Love is not natural, Love has to be learnt || Acharya Prashant, at BITS Goa (2023)

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  • Опубликовано: 25 янв 2023
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    Video Information: 12.01.23, BITS, Goa
    Context:
    What is real love?
    Our love is only hormonal?
    Why do we come in a relationship?
    How to form a healthy relationship?
    What is the real meaning of love?
    When you love something, you kill it!
    Be very cautious of natural love
    Music Credits: Milind Date
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    #acharyaprashant #love #relationship #loveatfirstsight #boyfriend #girlfriend #teenagers #adolescence

Комментарии • 78

  • @AcharyaPrashant
    @AcharyaPrashant  Год назад +12

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  • @rajninair3743
    @rajninair3743 Год назад +66

    Reminded me of JKrishnamurti, whose one favorite line was “you go to work and slay people with anger, jealousy, hate etc, and then you go back home and tell your wife and kids that you love them. That’s NOT love.”

  • @joyetahazra2864
    @joyetahazra2864 Год назад +56

    Love is not so cheap that you will just get it the hormonal way. Love has to be earned and that's what all spiritual pursuit is about, learning love.

  • @Prashant-Kumar-Pandey
    @Prashant-Kumar-Pandey Год назад +28

    "Whatever comes naturally to you,must be taken as problematic."
    👌🙏💕

  • @saurav_advait
    @saurav_advait Год назад +26

    🔅Whatever comes naturally to you must be taken as problematic.
    🔅That which is natural is exactly that which keeps you in bondage.
    🔅That which you usually call love is just natural attraction belonging to the domain of attachment and lust.
    🔅The mind is a thirsty entity, the mind is an entity that is always in want. That which quenches the mind's thirst is love.
    🔅It takes a lifetime to learn love. Love is not cheap, that you will just get it the hormonal way.
    🔅Love has to be earned and that's what all spiritual pursuit is all about, learning love.
    🔅Animal by definition has no insight, it just believes in what it sees and so do we, most of us human beings, we just believe in what we see.
    🔅What does insight mean? There is something beyond the obvious, something beneath the apparent and if you can look at it, that's what makes you a human being.
    🔅You cannot be in love if you do not know what is real. And you cannot know what is real if you are attached to what is unreal.
    🔅First thing in love is to drop the nonsense, to clear the rubbish, that's what is love, that's the first act of love.
    🔅Love demolishes, love destroys, love cleans up, love clears therefore it is said that love gives clarity because love clears.
    🔅Learn to see what is not visible, if you see only that which is visible, you will never be able to see beauty. You will only see cosmetics.

    • @stevejobs9325
      @stevejobs9325 Год назад +2

      Dayummm..... Thanks alot saurav ... For the 80/20 notes

    • @naturalindia-ow6cz
      @naturalindia-ow6cz 2 месяца назад

      Thank you sir for this kind efforts ❤🎉🎉

  • @nehaatwal1462
    @nehaatwal1462 Год назад +11

    The thing is it is your love that turns the living body into a dead body.......
    When you love something, you kill it......

  • @triptirathore9027
    @triptirathore9027 Год назад +4

    Just because you have given birth you dont becomes loving ! Its possessiveness .
    Love needs to be learnt !

  • @lsr7523
    @lsr7523 Год назад +8

    Love is the Attraction of the restless mind(radha) towards ultimate peace(krishna).
    Incomplete consciousness towards completeness.

  • @sonampanjwani
    @sonampanjwani Год назад +13

    ❤️❤️❤️What is Love? Something that would really bring peace to you ….💖💜💛
    That is “LOVE” ❤️❤️❤️

  • @nehaatwal1462
    @nehaatwal1462 Год назад +10

    Something that would really bring peace to you that is love,( and the relationship we see most of the time take away your peace from life)........

  • @joyetahazra2864
    @joyetahazra2864 Год назад +19

    You cannot be in love if you do not know what is real and you cannot know what is real if you are attached to what is unreal. So the first thing in love is drop the nonsense.

  • @gulshanpathak5130
    @gulshanpathak5130 Год назад +7

    Love you acharya ji❤❤ you are really brings peace for me😍

  • @joyetahazra2864
    @joyetahazra2864 Год назад +7

    Gratitude Guruji ❤️🙏

  • @preetyborahmarak2195
    @preetyborahmarak2195 Год назад +8

    So beautifully elaborated.. 🙏 the clarity this man holds!

  • @nehaatwal1462
    @nehaatwal1462 Год назад +5

    Gratitude acharya ji 🙏🏻

  • @yashodaacharya
    @yashodaacharya Год назад +7

    Feeling at peace after watching this video🙏🙏

  • @samarpatel238
    @samarpatel238 Год назад +3

    13:55 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻❤️❤️❤️🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

  • @kailashkumar5881
    @kailashkumar5881 Год назад +4

    Pranam Acharya Ji

  • @RohitKumar-ys9mz
    @RohitKumar-ys9mz Год назад +4

    Naman Acharya ji.
    Just no words for the wisdom and vivid explanation with examples.

  • @sanjaypimoli9233
    @sanjaypimoli9233 Год назад +3

    Prnaam achry ji

  • @metamorphosis4673
    @metamorphosis4673 Год назад +5

    Love too has to be learned
    Nietzsche....

  • @gurushanthaiahms2121
    @gurushanthaiahms2121 Год назад +12

    Each video of yours is a gem in itself.
    I don't know sir when I meet you I am eagerly waiting to meet you.I am preparing for civil services probably one day I meet you after coming out with flying colours in the upsc battle.
    As you said victory is possible ,even if it not battle is worth fighting.
    I am fighting the battle like Arjun and you are my krishna and your you tube lessons are my Bhagavadgeeta!!!

  • @r7anz450
    @r7anz450 Год назад +4

    This is the best one

  • @nehaatwal1462
    @nehaatwal1462 Год назад +3

    19:49.......🙏🏻

  • @theenlightened5248
    @theenlightened5248 Год назад +2

    Indebted for life.

  • @anikettiwari2508
    @anikettiwari2508 Год назад +2

    Thanks Acharya ji 🙏🙏

  • @edutechfo
    @edutechfo Год назад +2

    I would like to thank you archarya jii.. I hv no word how to thank you.. I am learning so much thing from you..

  • @rumamondal9234
    @rumamondal9234 Год назад +3

    Gratitude

  • @indian5551
    @indian5551 Год назад +4

    Great insight 🙏💫

  • @jitendrakumarmalhotra8040
    @jitendrakumarmalhotra8040 Год назад +3

    Sir 🙏 please help me please do not avoid my situation, I'll always thankful to your kindness sir 🙏

  • @r7anz450
    @r7anz450 Год назад +2

    Wow

  • @nehaatwal1462
    @nehaatwal1462 Год назад +8

    6:25, they say marriage is all about this.....😑😑😑
    And then they name it as love.....😶

  • @Ssha650
    @Ssha650 2 месяца назад

    Love has to be learnt, love has to be earned.

  • @harmeshkumarbansal9485
    @harmeshkumarbansal9485 Год назад +2

    🙏

  • @pratikwalke9619
    @pratikwalke9619 Год назад +2

    🙏🙏🙏

  • @samarpatel238
    @samarpatel238 Год назад +2

    11:48 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻❤️❤️❤️🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

  • @saraswatishukla2719
    @saraswatishukla2719 Год назад +1

    🙏🙏💐💐

  • @swatichaubey9491
    @swatichaubey9491 Год назад +3

    Amazing ❤❤❤❤

  • @mohammadasim5172
    @mohammadasim5172 Год назад

    Amazing

  • @mk-wy1fi
    @mk-wy1fi Год назад +2

    I was thinking what were the moments which were able to experience me love in my life.i felt love inside me when i was connected with planet's nature, plants, animals but i never experienced it with human beings. So a question came y so? I think with nature there is no selfish motive of mine and no selfish motive of theirs. But with human being its always harmonal or any selfish motive of each being. I think in the absence of desire a love can flourish. Between human beings if there is desire no love can happen.

  • @sahilgoala3982
    @sahilgoala3982 Год назад +1

    🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾❤️🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

  • @ashasomra4538
    @ashasomra4538 Год назад

    Thank you Acharya Ji 🙏

  • @Nebulanimble
    @Nebulanimble Год назад +1

    ❤️

  • @RakeshPrajapati-1k
    @RakeshPrajapati-1k Год назад

    Well done sir 👌👌👌

  • @jitendrachandra4169
    @jitendrachandra4169 Год назад +1

    I love this intro❤️

  • @48038
    @48038 Год назад

    संसारी दृष्टिकोण से क्रिया प्रतिक्रिया आधारित निरंतर बनने वाली बदलने वाली मिटने वाली मानयताओ धारणाओ सिद्धांतो पूर्वाग्रहो मे जुड़ने से हम फंसते है उलझते है भटकते है।जो जैसा है उसे वैसा ही देखना clarity है Clarity से मुक्त भाव विकसित होता है और यही प्रक्रिया हमे रुपांतरित कर बोध मे हमारे अस्तित्व को शून्य करती है।

  • @ishitasharan8201
    @ishitasharan8201 Год назад

    Pranam Acharya ji 🙏🙏🙏

  • @nicksdudep
    @nicksdudep Год назад

    Sir sir sir ....

  • @piyushthapar
    @piyushthapar Год назад

    🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

  • @triptiyadav2385
    @triptiyadav2385 День назад

    12:34

  • @samarpatel238
    @samarpatel238 Год назад

    7:48 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻❤️❤️❤️🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

  • @samarpatel238
    @samarpatel238 Год назад

    3:55 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻❤️❤️❤️🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

  • @samarpatel238
    @samarpatel238 Год назад

    6:28 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻❤️❤️❤️❤️🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

  • @samarpatel238
    @samarpatel238 Год назад

    15:43 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻❤️❤️❤️🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

  • @shraddhamishra5095
    @shraddhamishra5095 Год назад +2

    For other reasons also people marry. Definitely reason is always some consumption.

  • @Missriyaaa
    @Missriyaaa Год назад +1

    Learn to see what is not visible.
    If you'll see only what's visible, you'll never be able to see beauty, you'll only see cosmetics. The Truth has to be seen with insight : Acharya Prashant

  • @AnjaliSharma-cz3wx
    @AnjaliSharma-cz3wx Год назад +1

    Love is not natural....

  • @jitendrakumarmalhotra8040
    @jitendrakumarmalhotra8040 Год назад +3

    Sir 🙏 my name is jitendra kumar from Bihar,, now I'm 23 and fully mature as I think about me. But sir 🙏 I really need your help to calm because mai avoid nahi kar pa raha hun , or ye meri harmonal activity ke karan nahi hai mai jaanta hun, maine use bol diya tha ki it's just a attraction between you and me , I want to clear it but wo mujhe mere dimaag me fit ho ja rahi hai baar baar . Please try to understand sir 🙏 please help me.

  • @ny1253
    @ny1253 Год назад +3

    🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

  • @suri204
    @suri204 Год назад +1

    this red t shirt is very excited🤣🤣

  • @Gamer_2048
    @Gamer_2048 Год назад

    Love is not all natural. Love starts when you start to understand that your thoughts are leading you to hell, you start to trust less to your instincts.

  • @schooleducation2213
    @schooleducation2213 Год назад

    HUMAN HAS NOTHING TO SAY... ACHARYA G..😭😭😭😭😭😭😭THE WHOLE WORLD 🌍..IS LIVING..IN.A DISTRESS..

  • @AnjaliSharma-20
    @AnjaliSharma-20 Год назад +1

    How to learn Love??

  • @sanjibanghosh5765
    @sanjibanghosh5765 Год назад +5

    But we often see there are couples who have been in a relationship for many years and they also do marriage and live together helping each other to grow and staying as a support in other's bad time.
    So , what can we tell this? Is all this derived from a core of "sex"?

    • @vk274
      @vk274 Год назад +1

      Fulfilling each other's needs. Sex is just one of them. There are many other - social status, company, financial dependence, fear, who will take care of in old age, etc.

  • @mayurabt1729
    @mayurabt1729 Год назад +1

    Even I was 100% sure that a relation between man and woman is about sex before marriage. But it's more.... Only a married couple can understand that.

  • @nirmalsahoo5380
    @nirmalsahoo5380 3 месяца назад

    😂😂😂😂 damn right

  • @kishantiwari2555
    @kishantiwari2555 Год назад

    🙇🏻🪔✨❤️

  • @Stanzin_K
    @Stanzin_K 5 месяцев назад

    At the end vegans stands for right

  • @vinaysharma9216
    @vinaysharma9216 Год назад +2

    🙏🙏

  • @AbhishekKumar-nd4tp
    @AbhishekKumar-nd4tp 4 месяца назад

    🙏🙏🙏

  • @samarpatel238
    @samarpatel238 Год назад +1

    15:43 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻❤️❤️❤️🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

  • @nirajpatil9040
    @nirajpatil9040 Год назад +1

    🙏🙏