After Love | Foundations | S2 E6 | The Black Love Doc After Show

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  • Опубликовано: 14 окт 2024

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  • @trustlfspr0ces328
    @trustlfspr0ces328 3 года назад +81

    This series has been like marriage counseling for me and my nerves. I be on the verge of breakdown and just feeling upset 😢. Clear communication and trust in your partner is so important

  • @tracynichole_c
    @tracynichole_c 3 года назад +67

    I love that they are best friends with their spouses. Their transparency, respect, healthy self esteem and trust is beautiful. That’s real relationship goals. 💕

    • @Nomgcobo53
      @Nomgcobo53 3 года назад +2

      And that they are honest with each other

  • @BeBlessed70
    @BeBlessed70 3 года назад +54

    Oh wow. I wish more men would be honest enough to share their vices on Day 1. That's so mature.

  • @leyamwanza338
    @leyamwanza338 3 года назад +52

    I love how mature Charles's wife is. she gives me I know my worth but I know what I want too vibes. she I'd cool people.. ❤🥰

    • @nikkipenn9714
      @nikkipenn9714 3 года назад

      Yes and she seems the mature one....hes seems to be the funny guy who never is serious.

  • @valeriefullilove1031
    @valeriefullilove1031 3 года назад +13

    Cody and Tommy are pure gems...Cody, you were born for this girl...Love you both.

  • @GEORGIOARCADE
    @GEORGIOARCADE 3 года назад +28

    That bar story clip at the beginning totally got me 😄. I definitely need to catch up on all the other episodes. I truly do enjoy hearing their stories about what makes their relationships work for them. You can truly learn from anyone on here. The best part is every relationship doesn't have to be like everyone else's. A relationship can be what you want it to be not what society wants. I wish everyone all the best. Maybe one day when i find my someone; i can be on that show 😄♥️.

  • @TheSunshine2306
    @TheSunshine2306 3 года назад +34

    Man these episodes are so amazing. Black love is doing gods work ❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @beatricealexander2102
    @beatricealexander2102 3 года назад +37

    I love Cody so much. She is truly a gem

  • @shanac8051
    @shanac8051 3 года назад +16

    At 11:00 - spoken like a woman who is confident in herself and what she has to offer! (agreed/ applause)

  • @mikeyllo
    @mikeyllo 3 года назад +11

    I can not believe I jumped on the Black Love bandwagon so late! These couples and their stories were awesome...and they all were navigating careers and making their relationships work. Whew. There's hope!

  • @aprilfontenot9354
    @aprilfontenot9354 3 года назад +3

    I love that Codie uses beautiful black couples to display real marriage issues and couples that are not afraid to state when they are right or wrong and also mature ways to overcome those issues. The couples were great and made me feel like I really need to grow in my marriage yet alone as a wife. Thanks Black Love ! Awesome awesome show!

  • @deidreej
    @deidreej 3 года назад +19

    Awesome job Codie and Tommy! I love watching Black Love! This season was amazing! This After Love was very eye opening and awesome. Great couples! 🌹💐

  • @mel.alisha2992
    @mel.alisha2992 3 года назад +11

    The transparency and vulnerability is so beautiful and appreciated! We are always evolving as people so communication and understanding is very important!

  • @wildewildestrawberries
    @wildewildestrawberries 3 года назад +10

    It was his responsibility to get the girl of his lap, not hers and I'm glad she made that clear. No cat fights for a man.

  • @brangeeellis3083
    @brangeeellis3083 3 года назад +10

    Communication...open AND honest Communication, that is...is key to a successful relationship/marriage. People often feel as if they will be judged or looked down on if feelings/urges are surfacing or resurfacing, but grown people NEED TO HAVE grown people conversations before someone steps out/cheat on the other one
    I loveeeeee this platform/forum

  • @jacquelinebryson9820
    @jacquelinebryson9820 3 года назад +16

    Thank you for this episode I've learned alot from black love keep it coming 💪🏾💪🏾❤️❤️ marriage is a beautiful thing keep it going strong couples 💪🏾

  • @berylallando
    @berylallando 2 года назад +1

    Love it - Thank you couples for the transparency and beautiful synergy!😊
    👏👏👏👏Black love team, always on point!

  • @ourbreakthroughpodcast9353
    @ourbreakthroughpodcast9353 2 года назад

    Codie is amazing!! She’s just the type of woman you would want to be friends with and have in your corner. I’m soooo gonna miss #blacklove ❤️❤️❤️

  • @ladyylomonroe
    @ladyylomonroe 3 года назад +3

    Love these episodes and conversations. Showing the truth of marriage friendship love and it all. Keep it coming 🤍

  • @tracijones4147
    @tracijones4147 3 года назад +4

    This was my favorite season yet. I adore emphram and Reneece

  • @niatachaperry2873
    @niatachaperry2873 3 года назад +8

    Yes in it to win, no quitting on your marriage. 2gerher for ever🎉🎉 thks for sharing this morning, the takeaways for me.. Check in with your spouse, allow them to be real with me & no matter what support each other and stick it out.. A successful marriage is two ppl working at it together..Beautiful couples here. Enjoy your day🎉🥂🌻

  • @jasminepetway601
    @jasminepetway601 3 года назад +7

    I love love love these episodes!! And love the guest on the show ❤️

  • @chanelrenee1344
    @chanelrenee1344 3 года назад +3

    Love this discussion! Beautiful couples and lots of insight. ❤

  • @EshaRenee
    @EshaRenee 3 года назад +6

    Beautiful couples💕 Love this show!!!

  • @89Platinum
    @89Platinum 3 года назад +4

    Having suffered so much trans early in my life. I am grateful for you because you show and teach what healthy relationships look like. I'm still waiting for the last episode to upload to RUclips or the app. Can't wait to watch it. Thank you.

    • @89Platinum
      @89Platinum 3 года назад

      The autocorrect got me. It's tragedy in life. A lot of it.

  • @Reeses710
    @Reeses710 3 года назад +3

    Another great & much needed episode!!

  • @hardymckinney2933
    @hardymckinney2933 3 года назад +3

    Thank you so much you are the.best , I learn alot keep it up.

  • @chanel037-k4k
    @chanel037-k4k 3 года назад +7

    I’ve been trying to find the song that plays on the end of the episode. It’s written and performed by Major. I can’t find it! It’s such a beautiful song

  • @sherrynelson365
    @sherrynelson365 3 года назад +1

    Communication trust and really transparency is a must in marriage

  • @darlenepyatt1286
    @darlenepyatt1286 2 года назад +1

    Black love has magic!!

  • @sharondaburgess8528
    @sharondaburgess8528 3 года назад +1

    Good conversation and great topic. You have to talk about everything

  • @jhodie-alexi322
    @jhodie-alexi322 3 года назад +20

    Charles’ wife is nervous & this is the second video I’ve seen where it seems like it stings when he talks about temptation. A part of knowing your partner is being sensitive to what will trigger negative feelings, especially in front of others. Not judging at all. Just an observation 🤍.

    • @nadiac2268
      @nadiac2268 3 года назад +2

      Wrong observation

    • @jhodie-alexi322
      @jhodie-alexi322 3 года назад +7

      Nadia C Thanks. My opinion still stands 🤍.

    • @nadiac2268
      @nadiac2268 3 года назад +1

      @@jhodie-alexi322 wrong observation about someone you know nothing about

    • @876me7
      @876me7 3 года назад +11

      I agree. I picked up on the same thing from the last video with them where his wife looked like she wanted to crawl out of her skin during his 3 minute rant about him wanting to cheat now that according to him he has more access to women smh. He’s not very tactful in the way he communicates about these things.

    • @omphilemoerane2569
      @omphilemoerane2569 3 года назад +11

      You're right. Women go above and beyond to protect their man's ego but this guy doesn't have that courtesy for his wife. Someone needs to tell him that not everything needs to be said.

  • @candicenaomi
    @candicenaomi 3 года назад +1

    So many gems dropped

  • @sfreeman417
    @sfreeman417 3 года назад +2

    Cody awesome conversation to have!

  • @niatachaperry2873
    @niatachaperry2873 3 года назад +4

    Good Morning #team Black Love☕🦋

  • @myandersonangelsjalynnlail252
    @myandersonangelsjalynnlail252 3 года назад +1

    Nice to hear the couple moved to my home city of San Francisco ❤️

  • @unapologeticallyromel7096
    @unapologeticallyromel7096 4 месяца назад

    Enjoyed the EP

  • @deedee-ew6so
    @deedee-ew6so 3 года назад +7

    I am going to keep it a buck about these 2 beautiful couples. The friendship is definitely one sided in both relationships. The men control these powerful women with the idea 💡 & desire to cheat which causes trauma. There's a lack of consistent spiritual human connections in which these women choose to suffer in silence due to FEAR. The men seem to operate within the EGOS = false sense of self. I am glad they're showing appreciation to their wives and are open to grow within their relationships. I wish them well.

    • @Lodeenie
      @Lodeenie 3 года назад +4

      I'm glad someone else sees it! I'm listening to the men talk about other women's bodies but do the wives get to comment other men's bodies like that???

    • @amcra1
      @amcra1 3 года назад

      Ugh stfu. Damn y’all love to over analyze these couples and never know wtf you’re talking about. Stop projecting your bullshit onto these couples

  • @mwadjumamukamfizi2216
    @mwadjumamukamfizi2216 2 года назад +1

    There is other types out there lol I don't miss you lol what are we gona do now 🤣🤣🤣

  • @MLisa90
    @MLisa90 3 года назад +2

    Does anyone know what song is played at the end the end of episode 6? “ baby baby baby will you love me love me forever and always “

  • @Carlyon100
    @Carlyon100 3 года назад +3

    This is us (😜) between my guy and me but we know at theendof the nightwe going to be together. It is just stroking our egos to know we are still attractive to each other and other people. If you study it though oftentimes it is the woman who protects and provides on a higher level than her male partner who brings the knowhow whereas it is the woman who brings the grace to the space.

  • @Sunshine-wn4eg
    @Sunshine-wn4eg 3 года назад +4

    I love this !!#!

  • @latoyacouncil1001
    @latoyacouncil1001 3 года назад

    I just love this show!!

  • @shyrokiki7441
    @shyrokiki7441 3 года назад +22

    That Charles man needs to learn to speak without shouting.He is too loud.

    • @lcjones4682
      @lcjones4682 3 года назад +11

      Some people are just loud talkers.

    • @GEORGIOARCADE
      @GEORGIOARCADE 3 года назад +7

      @@lcjones4682 yeah i agree with you. Some people just have a naturally loud voice. I don't think they all intend to be super loud. Like my mom for example, she has a natural loud voice tone and my dad is too but he's is a bit lower. My voice is not naturally loud so i have to speak up more than a normal person. That's what makes us all unique 😄.

    • @sassyx2048
      @sassyx2048 3 года назад +4

      I thought it was just me. I wanted if it's nerves he is kinda irritating but she loves him so it's all good.

    • @Carlyon100
      @Carlyon100 3 года назад +8

      Oh snap, let Charles live.🎙🎚🎤🔊

    • @jaredlhulum
      @jaredlhulum 3 года назад +12

      you nitpicking... this shouldn't even be your concern, but whatever...

  • @MothoMotho0748
    @MothoMotho0748 3 года назад +6

    #black love team.

  • @marthangafor6414
    @marthangafor6414 Год назад

    If you choose to get married, you SHOULD be making the effort to stay faithful to your spouse. Otherwise, don't bother. The consequences of adultery are never worth the grief.

  • @TheRenee10
    @TheRenee10 3 года назад +32

    Something about Charles don't sit right with me every video I get a off vibe with him

    • @nikkipenn9714
      @nikkipenn9714 3 года назад +5

      I wanted to see a softer side of him when she started crying

    • @Ash_Flow
      @Ash_Flow 2 года назад +1

      @@nikkipenn9714 me too and instead he started laughing

    • @adjustingwithjess6501
      @adjustingwithjess6501 2 года назад +1

      Lol yes, I think it’s a nervous/uncomfortable laugh lmbo

    • @dijaworldworld3895
      @dijaworldworld3895 2 года назад

      Charles said he can talk a lot but not communicate…so he’s aware of his flaws and trying and it takes TIME. Shirleen is so lovely.

  • @mnorwo2
    @mnorwo2 3 года назад +1

    ChiTown stand up!!

  • @devonwilliams4354
    @devonwilliams4354 3 года назад +2

    The Charles man 🥴I don’t care for him!! He’s very loud and just piggybacks off the other man.

  • @SOI-wl2lo
    @SOI-wl2lo 2 года назад

    Is it just me, but I don’t think Shireen should have been silent during that transition…. 👀

  • @preciousheart2211
    @preciousheart2211 3 года назад +1

    Do you believe them? Do you think they are acting??

    • @MsKeepgodfirst
      @MsKeepgodfirst 3 года назад +1

      These couples are real. Have you watched the other episodes? Go back to when they first started and you will see all of the couples they have interviewed. That's what makes the show great, real couples talking about their marriage.