life’s been kinda rough. here’s how I’m coping :)

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  • Опубликовано: 14 окт 2024

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  • @victorialim
    @victorialim  Год назад +5

    If you're in Singapore, come visit us on our farm @groundupinitiative (find us on IG, on telegram, on RUclips too)! It's a beautiful space, a beautiful community, and it's a lovely place to spend a day if you ever need some space away from the busy-ness of life :) Hope to see you there one day!

  • @DDthesecond
    @DDthesecond Год назад +7

    Really empathise with you here. The negative feelings can all come to you at once and it can spiral out of control , especially when you feel lonely and you’re an introvert. I’m finishing my PhD too and I feel the same things, just feeling adrift and heavy. Hope you can keep finding these moments of happiness or at least peace of mind

    • @victorialim
      @victorialim  Год назад +2

      Ahhh I understand. ending one phase of life brings a whole wave of emotions that can be hard to untangle. felt the same when I graduated college… Yet I hope you take a moment to celebrate your accomplishment too (PhD is no small feat)! 😊 we’ll figure things out :)

  • @sherissagounden4403
    @sherissagounden4403 Год назад

    I have never related more to someone I've never met, you are so real and so incredibly authentic. I love how you accept yourself and the understanding you have about what brings you peace and joy. I am deeply inspired by you. Thank you for sharing this, truly. Recently moved to another country on my own and its been the most confronting and lonely experience of my life but there are moments of deep solitude too, wish to visit Singapore one day.

    • @victorialim
      @victorialim  Год назад

      💜 moving away someplace new alone is so hard. I hope you are settling in well, and I’m sure you will find people who will feel like home in no time! You’re so strong, and I’m v happy to hear that this video gave you some comfort no matter how small :) sending hugs!

  • @NhungBui-e3e
    @NhungBui-e3e Год назад

    Thank you for spending your time to plan (maybe), film, edit and put this video up. I have the YT algorithm and the universe to thank when your videos came up 😊 Your videos about enjoying your own company and relationships have lifted me up heaps, made me feel like I’m not the only one struggling and given me some practical guidance! Then this video reminded me that life is always ups and downs and it’s what we do to create ‘our’ own situations with what we learn, do and experience to make it our life.
    Thank you for being authentic and speak your truth. It’s very uplifting to hear even though things were tough but you chose to focus on picking yourself up, constantly deconstructing your thoughts, emotions and patterns.
    Love your energy and I hope through all of these experience, you are leaning even more in your intuition/inner authority and be at peace with yourself even more ❤

    • @victorialim
      @victorialim  Год назад +1

      This is one of the sweetest comments I’ve received in a long while. Thank you so much for your kind words and I’m so happy to hear some things have resonated w you 💜 sometimes feels strange to put in so much effort into sharing my feelings up online but receiving messages like yours makes it worthwhile :’) sending hugs !

    • @NhungBui-e3e
      @NhungBui-e3e Год назад

      @@victorialim You're more than welcome, lovely! What strange to you is courage, sense of self and an act of service to people like myself. So please keep being you, and if that means making more YT videos then that's a blessing for the rest us! :P
      Hugs back! :D

  • @JulianLee26
    @JulianLee26 Год назад +1

    thank you for sharing vic! 🙏 i'm going through a little bit of a tough time too. :') watching your video was a nice break from my job hunt and it's inspiring to see you taking care of yourself. i hope things get better for you and see you around! 😌

    • @victorialim
      @victorialim  Год назад +1

      Julian! Was so nice to see you at GUI this Saturday and I’m happy to see you’re becoming a BK lead ☺️☺️ wishing you all the best always and see you again soon!

  • @sababatamanna9226
    @sababatamanna9226 Год назад +1

    Thank you so much for sharing! I am going through a very difficult time of my life. I am trying to be patient with myself everyday. But it has been really tough for me. I am grateful to my mother who is always there to listen to me. Thank you for sharing❤️

    • @victorialim
      @victorialim  Год назад +1

      My mother is one of my biggest pillars of support too -- definitely something to be grateful for. Hope things start to look up for you soon!

  • @Ice._.11-c4q
    @Ice._.11-c4q Год назад

    how you handle your problems so smoothly watching you gives me a lot of courage 😇

  • @shrimigaurav4635
    @shrimigaurav4635 Год назад

    This channel is so underrated 🥺

  • @TeekhiValley
    @TeekhiValley Год назад

    Thank you for sharing this! 🙏🙌

  • @lumieredice485
    @lumieredice485 Год назад

    What book were you reading?