I like that positive look on it, your correct. You probably would have not stayed interested, and or you would have been mistreated by him either way. Because he really doesn’t want you.
I needed to hear this for re-enforcement. This is why I say he didn’t make you a placeholder…you kept yourself as the placeholder. Park them in the lot n drive on to the next destination
I was ghosted 2 weeks ago. But I found out that he got arrested and got out, but I still wanted to be his friend, but he blocked me so I blocked him back. He can only view my stories and see that I'm moving on. It hurts but this was his decision.
Recently after 3 or 4 months of dating and talking daily. Spoke Christmas Eve and texted on Christmas then ghosted. Two weeks later he reaches out asking if I'm still alive and I said "I sure hope so. Who is this". 😂 Boy bye!
MJ, You always absolutely and unequivocally speak the truth!! .. You provide most excellent and truthful advice all the time!! .. Exactly Why We All Appreciate You!! .. You certainly know of what you speak!! .. In addition, you look very beautiful and certainly do inspire us to be as smart and lovely as you!! ... HAPPY NEW YEAR BEAUTIFUL!! ❤❤❤
All my favorite dating coaches speak as if there are loads of qualified candidates available today for endless "moving on" & dating new ones... I meet like one every few years and of course get disappointed when, after having enough shared values, he disappears... yes, I go out to events where like-minded people gather, yes I go out in public, yes I go where the men are. I don't have the most popular lifestyle, to put it mildly, and don't sleep with men quickly, so they don't resonate
I hear you-it can be frustrating when the dating pool feels limited. But I do believe that the options are far more expansive than we may think. Sometimes, we can expand our options by changing our “type” or by placing ourselves outside of our comfort zone in different spaces and places.
If it weren't such a hassle to change my number, I'd do it. 😅 It started with an email 2 years after HE told me his therapist said we shouldn't speak anymore- I shouldn't have responded!!!! "Can we move to texting?" 🙄🙄🙄 Then "...I have to tell you that I lied to my therapist about you. I was scared." Gurl, now he's on my blocked list. I can't.
Was ghosted by a guy who later came back and told me I make too much money to be a wife. I’m never dating again, I’ve haven’t been the same since, MJ 😢
You’re not alone, Queen. I love hard too n heartbreak is not easy but we always find a way to stand up again. Listen…I’m grieving a dude who introduced me to his mom n siblings after 4mths of dating n his dad told him to go meet my family. 6mth mark…I’m starting to grieve him like he died. His communication shifting…so I shift too ✌🏾
I shared this Video the first five minutes i Listen to it. My friend needs to hear this. When soomeone Ghost her. She even starts stocking the person in all social Medias just to know why it didnt work for her. I find it such a waste of time
The men over 55 are not attractive at all. I find one every year to meet. It is very difficult for me. What to do about this? I am divorced and at this slow rate, it is a problem. The one guy that I just met ghosted me right after we met.
It sounds like you're feeling frustrated with dating, and I'm so sorry to hear that! It's important to focus on what you're looking for in a partner and not settle for less. Keep searching, and don't give up hope! 😊
I recommected online with a quite younger guy (we initially both thought we were around the same age) and he again does the same thing as couple of years ago.. He stops replying but keeps checking my stories immediately.. I know he likes me cause our date years ago was very romantic but dunno why he disappears.. Actually I think its because of his friends not approving the age difference and now there's also distance. Plus he got stressed out with work (was just forced to start at a new place back home) I don't know what to do about it but there is potential.
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He’s right ladies 💯
Yes! Choose people who choose you
I was just talking about this earlier , you will never be good enough for the wrong person 👌🏾
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Yess I'm not concerned about why he chose to ghost. All that matters is that he did and that I stay silent and move on.
Exactly! ❤
This..... This... This!!
And NEVER take him back!!!! 😘
I like that positive look on it, your correct. You probably would have not stayed interested, and or you would have been mistreated by him either way. Because he really doesn’t want you.
Exactly! ❤
Ooh wee! I was JUST thinking myself in a hole.... this was RIGHT ON TIME! Thank you!
Needed to hear this. any man that haven’t told me Happy New Year is left in last year. It shows that they don’t care or think about me 😅
I needed to hear this for re-enforcement. This is why I say he didn’t make you a placeholder…you kept yourself as the placeholder. Park them in the lot n drive on to the next destination
Amen I needed to hear this .
Their inadequacies are within them and NOT 🚫 within me.
Have you ever been ghosted? How did you handle it?
I’m dealing with this now but he stalking me online and liked one of my pics recently 😏
I was ghosted 2 weeks ago. But I found out that he got arrested and got out, but I still wanted to be his friend, but he blocked me so I blocked him back. He can only view my stories and see that I'm moving on. It hurts but this was his decision.
Took it as it was and never reached back out, I just accepted it as it was and kept moving on with life & healed from it.....
Yes... But, I didn't knife it was ghosting at the time.
@@chacaragibson5060Have he tried to reach out?
Here's what you do: MOVE ON!
Recently after 3 or 4 months of dating and talking daily. Spoke Christmas Eve and texted on Christmas then ghosted. Two weeks later he reaches out asking if I'm still alive and I said "I sure hope so. Who is this". 😂 Boy bye!
The 3 month rule is real.
The ghost of Christmas past
"Who is this?" Is a good one 😁
Love the playfulness in your message. Yea he gonna think you the one who got away..well, let get away
Hell ya! Did you ghost me? I hadn't noticed. Lol
I needed this!
MJ, You always absolutely and unequivocally speak the truth!! .. You provide most excellent and truthful advice all the time!! .. Exactly Why We All Appreciate You!! .. You certainly know of what you speak!! .. In addition, you look very beautiful and certainly do inspire us to be as smart and lovely as you!! ... HAPPY NEW YEAR BEAUTIFUL!! ❤❤❤
Wow thank you for seeing this video on time. We move🎉
💯Truth! Im now at an Omarion level of unbothered lol. Grateful to have learned my lesson
Let him stay a ghost because its not worth the pain your causing yourself
I love your videos Mj. You really never miss.
MJ....I feel & hear your vibration all the way from Kenya 🇰🇪🇰🇪🇰🇪
Let me buckle up and accept the reality...
Thanksssssss❤❤❤
I needed to hear this ta-day!!!
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Speak your truth 👏 MJ.....always on point 👉 ❤
KEEP MOVING THE ENERGY🎉
Gather us MJ!!!! 😩😩. You ain't said nothing but the truth here honey!!
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I LOVE THESE VIDEOS!
I needed to hear this thank you!
Love you. Straight to the point. Thank you ❤😊
All my favorite dating coaches speak as if there are loads of qualified candidates available today for endless "moving on" & dating new ones... I meet like one every few years and of course get disappointed when, after having enough shared values, he disappears... yes, I go out to events where like-minded people gather, yes I go out in public, yes I go where the men are. I don't have the most popular lifestyle, to put it mildly, and don't sleep with men quickly, so they don't resonate
I hear you-it can be frustrating when the dating pool feels limited. But I do believe that the options are far more expansive than we may think. Sometimes, we can expand our options by changing our “type” or by placing ourselves outside of our comfort zone in different spaces and places.
I'm cool on ever dating ever tf again! once I recover from this injury,I'ma forever be chasing a bag! eff a man,child! I'm tired!🤣🤣🤣
You are 100% correct.
Going back to my original way of thinking.
If it weren't such a hassle to change my number, I'd do it. 😅 It started with an email 2 years after HE told me his therapist said we shouldn't speak anymore- I shouldn't have responded!!!!
"Can we move to texting?" 🙄🙄🙄
Then
"...I have to tell you that I lied to my therapist about you. I was scared."
Gurl, now he's on my blocked list. I can't.
Perfect guidance.
I'm in a happy healthy relationship and I've noticed so many people that I thought were my friends aren't really happy for me
Love the new astheics of the channel the thumbnail and the background throughout the video 🙏🏾🙏🏾
Great video! ❤
Thank you! 💖💖💖
Was ghosted by a guy who later came back and told me I make too much money to be a wife. I’m never dating again, I’ve haven’t been the same since, MJ 😢
He sounds broken and insecure. Don’t let that fractured excuse of a man keep you from finding love. ❤
Please don't give up because of his insecurities. Move on so you can be loved properly ❤
Thank you for this video.
You’re welcome! ❤
You are amazing! BIG Thank you ❤
Love, love, LOVE THIS! SO empowering. Thank you ❤
😘Thank you MJ
MJ I just need to focus on unbigging my back, cuz these men are draining 😅
Powerful ❤❤❤
And on to the next I go and I don't do the spin the block thing🎯
Nope! ❤
Woah... Hope he ain't one to comeback around. Because, they always do!
Literally loved this ❤❤❤❤ amazing so true!! Hilarious
This just happened to me
Leave the door open?! I think NOT!
First time shame on him 2nd time shame on you boo. Take it for what it is and reaction to his action.
you are right and you are talking about me i love so much i do not know how to let go
You’re not alone, Queen. I love hard too n heartbreak is not easy but we always find a way to stand up again. Listen…I’m grieving a dude who introduced me to his mom n siblings after 4mths of dating n his dad told him to go meet my family. 6mth mark…I’m starting to grieve him like he died. His communication shifting…so I shift too ✌🏾
You're right
We need more of these tips MJ ! because wow after GOD fear MEN 😂😂😂😂😂😂 we're dealing with a bob the builder type of man or casper the friendly ghost
Amen, sis! 🙏🏽
Love you Mj ❤🇿🇦
Ps - Please can you cover a topic on how to "make a man grovel back to you" 🤭🫣
I shared this Video the first five minutes i Listen to it. My friend needs to hear this. When soomeone Ghost her. She even starts stocking the person in all social Medias just to know why it didnt work for her. I find it such a waste of time
The men over 55 are not attractive at all. I find one every year to meet. It is very difficult for me. What to do about this? I am divorced and at this slow rate, it is a problem. The one guy that I just met ghosted me right after we met.
It sounds like you're feeling frustrated with dating, and I'm so sorry to hear that! It's important to focus on what you're looking for in a partner and not settle for less. Keep searching, and don't give up hope! 😊
Preach
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Exactly
Who cares. It’s all part of the cycle…. I don’t take it personally 😂
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I recommected online with a quite younger guy (we initially both thought we were around the same age) and he again does the same thing as couple of years ago.. He stops replying but keeps checking my stories immediately.. I know he likes me cause our date years ago was very romantic but dunno why he disappears.. Actually I think its because of his friends not approving the age difference and now there's also distance. Plus he got stressed out with work (was just forced to start at a new place back home) I don't know what to do about it but there is potential.
Plan a fun vaca
Thankyou MJ I needed too hear this tonight