Why People Love Dave Rygalski
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- Опубликовано: 23 июл 2024
- A video on Dave Rygalski from Gilmore Girls and why he won the audience over. In this video, I also compare Lane's relationship with Dave to Rory's relationships with Dean and Jess in season 3. I wish that the show created conflicts between other couples in a similar way to how the show created conflicts for Lane and Dave.
Video on Lane's relationships from another channel: • Justice for Lane Kim! ...
Timestamps:
00:00 Intro
0:30 Romantic Buildup
4:06 Conflict
11:21 Criticisms of Dave
12:33 Why Do People Like Dave? 
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As if it wasn't depressing enough to lose Dave, they had to pair up lane with Zach. Why? WHY? couldn't they cast a new guy, anyone but Zach
I definitely didn't love the couple, he wasn't the worst but I was hoping that lane would date someone I rooted for or had something interesting (I'm not a zach hater I just didn't care that much about him), and that's not zach, I even got excited when brian wrote a song for lane (or he just added her name on it) bc it would've been so much interesting at least
LITERALLY why zach he wasn’t right for her??!! at least brian or something brian was always lovely to lane
I actually don't think they are that bad together, except for the time they were broken up, which was a weird plot line in many ways, the communicate quite well together and I think their energy really matches. And yes, Zack has his problems, but I don't think he deserves all the hate he got and I don't like how people are always so mean about his intellect, to me he almost seems like he has some kind of learning disability (he says himself that he is slow sometimes), but I would argue he has a lot of social intelligence (like he even got Ms. Kim to like him) I'm also pretty sure he plays the most instruments out of everyone in the band, even more obscure once like the mandolin, which indicates to me that he is willing to learn, when he is interested in something, you know like these kids that always almost fail every class, but then they get a job repairing cars and suddenly they excel at everything they do and even get better at things they struggled with before, like math.
Also I think it's adorable how quickly he just became a devoted dad and husband.
All in all I feel like the biggest problem was that he was kind of an afterthought and they really didn't do much to develop his character, after he and Lane started dating.
Thanks if you actually read this all, and off topic, but if you can, please donate blood and if you can't talk to people about blood donations. (I know it's scary, but it is really important and apparently, especially kids 18-25 don't do it enough)
100% this, we went from the literal best to the literal worst.
I agree! It would've been weird for a little bit (bc it wouldn't be adam brody) but at least we'd still have Dave.
Dave Rygalski being based on the irl guitar-playing husband of Helen Pai, the show producer and bff of ASP Lane is based on, is definitely proof that Lane and Dave were written to be a serious longterm relationship, probably "endgame", not just a first love. Which is why Zack is such a disappointment.
Zack was clearly never written to fulfill a serious boyfriend role, so it feels forced when he's shoehorned into that role. They have no romantic chemistry and the result is Lane's story getting the short end of the stick.
It's tough but they probably should have recast Adam Brody as Dave in s4 instead of writing out the character entirely, or atleast introduced a new love interest similar enough to him. Not Zack.
I think introducing a new character similar enough to Dave would have been the safest approach. Although I could see a recasting working out as well. I agree that Zach was written in a very specific way since the beginning and his personality wasn't written in a way that would be compatible with Lane.
@@PensiveWhiskers Absolutely. And if they still really _really_ wanted that Zach boyfriend arc after Brody's unforeseen exit, imo it should have just been written as a coming-of-age phase, the way Rory's boyfriends are written, to explore, say, Lane having a rebound or a more casual relationship after Dave is gone or something. It could factor into her character development before she found her real partner (and perhaps then they could have Dave returning if Brody had more time to guest star later, or that new Dave type you suggested or maaaaybe even Brian...because even that's more interesting than her being with Zach 😅).
And yes, a proper final partner who wouldn't just get her pregnant at 20 and have their stories end as typical parents in Stars Hollow because Lane who loved her music so so hard and was so committed to that dream deserved more excitement and rocknroll than that.
the girlies stan Dave because he is literally the ideal first love we didn't all get 😭❤️
Your comment brings up an interesting point. Maybe the fact that Dave left allows the show to be more painfully realistic. Gilmore Girls is a cozy show but things don’t turn out as idyllic and cozy as we expect.
Damn 😂😭 so true
That's my thesis for A Year In The Life, maybe it'll change once I start working on that video.
Stop calling me out like that 😂
I just love Dave. I don't hate Zach, but it's hard not to feel like he's an easy, ready-made substitute without the chemistry Lane had with Dave.
I love Dave he and lane were so great together and totally agree about zack
I’m with you on everything you said. The chemistry was stronger with Dave and Lane.
Excactly, I think the main reason I can't stand Lane and Zack's relationship is the fact that (whether you like the character or not) it's pretty obvious that Zack was never ment to be anything more than a "filler character" for the band. The whole situation kinda reminds me of what happened to Ducky from Pretty in pink
@@laeiraO-O how? What are the similarities?
Basically in pretty in pink (in the original script) the pink girl was supposed to end up with Ducky, her best friend who had been a prominent character from the very start of the movie. But then, during the test screening the audience was so disappointed that the pink girl didn't end up with the other guy that they changed the ending, but the thing is this other guy was never supposed to be more than a plot device for story, he had appeared for only a few scenes and had no personality whatsoever and no chemistry with the girl.
So I guess it's kinda similar?
(sorry Ducky is the only name I remember lol)@@agnessofiacastrocarvalho774
I love him. He is smart, he has this dry humor which I love. They share a pession for music, yet he looks at Lane as her own person, and doesn't want to change her. He accepts a terrible mom - I mean, I know, Mrs. Kim is not a bad person per say, but she is absolutley difficoult, and he doesn't run, he works with her. Everybody, everybody deserves her own Dave. And I never noticed the parallel with Rory and Dean, such a cool detail! Same goes for the contrast with Rory and Jess later!
I like that; everybody needs a Dave in their life. 🙂
I think a lot about the parallels between Dave and Henry. Both nice guys who are super interested in Lane. Henry wasn’t willing to make sacrifices for Lane, but Dave was ready and willing to go above and beyond.
Honestly, healthy relationships with good communication, healthy boundaries and honest vulnerability are super rare in gilmore girls.
Even the good couples öike jackson and sookie communicate terribly.
So Dave and Lane were the only aspirational couple in the show ..
I agree; I think they had the healthiest communication. We don't see a lot of that on the show. I'm sure Babette and Morey would get that accolade as well if they had more screen time, but we'll never know. Paris and Doyle seemed pretty good, although they did have some issues.
@@PensiveWhiskers Babette and Morrey are adorable...
Paris and Doyle are quite a unique coupling...
But yes, they do learn to comunicate with each other, though Doyle seems to be making all the learning
I know Lane never got over his ass, how could you 😭 as someone with over protective parents, their relationship was sooo sweet to see
At least the real life story worked out. 🙂 Their relationship was very sweet on screen.
Dave was the best male romantic character on that show. That's the hill I'll die on 🤷🏻♀️
They should have kept Dave but in the same way they have Mr Kim
Hes still there, can have the story and stuff with him, but you never see him 😂
Hahahahahaha, I kind of love that actually. It would be a funny way to show that people really do find partners that act like their parents.
Yeah, the show didn’t have to get rid of Dave, even if he couldn’t make guest appearances they could’ve said that Lane was visiting him or that he was visiting but just not show him
I understand why people love dave, but I liked him as a first love for lane.
I feel Zach gets too much hate. He is a great husband to Lane, earned the respect of her mom, and is a good father to his kids.
I hate that they could not even enjoy their honeymoon and went straight to being parents. They deserved better writing in that regards. I want a storyline where Lane finally enjoys sex and she and Zach explore that side of themselves more while still maintaining that mature love that they had.
I also love mrs. Kim’s dedication to making sure their band can support them. You don’t always see that side of her.
Zach had a tough act to follow after Dave, so he was already at a disadvantage in the audience’s eyes. Like you mentioned, I also think the writing wasn’t generous to Lane and Zach. They didn’t give them enough time to enjoy the relationship. I never felt that they fit together but that doesn’t make me dislike Zach, just dislike the relationship. I’m all for people who support it, though!
@@PensiveWhiskers agree with you about their writing. Wish it was more developed and like the writers weren’t punishing them for no reason.
I think there’s also something about their relationship that is easily romanticised from an immigrant and/or non-white pov. Very mitski best American girl vibes but the idea of this random white guy not only tolerating the idiosyncrasies of Lane’s home life but actively embracing them is such a dream especially when you’re younger. I think it’s so relatable as someone from an immigrant family to feel almost embarrassed about those sorts of cultural things that can make u feel alienated from the dominant culture you find yourself situated in. Think a lot of woc can relate to the idealising the white guy who will accept you wholeheartedly quirks and all and although there’s a deeper conversation about why one may feel that way and the internalised shame etc. it’s still a really sweet depiction of an often romanticised situation
That is an interesting point. One of my friends suggested that I make a video on immigrant families and how it plays out on Gilmore Girls. I think that the representation of a Korean family on the show is a very deep and interesting topic.
Putting Lane with Zack was stupid and we hate it
The show did not have time to ruin him - so perfectly said 👏
Lol, yes you are so right, they didn't had time to ruin Dave, he was so sweet and definitely the charisma of Adam, and the chemistry between the actors made the relationship so effortless, thank you for the video, love it ❤
Yes! The casting here was excellent; Adam brought a very endearing quality to Dave. Thank you for watching! ☺
Now I understand that the qoute Mrs Kim said she liked him! Thankyou! I really liked Dave.
I have to caution, the interpretation of that quote is my own, so there could be other interpretations. 🤷♀️
@@PensiveWhiskers I understand.
I think the two biggest reasons people liked Dave is first the actor like you pointed out Adam Brody is very charismatic I also think the fact that Dave is based on a real person also helps one of Jim Carrey's best characters his character from The Mask he based on his dad and I think if he didn't do that the character wouldn't have been as good and I think that maybe if Dave's character hadn't been based on a real person and his and Lanes relationship hadn't been inspired by real events it wouldn't have been as good.
I had no idea that Jim Carrey based the character from The Mask on his dad! I thought he was really good in that role. Like you said, I guess there might be something to emulating a real person that might bring a certain authenticity to the character (if done right of course).
I love the little humorous ways you write these scripts, like Kirk not being meant to make sense but you will make sense of him anyway, or the way you frame trying to prove Dave isn't as perfect as everyone thinks but no he really is so very perfect lol. I loved this video essay when you first posted it but didn't make time to comment then. I really appreciate all the effort you put into these videos. I wish Dave could've had a goodbye scene or a cameo or something. Even in the revival. We all just really loved him so very much. Although I'm glad The OC got to have him too. I enjoyed both shows.
Can we get an episode about Max Medina? Because I honestly think he and Loreley matched so well, if Luke wouldn’t have been in the picture
Thanks again for a great gilmore girls analysis 💙 I loved the parallels/connections between Lane and Dave's romance with what was going on in Rory's love life. External vs. internal. I wish Dave had stayed or they would have brought a character that was similar to Dave's essence... Zach and Lane were incompatible and is just depressing to watch Lane end up with someone who didn't really push her...
I would have also liked them to bring on another character that had Dave’s character traits. I guess the show didn’t want to repeat itself (speculating here). Thanks again for watching and sharing your thoughts! ☺️
I love your analysis of the 2 girls' relationships in season 3, I hadn't realized they were in balance like that, super interesting! For a character with such little screen time overall, Dave really did make an impact on fans, I'm sure that had a lot to do with his real life inspo and the authenticity in that.
To be honest, I don't think the parallels were intended by the show but they really stood out to me as I was analyzing their scenes. Dave did impressively win over the audience in a very short time.
I once had a comment that tried to explain to me that jealousy wasn't always a negative emotion. I responded that my opinion was it was always a nagative emotion, but how the person reacts to said negative emotion can create a positive outcome in the relationship. Dave is a prime eample of this. The first time was perfect and the second time, while not perfect, the only thing he did wrong was pull a Rory and Jess by not communicating the issue before the jealousy. I give him credit, though for saying something before it becomes a Rory and Jess fight.
Yes! I feel the exact same way. Everybody experiences jealousy at one point or another, it's a natural human emotion. It's how you react to the emotion that matters.
The first time they kiss and Nirvana starts playin 😭 unforgettable moment, really, so sad he had to leave😢
Do you mean the song "The Man Who Saved the World"? I discovered that song because of the show. It fits so well with that scene. I love how in an earlier scene, Dave starts playing it on his guitar before Mrs. Kim notices.
I love all the little details you pick up on in these Gilmore Girls video essays. I particularly like you talking about the Rory/Lane relationship parallels, never noticed them before.
Thank you! In all honesty, I don’t notice these things either until I start watching and taking notes for the purpose of analysis. It’s interesting how many things start to come up.
I loved Dave! He was awesome! Then Lane married Zack. *sigh*
Dave was awesome 🙂. At least we got him for 9 episodes. It was also a great casting choice.
I enjoy your videos about gilmore girls so much! I always get super excited about it. I've seen all of them and can't wait for more!
It's noticable that you put a lot of work into your videos. Thank you! :-) Greetings from Germany
Hey Hannah! Thank you so much! 😄 I am so happy that others are enjoying them. I hope that the quality continues to improve the more videos I make.
I would much prefer if Dave was a long-distance boyfriend that we hear about, since the actor couldn't make it, rather than the end-game that Lane got. It was Zach, for the love of god. 🤢 And we could see Dave again in "A year in the life" 😢in that scenario
I loveee your videos! Please keep em coming
Thank you! Absolutely!
Cool video:) thanks for posting it ❤
Thanks for watching it! ☺💜
I look forward to you talking about Lorelai's relationship with Luke.
😅 Oh gosh, I am kind of afraid to touch that relationship, it is a big one. I might cover it, but I think people will hate it. There's so much nuance in that relationship.
Everyone loves Dave because he wasn't on the series long enough to make people dislike him. If he had stayed, I bet he, like most TV characters, (and real people, for that matter,) had flaws and would do or say something that fans would dislike. Dave wasn't fleshed out enough to be a well-rounded character. But he left the series, so we'll never know what would have happened with Dave Rygalski if the actor hadn't landed a role on The OC!
Dave was amazing but honestly justice for Henry. It’s totally understandable why he was scared away as a teenager.
Henry does deserve attention too. Maybe I’ll make a video devoted to all of Lane’s relationships.
I absolutely love dave he and lane were such a good couple to me i understand why adam had to leave the show to do the o.c series but i still miss him on Gilmore girls i would had love to seen him in a year the life 😊❤❤
It would have been really cool to see him in A Year In the Life. I wonder if that would have made the audience sad since it would be a reminder that Lane's story ended differently. I think it would have been interesting to have him come on either way.
I would have loved them back together at the year in a life. No way her and Zach would have made it
I love this channel
Thank you! I love your profile picture, it made me chuckle. Now I wish I picked something like that for mine.
Dave was my favorite too!
I am sure, that Dave fell in love with Zack, which confused him, because in the old Gilmore world, this wasn't something, that could happen. He was overwhelmed by his feelings, didn't dare to tell Zack and had to leave. He didn't know, that Zacks feelings towards him were mutual, which is why Zack was so upset, when Dave left. - There was a confusing triangle between Lane, Dave and Zack, but the show couldn't let us know yet.
I really like how you think. Your explanation made sense. 😂
I know I'm in the minority when I say I enjoyed most of the storyline with Zach. I don't have to dislike Zach to appreciate Dave. I think Lane's relationship with Zach had both highs and lows, but I think of it fondly when I rewatch or think back to it.
I don't dislike Zach to appreciate Dave, I dislike Zach because he's garbage
@radhiadeedou8286 are you here to take out your anger on me, or have an actual conversation? Cuz I'm not interested in being your punching bag
@@radhiadeedou8286how is he garbage, he's rough around the edges, but he's not a bad person
Zach wasn’t terrible, in my opinion. I think the fandom’s dislike of his character primarily stems from the fact that the show set him up with Lane and everybody had high hopes for Lane.
@@PensiveWhiskers in a way, it kind of mirrors the guy she had a date with and ended up not liking (forgot his name). He wasn't 'bad' just a flaky, goofy dude she wasn't compatible with. So in the end, she ended up with 'him' anyway 🤔
I liked her and Zack cause i think their relationship made sense for Lane's development as a character and that's all that matters.
Oh, I love that it was based off a true story, and they use his real
Please do a video in the future on Mitchum Huntzberger, April, and Anna.
Hi! I will probably tackle April this year, a few people have asked for this character. Mitchum and Anna are good contenders for a video but it may be a while before I address them, they are frustrating characters. 🙁
I love how no one really knows what Mrs. Kim means when she quotes Shakespeare and we all have to make guesses that we hope are "Yes"
DAVE! My love! 🌟💖 we must preserve your memory. Thank you for this video. I haven't seen it yet but I innately love it because Dave
edit: ok, now I've watched it. GOODBYE DAVE! In my mind, the ship is still canon
At least now there are more fan videos out there on him, so he will live on through the fandom. 🙂
@@PensiveWhiskers hahahah yes!
Dave wasn't a bad character, and he was a good boyfriend. He just wasn't the most developed character. Granted, I think that the writers might have intended to include him in larger plotlines as he and Lane were headed towards marriage, but I feel like he wasn't fleshed out enough overall.
As a side note, as someone who does run competitively, I think there's some context you need: a 4:30(4 and a half) minute mile is an incredible time for a runner to run a mile. To give you context, with a four minute mile you could try out for the olympic US track and field team, and 4:30 is D1 good. When I was in high school, only one guy could run a 4:30-and he had been training for 7 years 5-10 miles a day. This is all just to say, I think he probably ran closer to a 7:00/7:15 mile time as I think it's a little more realistic, especially since he has to run another mile of a similar time on the way back with very little break.
Thank you for adding that information! I definitely skimped on my summary on running. A 4-minute mile is unusually good. I should have clarified that it is Olympic-level speed. I think my best time was a little under 11 minutes, and that was when I was really pushing myself (but I'm also just not a competitive runner). I would have to assume Dave was not at the level of running a 4-minute mile.
I know that a lot of people are sad that Lane didn't end up with Dave but I found that realistic : how many people married their first love in real life ?
What is the song at the beginning of the video!!!! I recognize it but don’t remember the name :(((((
I used the song "George's Lament - Go By Ocean" from the RUclips studio library for the video. I hope this helps!
I had the biggest crush on him, its good to know that I still do! xx 😳
You kinda sound like lane i love ur voice
Thank you! You're the second person to have that impression! If I had to sound like any of the characters, I'm happy it's like Lane. 🙂
GG had the hottest boyfriends on TV easily.
Can I have Dave? lol he was so great.
No, I’m sorry, I called dibs. (Jk 🙃).
I never loved Dave as much as everybody else and I never fully understood why, I can't argue that he is perfect.
Some of the reason might just be that I'm one of the few people that like Lane and Zack together and everybody compares the tow and obviously you can't compete with a perfect relationship.
Then there is the fact that I felt really bad for him in many of the story lines, like the s**t he had to put up with and I know he agreed, but still, poor kid.
But also, I just kind of didn't buy him, I don't know how to say it, maybe it was the fact that he was so great, and in real life, people aren't that perfect, but he also just doesn't feel like a teenager in a punk band, like he just doesn't have an alliterative/musician vibe to him, as I said it's hard to explain.
Also, off topic, but please consider donating blood, I know it's kind of scary, but peoples lifes depend on it.
That is a fair criticism. Dave was written as a very idealized love interest. Not only did he have the same interests, but he was ready to move the earth and moon for Lane, which doesn't usually happen in real life.
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Lane & Dave was made for each other & idk why they made her & zach start dating 😩. I'll will always say this they did Lane so wrong & i hated how they did her character, she should have a different ending.
Why didn’t they just recast him??? crazy, honestly.
He's a great boyfriend to be sure, at least compared to every single one of Rory's, but that's a low hurdle to clear (none of Rory's boyfriends were right for her). That said, you declare Dave to be the best boyfriend in the series when Max was basically perfect? The problem with that relationship was timing; Lorelei just wasn't ready (meaning mature) to get married, and this being a TV show, a couple that isn't quite ready to get married can't just go on as a nonmarried romantic couple, they must break up (I've always found that a weird storytelling trope; couple is going strong, marriage talk comes up, one isn't quite ready, so they break up instead of just going on as they were; the only exception I can think of is Spenser and Susan in the Spenser books).
Also, Luke, whose big advantage over Max is that he was willing to wait for Lorelei.
I personally don't give Dave the label of best boyfriend as it is too absolute. On a show that doesn't give all love interests the same level of depth, it wouldn't be fair to label one "the best." I found in my research that many people consider Dave to be the best, hence my statement that the fandom sees him in this light (of course not the entire fandom). I do think he is in his own way "perfect," he has flaws but he is also very sympathetic and likable. He's not the best but he's a good partner.
What do you mean by jealousy is a negative emotion?
What I meant to say is that jealousy is an emotion that is typically not desired by people. People don’t usually look positively on this emotion.
at the beginning:
"he's not that great" *dislikes video*
"just kidding" *likes video*
Hahahahaha 😂. After I made the video, I wondered if maybe my pause was too long. I imagined that 70% of people would click off before the "just kidding."
I wish the character of Dave would have stayed. 😢
Could you do a video about Logan?
Hey! I might do Logan down the line. I have a long list of topics for Gilmore Girls that I told myself I will cover first. I wanted to start off with covering characters that I haven't seen discussed as often or topics that I haven't seen covered in the same way, so I put the bigger characters on the back burner, for now.
Dave Rygalski >>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>> Seth Cohen
I loved Dave's gentle manner, but I wouldn't put in all that work to date Lane. And Lane's mother was a huge pain in the ass. It just doesn't seem worth it.
I think people love Dave because he was only on for a short period of time. The Dave schtick would’ve gotten old fast if he stayed into season 4
I don't think a character played by Adam Brody could ever be boring
Tell that to The OC fan base 😂
@@kirst.orsomething wellll I do love the OC but the Summer Seth Anna triangle was drawn out
@polevaultgirl33 yeah the storyline was, but even at Seth's most annoying he was still super loved
I think it depends, it’s certainly possible but I could see ways to keep the character interesting, especially if the show didn’t focus on Lane and Dave.
4 seasons vs 7 seasons not great Adam could have come back
It was implied that they broke up because Lane balked at getting married to him, which he learned when she told him about the "marriage jug".