Sadists Vs. Narcissistic Punishments

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  • Опубликовано: 10 сен 2024
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Комментарии • 19

  • @lisarodriguez6966
    @lisarodriguez6966 26 дней назад +6

    I have a dormant sadistic side that gets accessed only during a split, and not all of them. Makes sense seeing as borderlines are considered failed narcissists.

    • @uppercutgrandma4425
      @uppercutgrandma4425 26 дней назад +1

      It's pretty cold stuff

    • @gho5t504
      @gho5t504 25 дней назад

      Can't argue with this one. I'm guilty of this. Even though, legally it was self defense, I consider it to be morally wrong. A chick staged an ambush because I rejected her. At first I took couple of punches, trying to hold myself back to not engage into combat. Once I saw my blood on my hand, I could have felt myself going psycho. Then the stupid taunted me verbally, which was just the push I needed to fall into sadistic side. I know it's wrong, but I enjoyed every second of the fight. And classic, dealt with massive guilt later, but because this person was a douche anyway, it didn't bother me so much. Still, I'm terrified of that thing from 10 years ago. I don't want anyone to ever get into that situation with whatever the heck that was in my head.

  • @surfshack2
    @surfshack2 26 дней назад +2

    Some people don’t wanna be saved 🤣

  • @naturelover-f6h
    @naturelover-f6h 26 дней назад +2

    Ah that makes sense - he told me I remind him of his father and his father was cruel - therefore I got punished... alot.

    • @cLuStErBMiLkShAkE
      @cLuStErBMiLkShAkE  26 дней назад +3

      @@naturelover-f6h BINGO!
      It’s also important to understand how people view their own parents/original caregivers. If they hated even one parent (or specific traits about them), they will be retraumatized if they experience the same traits in you. This is how I would get men trauma bonded to me in the past (not the shared fantasy). The difference between us is, I will continue to hurt them where u will try to love the trauma out of them.

    • @lisarodriguez6966
      @lisarodriguez6966 26 дней назад

      @@cLuStErBMiLkShAkE and that is the relationship I share with my partner, in a nutshell. As long as he exhibits 'progress' in my eyes, (gratitude for my efforts, acts of service, deciding to walk away from drama, etc) and I breadcrumb my love (sex, acts of service, typical Madonna/whore complex) we can continue our dance, as long as we can keep away from outside influences.
      After a bowl and a gummy is all so clear. 😉

  • @alice-hp7dh
    @alice-hp7dh 26 дней назад +2

    Bullies!
    I have been a bully in my childhood because of my...DADDY!!
    And then I have been bullied throghout my teenager years.
    Weak people stimulate the anger in broken souls.
    Now I saw.

    • @flowersofthefield340
      @flowersofthefield340 22 дня назад +2

      You learned ....... keep healing and watch out for the predators out their
      Esp the ones in Power !!!

  • @Imnotyourdoormat
    @Imnotyourdoormat 26 дней назад +1

    *So its like a Narcissistic "Deal-A-Meal" Wheel ...*

  • @px9068
    @px9068 26 дней назад +2

    Actually you’re punishing yourself …
    It will never work !
    We come and go.

  • @funkymonk542
    @funkymonk542 23 дня назад

    Hi Sara in all the narcissist videos on RUclips there isn’t one on how a narcissistic or BPD woman will act when they have a child with a normie or anyone , like is their the common dynamic that the boyfriend or husband will have to be doing all the work or does the narc use the baby for self validation or is there push / pull trait with their own baby or does the baby now become the favorite person , I know narcissism and BPD is on a wide spectrum but is there a common dynamic in this type of relationship? Please make a video I would love to hear your opinion , ❤

    • @cLuStErBMiLkShAkE
      @cLuStErBMiLkShAkE  22 дня назад +1

      ruclips.net/video/_HFZKIwBGzM/видео.htmlsi=ksh1lSKu7Nq4Vty6
      ruclips.net/video/W6REr1eG4MU/видео.htmlsi=RsuZTCuOkYbYecGG

    • @funkymonk542
      @funkymonk542 22 дня назад

      @@cLuStErBMiLkShAkE thank you sista ! ❤️

  • @flowersofthefield340
    @flowersofthefield340 22 дня назад

    When sadistic narcs are cruel to children ........... ??????????????????

  • @kizombaholic
    @kizombaholic 26 дней назад

    Would you choose someone stronger than you as a partner or you wouldn't feel safe being around someone who you may not be able to control and "given the need" punish?

    • @cLuStErBMiLkShAkE
      @cLuStErBMiLkShAkE  26 дней назад +2

      I like strong men, not abusive men. I can't respect a man that is easily controlled but I like when they would let take the lead in with finances (I'm a conservative spender) and raising the children.

    • @kizombaholic
      @kizombaholic 26 дней назад

      Thanks❤