At 17, my 1st serious gf's mom had 3 by 3, and my mom warned me about the effects that would have on her. I found out how right she was as time went on. Moved on eventually and chose better. I couldn't imagine bringing home a mother of 3 by 3 diff men.
She got a man, married him while she was 8 months pregnant when she was a teenager and they mean raised that child so she's already done this before, clearly not off base for her
Yep, she still got her butt cheeks clapped 2 months ago by his last baby daddy..! Smashing with their baby daddies is an ongoing thing with these women. They say it’s better doing it with him than with a new person.!
Where does she even find the time to date with an infant to take care of? 8 months ago, yeah that's a HUGE red flag. Add 2 teaspoons of 2 other kids, 3 table spoons of 3 baby daddies and you got yourself one heck of a plate to deal with. Plus she's 30 and boldly claiming she ain't having no more kids for the next man. Yup, that's a real winner there. Good luck on that one guys.
Stress to him to never trust that a woman is taking her birthcontrol pill or using some other form of birth control. Avoid that unwanted lifetime connection and wear condoms. Make sure to flush them down the 🚽.
I don't see the problem with her wanting someone on her level. A Pookie with 3 kids and 3 baby mommas who will be out of prison in 2026 is perfect for her.
8 month old baby and she’s already single? Also she’s 30 with a 14 yr old. Shes concerned about him being a Christian but she just had a baby out of wedlock. She had a baby with a man that was homeless “unstable”.
That was what I was thinking she has no idea how to keep a relationship together or what to actually value. My wife and I be laughing at this show. Married 26 years. When Kendra ask what is your flaws she should of said rewind this interview that is all I been listing.
@kane99560 Doesn't matter what u think. GOD is the only one who knows the heart. She is doing much better going forward. Again... people *live and learn.* Just like you. 👍
Ready for Marriage 🚫 Multiple Children ✅ Bad attitude/ mouth ✅ Wants a finished product ✅ Is a finished product 🚫 Multiple fathers ✅ Introverts 🚫 Toxic ✅ Homeless ✅ Tubes Tied ⏳ Opinionated friend, who’ll be in the background of your relationship ✅ Have at it fellas 💅🏾
@@dbizzle85 Date people because they treat you well and match what you desire. The terms dating out and swirling usually praise other races just for existing. Black people collectively have the worst stereotypes which differ for men and women. Many of the men/women who dated/married out that I know are divorced a couple times over. Social media is not the best place to see representation of quality women. Either way good luck to you!
@@Kimberly.TThese are real women. Blk men and women need to get in order. It starts by worshipping God instead of the cult of blkness and the matriarchal culture that comes with it.
@@dbizzle85if you’re dating out to Yte women, those interracial relationships are far less successful than any other group. Yte women are more viscous and play the very long game to get over you. Statistically it’s still better to date without your own race when you look at statistics, even when BW are filing most of the divorces with bm
Girl, you did NOT come on this show neck rolling with an attitude because you were a teen mother. I'm at the Kendra Cam part and I promise you, being a teen mom is the least of your worries. You can bounce back from being a young mom. You're a grown woman who's story's getting worst by the minute🤦🏾♀️ Edit: I say this with love sis, you need to humble yourself all the way down. Humility goes a long way. Also, let your friend know that if she spends as much time cleaning as she does minding your business she'd have no time to be in your business.
When I was 18 I decided to myself that I would never bring children into this world that I can’t take care of , I meant it too , this woman should worry about her children and making sure they grow healthy and strong instead of worrying about dating because some men specifically go for women wit children for bad motives
@@chilout2496if you make it to 40 with no kids, kendra thinks you are 🌈 as a man. She said this a year ago on a live. Yet she in her 49’s with no kid lol.
Instead of cheering her on, her friend should be telling her to take some time before looking for a new man while having 3 kids, particularly the 8 MONTH OLD! Someone asked in the comments how is she not embarrassed and I think having people around you who don't tell you the hard but necessary truth is a big part of the problem.
@@MsTKO-le7uslol as if married people can’t give bad advice. It’s the message that’s important not necessarily the messenger. “Not by age but by knowledge is wisdom required”
"I'm 3 in 3" To come on a public platform and say this so casually should be embarrassing. Why do our people not find this embarrassing. Don't get me wrong, it's not all on her. It takes 2, but this lady should focus on her children and ask their fathers to play a significant role in the lit lives. By equally yoked, I hope she means a man with 3 kids by 3 women, cos she doesn't deserve a man to save her after making those poor decisions.
This is what happens when you make bm an option they will make you a baby momma. Multiple times🤷🏼♀️🤷🏼♀️. Too bad bw haven’t gotten the memo and still choose to cock they h0 legs open to accept degenerate seamen
Imagine, she meets a man who wet her while she was pregnant and he marries her. He happens to lose his job, and she’s gone? Where’s the loyalty? Further, she keeps acting as though she is not ‘hood’ meanwhile she has 3 by 3. 🥴
@@user-zx5xw4yw2eI noticed that men want to test drive it and and be all in it during the dating phases but in the same time we'll talk about a body count 🤔
I give it 6 months before they’re not friends any more. They’re both in ATL looking for the same man and her friend is better deal. Sad. She highlighted a better candidate at her own job interview.
I was thinking the same thing. She wanted to be heard and seen so badly. RULE OF THUMB: never take your friend with you to look for a job or a man....@@sweetjanejonez
I need to have the confidence that she has to just have had a baby and back out there looking for love and I’m single with no children😅 I hope she addressed any issues she has within herself because three children with three different fathers isn’t good.
Let me get this right: your ex-husband got with you when you were eight months pregnant with another man’s baby and help you to raise that child and also the child that he had with you. And you divorced him because he wanted to move back to your hometown?so you opted to be a twice over single mother, struggling by yourself rather than in two parent household, making it happen because you didn’t want to move back to your hometown? Makes total sense.
Why would you leave and divorce your husband? The man that accepted you when you were pregnant with your first baby, helped you raise her and while he’s trying to figure it all out, you didn’t stick by him! You made the vow to stick with him for better or worse, in sickness and health….. Now you have another baby by a guy that doesn’t want you. Wow karma is a bitch! Isn’t it?
I thought the same thing. Dude was on his Derrick Jaxn always in his car smh. Her intuition kicked in and that stupid little birdie 🐦 told her to check the car.
I feel bad for the baby. Why would you choose to give your attention to random strangers when you have an infant that needs all your energy. This is toxic energy being passed down.
Ok mothers, you want to cheer for single moms, so tell me which one of you is signing your son up for this? Yes, your baby boy that you birthed and raised and worried about. Are you sending him into the jaws of this leviathan of a situation?
I told my Son in his late teens and 20s to be very mindful of the women you date with kids. You are signing up for all that comes with it. All of it. He’s married now and my daughter in law had no children until after they married.
I live in ATL she invisible to quality men she can get from Pittsburgh or Vine City but she won’t get a man who stay in the burbs with a house job snd 401K nope 😂
These the same women getting on TikTok and Instagram talking about a man has to send $100 for lunch, she don’t do 50/50! Meanwhile she’s paying all the bills for a 🥷 to stay at HER house and he’s cheating on her😂😂
I am going to keep saying this because it's like AFTER multiple kids and multiple baby daddies, Now these women have high standards. This blows my mind bc while I can understand wanting better, they now have much less flexibility to do things with you and for you, and the relationship will cost the new guy more. The new guys had to deal with three baby daddies. NO THANK YOU.
They tell on themselves. Women who are on a level where they don't deal with broke men and petty criminals don't have to announce it. Desirable women don't even see these men and barely know they exist.
@2:10 - "He's there, struggling". Not more than you, apparently. You're the one with all these kids by different men, raising them all by yourself and looking for a man on Kendra show. Please don't ever come out your mouth again to say somebody else struggling like you some sort of flex. Girl, you ARE the struggle.
Right, the nervvveee, girl at that big of 30 & still can’t pick a decent quality man for 💩 15 years later. Was married and left. Just hang it up already and go be a single mom
@@cookingwithlove5132she said she works in the “IT industry”. She isn’t in IT the way that you would think a person would be who says that they are in IT. She isn’t a manager, or else she would have said that. She isn’t a developer, programmer or engineer. I’m going to take a guess and say she works in “tech support”, as in resetting passwords and stuff like that.
This is so sad to see so many of our sisters not valuing their bodies out here sleeping with men who are not there husband having multiple kids by multiple men then expect a quality man to rescue them. What do these women have to offer? This dream man can’t even get kids because she gave other men kids and don’t want anymore. SMH
@@tippy06 Women please stop comparing yourselves to men. This is a disingenuous argument, this is why our community is going down the tubes feminism has destroyed our women and our families…
Many young girls need to see this because this is just reality. The world has changed just because some grandad's, uncles and stepdad's decided to take on an already made family the quantity of the who do are few and quality is almost none
@@tippy06 & woman control who they want to sleep with. If a man sleeps with a woman is because she wanted to unless it was without consent so please if woman actually limit opening there legs every chance they get, they won't be in situations like this.
This man helped her raise a child that wasn’t his and she left him because he lost his job and wanted to move back to Baltimore! That’s the dumbest shit I ever heard!
So she thought she was making better decision by divorcing her husband because she didn't want to move back to the hoods of Baltimore, so instead she stayed and became 3x baby mama by another failed relationship. .... yeah sounds about right
@@shaypope4732 You don't blame her! 🤣 If you leave your dude, you need to b making better decision, obviously, she wasn't. She just pumping out babies by pookies, and you agree with it!? Damn, some black people are doomed!
@@shaypope4732no. She said he lost his job after taking care of her and someone else's kid when she was 8 months pregnant. (They dated for 5 years. Married for 2.5) has 8 year old. Sounds like they only started dating the moment she got pregnant. Her oldest is 14 so between the 1st child and the 2nd they were never dating until she got pregnant.
Lmaooo exactly!!!! I was biting my tongue until I saw the Kendra Cam. Then at the same time she accidentally exposes her homegirl's dirty crib😂😂 This is ALL bad!!!
Beautiful young woman. With that said, sis please concentrate on your babies, try to co-parent as best you can, work on further development at the job site, and keep fostering that relationship with Jesus. That’s the only man you need right now sweetheart. I say this with love as your sister in Christ 🩷
Wow she left him when he took her in at 8 months pregnant with a pookie baby. Had his baby. Wanted to relocate to get himself and family back on track. Then she had another pookie baby. 😂😂😂😂 who’s signing up for that? Ma’am move back with you husband.
🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩 5 out of 5 RED FLAGS. So she refused to follow her HUSBAND and decided instead to break up her family. She’s a 4 at best in one of the most competitive (dating) cities in the U.S. She should have worked it out with her husband or her 8 month olds father…and she is pushy, quick to cuss you out, with an intrusive friend. You can’t make this stuff up.
Ladies if you’re still having se$ with your ex you’re not ready to date other people. Being intimate clouds your judgement when it’s already on shaky ground. I would suggest her seeking therapy. I wish her the best. This was a lot to digest.
Try to get back with your baby daddy. Give that man one more chance. Too many kids!! Dear Baby Daddy, make it work with your kid mother. I rooting for you guys. YOU CAN DO IT!!
Yet this is why I never got married. The marriage laws are against men, especially men with resources and women today will even divorce a man for the most simple of things instead of getting therapy/counseling or accepting it. Marriage vows are created for a reason, because marriage isn’t a 100% all the time lovely event. You have highs and lows like any other relationship. This is why a strong tight knit family of support is needed for both sides, especially long term married elders who can give advice to maintain the marriage. I what’s sad is people who claim to be Christians, don’t even know what the Bible says about a woman who divorced her husband who is still alive. You’re not even suppose to marry another man but instead go back to your husband and reconcile
@@Tony-lm5zs you are absolutely right. People spend more time planning the lavish wedding than they do planning the marriage. The love and romance is great but it’s the hard times that really test you. Will that love for each other get you through the tough times because they will come. Sickness job loss, finances, raising kids etc. I heard something once about marriage that made sense. At Thanksgiving the main dish is the Turkey. You prep it and put it in the oven. While it’s cooking, you start preparing all the sides. But all the while you’re forgetting to base the Turkey. Check on the main dish. The Turkey is the marriage. The sides are the kids, bills, your careers. Although the sides are important, you’re neglecting the main dish. I thought that was a great analogy.
GeArl, go somewhere with the "God-fearing," "God-serving," and "Paying tithes"crap. You divorced because you didn't want to follow your husband's lead. You need to go READ that book. Three babies with three baby daddies and acting like she holds all the cards.
Also she ain’t suppose to remarry. If her husband is still alive. Her Bible clearly says she is suppose to go back to her husband and reconcile or she and the next man will be committing adultery.
Anyone would be a fool to think she really was married. Now they coming on the show lying. That's what men have to look forward to. Lies from the very beginning
😂😂😂 3 x 3. This is a terrible deal for any man. Let me continue. 3:31 any man would be a fool to get with her! 6:31 helped raised her child and they had one together and she still left him instead of being a family. I feel sorry for step daddies! 7:46 it's just getting worse. So he'll play step dad and y'all can't have a child together? Kendra Kam when Kendra says "we see you baby" 😂😂 we all know what it means!
so she actually harshly judges people who sleep on mattresses but doesn't see fit to judge herself for getting pregnant 3 times out ot wedlock, with 3 different men? i can't
It makes no sense these days. At least there used to be more of a stigma with being unmarried and women were more traditional and would say least happily cook and clean and give you kids of your own. I can't come up with a single reason to be with this woman unless a man needs a place to stay or wants access to the kids. There's nothing appealing or beneficial about this woman. It's crazy she's totally erased any and all value to a man. Crashed out by 30.
I just don’t get it. In our community why do you have to give every man a child? Why do you always have to be in a relationship? Why is birth control not taken seriously. Why even consider introducing a new man to your teenage daughter and brand new kid?
The blk community is a matriarchy. The nature of the female is feelings and emotions. That means so what feels right instead of what makes sense. Blk men need to overcome this conditioning and think and act logically. As long as blk men are addicted to sex, these women will rule and this will be the outcome.
Run men. A woman who cant work it out with the 8 month old baby's father aint worth your time. She needs to find a man with 3 babies with 3 different women. That's her speed.
My only explanation that seems to work well for this show is that people present themselves on this show saying they "all that", but when the camera turns off, it's a whole different story.... that's the best I got 😅
Nearly 80% of blk babies are born out of question. It makes more sense to question the blk women who wait until marriage and ask them what possessed them to be the weirdos in the community.
She didn't acknowledge her mistakes because if she did, she wouldn't be on kendra's show with a 8 month old looking to go 4 for 4. She would be healing, raising her newborn and getting to the root of the problem.
30YO obese single mother with 14, 8 and 8 month old and just slept with the baby dad she was taking care of 2 months ago. Take her on adventures. Independent but needs guidance. Ok. Atleast she was honest about the stepfather role. Wishing her the best!
She is reckless. That is the only summary that is needed. She is a poor judge of character and has an overinflated sense of herself. The men that were with her had accepted her for all of her flaws which were on full display. She left those men because of their flaws and shortcomings. She willingly tossed herself back to the streets…again. Let her stay there with her friend.
Dear God in heaven she has a 14 year old daughter and she thinks some man is going to come in and do what now????? Nevermind the conflict of interest in general. "He looked at me", "he aint my daddy"!!! Girl byeeeee. I have a teenage son and he gets on my dam nerves with his attitude. A girl is ten times what im going through with someone who aint the daddy 😮
And worst of all being at the airport with your 14 year old step daughter who don't look nothing like you...you already KNOW someone gonna call 🚔 on him and that is PTSD right there ☠️
First and foremost she should have left with her husband who was the head of the house hold! What a great way to show how many people skip out on the hard times. I’m sure he felt they would of done better back home together as husband and wife. Now you’re on here looking for another guy, with three kids fathers 🤦🏽♀️.
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You just had a baby. She is so afraid of being alone. Focus on yourself and your kids. You're not ready for anyone!!!🤦🏾♂️
She’s not afraid of being alone. She’s afraid of being broke and alone.
She has no value at all, the first time an argument breakout she'd be laying up in someone bed
She not afraid to be alone she looking for new supply. IYKYK !
They don’t care bout Nuna that🤦🏾♀️
They literally don’t like the kids, they think it would keep a loser and the kids suffer it’s disgusting!!! Grow up
“I’m the type to bring home to mom”
A single mother of 3 with 3 baby daddies
Who’s momma gonna be happy with this?
😂
At 17, my 1st serious gf's mom had 3 by 3, and my mom warned me about the effects that would have on her. I found out how right she was as time went on. Moved on eventually and chose better. I couldn't imagine bringing home a mother of 3 by 3 diff men.
A h00drat like her... maybe.
Any mother in the sister hood
😬😂😂😂
The WORST thing you can do is get serious with a woman who recently had a baby and broke up with the baby daddy for LESS THAN A YEAR.
She got a man, married him while she was 8 months pregnant when she was a teenager and they mean raised that child so she's already done this before, clearly not off base for her
Yep, she still got her butt cheeks clapped 2 months ago by his last baby daddy..! Smashing with their baby daddies is an ongoing thing with these women.
They say it’s better doing it with him than with a new person.!
Less than “eva” #NOBABYMAMAS
Where does she even find the time to date with an infant to take care of? 8 months ago, yeah that's a HUGE red flag. Add 2 teaspoons of 2 other kids, 3 table spoons of 3 baby daddies and you got yourself one heck of a plate to deal with. Plus she's 30 and boldly claiming she ain't having no more kids for the next man. Yup, that's a real winner there. Good luck on that one guys.
The ex husband is a pure SIMP marrying this below average 304 and was already pregnant 🤮🤮
These babies be brand spanking new and y’all would think to yourselves, “yup, it’s time to go to Kendra’s show!” 😂😂😭🤦🏾♂️
I'm waiting for the woman who calls in LIVE from the delivery room.... Looking for a new man while delivering a Ray Ray's baby!
@@N_MACHIAVELLI Lmaoo you playing, but it’s coming soon for sure 😂😂
aaaaaaa 😂😂😂😂😂
@@N_MACHIAVELLI😮stay tuned 😮
You are messy 😂… 😂
30 looking like 40 with 3 kids with 3 different daddies a fool would sign up for this assignment.
Child I’m so damn confused 😅
Dr. Umar say she straight!
also openly wanting him to be a father figure and teach her kids...she aint having none for him tho lol....these women are just wild
Also she is very full of herself with those demands. When she looks in the mirror she thinks she is Megan Good.
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I'd be horrified if my son brought home a woman like this. This is beyond ratchet.
Stress to him to never trust that a woman is taking her birthcontrol pill or using some other form of birth control. Avoid that unwanted lifetime connection and wear condoms. Make sure to flush them down the 🚽.
You and me both. I would question my parenting
Me too. I'd actually be so disappointed
(͡° ͜ʖ ͡° ) 💕 😛 💋 ❥¸¸.•*¨*•♫♪♫ ღ ☆* ♡ ℒℴѵℯ 💕hahahahahahahahahahaha
Talking about the lord….. girl bye
I don't see the problem with her wanting someone on her level. A Pookie with 3 kids and 3 baby mommas who will be out of prison in 2026 is perfect for her.
LMAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAF🤣😂😅🤣😂
😂 Exactly!! I’m not even 2 minutes in and she’s PISSING ME OFFFFFFF
Lord😂😂😂
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Nope he better have a degree!!😂
8 month old baby and she’s already single? Also she’s 30 with a 14 yr old. Shes concerned about him being a Christian but she just had a baby out of wedlock. She had a baby with a man that was homeless “unstable”.
Exactly she’s a fake Christian but talking about ppl who believe in crystals are weird (which they are) but she’s weird too!
40*
30 going on 47 😂
Trifling.
Calling spiritual people weird but having 3 babies by 3 different men is somehow normal in her eyes…Girl get tf on
I dont think Pookiesha understands that if you can't work it out with 3 of your baby daddies how committed are you realistically.
Pookiesha 😂😂😂
Pookeisha's always live in La La land 😂😂😂😂
That was what I was thinking she has no idea how to keep a relationship together or what to actually value. My wife and I be laughing at this show. Married 26 years. When Kendra ask what is your flaws she should of said rewind this interview that is all I been listing.
Getting a divorce because he wanted to change cities is absolutely crazy to me.
Pookiesha..... I am taking that
She wasn't God fearing when she was laying up...these females kill me with that
People live and learn. Just like yourself.
Exactly! Fake Christian
@@user-zx5xw4yw2e baby was 8 months ago, and she smashed the BD 2 weeks ago. I dont think she learned that much🙄
@@user-zx5xw4yw2e3’s a charm huh? Lol
@kane99560 Doesn't matter what u think. GOD is the only one who knows the heart. She is doing much better going forward. Again... people *live and learn.* Just like you. 👍
Ready for Marriage 🚫
Multiple Children ✅
Bad attitude/ mouth ✅
Wants a finished product ✅
Is a finished product 🚫
Multiple fathers ✅
Introverts 🚫
Toxic ✅
Homeless ✅
Tubes Tied ⏳
Opinionated friend, who’ll be in the background of your relationship ✅
Have at it fellas 💅🏾
Dating out currently and if I don't marry her I'm staying out 😂
Lol😂😂😂😂😂
@@dbizzle85 Date people because they treat you well and match what you desire. The terms dating out and swirling usually praise other races just for existing. Black people collectively have the worst stereotypes which differ for men and women. Many of the men/women who dated/married out that I know are divorced a couple times over. Social media is not the best place to see representation of quality women. Either way good luck to you!
@@Kimberly.TThese are real women. Blk men and women need to get in order. It starts by worshipping God instead of the cult of blkness and the matriarchal culture that comes with it.
@@dbizzle85if you’re dating out to Yte women, those interracial relationships are far less successful than any other group. Yte women are more viscous and play the very long game to get over you. Statistically it’s still better to date without your own race when you look at statistics, even when BW are filing most of the divorces with bm
Who told this girl that introverts can't hold conversations? Please stop using words without knowing the meaning. 😂😂😂😂
They talk when they want to , usually with great conversation. I think.
😂😂😂😂😂 was so confused...
@@donald104 facts!
@@sufi8903 what does she think that word means? 😂
Same thing I was saying. Some introverts hold the most deepest conversations
Her-I’m 3 for 3
She called that like the NBA Finals.🤦🏽♂️😂😂😂
Like a Wendy's meal. Everybody has their own daddy
Most likely she got that phrase from some other RUclipsrs that make RESPONSE videos of Kendra's commentary...
Well, since everybody dunk’n…
Looking for 4/4 😂
No shit
What level are you on when you just had a baby and have 3 kids by 3 different men??
😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
Below the bottom is what level.
A Negative Number Below Zero😂
She in the basement
The lowest level
“I’m not dating potential anymore.” Ma’am you are the potential
What potential she got? Only potential she has is the potential to make a man a 4th baby daddy.
Exactly
Not even
Facts
I am a great big bundle of POTENTIALITY 😂😂🎶🎶
Girl, you did NOT come on this show neck rolling with an attitude because you were a teen mother. I'm at the Kendra Cam part and I promise you, being a teen mom is the least of your worries. You can bounce back from being a young mom. You're a grown woman who's story's getting worst by the minute🤦🏾♀️
Edit: I say this with love sis, you need to humble yourself all the way down. Humility goes a long way. Also, let your friend know that if she spends as much time cleaning as she does minding your business she'd have no time to be in your business.
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I know you right
If not she will be 60 still looking for a man
True dat!
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These women be making demands with brand new babies smh
Plain and simple. I think this woman is just a “Fool.”
In charge of 3 kids too I’m praying for the children I hear them in background
You are correct
But her kids are going to love her to the Moon and back …🤦🏿🤷🏾♂️
Real shyt…
She said she was a fool but not retarded. Hers words not mine.
I will come back when there are more comments. 😂
😂😂😂
Me too, see you later 😊
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Lol
We cooking 🔥🔥😂
I’m an introvert and I’ve gone parasailing, skydiving, jets skiing, etc. People just say anything when don’t understand something
They don’t understand us introverts. We are happy in our own world and don’t desire the headaches of being around others a lot
Same here
Please consider a “single season”.
They need to…🤔😬
Her "level" is below SEA LEVEL gatdamn me!😂
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No shit very low
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When I was 18 I decided to myself that I would never bring children into this world that I can’t take care of , I meant it too , this woman should worry about her children and making sure they grow healthy and strong instead of worrying about dating because some men specifically go for women wit children for bad motives
Facts! I'm not struggling by any means, but I wouldn't have any kids if I'm broke. Can't be struggling and bring kids into the world to do the same.
Same here and I’m 28. Had several girlfriends, ONS, long term relationships and no
Kids yet because unless we’re married, I don’t want no kids.
Same. Thanks for not doing that to a child.
@@chilout2496if you make it to 40 with no kids, kendra thinks you are 🌈 as a man. She said this a year ago on a live. Yet she in her 49’s with no kid lol.
Single mothers are more often than not the predators. Child support & collecting children are predatory acts.
Instead of cheering her on, her friend should be telling her to take some time before looking for a new man while having 3 kids, particularly the 8 MONTH OLD! Someone asked in the comments how is she not embarrassed and I think having people around you who don't tell you the hard but necessary truth is a big part of the problem.
Everything you said, is spot on!!! 👏🏾
Her friend won't even wipe that booger out her nose.
Judging by the fact that the friend's house is dirty it seems like she ain't doing no better......Birds of a feather....
The blind can’t lead the blind First, Mistake listening to a single friend I personally only take relationship advice from married friends 💯
@@MsTKO-le7uslol as if married people can’t give bad advice. It’s the message that’s important not necessarily the messenger.
“Not by age but by knowledge is wisdom required”
Well damn Wendy's got the 4 for 4 and she got the 3 for 3! 😂😂
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She might as well have a kid with another pookie. Go for the desired 4 for 4 lol.
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"I'm 3 in 3"
To come on a public platform and say this so casually should be embarrassing. Why do our people not find this embarrassing. Don't get me wrong, it's not all on her. It takes 2, but this lady should focus on her children and ask their fathers to play a significant role in the lit lives.
By equally yoked, I hope she means a man with 3 kids by 3 women, cos she doesn't deserve a man to save her after making those poor decisions.
That's the Bmore average.
She going for that Wendy's Special 😂
@@chillycharles910 Hip Hop 🐟 n 🐔 vibes, a 📦 of Newports, and bottle of Alize.
@@E.R225not the 4x4 😂😂😂😂
This is what happens when you make bm an option they will make you a baby momma. Multiple times🤷🏼♀️🤷🏼♀️. Too bad bw haven’t gotten the memo and still choose to cock they h0 legs open to accept degenerate seamen
Theres absolutely nothihg unique about 95% of the females that come on this show. You can almost predict what they are gonna say and look like smh
Women often repeat themselves, natural-born followers of other women.
This is wild. This woman is seriously out of touch with reality
Imagine, she meets a man who wet her while she was pregnant and he marries her. He happens to lose his job, and she’s gone? Where’s the loyalty? Further, she keeps acting as though she is not ‘hood’ meanwhile she has 3 by 3. 🥴
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Sbt 🤦🏽♀️
Kendra after the Kendra cam always find something positive to say I see u u got leopard on 😂😂😂😂
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Chubsters love leopard
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Her and her friend is sickening,what man wanna put up with her & her 3 kids?
Another Pookie!
Me. I can take care of her on my $30,000 income
She need to let that thing rest for a while 😅
DATING does not have to involve sex.
@@user-zx5xw4yw2eyes in elementary school.
@@Godkingjay Bless your heart.
@@user-zx5xw4yw2eI noticed that men want to test drive it and and be all in it during the dating phases but in the same time we'll talk about a body count 🤔
@@user-zx5xw4yw2ewell for her it does because she couldn’t help but have 3 kids by 3 different men. She likes to fuqk
I give it 6 months before they’re not friends any more. They’re both in ATL looking for the same man and her friend is better deal. Sad. She highlighted a better candidate at her own job interview.
watch if her friend finds that man...thats when the jealousy will start to kick in and she gone try and take him.
Agreed!
Yes she should've never showed her friend
@bsamy She didn't lol
Her friend did it on the not so slick. Who doesn't know how to turn the camera around in 2024?
I was thinking the same thing. She wanted to be heard and seen so badly. RULE OF THUMB: never take your friend with you to look for a job or a man....@@sweetjanejonez
I need to have the confidence that she has to just have had a baby and back out there looking for love and I’m single with no children😅 I hope she addressed any issues she has within herself because three children with three different fathers isn’t good.
She’s not looking for love, she’s looking for help.
@@Roccofan child support x3
That’s not confidence, that’s just lack of shame and accountability
Sis said 3 for 3 like she just won a spades tournament in Bmore. Anyway, blessings sis.
she’s been watching when Zach was hosting 😂😂😂😂😂
The baby mama show. They gonna take over the app
Pum pum barely healed and already want a new man. Smh
"Are they all with the same man?
We can just SKIP that question and ask "How many men?", smh.
She looking for her next victim 🏃♀️
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Take the woman out the hood but can’t take the hood out the woman. 3 baby fathers
She talking bout she didn't sleep on a mattress like that makes a difference 😂 girl u got pregnant as a teen u just as hood as the others.
Lol. I was just thinking. She would say something like "he's got to be corporate and street"
According to her, she is not hood. I’m glad I’m not the only one that heard that.
Just disgusting 🤮
No doubt you can't say it any other way
Let me get this right: your ex-husband got with you when you were eight months pregnant with another man’s baby and help you to raise that child and also the child that he had with you. And you divorced him because he wanted to move back to your hometown?so you opted to be a twice over single mother, struggling by yourself rather than in two parent household, making it happen because you didn’t want to move back to your hometown? Makes total sense.
She's not telling the whole story. That's why it doesn't make sense 🙄. She doesn't take marriage OR family planning serious.
My boy was homeless. “Helped” with the bills, and my girl thought he was the perfect guy to reproduce with. Whew.
Why would you leave and divorce your husband? The man that accepted you when you were pregnant with your first baby, helped you raise her and while he’s trying to figure it all out, you didn’t stick by him! You made the vow to stick with him for better or worse, in sickness and health….. Now you have another baby by a guy that doesn’t want you. Wow karma is a bitch! Isn’t it?
18:31 he wasn't paying any bills
@@shaypope4732 She said he wanted to go to Baltimore and she refused to be a wife and follow him.
Better or worst is the vow@shaypope4732
And around a few minutes later she said he wasn't paying the bills and now living in the hood
@@shaypope4732go be best friends with her because your mindset is just as low value as hers!
Why is this a highlight Kendra this ain’t what we want at all 😂
When Kendra says we see you baby. I know what that means when it comes to the Kendra Cam.
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Busted
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He didn’t live with her and she went snooping in his car because he didn’t come over for Christmas. 😂
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Yeah, that was weird. Who gives a surprise Xmas gift in that way to their partner? They weren't in a relationship.
I thought the same thing. Dude was on his Derrick Jaxn always in his car smh. Her intuition kicked in and that stupid little birdie 🐦 told her to check the car.
@@mackenzyphilippe7508not on his Derrick Jaxn 🤣🤣🤣
I feel bad for the baby. Why would you choose to give your attention to random strangers when you have an infant that needs all your energy. This is toxic energy being passed down.
Ikr???? Wash, Rinse, Repeat🤦🏾♀️
Her: "I'm the type you can take home to your mother."
Her Friend in the Background: "No you not."
That says all that I need to know. 🙅🏾♂️
SMH! She needs to divert her attention to her children. She’s not in a position to date anyone.
Built like a bowling ball and 3 for 3, hate to see it
Ok mothers, you want to cheer for single moms, so tell me which one of you is signing your son up for this? Yes, your baby boy that you birthed and raised and worried about. Are you sending him into the jaws of this leviathan of a situation?
No.
Absolutely not! I say that as a divorced single mother of one son.
I told my Son in his late teens and 20s to be very mindful of the women you date with kids. You are signing up for all that comes with it. All of it. He’s married now and my daughter in law had no children until after they married.
I live in ATL she invisible to quality men she can get from Pittsburgh or Vine City but she won’t get a man who stay in the burbs with a house job snd 401K nope 😂
😂 leviathan 😂
🚨🚨🚨Already has what she has. WHO signing up for 3 kids with 3 BABY DADDIES 👀
Right who want to deal with 3 baby daddies I pray for her sanity
@@shalondajones6549 😆😆😆
she made to many bad decisions
Pookies gone say they struck gold
These the same women getting on TikTok and Instagram talking about a man has to send $100 for lunch, she don’t do 50/50! Meanwhile she’s paying all the bills for a 🥷 to stay at HER house and he’s cheating on her😂😂
While she doing 100/0 by herself while alone lol
I'm calling the Big Back Brigade on you
Preach!!
Them chicks got 2 jobs and got broke boy friends that still got side chicks
Ma’am at this point focus on your children and go buy a dog
Don’t forget the gym 😂
I am going to keep saying this because it's like AFTER multiple kids and multiple baby daddies, Now these women have high standards. This blows my mind bc while I can understand wanting better, they now have much less flexibility to do things with you and for you, and the relationship will cost the new guy more. The new guys had to deal with three baby daddies. NO THANK YOU.
They tell on themselves. Women who are on a level where they don't deal with broke men and petty criminals don't have to announce it. Desirable women don't even see these men and barely know they exist.
exactly. for women that dont deal with those types of men those men arent even in their orbit. its not something they need to think about.
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@2:10 - "He's there, struggling". Not more than you, apparently. You're the one with all these kids by different men, raising them all by yourself and looking for a man on Kendra show. Please don't ever come out your mouth again to say somebody else struggling like you some sort of flex. Girl, you ARE the struggle.
This comment is the one!!!!! OMG - in this economy with all these kids you are driving the struggle bus with all your kids loaded in there. 🚌🏃🏾♀️🏃🏾👼🏾
@@melodyejohnson8339🤣🤣🤣
Preach!!! 🫡Fam
Right, the nervvveee, girl at that big of 30 & still can’t pick a decent quality man for 💩 15 years later. Was married and left. Just hang it up already and go be a single mom
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Talking bout she not going back to the hood..Bihh you are the hood!! 3 different baby daddies, the audacity
Good mothers and fathers, protect your sons. Don’t just teach them how to treat a woman, but be clear on how that woman should treat him.
Truthful
That's a rough looking 30 year old.
You don't really want a man on your level 😂😂😂
Girl we know where you work...either walmart, home depot, lowes or amazon.
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She said she is a IT
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I have a bridge for sale@@cookingwithlove5132
@@cookingwithlove5132she said she works in the “IT industry”. She isn’t in IT the way that you would think a person would be who says that they are in IT. She isn’t a manager, or else she would have said that. She isn’t a developer, programmer or engineer. I’m going to take a guess and say she works in “tech support”, as in resetting passwords and stuff like that.
This is so sad to see so many of our sisters not valuing their bodies out here sleeping with men who are not there husband having multiple kids by multiple men then expect a quality man to rescue them. What do these women have to offer? This dream man can’t even get kids because she gave other men kids and don’t want anymore. SMH
I think people need to have the same energy for men. They are trying to sleep with as many women as soon as they can.
@@tippy06 Women please stop comparing yourselves to men. This is a disingenuous argument, this is why our community is going down the tubes feminism has destroyed our women and our families…
Many young girls need to see this because this is just reality. The world has changed just because some grandad's, uncles and stepdad's decided to take on an already made family the quantity of the who do are few and quality is almost none
@@misslove7698 I can tell Kendra’s people will delete comments they disagree with. I guess I shouldn’t be surprise.
@@tippy06 & woman control who they want to sleep with. If a man sleeps with a woman is because she wanted to unless it was without consent so please if woman actually limit opening there legs every chance they get, they won't be in situations like this.
A portion control and workouts while focusing on her children should be a priority
This man helped her raise a child that wasn’t his and she left him because he lost his job and wanted to move back to Baltimore! That’s the dumbest shit I ever heard!
She consistently leaves and runs when the situation doesn't benefit her.
As an Athiest, it annoys me when y'all request people of God when you loosely (barely) abide the Bible.
That part 💯
Yes… I hate when people confuse atheists with satanists!!! 🙄🙄🙄 she’s a bible thumping 3x baby mama
Or when they want a man with no kids who is " family oriented" ya for HER family
There are no men equally yoked with a woman with three kids especially an 8 month old baby. Keep moving men, don’t waist your time and money.
There is Pookie and Ray Ray!. Lol
She found 3 she will find another
*waste
@@jailamink6489another Pookie
Only homeless men, prisoners, and greencard bros
I know a Wal-Mart employee when one see one
..because it takes takes one to know one?
@@user-zx5xw4yw2eno it doesnt 😅😅
@fredm.2699 *OHYes it does.*
Lol
@@user-zx5xw4yw2e tf here you are again 🤣🤣🤣
So she thought she was making better decision by divorcing her husband because she didn't want to move back to the hoods of Baltimore, so instead she stayed and became 3x baby mama by another failed relationship. .... yeah sounds about right
Karma imo
She said he wasn't paying any bills so I don't blame her
@@shaypope4732 You don't blame her! 🤣 If you leave your dude, you need to b making better decision, obviously, she wasn't. She just pumping out babies by pookies, and you agree with it!? Damn, some black people are doomed!
She said he was giving her money to pay the bills, so he was paying the bills @shaypope4732
@@shaypope4732no. She said he lost his job after taking care of her and someone else's kid when she was 8 months pregnant. (They dated for 5 years. Married for 2.5) has 8 year old. Sounds like they only started dating the moment she got pregnant. Her oldest is 14 so between the 1st child and the 2nd they were never dating until she got pregnant.
And she blowed out?? I just knew that body was gonna be fire with all those demands and all that baggage. This is wild!
Lmaooo exactly!!!! I was biting my tongue until I saw the Kendra Cam. Then at the same time she accidentally exposes her homegirl's dirty crib😂😂 This is ALL bad!!!
@@jamaciag09lord these females homes be looking a mess Smh
Beautiful young woman. With that said, sis please concentrate on your babies, try to co-parent as best you can, work on further development at the job site, and keep fostering that relationship with Jesus. That’s the only man you need right now sweetheart. I say this with love as your sister in Christ 🩷
this was so well written and exactly what she needs to HEAR!
I love this
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I’m not a religious person, but that’s the smartest advice that I heard for her.
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She is too hefty
Wow she left him when he took her in at 8 months pregnant with a pookie baby. Had his baby. Wanted to relocate to get himself and family back on track. Then she had another pookie baby. 😂😂😂😂 who’s signing up for that? Ma’am move back with you husband.
🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩 5 out of 5 RED FLAGS. So she refused to follow her HUSBAND and decided instead to break up her family. She’s a 4 at best in one of the most competitive (dating) cities in the U.S. She should have worked it out with her husband or her 8 month olds father…and she is pushy, quick to cuss you out, with an intrusive friend. You can’t make this stuff up.
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Ladies if you’re still having se$ with your ex you’re not ready to date other people.
Being intimate clouds your judgement when it’s already on shaky ground.
I would suggest her seeking therapy. I wish her the best. This was a lot to digest.
Try to get back with your baby daddy. Give that man one more chance. Too many kids!!
Dear Baby Daddy, make it work with your kid mother. I rooting for you guys. YOU CAN DO IT!!
Which baby daddy? Lol, you meant husband lol
KG should change the name from Singles to DELUSIONS 😢
That growing apart after 2 1/2 yrs of marriage is lame. The Vows don’t mean squat to people anymore. Just sad.
Yet this is why I never got married. The marriage laws are against men, especially men with resources and women today will even divorce a man for the most simple of things instead of getting therapy/counseling or accepting it. Marriage vows are created for a reason, because marriage isn’t a 100% all the time lovely event. You have highs and lows like any other relationship. This is why a strong tight knit family of support is needed for both sides, especially long term married elders who can give advice to maintain the marriage. I what’s sad is people who claim to be Christians, don’t even know what the Bible says about a woman who divorced her husband who is still alive. You’re not even suppose to marry another man but instead go back to your husband and reconcile
@@Tony-lm5zs you are absolutely right. People spend more time planning the lavish wedding than they do planning the marriage. The love and romance is great but it’s the hard times that really test you. Will that love for each other get you through the tough times because they will come. Sickness job loss, finances, raising kids etc. I heard something once about marriage that made sense. At Thanksgiving the main dish is the Turkey. You prep it and put it in the oven. While it’s cooking, you start preparing all the sides. But all the while you’re forgetting to base the Turkey. Check on the main dish. The Turkey is the marriage. The sides are the kids, bills, your careers. Although the sides are important, you’re neglecting the main dish. I thought that was a great analogy.
She is allll the way doneeee. Potential wtf what potential are u? IT. You have 3 kids. We don’t care about your potential. Wowww.
Father save these lost souls
Kendra should skip "Are they by the same" man/woman question and ask them how many.
Sometimes she asks them how many.
Yes, especially when they’re several years apart
I was going to come on here and let loose. But I see yall got it covered. Carry on!!!
GeArl, go somewhere with the "God-fearing," "God-serving," and "Paying tithes"crap. You divorced because you didn't want to follow your husband's lead. You need to go READ that book. Three babies with three baby daddies and acting like she holds all the cards.
Also she ain’t suppose to remarry. If her husband is still alive. Her Bible clearly says she is suppose to go back to her husband and reconcile or she and the next man will be committing adultery.
@@Tony-lm5zsshhhhh. You aren’t supposed to be exposing these 🤡 for being frauds.
She look at least 45 😂😂 30 is a lie.
Don’t let your friends keep you single
Her friends need to stop keeping her from choosing the same men and acting the same way lol
Anyone would be a fool to think she really was married. Now they coming on the show lying. That's what men have to look forward to. Lies from the very beginning
😂😂😂 3 x 3. This is a terrible deal for any man. Let me continue.
3:31 any man would be a fool to get with her!
6:31 helped raised her child and they had one together and she still left him instead of being a family. I feel sorry for step daddies!
7:46 it's just getting worse. So he'll play step dad and y'all can't have a child together?
Kendra Kam when Kendra says "we see you baby" 😂😂 we all know what it means!
😂😂😂😂😂😂 BBW ... BIG BLOWNOUT WOMAN
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Yep, we know it means the body is f**k up!
We know exactly what “we see you, boo” means.
We see you babby lol means uh u need to work on your body
She said she has a fairytale life in her head... I wonder was having 3 kids by 3 men in the fairytale?? 🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔
Her level= pookie
Raise your children
so she actually harshly judges people who sleep on mattresses but doesn't see fit to judge herself for getting pregnant 3 times out ot wedlock, with 3 different men? i can't
Being a stepfather is a thankless job. Don't do it. Only raise your own kid, not somebody else kid.
It makes no sense these days. At least there used to be more of a stigma with being unmarried and women were more traditional and would say least happily cook and clean and give you kids of your own.
I can't come up with a single reason to be with this woman unless a man needs a place to stay or wants access to the kids. There's nothing appealing or beneficial about this woman. It's crazy she's totally erased any and all value to a man. Crashed out by 30.
@@candorsspot2775She totally has nothing to offer to a man who doesn't have the same experience with women that she does with men.
Blk men wouldn’t have fathers then. 🤣
I just don’t get it. In our community why do you have to give every man a child? Why do you always have to be in a relationship? Why is birth control not taken seriously. Why even consider introducing a new man to your teenage daughter and brand new kid?
The blk community is a matriarchy. The nature of the female is feelings and emotions. That means so what feels right instead of what makes sense.
Blk men need to overcome this conditioning and think and act logically. As long as blk men are addicted to sex, these women will rule and this will be the outcome.
Run men. A woman who cant work it out with the 8 month old baby's father aint worth your time. She needs to find a man with 3 babies with 3 different women. That's her speed.
Why is she popping out babies for these men? At least she acknowledged her mistakes, but three...and a new baby? I don't get it.
My only explanation that seems to work well for this show is that people present themselves on this show saying they "all that", but when the camera turns off, it's a whole different story.... that's the best I got 😅
Nearly 80% of blk babies are born out of question. It makes more sense to question the blk women who wait until marriage and ask them what possessed them to be the weirdos in the community.
She didn't acknowledge her mistakes because if she did, she wouldn't be on kendra's show with a 8 month old looking to go 4 for 4. She would be healing, raising her newborn and getting to the root of the problem.
It’s all a front, once a 304 will always be a 304 and especially with multiple baby daddies 🤮
I just find it funny when they say, “no baby momma drama because we don’t have any baby daddy drama” hell because the mf not taking care of his kid(s)
Her baby probably isn’t even sleeping through the night yet and she’s looking for a new man 😮
Girrrlllll 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
3rd babydaddy still clapping them cheeks, as usual.
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Kewchie ain’t good bro. That’s why that all left
She said 2 1/2 months ago. They broke up on Christmas. That’s when they were together
@@ttoo6463 so he's still sleeping with her smh
She said she still wants to reconcile with him 😂🤣 so of course he can still smash when he wants to. 🤦🏿♂️💀. Take off that cape@ttoo6463
30YO obese single mother with 14, 8 and 8 month old and just slept with the baby dad she was taking care of 2 months ago. Take her on adventures. Independent but needs guidance. Ok. Atleast she was honest about the stepfather role. Wishing her the best!
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She is reckless. That is the only summary that is needed. She is a poor judge of character and has an overinflated sense of herself. The men that were with her had accepted her for all of her flaws which were on full display. She left those men because of their flaws and shortcomings.
She willingly tossed herself back to the streets…again. Let her stay there with her friend.
Dear God in heaven she has a 14 year old daughter and she thinks some man is going to come in and do what now????? Nevermind the conflict of interest in general. "He looked at me", "he aint my daddy"!!! Girl byeeeee. I have a teenage son and he gets on my dam nerves with his attitude. A girl is ten times what im going through with someone who aint the daddy 😮
And worst of all being at the airport with your 14 year old step daughter who don't look nothing like you...you already KNOW someone gonna call 🚔 on him and that is PTSD right there ☠️
That's a recipe for disaster. No sane man would jump into that situation.
First and foremost she should have left with her husband who was the head of the house hold! What a great way to show how many people skip out on the hard times. I’m sure he felt they would of done better back home together as husband and wife. Now you’re on here looking for another guy, with three kids fathers 🤦🏽♀️.