That’s been my thought process about any one of them I stood up to and I have been calling bullies out all my life including my now deceased abusive parents. You learn how to spot them quicker with experience. Even though it’s not something we have wanted to be put through but the strongest people are the ones who are chosen , it’s taken me to the age of 54 to know that I have stayed true to myself and I have learned to think. Instead of thinking “why me again “ I now say “ try me it will not get you anywhere 💯
I don’t believe that they changed one bit or they even reconsider their particular stance. I think they’re stuck and the whole growing thing was on your being
This has been confirming & refreshing. Entered his life walking close to God. He wasn’t interested. Then at Easter in Catholic Church got a glimpse of his shame. A triangle he formed after that with a new widow. I’d be around for 6 months visiting often as had business there. He wanted me to stay, but his sarcasm & isolating got old. He wouldn’t let me do anything per advice from her. She was jealous of us.(Then she used him & picked a man w/ $$. ) I’d Sit, that’s it. Did get to me as I had cleaned to pay my way before her. But the light in me did affect him. He was so very extremely mean when I flirted at an event. Yet he with another one. I met an old friend and stayed with her. I So wish these people would get delivered of demons that control them. He has a sweet side. But told me several times miserable.
Although I do believe all this to be true, one must not underestimate the power of the deep-rooted pathological denial narcissists live by. They will deny all their feelings just to get through the day and show others how strong and important they are. They will never own up to anything that doesn't fit their egocentric false persona. Doing so would most likely kill them. I've seen what narcissistic collapse looks like, it's brutal. It's sad but we must let them go indefinitely.
unfortunately I don't see any blessing almost 6 months after the discard - she is OK with new supply and I'm just a garbage. But have no wrong feeling for her , still love her ... Why The Universe engage me to live ... to much pain ... I think if God will exclude me it will be the blessing ..
I don’t believe this at all. I don’t think they learned ANYTHING, I don’t think they care and I don’t believe they are “changed”. They have too much pride and ego to care or to change. They do not care. They blame you and move on. We are the ones who are forever changed.
That’s been my thought process about any one of them I stood up to and I have been calling bullies out all my life including my now deceased abusive parents. You learn how to spot them quicker with experience. Even though it’s not something we have wanted to be put through but the strongest people are the ones who are chosen , it’s taken me to the age of 54 to know that I have stayed true to myself and I have learned to think. Instead of thinking “why me again “ I now say “ try me it will not get you anywhere 💯
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He didn't change but it changed me
Yes. Life Lessons for us too. To recognize the red flags, and step away…..no run.
The lesson goes both ways.
I don’t Believe that they regret anything, they just move on! And throw you away with no consequences
✨That is precisely and exactly how it went with me. And now I realize “Why”.
Thank you 🙏✝️🕊
🙏 this is so true words
I don’t believe that they changed one bit or they even reconsider their particular stance. I think they’re stuck and the whole growing thing was on your being
This has been confirming & refreshing. Entered his life walking close to God. He wasn’t interested. Then at Easter in Catholic Church got a glimpse of his shame. A triangle he formed after that with a new widow. I’d be around for 6 months visiting often as had business there. He wanted me to stay, but his sarcasm & isolating got old. He wouldn’t let me do anything per advice from her. She was jealous of us.(Then she used him & picked a man w/ $$. ) I’d Sit, that’s it. Did get to me as I had cleaned to pay my way before her. But the light in me did affect him. He was so very extremely mean when I flirted at an event. Yet he with another one. I met an old friend and stayed with her. I So wish these people would get delivered of demons that control them. He has a sweet side. But told me several times miserable.
So powerful WOW !
No second chances!!
And me as well...I learned my Lesson but they never will.
I DID lose myself he turned me into an extension of himself
I lost me too. Very scary. I am getting me back.
Thank you
Although I do believe all this to be true, one must not underestimate the power of the deep-rooted pathological denial narcissists live by. They will deny all their feelings just to get through the day and show others how strong and important they are. They will never own up to anything that doesn't fit their egocentric false persona. Doing so would most likely kill them. I've seen what narcissistic collapse looks like, it's brutal. It's sad but we must let them go indefinitely.
Interesting. My disabilities make me stand out and cause a lot of resentment by family and 'friends'. Alone is peace but lonely.
i love this
A little humbling never hurt anyone
When can I have a good relationship with love and understanding everyone needs
unfortunately I don't see any blessing almost 6 months after the discard - she is OK with new supply and I'm just a garbage. But have no wrong feeling for her , still love her ... Why The Universe engage me to live ... to much pain ... I think if God will exclude me it will be the blessing ..
I don’t believe this at all. I don’t think they learned ANYTHING, I don’t think they care and I don’t believe they are “changed”. They have too much pride and ego to care or to change. They do not care. They blame you and move on. We are the ones who are forever changed.