Attachment Is NOT Love: Part 4: BK Shivani
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BK Shivani clarifies that Detachment means our state of being is not effect by situations and other behaviours. So we are stable, and hence emotionally available to be there for others. Attachment is not love because then if one is in pain, we also experience pain, and hence we cannot help or heal them.
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Detachment = Unconditional love❤️
Attachment= Conditional love
This generation need this💫
Agreed, now people want conditional love
Agreed 👍
Very good👍
👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻
😍
Firstly I learned from u how to talk slowly,cool and calmly which is primary source of to make someone happy..great ma'am...
Isi se to paisa bnta hai use pta ki bhut se bevkoof use sunne ke liye bhut rupay kharch krte hI acha dhandha chal rha hai
@@suyashgautam4695 atleast he is learning something good and positive.
You both spent your time and help hear earn as per your comment.
But he got benifit. So the time he spent on her was worth it.
I watched in 2x speed
I also feel that.
Very true
Moral -
1) detachment is necessary
2) it means unconditional love
3) with love and respect
4) it is sign of powerful soul
3) what you carry it radiates to other💯
In reality,there is nothing called unconditional love in relationship... Even without little expectation,no relationship exists...
💯💯💯
@@ramyavallikumble6381 unconditional love one can only express where if one is connected truly with your self! And then with others
Exp- if u r mother u can't expect anything from 2 years child because at that time of period , that baby can't do nothing.... Not expecting is not unconditional love, expect when that baby turns mature and not listening yours...
Moral is don't expect anything from anyone further more don't desire for something... That is real cause of problem...
True love is beyond physical, mental and emotional attachment.
Right
No such thing as physical love - lust,
No such thing as mental love - curiosity
No us such thing as emotional attachment - empathy.
Then what is love? and what would be unconditional love?
@@ahmedabdul-rehman6511 eternal love??
Jab ya ho ga tab tu khud ko mara huwa milaga
Then What is love??
Look at the glow that spirituality has brought on her face
अगर ऐसे देखोगे तो celebrities to aur jyada चमकते है 😁
@@sanghpriygautamtony6611 bina make up pe nhi dikhate😂
@@vaibhavshingade1804 वो तो body dekh hi pta lag jata hai bhai , आसान होता तो सब celebrity nhi bn jate😁
Have you seen her dance and laugh out loud?
Spirituality is total joy and fun, not just speech
Its not just the spirituality...a very comfortable living, healthy practices added by some kaju badam..is the reason behind the glow
Detachment means having no expectations from them,just being urself always... detachment means not getting affected by their behaviour..👍
Respect from Pakistan... I hv listened to you for the very first time .. felt great 😍
Hai bro,
I m from India..
How r u?
Yes great
Ume lella, you are a Muslim, so plz don't distract your imaan. Follow the sunnah plzzzz
@@saherkhushimohammad1457 why are you here then ?
@@dreamzamazon4761 I follow sidhart Shukla, was seeing his videos, in one video, come to know that he follows this religious groups, was just start watch one of two videos to know their concept about death after life and then in recommendion see this video caption that attracts my attention. So was just listing her thoughts. Meanwhile readings comments and see the comment of a Muslim girl from Pakistan, I am also Muslim and from Pakistan. So just advise her that the Islam tells all these things in more right way, so follow her own religion.
I am not opposing this lady thought narrated in this video, those are also related to humanity, but Islam is more near infact accurate to humanity. So after listening this, she may distracted from her right path, as a Muslim sister, I advise to follow her own religion.
As we muslim don't believe in incarnation, we don't believe any 7 janam of life.
We believe that life is given only one time and on the basis of this life, we will get punished or rewarded at the day of judgement.
She is a mother, truly a mother for many...She teached me how to stay peaceful ,, Tq..Mam I respect u as my Mother🙏
Didi is naturally beautiful... Inner beauty reflects on her face.
Right
Beauty means which can attract u in now a days...
@@indrakandhapani4778 this doesn't mean same for everyone
Yeah.. no one can say she is around 50 years old.
@@pranavSharma-lm3mw yes. Whatever fill in heart, then flow through the mouth out. Its represent inner beauty.
I randomly play this video and watched till the end because of her soothing voice.😊😊
I also play randomly this bt got best
Mee too
@@vindhyavasinisingh6336 😊😊👍
@@priyamaurya1667 👍😊😊
Me too 🙏
i want to talk like her. isn't it amazing how she could talk her mind out and we all listen to her, knowing that she is generous and has a positive way of seeing life.
"Detachment is the best gift you can give to ur family" 🔥🔥❤💯💯
Sorry, not possible. When pregnancy gives birth to a new born.
Detachachment is a inhuman creality.
Attachment is not love.
Anyway.
You are a mother.
You did not welcome the event, but left the child with a servant.
The problem is that all your followers take your words as Gospel truth.
Did you detach yourself from your new born.
Wrong teachings should not be followed.
A new born is a God given blessing.
Please teach your followers to follow His love and affection.
Detachment is a deadly sin. More so when your ardent audience would praise your ways blindly
Please do not detach yourself from Gods greatest offering, a new born.
@@dr.anantchaudri1118 right
Sab log dittached hojayenge to duniya kese chalega.
Better increase the leval o f Attachment from your self to the universe, a possible one rather then to practice Detachment, a mith, permitted to preachings only.
@@dr.anantchaudri1118 plz tell me jb tk hum attach nh hongy lagaw nh hoga pyar kesa jada hoga agr loved ones ko kuch ho rha huma fark nh pdd rha fir ye kesa pyar hai please tell me
only in a detached state we can experience unconditional love and respect from another person...
Right
But i think without attachment you can't love someone truely
How?
Both side love is by attachment, one side is by detachment and I think from detaching we can attach with
Only broken hearts will understand this
Sahi hai
No only stable mind can understand. You see this video in 1 perspective.
U are right bro 😥😥😥
Every heart on this planet is broken at certain point of life
We are all broken it's just either we have moved on or we just fake a mask of happiness..we all have a story that world doesn't know about
Thankfully i know this concept.. I can see pain and get people out of that.. I used to watch you at 7pm on Aastha channel in TV when i was teenage and no one wanted to see it so I changed my timing of dinner i used to eat at 7pm so that i can watch and get the knowledge and start applying it at 9:05 it is me.. Always for my people..
She is full of positive energy 🙏 , her voice is so calming 😊
She is so calm
So humble
Looks so pure face of our new world
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J
I also want to calm, but I don't know how to be, but I'm humble.
Whatever she said after 9:12 hit me so hard, its so relatable. I cannot speak to my parents about my problems because they are more worried than I am and it's not comforting at all.
I'm a muslim and i absolutely loved this video . What a strong perspective on Attachments.. loved this attitude... Very inspiring video
When I watched her first video,4 years ago,I am like,how someone be so calm,I mean the way of her talking,so calmly,then slowly slowly same things start happen to me after 8 months❤️,thanks Shivani di for my change
I experienced unconditional love from my parents. My parents are pure form of love❤.I love my parents alot.
Love of Jesus is unconditional
मैंने आपको रेंडमली 10 साल पहले टीवी पर देखा था। आप जैसी प्यारी आवाज आम तौर पर कहीं नहीं मिलती 😊😊 💐💐
No one ever explained this concept of detachment sooo well.Its really really beautiful.
I am totally blown away with your knowledge and sharing such powerful information which is helping me in every aspect of my troubled life. I even canceled my hospital admission to listen to your healing thought process. You are absolutely amazing and I am sharing all your videos you need to be heard.
This has opened my eyes. Thank you so much ma'am. Attachment may feel good at the initial stage of a relation but later it actually feel crippling at some point. A small thing like no reply on text drives you crazy. You explained it very easily. And I loved it.
Love is not temporary feelings and emotions. Emotions and Feelings change, sometimes daily.
But The True Unconditional Love is Everlasting.
Written by
Sandeep Maheshwari
Sandeep chutiya hai
@@ashishsingh3336 tu pagal hai kya.
Mujhe to tu chutiya lag raha hai.
@@AasanTrader444 ok bro agreed but Sandeep se jyada chutiya koi nhi bnata
@@ashishsingh3336 Sandeep sir sirf reality batate hai ab tumko hajam nhi hoti to tumhe lagta ki vo chutiya banata hai.
@DarkHorse reality dekhna hai to Sheeran ki videos dekh Bhai mensutra me trust me bro kaafi help hogi Sandeep true love bol ke usme physics optics sbb daal ke bas bewakoof bnata hai rest up to u bro.. personally I don't have anyone..
This is soft and gentle reminder for specially you...
Know that sufferings and pain is part of your life.
You are not alone at all.
But God has given you the superpower to heal yourself.
You can change you situation which is bothering you with the help of God.
God is within you.
He is ready to help you.
He sending unshakable support and love to you.
Just open your Heart & invite God in your heart space / chakra.
He will take away all your pain.
Believe in your superpowers...
I'm sending you a lots of healing light and unconditional love....
Broken 💔 heart can understand this very deeply 🙂🙂🙃🙃
Detachment is one sided love.. which has no expectations ...
Yes exactly.But you wont able to continue love if you dont get anything in return.Thats the fact.When you detach from first getting love & attach to first giving love it makes life more meaningful.
There will be no life if you have one side love.I think what makes sense Expecting no love or First loving them with heart Filling them up with love & then expecting from them in return after they received unconditionally from us ?
I hope it makes sense.
SPARKED HAPPINESS
In chemistry this is a Ideal condition which doesn't exist !
@@shaaradpandey5546 Nikal Lau** pehli fursat m nikal
@@shaaradpandey5546 mind ur language....sister shivani is a very respectful lady
....om shanti
Detachment is love.. attachment is business.. action and its reaction
She is full of positive energy ⚡
I didn't know that there are still authentic spiritual teacher in India . So happy to hear this lady
Detached attachment concept.
4:16 radiate good vibes🙂
5:26 😊 beautiful explanation ❤️
Exactly, we go to therapists to deal with our own mental issues not realising my peace of mind is within me.
when I become helpless and puzzled with the disturbances of my life ... I hear your soothing voice. I get positive energy from this and I wake up from my problem and my mind feel free.
Same here
Just for voice,What about context?
Her voice is so calm & peaceful ...the last thing she discussed is so real ..we guys really sometimes don't wanna share things with our parents as it make us more disturbed
I LEARNED HOW TO STAY COOL & CONSTANTLY RECHARGE MY SOUL ENERGY; BK SHIVANI IS VERY FRIENDLY, VERY EASY TO UNDERSTAND & GET
CONNECTED; SHE IS AGREAT BLESSING TO ME.
Urs allusions n words r usually heart- soothing about detachment n woo...
this lady represents actual avatar of Indian lady,i just love her accent.
Are you from India ?
Yes she is best
Truly said , respectful after watching her
May ALLAAH give you hidaya aqsa ali sister, Aameenn
@@TheSmile4sorrow From Pakistan
Attachment se expectations hoti hai or jab expectations poori ni hoti tab we get hurt... So that means agr khud ko hurt ni karna toh no attachment only detachment... 👏👏 Care karo par fikar na karo 😊😊
Now I can understood the meaning of Detachment Really. Before that I knewed Detachment means Breach the Relationship or Live alone without that person.
Thank you .
So much ❤️ Mother Shivani 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏.
her voice so calm, her face so bright.. watching these videos first thing in the morning makes your day
Yeahhh 💞
Whenever I am depressed , feeling low , confused about relationships I follow your talks. Helps me to get back peace of mind
My dear sister, It may destroy your relationship.
Just follow thumb rule. Talk to him & make decisions together.
Most of the quote doesn't work in real life .
Spiritual ppl living their lives you live yours.
Believe in God/allah/ishwar.
Theses agents of god are just good speakers. Not more then that.
Time Traveller very true
@@sumitasingha5512 thanks
time traveller shi bola bancho😆👍
@@naveenpanwar4188 thanks bro
Brilliant concept and way of giving the message, lots of love sister from Pakistan.
First time in my life, i listened someone with full attention, without skipping a sec or reading comments
Your voice is so soothing and calming 🙏🙏🙏
The concept of positive and negative energy is so true.
I can feel people around me radiating positive or negative energy.
Being around with people having positive vibes gives tremendous strength.
So True. If you r an empath you will suffer more.
I can't listen to you without looking at you.... your face & voice makes me feel calm & I can understand in a better way. My mother has changed a lot after listening you...Thank you for showing the world in a better way!!!!😊
Ma'am you gave the perfect meaning of detachment.👏🏻
No words can describe her wonderful personality.I really love her too much
I was going with the same problem with my best friend , i am so attached to her that i want to detach i even cried for her 3-4 times due to this....she also knows this......got this video at the right time💖
Hifi didi🙌
@@janu-ui9hp u too.....hifi 🙌
Attachment is a wonderfil gift from God
It is combined with love especially when we are dealing with a new born.
Attachment is a bond of togetherness, with a little one who gives iintese the pleasure to all around.
It is a crime to replace it with detachment, a word which attracts hate and nearness.
edrs
Same here dear 😢😢
@@seemaverma1616 i hope u heal❤️
No one mentioned the Bhagwadgita. The Gita talks about detachment. Ms. Shivani explained it in a very simple way like a skilled teacher. 😃
Your voice is so calming❤️ and you explained a lot about my situation
Thank u so much...this is exactly i needed right now
Yes
I really feel very peace of my mind when I listen to sister shivani.
I listen to your speech because I'm detached from you, and listening to you makes me more calm and more energetic...!!! You have lot of positive vibrations in your voice mam ..!!!
It brings a TURNING point in my life.. ❤️
Each &every word is connecting to my soul....🙏🏻🧘🏻🌺🌼
First time i listened to her she is So Calm
I loved Her accent, And the way of teaching is superb.
Same here
yeah
Sure she is so.... Calming ! 💕💕💕💕
Same here
Hi
I just love B K Shivani.Because Of dippression in my life I was like living away from my family living along with them only.Her Powerful speech motivated me to mingle with my family & friends
Thank you, exactly Flowing this as always 🙏🏻
INSPIRATIONAL GUIDANCE. THANKS🙏SISTER SHIVANI🌷❤🙏.
MY FAVORITE QUOTES:
**MIND MOVES MATTER.
Now i am confident that i am travelling in correct path after listening your wonderful words mam thankyou
You really don't have brain 😔won't you feel ashamed to admit yourself, if you are alive then you can make good decisions 💭👍
@@VenkateshVenkatesh-qt4ye what's wrong with this 😕🙄
@@calligraphy_era you should remember that you have brain which works and it can think 💭so why do you need someone else's words to change your life 💞 if that happens then you're mind is not stable tomorrow anyone else's talk could easily change your mind so beware be clear and remember you still have a brain which work's 😄
@@VenkateshVenkatesh-qt4ye hehe.....but something is true which u can't ignore it ...in her another video's she said many things which are really true and every human's has brain and they are functional then why some times they need psychiatrist...😂😂😂 she is trying to illustrate reason behind our unhappiness and we are not admit ourselves. Just listen and think about it before introducing in yourselves ..that's it ☺
@@VenkateshVenkatesh-qt4ye and we are not in control of brain ... brain can control by ourselves ...if u don't think so than ur brain cannot stable in any moment ...don't be extraordinary just accept the truth .......otherwise ur wish ..☺
That's what everyone should understand in their lives....u taught a beautiful lesson in beautiful manner❣️..much respect 😄
Thank You Didi for explaining so beautifully meaning of attachment :)
You are making me learn a lot of things. I am so thankful to you ma'am 🙏🏻🌼
GOOD MORNING MAM
YOUR VOICE GIVES ME POSITIVE AND PEACEFUL FEELING.. ..
Radiate CARE..POSITIVE energy
THANK YOU MAM
What a beautiful way to explain detachment. Thank u so much 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
One teacher like this for every school can make India super power country.! Hatts off to you shivani ji.!
Right👍👍👍
Seriously touched my heart 💛
Really It is so relieving... Beautiful speech I have ever heard
I have no word to express on the analysis of sister Shivani. She is a jewel of knowledge. Let's wish best wishes for her on behalf of GOD SHIVA BABA. OMSHANTI
Her persona is radiating peace😇😇
U guide in a beautiful way the real meaning of detachment
Mam..jb bhi apje video dekhti bht relax feel krti hu ..chahe kitni hi upset hu..thnku mam for ur inspiring video.. love you
Her words touch directly to our heart ..she is great legend and also great legacies for our nation. .she always gives a perfect explanation for all situations no matter how the situation is ...wonderful soul. .
Never heard such a calm and beautiful voice like ur didi❤
My relationship with everyone is perfect. Thank you sister
Om shanti deeeee🙏
Extremely powerful thought👌
Thank you so much for healthy talk 💐 eye opening thoughts...
May God's peace & power always be upon U fr this wonderful service 🤲💐💐🙏
5:00 thank you Didi you're truely very precious for us
Beautiful voice with beautiful heart touching words 😊😊💐
Today i am seen your, what a powerful, motivation i get i didn't express, thank you mam for giving such kind of inspiration to us 🙏🙏🙏🙏
Your style is so calm, soothing and peaceful 😍 Really loved to hear it.
Unconditional love from living god's precious child soul in the creation.. Mera ishwariya pariwar bhehen ji Ko bahuth yaadh pyaar meeta meeta namaste namaste om Shanti Om Shanti Om Shanti
I’ve watched right now... and I really needed to watch it at this moment. Thank you ❤️
She is truly an amazing personallity I have ever seen in my life thank you for helping me to be peaceful to be strong to be proud to who I am thanx for every words u have shared with us thanx a lot Didi 😊✌✌✌✌✌✌✌
For many years i was debating to myself about dettachment with a wrong understanding. You just cleared it. I bow at you madam. You made my day
Clear as pure water explanation. Happy detachment to all🙏
Whenever I listen to her videos, get so much clarity in mind, thoughts all my doubts are solved just by listening to maam's video...
Hi 👋😊
Love the RUclips algorithm here for it's timely sujjestion and respect Mam soooooo much💛
Such a beautiful video and an equally powerful message for all kinds of relationships.
No expectations just unconditional love and respect. This will surely make all of us more beautiful, loving and powerful human beings ❤
I love you mam... U opened my eyes.. ur speech has changed a family. Seeing your face .. hearing your words.. how positive energy am receiving.. and getting earbto god. U gave me light.. God chose u to make my life different. God bless you mam
shivani didi se jo kuch sikhne ko mila vo khi or nhi...om shanti
Her voice is so calming. This healed me 🥰
If you're sad and your state of mind doesn't effect your partner's state of mind that's OK because only in that case he or she'll be able to think about you to get out of that situation 😇
negative energies makes me unstable...100% truth...this message can be understood by them who went through this condition...
OM shanti to you sis. Thank you so much for sharing this video. You are very right of telling about detachment . Thank you sis. Have a wonderful eve ahead. God has already blessed you🙏👏🌹💐🍁🌟
So soothing in mind when I listen to sister Shivani ji🙏😊
After just reading this "ATTACHMENT ISN'T LOVE".. I was like WOW!!!
Wow mam, u explained it so beautifully
I'm listening u first tym today and from now I'm gonna listen uh every day
She is so divine.
Yes
So beautifully explained 🌺
Thank you💖
Well this kind of detachment works if you're a spiritual person! Detachment can lead to gap in any relationship! When your loved ones are hurt and in pain and say they don't need you, then you give them their personal space so that they can pull themselves together with time. And detachment can create a huge gap and which may eventually destroy the relationship!
Definitely true that detachment can lead into a peaceful self.. Detach yourself from unhealthy relationships, greed, jealous, fear. But not from your truly loved ones...
You don’t detach from your children, you only give them personal space, by doing this you're actually teaching them how to handle emotional hardship and how to manage situations independently!
Love and care for the right people in your life is never a negative vibe.
If you're too much attached to your lover knowing that the relationship is unhealthy and poisonous, you detach so that you don't struggle.
This is my opinion and there is no disrespect for the lady! 🙏
Don't get fascinated by words. It's not about the word attached or detached. We have to understand what is the implications of these words. When you Love someone your ultimate aim is the happiness of the other. You want to make the other happy. When you are in attached state of mind all your actions are from a selfish perspective. Your care for the other is proportional to how they are providing you care in return. That is you are concerned about what YOU are getting from the relationship. In love you are concerned about what you are giving in a relationship. Of course when your partner reciprocate care you will be happy but that is not the initial basis for giving your love to the person you love. It is your freedom to give love and it is their freedom to give you love. There is no compulsion. You love for the sake of love. It's like a musician plays music for the sake of music and not because how much he will get in return for his music. Thank you