I agree. My question was always, “What’s your hurry?” Then the men would get mad because I wasn’t in love with them in 6 months! I don’t know you, sir. You just spent 6 months love bombing a traumatized woman with extreme trust issues😂😂😂😂😂😂. I been groomed before. I know what it looks like.
Do some videos of Your experience and tag because I would Love to be the first one to watch them. I agree with You & this video. I've been abstinent for a few years now. I'm not on Her journey However can deeply relate & am on a comparatively similar journey.
Then you not relationship material also last time I checked a woman know what they want when they see it and if you women really feel that way do not accept anything from the man 🤡🤡🤡 now run along evi👹woman
What you are describing is LUST and INFATUATION. Real love has nothing to do with the mess these people are out here chasing. They don't even love THEMSELVES, so it is impossible for them to love others.
Exactly thsts y I don't feel sorry for any of the baby mamas and baby daddy's that I know literally all of them got pregnant in less than a year, sum didn't even take a month and then they want to whine and cry and complain about their decisions and how the person is disappointing and I'm like you didn't even know them well enough like I don't understand how people just give their body away so freely and then think anybody cares about their dumb consequences
Exactly they just go with the flow and assume everything the person is telling them is correct but not me I'm going to ask you questions about your past present and future and if your actions don't add up then I'm going to subtract you from my life and then their surprised how quickly I can let go of them lol
This dude told me he loved me, the second time he called me and only seeing me once when he asked for my number and we haven't had any deep conv. I was like are you crazy sir!
Completely agree. Women need to learn how to control their emotions when dating. Don't think that every man you go out with can be "the one" just enjoy the experience. Date multiple people casually without any physical/sexual contact, so your emotions don't run wild until one really meets your Standards.
I found out that it's actually true what Steve Harvey said when he stated to wait 3 months to have sex with a dude and you'll see who he really is and ever since I stuck to that rule I haven't had sex in years lol by the third month people's mask do come off and they cannot hide who they truly are and most of them are liars cheaters and cowards
Love the truth that this young lady delivers. I started my celibacy journey 3 months after I left my narcissistic husband. Self healing is necessary for self love
A lot of the timemes these women think the grass is greener on the other side but what does life look like without a family will their kids be husbands to them???
We get so caught up. You truly don't know anyone. It takes so long to get to know someone truly, to know if they are worth sharing intimate parts of your life with. I've had two relationships that moved quickly and after the first year the mask came off. I didn't know who I was dealing with.
I feel after 10 years of uncounciously dating and sleeping with people too fast i'm just starting my learning journey ❤️ i'm excited! 6 months celibate rn 🙏.
Can we get every person out there to hear this message please?! I'm playing this to every thirsty guy who tries to rush into bed before knowing my birthday or my favorite color. So tired of having to explain this repeatedly to adults who are trying to shame me for not being a floozy. I love these videos! Keep em coming! 💯
Stand Strong, head up & tall... They are still caught in that storm... WHEREAS, You've made it to the other side. Just realize and keep in Mind: it's a different view from within the inside of that storm; as it is once You've come out alive on the other side of that storm. You see it ravishing other parts of the city but Your cleaning up the wreak the storm left & those people are still knee deep in the flood waters& the storm is still tearing up their houses as we speak. Peace Love & Light THANK GOD WE MADE IT!!!😎😁💆🏾🧘🏾💓❤️🔥💜👑👸🏾
I talked to my ex for 2 years before dating. 6 months in the relationship he pulled a switcharoo. Narc all the way..(what i meant is be careful even if u waited )
The reality is that everyone wants to act like they have the precise formula, but how many times do we see a husband kills a wife or vice versa, after yeeeaarrrsss of marriage, and no one knew they had the capacity to do so? My ex husband waiting until our literal wedding day for his mask to drop. Had everyone fooled and I am not a dumb or simple minded woman!! It should be criminal how some people master deception!
He didn't switch up on you. That's who he was anyway, and his intentions were dishonorable. But he knew that.... you just didn't know that. how could you? We don't know their thoughts. We can only go based on what they say, and if their actions are contrary to their words, then of course, they're liars or lying to us about their true intentions., ijs..
Thanks💐♥️. Yes take your time. Six years celibate. “I” thought I was ready to date. He came in stroking my “ego” all the while rushing intimacy. He was someone from my past. I knew him a little bit. However I started to notice he didn’t seem curios about the woman I’ve become today. Or spending his time & resources. Thank God the Holy Spirit intervened. I started asking questions & expressing my standards. He disappeared.
my experience taught me never go backwards go forward when dating!,you will waste your time,they should have recognized what they had the first time! Don't look back!
Love is our spiritual expression that we naturally exude when openly expressing self. Love isn’t an excuse to lose self and gain attachment to another. Refine internal alignment by loving self in order to harmonize with another and rise and/or build each other up with love!
Love bombing! That has been my last 10 dates! But, why?! Did I get into the wrong dating pool? 🤔 That's why I stopped dating. Nobody wants to get to know me. 👁👄👁
I am stopping dating too, for the same reasons. It is tough when people cannot see past your appearance to get to your personality. Almost painful. Solitude is nice.
Listen, I was so quick to jump into a connection, once I actually found one but now I overstand that love is reciprocal and love isn’t something that you rush, I’ve slowed myself down tremendously. It is important that I protect my womb and myself.
Lol no she wouldn't because these people don't like the truth nor do they appreciate it. I was that friend that warned everybody about their bad relationship bad decisions bad marriages and believe it or not I was right about everybody and nobody wanted to listen to me they just grew jealous and resentful but at the end of the day I'm not a baby mama and I have zero divorces so
I'll tell you what I love and have become addicted to is your content. It is so uplifting and it is helping me every day. It's extremely relatable and truthful. I'm glad as a woman I can hold accountability and fully take a look at my own self from the outside looking in. For the past 2 years I have become comfortable with being single and living in solitude. Thank you for your content and for being true to who you are.
Ur comment is extremely relatable too. It feels like it’s something I wrote. I love that🫶🏾 2 years of being comfortable with being single and living in solitude for me too🙏🏿
Everyone is talking about not rushing things as if it's a rule, but it really makes no sense. You should only know that nothing is guaranteed. The speed or pace of taking things is something totally subjective. A potential partner would think you're taking things too slowly or too fast. Everybody has different expectations. Also, after taking the time to know somebody, they'll still be able to surprise you here and there no matter how long you took to know them. Another thing is that people change over time. Moral of the story? Life is gamble, do your homework, do what you see necessary, but don't think it's something that would save you. *Examples and experiences:* *1-* I knew my ex-wife as a close friend for 15 years before our friendship turned into a romantic relationship, 3 years later, we got married and the marriage fell apart after 10 months. No one could say we rushed things. *2-* A friend of mine is a fan of taking things slowly, he had strong feelings for a woman and it took them about 6 months till they had sex. The relationship fell apart quickly for sexual/intimacy reasons. He told me if he had slept with her shortly after they met he would have saved all this time of getting to know her slowly and thoroughly. *3-* A couple I know, fell in love and married in a matter of months. They're still happily married for over a decade now. _And so on and so forth ..._
You are on point, however that #2 situation seemed more like your friend only wanted Sex, and hate that he waited so long to get it because he wasn't sexually satisfied. He clearly didn't like anything else about her, because 6 Months is a long time.. You should know certain things about that person that you like, dislike, will or won't tolerate, how they make you feel, if they share common values, what they're expectations are etc. Your friend wasn't into that Woman.
@@TheeOne4.44 I appreciate your reply, but I don't think you see the situation clearly. If he wasn't into her, he wouldn't have happily 'waited' six months, he had other quicker options if all he wanted were sex. No one would get to know or date someone for 6 months without sex if all he wanted were sex. My friend was really interested in her, she was a coworker then a friend, he enjoyed the interesting conversations and her personality. When they started sleeping with each other, there were issues in terms of intimacy and physical satisfaction, I don't think any romantic relationship could survive without a minimum level of intimacy and sexual satisfaction, otherwise it would be considered friendship or platonic love. After a hiatus they continued to be friends. Which totally means he's mainly into her as a person before anything else.
Yep, you sound like the fool women need to avoid. You sound like the type of fool that would tell folks there's no reason to stop smoking since YOU smoke and never got lung cancer. Common sense should tell you most advice is never fool-proof. There will always be exceptions to every rule. The question is, is the advice wise and should help in most cases. Not does it help in EVERY case.
When people do this its because they go outside of themselves to find what they are looking for. It's inside of us behind all that trauma. To get to it you must heal the unhealed trauma, the shadows.
Too much ish out here to just be giving up so fast and easy. Ppl justify having sex with someone soon after meeting by saying we're 2 single adults, who we hurting? You could be hurting your damn self by catching some STD or STI....yuck!!!
Been thinking about this word lately. Even can happen in friendships, that "honey moon" phase. Gotta slow it down! Your messages always come when it need it most. Comes across as that big sis you respect immensely!✨🥰
I want to grow up (more) to have this mindset. Undo all the negative teachings I’ve been taught about life. I’ve never trusted “love” because this thing that you describe is not what I saw others do and it only ever put my perception into a negative stance on what love is. But if my mom got to know my father I never would’ve been born soooo… but growing up one thing I noticed is boys threw around the words “I love you” as a way to get what they want. I just questioned everything, there’s no way you “love” someone after texting them for a week. luckily it wasn’t my mistakes in trusting those words
Tera, my fellow enigma, I believe you must either be an old soul, or God has anointed you with this crucial information for such a time as this. I choose the later. Again, our generations need this spoken over us and to us. I pray people would simply pause and consider the literal truth of your words. They are meant to bring life and avoid untoward consequences at the same time. Actually, it’s just God speaking through you to declare to those who have ears to hear that, God “ loves you” with an incomparable agape love and desires humans to draw near to himself for “ more”. I pray hearts and minds would sense his beckoning and draw closer to the fire. I honor you Queen, chosen vessel of the most high. Spit dat truth my beloved.
Being alone has taught me that most of the relationships I’ve had especially with men was really good or fun because I made them that way. I totally travel and adventure alone and have great conversations with myself. As soon as I try to “share” that experience it’s just not as reciprocal or natural as I am doing it with myself.
I was questioning why I keep attracting these women that don't have kids but all of sudden they in love and want a baby in like 3 months of dating 🤔 Love bombing crazy because it's associated with narcissism.
I agree to this when I wasn’t with the right man. I was quick to leave because they become suffocating. But I understood the difference of loving someone instantly when my husband and I started dating. I overthought about the amount of love and happiness we had, I THOUGHT I WAS LOVE BOMBING. My man and I had actually been friends for 11 years before dating. He says “baby your mind playing tricks, and my love gone win.” Me:🤰🏾
@@staceypalmer476 Because they are different - men are different from women. They are biologically different, physically different, and hormonally different.
Aloha 🤙🏾 Loooved this video! ❤️ I’m only 21 and I’ve never had a boyfriend ( I share my journey on my channel) 🌸 Thank you 😊 for this beautiful reminder! Greetings from Hawai’i 🧘🏽♀️🪴🌿
It’s also very telling of how much men need help as well - everyone wants and needs love but everyone should be taught when they’re young - men and women. It’s an uneducated and understandably immature world we live in. I’ve had to do my own path to healing and growing in this way. Love is what happens AFTER and along the journey. Love isn’t the beginning. Excitement, infatuation, newness, hope, are mostly in the beginning and those things are good - but not meant to be the deep experience based potting soil of love.
I waited with this guy for 6 months because I had so many shitty experiences with other guys and he was like I don't think you like me. I was so infuriated! I'm like Jesus Christ do you know how many fucking assholes I've had to deal with I'm seeing if you're worth your salt! Of course I didn't say it in those terms LOL
Love bombing is such a real thing! The worst type of female is one that hates herself or doesn't understand how to love herself first❤ Someone I dated was so quick to say " I love you" and in that moment I was on cloud 9. . . knowing it was some b.s! 😅
I know what I like your spirit 💯 your dope with it!!! Spiritually speaking lord bless me with someone like this proverbs 31 women of god like this I believe I receive your blessings lord Jesus on the video Facts !!! Sis
Rushing is fun…let’s get in and out and leave behind a whirl of fun and run into a pool of tears because it’ll be over soon 🥰 laugh now and cry later with me because I know up front this ain gone work
@@Iamdianadee to some it is but to me I live for emotional thrills… if it could last a life time, I’m down for the fun. I get bored easily and so do others. It’s like a non stop game of ring around the rosey. Lol don’t stop, keep going. go Go Gooo! Sometimes I have crackhead energy and people can keep up. 🤣 I don’t smoke crack
@@callmewonderful96 wooow I said exhausting before but that’s an understatement. But hey we can’t all be the same, as long you are happy I’m supporting the crackhead energy🫶🏾😂😂
@@Iamdianadee Sadly with that girl's Mindset, we may be hearing about her demise in the Media for playing all these crackhead games... Let's not feel sorry for her when she gets what she's looking for💅🏽
NUMBER 1 DRUG SELLING IS LUST! THE. LUST OF THE. FLESH. THE LUST OF THE EYE AND THE. PRIDE OF LIFE . WHAT LOVE GOT TO DO WIT IT! THE. WORLD. DOESN'T WANT LOVE IT WANTS. LUST! BUT YET. THE WORLD. LOVES ITS. OWN!
I was on a dating website, and started talking to this guy. After a few conversations he said "I have enough friends/I don't want another friend". In addition, he had several sexual innuendos that told me just wanted to totally bypass the friendship stage, and go right into dating/having sex. Fast forward, he left me a message asking why I just stopped talking to him. 😒😒😒😒🤷🏿♀️🤷🏿♀️🤷🏿♀️🤷🏿♀️💯💯💯💯💯. Some of these fellas just wanna knock boots. No thanks. Move along please.
It’s DANGEROUS to have a life partner because you could end up being victimized by infidelity or abuse. People go on dates, have relationships and get married all for selfish reasons but they DON’T take time to think about these decisions.
I agree. My question was always, “What’s your hurry?” Then the men would get mad because I wasn’t in love with them in 6 months! I don’t know you, sir. You just spent 6 months love bombing a traumatized woman with extreme trust issues😂😂😂😂😂😂. I been groomed before. I know what it looks like.
Thank you,we have to protect ourselves,it's our life.We need to value it.
Outside of marriage sex is forbidden so whether it is five days or 1 year if you're not married then it's sinful.
Do some videos of Your experience and tag because I would Love to be the first one to watch them. I agree with You & this video. I've been abstinent for a few years now. I'm not on Her journey However can deeply relate & am on a comparatively similar journey.
Then you not relationship material also last time I checked a woman know what they want when they see it and if you women really feel that way do not accept anything from the man 🤡🤡🤡 now run along evi👹woman
Very well said lol I just learned my lesson
What you are describing is LUST and INFATUATION. Real love has nothing to do with the mess these people are out here chasing. They don't even love THEMSELVES, so it is impossible for them to love others.
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Woohhhh A VERSE!
Exactly thsts y I don't feel sorry for any of the baby mamas and baby daddy's that I know literally all of them got pregnant in less than a year, sum didn't even take a month and then they want to whine and cry and complain about their decisions and how the person is disappointing and I'm like you didn't even know them well enough like I don't understand how people just give their body away so freely and then think anybody cares about their dumb consequences
Looool preachhh
I have been saying that for years. The understanding of love ❤️ is so wrong. But no one is listening. oh well, keep chasing
People don’t ask questions! I’ve learned to ask a lot of questions
Yes, ask questions and pay more attention to *Actions* .. Actions are very telling, while people will tell you anything.
Exactly they just go with the flow and assume everything the person is telling them is correct but not me I'm going to ask you questions about your past present and future and if your actions don't add up then I'm going to subtract you from my life and then their surprised how quickly I can let go of them lol
Questions lots of questions and background checks, credit reports...
I've found that they want to hurry because they don't want you to take the time to get to know the 'real them'!
And, they want the draws as quickly as possible.
@@broco6608 Facts!
This dude told me he loved me, the second time he called me and only seeing me once when he asked for my number and we haven't had any deep conv. I was like are you crazy sir!
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 girl they think we all think like them Disney hoes, I mean princesses😂
He is.
Yup , we live in a generation where love is being betrayed as lust . Stay prayed up God bless everyone
Last guy who said he loved me that very night was the very last time he saw me😅
He probably was looking for Help! To build him up that's such a Turn off!!!!! They do be saying that smh . So Pathetic
I wish someone would have shared this with me when I was young
Completely agree. Women need to learn how to control their emotions when dating. Don't think that every man you go out with can be "the one" just enjoy the experience. Date multiple people casually without any physical/sexual contact, so your emotions don't run wild until one really meets your Standards.
I found out that it's actually true what Steve Harvey said when he stated to wait 3 months to have sex with a dude and you'll see who he really is and ever since I stuck to that rule I haven't had sex in years lol by the third month people's mask do come off and they cannot hide who they truly are and most of them are liars cheaters and cowards
Exactly!!!!
Love the truth that this young lady delivers. I started my celibacy journey 3 months after I left my narcissistic husband. Self healing is necessary for self love
A lot of the timemes these women think the grass is greener on the other side but what does life look like without a family will their kids be husbands to them???
Ma'am you knew he was narcissist before you met him 🤡🤡🤡
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We get so caught up. You truly don't know anyone. It takes so long to get to know someone truly, to know if they are worth sharing intimate parts of your life with. I've had two relationships that moved quickly and after the first year the mask came off. I didn't know who I was dealing with.
That's true, however there are always Red flags.. Unfortunately, most don't want to recognize them.
@@TheeOne4.44 I 100% agree but we shouldn't underestimate the lengths some will go to mask and manipulate. We can't trust everything we see.
I feel after 10 years of uncounciously dating and sleeping with people too fast i'm just starting my learning journey ❤️ i'm excited! 6 months celibate rn 🙏.
That lust bomb creeps in to fast.. you on point
"...slow dowwwwwn.... it's no rush when it comes to love. Walk intentionally towards it, don't fall & "bump" your head in it."
Thank you for a healthy perspective that society and the media does not teach 👏
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Can we get every person out there to hear this message please?!
I'm playing this to every thirsty guy who tries to rush into bed before knowing my birthday or my favorite color. So tired of having to explain this repeatedly to adults who are trying to shame me for not being a floozy.
I love these videos! Keep em coming! 💯
You can't win sweetheart. If you're not a floozy they get mad. If you are a floozy, they get disgusted.
Stand Strong, head up & tall... They are still caught in that storm... WHEREAS, You've made it to the other side. Just realize and keep in Mind: it's a different view from within the inside of that storm; as it is once You've come out alive on the other side of that storm. You see it ravishing other parts of the city but Your cleaning up the wreak the storm left & those people are still knee deep in the flood waters& the storm is still tearing up their houses as we speak. Peace Love & Light THANK GOD WE MADE IT!!!😎😁💆🏾🧘🏾💓❤️🔥💜👑👸🏾
I'm part of the "Floozy Free Zone" club, too!
I talked to my ex for 2 years before dating. 6 months in the relationship he pulled a switcharoo.
Narc all the way..(what i meant is be careful even if u waited )
The reality is that everyone wants to act like they have the precise formula, but how many times do we see a husband kills a wife or vice versa, after yeeeaarrrsss of marriage, and no one knew they had the capacity to do so? My ex husband waiting until our literal wedding day for his mask to drop.
Had everyone fooled and I am not a dumb or simple minded woman!! It should be criminal how some people master deception!
He didn't switch up on you. That's who he was anyway, and his intentions were dishonorable. But he knew that.... you just didn't know that. how could you? We don't know their thoughts. We can only go based on what they say, and if their actions are contrary to their words, then of course, they're liars or lying to us about their true intentions., ijs..
Thanks💐♥️. Yes take your time. Six years celibate. “I” thought I was ready to date. He came in stroking my “ego” all the while rushing intimacy. He was someone from my past. I knew him a little bit. However I started to notice he didn’t seem curios about the woman I’ve become today. Or spending his time & resources. Thank God the Holy Spirit intervened. I started asking questions & expressing my standards. He disappeared.
my experience taught me never go backwards go forward when dating!,you will waste your time,they should have recognized what they had the first time! Don't look back!
That's what you want - all fools to leave quickly. Doesn't take much for them to leave either. That's how you know they were a fool.
"Slow down, I just wanna get to know you"
1 year doesn't always tell you enough about your mate.
Love is our spiritual expression that we naturally exude when openly expressing self. Love isn’t an excuse to lose self and gain attachment to another. Refine internal alignment by loving self in order to harmonize with another and rise and/or build each other up with love!
beautifully said 🤍
Love bombing! That has been my last 10 dates! But, why?! Did I get into the wrong dating pool? 🤔
That's why I stopped dating. Nobody wants to get to know me. 👁👄👁
Choose better
@@clantonwynn2873 dumb answer
@@clantonwynn2873 Sometimes choosing better is not choosing a man at all 💖
@@clantonwynn2873STOP fronting/lying... be real... 💯
I am stopping dating too, for the same reasons. It is tough when people cannot see past your appearance to get to your personality. Almost painful. Solitude is nice.
IN THE FAMOUS WORDS OF PRINCE,THE BEAUTIFUL ONES WILL HURT YOU EVERY TIME
Prince is one of my favorite musicians and vocalist to ever walk this planet. I love his music.
That’s my favorite Prince song, though that isn’t true 😂😂. Plenty of uglies and dusties breaking hearts everyday!
Listen, I was so quick to jump into a connection, once I actually found one but now I overstand that love is reciprocal and love isn’t something that you rush, I’ve slowed myself down tremendously. It is important that I protect my womb and myself.
Black is so beautiful. Man.. God bless you
Absolutely.. If a Guy even mentions Sex or body parts, that's My que to exit!
THIS!!!!💯💯💯💯💯💯
If you bottle up this advice and sell it you will be rich.🔥 You are a wise one. Preach!
Lol no she wouldn't because these people don't like the truth nor do they appreciate it. I was that friend that warned everybody about their bad relationship bad decisions bad marriages and believe it or not I was right about everybody and nobody wanted to listen to me they just grew jealous and resentful but at the end of the day I'm not a baby mama and I have zero divorces so
She right! I wish more women would hear this and take it to heart. Not rushing will allow you to vet that person better.
You definitely got this one right sista 🤌🏾
The crown on your head is the BOMB
Tera, you are sharing absolute truth. I have had people tell me that I am too uptight, because I believe that love involves time and intellect.
I'll tell you what I love and have become addicted to is your content. It is so uplifting and it is helping me every day. It's extremely relatable and truthful. I'm glad as a woman I can hold accountability and fully take a look at my own self from the outside looking in. For the past 2 years I have become comfortable with being single and living in solitude. Thank you for your content and for being true to who you are.
Ur comment is extremely relatable too. It feels like it’s something I wrote. I love that🫶🏾 2 years of being comfortable with being single and living in solitude for me too🙏🏿
Everyone is talking about not rushing things as if it's a rule, but it really makes no sense. You should only know that nothing is guaranteed. The speed or pace of taking things is something totally subjective. A potential partner would think you're taking things too slowly or too fast. Everybody has different expectations. Also, after taking the time to know somebody, they'll still be able to surprise you here and there no matter how long you took to know them. Another thing is that people change over time. Moral of the story? Life is gamble, do your homework, do what you see necessary, but don't think it's something that would save you.
*Examples and experiences:*
*1-* I knew my ex-wife as a close friend for 15 years before our friendship turned into a romantic relationship, 3 years later, we got married and the marriage fell apart after 10 months. No one could say we rushed things.
*2-* A friend of mine is a fan of taking things slowly, he had strong feelings for a woman and it took them about 6 months till they had sex. The relationship fell apart quickly for sexual/intimacy reasons. He told me if he had slept with her shortly after they met he would have saved all this time of getting to know her slowly and thoroughly.
*3-* A couple I know, fell in love and married in a matter of months. They're still happily married for over a decade now.
_And so on and so forth ..._
You are on point, however that #2 situation seemed more like your friend only wanted Sex, and hate that he waited so long to get it because he wasn't sexually satisfied. He clearly didn't like anything else about her, because 6 Months is a long time.. You should know certain things about that person that you like, dislike, will or won't tolerate, how they make you feel, if they share common values, what they're expectations are etc. Your friend wasn't into that Woman.
@@TheeOne4.44 I appreciate your reply, but I don't think you see the situation clearly.
If he wasn't into her, he wouldn't have happily 'waited' six months, he had other quicker options if all he wanted were sex. No one would get to know or date someone for 6 months without sex if all he wanted were sex. My friend was really interested in her, she was a coworker then a friend, he enjoyed the interesting conversations and her personality. When they started sleeping with each other, there were issues in terms of intimacy and physical satisfaction, I don't think any romantic relationship could survive without a minimum level of intimacy and sexual satisfaction, otherwise it would be considered friendship or platonic love.
After a hiatus they continued to be friends. Which totally means he's mainly into her as a person before anything else.
@@A-HegaziYour friend should have communicated with her instead of you... communication is key if 'he was really into her (not)...
@@LGnLA What made you think he didn't communicate well with her?
Yep, you sound like the fool women need to avoid. You sound like the type of fool that would tell folks there's no reason to stop smoking since YOU smoke and never got lung cancer.
Common sense should tell you most advice is never fool-proof. There will always be exceptions to every rule. The question is, is the advice wise and should help in most cases. Not does it help in EVERY case.
When people do this its because they go outside of themselves to find what they are looking for. It's inside of us behind all that trauma. To get to it you must heal the unhealed trauma, the shadows.
Too much ish out here to just be giving up so fast and easy. Ppl justify having sex with someone soon after meeting by saying we're 2 single adults, who we hurting? You could be hurting your damn self by catching some STD or STI....yuck!!!
Or even worse, a soul tie.
All this!! #Facts #Truth..having babies with strangers.
Sis! Talk bout it👏🏽👏🏽
Been thinking about this word lately. Even can happen in friendships, that "honey moon" phase. Gotta slow it down! Your messages always come when it need it most. Comes across as that big sis you respect immensely!✨🥰
I want to grow up (more) to have this mindset. Undo all the negative teachings I’ve been taught about life. I’ve never trusted “love” because this thing that you describe is not what I saw others do and it only ever put my perception into a negative stance on what love is. But if my mom got to know my father I never would’ve been born soooo… but growing up one thing I noticed is boys threw around the words “I love you” as a way to get what they want. I just questioned everything, there’s no way you “love” someone after texting them for a week. luckily it wasn’t my mistakes in trusting those words
Where are the rest of the women who share these ideas and thought. It's refreshing to see a woman with a down to earth personality. Peace.
There's a ton of Us out here ... We don't all have an interest of being on RUclips.
Tera, my fellow enigma, I believe you must either be an old soul, or God has anointed you with this crucial information for such a time as this. I choose the later.
Again, our generations need this spoken over us and to us. I pray people would simply pause and consider the literal truth of your words. They are meant to bring life and avoid untoward consequences at the same time. Actually, it’s just God speaking through you to declare to those who have ears to hear that, God “ loves you” with an incomparable agape love and desires humans to draw near to himself for “ more”. I pray hearts and minds would sense his beckoning and draw closer to the fire.
I honor you Queen, chosen vessel of the most high. Spit dat truth my beloved.
Being alone has taught me that most of the relationships I’ve had especially with men was really good or fun because I made them that way. I totally travel and adventure alone and have great conversations with myself. As soon as I try to “share” that experience it’s just not as reciprocal or natural as I am doing it with myself.
CORRECTION! I'M IN NO RUSH WHEN IT COMES TO FALLING IN LOVE!
So true! Say it for the people in the back!! ❤️🙌
I was questioning why I keep attracting these women that don't have kids but all of sudden they in love and want a baby in like 3 months of dating 🤔 Love bombing crazy because it's associated with narcissism.
Even the 65 years old men rushing in the bed first! Crazy!🥴
Only to be not worth it and very disappointing I can imagine! 😂🤣
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@@desertangelfish140 😩
Sis they are on limited time @ that age they get straight to the point lolll.
Girl, 75 year olds are at it, too!😂😂😂
Thank you! All of me is fine with slowing down and being more selfish with self
I agree to this when I wasn’t with the right man. I was quick to leave because they become suffocating. But I understood the difference of loving someone instantly when my husband and I started dating. I overthought about the amount of love and happiness we had, I THOUGHT I WAS LOVE BOMBING. My man and I had actually been friends for 11 years before dating. He says “baby your mind playing tricks, and my love gone win.” Me:🤰🏾
Could you just say that one more time , you are so spot on , kudos to you❤😊
Men don't look for love we look for sex
Thanks for telling us what men are looking for from a woman. 👍
But whyyy?
@@staceypalmer476 most men would rather have sex and be in like not love
@@staceypalmer476 Because they are different - men are different from women. They are biologically different, physically different, and hormonally different.
Aloha 🤙🏾 Loooved this video! ❤️ I’m only 21 and I’ve never had a boyfriend ( I share my journey on my channel) 🌸 Thank you 😊 for this beautiful reminder! Greetings from Hawai’i 🧘🏽♀️🪴🌿
Yes!! I've been trying to tell people this for years.
Taking forever doesn’t matter either if you never listen to your instincts
Tara always dropping knowledge & verbalizing my daily thoughts 💭…
Yes Sister! More people need to be aware of this 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
Enjoy commitment when you know you’re ready to receive. That feeling of being desired doesn’t come always. Just make sure it’s right
Thank you young lady! Teach righteousness!
It’s also very telling of how much men need help as well - everyone wants and needs love but everyone should be taught when they’re young - men and women. It’s an uneducated and understandably immature world we live in. I’ve had to do my own path to healing and growing in this way. Love is what happens AFTER and along the journey. Love isn’t the beginning. Excitement, infatuation, newness, hope, are mostly in the beginning and those things are good - but not meant to be the deep experience based potting soil of love.
Thank you for bringing this to light my sister 🙏
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It's great when u kno ur flaws
I love her gray mockneck top.
I waited with this guy for 6 months because I had so many shitty experiences with other guys and he was like I don't think you like me. I was so infuriated! I'm like Jesus Christ do you know how many fucking assholes I've had to deal with I'm seeing if you're worth your salt! Of course I didn't say it in those terms LOL
So what ultimately happened?
@@corylackland8377 He understood and was respectful.
@@michele6624 Cool.
Love bombing is such a real thing! The worst type of female is one that hates herself or doesn't understand how to love herself first❤ Someone I dated was so quick to say " I love you" and in that moment I was on cloud 9. . . knowing it was some b.s! 😅
I know what I like your spirit 💯 your dope with it!!! Spiritually speaking lord bless me with someone like this proverbs 31 women of god like this I believe I receive your blessings lord Jesus on the video Facts !!! Sis
Glad i held myself back and walked away. I knew it wasn't a natural attraction, but driven solely on infatuation.
LUST not LOVE!
❤❤❤ your shorts!!🤗
this joker told me "it took me such a long time to tell you I love you". chile, the entire relationship didn't last 6 months....
They don't like you to take time.
Dangerous indeed. Loved the words❤
True & factual. Maybe its hollywood that have most thinking its normal to jus get it on quick
Don’t worry I will never fall in love or say it ever again.
Agreed 👍. Just a cut a guy that I was only talking to for a month that was love 💣 me.
Rushing is fun…let’s get in and out and leave behind a whirl of fun and run into a pool of tears because it’ll be over soon 🥰 laugh now and cry later with me because I know up front this ain gone work
That sounds exhausting. Shit sounds depressing.
@@Iamdianadee to some it is but to me I live for emotional thrills… if it could last a life time, I’m down for the fun. I get bored easily and so do others. It’s like a non stop game of ring around the rosey. Lol don’t stop, keep going. go Go Gooo! Sometimes I have crackhead energy and people can keep up. 🤣 I don’t smoke crack
@@callmewonderful96 wooow I said exhausting before but that’s an understatement. But hey we can’t all be the same, as long you are happy I’m supporting the crackhead energy🫶🏾😂😂
@@Iamdianadee Sadly with that girl's Mindset, we may be hearing about her demise in the Media for playing all these crackhead games... Let's not feel sorry for her when she gets what she's looking for💅🏽
NUMBER 1 DRUG SELLING IS LUST!
THE. LUST OF THE. FLESH. THE LUST
OF THE EYE AND THE. PRIDE OF
LIFE . WHAT LOVE GOT TO DO WIT
IT! THE. WORLD. DOESN'T WANT LOVE
IT WANTS. LUST! BUT YET. THE WORLD. LOVES ITS. OWN!
YOU ARE ABSOLUTELY CORRECT! I'M IN NO HURRY AT ALL WHEN IT COMES TO FALLING ON LOVE!😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😉☺😊😀😃😃😄😄😝😛😜😜😜😊☺
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Your right! they are SELLING LOVE 😘BY THE ⛵ LOAD SHEESH 🤣
Very true talk, thanks a lot!
On point 🙏🏽👍🏾
Thank you girl. I needed this ❤
You are absolutely right 💚🦋
Thanks for sharing this!
Dope advice 👍🏾
It's not normal! It's about connection. Either it's real or smoking mirrors.
Keep it real Queen 👑 fact’s
"Slow down"
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I was on a dating website, and started talking to this guy. After a few conversations he said "I have enough friends/I don't want another friend". In addition, he had several sexual innuendos that told me just wanted to totally bypass the friendship stage, and go right into dating/having sex.
Fast forward, he left me a message asking why I just stopped talking to him. 😒😒😒😒🤷🏿♀️🤷🏿♀️🤷🏿♀️🤷🏿♀️💯💯💯💯💯. Some of these fellas just wanna knock boots. No thanks. Move along please.
This lady is so cute😍💘
Great reminder. Thank you!
I love this girl❤❤❤❤❤
It’s DANGEROUS to have a life partner because you could end up being victimized by infidelity or abuse. People go on dates, have relationships and get married all for selfish reasons but they DON’T take time to think about these decisions.
I like the ending :)
You’re very enlightening real enjoy your message’s. Pay attention all it’s real 💯
No love is a selfless, unconditional action and feeling made unto those you decide to give it to. Lust is what u are talking about.
Thank you we must take our time and if they can’t wait know that the mess fake
True facts most of the time
Straight Godly here Facts❤️
Yes 🙌🏼 it Mae it Better bcuz that will be ur #BESTFREND
Thank Youuuu
Amen!! Thanks for the facts on your channel!!
💯% true
Dam, girl this is the 3rd video I've seen you in and your locs are beautiful 😍
Ty my beloved sister and Queen INDEED peace and love as always ty ty again