After Love - Finding A Rhythm - S1 E4 - The Black Love Doc After Show

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  • @SavySavannah.
    @SavySavannah. 4 года назад +462

    Bald men with beards and natural haired women with head wraps FOR THE WIN!!! 😄🥰🎉 (No shade to anyone else, just appreciating these couples!!)

  • @TheDstinfrared34
    @TheDstinfrared34 4 года назад +200

    I don't currently have a significant other in my life, been single for years but every time I watch Black Love & After Love my cheeks hurt from smiling so hard. Black love is not a monolith and it's so beautiful to see! I'm so thankful for all of the couple's and their transparency. ☺💛

    • @berylooko2318
      @berylooko2318 4 года назад +3

      I smile too everytime,

    • @Jodha1
      @Jodha1 4 года назад +4

      I understand you fully.

    • @sugabeet143
      @sugabeet143 4 года назад +3

      Same here

  • @vanessafluellen6971
    @vanessafluellen6971 4 года назад +66

    Been with my husband for 25 years married for 20 years September 18th. I can NOT say its been hard work and my husband agrees. Not sure why but it hasn't been hard... Blessed

    • @deespeaks._6315
      @deespeaks._6315 4 года назад +3

      Girl we’re dating to marry and I am TIREDDDD

    • @shalom4441-o6i
      @shalom4441-o6i 4 года назад

      @@deespeaks._6315 Right

    • @Shayvideos1
      @Shayvideos1 3 года назад +2

      This is something I rarely hear. Happy for you both.

  • @HeyitsShalanday
    @HeyitsShalanday 4 года назад +42

    Angel: “the transparency lifts the shame off of people”🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾

  • @melbel10333
    @melbel10333 4 года назад +160

    I love that Marcus likes being in front of the camera now. We’ve come such a long way lol

  • @deidreej
    @deidreej 4 года назад +32

    I love these talks. I grew up with my dad doing everything for 41 years. He got the gas, the oil change, the car maintenance. He bought in the groceries, he opened all doors. That was just what he did. Before I got sick and had to move back in with my parents, I did it myself but when I moved home he did it for me too. When he died unexpectedly, I just pick up where he left off for my mom.

  • @hishandmaiden718
    @hishandmaiden718 4 года назад +86

    I love the couples’ authenticity in discussing sensitive topics.

    • @noble604
      @noble604 4 года назад +2

      I wouldn’t have thought of something as simple as cutting grass and having no clue how to do it, one, because he had no grass and two, because he was raised by a single mother who did everything. That’s interesting.

  • @88Keyz2nun
    @88Keyz2nun 4 года назад +77

    So needed this. Glen,yvette ANGEL and Marcus they're very much opposites but seem authentic in their own ways.

  • @LimaB30
    @LimaB30 4 года назад +63

    We got the best that our parents and community could give us ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @rosej5029
    @rosej5029 4 года назад +51

    Glen is pointing out how growing up with a single mom doing everything, that as the child observing this, the child is defining in their mind gender roles similar to Angela growing up, without a male in the home, believing she doesn't need to depend on a man for anything because she didn't have a male to help her as a child why expect it now in adulthood.

  • @JanellTillman
    @JanellTillman 4 года назад +74

    I literally laughed out loud watching this. Tommie even had to pop in. 🤣🤣 So glad to be introduced to Angel and Marcus!

    • @MsKISS6
      @MsKISS6 4 года назад +12

      Follow them on IG. She is @thatchickangel and he is @marcusaintonthegram. They are awesome and their boys are so keep.

    • @loveisblind1876
      @loveisblind1876 4 года назад +6

      Angel’s also got a RUclips channel That Chick Angel TV where you’ll find great family vlogs and podcasts.

    • @PhoenixGoddess
      @PhoenixGoddess 4 года назад +7

      Angel and Marcus are too funny.. 😂😂😂

    • @maggicurry-williams8440
      @maggicurry-williams8440 4 года назад +2

      They are really funny. Follow them @That Chick Angel and @Narcusaintonthegram!

    • @Jonelle2083
      @Jonelle2083 4 года назад +3

      They are as Hilarious as they are beautiful!

  • @tyerra1213
    @tyerra1213 4 года назад +36

    Angel, Marcus, Glen AND Yvette. Im in love 😍

  • @dyse.4565
    @dyse.4565 4 года назад +42

    I just really enjoy these couples. Glen and Yvette are my joy though. Been following Beleaf's (Glen) trajectory since his Dream Junkie days, Red Pills.., to the Fatherhood series. To see that couple grow and evolve so much has blessed me. So glad that more people get to know about them.

  • @priscamoyesa
    @priscamoyesa 4 года назад +51

    I absolutely LOVE the after show! From the topics to the camera quality and questions! This is refreshing and I hope we don’t see an end to this x

  • @greatestshopper1077
    @greatestshopper1077 4 года назад +4

    Nineteen years this November, our first argument was about the dishwasher. My husband told me I didn’t have “kitchen etiquette” because I don’t know how to put the dishes in the dishwasher CORRECTLY❣️. Nineteen years later and he’s taught me how to cook, using Cavendars and garlic powder, things that taste good to him and I’ve gotten more “kitchen etiquette”. And he has allowed God to make him more into the “man of my dreams” EVERY Day❣️

  • @brittanybell9223
    @brittanybell9223 4 года назад +13

    My two favorite couples! I could have watch them for another hour. So much wisdom and fun at the same time.

  • @jodeemapoe9032
    @jodeemapoe9032 4 года назад +30

    The Tanksleys!!!! One of my favourite couples!

  • @fedorah8315
    @fedorah8315 4 года назад +66

    Angel Lakitha Moore Tanksley the Actress!!!!

  • @heavenheaven9134
    @heavenheaven9134 4 года назад +29

    Kevonstage and Melissa are the only thing Missing in this Video for my perfect RUclips content dream lol.. all of them are Black interwebs excellence

    • @itsjustmeDeneal
      @itsjustmeDeneal 4 года назад +1

      Girl. I was like where they at? This was have been the icing. Would hv loved to c all 3 couples together

    • @mysticsphinx1906
      @mysticsphinx1906 4 года назад +3

      Kev and Lis were on last season.

  • @KeMoniBright
    @KeMoniBright 4 года назад +8

    LOVE these couple’s authenticity & fun they have in marriage.

  • @danicadanielle2741
    @danicadanielle2741 4 года назад +35

    I’m with Angel. I don’t do anything with the cars, maintenance, oil changes nothing. My husband takes care of both cars. I either tell him that the cars needs their maintenance and he checks the cars regularly. It’s an agreement we both came to and it was just something we both expected him to take care of.

    • @ZahraJTheEntrepreneur
      @ZahraJTheEntrepreneur 4 года назад +4

      Da Nica Danielle she yells independent though an oil change is included in that.

    • @indiansummer9977
      @indiansummer9977 3 года назад

      @@ZahraJTheEntrepreneur THANK YOUUUU 🎤🎤🎤🎤🎤🎤

  • @naturreal1705
    @naturreal1705 4 года назад +15

    Loved it. Still learning how to cater to my wife & feel as if I've lost myself in the process. I vod care less about winning arguments or being stubborn. This shit has to work so I'm dedicated to learn different ways to approach all lanes of love. Ty guys so much for the content. 🤎🖤

  • @theadventuresofsade9428
    @theadventuresofsade9428 4 года назад +21

    I love Glenn and Yvette’s podcast 🥰

  • @sophie0169
    @sophie0169 4 года назад +21

    Love it! Just nice to see other couples grow and develop and not turn trivial things into something explosive. Love the show and the after love conversations. I pick up something from each couple. Maybe love and marriage after 50 is possible for me after all. This sure makes me hopeful!

    • @purplesoul9927
      @purplesoul9927 4 года назад +3

      It is my cousin got married last year 50+ there is still hope.
      Btw a 70+ a few years ago.
      Keep the faith, I haven't received mine yet but they give me hope😊👍

    • @44Stephieb
      @44Stephieb 4 года назад +2

      Same here over 50 this gives me hope keeping hope alive!!

    • @antoniahardin1050
      @antoniahardin1050 4 года назад +1

      I'm still hopeful @50+ as well!

  • @ruthnnadi9849
    @ruthnnadi9849 4 года назад +29

    Here for Glen, Yvette, Angel and Marcus!!! The collab I didn't know I needed! @thatchickangeltv and @howmarriedareyou?! 🤣🤣
    They seem like such lovely people irl and their chocolate babies are so beautiful ❤❤

    • @jafider
      @jafider 4 года назад

      Thanks

    • @maggicurry-williams8440
      @maggicurry-williams8440 4 года назад +3

      I absolutely love this show and wish I had access to it while I was married! It’s heartwarming to see black love in action-successful marriages! Thanks for developing the show and thank you to the couples who have opened their lives to us! 😍😍👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

  • @MLisa90
    @MLisa90 4 года назад +17

    I’m only half way through and I LOVE this after love episode!! I have my drink on deck and y’all have me laughing out loud. This episode really was like a group of friends getting together to just hang, catch up and have good conversation. Keep it up Codie & Tommy 👍🏽

  • @chriske6795
    @chriske6795 4 года назад +13

    Absolutely on the oil change sis, I hate anything to do with car repair an the mechanic degrade. Beloved hubs, handle it, thank you, love you!

  • @MsFrizzy
    @MsFrizzy 4 года назад +28

    my ppl!!! the Melanin's and the Tanksley's!!!

  • @terrisl.edwards2743
    @terrisl.edwards2743 4 года назад +5

    So, So, So beautiful to see these couples intimately discuss issues within their unions. Not married as yet, and if that is in my future Iooked forward to showcasing
    BLACK LOVE MATTERS!

  • @Anointedempress
    @Anointedempress 4 года назад +6

    They all look soooo beautiful!! I've been learning so much from this channel.

  • @Tibzx
    @Tibzx 4 года назад +15

    This was absolutely hilarious!! 🤣🤣🤣💖

  • @zenadouglas-nash5937
    @zenadouglas-nash5937 4 года назад +4

    I really enjoyed this episode. My dad did all the maintenance for my mom and us when I grew, but he made sure his daughters knew about car maintenance as well as my brother. So that we wouldn't be taken advantage of. My husband and me argue about who checks anything on the vehicles. So I just brought me a new one. I wish I would havehad some of this knowledge early in my marriage (married 23 years together32 years).

  • @sheilajohnson4465
    @sheilajohnson4465 4 года назад +34

    YESSSSSS HEADWRAPS !!!!(snap snap snap)

  • @shree2ann
    @shree2ann 4 года назад +7

    These guys are really authentic in their discussion.

  • @Nic2Blk
    @Nic2Blk 4 года назад +2

    I really appreciate Glenn's attitude. Marcus is a fool! 🤣🤣
    Love these couples all around!!

  • @latisewilson4561
    @latisewilson4561 4 года назад +3

    One of the few couples that actual seem relatable... really like both of them. Practical and not trying to be perfect

  • @EvenSterVens
    @EvenSterVens 4 года назад +29

    this need to be longer... an hour plz

  • @ShawneeETV
    @ShawneeETV 4 года назад +6

    @ThatChickAngel getting the oil change is "ME TIME" for real! Especially, when it's during or right after the work day and you DON'T have the kids. OMG! I look forward oil change Saturdays!

  • @ladyloveishere1838
    @ladyloveishere1838 4 года назад +2

    Love the honesty & other side these couples gave. It was refreshing to know marriage is not always peachy

  • @alicialawrence6872
    @alicialawrence6872 4 года назад +8

    I love everything about this conversation.

  • @dawnanderson5611
    @dawnanderson5611 4 года назад +1

    I really enjoy Black Love and the after show, I am newly married 3 years this Feb and we don’t have a lot of married friends or family. So this show really gives me a lot great insight on a lot of situations that come up in a marriage and the different perspectives of the various couples. A lot of “oh I thought that was just me “ moments happened while watching lol. I especially love that fact that I can see positive couples that look like me, representation of BLACK married couples. AWESOME JOB 💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽🖤🖤🖤🖤

  • @cj10109
    @cj10109 4 года назад +1

    I love them. Thanks for having both couples!! I love how Yvette keeps looking at Glen. She’s so nervous 💜

  • @JuanitaELCameron
    @JuanitaELCameron 4 года назад +19

    That was refreshing and relatable

  • @yolandakerce4704
    @yolandakerce4704 4 года назад +5

    OMG!! My favorite RUclipsrs with my favorite do documentary! #mindblown #blacklove

  • @LiyaZuluM
    @LiyaZuluM 4 года назад +1

    This has been my favourite episode yet. Possibly because I love them all and enjoy their content so I feel like I know that they are actually being who they are.

  • @sabriariley7854
    @sabriariley7854 3 года назад

    I love this...People today hating on black love, it will nevaaa go away 🥰😛😚

  • @nubi688
    @nubi688 4 года назад +3

    Great video ❤️ I really like these open conversations they are needed. 🙏🏾

  • @EvolvingMama_
    @EvolvingMama_ 4 года назад

    I’m just so glad the world gets to Glenn && Yvette and Angel & Tank 🙌🏾😍🔥❤️

  • @jacquesalberttobbohugo3304
    @jacquesalberttobbohugo3304 4 года назад +4

    Beautiful conversation I loved it 🌹✊🏿

  • @aprilcoleman9878
    @aprilcoleman9878 4 года назад +1

    I absolutely love these shoes!!! Very informative and just so around needed!!💝💙💖💚🧡💜. Been married sence 1999 and there are pieces of our life in every story. 💜🧡💖. Thank y'all

  • @ACETHEEGR8
    @ACETHEEGR8 4 года назад +10

    This is great convo. However there should have been a conversation about how it makes the other person feel when certain tasks aren't handled by their mate. Ex. How does Marcus feel when Angel refuse to get her oil changed herself when he does everything else to service her vehicle. Does he feel taken advantage of? Does he feel taken for granted?

  • @lyndab.3230
    @lyndab.3230 4 года назад +16

    Love it! I agree on the car maintenance. I hate it! If I get married, I hope my husband doesn’t mind taking on this effort.

    • @purplesoul9927
      @purplesoul9927 4 года назад +2

      When he comes you get to add that to the things you talk about 😊

  • @brandonbell3133
    @brandonbell3133 4 года назад

    Continue to add more episodes! So much wisdom, openness, sharing & honesty

  • @officialraphaelemeka
    @officialraphaelemeka 4 года назад +1

    I so much enjoyed this one

  • @dstpartyprincess21
    @dstpartyprincess21 4 года назад +5

    Ladies!!!!!! Y’all look FABULOUS 😍😍😍. LoVed this episode.

  • @MamaCancer23
    @MamaCancer23 4 года назад +3

    Such a great episode with lots of humor! 😆🖤✨

  • @SD-hs2pk
    @SD-hs2pk 3 года назад +1

    Love both couples for both reasons!

  • @MsHJones
    @MsHJones 4 года назад +2

    Another GREAT episode!!! 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 💕🖤💕🖤💕🖤

  • @dsgbgirl8326
    @dsgbgirl8326 4 года назад +10

    I’m so glad they are on here!!

  • @resa31802
    @resa31802 4 года назад +51

    If husbands understood how trash mechanics treat women, especially married woman, when we do stuff like get the oil changed, they would just take it.

    • @clove8220
      @clove8220 4 года назад

      What do the mechanics
      do or say? Do the try to cheat you?

    • @blackbutterfly9662
      @blackbutterfly9662 4 года назад +10

      Yup, went to get oil change two weeks ago at a quick stop, upon leaving engine light is on. The vehicle is 5yrs. old, manager states it's during the 5th year that engines begin to go out. He gave me a code that showed up, I researched it for the make and model of the vehicle, it stated that it was a generic code. The incorrect oil filter was installed. Tried to get them to place the correct oil filter on, manager argues it was correct and that they was not the cause of the engine light being on. Took the vehicle to the dealership, for another oil change, light went off and rode better. If, I was married and my husband took care of it, I would not of had the grief from a thief.

    • @clove8220
      @clove8220 4 года назад

      @@blackbutterfly9662 That's horrible. Good thing your husband was able to step in to have it taken care of.

    • @1980tiffani
      @1980tiffani 4 года назад +1

      Very true.. I just got all new tires and an alignment... the guy comes up with $3100 worth of additional things needed... sir.. you just quoted me a new car😂.. told my boyfriend and he’s like.. I’ll take a look when you come home and I got a mechanic if there are things I can’t do on my own

    • @latoyar628
      @latoyar628 3 года назад +1

      Ladies, please know your cars. I have watched mechanics play men that have no clue about cars too.

  • @tonevam9839
    @tonevam9839 4 года назад +1

    Awh man this was so good. Lots of laughs great convo. Thank you for your insight #blacklove ☺️

  • @charitymoore3515
    @charitymoore3515 4 года назад +3

    Thank you! I need to see things like this.

  • @LimaB30
    @LimaB30 4 года назад +5

    Another great episode ❤️❤️❤️

  • @Eve_Y
    @Eve_Y 2 года назад +1

    Those two are a hilarious couple 😂

  • @robbieburnett2151
    @robbieburnett2151 4 года назад +5

    I love it and all the couples.

  • @tawandamickens3878
    @tawandamickens3878 4 года назад

    Love the podcast Love the couples! Black love is THIS!!😀

  • @sjmillercreates
    @sjmillercreates 4 года назад

    I just love this show!!! I need more episodes though😊... it just makes me smile.💕

  • @BeginAgainMC
    @BeginAgainMC 4 года назад +1

    Yaaaaaaaaaaaaaay!!!!!! Angel & Marcus!!!!!

  • @jafider
    @jafider 4 года назад +14

    In the drop down it says follow Angel nd Marcus at Beleaf in fatherhood, but that's Yvette nd Glen. 🥰

    • @MsKISS6
      @MsKISS6 4 года назад +4

      Follow the them on IG at @thatchickangel and @marcusaintonthegram. Their family is awesome!

    • @Klgray7373
      @Klgray7373 4 года назад +1

      They have podcast her eon RUclips "Is this going to cause an argumentITGTCAA". Plus her Podcast with KeOnStage/Here's the thing and their Podcast "The bald and the beautiful'.

  • @emymungwana
    @emymungwana 4 года назад +14

    Anyone notice how Marcus says vehicle and never car.. sounds so unique

    • @bigdezol
      @bigdezol 4 года назад +5

      He's from the country.

    • @bigdezol
      @bigdezol 4 года назад

      ​@sadonomo, You can live outside of the south and be from 'the country.' You can live smack-dab in the middle of a major city and be from 'the country.'

    • @filmadcamp1512
      @filmadcamp1512 4 года назад

      They may have trucks.

  • @delorese9318
    @delorese9318 4 года назад

    This After Show series better than the series itself. Sheeh. Great job to the producers. Black Love is beautiful. Godly Love? ...even better 🥰

  • @brunoloverxx
    @brunoloverxx 4 года назад

    this was the best one!! bring both of them back!!

  • @valeriefullilove1031
    @valeriefullilove1031 4 года назад +5

    Love this show!

  • @shaylarutledge2353
    @shaylarutledge2353 3 года назад

    He said take the kids out they need to run around...LOL!!! I am in tears!

  • @simmar813
    @simmar813 3 года назад +1

    Love Glen and Yvette😭❤️

  • @olicia_ops1994
    @olicia_ops1994 4 года назад +4

    Angel reminds me of Vanessa Bell Calloway...just me??
    Anyway, I love these two couples‼️ They are dope examples of marriage.

  • @folukearthurton3393
    @folukearthurton3393 4 года назад

    Yeeeasssss...finally....I get to see Angel and Marcus. Now, I just need to find their actual interview...

  • @TalkingPabloVR
    @TalkingPabloVR 3 года назад

    Ay girl! I see you! You are strong & confident 😊
    It is not easy wearing a top/dress that shows 'the girls' with confidence cause you know people will look or glance, but the female body is a beautiful thing, and as long as it's not vulgar (& it's not!), I believe it should be displayed in elegance 😊

  • @iAMtheYELLOWrose
    @iAMtheYELLOWrose 4 года назад +7

    I did not want this to end. 😅

  • @nikkib1933
    @nikkib1933 4 года назад +1

    2 of my favorite couples!

  • @kimg6113
    @kimg6113 4 года назад +2

    Loved this!

  • @Tressesbyjoanmary
    @Tressesbyjoanmary 4 года назад +1

    Love love these couples!

  • @sarentet.3836
    @sarentet.3836 4 года назад

    I love these couple being so transparent. Relationships take work. I grew up thinking marriage was such a fairytale..it's not!! Has me just wanting a committed , companion, devoted, loving partnership. Not so much marriage. Don't want to be another number in the system.

  • @Sunshine-wn4eg
    @Sunshine-wn4eg 4 года назад +3

    I really enjoyed this

  • @sirvirthercook7171
    @sirvirthercook7171 4 года назад +3

    LOVED IT!

  • @bplatonova
    @bplatonova 4 года назад

    Communication is key... Men and women needs to put each other first.

  • @Msdollfacecouture
    @Msdollfacecouture 4 года назад +2

    Y'all look so Good! Taheeeeeeeeeeeeee! Black People are Fine!!! Loved the episode

  • @sagittarius1112able
    @sagittarius1112able 4 года назад +3

    Different strokes for different folks, I do nothing with the car no gas, no oil change, no heavy lifting, no yard work to each his/her own.

  • @antoinitaviolette4140
    @antoinitaviolette4140 4 года назад +4

    You're a great host, I learn so much. You're kind, considerate, a good listener too.
    The next time couples come to you, please do close up your top so as men whose eyes wonder away from their wives do not distract them, as not to make extra work to be done on the men's part to have to force themselves to always look up when speaking to you. Keep your respect in such a public platform.

    • @latoyadorn9984
      @latoyadorn9984 4 года назад +5

      I totally agree because I love this show but I just could not believe she had her breasts out like that

    • @anitaharrison732
      @anitaharrison732 4 года назад +3

      Yessss & Amen ma'am please & thanks! Glad someone said this. This needed to be addressed to know better is to do better!

  • @MsDean09
    @MsDean09 4 года назад +2

    This show/ experience is the best thing that was created... I have learned and implemented so much on my journey to marriage.. I love the facts committed couples can share raw truth about marriage.. frm out side looking in it may be easy... but it does take work to come to a leveled ground with understanding.

  • @k.marion9524
    @k.marion9524 4 года назад

    That DIY, I feel it, that is what I envisioned, we did that the first home, the second home he was ready to pay folks sooner than I was. I am still having fun with the DIY😅😂.

  • @BEAUTYFUL18
    @BEAUTYFUL18 3 года назад

    MARCUS SAID" FOR ALL THESE KIDS ANGEL WANTED TO HAVE."😆😆SOOOOOO YOU DIDNT HAVE FUN MAKING THEM MARCUS😎😎😎

  • @wysdomshillings4033
    @wysdomshillings4033 4 года назад

    I love this show! The after show. IG account. Black love. Me and my husband watch faithfully!

  • @SD-hs2pk
    @SD-hs2pk 3 года назад

    I'm loving Angel's colors!

  • @selenasimmons6653
    @selenasimmons6653 3 года назад

    So I'm not the only one who thought me and my spouse were going to be the next Chip & Joanne!!😂😂😂😄😆😆

  • @fastpraylemonade
    @fastpraylemonade 4 года назад

    THE FACT YOU HAD THESE COUPLES ON HERE!!!!!

  • @nursesth
    @nursesth 4 года назад

    I am in agreement with Angela!!!! This made me laugh so hard!!!

  • @dorajenkins2046
    @dorajenkins2046 4 года назад +1

    At least the couples dress was appropriate. I enjoyed the couples conversation

  • @caroldaniel7293
    @caroldaniel7293 4 года назад +1

    I agree with the wives! I would like my husband to get my oil changed and handle all maintenance but mine says he wants me to know how to do these things! 26 years married. I do it all but I still don't know how.

  • @amark8786
    @amark8786 3 года назад

    !!YESS I NEED THIS!!!