U ladies u amaze me always......how do u 4get uaself eti unapata mimba hivi hivi???u should always play safe by all means haki since if anything happens the baggage backfires on u ladies as always!!!!!
no if you’ve already seen signs of disrespect etc, why then get pregnant for a second time. Remember what Obinna said, dem kupata mimba doesn’t mean the man will change or the situation will change?!
You can tell from how she speaks. She is articulate, smart and she is not missing her words. She needs not to explain her self anymore, those who love her will understand and will not doubt her or judge her. Let her not beat herself about what happened, with time she will be fine.
@@emmyngeno8543 tell us why people shouldn't believe her....it is obvious some will agree with her others won't....but bottom line, wote wako na makosa especially the man. Had he not dragged issues online and agreed on amicable agreements hawangekuwa hapa
Waaaaaaah Lilian am so sorry for what you have been through. I know her since we were young sch girls but never knew this situation got out of hand to this far, I know you and i know that you are telling the truth. May the Lord fight your battles until the end...... ❤❤❤
I am always excited giving my wife money to maintain the house even before she asks for it. Maintaining everything including buying kids whatever they need because she knows exactly their needs. Mungu anijalie tu nipate job ingine cos am currently jobless
Si ATI obina Ako childish noo anapenda ubwete mara amenunuliwa viatu, mara gari ndio Hana akili ata moja ya kuangalia watt wake anashindwà nà family Kwa sababu anapenda vya bure huyo oga obina kazi kucheka Kwa show kumbe kwake Kuna poromoka
No matter what it is it comes down to who had the power-- and so he had the capacity to remedy the situation-- Obinna either fix this or it will lead to your downfall
My thoughts exactly.. Don't think it's ok for Obinna to discuss their mother online... It's true money has a way of corrupting.... Oga pls Stop painting this woman black.. She's still the mother of your children.🤔
The fact that this woman stayed with two kids wenye si wake means she really wanted the marriage to work,I pray that she heals and get to move on because she deserves better than obina .... breakups are very draining especially when you've done your best,tusiseme wanaume wako Ivo because this is not a gender issue this is obina who maybe is a good father but a bad husband.
Nooooo!!! I can tell when someone is telling the truth, this woman is genuine. Its painful haki pole mama Ada, Obinna Obinna tafadhali you 2 solve issues amicably to the best interest of the children. Currently it looks and sounds very toxic to all the parties involved
What a lady, the resilience is amazing, shame shame when men cannot be gentlemen but monsters, ladies red flags are not ninja hurdles to scale, let's love ourselves ❤
Before anyone says any Bad comment about this Pretty lady. Just remember she's a sister, a daughter, a mother to someone. Be kind enough with your comments
After watching the video I'm convinced that this woman is a true mom to her kids. Her explanation is candid no sugarcoating I give her 95% I'm convinced beyond reasonable doubt
Obinna, make good your relationship, this the mother of your children. Stop this in social media and involve your parents in this issue. You stand to regret in future. Mama lola stop interviews too. You are exposing you children which is child abuse.
@Queen TC you clearly hate her. They have lived together 5yrs akitesa watoto na baba yao akinyamaza....please don't be swayed na maneno ya obina out of anger.....just pray for them to heal and coparent in a safer space for their kids. This comment is quite personal unless Kama unawajua....muongo unaweza mjua very first na sijasema she is perfect...but heeey
@Queen TC don't be unfortunate..i did not say she is perfect,both parties wako na mistake but Obinna comes off as a Toxic man NGL...anyway you are entitled to your fake ass biased opinion,so its cool.
Analea hao watoto vibaya sana and it's so bad trying to act like He's a good person i learnt it actually from Their channel ,I think coparenting isn't working well in Africa,
@@kazikazi5195 he should not Be Trying it's his Right to Raise Those Kids Correctly Kazi yake ni kuwaexpose to very bad Topics He's soo full of Himself juu ya pesa kidogo
When co-parenting the mum seems to be the bad guy most times because duties,stress, financial problems....the dad gets to stay with the kids rarely so he's always compensating hence "the good guy" in the kids eyes... Then the kids get to 18 and realize their mum was just tired of working, cooking, duties etc
@@carolwafula5940 Exactly I have a strong feeling the guy is manipulating his fans what kind of a man would publicly say he is coming to take everything he ever bought for a woman when they were dating
Lillian, God will bless you in ways you have not imagined. Sitajisifu, I went through more or less of what you went through , but those who know me well, they know what God did for me. Don’t fight Obina, God will deal with him. Just take good care of your babies, and God will see you through.
so true God help women to leave when they recognise narcisistic relationships.Its so deadly, everything around you dies, God help women to be in healthy relationships
I believe in this woman at least 80%. Obinna from the look of things, he doesn't groom his kids I mean buying clothes. I noticed at times they look unkept though he is present. All in all waache yaliyo pita. Let them look at how to raise the kids without drama.
Some will say this is laundry in public but we're in different era, people post their lives for strangers and it's permanent diary online. Let them air their issues as they see fit, it's therapeutic and exposes narcissists forcing them to change. Obina and Butita are of the same fabric, utoto mob.
As a step child I will say this only children are suffering the most in this situation and I hope the parents will realize this soon and come up with the arrangement that works for the kids.
Huyu mama kuna wuongo mob ameeka hapa, I grew in the hands of step mum. I can't buy her allegations. Akwende huko na hio roho mbaya. Kiburi aache.. men are naturally polygamous and luos are one of them so aende polepole aache drama mob.
Never go Back to your ex😢, like imagine that time wen you had started your life at 2015 at Umo, by now ungekuwa, mbele, maybe he was not for you,Anyway Sorry 🙏
The fact that she was ready and allowed the other kids to live with her means she was open to accommodate them. She looks mature and her body language tells her truth. Any woman after listening to this will know where the truth is. I hope they find a common ground. What am sure of is that the guy has so much bitterness as we all know they never expect a woman to move on and survive. He is busy entertaining the social media followers and luring them to his side and he forgets that some day it will be just him, his kids and the truth and he will not be able to delete that. Kids will always know the truth esp when they are older. We have all come to know the truths about our parents and the struggles with the in-laws and all that so am sure all these kids will know the truth some day and that is the comfort that mama Ada should have. The truth has never been buried.
Nobody should dare to take sides ...i like obinna alot but i think he's a narcissist...i know it is just my opinion and not necessarily the truth so......,peace though
@@josephinemulama6338 hauoni fight aje na vile Obinna anamuaribia jina .. after huyu madam kumlelea hao watoto wengine wake saa hii haoni uzuri wake.. na hizo maswali anauliza watoto kuhusu mamayao ni poa kweli?
@@kateyndunge6315 the lady started otherwise we knew nothing en oga sioni kama amesema mbaya kama si Lola alisema mum alipiga dady na kiatu nikataka kulia,kama the ex is taking care of his kids let her move on this things happen
If im obinna i wud ignore this public court as a plague because what u say publicly will definitely start a new conversation with no end, sometimes the best answer is silence no one will be able to tell your moves
Abusive people are the nicest people in public.They are so kind to everyone except their victims,makes it hard for one to believe they could even harm a fly..I knew there was something strange from the start of the drama..Most of us who have already been abused can already tell who the abuser is.Everyone should be on the look out for the sake of safety and peace.Abusers normally throw tantrums,rage,guilt trip to escape accountability.They do not care about anyone,all they care about is the supply from the drama and the title victim.Let this be an awakening call for all 'empaths'
Obina kubarikiwa mbele yako doesn't make you lesser parent,,you are beautiful, strong and composed woman,,move on abd believe in your dreams and God's plans for you.
Ad I'm listening to Mama Ada, the more hatred I have for Obinna. She's so mature and very articulate in telling her side of the story. I wish we would rally behind her and tag ALL the sponsorship he has with the corporate companies and they ALL drop him including Radio Africa! He is not fit to be called a father. As for Mama Obinna, enda FIDA, and they'll ensure through the children's court he takes up his responsibility. Such a disgrace and so immature. Mama Ada is a very strong and loving mother. I pray and hope she gets a more deserving man to give her and her children the happiness they deserve. Mungu arakufuta machozi Mama.
A person that gets into a relationship and immediately starts recording stuff has a motive. Run! That’s a walking redflag! This obi guy is a narcissist!
Thank you soo much Ali for bringing Mama Adalola …….it pains she has gone through alot……may God bless her and i know she is a handworking gal haya yote ni mapito yatapita tu
Your humility is very amazing 👏. Hugs mum na kukosa kuwa millionaire doesn't mean you can't be a good parent. Nakupenda and go fight for your life and give your kids the very best you are capable off. Don't be intimated by anyone
Sorry mama sometimes it's good to hear both sides of the story and no woman would leave her marriage without a reason,,,,secondly I appreciate you for allowing other kids in with me I say each and every kid akaye na mamake so far the mother is alive
Who ever will judge this lady is a person who has never gone through toxic relationship may God bring restoration and peace in this union for the sake of the Children ama Mungu awasaidie kupata solution ya kudumu it’s well my dear just be strong my dear
Be strong my dear, narcissists are real and narcissists operate by shaming their partners in public!don't pay attention on pathetic comments, stand up for your kids and protect your kids my dear!
Who else feels like this conversation is genuine 🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺"That feeling of not growing with a father" wapi likes zangu guys 💚💜💙💜💜💜💚💚💚💚💚💚💚💚💚💚💚💚💚💚
Father figure manenos. This story is sad but this bad obinna is trying to be a dad at least
Sure💯
She is telling the truth
@@Chiwoful But our daily prayer is to see our children happy. 🥺 Nothing much 💚💜
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As a young single mother,siwez comments anything negative I know the struggles....... Hugs to all ladies out there struggling alone to raise kids
U ladies u amaze me always......how do u 4get uaself eti unapata mimba hivi hivi???u should always play safe by all means haki since if anything happens the baggage backfires on u ladies as always!!!!!
@@Hopewavinya567 but God blesses us the most. Kids eventually grow up and they realize which parent sacrificed for them
@@Hopewavinya567 camon holy Mary, what do you mean hivi hivi.? these are people who have been together for 11 years or that also is hivi hivi.
@@Hopewavinya567 internet never forget...u might find urself inthe same shoes
no if you’ve already seen signs of disrespect etc, why then get pregnant for a second time. Remember what Obinna said, dem kupata mimba doesn’t mean the man will change or the situation will change?!
She’s so beautiful and eloquent! What did she see in that Obina man!
Very composed, intelligent, strong woman of God. More GRACE
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Obinna, don't be petty, be responsible. You have decided to have children.
Beautiful said my dear
Whatvis intelligence!talking of personal life online!BS!
You can tell from how she speaks. She is articulate, smart and she is not missing her words. She needs not to explain her self anymore, those who love her will understand and will not doubt her or judge her. Let her not beat herself about what happened, with time she will be fine.
A Narcissist is always 'good and sweet' to the whole world, only those close to him can attest to their toxic traits. Pole mama.
I agree
Leave us alone
💯 and i feel sorry for this lady she must have been taken to hell and back.
That is my dad !! A NARCISSIST!!
That fucking man he is so stupid anamwingilia Erik omondi kumbe yake mwenyewe yamekushinda bull shit
We love you Mama Lola Ada. Keep strong Mama. We feel you.
She remembers all the years when everything happened... she is telling the truth guys
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@Queen TC Thankyou...people are here believing her because of petty things
@@emmyngeno8543 tell us why people shouldn't believe her....it is obvious some will agree with her others won't....but bottom line, wote wako na makosa especially the man. Had he not dragged issues online and agreed on amicable agreements hawangekuwa hapa
Aaaah
I feel her
Ali you're the definition of a real journalist who went to a media school.
I appreciate how you've given both sides of the story.
Isupport you,indeed PA is avery intelligent,clave guy.Keep up bro.for your good job
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I have to subscribe 👏👏 good job
Ali is our Lynn ngugi 😁love their interviews
Waaaaaaah Lilian am so sorry for what you have been through. I know her since we were young sch girls but never knew this situation got out of hand to this far, I know you and i know that you are telling the truth.
May the Lord fight your battles until the end...... ❤❤❤
I'm extremely sorry
If you have never been through it
You can't understand
I feel her 💔💔
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Walai acha tu
True sofie
True
Facts
I am always excited giving my wife money to maintain the house even before she asks for it. Maintaining everything including buying kids whatever they need because she knows exactly their needs. Mungu anijalie tu nipate job ingine cos am currently jobless
May God hear your prayer
God has heard you.
From your mouth to God's ears.
Amen
Amen brother
Just love the way she put it ,that not being able to buy the kids pizza everyday does not make her a bad mother.
Very sorry May God give you Grace
I believe this woman and I think she has gone through alot
This woman is so mature. I pray for her that she finds peace together with her children. Obinna is so childish.
Yes only good in kulacooler show,tumbo yake Tu😂😂🤣
very childish and brings jokes to serious issues
Exactly
no he is a dog 🐕🐕🐕🐕
Si ATI obina Ako childish noo anapenda ubwete mara amenunuliwa viatu, mara gari ndio Hana akili ata moja ya kuangalia watt wake anashindwà nà family Kwa sababu anapenda vya bure huyo oga obina kazi kucheka Kwa show kumbe kwake Kuna poromoka
When someone shows you who they are the first time; please believe them.
Also women, red flags are not challenges 😫😫😫😫
Very true, we have narcissist as boyfriend's and sometimes we always assume that he's being jealous or something
True
Exactly!
No matter what it is it comes down to who had the power-- and so he had the capacity to remedy the situation-- Obinna either fix this or it will lead to your downfall
Mine left me in ICU after giving birth he back after 7 months never took him back he has tried all he could but he's a narcissist he cannot change
Lilian is very genuine, she used to be my colleague in 2014,and she used to share with me the same story akiwa na mtoto mmoja,be strong mamaa
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Kuanikana shows immaturity and attention seeking
We kumbafu nyamazisha ww enda ukamuoe then shenzi type
@@paulwachira7679 wewe kondeshwa na zako
Never judge before you experience bruh ..you are acting so immature...just mahn up
@@kinahmuasya9095he's another type of obina
I had a very bad picture of this woman. Lord Jesus, I'm sorry mama AdaLola. I can't judge you. May God give you peace, you have gone through a lot.
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A MAN WHO HAS THREE DIFFERENT BABY MAMAS IS A RED FLAG..THAT IS AN IMPOSSIBLE MAN
What about a woman with 3 kids different fathers
True, 💯. Any man or woman with more than 2 baby mamas or baby fathers they've a serious problem. That's a Big red flag.
I second you
😢😢😢😢😢aki my situation 😢😢😢mine ako na more 10 baby mamas
@@johnomasaki2801😂😂 green flag
I feel like this woman is so genuine and is hurting
This is not the right platform, though you have genuine concern.
True
True
True kabisa
Yes me too
Quote of the day “ Never judge somebody on something that you’ve not experienced “ I stand with you young lady ❤️
Me too.i am kinda going through the same thing but mtoto nitalea
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Baby girl, uliolewa na boy not a man, plz found your self a genital man, not boys
@@esthernjeri4582 ❤️
Take heart mama Ada and Lola. I don't like those who judge. May God sail you through.
Let's not judge this woman she can be right coz children can love their father because of luxurious and good things
True..the thought I was looking for
True
Exactly
Kid are kids they would choose where there is goodies
My thoughts exactly..
Don't think it's ok for Obinna to discuss their mother online...
It's true money has a way of corrupting....
Oga pls Stop painting this woman black..
She's still the mother of your children.🤔
She seems like a very sober minded Woman . And a good mother and whatever she's saying seems genuine .
I agree with you
The fact that this woman stayed with two kids wenye si wake means she really wanted the marriage to work,I pray that she heals and get to move on because she deserves better than obina .... breakups are very draining especially when you've done your best,tusiseme wanaume wako Ivo because this is not a gender issue this is obina who maybe is a good father but a bad husband.
I always know when someone is talking the truth and yes she is
I hear you Timo... this is a heavy one.
Nooooo!!! I can tell when someone is telling the truth, this woman is genuine. Its painful haki pole mama Ada, Obinna Obinna tafadhali you 2 solve issues amicably to the best interest of the children. Currently it looks and sounds very toxic to all the parties involved
We wacha mambo yako haujui kitu yoyote mambo ya watu wawili wachana nayo ati you cant tell maka chieth
Let Obina go collect car from in law n record then I will trust him…otherwise editing is real to show others to be on the wrong
Izo maneno na tabia za uyo msee,zinakaa zinapelekana,80%
@@namutalagaitano2847 usiekee hasira lakini😂😂it's just speculations hapa Kwa comments hao wawili ndio wanajua the whole truth
@@namutalagaitano2847 waambie tena waskie huyu mwanamke anadanganya kids can't lie am a woman bt I will always stand with obina
This woman is composed and very beautiful. A very responsible mama. May the lord strengthen you in every way. God is on your side❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
A dangerous person is the one who appears, dissapears and re appears again. He/She will drain you and waste your time.
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True I had encountered one it is hell
Very true
😂😂😂that is a devil
I rarely Trust these people soo much..... But uyu anakaa Real.. she's hurting Inside😢 Maye She Find prace🕊️🕊️ and strength to move on.🙏🙏
Amen aki
Wise words
@@cikujamoh The only option she has is to be strong at heart.💪...
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What a lady, the resilience is amazing, shame shame when men cannot be gentlemen but monsters, ladies red flags are not ninja hurdles to scale, let's love ourselves ❤
You look humbled God bless you Mami keep moving
I've listened to this interview with a heavy heart, considering what my baby daddy made me go through....
You are not alone girl
@sylviah kinyangi I relate even driving to deliver
I can sadly relate...but look at how God blesses us for the sake of these kids.
Same issue here mama,,but God's good always
I can relate too😢
Before anyone says any Bad comment about this Pretty lady. Just remember she's a sister, a daughter, a mother to someone.
Be kind enough with your comments
Applies to Obina too . he's a dad someone's son too
@@darlenesemo9217 exactly this society they only believe girl child without knowing how boy child is suffering
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As if Obinna is a hippo. Riswaaa
@@darlenesemo9217 unfortunately he is the man ,and has to own up to this mess .
From this conversation,we can tell how mature and patient the lady is.Never mind mama Lola.... "what comes around goes around."U r blessed
After watching the video I'm convinced that this woman is a true mom to her kids. Her explanation is candid no sugarcoating I give her 95%
I'm convinced beyond reasonable doubt
Kabisa...just because she is not on limelight dude chose to trash her
Obinna is full of pride and ego
True, it’s terrible she’s been judged and convicted by social media thanks to toxic Obinna
Obinna, make good your relationship, this the mother of your children. Stop this in social media and involve your parents in this issue. You stand to regret in future. Mama lola stop interviews too. You are exposing you children which is child abuse.
@@calebkogo4411 true you can even tell the way he talks to that househelp
She may not be perfect but i believe what she is saying 100%..Obinna is toxic
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@Queen TC you clearly hate her. They have lived together 5yrs akitesa watoto na baba yao akinyamaza....please don't be swayed na maneno ya obina out of anger.....just pray for them to heal and coparent in a safer space for their kids. This comment is quite personal unless Kama unawajua....muongo unaweza mjua very first na sijasema she is perfect...but heeey
@Queen TC don't be unfortunate..i did not say she is perfect,both parties wako na mistake but Obinna comes off as a Toxic man NGL...anyway you are entitled to your fake ass biased opinion,so its cool.
@Queen TCkila mtoto akaye na mamake tafadhali,its not right that she takes care of all those kids and he's a womaniser.
@Queen TC sasa wewe naye kwenda uko
She’s so genuine and so beautiful too.
You will get through this one day. Time is a healer.
The guy once rode in my cab and he is very arrogant..this lady can't be lying
Anakaa tu arrogant.
POLE SANA... I can imagine the experience
obina is a narcissist
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Hugs Maamaa! You are beautiful, mature , strong and intelligent ! God is watching ❤️❤️
Exactly strong woman we pass alot but God will see us through
Ladies, once a man has hurt you never ever give them another chance no matter how they beg
Exactly 💯
Got this deep down my heart......
true
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TRUE 🙏
I feel for this lady,may GOD intervene in your situation.I know how it feels but GOD Will give you strength and comfort and way forward
She is very genuine . Obinna is using the kids but the moment they grow and understand relationships watamchukia warudi Kwa mamazao
Analea hao watoto vibaya sana and it's so bad trying to act like He's a good person i learnt it actually from Their channel ,I think coparenting isn't working well in Africa,
But at least he is trying
@@mainlly_karey4167 coperating ni ya wazungu hii kitu siiwezi hata kidogo tukiichana hamna kuangalia nyuma
But afadhali yeye analipa fee .
@@kazikazi5195 he should not Be Trying it's his Right to Raise Those Kids Correctly Kazi yake ni kuwaexpose to very bad Topics He's soo full of Himself juu ya pesa kidogo
This lady even her looks anakaa tu genuine
When co-parenting the mum seems to be the bad guy most times because duties,stress, financial problems....the dad gets to stay with the kids rarely so he's always compensating hence "the good guy" in the kids eyes...
Then the kids get to 18 and realize their mum was just tired of working, cooking, duties etc
Exactly, and in case Obina is manupilating the kids
@@carolwafula5940 Exactly I have a strong feeling the guy is manipulating his fans what kind of a man would publicly say he is coming to take everything he ever bought for a woman when they were dating
Oscar Wilde - 'Children begin by loving their parents; as they grow older they judge them; sometimes they forgive them.'
True
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This is so hurting 💔💔💔,,, hugs mama😭😭😭 mungu akupee Amani,, only single mums will understand it
GOD give me a woman who's mature hardworking like this one...She will find peace sam day
Women never mature blockhead
I’m here 😳😂
@@Marilyn0106 c'mon lets try it out asap!
@@simeononyango9326 I’m ready 😂
Am here ❤️
This lady seems to be True and genuine in her story. May she receive favour from God. She is a nice woman... From her language
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The lady could be right. Obinna looks arrogant
True
There is something about him that I don't like. Honestly his arrogance just put me off.
True 💯
Kabisa
Mshindwe madem
*Take heart My namesake, I have gone through a lot I can easily relate with you.... you're a strong woman and u will go far* 🥰🥰🥰🥰
I think our name have a problem 😢
@@liliannjogu6271 May God intervene for us all🙏
Finally the other side of the story..,,the lady has articulated issues very well 👏👏👏
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You are a strong lady , stay still until you see the salvation of the lord. You are a good mum.
I passed through that for 15 years thinking that it will change but it never changed, mothers we really safer for our kids
My son also told me the same,we should decide where to stay
Lillian, God will bless you in ways you have not imagined. Sitajisifu, I went through more or less of what you went through , but those who know me well, they know what God did for me. Don’t fight Obina, God will deal with him. Just take good care of your babies, and God will see you through.
@jackie God is faithful always dear
Amen. Barikiwa
I feel for this girl. Dealing with a Narcissist is deadly. It drains everything from you.
Narcissist they don't have a heart of a human being.. sorry to say I don't have a factory of making people only God changes people.
Deadly how?
She is even strong that she didn't lose her mind
so true God help women to leave when they recognise narcisistic relationships.Its so deadly, everything around you dies, God help women to be in healthy relationships
@@benardmakori6924 it's kills you...
Take heart mama ❤️
You are strong and kind God will pay you
I believe in this woman at least 80%. Obinna from the look of things, he doesn't groom his kids I mean buying clothes. I noticed at times they look unkept though he is present. All in all waache yaliyo pita. Let them look at how to raise the kids without drama.
True
I also noticed
Very true. I hope they get to solve their issues away from social media. Also being a step mum isnt easy
Yeah sure Hao watoi vile udress si poa navile ye ujivaa🙄🙄
Kwanza uliona vile walipelekwa Airport na crocks
Some will say this is laundry in public but we're in different era, people post their lives for strangers and it's permanent diary online. Let them air their issues as they see fit, it's therapeutic and exposes narcissists forcing them to change. Obina and Butita are of the same fabric, utoto mob.
I love this woman very mature very reasonable 😘😘😘
As a step child I will say this only children are suffering the most in this situation and I hope the parents will realize this soon and come up with the arrangement that works for the kids.
Very true
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Huyu mama kuna wuongo mob ameeka hapa, I grew in the hands of step mum. I can't buy her allegations. Akwende huko na hio roho mbaya. Kiburi aache.. men are naturally polygamous and luos are one of them so aende polepole aache drama mob.
@@PerisAimo you are heart less
@@PerisAimo Haiya...kwani you know her personally...stop the madness
I love how mama Ada ame ji eleza, sending you Love and hugs ❤️🤗
Never go Back to your ex😢, like imagine that time wen you had started your life at 2015 at Umo, by now ungekuwa, mbele, maybe he was not for you,Anyway Sorry 🙏
Well said👏
I believe this woman and I think obinna could be a narcissistic person judging by what I've seen and heard
It's also very strange he has a Toxic Boyfriend show, what Lillian is describing here is full blast toxicity
@@Chiwoful that part.. he should have an episode about himself
He's a narcissist....
Do nt take sides cz huwajui
@@Chiwoful maybe he got the idea from his own character...he's so familiar being a toxic boyfriend...
The fact that she was ready and allowed the other kids to live with her means she was open to accommodate them. She looks mature and her body language tells her truth. Any woman after listening to this will know where the truth is. I hope they find a common ground. What am sure of is that the guy has so much bitterness as we all know they never expect a woman to move on and survive. He is busy entertaining the social media followers and luring them to his side and he forgets that some day it will be just him, his kids and the truth and he will not be able to delete that. Kids will always know the truth esp when they are older. We have all come to know the truths about our parents and the struggles with the in-laws and all that so am sure all these kids will know the truth some day and that is the comfort that mama Ada should have. The truth has never been buried.
Exactly 👌
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Go watch the obinazz you will realise something
I've gone through the same thing ...May the Lord strengthen you Mama Dola, Guard your heart ❤️Men are not the same, someday it shall be well 💯
Huyu obina atatafuta mke and she will not
Only a single mother can understand this may God give you strength to endure and accept pain to move on.
Am not single but what obina is doing is not good
Obina ata Kaa hutaki huyu bint plz respect her kama mzazi mwenzako mnaexa achana na mshow watt kabisa huyu ni mother yako na huyu ni baba yako
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Nobody should dare to take sides ...i like obinna alot but i think he's a narcissist...i know it is just my opinion and not necessarily the truth so......,peace though
He is narcissist no doubt
Point blank thought iam the only one who realised this... #Narc...
Yeah I think so too. He is not all that holy.
She looks like Eddy Nderitu wa Sammidoh
Yeah sana
Very true
I'm a Man... But Obinna Hujanibamba... Respect Mwanamke aliyekuzalia watoto....RESPECT!!!RESPECT.... MATURE OBINNA
Thanks for telling him the truth
Thank you
kwa ivo mwenye ajakuzalia mtoto asipewe respect...unaongea nini sasa
🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
Thank you
Raising step children is not easy.
May you find healing, time heals.
This lady is so mature. Obina should grow up and stop umalaya.
😂😂😂 wacha upuzi bana
Why are people judging this lady? mama pambana kabisa na uweke Mungu mbele itakuwa sawa
Apambane na nn???,sioni fight if her ex pays rent and school fees and has time for his children labda mjulube na hiyo anaeza pata jamaa mwingine
@@josephinemulama6338 hauoni fight aje na vile Obinna anamuaribia jina .. after huyu madam kumlelea hao watoto wengine wake saa hii haoni uzuri wake.. na hizo maswali anauliza watoto kuhusu mamayao ni poa kweli?
@@kateyndunge6315 the lady started otherwise we knew nothing en oga sioni kama amesema mbaya kama si Lola alisema mum alipiga dady na kiatu nikataka kulia,kama the ex is taking care of his kids let her move on this things happen
Kabisa
Obina has a case to answer in the public court! Open,up-close and candid interview 🙌.
If im obinna i wud ignore this public court as a plague because what u say publicly will definitely start a new conversation with no end, sometimes the best answer is silence no one will be able to tell your moves
I agree with you
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Only single Mother can understand this story so painful mama above all God's able 🙏
I feel for this woman😥😥....but she is strong may God remember her.
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Yea ... She is an angle.... Mimi mutu ananianika hivi story zake wacha ikae... Big mouth
Abusive people are the nicest people in public.They are so kind to everyone except their victims,makes it hard for one to believe they could even harm a fly..I knew there was something strange from the start of the drama..Most of us who have already been abused can already tell who the abuser is.Everyone should be on the look out for the sake of safety and peace.Abusers normally throw tantrums,rage,guilt trip to escape accountability.They do not care about anyone,all they care about is the supply from the drama and the title victim.Let this be an awakening call for all 'empaths'
Very true
Definition of a narcissist
Very true
Am a victim n I feel for this mum
I actually believe her
This woman is saying the truth. Dealing with a narcissist is not easy wah!
I know this type of pain this woman is going through,when a man is a womanizer,cheater,lier n full of evil secrets it's so toxic...
true..evil men...
If you happen to meet some of us out here and single maybe at our forty's please don't judge because earth is slippery😢
Obina kubarikiwa mbele yako doesn't make you lesser parent,,you are beautiful, strong and composed woman,,move on abd believe in your dreams and God's plans for you.
Ad I'm listening to Mama Ada, the more hatred I have for Obinna. She's so mature and very articulate in telling her side of the story. I wish we would rally behind her and tag ALL the sponsorship he has with the corporate companies and they ALL drop him including Radio Africa! He is not fit to be called a father. As for Mama Obinna, enda FIDA, and they'll ensure through the children's court he takes up his responsibility. Such a disgrace and so immature. Mama Ada is a very strong and loving mother. I pray and hope she gets a more deserving man to give her and her children the happiness they deserve. Mungu arakufuta machozi Mama.
I have immediately unfollowed this witch Obinah.
Hugs mama I feel your pain,GOD will fight for you.
Which pain , mara I started business mara niko job niombe ruhusa
@Derrick Nyale who hurt you? Anyway Mama Ada & Lola all this shall pass.
I love her, she knows her worth
This lady is saying the truth guys should learn to listen to both sides
A person that gets into a relationship and immediately starts recording stuff has a motive. Run! That’s a walking redflag! This obi guy is a narcissist!
Yeah .sikapendi nikashenzi
@@maureenotieno1989 😂😂😂😂
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@@maureenotieno1989 🤣🤣🤣
@@maureenotieno1989 haahha
Only those who have dealt with narsists can understand this lady.hugs dear🫂🫂
I can relate.. and the pain that comes with it is unexplainable
True
Narsists
Ikifika hapa ndio huwa nasema weuh! Thanks Presenter for sharing this side of the story. It's only fair to give both parties a platform.
Fathers buy love from the kids. Time will unravel everything. From this narration Oga is wrong. He better should change lest he perish.
We always say never judge untill you here the whole sides of the story I feel this woman's pain huges to all mother out there
Thank you soo much Ali for bringing Mama Adalola …….it pains she has gone through alot……may God bless her and i know she is a handworking gal haya yote ni mapito yatapita tu
I feel the pain in this woman.... social media is not the solution of solving family issues
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Obina is not a man enough...I been a single father I feel the pain
True
@@timbloxx1008 aiyaaa what's being man enough 😂😂😂😂😂bt he is trying coparenting the baby mamaa ndo ako na issues
Very true
Her maturity is on another level 💯 👏 👌🏽
Your humility is very amazing 👏. Hugs mum na kukosa kuwa millionaire doesn't mean you can't be a good parent. Nakupenda and go fight for your life and give your kids the very best you are capable off. Don't be intimated by anyone
Be strong Lilian or Mama Ada, everything happens for a reason, one day the kids will know the truth.
I appreciate you for being strong. i have been through this. i know how it feels about these men who think they have the money
Sorry mama sometimes it's good to hear both sides of the story and no woman would leave her marriage without a reason,,,,secondly I appreciate you for allowing other kids in with me I say each and every kid akaye na mamake so far the mother is alive
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Sawa kabisa.
Who ever will judge this lady is a person who has never gone through toxic relationship may God bring restoration and peace in this union for the sake of the Children ama Mungu awasaidie kupata solution ya kudumu it’s well my dear just be strong my dear
A woman who mistreats children can never be ģood.
Yes my gal. Wuuueh
Let me tell is the worst thing to be in
Let's pray it all works well for the sake of the kids
Obinna should host his baby mama on his show of toxic boyfriends, so she could narrate to him of how toxic he is.
Sure
Hahaaa kabisa
True
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Be strong my dear, narcissists are real and narcissists operate by shaming their partners in public!don't pay attention on pathetic comments, stand up for your kids and protect your kids my dear!
I can relate to the pain this fellow woman is going through
Mungu atupiganie single mums
U r genuine mum an talking with confidence jst like ur dota ada...much lov.
NEVER JUDGE SOMETHING THAT HAS NEVER HAPPENED TO YOU ,,☘️