I'm learning to have only myself. It's hard and it's scary
Lord give her all of You this year to be whole again.
You are more powerful than you realize! Your Life IS DIVINELY ORCHESTRATED!!!❤❤❤❤❤❤
LOVE IS YOUR ESSENCE!!!!
You are so strong. I also had to be my one person. The one person who I thought was my person also abandoned me and destroyed my whole life. I had to completely rebuild my life. It was scary- but in the end because we did it by ourselves it means so much more. You got this.
@JoanMorris-p8r you're doing great!! Sending peace and love your way my friend!
Wow🙌
This was spot on. The images that accompanied her words were beautiful but curious why the majority of people in the images were men? Interesting. More curious than criticism.
This is a wonderful speech by a brave and vulnerable woman. Why are all the video pictures here
of men?
All life is about is being yourself .
Amen 🙏
Absolutely good, And be ready for the sequences. And it's possible that what I think is office politics is simply a case of different worldwide. I need to then ask what is it that they know that I do not. ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉
Powerful thank you for your Carriage
AMEN 🙏🏼 ❤
Tom Brady’s show was Man in the Arena now I get it. 🏈
Great game!
What am I interested in knowing is why out of the 79000 views only 2400 thought it was worth their while to truly tune into the message and give it the thumbs up?
not interested in your feedback from the cheap seats......
Great video! I'd like to quote BB's speech in an academic paper of mine. Could you please provide the original source of her work that you referenced here? Thank you in advance!
The irony is that these hateful people who attacked Brene were the impetus for her having a life-changing shift and that shift then enabling her to grow and help countless millions. So, joke is on them. As they sit in their mother’s basements spewing hate while eating hoagies.
She’s good
I love you❤
wow
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Love the message. Where's the women?
Music?
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Why the absence of women in the video??
Men are most likely to not reach out,seek therapy or do self help....
It helps them to see other men who represent their internal struggles.
Women will still come see the video because we're already trying to fix ourselves.
Humans. Why look for differences? That’s the issue - seeing everyone as a this or that. Comparison is a thief of joy.
That’s a fair question.
Who cares?
Another reason for her not to read the comments 😂
About a 1/3 into this video I became quite distracted in that the majority of the imagery were men. I could barely hear the message anymore wondering why. I scrolled back through the video to see if I missed something but no, mostly men. Probably 95% men vs 5% women's images. I find that quite odd. I do like Brene Brown's messages. Just curious about the choice not to show women as surely it was a choice whether conscious or unconscious.
Oh. It’s not as motivational as I thought. I don’t really work hard for critiques- I’m just here to find a purpose
“Said the blind man”
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@@J2TMFA all u, hun. Get what u need then.
I feel that the point went over your head…
@@cel5365 easier when you're the one bald
Perhaps try someone else, perhaps you not ready for this message yet, good luck
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The cheezy music diminishes the power of this wonderful video. Too bad. It’s awful! Stupid cheezy music? Really? How insulting to her.
i think the music is calming lol
Almost all the visual images are men. Women are under-represented.
So defensive... who cares about the critic
You sound very self assured.
When I watched Brown interviewed by Oprah, and they both trashed Donald Trump (and basically men in general), I stopped listening to both of these women. Very good decision.
Trashed, or stated the truth?
@@stadinm1 trashed, no truth involved. In fact they both stated their fears of me in general.
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Boring.
Thank you for sharing this! As I start the Fall semester as a creative instructor at the junior college level, I will be sharing this with all my students!!!
This is the most beautiful inspirational video I’ve ever listened to!! Thank you so much for sharing!! I wrote a children’s book and received a frustrating review from a critic, I took it hard and stopped writing completely. …🥲 I’m going to regroup and pick it back up and continue to tell my story😍!! I love my story. I want to share it and because of your words, I will find the courage!!!
thank you...watch it with fate ..🤍🤍
@brenebrown....please contact RaGun or send this to her. She needs support, she's in the arena!
lol
Amen 🙏